I fall in love with little girls, but I can never develop feelings for adult women or even teens.
Is anyone else in the same situation? How can I get over this?
>Inb4 bullet to the head
I didn't choose to feel this way and I would never engage/approach a little girl in any way. The furthest I'll go is smile at them or pat their head.
Anyone else feel like this? It's killing me inside.
we're like the same person OP... gotta eat that p00si though my man
>>768160528
You seriously need to see a psychiatrist. This is not normal, as you already know it's a paraphilia where your brain is wired into one thing. It can be changed, but you need to be willing to make a change in your life.
As someone who was molested by adults who "loved" me, please go seek professional help
>>768160719
it's based on the connections made in neurodevelopment early in life, in the white matter of the brain, so it can't be really changed. but it can be curbed pharmacologically , and yes a psychiatrist could figure out how to deal with the distress
>>768160719
I am willing. I did go to see a psychiatrist, and it took me a few sessions to be able to even utter the words. When I did I saw he flinched in disgust for half a second, and I quickly got up, exited, and never came back. I don't feel like anyone understands what I'm going through.
>>768160528
Not in your boots, but I can imagine your pain. You can't change what you're attracted too, it's just ingrained in your head. Always remember tho that kids and preteens will never feel the mutual emotions you do towards to them. Just never act on it. It's a life sentence, and like I said I feel for you. The fact that so many wants to ban real life dolls of children is fucked up.
>>768160528
It's the same for me, but with 14-16 years olds. At least I don't like kids, that's a bit bitter than your case. I also don't feel much attraction for adults over 18-20.
You can probably give up on having a perfect life partner that fits your tastes, I know I did. I'm nearing 40 now and it never got better.
it's a shitty hand to be dealt, OP. all you can do is never ever ever harm a child. because if you do, then you're scum. if not, you're a normal person, for all intents and purposes.
>>768161157
+1
>>768160884
I am just as aware as anyone how wrong any romantic and/or sexual involvement with a child is, with and without "consent".
My feelings does not override my morals, but I would be lying if I said the future doesn't scare me.
Go for it, it's all fun until the prison door slams shut and Bubba says Hi.
I deal with my situation by looking for legal girls willing to act like children. Look up ddlg/cgl groups. It's worth a try. I know at first it's not the same but maybe you transfer a bit of that attraction, worked for me
>>768161304
Your best bet is the following:
-imaginary gf
-virtual reality or just simply porn games, even for softcore waifuing
-lucid dreaming
-tulpas, if you believe in that.
>>768161143
She's beautiful.
>>768161157
Thank you for being understanding.
>>768161190
The thought of being alone and without a partner is okay with me, but it still hurts feeling love and knowing not only that is is completely one sided, but being ashamed over it.
>>768161200
>if you do, then you're scum. if not, you're a normal person
Thats a quote I can get behind.
>>768161304
or just wait till you have your own, meet someone who is willing to have offspring so
>>768161609
>>768161190
me 2, its i know perfectly why its like this and thats why it feels like if i could just fuck a 14yo virgin shit would go away. Didnt help with 18 girls,and relationships are not the problem, the problem is sexual interest.
>>768161609
You should never feel shame for loving someone.
>>768160528
Nope.
Now I could understand if you were talking about sexually mature young women. Nothing quite like a woman in the prime of her physique.
>>768160528
https://youtu.be/Sh9Vt02hvkI
>>768161486
It's not that much about the sex for me, really.
>>768161522
>lucid dreaming
I've learned lucid dreaming, currently having about three per week. It's a tremendous relief and the highlight of my life.
>>768160719
Many places have mandatory report laws, which means if you even mention an inkling you have towards children they have to report you to the police.
The police then use the testimony to get warrants and they often raid houses, tap lines, etc.
With the rise of obscenity laws they can easily charge these people with years in jail for erotica involving children, not even actual child pornography.
Granted, they also catch people who have the urge and have DL'd CP but it is a totally unsafe thing to do if you actually have these feelings.
Society doesn't want these people treated, they want them in jail or dead.
Try a lobotamy.
>>768161853
Unfortunately society would probably be right. They can't be treated for it or anything and they can't be left in the streets either.
>>768160884
You know the rules. Tits or gtfo
>>768161843
I'm trying to learn it, but I don't have a dream diary because I'm worried my family will find it, and having problems with dream recall. Yeah, I'm pathetic.
Anyway, how is it? I heard that if you have too much excitement it can lead to waking up. Can you have heartwarming interactions with whoever you like?
>>768161853
not society but those who engineerd it.
Also
focusing on ppl who dl some pictures instead hunting those who produce and upload. Typical "solution" for problem of modern world.
>>768160955
Honestly this is the first time I’ve ever felt bad for someone like yourself.
>>768162000
If depression and psychopathy are treatable, then so too is pedophilia.
People just aren't even open to the idea.
>>768161843
Well ddlg isn't all about the sex. Some swear it's completely nonsexual. There is a whole dynamic meant to approximate that kind of relationship you seemed to be attracted to. If it's not about the sex then what's the difference between a kid and a adult acting just like a kid?
>>768162000
Trips of truth
it sure is summer in here
>>768161714
She makes me smile, what a cute girl.
>>768162107
Pedophilia is a sexual orientation/fetish. It's not a disease.
>>768160719
Gays aren't normal either, but we stopped sending them to the psychiatrist
>>768162000
>>768162144
>>768162177
The GETs know what's up
>>768162172
>>768162116
Ddlg is diet pedophilia
>>768160955
I understand OP, I understand.
Also, here's what I see working. The more I increase my standards and status for myself in all other areas of life (career/money, attractiveness, social status, responsibility adoption, confidence, moral adoption, maturity, health etc. the less I felt the attraction and saw it as gross or evil, you know, a normal response.
>>768160528
Ok, there's a reason why we tell child lovers to put a bullet in their head. There's a primal distrust and fear of your kind.
You may claim to "fall in love" with these children but what you really want is to abduct and rape an innocent and helpless child until you're satisfied. Even a sexually mature woman scares you
>>768162177
Well, we can't just let children be fucked by these people.
Just ignoring the issue instead of TRYING to help with therapy leads to lots of unhappy people, and then there are those that act out on their desires.
Idk about you, but I'd rather have an open and safe place for people to seek help if they want it without the fear they will be locked up for trying to NOT BE A CRIMINAL.
>>768162377
More dubs of Truth
>>768162000
You think you would hold that position if were you in question? As stated by people in this thread they feel like shit because they don't want to traumatize children or abuse because they know it's wrong. They're not insane, they right from wrong. Sex drive is one the strongest drives we have. Imagine fighting against that you entire life, getting imprisoned and hurting someone if you ever acted on it. Even the porn you prefer could land you in jail. It's the shittest lot you can draw in life.
>>768161486
As a female into ddlg I fully support this. Like I would 100000000% be okay with someone trying to curve their need for something that's not legal by trying. It is tough. I'm in a weird situation like this as well as op but not exactly or at least not to the extent.
First I wanna say OP, it’s brave for you to post it. I feel for you. It’s not your fault you feel this way and unfortunately many times pedophiles go to therapists to find ways to deal and they contact the police so there’s no research that can be done. I hope one day people will start treating it.
>>768162420
If you don't want to be a criminal just don't do anything. There is no help for pedos not because no one wants to give it, but because there is no helping them. Let's say they do go for help, what then? After a half hour session they're let back onto the streets?
>>768162361
I don't dispute it. But better than sex with real children
>>768162377
You don't know anything. I am not scared to adult women. Never acted on my desire and never will. It's people like you that keep people like me from looking for the help we need
>>768162479
It is, but my position still stands. People are born with defects all the time. Many people are born with defects that prevent them from having sex all together, like 95% of /b/.
>>768162282
cute girls are for cuddling, not fucking.
just like lolis
>>768162506
Yus! A female perspective. I thank you for your understanding. Until I found ddlg, I was in hell
>>768162506
i'm not understanding. Are you the little girl, or a mom domme?
>>768162561
Behavior therapy works you fucking autist.
People curb all kinds of desires and obsessions without medication you fucking moron.
Stop being such a closeminded stupid fucking nigger and read a god damn book.
FFS I hate you stupid fucking cunts with your beady eyes.
You deserve it when you kid gets fucked to death.
>>768162598
No, the help you need doesn't exist.
>>768162561
Considering pedos that don’t act on urges and try to seek help are normally arrested, how do you know they can’t be helped? It could be argued that people with violent thoughts shouldn’t be allowed on the streets but the police will say well we can’t do anything until they commit a crime.
How is this different? It’s not.
Pedophiles need studied and ultimately find a way through normal therapy or regressive therapy to help cure it.
>>768161853
Yea I've never seeked out CP and never will. Most I'll go is looking in swimsuit catalogs and the like.
>>768162075
Penzu.com
Just a plain straight up online diary, free of use. Then you're good to go.
You need to keep a consistent and detailed dream journal, and you need to constantly, and fully question your surroundings to see if you are awake or asleep.
Focus only on those two things, thats all you will need. (+WBTB method every night, google it)
Yea the hardest part isn't being able to have lucid dreams, It's staying in them. When you're suddenly in a 100% realistic enviroment and you know you're actually asleep in bed, it freaks you out, gives you adrenaline, and wakes you up. That part I found required the most patience and practice.
>Can you have heartwarming interactions with whoever you like?
There is absolutely no limits in the dream world, as it is 100% created by you. You set the limits.
Hope I could be of any help
Also:
Dreamviews.com
Lucid Dreaming - Reddit
>>768162741
Considering I have found ways to cope and function. I must politely disagree.
>>768160528
i also love kids too, but i would never rape one. idk, if the don't feel ok, then im not. I feel love for children as someone else could do for womens (or mens) their age.
>>768162666
>cute girls are for cuddling, not fucking.
RIGHT!
>>768162377
Look at the Walkman. He regurgitates the words of the authorities without giving them any real thought. Weep for the Walkman, who time has moved on from.
OP you are normal. You love kids. You’re supposed to love kids. Spend a little more time with them and you’ll see that they don’t really need a sexual relationship with you. They just need to be themselves. Support that. Be a mindful and considerate human.
>>768162718
No, it's a sexual fetish/orientation. Hard to have sympathy for you when you say that my kids should get raped as a punishment to me. Leave them out of it.
>>768162116
those people who swear it's all nonsexual tend to be lonely young women who just want a platonic relationship.
So I tell them to just ask for friends, and not try to tie a man down from having fulfilling sexual relationships with others, just so they can have an exclusive friend to be their emotional rag.
But I'm mean, so you know.
>>768162643
So they should be locked up for what? Potentiality? You could potentionally kill someone someday, you shouldn't be allowed to walk the streets. Flawed logic.
>>768160955
Go see Jordan b. Peterson in Toronto he will help you without judging you
>>768162837
And did you get it from some sort of psychotherapy?
>>768162717
Well it's a hard answer I suppose. I enjoy lolu and stuff but would touch a child... Doesn't mean I don't sometimes make connections to the drawings to kids. Yaknow? It's hard for me to separate them and I get so angry I brought it into real life in that moment. I am a mom domme for lb. But I'm also a LG for the right guy. Depends I guess if they fit the bill for me to be more "submissive" as the role goes I guess.
>>768162917
If you caught wind that someone had trouble controlling urges to kill specific people? Yeah, it's called "being a threat to yourself or others" and gets you tossed into a psych ward.
>>768162907
No they have sex just not while acting like children. There is a whole thing about little space I'm not really going to go into. But you're right, but that's not exclusiva to ddlg
>>768162666
Can't fool me satan!
>>768162962
sounds like a TRAP!
>>768160528
I know right! Hold on, I have to make a phone call.
"Hey, FBI, I need you down here ASAP."
