New thread, My wife was arrested for a DV about 2 hours ago..ask me anything....And fuck reddit!
Thank you anon, I appreciate it. I feel no shame, and to be honest I dod not call 911 to protect me, I called 911 to keep her alive, a hundred years ago, she would be dead right now....just saying.
When did all western males turn into the fucking cucksters who cant even keep their bitches in check?
>wife goes mental
>sit on chest until she shuts the fuck up
>hate-fuck her afterwards to make her happy again & assert dominance in relationship
how hard can it be?
i rarely make promises because i always keep them, thats why i could never marry, its a promise i dont know i can keep so i wont make it.
breaking a promise to me is a serious thing but i seem to be the only person that thinks this way.
"i swear" is such a common phrase these days but nobody ever means it in the slightest
Oh yes I agree, however, had I pushed her or hit her or restrained her, she would have called the cops, its all fair in this new world. and let's be honest.,, I did not call 911 to protect me, I called 911 to keep her alive......
Yes, she is still a girl and will have huge problems even fighting a male amateur fighter. Pinning someone down who is half your weight isnt that hard...even if he is a more skilled fighter than you
Ok well, Admittedly I said something to piss her off..specifaiclly that Jesus can suck my cock. Not intending for the escalation but she went much too far after that punching kicking and biting me, and trying to destroy my lively hood. (my PC). I did not touch her until she tried to break my PC, and only after she had bitten me for the second time...Funny how defiant and self-righteous someone is till they hear "I would like to report an assault" Then the cops came and she like a moron kept talking about how I pissed her of and how she intended to break my shit, plus the bite marks and bruises she left, she sounded very surprised that the police were taking her away...And after the cop came out and said . "well I have to read you your Miranda rights just like I did her" And I made it very clear at that point I would no longer be speaking (pro tip" NOTHING you say can or will HELP you EVER! keep that in mind when dealing with the cops) He took pics, and the other two cops took her away...In full disclosure and only because for some reason it did fuck me up. But when the secondary started trying to talk to me (he says he was just trying to calm me down but again NEVER TALK TO THE POLICE!) I started asking him questions, one was about the worst call he had, he said anyhting dealing with dead kids, that snapped me for some reason and I remeberded that I am culpable for the deaths of possibly many children, I couldnt stop blubbering like a little bitch until after they left....I just, it hurts you know, now more than ever...and I dont know why.
Agreed, I hope for better for my kids. And her knowledge of my disdain for any religion is well known, she just wanted to be pissed at that poing, this is not the first time either. Shortly before I deployed in 2010 she got mad at me and attacked me in my sleep.....I reacted accordingly....She went to jail the too, we weren't married yet at that time tho. And I let it go, 6 years later I know better now.
do yourself a favor and visit any good mma/bjj academy and ask to spar with any guy (or even a girl) with purple belt or better who is smaller than you, to see if you can pin them down. I think you might be in need of a reality check.
Fuck you you stupid faggot! If it were the other way around he would be the piece of shit and you would be telling her to gtfo. Not worthy of calling himself a man because he does not want to live with an abuser. You truly are one stupid fuck!
You called the cops because you told her jesus can suck your small dick pretty sure she told you to get a fucking job or get off the computer you fucked her life up over a bite cops dont need to get involved with this kind of shit
I am honest to god amazed she did not tell some bullshit story and got you arrested op especially since you live in america but still you should be careful their are plenty of ways she can destroy you if she wants to
Fresh off the boat, from reddit, kid? heh I remember when I was just like you. Braindead. Lemme give you a tip so you can make it in this cyber sanctuary: never make jokes like that. You got no reputation here, you got no name, you got jackshit here. It's survival of the fittest and you ain't gonna survive long on 4chan by saying stupid jokes that your little hugbox cuntsucking reddit friends would upboat. None of that here. You don't upboat. You don't downboat. This ain't reddit, kid. This is 4chan. We have REAL intellectual discussion, something I don't think you're all that familiar with. You don't like it, you can hit the bricks on over to imgur, you daily show watching son of a bitch. I hope you don't tho. I hope you stay here and learn our ways. Things are different here, unlike any other place that the light of internet pop culture reaches. You can be anything here. Me ? heh, I'm a judge.. this place.... this place has a lot to offer... heh you'll see, kid . . . that is if you can handle it.
I might agree, had it been an isolated incident but this is the second time she has forced me, the first I did not call the cops but the neighbors did, and she still went to jail, she now has TWO DV charges against her.
Here's my take, OP: I don't think she crossed some magical line that suddenly made the difference between you wanting to get a divorce. I think you have been growing apart and this just seems like a good excuse to pull the band-aid off.
I'm not saying you should stay with her; if you are miserable together, then by all means, separate. But you should be honest with yourself about what's going on here.
She didn't leave you. She didn't violate some magical escape clause that lets you out of your promise guilt-free. You are unhappy with her, and you are deciding (in my opinion, wisely) - that the promise is worth breaking in order to stop being so unhappy.
So, do what you're going to do, man. But let's not have all this intellectual dishonesty about it.
Never said anything about a divorce, but thanks for your input. I will admit that I certainly will not let this instance go unless it is my favor, which it decidedly is in my favor.
No. I was out for a bit, not saying a divorce won't happen, but I'm not going to say yes right now, its all too soon, and all too real, not gonna make such a life changing decision when in distress. She will be in jail the weekend, and probably be ordered little contact for a while after that. Depending on her attitude and reaction I will make a decision then. I do not want a divorce, but I will not be disrespected and abused under any circumstances...So only time will tell. But if there is one, she will get fucked royally. I love WA.
I do voice work as well for video games and online short movies. If some bitch, even a waifu level persom, touched my workstation and livelyhood, that cunt would be on the curb.
Protect your self and your work you faggot.
Goddamn. Just get rid of her
The longer you wait the less fucked royally she will become...
She went from angry to psycho over a religious joke. That is not someone who is mature enough for a marriage and she WILL do crazy shit like that again and again until you become the bad guy. And then you get fucked.
Get a restraining order immediately, file for separation immediately.
Time is a crazy fucks best asset, don't give that to her.
Oh and to add, Restraining orders can be lifted later, She can still be a part of her kids life, she can even be your friend (or fuckbuddy or whatever. Fuck, in 2 years you could remarry if she has proven her maturity at that point.)
but for the love of christ, DO NOT DO NOTHING, Get custody of the kids, take as many assets you can get, protect the things YOU need to be a good father.
Then she can work on becoming a better human being and then perhaps in time, Earn you back...
Video games?! how did you get into that? Im stuck in the land of audio books and freelance shit and such...Any good resources? I use ACX and upwork Fuck voices and voices 123 that shit is WAY too expensive
It sucks, man. My ex was so prone to fly off the handle and physically attack me in arguments that it got to the point I'd have to get her in a chokehold and just about put her out to stop it. The last time we got into it, I let her punch me in the face three times before I had enough and laid her out.
its not about gender, its about integrity.
if it was the other way around i would still stand by my principle, thats what a principle is.
they both made a promise and so they have to stick by it.
then you did your part, if she left you she broke her promise and so she is forever a liar.
i dated a girl until she told me she devorced her husband. i have no interrest in being with someone who can just "retract" a promise like that.
Not likely as I said earlier I am the stay at home parent, and the daughter who is 6 was aware and she saw her mom get taken away, she didn't seem to care too much after the police and I told her Mommy needed a time out, the son is just 9 months old, and to be honest he doesn't really like his mom unless she is giving him a boob, which is dry and pointless now.
>implying your idea of a social standard is what's right
>implying that the his vow was truly an example of fidelis usque ad mortem
>implying integrity even matters at this point
VA anon here again. I made a name for myself when Machinima was just getting big. All the freelancers I worked with became professionals and I had a reputation for solid quality work with amazing turn around time. I also have a good baritone voice with crazy good range. While vocal mimicking, singing, and pitch matching are all developed skills that are rooted in just...raw talent (I guess. Too many cartoon s in the 80s), I also study languages for the sake of doing accents.
Being a good freelance voice actor means you have to be a 1 stop shop kinda man. Can you write? Direct? Do QA work on other tracks? Mix audio? Sing? Compose a little? Can you do project management? Over 5 years I developed these.
I don't do VA work fulltime, but I make decent scratch while working a normal 9 to 5 job in data analytics. Doesn't mean my work is sub par, thankfully. I've done voices in several well known moba style games, mobile gaming, indie movie trailers, political ads, radio intros and closers, etc etc.
A lot of your solid success will come from networking. That's the hard truth of it.
The more time that goes by the more I hurt, the adrenaline is going down, Im sore all over she hit and kicked me but its the two bites that hurt the most...Pic related.
I love how she was surprised that they took her away,'' I'm a women I can't do anything wrong , if I hit him and hurt my hand it's his fault because women reasons'' lol Where is your gender studies now bitch.
I got the audio part down pat, doing some of my own videos on Youtube ao I guess I write as well. I did this one, its not attached to anything identifying so I feel Ok sharing it here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jsMo8_5QQz0 I do voices as well, but the closest I got to do was a YODA for a top ten, other than that Im just grinding away with ACX and upwork. Only been at it a year, so you say you five years gives me hope. But i'll never forget that high when I first got my mic and auditioned for 5 jobs then got 3 of them almost immediately. Best feeling ever, I thought it would be months before I got anything, I was prepared for that. Now i'm just doing what I can.
Actions have consequences.
You want to sit around on a computer its your choice to do so. Either person has the choice to leave. The consequences of getting out of the relationship is dividing joint property and figuring out how dependents will be cared for after the fact.
In the law, the consequences for criminal mischief and domestic violence are also clearly laid out. If you have a problem with the law, move somewhere out of the law's reach.
You weigh the risks and make a decision that has the best perceived outcome.
If you want to beat the shit out of someone at least do it in a way where you won't get caught. Just be aware that at that point you may permanently alter the way that person sees you.
I get where you are coming from in principle, many people bail from marriage too easily these days but she also vowed to love, hold honour and respect him. She broke her vow and I don't see why anyone would see him leaving her as breaking a promise.
Its not my "idea" of a social standard
A declaration or assurance that one will do a particular thing or that a particular thing will happen.
not doing it makes it a lie
simple as that
I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honour you all the days of my life.
> in good times and in bad
these are obviously bad times, but breaking a promise because someone else foregoes their integrity is weak, stick to your principles or dont have any.
never lower yourself to someone else's shitty standards
Let's be real here. You just got your wife arrested. You're getting a divorce whether you want one or not. My advice would be to get on the leading edge of that shitstorm and take control of it before she does.