>Grow up with a toxic father
>Has a slipped disk in his spine
>Asks us to massage his back to ease the pain
>Refuses to take painkillers
>Grow up having to massage his back almost every day
>Even went to feet and applying lotion
>No semblance of sexual jokes ever
>Always acts like a child when he doesnt get what he wants
>Grew up with him yelling and screaming when he didnt get his back done
>He has ruined back massages for me forever
>I cannot give one, even to friends, without getting angry or at the very least agitated
>Help him with some heavy lifting 2 days ago
>Mid way through the lifting, I feel and hear both of my forearms crack
>Level of pain: 6 or 7
>Enough to make me drop what I had and yell
>He claims im bullshitting and forces me to continue
>By the end of the day im crying by how much it hurts
>Going to have to do a lot of heavy lifting at my job so I better take a painkiller
>Later before bed my dad asks me to massage him
>I tell him about my arms again
>Doesnt have any of it
>Says, "Theres a lot more work to do tomorrow. If you do my back tonight your brother and your roommate will do it while you're at work."
>I told him "Im only going to do your back because I know my arms wont deal with that on my day off because of how bad they are now."
>He grunts in acknowledgement
>I do it, my arms absolutely killing me
>I go to work the next morning
>Come home late because of a meeting
>Sees that the garage wasnt done like dad said it would be
>Didn't say anything because I just wanted to sleep
>Halfway through the day of doing tedious tasks for dad, he tells me I need to do the garage with roommate
>I remind him about the deal from last night
>"Dont care, do what I said. I didnt say you were exempt on Wednesday"
>I ask if he even asked brother or roommate to do it
>"No."
I want to hurt him. He always does this.
I want him to realize what a child he is. He doesnt seem to get it...
>>768143360
BREAK HIS BACK WITH A SLEDGE HAMMER!
>>768143360
And?
Big whoop, my brother is abusive to me so I'm gonna move out
Go watch "I could only imagine" movie
Saw it with my brother
I'm a atheist and I liked it
tell your dad to fuck off and if he tries to force you to do something knee that fuckers back in
I hate guys like this, Ive seen others go thru situations like this
harass that little bitch and make his life a living hell, show no remorse
>>768143519
is there a reason that you needed to note that you're an atheist?
Nothing OP said had anything to do with religion
>>768143519
Seriously OP
I know a shit ton of people that grew up in abusive households
No one really cares
All we can do is live our lives and be better people than the asswipes we were hurt by
Go watch I can only imagine movie, no joke
>>768143651
The movie is Christian as all hell
Usually that makes me cringe like a epileptic patient, but this was different because it's more personal and treated with respect
>>768143739
>>768143519
2 faggots saying watch this movie, I say dont watch this shitty movie
its probably some bad indie
>>768143360
A lot of what you wrote resonates with me.
Just try be the bigger person. Do your best to not let it affect you, recognize he's a douche who should be embarrassed of himself. You're the better person, get yourself out of that situation as soon as you can.
>>768143925
Nope
Same fag, also beat by family
Fuck him, I'm moving out
Movie was good though
Just say no , ya dummy.
>>768143475
this
>>768143965
Agreed
Most abusers are assholes who can't get their shit straight and take out that stress on others
>>768144164
Exactly. A grown adult acting like a 3 year old is cringe AF. If his friends or co workers saw him acting like this they would be shocked. Honestly dude should be ashamed of his behavior.
>>768143623
Horrible idea
Just move out and move on, the abbused I've seen do this live much happier and healthier lives
first of all underage b&
second, just don't give him a massage, what are you? a fag? just refuse, you're not his slave yiu faggot
if want to hurt the old man, use your elbow to break his spine
>>768144402
Ironically my brother does this and tells me I act like shit
One buddy shuns him for it
The other imitates him and my brother gets pissed at the guy
Fuck all that bullshit
I don't want a sad fuck telling me how to live my life
>>768144478
He's like a woman. She says yes, I say no. We compromise, so i say yes and gain nothing. I cant say no. I actually cant anymore.
>>768144691
>I cant say no. I actually cant anymore.
The enjoy giving those back massages, ya fuckin loser.
>>768144691
JUST MOVE THE FUCK OUT
Ignore all contact till he realizes how big of a shit head he is
>>768143475
thread
If you're not willing to either say no, or do something about it, then stop fucking complaining and accept your shit place in life.
I am in a current position where I have no money, and all money I do make goes to the whole house. Including my dad. Not exclusively him, but he is included.
All money goes to make sure the house is running smooth.
Try heroin, it'll take the edge off of being a fucking loser.
>>768144982
Your dad doesn't deserve to be pampered and treat you like shit
Move Out
Holy fuck guy, it's like you actually like being abused
>>768143651
Atheism has nothing to do with religion either, so eat a dick
At this point OP, you're either going to have to kill yourself, or kill your father. You have to choose who is more important to you.
>>768145567
Why not both?
Fucker is too stupid to realize he can just MOVE OUT and cut all ties
My god man, I've met babies with bigger brains and balls
FEMALE BABIES
What in the actual fuck is this back rub bullshit? And who in the fuck continues working after fracturing their forearms? How the fucking shit did you fracture both forearms while carrying shit? Are your bones fucked up? What in the fuck is this fucking story?
My father was in an accident that wrecked his back pretty badly, he couldn't walk a lot and had limited movement of his arms so he needed help with wiping after shitting and with showering. So I grew up wiping ass and soaping balls other than my own. I had to cut his food for him. Dress him. I basically had to do everything for him.
(Mom got sick of this life after a year of dealing with it and left me alone with him when I was 10)
My father would yell at me, say I was a stupid piece of shit/garbage, he called me every insult you can imagine if I took to long to go and fulfill his demands. He had no respect for me, he would find a way to masturbate, make a mess of himself and the bed sheets and would yell at me to go change his clothes and his bed, can you imagine how fucking disgusting it was to go clean my father's cum? I want to gag even to this day.
He was an ungrateful bastard that didn't even try to do stuff for himself. I got super super fucking angry at him one day when I was 17 and told him he could do his shit himself and went to stay with friends for a few days.
Fast forward 10 days later,
>I went home, everything is a mess, the whole house smells like shit.
>Found him in his bedroom, bloodshot eyes and tear stained cheeks, the bed is a big shit stain, he is absolutely disgusting.
>"Anon, thank God you're here. Please, PLEASE, help me. I'm sorry for how I treated you, I'm so fucking sorry"
>"Okay"
After that he was a completely different man, and everytime he snapped at me, I just had to give him a glare and he'd back off.
>>768146107
I like you. You ask the hard questions. You should be working for cnn
>>768146184
JESUS FUCKING CHRIST
MOVE THE FUCK OUT
Your dad doesn't deserve your help if he's gonna be a shithead
Hire a nurse and move on with your fucking life
Jesus Christ this is simple to fix but you enjoy being beaten and yelled at
Goddam
As soon as I realized my relationship was abusive I made a move to moveout ASAP
>>768144949
Im willing to say no. But its the fact that when I do say no, he just gets more and more angry. He actually put his hands on me. He isnt strong enough to actually move me but the idea was still there
>>768143360
dunno why i even read this, but just shoot him
>>768143360
Look at me
I'm retarded OP
I have a fetish for my dad yelling at me and hitting me
I'm too retarded to move out and move on with my life
DOYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
>>768146508
>He isnt strong enough to actually move me but the idea was still there
OK, this here is a troll thread. Nobody is this fucking pathetic. Let's move on and let this die.
>>768146868
Let's do what dumbass op can't and move out and move on
>>768143360
Next massage, inject a syringe of bleach, I dunno.
>>768146489
He died already, almost 8 years ago. But after I left that one time, he never treated me like shit ever again.
>>768146868
Its either I feel like im more of a man to not devolve into his childish insults and resulting to physical violence when I dont get my way
im a pussy because ive been degraded all my life, constantly put down because of my father's constant abuse due to his shitty life
or im just a lil bitch
All of these are correct, but I still want him to actually feel bad for what he does...
I know theres some way I can do it
>>768143360
Tell him you're done with his bullshit, move to a shitty aparment you can afford and never see him again
Take a shit on his bed before leaving too
>>768147006
Finally
Good
Please tell others to do the same, I only acted like a ass because I've been trough the same shit, and it's frustrating as all hell to see people can't just move out
Cops usually see it escalated till someone dies
Sad shit man
>>768143360
you are adopted
>>768144691
Oh I didn't know you had a mind control device implanted in your head
>>768143360
kick the everloving fuck out of him in his back next time he wants massages. if he's hit you and youve got substancial evidence, he aint got shit on you in court.
>>768146107
I was going to post this
Who the fuck hears a crack in the forearms and keeps going? Are your arms broken or not
>>768147055
>All of these are correct, but I still want him to actually feel bad for what he does...
>I know theres some way I can do it
passive aggressive lil bitch
>>768144789
They never do realize
>>768147453
>They never do realize
They say they realize to draw you back in.
>>768147453
Yeah
It's truely sad
>>768143360
OP i'll help you just because i know you dont realize something you should. Your parents created you yes, but you in no way should put up with abuse just because they brought you into this world. Some parents are actually bad, toxic people who will exploit and use their children as much as possible, often to spite their existence in the first place. You dont owe him shit if he's abusive. The best thing you can do is just cut off all contact and move. A lot of my friends growing up did this after realizing I was right and none of them, absolutely none, regret their decision. And in a few cases the parents realized that they are shitty shitty people and fully apologized and they have ok relationships with them now.
>>768147907
Not OP, just in a abusive relationship
Thanks anon
I havent been happy since 2003
>>768148665
Summer fag
/b/ was always shit, Why do you think moot left
>>768148665
2003 was my last good year too.
All downhill since then.
Can I add one last OP is a fucking faggot before this thread 404s?
>>768144402
that gives me an idea. OP, secretly record his tantrums. You have leverage or at least revenge fuel if he continues to push you this way. You might have to at least wait until you're independent so he can't make your life hell, but at least you get the last laugh after an entire childhood of putting up with his silly retarded bullshit.
>>768146107
well these are the real questions.
I mean what the fuck is going on with this shitty homosexual story.
Just move out, or don't do it.. I mean wtf.. are you like 15?