My last 5 ex girlfriends have married the guy they dated right after me. AMA
>>768363502
OP?
lol nah. white. 8 inches pushing 9 w/ above average girth. that would be the last reason. confused af
>>768363502
Sounds like a shitty dane cook movie
>>768363502
You can turn that talent into a service lmao
>>768363502
How the fuck does that even happen ?
>>768364674
dude i couldnt even tell you. thats why im here. im trying to figure this shit out
>>768364583
not a bad idea lol but it pisses me off no lie
>>768364582
dont talk shit about dane cook
>>768364582
.!!.,
>>768364821
If i were in your shoes man, i'd be having a serious existential dilemma
>>768365278
I am. not on any an hero shit but ready to give up and just fuck. Never put pressure on any of em n gave em plenty of room. HELP ME
all oc
>>768365592
fuck forgot pic
>>768365433
That's probably it anon, u should have probably laid down the hammer on what u want out of said relationships. All of my exes (reffering strictly to long term) ended up waaay worse than when they were with me. A neverending cycle of "awww can't we just try again?". Fuck no. But it would probably be beneficial for you to get a couple of friends with benefits. Wait it out n have some fun while ur at it. and on top of that u have some dedent fun. No harm, no foul.
>>768363502
fucking shit. are you me?
>>768363502
I mean, are you trying to get married, anon?
Sounds like a lot of dodged bullets to me.
Real talk, though, if your women are rushing to get married after dating you, it's probably either because they aren't over you, and think a deep commitment to a new relationship might help that. Or, more likely, you were so repulsive, that they wanted to get out of the dating scene as fast and as permanently as possible.
>>768363502
Do you wipe back to front?
>>768366261
takes a special kinda guy to be that repulsive tho. i'm guessing the first scenario would be more likely
>>768366105
great approach. I'll be more vocal. I appreciate space, and I had a couple stage five clingers early on. think that offset me to give them too much space. I owe you
>>768366130
we should be friends
>>768365150
More please, also divorce rate is at like 50% don't get so hung up on the short term. Marriage is just validation for idiots or for gain
>>768366415
No one female likes a guy that gives them TOO much space. At the end of the day what u say kinda goes anon. I'm not sayin go full hitler on their asses, don't get me wrong. That's just how the whole thing works.
>>768366527
4 on my end, but damn didn't think i'd talk to someone else in the same situation. although tbh i think i was the one who wasn't ready whereas they were def looking.
>>768366568
this anon scored a 3 pointer
>>768366105
>>768366261
Both of deez
I sort of had this happen. Sort of just better being single for a bit. Just don't whore around too much. I'm having trouble wanting to commit now. Then again she's mentally abusing at times, but that's for another thread.
Don't stress it too much OP
>>768366340
Yeah. I'd say first one's on point. I'm brutally honest. have no problem facing the music. Theres something in my game thats obviously off. At the same time though that many women just doesnt happen back to back to back to back to back. im lost
>>768363502
So, you're such an asshole the next guy automatically becomes marriage material by comparison?
>>768363502
Why don’t you want kids?
Or is it you’re just into dating dumb whores who make bad decisions?
>>768363502
more ?
>>768366844
More like he doesn’t want kids, so the girls breaks up with him, gets knocked up and puts the other guy on lockdown.
>>768366844
Maybe. Super laid back. Its really hard to find my fuse. really hard. but if you light that bitch its not my fault
>>768366773
All this bullshit passes in time. Make lots of female friends, go out for a bottle of wine or some shit, make good conversation. It's not like you have to bang them all, but it will sure as fuck make ur game better. But have patience anon, you'll run into said women by accident on the street one day. Make sure that if ur naked and looking down you can still see your dick, dress well, act proper, when asked about your life always make it sound like ur living some fucking dream even if u ain't and trust me: a 5 minute conversation with an ex that is had in the right way will throw her into a black vortex of depression for months.
>>768363502
Have you properly thanked God for sparing you?
>>768366856
yep. thats my weakness. I love women that are sassy af
>>768367146
Has any of them ever said, "why is everything a joke to you?"
You have mentioned you don't want to suffocate them, maybe they feel you don't take the relationship, and most importantly them, serious enough. Then the next guy gives them more pressure/attention, it feels like a "new" thing, which they mistake for different, ultimately thinking it's "True love/soul m8".
>>768363502
You must be so fucking shit that you make other guys look like superman by comparison.
>>768367436
not at all.
Probably have a point there
>>768367236
Best advice ive heard in a long time. preciate you.
sorry for the low quality on this one
>>768363502
How did they end?
I'd be willing to bet it's a form of regret in their end, and basically not wanted to end up "downgrading" any further. The wall is a powerful thing.
>>768367611
cant rule anything out at this point
>>768368063
You'll be just fine OP. Enjoy life mate! It's too fucking short to let others fuck it up for u. Keep that advice in mind. And with this i bid you farewell.
>>768363502
same kinda shit happens to me except it's not marriage it's usually just an extremely long-term relationship with a kid in the mix.
I'm hard to control and manipulate so I figure it's overcompensation for a lack of control in our past relationship. like my ex-partners tend to go for men who're clearly easy to control, needy, have mummy issues or whatever.
so yeah I think being with me makes them feel like they have no control generally, so they go for men they can control afterwards.
>>768363502
well consider yourself lucky, here is a guy who is sexually impotent ama
>>768368252
This. OP needs to remember that these dudes who settled down with his ex-partners will undoubtably be rinsed in the courts at some point for half their shit and then some more. Long-term relationships, living-relationships and marriages are a fool's game today.
Ignore females, acquire currency.
>>768368139
1. stage 5. couldnt breathe
2. in it for the catch. straight sex no substance
3. one that got away even though she was pregnant and had an abortion behind my back. fucked up on both sides huh
4. gold digger
5. kid in a 23 year olds body. didnt realize that until we started to settle
>>768368139
Not always true. Could be any number of things including age / hitting the wall soon so wanting to lock down a "reliable" male ASAP, a control thing 'cause when women can't control one man eventually they give up and move on (which is a good thing), and I could go on and on but it's not always as simple and straightforward as you think.
>>768368597
All relationships are pure sex for resources and no substance. "Substance" is a lie, it's something women employ to keep themselves in a secure position. They used to love their men and family above all else, nothing came close. But now because they have options and little consequences for their actions, they no longer need to keep up the ruse, they can be loveless and still get what they need. Only showing substance, emotion or whatever in a relationship when necessary to lock a man down by making him feel obligation to stay out of not wanting to hurt the woman.
You've probably had a few girls have abortions behind your back. It's extremely common. Girls get pregnant all the time and they don't tell anybody.
All women are gold-diggers. Literally none are any different.
And no females mature mentally past the age of 16-18, they just learn how to hide their immaturity the older they get because to do so is a necessity considering their young pussy doesn't give them a free pass anymore. The older a woman gets, the less she has to offer, so the more desperately she needs to pretend she's "not like the others." Same with single mums too regardless of age because they know they're already used and damaged goods.
>>768368643
Agreed. There's a lot of reasons but if OP wants a common thread between them all then he should start by considering why bitches would get married at his age. Sounds like he's mid-20's, which is when the existential dread sets in and females start making sure they have a relaiable mate. OP just happens to be in the age range is more than likely the case.
>>768368643
so women need to control men? foh
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>>768367395
>Flapjacks
would still hit though.
op my last two chicks both married and divorced the boyfriend's directly after me.
kjjk
>>768368846
Agreed. I'm 28 and can confirm this tends to be the case around this age because women are about to hit the wall or already have, and hard.
Just yesterday I was at my local shopping center and I ran into about a dozen "girls" I went to school with. A couple of whom were absolutely worldies, at least 8/10 each, but now they're a 1-2/10, absolutely fucking massive with 3 kids, looking like they've aged about 30 years in the last 10, and it is absolutely beautiful to witness.
No man in his right mind would ever want to settle down because the eventuality is that no matter how "fit" your bird is, she'll eventually turn into a bitter old hambeast who'll destroy your life if you so much as look at her in the wrong way, not to mention the fact that she'll see sucking your dick as a chore because she'll already have what she wants from you which is financial security.
yes totally
>>768368893
Women have always felt the need to control men because they need protection, provision, safety and security which is where men come in. They used to do this via "love" and sex, now they do this purely via sex, shaming tactics, raw emotional manipulation and finally the looming, ever-present threat of legal action and losing half your shit + more in divorce. Which is why women will always vote for more government, because more government = more interference in relationships, resulting in more punishments for men who don't serve women as they desire.
>>768364582
/thread
>>768368806
yeah. thats thread. preciate all you. gonna sit on this for a while. helped me more than you know. thanks anons. make b/ great again
>>768369927
Be strong bro. Don't seek companionship from women at all. Seek it from fellow men. We're all brothers, we've just forgotten this, and women are our enemies.
