Is there any point to keeping contact with a girl that you get along with awesomely, yet she has no interest in dating you?
>>768651726
not from a male perspective
yes she will give in.
No, just forget her op you deserve better stop torturing yourself
>>768651726
No escaping the friend zone. I would know.
>>768651726
>Is there any point to keeping contact with a girl that you get along with awesomely, yet she has no interest in dating you?
Nah you will only end up hurting yourself and the friendship will end badly.
short answer: no
long answer: no because you are friendzoned and unless you become an alpha (which you probably won't) you will stay perpetually stuck in this zone.
Definitely OP
I've been in a one way relationship with a girl for 6 months now and while I would prefer to be dating her, having her as a friend beats not knowing her at all
>>768651726
No, just fucking move on. It'll hurt more to try to keep contact
>>768652049
Maybe if the girl has a great personality and isn't shallow, it's worth staying friends
Yes, because having female friends is legit when you need advice.
>>768652049
>and while I would prefer to be dating her, having her as a friend beats not knowing her at all
What about when you see her with a guy she actually cares about? Or when she talks about what she gets up to with her bf? You are setting yourself up for a wild ride and you will have no one to blame but yourself.
i mean
you could be her friend like a normal fucking person, i don't know
OP here. THanks for the answers, guys. Keep posting, I'm still reading. This is a real bummer.
>>768652194
who needs advice from a girl when you got the internet
also
>taking a girls opinion
>ever
>>768651726
Zero point, that's just clinging and any guy she ends up with will get rid of you straight away, unless he's a little bitch.
>>768652194
You can't be a friend with a female if you have feelings for her. Otherwise you would be right, but in this particular case you're wrong.
>>768652206
>you could be her friend like a normal fucking person, i don't know
Or you could try show some understanding, don't worry i'll explain the understanding part for you.
>OP confessed his feeling to his crush/watched her go off with some other guy/got shot down
>She wants to be 'friends'
>OP clings onto hope and keeps hanging around her
>OP can't be around his old crush anymore because of how he feels about her.
Doe's that make sense to you?
>>768651726
depends, if you feel like you can move on and/or she might set you up with one of her friends, yeah
if you're still stuck on her, run
>>768651726
>be me
>beta
>obese
>constantly friend zoned
>then get the girl anyway
Turns out you just have to be understanding, not a creep, and patient.
>>768652691
>Is there any point to keeping contact with a girl that you get along with awesomely, yet she has no interest in dating you?
i don't know where you got that wild ride of a story about getting cucked from, because i seemed to have missed it?
the OP just asked if you should talk to a girl that doesn't want to date you
which is the most autistic fucking question i've ever heard
so fuck off about being understanding
>>768651726
Move on m8. Trust me.
>>768653198
you only got the girl because she ran out of dick
she didnt choose you first, that means youre just a comfort cushion for her. she probably went with you because you make her feel good.
you do realize eventually she'll dump you right?
>>768651726
last time i did that it was called having a friend. you should look into it
>>768653373
>>768653383
Show some fucking respect - >>768653295
>>768651726
Jfc you can just be friends with people. This is why people hate men
>>768651726
No. Girls are not friend material
>>768653431
If my dubs go unchecked I'm going to hurt someone - >>768653399
>>768651726
>Is there any point to keeping contact with a rich person that you get along with awesomely, yet she has no interest in giving you money?'
No one any where at any time owes you or anyone else anything.
Kill you self faggot.
If you have feelings for her, and she has made it clear she doesn't have feelings for you, it's best to get out of there. It might suck at first to drop contact with a good friend, but it'll be worse if you leave it any longer.
>>768651726
>>768653472
>>768653505
I'll refer you to the above - >>768653470
>>768653431
You can be friends with normal people. You can't be friends with someone you're in love with. This is why my people hate women.
>>768653515
>>768653505
>>768653472
>>768653542
I think I found your answer - >>768653470
>>768653542
The original post just said getting along awesomely with people. Also I have crushes on like half of my friends and it isn't an issue
>>768653472
>personal property is a myth
>currency is rape
>no one owes anyone anything, debt is a lie
Commie scum
>>768653602
I hear ya - >>768653470
>>768651726
You're in the friendzone. Get along awesomely sounds like you are the beta doing favors for her in hopes of her changing her mind.
There is no way out of the friendzone. That's scientifically proven by now. Either you completely cut ties with her immediately, or cut your own dick off and become another sissy/trap life fail.
>>768653653
>>768653602
>Also I have crushes on like half of my friends and it isn't an issue
It's not an issue for women. If a guy has a crush on you he will try to serve you in order to get on your good side. Other way around doesn't work.
>>768653505
>>768653517
>>768653542
>>768653563
>>768653602
any man that has friendship with a woman is because they wanna fuck but can't or haven't had the chance yet.
Yeah. Friendship is a good thing to have. If you can’t be around females without always looking for sex, there probably won’t be many girls that want to be around you.
You don’t have to fuck everyone.
>>768653723
>>768651726
No.
>>768653686
>>768653723
This is honestly good evidence for men just not being complete people.
>>768653733
>If you can’t be around females without always looking for sex, there probably won’t be many girls that want to be around you.
Stop generalizing, dump woman. He said specifically a girl, not all girls.
>>768651726
Yes, every girl has at least 5 friends. If you are close enough you can get her to set you up with them.
>>768651726
Use her as a wingman. There is no better wingman than a female friend. Plus there is a slight chance that she will get jealous. Win-win my nigga
>>768653987
>Listening on dating advice from dumb frogposter.
>>768651726
Can you be friends? Sure
Do you like her and NOT just want to fuck her? then no
Life is weird. If you just want to fuck her, that's normal because of guys are like that. If you "like her like her", confessed your feelings and she said no, then no way dude.
1st. If you stick around then she never ever needs to change and she knows you will be her fallback guy.
2nd. If you stick around you will never ever see the cutie pie that likes you.
You deserve someone who likes you the way you like them. She might be nice, but she doesn't like you in that way and you will resent her and yourself.
Citation: I chased a girl off and on for 3 years for some irrational reason. I met other women, but I always thought of her ... Anyway, nothing happened because she was a selfish bitch and I was always there.
>>768653453
This. A girl is the worst friend you can have. If she isn't committed to you emotionally, which is how girl's brain works, she will feel no obligation to be loyal to you what so ever.
She will use you like she would her hairbrush and toss you aside when she is done. This is especially true if the girl is in her prime time, and knows you want to date her, so that she can take advantage of you.
Never in history of mankind has a random girl been a loyal, worthy, and selfless friend to a random man. It's just not how females operate. Either they are emotionally committed to serve their one and only "man", aka, husbands, or they can't give a shit less.
>>768654040
Better than listening to a fucking virgin faggot. Kys anon
>>768651726
>Is there any point to keeping contact with a girl that you get along with awesomely, yet she has no interest in dating you?
>>768654094
>Projecting
>>768654117
>your mom
>>768651726
do you understand what a friend means?
>>768654047
Solid advice. You should listen to it, op.
>>768654144
>n-no u
>>768653987
Actually good advice
Hot chicks are jealous of other hot chicks, and when you come in with one they will talk to YOU to see why she is with you. They want what she has.
I did this for years with a hot friend that I just wanted to fuck, but turned out she was lots of fun and we shared lots of fun stories.
>>768654176
>your mom's mom
>>768654215
You're mom a lesbian
>>768654213
THANK YOU!
>>768654088
wow you must be so smart to know how all females operate
seriously though who hurt you
ITT: every dude acting like females are not even human, and are instead just mysterious things you can maybe fuck one day
good job autists
>>768653373
>the girls
4 girls and counting. They broke up and found new perspective/potential, that's called life.
>>768653809
Found the misandrist dyke
>>768653453
My guy, it took me until I was 40 y/o to figure this out. Once I realized that I was looking for a FRIEND in a gf, and that wasn't possible, life became awesome with women.
Just try to fuck them. It's all they want anyway: to be desired. Don't try to stick around, it makes YOU desirable.
It really can't get more simple than this: girls are for fucking and making babies. If you fuck one and you want to keep her, keep her as a gf but women are a dime a dozen and you are a rare great man (at least you should believe it if it isn't true). Marriage is the womans advantage. And don't stick your dick in crazy. Take care of your kids.
>>768651726
>hey nons, look here, a nice glitch!!!
>>768654437
I managed to fuck all my female friends. however I was never a beta. I was always the alpha (or in the making) that took what he wanted.
>>768654598
>Once I realized that I was looking for a FRIEND in a gf, and that wasn't possible, life became awesome with women.
I can't tell you how many times I've fucked it up by trying to befriend gf's.
>>768653373
It's a fake story. don't take the bait.
>>768651726
The same reason you keep in touch with your guy friends who you get along awesomely with yet don't fuck?
>>768652049
Cucked
>>768654781
>because he has romantic and/or sexual feelings for his guy friends
Even if he does it's not as bad as with women. You can still fuck a guy and respect him and stay friends with him tomorrow.
>>768652194
>females
>advice
I see know correlation.
>>768654703
Same here .... Same here
Sometimes I wake up in a cold sweat wanting to scream "WHY DIDNT I JUST FUCK HER?!" when I dream about my many many autistic failings with women.
Once I figured it out, I told my mom she messed me up by telling me to be respectful and look for friend in a wife. She understood and said she was trying to teach me the way things SHOULD be. Yeah, but I wasted so many years mom... Thank God I figured it out at all, right?
>>768653198
>>768651726
just do what u want, if you're questioning doing it in the first place you probably know what you want.
>>768654689
>took what he wanted
I turned down a lot of pussy, took nothing, only accepted when it felt right to me. I might be a beta but you sound needy.
>>768651726
If you have feelings for her, no, absolutely not. It’s never gonna not feel bad.
>>768654959
>Sometimes I wake up in a cold sweat wanting to scream "WHY DIDNT I JUST FUCK HER?!" when I dream about my many many autistic failings with women.
Same
>Once I figured it out, I told my mom she messed me up by telling me to be respectful and look for friend in a wife. She understood and said she was trying to teach me the way things SHOULD be. Yeah, but I wasted so many years mom... Thank God I figured it out at all, right?
Holy fuck are you me? My mom did the same. I mean I don't blame her or anything, but it did hinder me later on until I shedded her a bit too optimistic upbringing.
>>768654419
What does females being a sub-category of human species have anything to do with this?
You keep contradicting yourself, and must be getting mad right now that people are exposing the BITCHES that take advantage of men and their kindness and loyal friendship purely for the personal gain, while giving back nothing. It's all too well known.
Just be like the rest of the feminazi cunts that keeps saying "there is no friendzone". Go ahead and deny the truth.
>>768652049
That shit is fucking gay dude, no woman is so good she’s worth being friends once you’ve caught feelings. It’s just pain.
>>768654047
How did you get over her?
Yes,
She likely has friends, they are likely also female
One of them is likely DTF
Dont burn a bridge untill you've pillaged and raped the ALL the townspeople
>>768651726
Only if she's an interesting, intelligent, funny person and you can absolutely be fine with her not having ever interest in you romantically and also fine with her having boyfriends.
I've had female friends, most of them girlfriend's friends and even now my best friend's gf. I'm able to not see them as love interests. I'll fuck them of course but I value fidelity and my friends.
>>768654981
Except I'm 27 and banging a hot 18 year old college girl. We were friends, now we're dating. She likes to talk about marriage a lot, but says not for at least 4 years so I'm not worried. The bigger issue is that we have trouble fitting my cock into her tight pussy. Girth is a curse my dude.
>>768655197
>that people are exposing the BITCHES that take advantage of men and their kindness and loyal friendship purely for the personal gain, while giving back nothing. It's all too well known.
Both sides are to blame. Men are to blame for showering woman with kindness and compliments expecting boob and vagene in return. Women are at fault for exploiting that for their own gain. It's the nature law in every species. Spiders know they are going to get eaten by the black widow yet they persists because doesn't matter had sex
>>768655242
Not that guy, but the simplest answer is distance and time. You need to keep your distance from her, which is why OP can't stay friends with the girl he likes. And give it time.
>>768651726
If you get along, it seems it's a good friendship.
You do know you can have friends? Even girl ones?
Perhaps it's a cultural thing, I don't know.
Pic unrelated
>>768655467
>Pic unrelated
Are you sure about that? Because I would say that's how it looks like staying friends with someone you like.
>>768655153
needy?
I see something I want, I take it. simple.
same for everything else in life. There is nothing unobtainable for me.
>>768654981
Written and drawn by a bitter, young, self-entitled boy.
Time will give you perspective.
>>768655526
>There is nothing unobtainable for me.
I know one thing. Humbleness.
>>768654781
The dynamic is never the same and being friends with women is more work emotionally than being friends with men.
>>768655519
Blimey, that escalated quickly.
>>768655572
Did you mean "humility"?
>>768655526
>takes everything he wants
>claims to not be needy
okay pal.
>>768655526
cute
>>768655627
No, I don't want to humiliate you. But in all seriousness that's what I wrote first, but then my idiot brain corrected it for some reason.
>>768651726
No. Not unless she is a real friend and you don't have many feelings for her. Get her drunk and sniff her stink holes then move on.
>>768655684
Language is a wibbly thing.
You... don't want to humiliate me? But... Anon... I...
>>768655420
I have the same thing going. A girl fucked me, but she had a boyfriend already.
She said, well lets rather not fuck anymore and be friends, and I said, after a week, no, thats just bullshit.
She said she felt that I was leaving her what was kinda strange, but I now keep my distance.
Staying close the her was just poisenous
>>768655785
See, this is why you can’t be friends with women, it’s all the emotional responsibility of having a girlfriend with none of the love, affection or passion. Who wants that? Who works for no pay?
>>768655177
Nice dubs.
Lol, it's what women do. They try to domesticate men. Mom is definitely a woman. So now we come full circle, Op is being domesticated by sticking around a woman that doesn't want to fuck him, like a child to mommy.
Break the cycle, Op.
>>768655549
Nah. It's the truth that blue pill people deny. They want to believe that they can find "true love" but don't understand how things really work.
>>768654959
Fuck your idealist cunt of a mother, she set you so far back with wishful thinking and teaching you shit real women don’t respond to. I’d be resentful as fuck if that happened to me.
>>768655371
> being a kind friend and being loyal means showering her with compliments
Let me guess. You're a girl. And you're butthurt about what I said. But basically, you just proved my point: girls are the worst friends you can have.
>>768655748
Go on, anon-san...
>>768656195
No, I'm a guy, and I'm writing from personal experience.
>>768655242
One day, I put it all together ... Everything she said versus what she did. It lead to one conclusion:
She was lying to me.
For some reason, the idea she was lying to me never occurred before then. I liked her, she knew it, and I didn't think she would lie to me. I was blind before and this was an epiphany. What did she lie about? Who she was, what she liked, basically everything. Stringing me along because we had good conversations, but if she was lying and making shut up, then we had nothing.
I confronted her, she said she didn't like because that's what liars say. Funny enough, when I first met her she said former friends called her 2 faced and other bfs called her a waste of time.
Anyway, it hurt but once I figured out she was lying to me, it was over in my head. I only liked her because I thought she was sweet and different, and I looked at her as my best friend at one point. But she was a 2 faced liar.
I walked away and didnt look back.
>>768651726
Yes. Because now you have an opportunity to evolve/mature, friendship/love are always about other, if it were just about your needs then she's better of without you.
>>768655371
>Both sides are to blame
>While one side knowingly exploits the naivety of the other
women are worse
>>768656098
Basically, she meant well though
>>768656416
Any particular reason this never works the other way?
>>768655911
True. The point where I just left was when she was suggesting to me that I should find another girl.
That was just crushing me.
She's also self-centric and -serving, all the more reason to go
>>768656334
Your story is a common one. But often young men are too beta to confront them or to walk away. And so they continue life being miserable and making threads like this.
>>768655911
Finally someone who gets it.
If you've caught mad feelings for her you just need to get away from her, either temporary or permanently. If you have the balls you can tell her how you feel and see what happens but other than that, bail.
You're setting yourself up for hurt, jealousy, envy, all sorts of shit if you continue hanging out with her while you have feelings for her but she just wants to be friends.
As her friend she's going to tell you all about her dating life, she going to tell you about the assholes and the great guys she meets, the ones she's attracted to and the one she's not, she'll ask your guy perspective on things to help her chances with other guys, she might even let slip "Wow Anon I just wanna date a guy like you!" and that'll just fuck everything up for you if it's not her way of saying "I wanna date you!". She'll be looking to you for emotional support as any of her girl friends would give her. You're looking to her for emotional support as only a girlfriend would give. In the end it's not fair to either of you to keep the friendship going strong.
Sometimes just being a part of someones's life is enough. If you can suck up your romantic feelings, it is worth it.
>>768656443
It's also men's fault for being cuck spyboys and allowing women to exploit them. Git gud, my fellow man, and never let yourself be exploited by women.
>>768656475
Women want to be found attractive, men need to peruse, dynamics.
>>768656098
>>768656453
Same guy here. Actually, after further thinking, her values shaped who I am, and now I'm pretty cool, well paid, and now that I know how to get women I can protect myself (financially) better than if I was young and getting all kinds of pussy and distracted.
It's delayed gratification. I have a hot 24 y/o gf that I'm sure I would've fucked up if I were younger.
Mom is cool af, and I'm glad we can talk about stuff life this. She married the 1st guy she fucked, and didn't party or act like a scumbag growing up. She's living through me now lol
Live and learn!
>>768656750
>women desperately want to be equal to men and respected as such
>destroying societal norms left and right
>but this dynamic will never change
Women are fucking OP, they need to be nerfed.
>>768656876
>Women are fucking OP
No they're not OP is a faggot.
>>768656876
You need to learn to make friends
>>768657105
Women need to learn how to be friends
everyone in this thread is a fag ignore them OP,
it's worth it
>>768651726
If you dont have romantic or sexual feelings for her or vice versa, no problem at all. Also
>genuine friendship
>being able to hang out with a chick but not pay for her meals n shit
>being able to hang out with a chick and not have to be in try-hard pick-up try-to-get-laid mode
>develop social skills with women and be more comfortable around them
>she'll try to hook you up with her hot friends
>repeat last point. She'll tell all her single hot friends "hey this is anon, he's a fucking legend, you like him? Come drink with anon and I next weekend"
>good wingwoman. A Wing Woman is always way better than a Wingman in a bar or at a party.
>>768651907
It's possible but more trouble than it's worth. It basically requires you to cut off all contact with said chick for a year or two, reinvent yourself, get fit, have new experiences, learn new skills and come back. You'll basically have a 2nd chance to make a first impression and pick up. On average it takes about 8 hours of knowing a girl to get her pants (includes texting etc). Less for sluts or girls who like you.
>>768656876
they only want that equality in terms of benefits, not punishments
>>768651726
If the argument for why you can't be friends with a girl you're attracted to isn't compelling enough so far, consider the genetics and physiology of females.
For millions of years, their prime target has been to find males with alpha genes, that protects them and their child. In return, she loves him and gives him sex. Once this happen, the female closes off to other males.
From this view, a male "friend" who is attracted to her is an intruder. He is the beta that never earns her love because it would predispose her to bad genes. Girls will never admit this, but it's ingrained in their nature.
That being said, simply being male doesn't mean you can't be friends with females. There are millions of men and women who are friends, at work or in whatever setting. My point is, it is only sane and healthy if there is no sexual or romantic attraction.
>>768656751
wisdom
>>768651726
>y, those are $0.00?
>>768652194
This.
>>768652472
Because when trying to figure out what another girl says or means, having a female friend to decipher that shit is invaluable.
You could be getting good vibes from a girl that's showing all the signs and when you talk to your female friend about it she'll be the one that points out she's just being nice and isn't interested. Same goes if you have a chick or a girlfriend get pissy at you for seemingly no fucking reason.
>>768653472
this is a good analogy.
>>768653383
Spot the roastie
>>768651726
Only if you don't want to date her either. Don't listen to the women and orbiters, it's unhealthy for you to repress your feelings about this girl to maintain the friendship. You, and her, will be better off if you break away and move on.
>>768657312
A better analogy is a starving Ethiopian trying to be friends with a hearty Turkey dinner, there will never not be tension unless that Ethiopian is well-fed.
>>768657428
That's a shit analogy. A turkey dinner can't do shit to stop the Ethiopian from eating it.
>>768657221
You can still be friends and find them attractive, admiration is a big part of friendship, however it does take experience and maturity to have this mind set.
>>768657411
OP never stated that he liked her or was friend-zoned by her.
>>768657411
>It's unhealthy for you to repress your feelings about this girl to maintain the friendship. You, and her, will be better off if you break away and move on.
Absolutely this. The “suck it up and be friends at the expense of your mental well-being” narrative is perpetuated by women who are mad they keep losing male friends.
>>768657473
Neither can the woman really.
>>768657516
>I want to date her
>But not because I like her or anything
>>768657411
>>768657542
Seconded
>>768651726
No. The best you could ever be is a rebound.
>>768657516
The way the question is framed insinuates unrequited love
>>768656706
Fuck you and that someone's life. I will respect my romantic feelings.
>>768657473
>implying rape isn't an option...
Really, dude, I am disappoint.
>>768657516
But it does imply it. In any case you conveniently ignored
>Only if you don't want to date her either.
So I don't understand what your objection is.
>>768657620
Ah true, my bad.
>>768657699
Nah my bad, I just failed at reading the OP properly. Alcohol n all that.
>>768657655
>implying you'd rape someone
>>768657740
>implying I wouldn’t steal from the rich
Are there any grown ups on this thread?
>>768657501
I'm not talking about finding someone good looking, I'm talking about romantic feelings and the desire to have sex. That's not admiration, it's a completely different feeling. When you grow older, you will understand the difference.
>>768657803
Raping Hood. He steals from the rich in order to rape people.
>>768657808
You need an adult?
>>768657834
My suggestion is that you build friendships with women first, as long as you have expectations you automatically but up barriers.
>>768657862
You need a care worker
>>768657808
>being a grownup must involve prolonged emotional discomfort for the sake of an unappreciative beneficiary
>>768658036
You need to cut down your roast beef
If you have female friends but not a girlfriend you're basically a predator so yeah nah
>>768657808
It seems not, milady. As we all know a true man giveth a maiden respect and companionship in line with her expectations and desires at all times. Only small little children openly declare their intentions and move on to what is in their best interest should the proposal fall flat :^)
>>768658001
>build friendships with women first
You mean that thing even raging feminists say not to do? There will never not be expectations if that’s what you’re really after. There’s no reason to lie to her or yourself.
>>768658073
Who's choosing the discomfort you, or them?
>>768658001
I have several friends who are girls. Did I ever say I didn't? Again you are making blind assumptions about me.
And no, I have no sexual or romantic desire towards any of them. And this is my point. And again, it seems it flew over your head so let me say it again:
You can be friends with females in general, but you can't possibly be friends with a girl you're sexually or romantically attracted to.
Is that simple enough language to understand? I hope so.
>>768658109
You need to stop being American.
>>768658118
Woman detected
>>768658170
>feeling discomfort is a choice
>>768658171
My point is that you can.
>>768658227
Stop being awesome? Moi? Never!
>>768658234
>yeah nah
She's also probably australian.
Go to bed Clem, you're drunk.
>>768658246
You have free will, its you who has to take responsibility for choices, you can't blame how you feel on others...
>>768658234
what was your first guess? the complete lack of logic?
>>768658421
Lost.
The reason why males can be friends with other males is because there's no desire to fuck - thus, there is no feeling of competition or feeling of failure when that friend becomes romantically involved with someone else.
However, if you are friends with a female that you have feelings for, or are attracted to, the foundation to that friendship is not built upon mutual understanding, it is built upon a deep desire of false hope - which will ultimately lead to feelings of competition or failure when that "friend" becomes romantically involved with someone else, or falls for someone else.
Heck, male friends and female friends tend to see each other less when one or both of them becomes tied to a relationship - can you imagine how much less that would be if a female friend you've fallen for/attracted to becomes tied to a guy? You're never seeing her again.
Either be friends with a female you're not attracted to, or into, or spend your time improving yourself for the chance at the other millions of women walking around - don't be a thirsty desperate fuck.
>>768658344
Discomfort is not a choice, accepting it is. Refusing to acknowledge something doesn't always help though, sometimes it makes it worse. It depends on the person, the context, the life. Grand overarching advice is folly and just as harmful as useful.
Yeah. One of my best friends is a girl I get on super well with but I know she has no interest, and I have no interest in her. She's fun and we do different shit than with my guy mates.
And if she breaks up with her long term boyfriend then I have a good chance which I wouldn't say no to cause she's a freak and hot with a crazy ass.
The worst bit about a hot female friend is all your other ates think you're in it for the sex and that you're friend zoned. It's difficult understanding having friends of the opposite sex for other people
>>768658344
Yeah, that’s why you cut contact with female “friends” who make you feel that way. I’m not gonna make my feelings your fault but I’m also not gonna live in misery just to have you as a “friend.”
>>768658488
>Being this much in denial
>>768658344
Ending the friendship isn't blaming, it's accepting the two are fundamentally mismatched in what they want out of the other. It's healthy. If such a lovestruck person were to continue with that friendship it is likely to produce hurt and resentment. You don't just choose to stop feeling, Mr. Zuckerberg.
>>768658478
Pretty good write up. There’s no way to ever truly be at ease with female friends you have feelings for, that’s why they’re not preferable to male friends. Bitches just don’t understand.
>>768658258
Is that your point now? That's real convincing.
You can drive your car off of a cliff too. You can also shoot your parents in the face, or you can wear your pants backwards and walk around in the street with your cock and balls hanging out.
Just because you can do something doesn't mean it's a good idea.
>>768658567
>You don't just choose to stop feeling
I was human. Now I can stop feeling.
Only if you also have no interest in dating her at all, which is very rare.
>>768658488
>ates think you're in it for the sex and that you're friend zoned
I can understand why they think that. It seems to be exactly your position. That doesn't mean everyone around you believes men and women can't be friends fundamentally.
>>768658679
Truth is that usually one of both wants more, and it either not ready to admit it yet or just does not show it. After that, things get complicated.
>>768651726
Nope
>>768651726
No.