>Broke up with ex a year ago >We don't stay in touch
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>Broke up with ex a year ago
>We don't stay in touch at all, don't talk or have her on social media
>Still think about her everyday
>Starting to dream about her
The fuck man, I thought time healed everything but this is just getting worse. As an added bonus, we both rent flats in the same area so I'll sometimes inevitably see with her current BF which is like a brick to the chest each time, despite breaking up a year ago. I just want to forget about her. (Yes, I've slept with another girl since then, it didn't help at all. Made things worse kinda, I felt weak for "using" her to try and get over someone else).
Could last for a long time, took me over a year to get over my ex. But found a new girl that is much better. Not as good looking but a much better personality and she lives and breathes for me wich is kinda nice.
>>768276287
I know that curse
The only way to solve this is to talk with her and tell her how do you feel.
>>768276287
Mourn your loss or you will have thoughts about her forever
>>768276287
took me three years; still think about her sometimes (it's been 5)
I have a feeling this might be just what you need right now...
https://thestoryofbutton.wordpress.com/
It's a long and very well written green text story about the adventures of anon and in his best friend (plot twist, its a girl). Plenty of lewd stuff
Just take my word for it... it's good enough to have helped a large number of faggots in your very position see things differently, sometimes profoundly.
There's 7 'chapters' out atm and the author has very recently (this month) said that he finaly intends to write more
At the very least it will keep you distracted for a day or two and I've been there, in your shoes... any break from that sort of pain is a good one
>90% chance you will end up with a new fetish to boot
>pic related
>>768277706
It took u 3 years to still think about her?
>>768277429
>Don't do this...
>whatever you do don't do this...
Real advice - from somebody having been in your shoes more then once and having learned what actually helps and what will drag the pain out longer...
>delete her/block her off all social media
>inc family or any friends or anyway that you could possible 'check in on her'
>I tortured myself for far to long
>having a peek every now and then hoping she would be miserable or single or just anything really
>don't do it... its done, it's over...
>no matter how bad you want to believe otherwise...
>snuff out that fucking flame of hope, let it go
>wont be easy... but you gotta do it
outside of that I mean socialise, hang with friends, etc all the usual advice. Dreaming of her is perfectly natural and happens to plenty of people. You're craving intimacy or love or whatever and the last person you had it with was her. I always dreamed about my ex's... until I met another girl that I was genuinely interested in and then, just like flicking a switch, never thought/dreamed about them again
Go out and put yourself into situations where you could potentially meet somebody. Nothing will change while you avoid everything and sulk.
>>768276287
yup know what you mean.
>>768277429
^^ fuck that idea off .
Basically all you are remembering is the ggod stuff. Even if you got back with her itd be shit after like a week
>>768277429
pic related
>>768278374
100% this
Stay strong bruh. Don't stay cooped up. Sounds dumb but you need to convince yourself you WANT to move on
As a 31 year old who's only ever had one girlfriend I really cared about, I still fucking miss her
It was 7 years ago, she's got married, had kids, nice vacations etc
Yet I'm still looking for a replacement for her. I don't want kids with just anybody, I want kids with her. I don't bother with 1 night stands anymore because I felt so empty afterwards. At least if I fap solo there is nobody to see what a mess I am mentally after I cum
Kimberley, I still fucking love you and I always will
>>768276287
Kill them both?
>>768278594
I want to say something to help you break out of the very obvious vicious cycle you have trapped yourself in
But in all honesty you sound too far gone... I don't think you even WANT to fix yourself
Congrats on becoming disgustingly pathetic
>>768278594
OP dont be like this sack of useless spunk.
>>768278737
My friends gave up on me moping around like a sack of shit, I'd have hero'd long ago if I wasn't such a pussy
>>768278801
Thanks. Love you too
>>768278594
Dude i am walking to that, break up 2 Years ago, Stiller miss her, she Is with "the love of ver life" Now... Fucking hurts
>>768276287
Number 1. Move your dumbass somewhere else. How's it been a year and you still live in the same area?
You'll never heal if you're gonna bump into her, especially when the whore is walking around with another guy. If she won't move then you may as well do it.
I went through a similar break up, it takes time, but I also got my ass a better social life, reconnected with old friends, and dated other women. Most of all though, I wasn't anywhere NEAR her and removed all reminders asap.
Time heals but not if you don't facilitate it.
Cut her out of your life entirely. If you ever have a chance to move, do it. Focus on yourself, your job, your education, hobbies, whatever. Get physically active. You don't have to go to a gym but just start jogging for a bit whenever is a good time for you. The more confidence you have, the easier it will be.
It took me 2-3 years to get over my first love. Some of that overlapped another less meaningful relationship. Then I had another serious loving relationship, she cheated, and it took me almost 1.5yr to get over it. Just recently I fell for a girl that by my preferences and compared to my exes was perfect. Beautiful, smart, funny, great in bed, bilingual, redhead, etc. I had never been close to someone as I was to her. She ended up fucking me over, ghosting me and moving on only to tell me months later.
I was sad for about two weeks. Now I'm in the best shape of my life, making the best money I've ever made. You think I give a fuck about someone who treats me like that? No. And if I did care anymore, I'd hope she's happy but I'll always chuckle knowing she'll never have me. Her loss.
here you go man https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ow0lr63y4Mw
>>768278594
Fucking hell dude get yourself on tinder and POF and find a new girl.
Why the hell are you disrespecting yourself moping about a girl who's fucking married with kids now?
>>768276287
My gf broke up with me some weeks ago, and this pic is basically my life. She found a guy no less than three days later and have been fucking like 5 times a day since, all the while i haven't even talked to a girl f2f yet and feel like a husk of a man
>>768277989
Im pretty close to having a thing for these tails anyways so, eh, fuck it
Hahaha no, she's still thinking of me whilst I sleep with someone else.
>>768280665
How would you know?
>>768279729
Dude, respect yourself. Some bitch who jumps back on the cock carousel 3 days later isn't worth your anguish.
>>768281065
Real life nigga right there.
>>768276287
I dreamed about my ex for months after our breakup as well. It's awful because most of them were actually really nice but after I woke up I realised she wasn't around anymore. Great way to start your day tbh.
My advice would be to get out of there, a reminder like that sucks if you arent completely over her.
>>768276287
Did she dump you or the other way around?
Asking because I recently broke up with my long term gf because I didn't want to get married. She was perfect in a lot of ways though.
I'm worried in the future I will regret it
>>768282145
I *technically* ended things, I didn't want to but she left me with no choice.
She had been inconsiderate & disrespectful towards me and our relationship multiple times over a quick series of events, and made absolutely no attempt to apologise or even to explain why she had been acting the way she did. She barely even acknowledged it. When I called her out on it (after giving her days to act), all she said was "I don't know what to do". So I snapped and ended things there and then. I refuse to be with someone who doesn't take responsibility for their own actions or shitty behavior, even if I was in love with her. I have too much self respect for that.
>>768282671
It sounds like she wasn't a very good person, and that you made the right decision. Was there a time where you felt good about breaking it off, or did you basically miss her since day one?
>>768281102
I dont seek out the pain by looking at photos or fooling myselfe we could still be. I just got a new job after being unemployed, picked up climbing, and im thinking about consulting /fit/ about how to get swole. I try my best but the pain is just there and i dont need distractions i need closure, but i dont how to start to get back into the game. So when i think about my next relationship it just seems so far down the road. And that makes the sight of my newly enamored ex even harder
So
>>768282851
I've never regretted it, but at the same time it's always bugged me. Not sure why it's getting worse recently, maybe because it happened pretty much exactly a year ago I guess
>>768278357
This.
My ex of 4 years who i was madly in love with and still love her to death broke up with me march 7th.
I did so much shit after that wasted tons of money on drugs and alcohol.
Realised it wasn't helping so i actually did this and i met a new chick who is amazing. I am pretty happy now that me and my ex broke up.
Sometimes you have to let go in order to move on and it's one of the hardest things to do.
>>768282671
you did good man, good job.
>>768276287
Been there! It takes time but the feels stops.
Have happend to me a couple of times. It feels so fucking bad, last time was last year, still dream about here time to time but not every night as I used to do.
