/b/ honest thread: is cheating on your girlfriend/wife wrong if it’s purely to fuck. Let’s be honest even if she’s the love of your life the sex will get boring. Why should we feel bad for fucking other girls so long as it’s kept a secret and no emotions get stuck on the side slut.
because you're breaking an unspoken bond you fucking psychopathic retard
>>768109007
Sjw detected
It's wrong because of the betrayal, not the act. It really doesn't matter if it's just a kiss or an emotional relationship or hookers or a one night stand. The point is there's someone trusting you to your word that they're the only one for you and you're breaking it. I mean you can just be honest that you want to fuck other people and try and talk it out. But cheaters cower at the thought of rejection and being broken up with and instead lie about it. Thats why it's wrong, the straight up lies about something fundamental in your relationship.
>>768108936
My wife and i are swingers so she doesn't really care if i fuck some random bitch as long as I'm safe and respectful of our shit
Eh I fuck a fat girl at work almost everyday without my wife know
>>768108936
Yeah, like rubbing one out
>>768109007
Not to mention risking someone elses health. Risking trust and their future happiness. You could actually be with someone willing to have occasional open relationships or be single if its that important to you.
>>768108936
while yeah i'd agree that monogamy is mostly made up for fairness in society, I still think its wrong to cheat
I mean, aren't relationships supposed to be about love and trust. If you cant trust your SO to be faithful to you, can you trust them with everything else in life
also jealousy plays a big part and normalization of cheating just leads to cuckolding
It changed my relationship forever.
Wouldnt suggest only if youre the type to play it cool
>>768108936
>is cheating wrong
>its just purely to fuck
Do you know what cheating is? In most cases people cheat purely just to fuck. Yes. It is wrong. And you sound like you have a delusional sense of morality.
Fuck off.
>>768109220
not an sjw you little thirsty faggit
just decent
>>768109538
Can you define "play it cool"
>>768108936
I've been with my wife for 10 years and the sex is still awesome. Stop trying to rationalize being a degenerate. I'd you're going to be a piece of shit, art least own it.
> Had my best mates older sister suck me off
> Came buckets on her face
> Next day went and fucked my GF
> Still together, will never tell her
Ignorance is bliss
Am I a bad person?
>>768109610
Yes. Obviously.
>>768109610
Naw
>>768109538
Can you be more specific?
>>768109586
Well I mean obviously youre going to think about what you did (wether its the right or wrong thing to do, doesnt matter) so that will most probably change your behaviour towards your current gf. After that if youre like me youre gonna get hungry for more since it worked out once already. So by playing cool I mean if youre the type of guy to just do it once and be cool with it afterwards then youre good to go. Other thing is the aftermath with the other girl involved. Theres plenty of struggles that come with doing it and you just need to make peace with yourself if thats the right thing to do
>>768108936
If you can get close enough to a person to just fuck it means both of the people involved needed to have some sort of relationship to get to that point.
People don't just go around asking people to have sex, if they do they are single and probably crazy.
Also people cheat because they are unhappy with their relationship.
It's never as black and white as "just to fuck".
>>768109751
tru dat
>>768108936
Replace the word girlfriend with boyfriend and wife with husband ask yourself would I be ok with my wife doing the same. If the answer is anything but yes then don't do it. It's not ok don't marry a women you are not sexually compatible with
i have MFF threesomes with my gf of five years. i love her, she loves me. and i won't ever betray her behind her back... maybe with her mom though. fml.
>>768110105
you a lame ass sounding bitch
>>768110171
you just jealous
I luv my gf but she wont even suck my dick fml am this close to calling a hooker
>>768110216
not at all, I think the way you write makes you look like a little bitch, that's all
>>768110064
Finnaly someone with some actual sense
>>768109742
How many times have you cheated? And how long was relationship with girlfriend at time?
>>768110237
you write like youre a 15 year old girl on snapchat
>>768109610
Depends how do you feel about that. I've done it couple of times and I don't feel bad about it. I only stopped because it's annoying to live a two lives, and to keep everything clean and hidden. I don't want to live that kind of life. Pussy isn't everything to me, and I would rather do something productive in my spare time. You can always find another one, but that is not the point. You decide. For me it was fun experience with a message at the and, and for you that might not be it ;)
>>768110495
Well spoken
>>768110475
Who gives a fuck
>>768110392
We've been together for three years and it started maybe two years in. I cheated her with about 10 girls and then broke up with her...
>>768108936
Because sex is supposed to be a personal, intimate experience, especially if you're in a relationship; if you just go out fucking other girls, your bird will get jealous and think she's not 'good enough' or something like that. If I were you, I'd just talk it over with her. Maybe ask her if she's cool with you fucking other girls? If she says no, you could always spice up your sex life by roleplay, sex toys, watching porn before you do it, etc. Otherwise just leave her.
>>768110475
Why do you have 15 year old girls added on snapchat pedo
>>768109563
Just go to confession after you cheat than
>>768110495
Well it hasn't happened again. It's more the temptation and the possibility of it happening again that intrigues me.
Would never say I'm proud of it, I'm just human.
But fuck me it was some of the best head I've ever had.
>>768109459
basically this.
>>768108936
Cheating isn't okay. Just date someone else. It's just a fucked up thing to do and it might fuck your own psyche up. And sex life doesn't get boring if you switch things up.
>>768110808
Low amount of sex partners detected
>>768110879
Sjw x1000
>>768110064
/thread
Holy shit what is so difficult about basic empathy? If you don’t want it done to you, don’t do it to someone else.
>>768108936
Yes
unless you do this >>768109365
>>768111032
Fuck that
>>768110893
22 and I've been with 12 girls. Don't know how enjoying temptation implies I have a low count.
>>768108936
Why are we only supposed to have one mate? Marriage is a outdated agreement that somehow brings religion back into our lives... the only pro is the taxes.
>>768110932
Do you even know what sjw means you stupid faggot?
I don’t know in this day of age almost all girls cheat. So I’m not sure if it really matters.
>>768110237
My wife doesn't suck my dick either, but that's because I'm too busy shoving it in her pussy.
Vag will always be superior to mouth.
Iv been in the position to cheat on my lady a few times. Each time my dick wouldnt get hard because all i could picture in my mind was how sad my wife would be if I broke her heart.
I was never unhappy with my wife, I just wanted to bang a few hot chicks.
But I guess it turns out deep down I love my baby girl and my dick wont let me fuck that up.
I still try to get get nudes on Snapchat though but im afraid one of these girls will tell on me to my lady.
>>768111184
Don't forget the cons, women preference in court and can take half of everything
>>768108936
It's worse if it's purely to fuck.
>>768111448
Explain
>>768111184
>brings religion back into our lives
Marriage doesn't have to have anything to do with religion.
you are all fags. the wife and i started swinging... now we have the best sex ever when we are alone.
>>768111362
>in this day of age almost all girls cheat.
That's literally just not true.
The average of guys and girls cheating is about the same.
>>768108936
I fuck girls on the side and i do love my gf
Dont really care because the repercussions are
Other chick gets preggo
Gf gets std
So thats pretty low in risk
She could find out
And ill just deny everything
Losing my mom taught me that losing people isn't really that bad, after all
Also think she knows me, or should know me well enough to know im going to fuck everything above a certain threshold
>>768111560
I would have to disagree, computers have made it much easier for people to get laid. It is fast to find a partner and screen them where in the past was not the case
>>768111388
Vag is great.. still I miss cumming in a chick's mouth
>>768111802
I have yet to see an actual source that shows that women cheat significantly more than men.
>>768112119
Just look at your mom
>>768111184
You don't have to be married to have a relationship. Trust is often the foundation of that and cheating is breaking that trust. If she is okay with it is fine but if you are too scared to tell her in advance is not.
Can't believe I did that on /b. Someone call me a fucking faggot, quickly please.
>>768111388
Dubs of truth checked
I don't care about cheating.
I love my GF but I cheat on her with one of my friend who's really into anal (which GF isn't sadly).
Once every two or three month I spend an evening assfucking her without my GF knowing and it just feels good.
After that, i'm a better lover to my GF, more patient, less needy. It's better for everyone.
(BTW, if GF wants to do the same i'm totally okay with that)
Just involve more people then? Have a 3some or something, you don't have to cheat. If it's getting boring talk to your girlfriend see if she'd be into a threesome or swinging or whatever, that way you aren't being a complete selfish cunt about it and it takes the betrayal of it away. I do it all the time with my girlfriend, if she cheated on me it would still hurt because she'd have gone behind my back about it. Just breaks down the trust in the relationship not to mention living with the guilt of it is fucking shit.
>>768112236
Lol
>>768108936
i cheat on my wife all the time.
marriage makes you do it. dont do it kids!
>>768112397
Half cuck
>>768112397
You don't feel the least bit guilty?
>>768112496
Not really.
I'm sorry she don't think as I do (I used to be in an open relationship before her), and I totally get her POV.
But I don't want to end a relationship just because we're living in a christian-based prudish world.
>>768112236
But my dad cheats just as much, so your argument falls a little flat.
Death before dishonor.
For all the cheaters :
Whats a good site to go to now the CL personals are down? Dont wanna use tinder as my SO's friends use it. Ashley madison is bullshit too.
>>768108936
If you are ok with her fucking other people also and are honest about it then go for it I guess. Sounds gross to me but whatever works I guess.
>>768109365
Why even get married?
>>768112885
>Ultrafaggot
>>768110724
Because their pussy is as tight as a coke-bottle an their horny as fuck at that age..
>>768108936
There is only one problem with that. Girls, just like guys, do cheat. And having a wife/gf that you believe is yours cheating on you isnt fun... so basically if you dont make the change, the change wont happen. Its a responsibility not to cheat.... although its fun, temping and easy to do.
Thats why i say only stay with a person you love... that way cheating will seem boring.
>>768108936
>sex is boring
you are the one making it boring.
>>768109511
>i'd agree that monogamy is mostly made up for fairness in society
t. i have no clue about biology
>>768109427
Pic of slampig?
>>768109007
you broken our unspoken bond when you did not fuck me in the ass.
>>768113713
No idiot some people are just really bad at sex
>>768110932
underage b&?
I don't think so. Take solace in that I guess
it just depends on how much big of a conscience you have
if you're careful it won't come back and bite you in the ass
but then sometines your so will be out and about so that means that could also happen to you
>>768112955
Okcupid doesnt work either.. fyi
I prefer sex where I have an emotional connection to her. A pretty girl with a wet vagina feels nice and all but it’s just not the same if I feel nothing for her. Personally that emotional connection is what makes it worthwhile.
If I just want to orgasm in absence of my partner I can jerk off.
Could I find another random, willing sex partner if I wanted? Sure, most people probably could. But the only time I did that I felt so shitty about myself, like I had just poisoned the act of sex. I could never go through that again.
Inb4 huge faggot beta cuck soyboy neet whatever
why do you niggers don't understand the concept of leaving someone before fucking around after.
if you're on the verge of cheating or have a feeling of being suceptible of cheating what is stopping you from leaving the relationship before doing anything?
if you're too much of a faggot to break your emotionnal comfort by leaving your bf/gf before cheating you're just a crazy piece of shit who is selfish enough to take their love ones as granted and manipulate ppls emotions to your own benefit to fufill primal needs
sex isn't everything
>tl;dr cheating is for niggers.
>>768109742
by just reading this post, i predict that you're psychotic.
What kind of piece of shit is so bad at keeping his word that instead of just being honest he has to resort to rationalizing deception?
If you want to fuck multiple women but fear your gf/wife will not approve, you’re already not even a man.
>>768109602
This.
>>768111388
I rarely get sucked to completion by my wife. Usually its just to get me diamonds for sex. Wife absolutely refuses anal after i made her bleed from her asshole earlier in our relationship, I dont mind that much.
Frequency of sex really dropped off after our kid. Prob once a week now on average.
I have considered cheating when overseas, and have had some online flirtations when she has been out of town, but never pulled the trigger.
>>768108936
It’s cheating.
Is it wrong? Yeah
Am I gonna do it if I can? Yeah
If she does it and I find out an I going to leave her ass with the quickness? You bet
Am I a hypocrite ? 100%
>>768113913
Okcupid does work, btw. So does POF. Tons of women on there ranging from hookers to desperate for affection post hysterectomy 50 year olds.
What if you're dating someone you know it isnt going to last is it ok to cheat then?
>>768114711
this
>>768114339
So? whats ur deal nigg
yes
>>768114860
I would say possibly. I've done that.but it turned out I married the girl I cheated on like 5 years later after being a total asshole to her.
>>768114860
fucking leave her before cheating you inbred autist.
>>768114860
>>768115047
Yea, I hurt the hell out of her feelings. I didnt feel good, and it didnt last with the girl I cheated her on either, and I ended up with a pain in the ass fucking dog because of her too.
because stds
>>768114860
absolutely...at that point, you're only keeping them around for company/sex until something better comes along...get out there and find it
>>768108936
Not at all. thats why I let my wife have bbc all the time. really tho, us white boys cant even compete
>>768111483
If it's purely for the sexual aspect you're just selfishly giving into temptation for the sake of pleasure. If you at least feel that you've "fell out of love" and and have what you believe to be genuine love for the mistress you're trying to satisy an emotional need.
This is why islam is the religion of the future
>can have as many wives as you want as long as you can provide for them
>no man will ever be lazy or cowardly when they could have so much pussy as long as they deserve it
>allowed to bang a broader spectrum of women since there is basically no age of consent
>flying carpets and shit
As long as you're okay with her fucking other guys when your dick gets boring then you should be good.
>>768108936
Do you want her fucking other people? If no then you're a hypocrite. If yes she isn't really the love of your life and you're a cuck.
>>768116345
>the love of your life
>2018
>believing in this shit
>>768116247
incel
>>768108936
I think it's wrong to cheat on your spouse. Idgaf if you cheat on your gf, worst that could happen is that you break up. But destroying your family over some random pussy is retarded imo.
>>768112955
doublelist now bro
>>768116524
no, i dont cheat or try to cheat on my gf.
Why even get in a relationship to be a fucking slut?
>>768113192
My thoughts exactly. If you're gonna act like degenerates why even marry?
Cheating for that reason is obviously bad because you're doing it for a selfish reason. You're just trying to fuck as many girls as you can while being in a committed relationship. But in the end it's up to you, cheat if you want to; I personally would cheat so this way when I get cheated on, instead of looking like a fucking fool when I find out she's been sleeping with other guys and I've only been with her, I can feel less shitty about it because she wasn't the only girl I was fucking.
>>768114667
I have to admit I’m not surprised that a guy who says things like “I rarely get sucked to completion by my wife” is a guy whose wife doesn’t want his cum in her mouth.
>>768111184
Legally speaking marriage is an economic partnership, it doesn't have to be associated with religion unless you're religious.
>>768111424
There's no 'woman preference in court'.
>>768116966
its just called a civil union at that point
>>768117113
Aaaand thread derailing in 3 2 1
>>768114667
My wife also rarely sucks me off to completion. She is under the impression that it's hard to make me cum that way, but I think the problem is her lack of enthusiasm.
I sometimes consider to cheat due to the fact that I rarely feel sexually satisfied with her, even when I cum in her I feel it's mainly to get it over with.
It's like we're not really on the same sexual wavelength after we got kids. I have a very high sex drive and would probably do it every day if I could. I feel like she mostly puts up with it once or twice as week to get me off her back (also in a literal sense).
I don't know what to do, cheating feels tempting but I suppose it isn't the answer.
>>768108936
How would you feel if she fucked someone else, anon.
>>768117143
A civil union is a civil union, a marriage is a marriage
>>768114047
Dude i thought the same way for a bit, just fucked my first hooker, washed my junk thoroughly afterwards but shit was cash. Would def do again.
>>768111548
>now we have the best sex ever when we are alone.
Some twink squealing and ejaculating in thirty seconds from the new techniques his wife learned from fucking Chad for hours on end.
>>768112951
lmao go watch your anime
I truly understand the creator of this thread. I feel the same and I`m fucking other girls from time to time. You`re right, sex does get boring and you just want to fuck another girl. I just don`t feel any guilt, I guess some of you think I`m fucked up but I feel perfectly fine.
I regularly fuck my ex gf without my current gf knowing. Yeah I love my current gf but if it's about sex shes not even close to my ex. My ex is a crazy sex addict. She takes it in her pooper, she sucks like a pornstar, shes got big tits and a decent ass. My chrrent gf is like the opposite of her, but im attracted to her intellect, we have good time together and shit like that. But when it comes to sex, there's noone like my ex.
>>768108936
No one ever mentions the most important thing: you are exposing your partner to physical risk without their knowledge or consent. Even when you take precautions sex in this day and age involves the risk of contracting disease, some of which are incurable. You might not think herpes, for example, is a big deal but your partner might. Imagine if your partner had 1 bullet and a 1000 round chamber revolver. Would you be keen on the idea of your partner playing Russian roulette with you every night when you're asleep? You're not aware of it and the odds of you getting hurt by it are pretty slim
