/b/, how did you lose her or him?
>>768235869
I was too nice of a beta. she liked aggressive alphas. Last I heard she was married an abusive alcoholic who refuses to let her use social media.
So I guess that'll show her?
>>768236075
Same situation as well
They lost me... Right? Right, /b/ros?
Hoping to make love to her this weekend. Claim her mine.
>>768236075
same
>>768235869
The xanax blackout was the final straw for her. Her fault that her fetish was damaged goods. idrk what she expected.
>>768235869
Stop being a faggot. If you can't handle it don't love. Or just fake it to the other person. If they leave, who cares.
>>768236075
Had this in reverse. Had one that came from such a relationship and wanted me to hit her when we discussed something. Eventually she attacked me. I just can't hit women. Fuck that shit.
I fucked my girlfriends mom (not even fucking joking) I'm a horrible person.
>>768237648
Are you? Or is she a bad mother? Don't blame yourself on this one.
>>768235869
Thankfully, I haven’t lost her.. or him *wink wink*
It was a bit of both i and her are a bad person, i can tell the story if you would like.
She wouldn't fuck up the ass.
Started getting wasted and pissed on the couch in her sleep.
>divorced her
Welovedicks.com
>>768237853
fucking faggit.
>>768235869
Last night, I initiated the whole 'we need to talk about our relationship' talk with her in the hope that we could make things better because for the past month our relationship has been in a bad place. Either way she ended it and doesn't want to talk to me anymore.
>>768235869
Car crash. Drunk driver. The asshole ran a red light and crushed her between a building and his bumper.
She was the world to me. Sometimes we'd just cuddle. Othertimes, we'd make love or fuck each other silly. Everyone who knew her mentioned how she never ignored a hurting person, never kept a grudge.
The son of a two-cent whore who killed her interrupted the judge at his trial to ask if they could put it off, because he wanted to see a movie that day. His fifth DWI offense left my girlfriend so mangled we had to cremate her.
He gets out in two more years. On that day, he and I are going to have a very long talk.
It's not something she would want. But he took her from me, and had the gall to act like prison was unfair.
I'm just going to illustrate how unfair the world can be, is all.
>>768235869
She died. While working as a volunteer in azn shithole she got killed by a landslide. A fucking landslide.
Best girl ever. (Yes she took it in the bum like the good little catholic she was.)
>>768237593
Im happy to hit them now that ive undone my feminist brain washing. women respect strength in men. They may not always explicitly crave outright violence. but they accept it as being a package deal with the other traits they love about us.
She picked up on the fact that I am an actual autist and not just shy and charming.
>wish you had told me about this
Left me. Been months and I am hurting now as much as the first day.
>>768238181
You gonna kill the scum?
>if so, not worth it. Don't fuck up your life any further.
>She left Australia for Britain when we were 17.
>Stayed in contact for the next 7 years.
>Saw her a few times, was crazy passionate.
>Visits became colder and less frequent.
>Starts disappearing from Facebook and social media.
>Pops up every few months to confess her undying love and try to explain what's been happening in her life.
>First few years was fun and romanticized, started getting old when I was seeing local women and this long distance first love was fading.
>Last two years, haven't really cared at all what she's been doing.
>Turns out she became an escort because it was fast money for travel to America.
>Remember her on occasion and wistfully wonder what it could have been like if she'd not left when we were 17.
>Even in this modern age of instant communication, there are some gaps that can't be traversed
>We'll never talk as easily or as deeply as when we were young
>Probably one day soon, she'll disappear for good, and then that, like my family leaving my hometown, and my school friends all living in different states, will be the last, final, gasping pulse of a childhood that seemed more promising than how it eventually turned out to be.
>>768238666
The devil got you son.
>might as well go on a killing spree
>>768238800
yeah, but I got a lot of good things going for me, too, so I crunch the numbers whenever I feel sad and try to play my strengths into improving my weaknesses.
Doesn't always play out fantastically, but it's better than casino odds, and the rest is life.
I lost a 10/10 because I’m too self absorbed , i fuck anything with two legs and a heartbeat and have no empathy and I’m a compulsive liar
>>768238181
You know what you should do? You should find him and track his schedule. Whenever he's vulnerable, and you aren't likely to be identified, emerge from the darkness with a baton and beat his kneecaps in and flog his ribs up. Then repeat this process once every few weeks until he's afraid to leave the house.
>>768235869
My cute Taiwanese fwb that I had been banging for 2.5 years graduated university, moved back to Taiwan, and is now too busy or doesn't care to keep up communications.
She actually came and surprise visited me in March, but claimed she was on her period and didn't want to fuck. Didn't want a massage, didn't want to go out, just came by for 20 minutes and left. Big mind-fuck. Don't know what that visit was about. Idk it seems fucking over now.
>>768236075
I had a similar situation, but I don't feel bad at all.
I fell in love with her because she was attractive and was into me. I am not saying I am ugly, but I didn't have to "work" for her at all. I think it's because she was coming out of a bad situation and needed stability.
In hindsight, I think she (correctly) realized that I was only with her because she was hot and would do anything I said. Intellectually, we never clicked and we didn't share hobbies. I would obviously "try" to get into the stuff she was into, but I never really poured myself into it.
At the time I was totally devastated, but I can honestly say if something better had come along it would have made me think. I'm not a cheater, would never cheat and I was totally loyal to her, but I knew were weren't 100% compatible.
She left me, found an ex-marine guy, ended up getting arrested for threatening to kill her mom because he wanted to isolate her. She ended up in an abusive relationship where she finally ended it totally a wreck.
We talked for a few weeks after their breakup and I realized just how incompatible we were, how she needed the dumb jock type because she prioritized physical security (oddly enough) over a guy she had to emotionally trust (me). Brutal men and trashy women just go together.
It doesn't matter. After we stopped talking, I never regretted it.
>>768239167
It's not so much brutal men and trashy women, you just gotta understand how your chemistry and her chemistry might just not mesh together.
People call my hyper-masculine, but it's just because I love the aesthetic of competition and masculinity. Living that life is fulfilling for me. I don't consider myself hyper-masculine, but my actions betray that. My problem is that the women who like hyper-masculine men don't mesh well with my personality, so the women who I'm into find me ape-like and aggressive, and the women who show interest in me are hyper-feminine and not really my type.
>>768235869
I’ve lost more than a few in my life - friends, family, loved ones. More than I’d care to go over.
>>768235869
By being antisocial and not being as close as I should've been. I'm just not a people person. As much as it hurts me to know I'll never have a happy and healthy relationship with another person, I've accepted my lot in life as best I can. So now I just try to block it out with hobbies and a bimonthly fap to get rid of the blueballs. It seems to work well enough around 90% of the time, but sometimes I get to thinking about it and I'm saddened by who I've become. What really eats at me is not having any kids. I've always wanted children but I doubt I'd be a good enough father for them, and that would hurt me far more than not having them in the first place.
>>768239965
Did you ever consider that everyone else in the world feels the same way as you?
I have come across this so often. I feel the same way. I don't like being around people constantly. It wears me out. Then I consider "Didn't my father feel this way? Didn't everyone's fathers and mothers feel this way about their kids at some points? What if it's just an unhealthy lifestyle?" I honestly think that the key to beating being exhausted and not wanting to be around people is to get enough and keep taking on challenges. Eventually you get used to it and get better at it.
Some people are born sociable. Others need to train for it.
>>768235869
borderline/ crazy girls
not even one time
thank god it ended though, she was a mess
>tfw better gf for two years :D
>>768236621
They lost us but dont miss us
>>768235869
I deliberately sabotaged because life aint nothin but bitches and hos.
>also, I'm terminal and I don't want someone sad over me when when they barely knew me.
I just didn't feel "It" and I felt anxiety whenever I thought about marrying her.
Despite the fact she was perfect on paper, virgin, loyal, etc. But unfortunately that wasn't going to be enough to get me through my life.
>>768240265
No, I don't think that others feel this way. It's a little bit more than that with me. I have a huge problem showing my emotions, or even talking about them. It's different here where I can just type it all out. People I know often think I'm upset or ask what's wrong with me because I always have a sort of neutral/angry face on wherever I go. I'm the kind of person who never smiles or laughs, nor frowns or cries. I'm like a robot. I honestly cannot remember the last time I showed any emotion in my facial expressions aside from a few days ago after I stubbed my toe real bad and scrunched up my face in pain for few moments.
I haven't the slightest clue what's wrong with me. I'm an emotional wreck on the inside but I'm unable to let it out. Even when I'm alone I don't express any of my feelings. I often feel like I come off as a very cold and angry man, which is why I fail to cultivate meaningful relationships. Quite frankly people are probably afraid of me because of how I act. When I put myself in the shoes of people around me, I look like a giant cactus with a sign nailed to the front of it that reads "fuck off".
I think I've got a pretty good idea of why I fail in relationships. I'm boring, quiet, and not at all expressive. I'm just working towards accepting what I am, and I think I'm almost there.
>>768235869
We were really into Vidya and sex , lived together , had two of everything for gaming online
She got a job teaching highschool theatre , something im not interested in at all.
Still love her , always will have a piece of my heart
>>768235869
By never having her in the first place
>>768242153
If you want to remain that way, keep telling yourself it's something you can't change because "That's just my personality".
What it sounds like, to me, is that you have very few friends, or you don't see the ones you do have very frequently, or they're not of very good quality interactions (in which case, shit friends), you don't work very much, or your work is unfulfilling, or you're a student in a very antisocial field of study, and you don't get outside and exercise enough. I would also extrapolate this to say you probably don't sleep an average of 7 hours sleep, and your diet is probably also full of sugar and carbohydrates, causing radical shifts in mood and hormonal flux.
You're in what everyone else would call a "rut". Your overall trajectory in life is uncertain, and/or the connections you have with people are unfulfilling and/or unstable and/or unhealthy. You don't take care of your body's biochemistry, and you don't regularly maintain it with exercise and recovery sleep.
You need to understand that nothing in your life operates in a vacuum. When you understand that all of the above parameters must be in sync in order to have the energy, inspiration, and motivation to seek out fulfilling lifestyle choices, you will start fixing them, and that angry fuck-off cactus that you resemble will morph into an approachable, attractive, confident and respectable member of the most advanced species on Earth.
"It is a disgrace to grow old through sheer carelessness before seeing what manner of man you may become by developing your bodily strength and beauty to their highest limit."
-Socrates
And that cunt looked like a fucking tyre. Have some respect for yourself.
>>768238181
Sorry colt, get better soon
>>768238972
My man!
>>768242923
More accurate than I'd really care to admit. Fuck you for telling me things I didn't want to hear, and thank you telling me the truth. I'll try to work on myself or just kill myself. Either way things will work themselves out in the end.
>>768237717
Man whore
>>768237648
Epic
>>768243527
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_OuUytC8QM4&feature=youtu.be&t=3m40s
Watch this, and then watch some other stuff by him. Clean your room and start on that enriching journey of turning yourself into a strong, proud, and capable man. You don't have to be this way, bucko.
>>768235869
Dated 3 years, cleaned out the back of her car found underwear under the seat. Never said anything just slowly backed out of her life. That was in 2012. Really liked that girl though, wasn't meant to be.
I was sorta kinda abused as a kid and I don't take conflict very well, not beta just get super pissed super fast. Did not wanna lose control and kick her ass in blind furry.
>>768236621
>>768236621
most of these betas cry about losing toxic people
It would be sad if it weren't so pathetic
>>768235869
I was always the placeholder boyfriend. They always use me until the guy she likes becomes available or shows interest, then im out the door. The only reason her and I got together is because the guy she actually wanted to be with sperged out and spooked her. Since I showed interest she got with me and used me for shit before dumping me for him after like 4 months. And the other before that dumped me after a year for someone with more money and shit. Now I'm too bitter and hateful regarding relationships and dating. I hate that it seems like I'm biologically driven towards such opportunistic, manipulative, and abusive creatures. And I hate that women seem that way to me now. I just want someone that I can come home to when the world beats my ass, and just exist with. Is that too fucking much to ask for? Anyone got some advice for me in regards to this?
>>768235869
I don't even know.
I was with her for a few years, but
She would go no contact on me at least once a month because of her "issues"
She said she would go into a shell...but then later on when she'd start talking to me again she would mention her friend or someone she was talking to. So she was still talking to other people...just not me. She even came back one time and said one of her friends said he was in love with her.
And then she broke her phone...gets a new..never bothers to tell me about it until i msg her like 2 weeks later. Lots of fucked up shit like that.
Eventually the vanishing went on longer..
She never even had the decency to break up with me or tell me what was going on. I found out later she was dating other people behind towards the end...
Anyways she contacted me about a month ago...and what she doesnt know is that I know she's with someone else now, but she never mentioned him..she never mentioned she has a bf. She's hiding him just like she hid me.
>>768235869
Taken away by a drunk driver 4 years ago. Haven't thought of starting another relationship since
>>768244681
What the hell I’ll laugh anyways
>>768244681
My moms a piece of shit...but id cry if I lost her.
Thats how love is.
By loving her
>>768245450
Sorry for your loss man
>>768242464
This.
>>768235869
she was too afraid to tell her parents about me because im 11 yrs older and a family friend (Shes legal btw). She was my closest friend and my love. I dont even know if she does/did love me.
he was blind, someone had thrown him into a wall face first. i took him in, loved him madly. but like a fool i took a nap one evening and left a way for him to get outside, and he was hit by a car.
>>768246121
Retards need to be secured on leashes at all times
And don’t forget the tard-helmets
>>768242414
You left cus u didn't like her job?
>>768235869
she was nice. i loved her, she loved me. i made her laugh, i gave her all my love, much of my time, and almost all of my attention. i could have done so many other things without her. she decided to leave one day because i said something against homosexuals.
turns out she was bi.
fuck me.
>>768235869
She left me because I cheated on her....I just can't remember which time I cheated she was pissed about.
>>768235869
Murder
She broke off what she thought was a relationship because....well I don't know or care but the head was good.
Just a friendly reminder that keeping tabs on your partner's online activity isn't necessarily being paranoid. Women will rarely voice their loss of interest for you and just jump back into dating without any inkling other than being distant. Dated and been in enough relationships to know that this is near universal behavior. Not hating, it's just how they're wired emotionally.
Online dating is so one-sided today that women will just open their old profiles and get their fix immediately if they're not getting what they want from you.
Haven't dated in over 3 years and doubt I'll return any time soon.
>This oldfag misses dating before women became obsessed with social media and their fucking phones.
>>768235869
>I told him I want to carry on with my life not sticking to easy solutions traps are
>Fuckload of improvement since that time
>>768238181
>"The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood."
If not, then fuck me that's dire. Just remember, the laws are there to protect criminals not victims, don't get carried away too much.
>>768235869
She called me a pedophile, then we broke up, in my testimony I said "That is a big word for a 12 year old"
>>768247075
Classy pedo joke that gave me lulz not easy to pull off I tip my cap to you
>>768246844
break her fuckin hands
you can't text fuck someone with broken hands
>"siri, send text to bae 2"
>>768245032
Stop giving them things and just get a bunch of free sex that becomes someone else's problem after
>>768246323
Ya , she would spend more time with her job than with me. We had 4 cats and a puppy too , trying to be romantic with her , balancing work. And i wasnt going to quit playing vidya , something i really enjoyed doing.
I havent gamed in 4 months , moved out of state , got a new job. Been hiking and going outdoors more. Cooking more for myself , eating healthier , working on me for now until I feel i can let someone else into my life.
Have a female roommate that is super cool , fool around sometimes. So sex isnt the issue. Love is
28 year old white male
>>768235869
I guess I just let her go, we didn't live in the same town and I didn't have a car of my own. Needless to say we couldn't be around each other that often and I didn't text a whole lot because that wasn't my thing.
I guess maybe the distance got to her? Maybe she felt like I didn't care enough? I don't know, but one day she wanted to call things off without talking about it and I didn't really fight it.
I kinda regret doing that because she we had so much in common and it really felt like I was dating another me. But I figured if she didn't want us to be together she probably had a reason and I just left it at that.
We still talk from time to time, and as far as I can tell she hasn't dated anyone since which kinda makes me think I should give it another go. But it's been years and at this point I should just let it go and move on.
At work and typing on phone so yeah but
Dated for 4 years, lots of making out and fucking, but her parents always got in the way. Over the years as she graduated and went into high school she started getting close with other dudes there, I became someone she would only pick to spend time with if her friends were busy. Confessed to me that she would rather pick them over me, multiple times.
Thought it wouldnt matter, agreed to stay on and be with her, one fine day her parents find out and make her cut all contact with me. That was half a year ago. She definitely hasnt thought of me since, so im not even mad about it.
My mom abused me and molested me when I was but a child. Left me with a bad taste in my mouth when it comes to women and relationships with them.
With that said, I've lost multiple women that I could have had truly meaningful experiences with because of my disdain for women and my inept abilities to profess my feelings; of which I can only sermise that it seems from what my mother did.
And so, I've become a person that can't leave what my mom did behind me. As hard as I try, I can't connect with a woman on a profound emotional level because of that abuse staying stuck in the back of my mind.
So, I resort to prostitution but, sadly, I still can't connect to a woman because I know how fake the encounter is. I yearn for the love of a woman. A love of which my mother did not and still will not give to me.
>>768248358
>so this guy touches kids right?
>>768248695
All of this is super sad. On paper you are the back story of most serial murderers.
>now you know and knowing is half the battle
>>768248296
I hate dating people like me
>>768235869
>i took too long to make a move.
>she had a boyfriend at the time,so i thought i had no chance.
>she made out with 1 of my room mates right in front of me.
>physically abusive,and brought out the WORST of my bad habits.
>now shes a hooker.
Thats love and life though,right?
>>768235869
i was too beta I couldnt help my self being a toxic cunt so i payed the price she gave me an excuse that she was moving but it never happened. she is and always will be in my heart and honestly id do things in reason for her id do a lot of things to get her back too.
>>768249310
OH! And we had a really big fight on New Years Eve after making out,and i was high out of my mind on coke. I dont think she ever viewed me the same way after that night.
>>768249070
Thankfully I'm not psycho. I've dealt with this shit quite well.
But you still never know >:)
>>768249692
Good to know stay of heroin it's what takes most street dwelling hookers down
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YhIfcg11MHA
/thread
>>768235869
she dumped me after a week. years later nearly cheated on my girl with her but she pussied out
>>768249171
when you don't stop being a /b/tard when you log-off the only people you end up dating are other /b/tards.
>>768249941
Ye friend died of H so.. I learn from the homie.
Still gonna fuck hookers from time to time. And maybe do some blow. hehe
>>768235869
she was a senior, i was a junior. she cut ties with me after 2 months because i "scared her off" for being into her
I drank too much.
To you kids and weekend-party-going 40-somethings, I know how that must sound. "I got drunk and did something I wasn't proud of."
No, it was something dumber than that. Simpler. More chronic. I drank too much. It was who I was. My identity was the guy who can chug three cans from a bong and not flinch. I got drunk at any function. I functioned fine, I lost a job here and there and that was okay. It's just something that someone in the party lifestyle has to endure, y'know?
But I drank way too much. My liver enzymes were off the charts. I had only trace amounts of vitamins in my body. I had to drink the better part of a fifth of whisky to calm my nerves enough to go to my brother's funeral. The whole time I was there, I was just anxious that everyone else would know that I was drinking every bit as much as he had, the poor soul, who drank himself to death.
I wanted people to not know that. I wanted them not to know, even as I stood next to his body, that I was in the same tomb.
Good lord that broke me.
I was 29 years old. PTSD, anxiety, alcohol hallucinosis... I didn't need the labels and I didn't need the treatment. God FUCKING damn it.
Then, after a decade of partying self-destruction, I lost her, and that was what it took for me to get help.
Thanks, Carly, if you're reading this. In the end it helped me turn shit around.
>>768250080
I can generally leave this part of me here but I see girls that know what I'm doing when I'm on here
>>768235869
heroin
>>768250179
The columbian booger sugar will get you through a hard day of sick suckling or butthole licking or whatever you gotta do for sure
>>768250344
Good for you anon!
Its tough for people to make a positive change like that,and come out as a stronger person :)
>>768250479
Ah don't talk like that. Making me want a 40 rn shiet.
>>768235869
I allways since highschool beeing an alfa guy, but when I meet her I become and beta as fuck, I was fucking in LOVE dude Soo hard. I was acting like an insecure guy and she was soo free. I was soo young mental and I did know how to get over with life. (She doent study the U and I was afraid to beeing poor because she didnt study) I was 20 years old and I love her soo hard like any girl how I met since then.
My heart run like 593837262 rpm/s when I hug her.
Soo close to atempt to try suicide soo many times because I was working at to top floor and I goes to the roof to smoke and feel like shit alone.
I miss her sometimes but I think I get over because I can still living and meet another girl better than that one.
The hope never die bro, the hope never die..........
>>768250370
Damn son, you got cucked by drugs.
>>768250869
She is diamond at LOL.
God, I hate that game as I love her.
>>768250541
Thanks. You're a good sort of person. :) What the hell are you doing hanging out in this decrepit corner of the interwebs?
>>768251250
Just lurking away.
Even though this is a dark place,theres always a good thread that comes around and shines through.
