Is it normal to have your friend constantly try to fuck your girlfriend? I mean he doesn't try but it's very clear that he wants to.
I'm not too sure if he would if he got the chance, but I'd say its more likely than not. Also he says with subtext that enables him morally to go after her. I really don't think I'm imagining this shit, even though it's possible that he does it without intention a lot of the time.
>>768507293
Sit the faggot down and tell him to stop or you're going to get physical with him and no one disrespects your gf.
If he dosnt back down, thrown down, beat the shit out of him
>>768507471
are you sure your ape like method works?
wouldnt the threat of violence just egg him on more?
>>768507471
this exactly
any sexual aggression or even intimidate, dating aggression is no bueno, but the girlfriend should also stop it if she can (if she doesn't, leave her because shes enjoying it)
but id start with the asshole to kick rocks or there is gonna be a problem
>>768507662
she doesn't invite or enjoy it. it gets a bit tiresome sometimes because i feel like this guy is convinced that he has a chance with her for whatever reason, maybe hes reading into any signs she could be unintentionally giving out. i dont know. she does make sure to be kind fo everyone and abides by rules everywhere and all that
what do you even mean dating aggression and sexual aggression
no
friends don't do that shit he cleary dosent respect you
>>768507592
This. Also if OP is posting this on 4chan, then chances are he is going to be the one getting his ass beat in a "throw down."
And if your gf is leading him on then you either need to make a move quick and throw some babies in her or dump her. Later is probably the better choice.
>>768507592
Alpha Male works for literally every species of animal
>>768507967
Not all people on /b are pussies, I come here mostly for the porn lol
>>768507293
You are a fucking cuck. Tell your friend to fuck off.
>>768508062
>this, just stop being friends with him cut him off completely
No its not normal and you need to fuck him to assert dominance.
>>768508062
>>768508208
cutting him off is some retard shit, thats grade school shit
i've been talking to him about it.
hes never honest about it. he always tells me that he doesn't like some girl when he really does. he talks like this about every girl including the girls that only he's interested in. im not really sure why he does it, maybe its because he thinks it might end bad with a girl and he doesnt wanna get embarassed (pretending to be too good for them or some shit).
with my gf he just sort of turns into a little puppy and just hangs around her hoping to get some kind of validation sometimes. when i am with her he backs off
the problem is he just keeps hoping for something to happen between them two
this weekend i went to a bar with him and he just spends his entire drunk time telling me shit that is supposed to convince me that he wouldn't do it. like "man we are such opposites and he have had such different girlfriends"
idk man i dont really believe what he says
>>768507592
>>768507826
>just egg him on more?
Depends on how much of a faggot he is.
Its your girl, you need to protect her from predators like him.Step up or he will continue and you lose here
Tell him to stop and if he does it again, you will get physical with him.If he gets to this point, keep your hands up and go for the gut,kidney shots are a good plan
I had a similar problem with my current gf's ex.He didnt know about me and kept harrasing her physically and emotionally. I let him know it wasnt going to happen again, or i would make sure he couldnt talk to her again.
It happened again and i went over to his apartment and beat the shit out of him.
I have enough evidence between texts, dm's and facbook/twitter posts to get him on harrasment/stalking charges, if he ever thought of going after me, he would suffer greater then i would.
Bad friends will try. Good friends will not.
>>768508659
>>768508780
there's a reason why threats of violence is illegal too.
hes not really that bad of a friend. ive always thought he lives by a set of rules more than any other friend i had. i dont know if he respects me but i am very confident that he admires me.
its a confusing situation. i think honestly he just has a great weakness for women
>>768508616
>cutting him off is some retard shit, thats grade school shit
enjoy losing your girl
>>768509009
and if something like that makes me lose my girl, don't you think it wasn't a great relationship to begin with
>>768507967
>Also if OP is posting this on 4chan, then chances are he is going to be the one getting his ass beat in a "throw down."
Not op but why do you belive people who use the internet and computers and an imageboard is the typical lanky sterotype of the 90's?
That shit is long gone, specialyl with how mainstream 4chan is now.
Your're talking about robots on /r9k/
>>768508987
Nigga is going to date rape your girl. Maybe you want him to?
>>768508987
You sound like a monumental pussy, not because youre not beating this guys ass for hitting on your girlfriend but because of your faggoty responses about the legality of "threats of violence."
Look bruh, youre either going to assert your status as a real man and get him to back off or youre going to have another reason to worry about your girl while this dude tries his hardest to get in her pants. Your little aristocratic fantasy world isn't how this works, if he valued your input he wouldnt be trying to fuck your woman idiot.
>>768508987
>there's a reason why threats of violence is illegal too.
I didnt threaten him.
I assured him that if he kept harrassing her that i would put a stop to it.
No where did i mention how, or if it was even violent. I could have been talking about going to the cops, as i clearly have the evidence to put him away and make him sex offender.
Play smart.
>bad of a friend
Hitting on your gf means he has no respect for him self or more importantly you.I would cut off all ties with this faggot and find better friends to appreciate your friendship and your relationship with your girl.
If he persists after your expressed wishes of him not hitting on her, then you need to get physical with him if it happens again. Some retards just wont get it until it gets physical.Just like that neighboorhood dog that bites everyone, someone is going to need to slap the shit out of it and make it submit before someone gets mauled to death
>>768509087
knowing full well you can prevent it and still letting it happen?
guess your girl is just moving on to a better dude
>>768509516
believe me i would like to threaten him. the anger i feel about the situation is serious
but i just think its probably the wrong move to threaten him. what about that killing machine ufc guy? guys still fuck his gf even though he can literally kill anotehr dude with a finger
>>768509775
>killing machine
You mean the guy who beat her up?
He was a cuck to begin with and a bigger cuck now that hes in prison.
It isnt about physical strength, its a bout respect, you can be lanky and shit and throw a good punch in so he understands you're serious
it's pretty simple, if he wants to continue to be your friend he cannot make advances or "get too friendly" towards your gf
you have to tell him this directly and make it clear that if he wants to fuck around he will be the one to ruin (what I can only assume) to be a good friendship
there isn't any real need for any threats of violence, just an emotional appeal to reason
especially if you feel you aren't going to back those threats up
also you should probably reinforce this by cutting him out of getting invited to things, plan things that don't involve him
>>768507293
suggest
the
> Devil's
Threesome :D
>>768510033
ur fucking retarded bro.
>>768510474
My gf isnt being harrassed by one of my so called "friends" who has no resepect for me or my realationship.
Man the fuck up pussy
Most of the replies are telling you to shut that shit down and tell him to fuck off, yet you sit there and say "no it's complicated"
You asked for advice and got it, stop being a little bitch and just do it.
Also stop bumping this shitty thread replying to everyone and not coming to a god Damn conclusion.
You are seriously acting like a indecisive whiny bitch
>>768510589
how do you know that?
sounds like ur girlfriend is retareded too. i bet she flirts with strangers all the time. who cares if you cut off all ur friends? now u have no friends and u never even solved the problem you had in the first place
I have a sister that wasn't an option for my friends. When one friend showed interest. I made excuses for him. When he thought he had a chance. He went for it and she wasn't interested. Didn't stop him. Ended up having no friend. Could have saved myself a ton of trouble doing it the easy way. Instead learned the hard route.
If you are going to make excuses for him and why he is doing this then you deserve everything that is coming to you.
>>768510602
that's why
he's getting
> CUCK
'ed
> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NvBKC_8TTao
> /thread
>>768510735
so what happened to ur sister
>>768508616
Why are you even friends with someone like him in the first place?
>>768508616
I want to feel bad for you bro but you’re being a cuck. Man the fuck up. He ain’t your fuckin friend dude. I’ve seen how this shit ends, even if he doesn’t fuck her you’re showing your woman that you value hanging with someone who sounds like a dipshit over the comfort and security of your girl. Don’t set this precedent, stop it if it’s not already too late. You sound like a good dude please just listen to us.
>>768507293
It's very normal. Unless she's a beast, all your friends would fuck her if there was zero chance of anyone ever knowing.
>>768510802
LOL well i have had this talk with him about three times so far but he just isnt capable of being honest
>>768511259
trust me i have considered it many times and i even told him that i dont consider someone who does this to be a friend
i agree with a lot thats being said, but also gotta consider the fact that i dont want to be with a girl who would fuck my friend or use my friend in any way to hurt me, so if you think about it that way then there's nothing to be afraid of because if my friend fucks my gf then she wasnt my gf to begin with.
>>768511263
something i never mentioned is the fact that my friend is asian and asians just tend to go fucking crazy for white girls, especially this girl because shes a hot blonde who also behaves well.
after a certain point you gotta be reasonable and understand why your friends are tryina fuck ur gf. it's like they can't control it.. i know he admires me
>>768511000
Family said I should have done something about it sooner. Sister now feels uncomfortable when he is around. I had to let my friend go. Turns out later that he was doing this to another friend.
>>768511834
so you should have just told him that she feels uncomfortable and that he should stop doing it for that reason. sounds like you should have talked to him instead of just drop him
>>768511301
You’re a fucking retarded faggot if you would rather keep this “bro” then your girlfriend, who I assume supplies you with pussy on the regular. Might as well start letting your friend fuck you (more than you already have I mean) because clearly you prefer him over your girlfriend. Stop being a pussy faggot and kick his ass, every man needs to get physical at least once in his life, and in a case like this you are more than entitled to it. Stop being a fucking fag.
>>768512075
have you ever been physical you fucking retard? you think women actually like that shit? yes if shes as retarded as you. ive done this shit before when i was a fucking child. i know it doesnt work to just beat up someone like that u fucking mongrel.
ur not even worth explaining this to tbh
OP's gf is a thot.
leave the thot.
>>768507293
>>768508616
>>768511813
What OP isn't telling us is that his girlfriend flirts back with his friend and he's too much of a pussy to say something to either of them. You can tell by his assertion that any solution that involves being assertive is "immature."
OP has internalized the cuckoldry
>>768507293
Im trying to fuck your girlfriend too....
>>768507826
tell him you're both sick of his shit and stop hanging out with him.
>>768507293
I've been that friend. I eventually fucked her and wanted to do it the whole time. I openly kissed her and smacked her ass in front of my friend when I was too drunk at a party. These things don't work out for anyone involved. My friend got cucked, the girl is known as a slut now, and most of my friends from that group don't talk to me anymore
>>768511943
All the talking and excuses were already done. I thought that was a given. Like I said... I made every excuse for him. Talked and talked and talked some more. Didn't stop him.
>>768507471
macho faggot
Sadly all the excuses and words are going to rot into a dramatic end. You see a problem and just talk in hopes it will go away. How's that working out for you so far?
>>768507293
give us an example of the subtext OP
But seriously. Good luck with everything. I hope it works out for you. The worst that can happen is that you lose everything.
>>768512615
FACT.
>>768507293
>Is it normal to have your friend constantly try to fuck your girlfriend? I mean he doesn't try but it's very clear that he wants to.
Well which is it faggot? A guy can't help wanting to fuck a girl, but he can hold himself back from trying to do it.
>>768507293
Fuck your friend in the ass to show him who's boss.
>>768507293
>>768508616
Give us a couple examples of why you think he's trying to fuck her. Either your jealous, and reading too far into shit, or you're right and he's a garbage pile. Can't tell which.
>>768507293
No. It's not normal and he ain't your friend. If I were you I would beat his monkey ass down into the dirt.
>>768511813
What a shit basis for you rationalizing not truly confronting this rival. If she cheats on you she was never yours to begin with? One she's an individual. Two she decided to be loyal to you for however long. She can decide to no longer be loyal or life can throw a bunch of shit at her and cause her to have a moment of weakness. Either way, rid yourself of the romantic idea of love/romance in a vacuum. It doesn't exist, it never existed. The idea will eventually cause you nothing but headaches because it's defiant to reality.
All relationships are founded on communication. If you've tried one on one talks with him, then both you and your gf sit him down and confront him. Show him you are unified and she is not open to him beyond friendship.
>>768516048
best response in this thread, yet OP will evade this and justify it with subversive faggotry like hes done to everyone else here.
>>768508987
You sound like a confident well rounded guy. If your girl is worth her salt you shouldn't have to worry about losing her over this.
>>768516048
>>768516596
I don't think she is even remotely attracted to him first of all. It was never about her. It was just that I was at first angered by the fact that he would even try to pursue her.
I'll do that, but right now it's at the beginning stages and he doesn't even know that its a real thing. I have to wait.
But honestly man you thinking that someone who does this is a rival is a mistake. We are all children in the eyes of someone greater. All people have desires and needs and at some point you need to realize that to this guys parent's eyes he is just a confused child who needs people to be kind to him. It doesn't mean I'd let him bother my girlfriend but I think it's good to see the situation in a good light. I think it's important to see these situations as they really are, you are the father who needs to behave appropriately and see people for who they really are in the context of the world.
>>768515781
>>768515126
he doesnt know how to talk to girls and so he just hangs around the ones he likes
he just gets all excited (i know hes not aware of himself when he does this) its like watching someone whos had 20 shots of liquor and not knowing hes drunk
he says shit like "if she cheats there's a reason," says that shes the best looking girl hes seen around here and now talks about how he would never do something like go after a girl whos in a relationship and talks down about people who see girls as objects... talks about how we both have very different taste in women. honestly its a bit too much on every spectrum
>>768517564
Are you fucking baked? Or are you not capable of getting your thoughts across coherently? I know I lack in that department often, but this comes across intentionally obtuse or just stream of consciousness.
>>768517889
He's not wrong about reasons for cheating. He's very correct. Also sound like he's pouring his heart out and making his intentions clear. You are aware women eat that shit up, right?
Let's recap since you seem confused. He actually seems to understand women better than you despite you saying he doesn't know how to talk to them. She's the best looking local girl according to him. He knows to keep it in his pants. That being said he plans on being there for her if you treat her wrong or life throws her some heavy shit. He's nice and flirts with her to let her know the option is there if she ever needs to take it. Way I see it, everything is good and there's really no issue. Everything hinges on you not fucking things up and also being her rock when life gets overwhelming.
Cheers and get over this it's not as huge of a deal as you made it out to be.
>>768507293
Then he is not a friend you faggot.
>>768517564
Holy shit OP is not a faggot at all
>>768517889
lmfao. You actually lack so much self awareness that I hope your bitch gets taken.
>>768519137
Actually he doesn't really understand that it's appropriate to compete for women so I told him that he doesn't need to feel guilty about pursuing her (This was a while back in the very beginning of me getting to know her).
But now he doesn't really see how we're together now but I guess it's hard for him to see because he's just the type to keep doubting himself when it comes to relationships with women.
apart from your are you fucking baked comment id say you are right
what do u even mean ami fucking baked? what kind of a response is that
>>768519137
I'm aware he confided this to you not her. Doesn't negate the fact women eat that up.
In fact if it ever comes to cheating he will express his conflicted heart to her. Which in the moment will most likely cause her to comfort him by cheating with him. Take as old as time.
>>768519590
you sound like a scared little goy whop thinks that some kind of slip up like cheating has any meaning in the long run
to see other men who would cheat with your girlfriend as some kind of bulky heroes who are leagues beyond you
if some guy fucked my girlfriend, the act itself would prove that he is much lesser than i am, so much so that i could not possibly regard him as someone who could threaten my relationship with my girlfriend
the length of time i waited for her i would imagine that she wouldn't resort to petty shit like fucking my friend, why would i date a woman like that
>>768519558
This selection.
"But honestly man you thinking that someone who does this is a rival is a mistake. We are all children in the eyes of someone greater. All people have desires and needs and at some point you need to realize that to this guys parent's eyes he is just a confused child who needs people to be kind to him. It doesn't mean I'd let him bother my girlfriend but I think it's good to see the situation in a good light. I think it's important to see these situations as they really are, you are the father who needs to behave appropriately and see people for who they really are in the context of the world."
If you're not alone. Literally have anyone read that and see if they either can even understand it or know exactly what you mean. Sue me I can't be bothered to look up greentexting because I only ever lurk and this thread is one of the few times ever posting. Btw last post, I've given you more than enough to either fix your situation or mindset. It's on you now to use it.
>>768520225
yeah i dunno mate if you think thats retarded then i couldnt possibly consider any of your suggestions
also i stand by >>768519904
really you're the type of guy that people really hate and your life is gonna implode if u keep it up
