Other lucky anons try to help sadbro's with a good advice.
i barely speak to females
She stops being the girlfriend once you put the ring on her finger. That's why I don't have one.
high 2/10 - low 3/10 face. Women hate my face. i'd need 10 million dollars+ to have a gf in burger land
>>768403896
My last gf cheated on me and is pregnant. I don't want to raise another mans seed
>>768403896
100% of the time the only females with a decent personality have greasy hair; a fucking deal breaker
I suffer from gynophobia
I don't actually 'go after' women because I'm scared of actual intimacy.
>>768404345
How do you know it's not yours?
>>768404500
She admitted she let the guy cum inside her, a week later she got early pregnancy symptoms. The morning after failed her.
Last time we had sex was before her last period.
>>768403896
No one seems to like me for some reason
>>768404500
Well obviously, he did a DNA test.
I dont have enough time for a girlfriend, school, work and trying to get in shape combined with smoking a fuckton of weed. Also all the girls in my area are either really dumb or really ugly
>>768404610
Did you love her? How did you find out?
im a 1/10 guy with a shit job that i might lose soon. and i have trust issue
>>768403896
Autism
she dating someone else
>>768403896
They are not worth the effort imo. I don't want to have to talk to them.
I tolerate the women my friends have but I would never willingly be around them if it wasn't for my friends. They have nothing of worth to say and generally dumb down any conversation they are involved in. Although it is a little fun to tease them, like you would a child I mean.
I no longer see any inherent value in wasting attention, time and money on anyone but myself. Love and sex are fine for those who find them necessary, but my desire for both is dead after five years of solitude. I now consider friendships and romantic relationships more of a burden to my happiness than a benefit.
Im a decent looking guy but every time i want to speak to a girl i just cant.i make all kinds of movies in my had and i just quit
I really need help...
(I've talked with girls before but every time they started it)
I fixate on girls that I am familiar with. I go after girls whose hearts I broke in the past expecting them to just forgive me because i can hardly hold a conversation with a girl I've never met before.
>>768403896
I have nothing to offer in the relationship but money, and im not interested in someone who is only interested in my money
>>768403896
Came to the realization that women are cunts and are not worth my time, too busy right now working and making money while enjoying personal hobbies.
>>768405207
>being this far in denial
How would you know those kinds of relationships are a burden if you haven't experienced one in five years.
>thinking your attention and time are more valuable than any other person's
You sound like a grade-A egomaniac.
Stop being such a miserable edgelord. It bleeds into your rhetoric and makes you sound like you're trying to be some melancholy antihero.
>>768403896
i'm gay
>>768404850
Yep I did. I had my suspicions from how she was acting.
Then she said she was having an itchy vagina and I asked her about it. Eventually I confronted her and she caved.
Only thing I'm worried about is her lying to everyone and say it's mine like I'm some deadbeat father. She has an image to maintain.
>>768405267
Practice man practice.
You will be amazed how fast you can gain or lose socal skills.
Recently got in a bit of a slump not depressed or anything just no need to go out. Roommate moved out just didn't really interact with anyone on a personal level for 3 or so months. Start having alkward interactions. Realise make an effort to hang with friends every 3 or 4 days socal skills return.
Friends with benefits. She doesn't want a relationship. Good enough for me. I get physical and emotional support while she buys her own drinks.
Because after two years she decided she wasn't in love with me anymore and cheated on me with, then left me for, a guy who lives three states away she's only known for a couple months.
On the bright side, I've been on a few dates with a qt from my college.
>>768405823
>>thinking your attention and time are more valuable than any other person's
>You sound like a grade-A egomaniac.
But my own personal time is the most important, im on MY time not some companies time.What i do with MY time is the most important, why would i want some superfical thot causing me nothing but problems in exchange for some bland sex where she dosent even move and wasting my money on her luxaries?
I've been on a big slump for the past six months ever since my last GF left me. I've tried Tinder, asking girls out in person, etc. but I haven't had any luck. I don't have much confidence when talking to girls. I've been working out these past few months and improved myself in other ways (got contacts instead of glasses, for one), but it hasn't helped much. I really do want a GF and it sucks being a virgin. It does drive me mad knowing that there are guys out there getting easy pussy every second of the day.
>>768403896
I do have one, but soon ill have none cuz im deeply insatisfied every time I realize my current gf is not a submissive hentai loli, just a regular horny girl addicted to normal sex with my dick. Shit man, how cares about a relationship if its not a sex driven master-slave thing. Anyone can like you, but how many of them can do anal while drinking their own piss?
>>768405823
>How would you know those kinds of relationships are a burden if you haven't experienced one in five years.
Because I've had enough serious friendships and relationships throughout high school into my mid-20's to see that I get nothing out of spending my time with others. If anything I feel drained and depressed when I do.
>thinking your attention and time are more valuable than any other person's
This implies that I assume I'm above everyone. I acknowledge the fact that at best I'm average in every way. I don't think that my time and attention are somehow more special than anyone else's.
The question is why would I play a game that I get nothing out of? I've seen the rewards and they don't match the effort, in my opinion.
I don't mean to sound like the antihero from some neckbeard's anime. but why judge me for living a lifestyle that doesn't harm anyone? I might sound miserable because miserable people sound like me, but the reality is that I'm now more content than I've been my whole life.
I generally am a social recluse who enjoys being alone.
To be fair I'm usually happier when I around others but I seem to actively go out of my way to sabotage relationships (both genders, mates and GF's) just so I can be alone.
To put it in perspective, a mate rang me earlier. Pretty sure it was an invite either to his house or the pub. Didn't answer the phone coz I would rather sit on my fat ass in my shit tip of a living room chatting shit to strangers on the internet.
I sometimes get motivated and start searching for a potential partner on POF. I'm pretty good at getting the conversations started but then about 4 messages or so into the conversation I'll get bored and stop putting the effort in conversation subjects or just not even bother messaging back at all.
I'm my own worst enemy and... best friend.
Doesn't help that I have a social anxiety and shyness around new people which makes me opt for not meeting them at all because it's easier? Totally fine at socializing with people I already know but new people and my tongue falls out.
Most girls that I live around are Muslims.
>>768407788
Where do you live?
I'd still hit that with some protection bro
>>768405035
Google testosterone diet
1gram/kg/day protein
Jim wendler 531
1g/10kg/week weed
No other drugs except caffeine
Read a book, then another
If ur poor or got some retard shit going on in ur life, try to be nice to girls, lower standards until u r hitting XP macros. Either establish contraception contract or don't cum. Also keep a roof over ur head
Cock is only 7" and I'm probably autistic. Also slightly overweight.
>>768403896
to shy to go to a bar alone, and I usually have something blow away my confidence before I get the chance to do it. Like a qt was giving me the, I want you to talk to me look Thursday, but I maybe a half hour before that fucked up at work and was too self conscious to think of anything to say. I was waiting for food on my way home from work, to specify.
I cant easily connect with girls where i see them worthy of being gf material. But when i encounter someone that really fits me its allllways the ones with a bf. I guess thats why they are so great or else they wouldnt have a bf. And because of my retardedness to be quickly confident with women, some other more confident beta takes away the girl im into.
>>768405933
>caring about your image being destroyed by a whore
I think she'll look bad if someone asks and you just go she cheated and I don't date cheaters.
Im literally a fag
#1 my standards are way too high. I See a girl i like every 2 month.
#2 i dont really have the drive. Sometimes i think a GF would be great, on another day i think its useless, because i will never be happy
#3 dont have the social relations to the Kind of girl i want to Meer
#4 shy when it comes to relationships
>>768408459
fag
>>768408524
I know I literally said it
>>768408590
fag
>>768408469
When is a standard too high? I mean i feel like everyone wants to fuck everybody around me. But i just want 1gf 1person to turn to when im down just 1
>>768403896
Baby mom is having problems with her fiancee. I think I have real potential as a family man.
>>768408678
I always find some annoying shit in every person
So i never give myself the Chance of meeting someone.
If i look at the girls i met and never gave a chance i think i am fucking stupid
I have 7/10 face but average IQ and shitty personality.
>>768408678
I have the opposite problem. I'll fuck anything with a pulse but they never amount to GF material.
Work in progress. Gf sounds underaged.
>>768408459
feg
>>768408459
FAGGOT DETECTED!!!
>>768408927
I just see the gf material in 1 girl every year not sooner and i strongly believe that they arent even 8+/10 for others but for me they seem perfect
>>768403896
I think they're a waste of money, mental effort etc. I find most women to be very uninteresting and have hobbies like shopping or hanging out with friends or other variations of no actual skills. The smart career driven ones I've met expect men who make a lot of money (more than they do) and think they are God's gift to men since they are so strong and independent. Overall I think they are also very deceitful from my past dealings with them and they are also not faithful to any real degree if something better walks by them. I've seen too many do this and kind of realized most think this way. I've come to assume it's biologically derived behavior. I have sex with women but I don't date them at this point in my life since it's much less headache.
I'm a fat piece of shit
I wanna PS an image. Instead of going and searching for a thread how about I ask the loveable losers in this thread?
Give me an Image or 2 that you want PSing and I'll do my best to deliver. FYI I've spent alot of time using GIMP so PS feels abit new again but I'm sure I'll pick it back up pretty quickly.
>be me
>lives in a religious country
>schools are divided to boys only and girls only
>don’t have a lot of female friends
That’s enough i guess?
i've sabotaged every chance i've ever had with women. i don't know why. i just suck i guess.
girl was hitting on me and when i asked her out she said yes. she texts me after school that she can't date me because of her parents. MFW
>>768409837
Know this feeling
I have no social life or hobbies, and I'm intensely insecure about my appearance.
I should probably get my shit together. I'm about to finish a grad program at a top 50 university, I've lived all over the world, and I'm starting to get fit. I guess I just need to stop wasting so much time, and pursue my interests.
As we speak, I'm on campus working, avoiding a party I was invited to. And by "working," I mean posting on 4chan, watching YouTube and Netflix, and slyly browsing porn that I'm not fapping to because I'm trying NoFap for the millionth time.
>>768409570
Can't fault you mate. I'm 28 and the fuck and chuck method has been serving me well up until now.
Unfortunately, I'm starting to think I need to find someone to settle down with sometime soon.
xoxo
Autistic but still rate me. Specifically my face. Idk why I haven't been in a relationship in a while... I guess I'm too addicted to videogames to even pay attention to girls. Plus I figure I have to actually have to start putting on weight and exercising.
>>768409919
shit sucks man
hate myself
fuck my life
>>768410098
Fuck settling down. I'm a guy. I can fuck younger girls for a very long time if I want to and I will. Plus I look younger than my age and I am young (23). I can probably keep this game up until I'm 35 or older if I stay good looking and in good shape. Especially when I earn 6 figures a year. If I meet a keeper fine but most I've met were trash from all backgrounds and walks of life. Some good ones are out there but they're pretty fucking rare.
Also, I'm sick of how primitively many of them think and act. Most of what they do is very caveman logic in dating and it's really frustrating since it feels like I'm dealing with a child.
>>768410186
I'm a straight guy, but you're easily a 7 or 8. The problem is, with female sexuality it's as much about dominance and leadership as it is about appearance, and I can tell you haven't developed yourself in those areas.
You have all you need in terms of natural appearance. Now you just need to find real world hobbies and exercises to get into, to develop yourself a little. I know as an autistic person the exercises might not come naturally, but just find one thing you like and stick with it, whether it's hiking, running, weight lifting, boxing, or whatever.
A combination of doing nothing that enables me to meet new people, being overly picky, and avoiding employment. Despite this, in the past (5+ years ago) I have had a small handful of instances of girls showing interest in me seemingly out of nowhere, but I've never been interested in any of them (excluding people I've talked to online because who counts that shit). In the extremely rare cases where I've been able to talk to a girl that I might like on a semi-regular basis though, I've been a coward and waited too long to make an advance. Going hand-in-hand with that, I am way too good at waiting--to a huge fault where I am pretty much just wasting away now for no real reason.
I'm pretty sure that's basically all there is to it, but that has been the case for like 15 years straight. I'm at a point now where I just try not to think about it anymore lest I risk crying myself to sleep indefinitely.
>>768410052
What is the point/motivation of doing NoFap? Is there any concrete scientific evidence that this is beneficial or is it all speculation and sentiment?
I hate women and I am not a faggot. This leaves no option to me other than being single.
>>768403896
I'm old, don't have money and poor health.
There is only the bottom of the barrel left to scrape for me.
I don't fuck grannies and everything else is barely recognizable as human.
>>768410186
You need to be 18+ to post
>>768403896
Not hunting
>>768410186
Your facial features are pretty attractive, but your haircut is making the top of your head look vastly bigger than your jawline, and as you've already suggested you are clearly underweight. Luckily for you, all of those problems aren't difficult to fix. Good luck man.
>>768410758
I am 18+ though XD
>>768410636
You still have some options. Learn not to hate women, or becoming a faggot are two of them.
>>768403896
Marxist liberal feminist society
>>768403896
I dont have traits that women like such as confidence, succes or carisma (plus im 4/10) so getting a gf mean a lot of effort, so i dont even try.
Because the girl I fell for has massive commitment issues and flits from one thing to the next like it's nothing.
And unfortunately her attention span for me ran out pretty quickly
>>768410597
Yes, but only with the porn part.
Basically, the issue is really overstimulation. We all have sexual urges; by masturbating constantly to novel porn, you're completely relieving yourself of that sexual tension that would otherwise motivate you to go pursue women. If you're masturbating every few days, or every week or couple of weeks, you obviously still have plenty of that tension - that's normal. But if you're doing it every other day to more than once a day, you feel none of that sexual tension.
The other issue is desensitization. After a while of heavy porn use, a naked girl no longer makes you horny; you need more than that to stimulate you. I actually had this with an old girlfriend - she was sitting on the bed naked, and I saw that she had an amazing body and was beautiful, but I wasn't sexually aroused. Masturbating less makes that arousal come back.
The other thing is how you interact with women. Frankly, when you've been going on porn binges, you can kind of leer at women, seeing them as just purely sexual objects. Masturbating less reduces that.
It's frankly better to masturbate to imagination or non-pornographic images, but at first it's harder because it's an active, focused process, rather than just passively watching over the top porn.
To demonstrate how heavily into porn I was, I even have the (pic related) to show my favorite pornstars. If anybody benefits from cutting down on porn, it's me.
>>768411265
Trying to reduce porn.
Any tips?
>>768411431
fleshlight and restrain
>>768411538
Why exactly the fleshlight?
>>768411431
A key thing is catching your thought processes. Most of what we do, we do out of habit and routine. A lot of times, I can rationalize doing the little things that lead to jerking off - i.e. I just want to glance at a camgirl I like, or I just want to see if an actress has been naked. Then that leads to me searching for more and more, until I'm jerking off to a video. The key is catching yourself when you start, or in the middle of that process.
The other thing is replacing it with something else. It's much harder to choose not to do something, than it is to choose to do something else instead. So, when you feel the urge, think of what you'll do instead, knowing that the urge will pass and go away.
>>768403896
because im a MtF trans but i dont have a bf either
>>768411620
silicone pussy sleeve that's poorly disguised as a flashlight.
>>768411620
Ignore him, he's not me. He's a troll making a joke about rubber vaginas people put on flashlights as a sex toy.
>>768403896
I don't know how to tell my crush I love her without sounding stupid/being laughed off... Any ideas, /b/ros?
>>768411820
"Hey, you want to go to ____(restaurant) for lunch on Friday?"
>>768410186
Ya look aight. You're just a kid and you'll have plenty of bitches. You just need to start working out.
>>768411900
Sure, but where to from there?
>>768411702
You need to start fucking bitches. A female bitches.
>>768403896
Because I'm a faggot and in a 6 year relationship
>>768411667
OK. I was the last 2 weeks completely free of porn. But /b/ just brought me back to it. My porn consume raises always when i have a lot of spare time.
Time i could invest jnto girls, training etc..
>>768411945
Just show her your cock. That'll do.
>>768411945
dunno just talk to her like a normal person and if you cant you need more social interaction
I'm a 23 year old kissless virgin. No idea how to talk to girls and no idea what to do if I ever got a gf. I'm not extremely ugly or autistic, just insecure and inexperienced.
Is it too late for me? I don't want to die alone
>>768411171
Beautiful image.
>>768412120
get a puppy
>>768412120
I lost my virginity at 24, same position as you. It's never too late.
>>768403896
hooker say no
>>768412120
25 year old kissless virgin here, dude; be strong, I tend to work, and I never feel too lonely, so that could help.
>>768403896
>>/r9k/
I am a man that no modern woman wants:
>I want stability
>I am calm
>I am sensual
>I like long walks, theatre, sports, journeys, visitings interesting places instead of partying and alcohol
>I hate clubs etc.
>I want to be in stable, long term relationship
>I like to live in tidy home (I am a man that cleans up and makes home tidy)
>I have some values
Modern women wants only sex, alcohol, clubs, nothing serious. They do not think much in future I am afraid. At least I usually meet that kind of women.
Secondly, I had one 5 year relationship that ended (my first gf, good it ended, I learned a lot), my ex-fiancee... I had to break it as she cheated on me 2 weeks ago. I am fresh after break up.
What is wrong guys? I am 27yo, there are no hopes for me now? Please... What is wrong with me?
>>768412094
Well, I can do social interaction, but how do I tell her I love her?
>>768403896
They cost money and they talk..
>>768403896
I have utterly forgotten how to talk about anything other than serious topics.
I am completely blind to women being attracted to me. They at least have to physically touch be a bunch or be be overly sexually flirty for me to even go "Huh, I wonder if maybe she is into me."
Also I might still be in love with a very unavailable woman.
And I am a little overweight right now, which is really killing my confidence.
Lastly what I want romantically and what I want sexually are drastically different and it is difficult to navigate that when considering women.
Oh, I also commonly have sleep deprivation. That's a big libido killer for me.
>>768412040
For sure. The other thing is, I think the whole idea of NoFap "streaks" is a little misguided, because guys will go a couple weeks without masturbating, then jerk off once, and then they'll feel like they fucked up, and then just start jerking off regularly again. It's better to just think of it as you're cutting down. So, if you jerk off, then instead of feeling like you fucked up, think that okay, now you can't jerk off again for a little while. Because jerking off isn't screwing up; jerking off compulsively is. The other thing is to be clear that you're not screwing up by masturbating; you're screwing up by masturbating TO PORN. Because the thing is, if you're not regularly seeking out porn, then you won't feel the compulsive need to masturbate so much. Porn is the reason why you're masturbating so much.
>>768403896
>tfw no sheep gf
>>768411431
Don't watch porn.
>>768403896
Because she left me, we talked about it and she just wasn't happy, guess i couldn't give her what she wanted. It's still hard to accept that she is gone now and i'll probably never see her again.
>>768404624
>for some reason
>>768412120
29 this year and still a kissless virgin, same position as you. It's definitely too late.
If you find talking to guys easier, try being interested in cocks. Same fulfilment, easier relationships.
I'm married.
>>768403896
I detest the idea of tailoring my personality to live in harmony with another human.
>>768412317
Never do this to a woman. Never love anyone, either.
>>768412550
R A D
Boyfriends are better
>>768403896
She felt bad about leading the other one on.
>tfw no Dillie gf
Ugly, bad at life and would rather be sat at home playing my PC
Femanon here but instead going to say why I don't have a boyfriend.
Pretty much scared of getting hurt, or putting myself all out there and being rejected. Never found someone who I can connect with. Too insecure to understand why someone would even like me. Plus, in general, I like being alone.
>>768403896
I'm not black. Women in 2018 only fuck/date black men.
Before last week: Didn't try hard enough
After last week: Don't try at all
I got a new job, started eating right, started working out, once I got my own shit sorted I will start trying again.
>>768412791
I like being alone too. Honestly, I'd be happy with any girl I was attracted to, who I enjoyed being around and could talk to about my interests. What are your interests? Face?
>>768405891
same
>>768412304
duuur mi only gf left me therefore all women are trash.
they kind of are tho
>>768412393
Thank you so far.
I give my best for the future
I really want to geht horny even looking at avarege women..
>>768412304
Try a dating site if you want that kind of sensible woman now, though I'd personally recommend waiting until you're back in a healthy mentality, then looking for a relationship by normal socializing. There are plenty of women your age who are very much sick and tired of guys who're rambunctious and sex obsessed. You've still got a good 8 years to meet women who aren't desperate. It's pretty obvious to most people that once you get over the break-up emotions you will be fine.
>>768403896
Because weed Mилoшeвић and captain crunch scare normie whores
>>768403896
I'm married.
>>768404346
That would absolutely not be a problem for me just tell her to go bathing or something as is it is that bad it not like its a fixed thing
>>768412972
Sadly. I am quite boring hobby wise. But I have many interests such as fasting, fitness, skin care, self-care, and very interested in the cyberpunk/futurology genre.
>>768410186
just do a goddamn sport and keep yourself busy with productivity, you'll feel a lot better.
>>768403896
because one woman is not enough.
>>768404624
Because you dont seem interesting try to be mysterious and dont be akward also have a passion like playing an instrument (girls love guitars) or something else
tl;dr
Be more interesting
>>768413595
I'm definitely interested in fitness, and cyberpunk is awesome. Do you like Neal Stephenson? Did you see Blade Runner 2049?
You sound cool so far.
>>768404229
get good at oral and they won't care.
learn to be funny and they won't care.
be confident and they won't care.
>>768413646
Lol you can't play sports as an autistic fat adul, retard.
>>768403896
Gods need no gf.
>>768405201
From your Statement i can deduce that your a doughebag
>>768413766
All of these things aren't true. You still have to have that "it" factor and any guy that has more of that will come along soon enough and you'll be stuck as the pathetic cuck you already were.
>>768406559
Ugly ass bitch try lowering your standards
>>768410597
you can fap and look at as much as you want just never get caught
>>768413765
Ha, I don't feel cool. I don't really read books but I do enjoy watching movies. I have been meaning to watch Blade Runner 2049, but I gotta find it online for free... What are some your interests?
I haven't put forward any effort in attaining a girlfriend, and don't feel awful about it.
Driving my mom around and pitching in for our rent is enough for me.
>>768412304
are you retarded? plenty woman want that, you just cant find them at clubs or most social places. you are looking for a diamond. you'd have to look under a rock, aka girls that stay home all fucking day.
>>768407155
Nigga you simply arent attracted to girls anymore because you are a complete masternekbeard get a life looser and stop fapping to r34
>>768412304
>Secondly, I had one 5 year relationship that ended (my first gf, good it ended, I learned a lot), my ex-fiancee... I had to break it as she cheated on me 2 weeks ago. I am fresh after break up.
Dude, you have no idea whats waiting for you lol.
I do though
>>768405201
> it is a little fun to tease them, like you would a child
Did you ever try growing up?
>>768414006
I like studying foreign cultures. I'm getting my Master's in international relations. I also like philosophy, especially zen, in a hobby sense. Starting to get into fitness. I was obsessive with music growing up, so I know a lot about it, but it's honestly now subsiding. I like adventure and sci fi movies and books a lot. I watch a lot of movies.
>>768414225
Meaning what >>768414257
>>768403896
Anti social hermit is why :D
>>768414280
F U C K I N G. G A Y.
I'm selfish and I ghost them when they get too close
>>768403896
Fuck you, that's why.
>>768403896
I honestly don't want one right now. Just got out of a pretty long relationship. Sure the sex would be nice, but I like the idea of being alone for a bit.
>>768406559
> working out
> got contacts instead of glasses
My god, you have NO idea what women really want.
>>768414280
Yeah, I'm still in high school, 1 more month until I graduate. I am also just getting into fitness. I really like sci fi as well. Just curious, what is your biggest fear?
>>768403896
Probably not the best looking guy but have a constant slew of woman usually juggling 2 or 3 often causing problems I also have a proclivity for sleeping with women who have boyfriends AMA
>>768412210
Any tips?
>>768408469
Niggai see a girl i like once in like a year you have plenty of opportunity
Try drugs that surpress anxiety
>>768403896
i found out i actually don't like women
no gay shit,i like other men only at friend level
i am better by myself
>>768411945
Just be yourself and dont be nervous AND dont show to mush of yourself at once keep it dosed you dont want to pack out all the trash
>>768414506
You're not good looking, but you were born with a personality these women like. Guys like the rest of us in this thread will never succeed like you do because we are born as retarded socially inept material for the slaughter.
>>768414495
I think my biggest fear is not achieving or becoming someone or something I want to be. It seems like so many people get to their 40s or 50s, and then they realize they never accomplished what they wanted to. I'm terrified of my life going by, and feeling like I missed out on that kind of development. I want to have a career I'm proud of, and I eventually want a family. My fear is not accomplishing that.
What do you want to do? Or, what do you think you might want to do?
>be me
>high school
>see friends of mine crying on a regular basis because girls
>learn that love stories usually end bad irl
>nevermakethatmistake.jpg
>timeskip
>be me
>university
>meet a girl
>became close friends
>fall in love first time
>scared of ending like hs friends
>willneverhappenme.mpeg
>became a couple
>good times
>timeskip 2.0
>one year later
>we broke
>hurts
>crying like the boys of my high school
>remember my old self
>became my old self
>now I'm just me
>a guy that's alone
>a guy that likes being alone
>a guy who needs nobody
>>768405886
That's gay
>>768403896
She turned into my fiancee
>>768403896
0 self confidence...
Because I'm a lesbian t-girl. My very existance is impossible.
>>768403896
I'm an a-fag
>>768414763
Yes, that is definitely one of my fears, I have been working on that by meditating and listening to motivational videos. However, my biggest fear is dying.
I really want to be an engineer, or at least something in the science field. However, I was so stupid this year that I didn't take any science or math courses because I wanted to be a lawyer earlier. So I have to take some prerequisite courses now.
>>768403896
i need to fix my personal shit first... i don't have a life outside my job.. i don't know how to live ... if it wasn't for my job.. i would have no reason to get out of bed in the morning.. i probably need to address my existential crisis before i could even think about getting involved with a woman
>>768412304
Faggot your delusional you just aren't hanging out with the right people or pic related
>>768408116
>ONLY 7
NANI THE FUCK
>>768414715
I happen to be a schizophrenic introvert. You arent born with a personality its developed, I learn social skills like a normal person would learn chess. Using past experiences of what did and didnt work to simulate and predict. Eventually you learn to read your opponent and can have a better idea of what will and wont work with certain females. The only difference between you and I is probably that I put in the effort and put away the fear. You're not a lost cause
I'm an ugly, fat piece of shit with no car and a crappy job.
>>768403896
Basically, my fiancee left me for a guitarist and I've hooked up twice since then but the women ended up not being relationship material. Now I'm crushing on this one girl but I work with her, she's five years my junior (she's 19), she has a kid on the way, and I don't know how or what to talk to her [about] because when I meet someone I'm actually fond of I tense up and tell myself how worthless I am.
>>768415130
yes, we know. But why don't you have a gf?
>>768415130
I agree none of these thing are game over
>>768415086
That is a small cock as far as women are concerned, beta boi.
>>768415064
That's cool. My recommendation is, don't be intimidated if you realize you have to take an extra year to get that degree - I know when you're 18, an extra year seems like a long time, but later it seems like nothing.
Honestly, based on this you seem like a really cool girl. If I was about 5 years younger, I would've loved a girl like you.
>>768403896
I don't have a girlfriend because my wife won't let me have one
>>768415249
Yes, and everyone knows that a woman can instinctively tell someone's dick size
>>768415087
Predict, adapt, overcome. You are not trying to make friends but defeat an opponent
>>768415087
People are either born as winners or die as failures, buddy. Suck it up, accept it, and move on.
>>768412317
You dont
Thats like a girls that tell you she wants a kid with you on the first date
>>768403896
Still in love with my ex. It wouldn't be fair to date someone else when I can't give them all of me
>>768412495
Faggot
>>768415339
Yes, sometimes I feel like it is such a waste of time but I would rather work hard on something I actually want to do.
Thanks for the compliment!
Time, money and effort. Something I don’t give myself enough of so why should I give it too someone else.
I am going to bed now.
>>768410052
Damn that's just a better version of my situation. I go to a non-top 50 Uni and fail at least 1 class every semester cuz no motivation and same for all the rest but on day 140 of nofap
>>768412550
Actually thats half decent advise
Love drove me nutts (literally
>>768415529
oh and also haven't been around the world. Never even left the US.
>>768415351
By your personality and generally how you carry yourself a woman can tell if you have an ideal package. If you don't have something 9"+ then good luck keeping a girl for more than a few days.
>>768414876
So does everyone else. What makes you different?
>>768415366
That makes sense as you can be born a winner and still die a failure or you can be born a failure and pull yourself up by identifying and correcting weakness. Self analysis and correction is only beyond the people not willing to put In the effort
>>768403896
Girlfriends are for faggots.
>>768415395
Fair enough, but will she get the basic message that we're not just hanging out?
>>768412791
Tits or gtfo
>>768403896
i'm married.
>>768403896
Why do I need one the first place?
>>768415603
>doesnt make sense*
>>768410461
Stop giving him false hopes, he's a 6 at best. He looks malnourished, pale and has a bad haircut.
>>768403896
She hasn't woken up yet.
>>768415584
Only two percent of the world population has a 7+ inch dick so your statement is retarded
>>768403896
Came out of a bad relationship that nearly ruined me. took me some time to recover. i'm dating again but haven't started anything real yet.
>>768415584
>By your personality and generally how you carry yourself a woman can tell if you have an ideal package
fucking kek. I thought 4chan didn't buy into buzzfeed quizes
>>768403896
I am going to enter a seminary.
>>768412791
i would love you
>>768412791
Sounds like the perfect girlfriend for me
Still you know the rules tits or gtfo
>>768404610
you know you shoulda really looked htis shit up beforehand. There are no first week pregnancy symptoms because there is no pregnancy in the first week. It takes 3-4 days just for fertilization to occur, another 3 for the zygote to roll down into the uterus and another 5 after that for implantation to take and the yolk sac to start developing. Typically there are no signs of pregnancy besides the missed period until about 6 weeks into it. Which is why when most girls find out they're pregnant they're usually 6-8 weeks into it already.
>>768403896
I don't go out or have a job
>>768415242
Girls dont want to date me, I guess. I'm socially awkward. I've tried tinder and other dating apps
>>768415603
No if you're a small-cocked pathetic autist with no social skills or you're too inept for sports or just normal human living, then you'll be that way forever. Whether you try to make yourself feel better by bagging every how you can make a pass at or not, you'll still feel like the piece of shit you always were.
>>768415749
Yes, however, I push everyone away. I don't even have close friends, so I doubt I will ever let myself have a boyfriend.
>>768415756
I'm not leaving, now what?
>>768415819
Just lower your expectations. Even if it's a 90 yo cripple, there's a girl just for you
>>768403896
STATE YOUR BUSINESS
>>768415883
Oh Shit!
>>768415828
You're only beyond help because you think you are and have given up on yourself
>>768412304
Sounds like you want a boyfriend, bumder
>>768415959
Yeah... awkward
>>768415991
idk, even faggots have standards
>>768415721
2% is still one in fifty guys. Not that rare when you consider that out of the hundreds of guys you know, 2% of them will end up banging your girl by being more of a man in every way than you.
>>768403896
I'm anti social and I'm perfectly fine being alone it's the way I prefer it I'm not a fan of people.
>>768405886
Lucky basterd
I gotta deal with all this shit
>>768403896
Because I'm too picky for an ugly cunt
>>768413595
Bitch go kill youself your basic as fuck
Just joking but you are still undesirable to me (skin care? SKIN CARE?! Please tell me you are a dermatologist!)
Get a guy that likes that cyberpunk stuff too you will get the best out of it
>>768413716
>muslim spoke
>>768415980
I haven't given up on shit lmao I'm just not concerned with fighting a losing battle. Let t
>>768415819
So not having a job or car makes internet dating tricky because they are all on the lookout for that from the get go. I would suggest going somewhere where you dont know anyone and practicing talking to girls you dont know to work up confidence the one this you sadfags have in common is lack of confidence if you dont have it, fake it. If you cant fake it gonna have to build it from the ground up. As soon as you think you're a lost cause you are
>>768411900
Never works. Stacies will always be too busy, no matter what time of week/month/year, every single time and when you ask if they'll be available anytime in the future, "I don't know." And then they just ghost you until they have a new bf they can somehow find the time for.
>>768413595
>>768413765
>>768414006
>>768414280
When did this become a dating website
>>768403896
No sex drive and I'm not attracted to anyone.
Plus I promised someone if I was to date someone it would be her
>>768414460
Fat ugly cunt detected
>>768416302
And if you're already on /b/ then you've clearly given up.
>>768416227
That's giving up. No one can help you if you dont help yourself, you are saying you are born with these problems and pretend they cant be fixed but you're just too lazy or scared to do shit about it
>>768415883
Now you are classified as a pretendfag with trasissues
>>768416428
I'm on /b/ and I have more problems with trying to juggle women or not fucked married women then I do getting them.
>>768416319
Really? Because that's literally been my "strategy" for the last 4 years, and I've never been turned down. At worst, if there isn't chemistry then I just wind up as friends with the girl because we hung out. And no, I'm not amazing-looking - I'm about a 6.5.
tbh you sound like an incel or a robot
>>768414280
Thats the male version of basic bitch
>>768415584
Says the anon with a cock that is 4 inches or smaller.
>>768416321
I'm not looking to date, we are just simply having a conversation.
I usually hook up with married chicks or girls with boyfriends. So that kind of restricts them from being my gf
>>768416428
Dont believe the stereotypes that have been assigned to us
>>768416139
What's wrong with liking skin care? I just want clear skin, maybe you can't understand.
>>768416685
how so?
>>768403896
wife and children, By the wany - with girlfriends is like with job- you must try and try 100 times, and you surely find it.
>>768416494
>trasissues
First of all, what?
>>768416588
You're absolutely right and that's why I am able to say that. My dick is so small women don't feel bad to be honest about what they look for in cocks to me when they see my pathetic poker.
>>768413755
I actually look pretty good, decent physique, plus I have a pretty big cock and am good at fucking. But I lack confidence (it's all psychological, but it's still hard to overcome), and am pretty boring. I've tried and failed at music, sports, etc. The one hobby I'm pretty good at is drawing, but that doesn't really bring the ladies in. Thanks to my natural physical attributes I'm able to get laid pretty regularly, but the women never stick around for more than a few weeks. It used to be months, but then online dating became socially acceptable so they're off looking for a new cock to ride in 2 or 3 weeks on average now. They get bored with me. Getting fresh pussy a few times a month is nice, but I'd like a permanent girlfriend now, actually. I'm pushing 40 and the pickings are getting slimmer. Last year I met an awesome girl who I really thought I was gonna marry. She was really interested in me, also liked to draw and thought my art was awesome. She even introduced me to her friends. Then after 4 weeks, she suddenly lost interest and was gone. That one really sucked.
tl;dr Unless you have a commanding presence and charisma, getting a (hot) girl to stick around is impossible
>>768416775
Nah, it's cause you smell like shit. Learn how to take a fucking shower
>>768415130
Yea but so am i and i happen to habe been in a relationship for six months until February
>>768416584
No. The genres of music I like are things like crust punk, hard bop, and ambient. I lived in West African villages for 3 years with the Peace Corps. My thesis is on reconciliation in Sri Lanka. I study zen for focus and empowerment - I'm very ADD - and I like some kind of fringe philosophers, like Dogen, Max Stirner, and Joseph Pierre Proudhon. I like the speculative fiction writers in sci fi, notably Neal Stephenson and Margaret Atwood (late era).
None of this is worth bragging about, but all of it is fringe, to the point of being isolating - not too many people I can relate to.
If you do still think I'm basic bitch, though, then please tell me what isn't basic bitch.
>>768414317
Bad joke on my end. I have no gf but I have a Yui body pillow that I carry around with me everywhere. I don't even do anything sexual with her, but you know the connotations these things have.
>>768416842
I bathe regularly I just have a very small penis and I can accept the fact that no lady wants to put something they can barely see into themselves.
>>768416652
Now my question is are you that gay looser or the hollow basic box of a girl
>>768415584
Swear to god, every girl I've ever been with says I've got the biggest dick they've ever seen in person. But I'm boring as fuck (and know it) so even though they love fucking me for a few weeks, they're out the door pretty quick
>>768416973
Do you show them your penis before dating them? Literally no way to know before sex
>>768416797
Confidence can be gained charisma can Be learned the overall problem in this thread is fear or unwillingness to try. Every conversation with a girl can be boiled down to a combination of things you say or do that open her legs read your opponent
>>768416441
Not scared, lazy maybe. But I also don't want to have to change myself just to find a woman because it looks better socially to have a maybe. I like myself whether women do or not so why should I care?
>>768417004
> The "hollow basic box of a girl"
>>768416707
That it isnt a hobby it is.., that do you even call that shit its like saying "i like bathing"
>>768403896
because three failed relationships and an ever increasing recreational drug habit stops me from forming a solid relationship base.
Ill be lucky if HOI4 wins
https://www.strawpoll.me/15686592
>>768417070
Lmao no it has to get to the sex point or at least trade pics first, obviously.
>>768417120
What about changing yourself just to better yourself is that also out of the question?
>>768417160
>drug habit
kek, addict
>>768417245
kek, faggot
I never said it was a hobby, but an interest.
i have zero self confidence but if i wasn't a pussy i could probably have one
>>768403896
I'm fairly average/ okay looking. I was always awkward in high school and didn't lose my virginity until I was 20 in college. The trick is to stop giving a fuck about women. I know that sounds cliche but I didn't meet my 10/10 asian qt wife (who is a doctor here in the U.S.) until I became happy with myself. I wasn't trying to get a gf, I just wanted to travel and have fun on my own time. Pic related.
>>768417138
Oh fuck, didn't reply to you.
I never said it was a hobby but an interest... again.
>>768417120
I've had alot of irl friends that were oldfags over weight or didnt have the confidence to talk to women I've given alot of advise and any of them the listened and worked bettered their selves which made them more confident and more appealing to the opposite sex. I'm not hear to put you down I'm just sharing knowledge with /b/rothers that want it
She´s married and with 2 kids, i don´t wanna be a homewrecker
>>768416943
Good you win
>>768417414
You sound like a good friend, anon
>>768417442
The fact that she's still the "she" on your mind is a problem. Not that I'm judging - that happens to everyone - but you're wasting time if she's the one on your mind.
>>768417378
"Hello my name is anon my intressts are bathing"
>>768417376
Asian doctor? You've gotta have money too, right? No way just confidence alone would attract that.
>>768417524
I have my moments
>>768417442
Be the homewreker or forgett her no other option
