How do i get my gf to try anal again? We did it a few times when we first started dating, she said it ranged from uncomfortable to abslutely painful. I bought numbing cream and better lube, but she hasn’t let me try again in almost a year.
How do i get her to try again and how do i get her to like it?
Bamp
give her two choices
>let me fuck you in the ass, now
>pack your shit and leave
>>768287921
Then she might pack her shit and leave, and that’d be worse.
>>768287921
This
>>768287470
just stop taking porn that seriously.
are there women out there who enjoy back door knocking? Sure! But you can happily ignore the number. Most of them don't like it, to say the least.
>>768287960
So them just accept that she doesn't like it and quit bugging her. Or if it's that important to you, leave her and find a woman who is into it. These are your two options.
>>768287470
3th Option Rape her butt
>>768287470
my gf enjoys anal, came in her ass, etc.
You need to have her relax her sphincter; and you need to go slow initially, because it takes some time. Depends on how big your dick is too
>>768288187
> 3th
Kek
>>768288221
Was she into it before you started doing it? Like, was it a kink she had previously wanted to try? Or did you have to convince her?
>>768288015
you are doing it wrong
Let her penetrate your anus first. You should like it too, biologically speaking even more than her. Maybe then she'll think it's cool to do it.
Some girls just don't like anal, it's a psychological component. But you can't blame them, I mean how many dudes put stuff on their ass? If people don't enjoy it I suggest you move on (i.e: 1)stay with her no anal or 2)leave her find anal girl).
tl;dr: if she doesn't like it's no use, you probably don't like it either, don't push it and if it's important to you find somebody else.
>>768287470
100% GUARANTEE that when you guys break up she will be giving the "new" man anal whenever he whats.
She "has" you so, she feels that she does not need to do anything to keep you. You have been sexually "friend zoned".
I have dated divorced women who often say that that their ex-husbands wanted anal or for them to swallow, they REFUSED, BUT after the divorce they do these SAME actions with guys they have just started "dating".
>>768288917
This.
She just doesn't see you as sexy anymore.
Prepare for a total dead bedroom if you marry her.
>>768287470
My current gf loves anal, will want it in the ass more than regular sex. But my ex wasn't too keen on it. Ive just realized girls are different. Some girls LOVE it, others cant be convinced no matter what. Depends on the person. You cant get your girlfriend to like it, thats like your girl trying to convince you to like getting a finger down your cock hole, you either know you like it, or youre just enduring it for her sake because she loves it. Doesnt work
>>768288917
A good friend of mine married young and his wife got chubby almost straight away. They had issues based on being married when they were young and divorced after about 6 years.
She lost all the weight, started dressing nice when she went out, became really friendly and outgoing. All the things she wasn't when she was married.
People tell her how great she's doing now, especially after a divorce. But if she'd done all the things she's doing now when they were married, they'd probably still be together and happy.
I know this is one-sided and I'm only showing her faults, but the point I'm trying to show is, once the game was won, she stopped playing.
Try some smaller toys/plugs/etc. combine that with clitoral and vaginal orgasms and she’ll love it. Having sex while my wife wears her plug is a guaranteed vaginal orgasm... it makes her feel so dirty that she begs me to spank her ass.
>>768287470
best strategy to get her to like anal is to not fuck it up the first time you try it.
Only option you now have: Become a cuck and let a proper man who knows about sex deal with your gf
>>768288917
Sound post here. My wife was a qt when we got married, in 5 years she went from 120lbs, to over 300lbs. Turned into "Healthy at any size" feminist and refused to even talk about losing weight. I divorced her, so the first thing she does is lose weight to get a new man...
Go figure.
>>768287470
She needs to fit your dick up her butt. You do not push. Until she tells you to.
It's a novelty. I've found that chicks like it a bit too much.
>>768287470
whats with anal anyways? I ve tried it a few times, its a lot of hassle for the girl, and doesnt even feel that good for us either, I never understood why some guys are so into anal
>>768287470
my girl had some random guy in college try and shove it in her ass so he ruined it for me, she freaks out even when a finger goes near her ass
>>768288366
no she had done it before, and used to regularly, but I asked her how it is that she likes it.
Buy one of those bullet vibrators. Have her use it while doing anal. My girlfriend has intense orgasms that way. Makes it good for both parties.
>>768287470
Pussy is the best
>>768289558
it's a domination display over women.
>>768287470
If she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it... You're not going to change that, anon...
>>768289558
dominance rush like no other. Once it stops being painful and awkward the first couple times, being able to go full force and make your girl cum through her arse is magical, and you feel like a goddam king
>>768289510
You still did the right thing anon
>>768289390
It is like your boss not giving a raise in years, you go out and get a new job, when you go and tell your old boss you are quitting he says "I don't want to see you go how about a 25% raise"
DUMB ASS FUCKER if you had given me the raise earlier I would not have had to go and get a new job. AND he will give the new guy MORE pay than you had!
Women are the exact same way. If you are serious about a long term relationship then you get 100% all her BEST... ask yourself if Brad (Fucking Millionaire) Pitt wanted to bang her ass, would she do it. FUCK YES she would.
YOU deserve her best.
>>768289558
Because it's degrading to women
>>768289744
bullshit. if I had a dollar for every girl that "didn't like it" and then changed idea when I tried I would have.. like.. 4 dollars? Well, you get the point
>>768289582
Same!
>>768289782
got a link to these stories, I really like them
>get a new christian virgin 19yr old gf
>never done anything before
>1 month in we fucking multiple times a day
>2 months in I'm fingering her ass
>3 months in full anal pounding
>4 months in she calls me daddy and begs me to claim her ass with my cum
get yourself a religious virgin, it's the fucking best
>>768289891
the worst she "didnt mind it at the time" with a random dude but refuses with me
>>768289925
Sorry but no, this is the last one I got.
If you can't leave her just don't fuck her at all (ofc find other gf to fuck for that time)
>>768290015
>the worst she "didnt mind it at the time" with a random dude but refuses with me
You are not worth it.
You have been sexually friend zoned
She WILL do anal, but not with you!
>>768290229
100% sure
>>768290015
Mine at least minded. He just pushed his finger in her hole.
Now she gets hysterical if I try anything.
It's dawned on her that she's dating a faggot
>>768290337
she said they were doing it bent over and the guy just pulled out and tried to push it in her ass until she couldn't take the pain
a chick that doesn't want it is like trying to make a kid eat spnach
>>768287470
rape?
Roofies
>>768287470
>how do i get her to like it?
turn her into a powderhead whore you betafaggot
you should probably buy her a toy and a bottle of lube and stop thinking about getting your dick in there, at least for a good while
then when she's comfortable try again
>>768287470
That’s why God created traps
>>768287470
Anal sucks, bro. There's so much less feeling than in the vagina. I don't think I'll ever manage to cum in an asshole.
My GF was very reluctant to anal in the beginning. I told her it's still something I want to do since it's one of my kinks. In time she started to be okay with letting me touch her bumhole when I was going down on her. The key is positive reinforcement, always have either her or you touch her clit when you're in contact with her asshole. Seriously, this is basic psychology.
We've never really used toys or anything, just plenty of lube. Just start with some gentle touching/penetrating lightly with my fingers whilst stimulating her clit. After some time she will relate anal stimulation with positive sexual stimulations which is one of the core things in performing anal. I find the easiest way is to do it missionary with a cushion or something below her lower back to raise her up. Then just use a lot of lube and take it extremely slow. Her sphincter has to relax in order for it not to hurt. Just apply some light pressure and have her rub her clit during the process. Kissing and very intense contact is key here. Stop if it hurts and then resume when she's started to relax.
She's actually preferring anal at this point (about 3-4 years since we did it the first time) and we actually rarely have vaginal sex anymore. It's like 9/10 times we do anal since it's just easier for her to cum and I don't really mind. Vaginal objectively feels better on my dick but I have an anal fetish so I don't mind at all.
I don't know how to talk a girl into it (I've done it before, but I don't know what part of what I said did it), but I do know this: generally speaking, deeper and rougher is less painful than "just the tip" and going real slow.
I used to date this girl Andrea who was kinda borderline. She let me do it once or twice, but she was never really into it. Then one night we were out of town (I think we were in Savannah, GA) and get got a little sloppy drunk. We were flirting like we just met the whole night, and she started with the whole "you can do whatever you want to me" before we left the bar.
We went back to our hotel and (me being pretty drunk, too) I just pounded the hell out of her ass. She told me later that I made her cum. A few days later, she actually asked me to fuck her ass for the first time. I started slow and easy like I usually had done, but she straight up told me that she wanted it more. After that, we did it regularly.
Another girl I dated had learned to like it before we met. When we were first flirting, she straight up told me that anal was way better when it was deep and hard.
Yet another girl told me she hated anal sex, but liked anal dildos. When we finally had sex, she told me I could fuck her ass. I later found out her ex had a pretty small dick, whereas mine was about the same size as her dildo.
My wife is pretty much the same. One night I had whiskey dick and was fucking her ass slow and easy and she told me it hurt. Another night, I got carried away and was straight up piledriving her, and she enjoyed it even after she came the first time (usually, she can't stand anything, vaginal or anal, after she cums and has to suck me off for a bit till she resets).
So my best advice is to try to replicate the first experience I described above. Get her to a point where she will let you go deep and hard, and then do it. It might very well teach her to enjoy it. If that doesn't work; just resign yourself to only getting anal on your birthday, I guess.
A lot of women do and say things at the beginning of a relationship that they don’t do or say once the relationship is established. There’s a level of control and dominance and ownership you needed to establish over herbduring the really stages usually it’s in the bedroom. You can be nice ask fuck outside, but in the bedroom, you need to be a different man. You need to show her her body is your play toy. There’s no live. It’s for your enjoyment only to do with as you please. You clearly didn’t do that and now you’ve lost your shot for anal with her forever.
>>768290673
its just so much tighter than a pussy though
>>768290452
Lost it
>>768287470
Women hate being asked, it's super unsexy and lame. Like asking if it would be alright if you kissed her
Here's what you do
>get her drunk
>fuck her from behind
>get your thumb in her ass
>keep fucking her like that
>then simply move up one hole
easy
>>768291007
I bet you are a misogynistic prick.
You're right, though. Asking for anything sexual is not even remotely sexy. Even for a woman:
>Her: Will you please fuck my ass?
>Me: It depends. Are you going to accuse me of rape afterwords?
vs.
>Her: Fuck my as-
>Me: <balls deep in her ass before she even finishes>
>>768291259
Sure, call me whatever
But I assfuck my gf whenever i decide and she always swallos my cum if I don't pull it out of her mouth and cum on her face
You've just set the stardards wrong, you're better of breaking up with her and start over with a new girl and do it right
>>768287470
Lots of alcohol.
I’ve been with my GF for 7 years. Never let me get near her butthole. But about 6 months ago. She was tipsy. Started eating her out. Then slid my tounge down the asshole. Started bucking around. Enjoying. Been doing this till last Saturday. Hit Vegas. Got her some Vodka Drinks. End up back in the room. Bend her ass over. Eating her from behind. Start working her ass. Asks for me to Fuck her asshole. Start pounding it. Starts moaning like crazy. Shit is getting me diamonds. Keep pounding her deeper and harder. Feel like am gonna nut. Wants me to Cum in her Ass. Bust a huge load inside her tight asshole. Alcohol is the key!
>>768291539
>But I assfuck my gf whenever i decide and she always swallos my cum if I don't pull it out of her mouth and cum on her face
I don't actually believe that, and I doubt there's anything you can do to convince me of it.
>>768289390
This exact thing happened to me. I later learned my ex wife had a long history of doing this to the men she dated. I actually married her and she was a straight up lard ass within a year.
Divorced her once it became clear that she had absolutely zero desire in being healthy.
These women are so fucking delusional, all this fat acceptance garbage. Always funny when they realize that only fat women believe in that.
>>768289510
Yes. Exactly.
See>>768293468
>>768289558
None of the other samefag answers are true. Your butthole is tighter than your Pussy and it’s kinky/different.
End of story.
>>768290673
You’ve never fucked a butt, clearly
>>768287470
>it ranged from uncomfortable to abslutely painful
How many things that feel like that to you are you doing for her?
>>768287470
I dont understand the obsession, def doesnt feel as good as a tight wet pussy. Plus about 1/4 the time I end up with a shitty dick.
Not going to read through the thread so this may have been mentioned but start with just finger play and maybe some rimming. once she starts liking her asshole to be touched/licked she'll want more and more finger insertion, then eventually she may want the cock.
As I saw some others say before I replied, i'm not that into it either. I like the kinky factor of it but last time I fucked my girl in the ass it was actually too tight, my dick ached after.
>>768293604
Im not that guy, but I agree with him. I get the whole dominance thing, but I dominate my wife enough with out anal. She will gag on my cock till she pukes but doesn't like anal much and Im ok with that.
>>768294085
Jesus Christ they’ve had enemas for thousands of years, for this exact issue.
Are you a noob or a retard? Which is it?
>>768287470
good luck pursuing your selfish goals OP
REMEMBER:
>if she prolapses you can always find a new gf.
>>768294085
>def doesnt feel as good as a tight wet pussy
this
i think guys who are into anal are mostly
>not-too-thick cutfags
>who (almost) always have to use condoms
>so they don't feel anything in a pussy
with anal, at least entry is "tight" AND you get the domination angle
i am uncut (hallelujah) and get to do it without condoms (hallelujah)
nothing is better than wet, tight pussy
>>768287470
The solution: cheat
>>768294374
Yea caws taking an enema before sex makes a girl feel so sexy lol.
>>768294443
I agree, im not super thick, but its more trouble than its worth when there is a slick willing cunt an inch away.
>>768287470
Start with a finger. Then work your way up.
>>768290930
>pencil dick detected
>>768287470
Stop asking... Just fuck her asshole.
My gf has an extremely wet pussy. She gets aroused easily and gets so wet that I have penetrated her ass with only her pussy juice as lube. Usually while doing her doggy style. After pounding her pussy for a while I will sometimes pull out and put it in her butt. Honestly the penentration feels great but after fucking her ass for a while it feels loose and sometimes its difficult for me to cum. Have to think about all kinds of nasty stuff to be able to nut in her ass. Prefer pussy as they where made for dick and it feels better. The variety is nice every so often though. It excited her to cum in her ass and she will think about it all day.
>>768294616
I stick a finger in almost anytime im hitting it from behind, but my dick? nah
>>768287470
>y those have $0!!?
>>768287470
You can't get her to like it. You can ask her if she would be willing to do it despite the discomfort for your sake. Tell her how much you enjoy it, and ask her if she is open to doing things that minimize discomfort (going slower, using toys and plugs to ease into it, and trying it with her on top). if not...and it's that important to you, then find a new gf.
Get pegged by her and find out for yourself what taking it in the butt is like.
If she's anxious, the internal sphincter will clench up; it's an autonomous reaction, and not much you can consciously do about it. She'd need to relax, and you'd have to take it nice and slowly. Start out with a finger, not "one, two, three, WHAM!"
>>768289782
Signed,
Anon, age 12, relationship expert
>>768294798
Says the virgin.
>>768295458
lol.
Its like the time I fucked a chicken
I was like quit screaming you you cluckn bitch
I just seen an egg fall out of that thing
>>768294798
This. Show her you are boss.
>>768287470
Go slow, really slow. Start with a finger. Slow until she's not as tense. Lots of lube. Make sure she's turned on first. An orgasm before helps.
Try eating her ass first. It introduces the idea of butt stuff without the pressure of going full on dick in the ass and in my experience women have loved it. If you're not comfortable eating her ass but you want to fuck it, you're a pussy and an asshole (pun intended).
If none of that works, chances are she's never going to like it and the only time you'll get it is on some sort of special occasion, and even then it's not going to be some magical porn scene.
I went to a uroligist a few months ago and he had me bend over and stuck his finger in my ass to check prostate. Extremely uncomfortable, thought I was going to pee on his floor. Dont know why guys like dicks in their ass. After this I know I will never try that.
Just take the assIf she gets pissed afterwords and leaves
BONUS
>>768288015
They don't like sucking dick or swallowing cum, either
Women absolutely suck at sex
>>768294489
Shitting on a cock is better? You must be 16
>>768287470
get her drunk and really horny
I find plenty of guys who love anal. If I really need to nut in an ass I have guys that love that shit. And its fuck and go. No cuddling.
>>768295482
Kek, it worked for me though, maybe girls don't like beta fags, ever consider that asking her stupid questions all the time is a turn off?
I'm assuming you've never just pinned a girl down and fucked her, or just put morning wood to use without permission, or a fully awake partner.
My fiance loves waking up to a good fucking
>>768296262
> Low key calling OP a fag
Nice.
>>768296209
Lol, no its not better. Thats why I avoid anal, ive been married 6 years. Im not gonna ask my wife (who fucks me like once a week on average now) to take an enema so I can do something she hates.
>>768296262
Fag.
>>768296288
Yes, I used to do that all the time fag. Talk to me again after being married 6 years with a kid.
"that wont be me" lol thats what we all say.
>>768289782
So panels 1-4 are basically her telling the dude he's not attractive, but in a nice way so he doesn't kill her. 5 is just what she was into all along but these other dudes kept throwing themselves at her. Artist must be pretty woke.
Eat da boody
>>768296675
Fiance is getting tubes tied, that literally won't be me though, and we've been together for 13 years with no kids... Since fucking highschool bro
Feelsgoodman.jpg
>>768289839
So 4 women basically got sick of your whining and let you do it. Got it.
>>768296950
So the one woman you fuck feels this way and you think you can tell guys all women are like this?
>>768289558
Secretly gays is the explanation
>>768296950
Yea, keep telling yourself that. Ive been with my wife since damn near highschool. She used to be my depraved whore. Give her a while as your wife, Im telling you the dynamic changes. lol
Also, enjoy your that barren "life" of yours.
>>768287470
>how do i get her to like it
by not going from nothing to a dick inside her ass
start by rubbing her asshole during sex
then stick a finger in there
maybe a small buttplug
and only after all of that your dick
this process could take weeks if not longer
>>768287470
IDK about your gf, but my girl doesn't like it either. I fuck her ass anyway. The last time I lined my dick up with her pucker hole, Anne wad shaking her head and saying no, but I pushed it in and came in her asshole anyway.
>>768288917
>>768289782
Topkek do you bunch of incels read those seriously ?
>>768297192
So you admit to raping her, gg bro.
>>768297078
The one I (currently) fuck but generally speaking yes, ladies like a guy who takes charge, do you argue that?
Betas are not desirable...I don't feel like this is really an argument, and more like two anons arguing small details yet to be defined.
>>768287470
DO NOT use the numb cream. It will numb your dick while inside and then you won't feel shit. And considering the fact that the ass doesn't have no where near the texture of the vag you don't want to numb what little sensation you will get.
Anal is overrated. It's fun the first time but after you get it you won't give a shit.
I'll take a swirling tongue BJ over it all day long
>>768287470
That's why you don't fuck it up when you get the chance you retarded nigger. Stop pressuring her, it took my wife two years to accept it again. She's into butt stuff in general though.
>>768297244
She didnt call the police and I came hard in her asshole. Was good for me. I feel like "no" is just a suggestion sometimes
>>768287960
Then man the fuck and dumb that bitch
>>768297803
It is many times. I push past no with my wife all the time, but when that no becomes NO! NO! STOP! FUCK YOU! lol as it does with anal. I stop.
She wont deny me anything else, so im ok with not degrading her analy.
In my experience of the girls I fucked in the ass.. unwanted anal was the best. One girl cried and sobbed the whole time and another one resisted and I had to hold her down to finish.
Came so hard both times. Just do it. Nike that asshole
>>768297803
You wanna guess how often rape victims actually call the police? You wanna guess how often police believe women because "no is a suggestion" is something men think? How about a wild stab at actual conviction rates based on rape accusations where there is no other witness? Point is you raped her, and there's no reason for her to call the police because nothing will happen if she does. Sooner or later she'll leave you, and you'll know why.