How the fuck do I reply to this /b/?
In the end I still love her but through years she's dragged me along and now she finally wants me.. idk what to do or say..
You dont man. Just move on.
nobody changes over night. she wont change over night. shes the same person she always was. maybe she is trying to be different but personalities flaws dont just get better after one realization. she will repeat everything she did to hurt you even if she wants to change.
just go away man
Oh anon...I do not envy you on this one.
Ask her how she knows? What if she slips up and goes back to her old ways? Looks like you two have a friendship there too, does she wanna fuck that up if she slips up?
>>769128294
Legit have been there done that bro and im telling you its a big mistake lol. Do not do it im guessing your like 18-20 and you will find another girl i promise you. Anon to anon just move on be sad for a few days and forget about her.
Stop posting this thread
>>769128294
she gets you. then what. the illusion of your love transforms into (usually) something toxic purely cause of the fact that you both try to recreate what you had before.
Don't even try.
>>769128294
It's obvious to move on anon. She's just looking for a rebound.
People don't change.
Besides, you need someone who sees how good you are from the very beginning. Not after time of being fucked over by other guys.
Just send her this.
Also look closely at this image yourself.
>>769128294
Don't do it. She can't fall back on that stupid bullshit. Leave her behind and look forward.
Tell her
>frick off!! this booty is reserved for Jesus!!!!
Fuck her silly while you figure it out. Better yet, get her preggos then dump her.
>>769129141
Dumbass virgin cuck detected
>>769128594
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>>769128870
Some adults can chime in for you.. but why not take the opportunity to hate fuck her? That sounds like a really bad idea haha
But good luck bro there's more women in the ocean
>>769128294
Yeah. It's better for you to forget about her.
>>769128294
She is dome with the cock carousel and now she wants a janitor kek
>>769128294
She's clearly drunk texting OP. She's been fucked over one too many times and thinks you're her go to for a self-esteem boost. Tell her to fuck off. You deserve better /b/ro.
>>769128294
It's obvious she's feeding you what you want to hear, or what she thinks you want to hear.
She probably has come to a resolution that she's not THAT girl and you're the guy missing from the picture that is going to prove to her that she's NOT that girl. But after a while, she's gonna be that girl and you'll be nothing more than a broken experiment which will undoubtedly be left leaking and taking the punches because you're dazed from the trip.
Listen to all these people. Don't do it!!
>>769128294
It may feel foreign but this is the sweet feeling of Upper Hand. Don't waste it by giving in, these pure moments come very rarely. Move on with the knowledge that you won in the end and pursue your true happiness
>>769128294
oh fuck off with this 19 year old bullshit.
how do you reply? You don't and start dating someone who doesn't send a fucking dickens novel in a text message to "talk about their feelings"
Grow the fuck up and date someone who can be honest about what they want in person, you cringey millennial fuckhead.
what the fuck is wrong with you people?
>>769128294
Give her a ride, enjoy the illusion, drop it when she starts acting out again.
She is the same as the jerks who "never deserve" her and she'll do to you what they did to her whether she thinks she will now or not.
Tell her you were there for her and she was not there for you so she blew it....
or get revenge for being used by her all this time and have the nastiest sex you could imagine before you fuck her off
>>769128294
Tell her, she had her shot, and she blew it.
>>769128294
This graphic could not be posted in a more suitable thread then this one.
Tell her you arent looking to be hurt by her again, in the inevitable future when she cheats on you with those "assholes i dont want anymore". Then block her number and move on
How old are you OP? Genuinely curious not trolling
Lol i assume this is b8 but yea block and delete on all social media/phone number etc
>>769128294
She cannot exist in a universe that isn't fucked up. You're better off.
>>769128741
People DO change. It's just that it seems she's too far gone.
>>769133702
i didn't see this funny as:
>>769128741
people constantly change, we are the most diverse species on the planet..
that does not change the fact that she is an attention whore and a party slut that you need to rid from your life
>>769128294
I'm not your escape plan, get over it I already did
>>769134444
the quad squad has spoken!
>>769128294
You need to make her suffer the way she made you suffer. Break her worthless heart. Make her cry the way she made you cry. Be ruthless or be beta doormat unwilling cuck forever.
>>769134779
implying it is an ultimatum kek
i do agree that OP should do what you said though
>>769128294
move on. ignore that "hate fuck her" shit, thats just gonna make you crash even more when she inevitably goes back to her old shit.
>>769128294
Are you retarded?
You love her. She loves you.
Don't make it so complicated and fuck her then marry her already.
>>769135054
when OP is all growed up do you think he's going to want to reflect back on this and think "geez i wasted all that time on that bitch and i didn't even get laid" or "that bitch broke my heart but at least i fucked the shit out of her" ?
>>769128294
this will be good for awhile while she "makes it up to you' then she will start to feel like she does too much for you with nothing in return and thats when she will find a new guy to use and abuse.
>>769128294
lets see the rest of her texts after that
>>769128294
smash and move on...
>>769128294
RUN NIGGA RUN
>>769135435
Mods?
>>769128294
get the fuuuuuuuuuuuuck outta there mate
you're not even her second choice, more like the 200th
>>769135545
mods? wft you talking about?
As a guy who fucked around with loads of girls and pretty much never stuck with one! I can honestly say, this situation isn’t something anyone can comment on. I’ve said this to so many girls and pretty much lied the minute a girl cake along an oferes me something the girl I was with couldn’t. Just remember this: “they want u when nobody wants them, then when everyone wants them, they don’t want you” a quote know to be true 100%.
Right now, I’m with a girl that truly is special, I love her and appreciate her, but it’s different. She didn’t play games, she was mature, she trusts me, and it’s weird. I got something real with her. Anyway enough about me, this girl in all honesty sounds like someone you can predict. She may be right she’s may be wrong. Just do what u want anon, don’t listen to these neckbeards who have an internal hatred to girls because they got rejected at every turn in life.
Keep on moving, forget about her. Better options will reveal themselves in ways you can't even anticipate right now.
Do you really want to be in a relationship where you were settled for? That's what she's doing. She's settling. Fuck that noise. If you're worth anything, you'll find someone who sees your worth, and it won't take them 20+ other cocks inside of them to understand it.
>>769135435
if hes really a kid then yeah i agree its not gonna be a big deal
>>769128294
She says that you deserve her. You don't. You deserve someone who is willing to pick you first. But ultimately it's your call.
>>769135670
Same dude. Got me a special girl and I love it.
>>769128294
Move on.
>>769135851
true, i didn't consider that he might be middle aged or older
>>769135435
A lot of these posts that say OP should just go and fuck her for spite or whatever are ignoring the fact that he's in love with her. Yea, he might look back and think "man, after all of that and I didn't even get any," but you aren't considering that if he fucks her and involves himself with her, it's not going to be some easy one-and-done. Don't be naive. He already has feelings for her, it's just going to make it more difficult to move on. So look at it like this:
-he fucks her a couple of times, catches feels, will be depressed for 6 months - 1 year after he realizes that it isn't working
or
- he declines her offer, is a little upset that old feelings were rekindled and a "what if" plays in his head, but can move on after maybe a week or two and finding a new girl to fuck.
I haven't been in this situation before, but I've been in situations where sex and unreciprocated feelings get involved. It eventually just turns into a tradeoff: yea, sure, you can get laid, but how badly do you want to hurt yourself in the process?
OP flew the coupe
>>769137410
he is already balls deep right now
This has to be fake. Some r9k fantasy
>>769128294
Turn your back and run away, man. This exact same thing happened to me. You'll get your heart stomped again.
>>769137326
No offense but you are showing your inexperience here.
you have it back to front.
it will hurt longer to begin with if he fucks her yes, but six months is still short term in life.
in the long run decades later its the missed opportunities in life that haunt us
Fuck her and dump her.
>>769128294
Nice bait, OP. Way to fantasy text yourself.
>>769128294
Jesus she basically tells you she has been off getting as much dick as she can. Let it go, this leads no where good. Lose the slut
>>769138849
inexperience? you don't even know me, dude.
you virgins have your priorities all fucked up. your only proposed end goal is +1 notch on a belt, that's it. why even bother when you can go out and fuck something else? something better, more fulfilling, and that isn't going to guarantee harm. lol. I bet when you turn 16, you're going to buy the first car that catches your eye, regardless of how much of POS it is, even though there are lots up and down the avenue.
>>769128294
Fuck her and don’t get attached. When she goes back to her old ways and tries to come back to you, just completely cut her out of your life. That way she feels like shit and realize that she has no one left to turn to. It’ll help her straighten herself out and you also got to fuck her. Then find someone worth a shit. You’re asking for advice on /b/ btw.
>>769139500
>this
The is plenty of moist sex holes in the fuck ocean. I'd skip the hate fuck as it might become complicated. The pussy is bait, how you gonna act?
>>769128294
>you know I love you
FUCKING PATHETIC.
>>769129486
Because betas can't hate fuck and leave. They get attached and cucked.
>>769135670
"This time its different"....
Lol.
>>769139933
When you have history with a girl it's obvious that you will have residual feelings it has nothing to do with being beta
Why don't you tell her to go without anyone for a bit and see if she truly means it? Then you can at least be sure she means well
>>769140041
"history" you mean being a door mat to her shitty problems (while she never actually helps you) while other people stick their dick in her and you never did? BETTAAAAAAA
>>769128294
OP FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT'S GOOD DON'T STAY WITH THIS PERSON, YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS TOXIC, AND SHE IS A FUCKING IDIOT.
>>769135670
I love people who think they are the only ones on /b/ to get is in. Every guy that has fucked 1 girl thinks he is the man with the golden cock and everyone else must be virgin neck beards. Lel
>>769138849
>in the long run decades later its the missed opportunities in life that haunt us
that's something people say that don't have real shit haunting them. Unless you're a hyperneet your whole life you won't remember missed opportunities.
>>769140139
Well I mean it sounds beta when you put it that way But your assuming OP didnt put the cock cash in the meat wallet and I think that's an assumption by this point. OP have you already hit it or nah?
>>769140413
If they broke up and you still pine, you're also a betamax. Here's a novel idea, real men PROCESS their emotions and MOVE ON. They don't hang on to the past (not to be confused with never thinking about the past). Either way, OP is a beta.
>>769140311
Somebody hasn't ever had the one that got away conundrum
Op, has she cheated on you and how long have you been together for? As said above, people don't change overnight. I know how you're feeling about loving her and not wanting to lose her although she's done some fucked up shit, but believe me. Let her go. It will be a huge, huge mistake to forgive her and let her break your heart once again. Whatever you do, think about all the shit she's done to you and how you felt about it. You've always treated her right, right? Let her go man.
>>769128294
She is practically rubbing those guys dicks in your face the way she is talking
>>769139500
well how old are you then?
you're talking like a 25-30 year old that has had a few crushes, never been married or had children.
i might not know you dude, but that does not mean i do not know what i'm talking about.
You can tell just from the way she phrases things that she only has herself in mind. You're not here for you to listen to your /b/ros and the countless experiences we've had with shit women like this, you're here because you want to justify getting back with her. You need to accept that you will mourn the loss of her, and move on with your life. There's people that are much more compatible with you, and that wont fuck you over. Listen to what you want, and do what you want OP, at the end of the day, you'll get exactly what you want. If you get back with her, expect it to happen again. Think back to reading this post when she cheats on you.
tl;dr obviously dont, but you're hear to look for someone to tell you to do it, man up and move forward OP
She sounds like a massive hoe. Also anyone that uses you and u in the same text should be put to death.
WAIT A SECOND. I HAVE A BOOKMARK FOR THIS
https://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2014/04/dear-nice-guy-i-wasnt-ready-for-you-before-but-i-am-now/
>>769128294
Ask her to prove it by sending a pic of her assholr
>>769141374
>https://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2014/04/dear-nice-guy-i-wasnt-ready-for-you-before-but-i-am-now/
how fitting that you can respond in the "submissions form." kek
>>769140311
> something people say that don't have real shit haunting them
are you saying that i made wise decisions and avoided "real shit" haunting me, or that nothing that serious that has happened to me is real?
i have no idea what judgmental language "hyperneet" is, but missed life experiences is exactly what you will wish you had more of when you get old
>>769135670
You are a bar person and will always be a bad person. Just cause you have a dick doesn’t mean you aren’t a bitch.
>>769135670
agree with the other anon
slutty bitch
>>769142319
you keep saying missed life experiences, but that's just a dumb POV to take. I am never going to eat shit, i'm not going to stab myself. do you call these "missed life experiences"?
again, you have two possibilities: fuck a girl who you know has betrayed your trust and who obviously has all these issues and baggage, or go out and fuck a girl who isn't? like, what exactly is the "missed opportunity" here? you aren't logical at all.
Move on OP, she's gonna put you through the fucking ringer even worse than she probably already has if you try to make this happen. Been there done that, you're better off just cutting ties and doing your own thing without her if you can't get over it emotionally
>>769143761
>fuck a girl who you know has betrayed your trust
if some one betrays your trust it is your own fault for trusting them.
>you have two possibilities
you don't know what options a person has. but it is quite clear this girl is metaphorically reaching for his dick and you are telling him to slap her hand away kek
>>769128294
Dude just say no,if she really liked you would she put you through all that?
>>769128294 THIS IS A RED FLAG FUCKING RUN!!!
>>769128294
Oh sweet zombie Jeebus just say no. You think you're different to those other guys? She's just between dudes and you've been there the whole time. Best case scenario: she actually believes this to be true right now but that shit won't last.
Save yourself. Go bang a fattie off of Tinder or something. SERIOUSLY.
>>769128294
That bitch don't deserve anything, if she could go with all those cucks and she got dicked every weekend and maybe EVERY DAY, then she's alone because nobody wants to be with sluts like these.
Let her suffer, OP, she doesn't love you.