>be 21
>regular guy, virgin
>meet girl, 19
>hit it off, shes really cute
>has similar values, smart, funny
>start dating
>it's going really well
>eventually we start talking about our pasts
>tell her i'm a virgin
>she is too
>but she fucked around a little bit with a couple guys like a week before we met
>feel sad about it, but try not to let it bother me
>it's been 4 months into the relationship, and we've talked about this stuff more and more
>I know who she fucked around with and what they did
>Feel really jealous/anxious about it but also feel like a hypocrite because I've fucked around with girls a little bit as well
>we have sex and our relationship is amazing, i just have these intrusive thoughts about what she's done all the time
>help me /b/
>>769164380
Never goes away anon sorry been this way for 3 years now
Grow up
>>769164528
How do you deal with it?
>>769164540
I realize they way I feel is immature but I can't help it. I can rationalize everything in my head but IDK how to control how I feel, and keep these thoughts from reoccurring
>>769164380
Don't fuck up a good thing, be honest with her, let her know it bother you but you want to work through it.
Suck her cock, then go to bed
>>769164932
I've done all that (minus the cock sucking) but I still get these intrusive thoughts every day
>>769164808
Idk I hid it from her forever I started drinking she's left me within the past 2 months she fucked my best friends from high school right after we broke up and I thought I'd message her and get back together but she told me that over the phone and I just hung up. All I do is work and drink and when I'm not drinking all I can think about is killing myself. I feel so fucking inadequate that she couldn't wait 2 months with out fucking other guys. And then they end up being "my friends" is a betrayal I feel. Idk its shitty and I don't know how to deal with it. So I drink Jose and disaronno until I'm broke then I wait for my next paycheck. I hate my life anon. Please anon dont commit to a woman they will only ever break your heart. I'll probably hang myself within the year
>>769164380
>tell her i'm a virgin
>she is too
How did it go from this?
>we have sex and our relationship
Too this? And have this
>but she fucked around a little bit with a couple guys
>I've fucked around with girls a little bit as well
In between? Like you have already fucked. Why not just fuck the jealously away?
>>769165290
>I drink Jose and disaronno
Fucking pussy drink.
read this: http://metaphorsofmovement.co.uk/home/the-hurts/
>>769165398
I skipped around a lot, I was just trying to keep it concise. We have a really intimate relationship, spend a lot of our time together. It got serious really quick, I've considered marrying her. Fucking helps me feel less jealous, but I still get the intrusive thoughts during our time apart.
>>769165290
you have it way worse than me. Have you tried fucking other people?
>>769165511
"Oh look at me I'm the manliest man ever so I'm just gonna drink evan William's" fuck you nigger. disaronno taste like heaven and Jose is awesome with coke. Sorry I enjoy myself
Quit being a beta fag. So what she's 19 and messed around with some other guys. She's college aged. Most girls her age have been fucked by at least 10 different guys by then.
>>769164380
Obviously you have to kill her. It'll make you feel better.
>>769164540
///////////////////////////////////thread
OP are you 12?
>>769165912
No I haven't. I want to. Back in college I was alpha as hell before getting with her now I dont know how to get back to that. I still love her but I fucking hate that whore. I'm saving up my money and I'm gonna go to Japan if that doesn't make me want to live then I'll probably kms
>>769166152
What part is making you think I'm 12?
>>769166060
I know that, and I realize its a personal problem for me. But what do I do to keep my mind under control.
>>769164380
Stupid virgin.
You're just naive.
>Be girl
>Messes around with others
>Doesn't know you yet
>Be you
>Messes around with others
>Doesn't know girl yet
>Girl and you meet
>A nice relationship insues
>"Wow why is she such a slut for doing things with other people when she didn't even know me yet."
If none of this made sense you're probably going to have some hard learning to do.
>>769164380
become muslim
Stop being a massive faggot, and realize that people tend to have sex. Get over yourself or succumb to degeneracy like the filthy neckbeards on this board
>>769166382
It's not that I haven't seen it from her point of view. The way I feel is dumb and wrong. But how do I make myself stop feeling this
if you can't stop being a jealous idiot you are going to ruin your relationship. So she fucked around a bit before meeting you? whoopdefuckingdo. You are the one she chose to have a relationship with and actually lose her virginity to. Man once this early relationship of yours inevitably fails due to your insane jealousy you'll never be able to handle a girl who has actually fucked other people before you. Fucking idiots.
>>769164380
Lmao. Nah bro. That goes away. Just get over it. She’s with you now. And that’s all that matters.
This insecurity is only gonna lead you to not trust her. Just take a deep breath and remember she’s with you NOT them. Trust in that.
>>769167050
thanks man
>>769166720
It is a pretty critical moment, since you don't have alot of experience with females. If you let jealousy overtake you, you could stain your view on all women, which in the end will fuck you up bad. It'll pass, but only if you don't cling on to it
>>769167232
this insecurity of yours stems from you thinking that you arent good enough for this girl, not because she has a tiny bit of experience with other people. As that other anon said, just remember she chose to be with you, so obviously you arent the completely worthless asshole you think you are.
>>769164380
Shits retarded, if you can't trust your partner now, you never will and should just break it off now
>>769167452
Don't listen to this kissless pleb
>>769167365
He is if he's the Donald of the 2016 election. Maybe he's shit just slightly less shit than the other dudes?
>>769167518
I'm not Kissless and I've got the herpes to prove it! >:(
>>769165765
>I've considered marrying her.
Dude do not do this. You are both in a puppy love phase. Don't go overboard with your emotions.
>>769165987
>disaronno
That's a woman's drink faggot.
>>769164380
.... She could of just as well of fucked another guy before you met. But your upset she got close to it? Consider yourself lucky, I mean if you care about virginity that much that is.
>>769167365
you right
>>769167869
Ya, for real.
>>769167452
I do consciously trust her, that's not the issue. I just have intrusive thoughts i can't control that make me feel bad
>>769168200
I just feel uncomfortable thinking about her in an intimate sense with another guy. And I try my best not to think about it, but my brain does anyways.
>>769168318
everyone does, its whether you entertain these thoughts longer than you need to and act on them that makes you a loser.
>>769168200
>could of
>well of
>your
Owch
>>769164380
It doesn't matter who she fucked before, only who she's fucking now. Which is you.
Now stop being a beta faggot an enjoy the experience of fucking a girl that is into you.
>>769164540
This
Op is a fucking pussy, no wonder he was a 21 yo virgin
>Be me
>12 yo boy Juan Pablo Chavarro Jaramillo
>Parents leave for the day so I got time for this being alone at home
>Want to be penetrated by our dog
>Read on internet i have to clean my ass inside b4 doing anal
>Wait after taking a dump
>Clean the outside with water and soap
>Use the hose pipe to shot water inside my butt and take out all the remains of inside my colon
>Do that several times as I was told
>Dress like a girl even with a long hair wig
>Take the dog inside the house and get on all fours for him
>He usually is horny but now doesn't want
>Touch his balls
>Doesn't work
>Remember that on the paper bin of the toilet there was some toilet paper wet with pee
>Take it and rub it on my asshole
>Put myself again on four legs showing my butt to the dog
>Now he reacts
>He smells and licks my ass
>Jumps over me and
>Starts penetrating me
>I'm so horny on being his slave
>Feeling dominated like a whore by him turns me on so hot
>Masturbate and cum
>He cums too inside me
>He gets stuck inside my ass it's normaly a thing the dog species do
>Hear parents car
>OMG, they are going to find me like this
>Try to force the dick out
>Oh good I'm free
>Parents enter home
>I ran fast as fuck to my bedroom clean myself and change clothes
>Parents complain that I let the dog inside
>>769168264
No man don't. You are rushing this too hard. It has only been 4 months. You don't know what could happen.
>>769164380
I've been in almost the same situation except she wasn't a virgin (she had one previous bf) and I had the same intrusive thoughts day after day and I felt like shit. How I got past it was I would talk to her about it. For some reason, if I told her that I thought about these things and they made me feel shit, just getting it out into the open helped me come to grips with it more and more and helped me feel better.
>>769168940
Because he had some self respect and didn't stick his dick in any Whore he could? Fuck off faggot
>>769168977
nice
>>769168940
I wanted to care about the first person I had sex with.
>>769169043
I've talked to her about it, she's really supportive. But I don't want to have this small problem overshadow the relationship either.
>>769168586
True :(
>>769164380
Try being more receptive and accepting to her affection towards you. When guys do that we always think about how someone might've been better or she may like someone more. It really doesn't matter though because its a stupid question. She probably feels the same way towards those guys as you do those girls.
Its all in your head OP. Just learn to trust that she likes you
>>769169349
thanks that's good advice
>>769169235
Respekt
>>769169497
Fuck you.
>>769164540
this, wtf is your issue op, even if she fucked someone that wouldn't matter and she didn't even do that. grow the fuck up
>>769164380
it's probably cause u have a tiny dick and ur intimidated by thinking she is always thinking about the other dick instead of yours right, she probably is you beta
>>769169593
more????
>>769169719
This is some serious projection
>>769169300
If you reaffirm her that you're having these thoughts now but eventually they'll go away (which they will) and reassure her that you do love her and want to be with her, it should be okay. If you two really care about each other, you'll be okay. (FYI, it took me 6 months to get over my intrusive thoughts and I was a kissless virgin before her so you've still got lots of time).
>>769169809
Not really, this is his tumbler though. I have more of different folks though (I only save the best shit)
>>769164380
OP it sounds like you're insecure and not mature enough for a relationship. I can tell you from first hand experience that if you keep having these feelings, it will ruin your relationship.
You need more experience, is all.
>>769170024
This
>>769169961
I'll try this
>>769169809
>>769170193
>>769164380
Bro live for the moment. If you're happy and things are going well dont ruin it by being a miserable cunt
>>769168442
Honestly man, we sound pretty similar. When my current gf and I started dating, I hadn't done anything at all. Never even had my dick touched. She was a virgin, had given handjobs and had a dick in her mouth a couple times but didnt actually blow them (didnt like the guy enough). Anyway, we fucked like three weeks into our relationship. Still, for months I was hung up about her last relationship, the first guy who, in my eyes, 'had' her. It took me a while to lose this feeling, but eventually, I realized all the shit she does for me that she wouldn't do for him. All the pressure girls are under to please her boyfriends, and she waited for you to finally give herself up. Focus on that, and I guarantee you'll get over these jealous feelings. >>769169300
>>769170405
thanks, from what you said our experiences are pretty similar. IMO we're both lucky to have relationships with our first
>>769169809
There's very few good 'traps' out there
grow the fuck up and realize the world doesnt revolve around you.
