Do nice guys finish last?
>>768941326
Gotta find the right girl, as with everything in life
>>768941326
I found mine when i was 26, chicks like older and more mature guys, so i guess yes.
>>768941326
Funny thing about guys who actually proclaim themselves "nice guys" is that they're generally just softbois trying to emotionally manipulate women jnto having sex with them. At least the "assholes" are homest about what they want.
On the flip-side, there are plenty of guys stuck in relationships with asshole women. Stop putting the pussy on a pedestal.
You want to know the actual reason why so many guys don't have gf's? It's because some of us have more then one gf. I currently have 3 girls who all think I'm exclusive with them. I can't be the only one, so as a result there are less woman left over
>>768942565
This guy. I don't trust anybody who calls themselves a "nice guy." When you're nice, you don't need to proclaim it. "Nice guys" are all closet rapists.
>>768941326
Its a metaphor
Nice guys let girls cum first, then they finish
>>768942720
Jill Hanna and Pamela? I know the hand sisters well
>>768942565
He puts the pussy on the chain wax
>>768941326
yes.
>>768941326
So what should you stop doing?
>>768941326
if this bothers you so much, why don't you just become an asshole
>>768941326
You sound like an asshole
>>768943328
I don't think it bothers him at all, he's posting to see how many people he can "bother".
>>768941326
This:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3VXXXX9iVPI
>>768941326
No. Guys who consider themselves "nice guys" are not nice at all. They are dishonest, manipulative, and clingy. They become friends with women and don't tell them straight away that they want a romantic relationship and then cry about being in the "friend zone".
>>768941326
Confident nice guys get the girl.
Assholes don't get the girl.
Weak pushover guys, whether they're nice or not, don't get the girl.
Men who can't get a girl in their country, they go to Thailand. Only in Thailand can they get laid or have a gf. Observe what kind of men they are. Only two types of men go to Thailand to get laid. They're either alpha high testosterone aggressive assholes, or weak beta men. Those are the types of men that don't get the girl in their country.
Confident nice guys or confident gentlemen like Don Draper gets the girl. Assholes like Tuco from Breaking bad, they don't get the girl. Weak men like Mr. White's son from Breaking Bad don't get the girl either.
If you don't watch those shows, let's use Game of Thrones. If Game of Thrones characters were in our world,
Confident nice guys like Jon Snow or Jaime Lannister will get the girls.
Assholes like Joffrey Baratheon will not get the girls.
Weak men like Samwell Tarly will not get the girls.
Stop confusing nice with beta, there's no reason you can't be nice and also confident and sexy as hell. When posts like this say "nice guy" they mean ugly as shit autistic loser.
>>768943793
This is true
>>768943793
They just bought the myth of romantic love.
>>768941326
NICE GUYS FINISH LAST
I'M ALL OUT OF GRASS!
>>768941326
You've been watching too many films kid
fucking idiot
>>768941326
Chances are if chicks don't go for you, you aren't as nice a guy as you think.
>>768942565
They think only assholes get girls because to them every guy getting pussy while they're not is an asshole.
>>768943123
PUTTING THE PUSSY ON THE CHAIN WAX! Fucking lol I was just thinking about this when I read this.
Girls go for money, confidence and stature and assholes tend to have more of all 3, but of course you can have these things and be a nice guy, its just more rare.
Well its also the women that are easier to find (sluts) that go for assholes more often.
>>768941326
nahh bro, you just suck at interacting with chicks
try not screaming "WHY WONT YOU JUST FUCK ME YOU BITCH" in their faces, ladies hate that sort of thing
kys
The problem is you're being a nice guy with a sense of entitlement that it will give you the reward of pussy.
People can sense that. So can women, and often times it comes off as more than just disingenuous and can border on fucking creepy.
The nice myth is just a dude with no balls using friendship as a means to get pussy. Not, it doesn't mean you can't or won't ever fuck your hot female friend. I've done it, many here have done it, and we all had this moment in which a friend became a gf or wanted to become that. It means friendship is not a way to something else, it's something in itself and does not exclude attraction.
Many dudes, PUAs and all that crap, claim girls don't fuck their friends... hell, sometimes even girls will tell you thst. From experience, well, they don't fuck the doormat ones or the ones they don't find attractive. Don't you confuse a doormat for a nice guy. One is a terribly easy to manipulate pushover with no life of his own. He does as the girl wishes him to do because he has no back bone nor will. He is not a challenge because he is always avaiable to her. The other is a confident dude with his own life that just happens to be a well rounded human being. He is a challenge because even though he might like said girl, he has his own thing running so he can't expend all his time with her. She is important, yes, but no central to his life. She wonders about him because if though she feels he likes her, he is not under her control so she doubts her intuition and this leads her to fall in love.
Which woman would you choose, the one that has a life and adds to your own or the one that thinks she depends on you to be happy? The "nice guy" is the latter, the true nice guy the former.
>>768941326
>INCELS: The thread.
>>768941326
real nice guys get other nice guys to pay for their hormones and clothes then when they are nice girls get assholes to fuck them
>>768943865
guys who won't shut up about tv shows don't get the girl
>>768943710
Thank you. I needed to see this video.
>>768941326
nice guys finish last because they never get to finish
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH
>>768941326
This is mostly a thing when you're young. When you're older you'll find that the women are over that phase.
>>768946308
that's because women by their mid to late 20s generally discover their money fetish
ive been on both sides. ive used and abused, and ive tried to treat them like queens. as long as your honest, upfront and not always sucking her fucking toes about how much you care about her and that bullshit. dont say it, that makes you look like a pussy. act on it. go buy her something, always shout her food. dont get me wrong, still compliment them and shit but dont drone on. they get bored of that beta attitude real quick. Girls want men that will treat them to shit without them asking, which they pay back with sex. hope this helps you OP.
>>768943793
>They become friends with women and don't tell them straight away that they want a romantic relationship and then cry about being in the "friend zone".
I think it might be because two factors:
1. They often assume love is just higher level of friendship. Being friendly and advancing on friendship ladder must then lead to you continuing slowly into romantic ladder.
2. They are shy and unable to express their feelings properly.
I. e. i believe it is often intellectual/social failure, not moral one.
>>768946479
women in their mid to late 20s generally have spending problems and look for guys to help them hoard even more shit
>>768942565
/thread.
Just be a friendly person if that's what you are, but don't take shit from anyone and don't call yourself nice, other people get to decide if you are nice.
>>768941326
Yeah it's pretty much that way when you define a guy getting laid as an asshole you fucking incel scum.
To summarise this thread:
-Be Honest
-Be friendly, but state your intentions
-dont be a whingy faggot. nothing turns girls off more.
>>768946539
That's a good point. Movies and television show relationships that evolve from friendship to romantic fairly often when in reality it seldom happens.
>>768946782
The /b/ is sometimes better father than my own father.
>>768941326
It literally really boils down to the girls preferences.
You will know if she likes you.
>with gf because she likes tall white guys with deep voices
It sucks but it really boils down to that. Just hope you have good genetics.
>>768941326
Girls open on me I have no idea what you are talking about and whilst I am nice, I think I'd be pretty intimidating to these little ones yet still they come, and they love me, and I them.
nice guys are assholes too, but they can't fuck and are beta, so of course girls are going to choose the option that gets them better sex
>>768946603
also, their biological clock starts ticking more noticeably and they realise they'll never have those kids and that house and that garden and that dog and all that shit that 90% of women secretly crave more than anything. that's when the nice guy-asshole dichotomy breaks down.
>>768947326
desperate betas can't wait to be step fathers to chad's kids lol
>>768942565
>Stop putting the pussy on a pedestal.
/Thread
>>768947182
You my friend make me laugh I'm a nice guy and almost guarantee better than you in bed I can play a bitch like a fiddle in the bedroom
I have been with the same person for 7 years. He is a asshole. I believe everyone has problems, so why trade his problems for someone else's?
>>768943710
i wanna put a baby in that bitch so bad.
>>768947796
Solve problems xx
whores all about penis size, asshole-typ and money. they just cant ride something they pity
>>768941326
Yes... girls aren’t interested in me and I’m nice as fuck but not a try hard. I’m just naturally nice and don’t have this douchebag demeanor that girls love.
>>768941326
https://youtu.be/BLv9PSQ9S8Y
>>768947912
You're fat.
>>768941326
lol nice guys never start. be a man. grab em by the pussy.
>>768947790
He's prolly autistic or something. Seemed like he genuinely was worried
>>768941326
>y those have $0!!?
>>768947912
what color is your fedora?
>>768947885
Sometimes my pussy is so wet I can't feel 6 inches.
>>768948406
we know youre just another faggot, girls arent on here
>>768948009
No I’m not. I’m not even ugly either
>>768948320
Never wear hats
>>768942955
I'm a nice guy and can confirm, would rape if I had the chance.
>>768948448
lets not jump to conclusions. it really might be a whore
>>768947912
nows your chance.
>>768948448
I squirted for the first time last night. Im 26. It wasn't anything amazing for me but my bf was so excited about it. It hurt to pee after
>>768948490
Lol you’re super ugly you little beta male bitch. Elliot Rodger/10
>>768948490
You are ugly though, naked-mole rat.
>>768948490
Some nice people have a weird vibe like they're holding something back. Asshole feels like " what do see it what you get"
You are attractive
>>768947790
This guy clearly has a mental issue, and thought there was an active shooter on the freeway or something, like a kid would imagine in this scenario.
He probably isn’t even trying to fuck her tbh
>>768948910
Was surprised, until I read the last sentence. Faggot.
>>768948490
you look like you're depressed
>>768948910
>>768948490
Samefag.
Shut the fuck up you ugly fuck, you lol like if Bud Bundy and Eddie “Latino Heat” Guerrero had a gay butt baby then tried to have it aborted.
>not ugly
Yeah right, you should kys
>>768948648
I birthed a child 2 years ago. Same partner 7 yr. Pussies get wet to prevent damage and bf fucks hard when I am willing to bone but don't want to put any work in.. Probably why I squirted
>>768943710
In my experience
women like me more, yet always go back to the douchebag
>>768948910
Thanks
>>768949066
I am actually.
>>768949340
So they don’t like you then.
You’re fucking autistic
>>768948910
nah dude. real attraction comes from confidence. youre only strong if you believe in your strenght.
if you behave timid and cockless you wont fuck. if you behave like you have self worth then women will see that.
but you have to believe in you before anyone else.
uncuck yourself.
>>768947766
lmao.. white boys pls
>>768949436
Looks like you are 19 or so?
Pro tip: most of the time people who consider themselves the "nice guy" are skeezy slimeballs that just don't have the spine to be the "asshole" (read: confident and actually has a personality that isn't comparable to that of a wet napkin)
>>768941326
Here's a thought, go to the fucking gym and get a godamn job. The rest will come. Most girls don't want to fuck the self-proclaimed "nice guy" with a neck beard and cheetoh fingers. Holy shit.
>>768949599
this, I'm extremely ugly but I just act confident and I get all the premium pussy I want, real hot skinny cute white and Asian chicks want my seed all of a sudden.
>>768949586
No
Women "challenge" themselves to fix a shit-head
so despite knowing he's a shit-head they always think
"But what about all that time and effort?"
Then they go back to a shit relationship like a fucking idiot
It's happen to me too many times, the girl up and says it
But because I'm new, shit has to go back to a old shit relationship
>>768949599
This. Some people are easy to talk to but you don't want to be seen with them in public if they walk with head down
>>768948490
No girls like you because you’re ugly as fuck. You look like a young serial killer, compete with dirt-lip mustache and acne.
>>768941326
No, Nerds do. Just don't act like a fucking under-socialized weirdo and you'll be fine
>>768949717
25. Never had a partner
>>768950029
I don’t think I’m ugly but apparently many people do so whatever. I can’t let shitty people dictate my worth, so I’ll continue to doubt that I’m ugly. But even if I am ugly, why do you care? Lol
>>768941326
I am an ass to girls pretty much all the time and I still get tons of attention from girls.. its pretty fucked I agree. I feel bad for my cousins and shit who are ugly virgins even though they are older then me.
>>768949893
Dude, I hate to break it to you, but if they liked you they’d be with you.
They just don’t like you, which is why they leave you for someone else.
Maybe if you weren’t such a faggot they’d stick around.
>>768948490
I think the problem isn’t your face. You look like you’ve got some bad anxiety or some shit, gotta get some confidence my mans
>>768941326
inb4 incels. Wait
>>768950434
Nope
It's one they're done beeing idiots, they finally stay for good
but it's human nature to be a idiot
>>768950424
Nope public lol and ty
>>768950264
You’re the shitty person, Everyone is just being honest with you about why you don’t get girls. You’re ugly, and on top of that you’re needy and you’re fucking delusional.
I don’t care that you’re ugly, I just care to make sure that you know you’re ugly.
>>768950625
No, you just know nothing about human nature, and are a needy beta male who drives women desperately away to go be with a real man, no matter how shitty they may be.
You’re such a bitch.
>>768942720
You must not have a job or real life obligations to be spending 3x as much time on women as the average guy.
>>768941507
What are you, 28 now?
>>768951239
Beta males don't exist you /fit/ closet homo
Go admit you're gay and suck a dick
>>768951262
Not him, but one thing you realize when you apply a bit of game is that women stop demanding stupid shit from you when you're in control. They come over, fuck, and if they're "special" you let em buy you breakfast in the morning.
Having a single quality woman who's a worthy mother to your children is better for your soul though.
>>768941326
"Nice guy" is a code word for Soyboy.
>>768948490
Either this isn't you or you post way to fucking much. Have seen a photo of this guy at least once a year for like 5 years. I've watched as he's aged. Leave and never come back foul depression demon.
>>768951456
>beta makes don’t exist
Sure kid, keep telling yourself that.
I could go suck 1000 dicks and still not be as big of a faggot as you.
I was a great guy and nice boyfriend for many years to my loving gf eventually I turned into an asshole and she left me.
Think about that incels.
>>768951705
Please do you closet homo
>>>/fit/
go talk about your dick then stare at pictures of other muscular guys
>>768941326
Lots of girls want a nice guy. It's just that self proclaimed nice guys are usually a bit pathetic. Either they don't take care of themselves or they're just genuinely not interesting people to talk to/hang out with. Too many of these guys think that if they could just get 'a' girl, they'd stop being such sad people, not realizing that relationships don't work like that. You don't use someone else to make yourself feel better. You get someone's attention if you're generally someone worth giving attention to.
Most girls want someone confident, not an asshole. But sure, assholes tend to be confident about themselves, so you might see assholes with someone more than with "nice guys". Also that asshole tries it with 20 girls and maybe hooks up with just 1. Nice guys stick around the same girl for 10 years, pretending to be their best friend in the hopes that one they they'll just settle for them, and in the meanwhile wonders why the other 3.5 billion women they've never talked to don't like them.
Just start acting confidently, be assertive, and make decisions. Fake it until you make it if you have to. Girls have no problem with sensitive depressed guys, just not in the first 2 weeks/months of the relationship. They're not going to carry that baggage for you, but they'll help you carry it when they know there's a great guy at the end of the chore.
Just realize that nothing matters. Second, put yourself in a position where you meet new people. Third, start conversations with strangers and get good at it. Don't start the conversations with the intend of ending with a request for a date. Start the conversations with the intend of conducting a successful conversation that's not awkward. Four, you'll know what to do at this point.
>>768952021
Typical. Lol
You assume I’m a /fit fag because I put you in your place because those are the guys who’ve put you in your place in the past
>>768943710
First, This is just her opinion and its based off her point of view which is skewed because of her looks and Vagina!
Second, Having grown up around 14 female cousins and 4 sisters that were all 7+ and then having 3 daughters all 8+ I observed the odd habit of many good looking girls chasing after the guys who treated them like shit and just ignored them. To this day even the ones that are now married are mostly married to ass hats that just ignore them.
I noticed that 2 out of my 3 daughters are the same. They have literaly stalked and chased guys that have just been dicks to them and ignored guys who do things like buy them presents, open the door for them, or just be friendly to them. The other daughter is what I call middle of the road, if she finds a guy attractive and he is a dick to her she will give him a chance to make it up to her but she will not chase him. If a guy she likes is a nice guy she will give him a chance but will not chase and if he becomes clingy she lets him know its an issue.
Honestly before I got married I always found the easiest way to get laid was to ignore a hot girl and she would come to me. After I get what I want I would just go back to ignoring her. My own wife chased me as I ignored her. After we hooked up a few times I would throw in some compliments but then go right back to being my own person not in need of her attention.
I think the base line is 3 to 1 for girls to be ass hole chasers. I even see girls that are not that good looking chasing the ass hats which means it has less to do with a girls looks and more to do with their crazy!
>>768952719
>>46064932
>>46047388
>>46062447
Should I keep going?
Dude, you're gay, you just won't admit it
>>768952152
This is truth right here
>>768941326
The problem nice guys have is they dont know how to flirt or otherwise make their intentions known. They think just being around and being nice or friendly will be enough and that one day the object of his desire will suddenly realize that she should be with him. And it doesn't work like that.
>>768952989
>>>46064932
>>>46047388
>>>46062447
>>768941326
They never finish.
Just for reference, change that image to say stubborn pricks X Assholes.
Would be more accurate.
>>768951456
lol betas exists fool. real alphas are rare. as a result you have betas being ruled by more confident betas. alphas are truly fearless and normally have more tame and kind personalities. fake alphas have to yell and act erratic when alphas arent around to attract women.
alphas seemingly remain calm even in conflict.
>>768941326
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A5og1md7Y0M
Guys who proclaim themselves to be nice guys are generally just unattractive. Girls often say I"m a really caring person, but I'm not a total faggot so I get girls easily. A tip: you don't have to be soft to be nice.
>>768942565
Yup yup. Being harmless is not being nice.
"A good man is not a harmless man. A good man is a very dangerous man who has that under very deliberate control."
Make yourself capable, upright, and strong. Also, be goddamned honest. You won't win your crush by trying to convince her that you aren't hitting on her and slowly becoming friends only to spring it on her later that you're into her. If you're into her, let her know from the get go. If you develop feelings for a friend, LET THEM KNOW. It won't destroy your friendship if it's a real one, and if it does destroy it, you were probably just crushing too hard to see that it wasn't much of a friendship anyway.
>>768952863
Sounds like lack of guidance. A lot of women in my life have been like that, but in other cases their parents actually parented them pretty hard and trained them how to date properly. It's usually girls from more traditional, Christian households who go for good, honest guys who actually like them. It's the same as guys thinking with their dicks; fathers who don't train their sons to chase women worth chasing will be sticking their dick in bad times.
Teenagers of both genders will fuck up like this, but some learn and absorb what they've been taught and some don't. Girls with an almost total lack of parenting will always think with their vag's and go for the superficially alpha over the guy who can actually make them happy.