alright, /b/, here we go
>be me
>talking to this girl for a couple months
>pretty casual, she makes a couple jokes about flirting
>we go out to dinner with some mutual friends
>i act pretty outgoing, that part went pretty well overall
>i really fucking like this girl
>cant tell if i’m just a friend
>ready to an hero
wat fuckin do, /b/ros?
Ask her out on a date? This seems like common sense
>>767954994
Take his advice anon.
Jesus dood. If you've waited months you're already friendzoned and stand no chance. You have to act hella quicker than that. I'm talking like phonecall on the 3rd conversation, meetup no later than after a 4th convo. Anything after that she'll see you as a little bitch because you can't make a move.
>>767954844
Gather yourself think of exactly how you feel.
Put it all into one clear, blunt sentence.
Say that sentence to her face.
Don't be a faggot.
>>767955238
it’s only been a little more than a month, i’m just autistic and figured i’d say a couple
>>767955441
Do this.
>>767955441
>>767954844
If it were me doing this id set a meeting specifically for this seperate from any prior plans.
Sooner rather than later.
>>767955441
>>767956374
>>767954994
>>767955222
Thanks, anons. I’m just gonna ask her on a date and tell her how I feel afterwards, assuming she says yes. I’m probably just going to ask her to see a movie, maybe get food beforehand. Should I explicitly call it a date, or just ask her to go to the movies?
>>767957113
>>767954844
well....if she says no that would be a weird movie.
>>767954844
for seeking advice on /b/ you must actually end yourself
>>767957113
Yes call it a date when you first ask her. That's how you get out of the friendzone. Might be best to give her a short concise statement about your feelings for her when you ask her out.
>Hey anon I've liked you for a while now. Could I take you out on a date?
Or something
>>767957113
Yes, explicitly call it a date
>>767957113
Tough call. If you are already so certain in your mind, it would be good to phrase it like "Do you want to get dinner and a movie some time, like a date?" But if you aren't certain in how YOU feel, phase it like "You want to go out some time, for a movie and maybe food if you want?" The second way lets you see HOW the date goes to decide if you want to profess to her at the end.
>>767957263
I’ve been strongly considering, friend.
>>767957464
If you do this then you'll just be stuck in the friendzone if she doesn't see you romantically. Also it makes you more of a pussy for not calling it a date.
>>767957332
Yep, absolutely this. Just throw all your cards on the table and hope for the best
>>767957686
Right. Otherwise you're just another pussy she can friendzone. I guarantee if you ask like a man you'll feel a lot better than if you had been a coward and only hinted about your feelings.
>>767954844
It’s worth mentioning she and I have a mutual friend we’ve both known for years who i used to be close friends with. I’ll ask her what she thinks. Do you guys want a follow up? Do you care?
>>767958773
Stop stalling and ask her out. I'll be lurking for an update
>>767957113
You call it a date and YOU DO NOT TAKE HER TO THE FUCKING MOVIES OR FOR DINNER. You want to spend the date getting to know each other better, Touching her elbow and hair. Building up a phsyical and mental relationship. Sitting quiet for 2 hours is retarded. People are uncomfortable eating infrontof others, You’lo sit with a table apart.
Activites. 3 quick activitied, Warm drinks like coffee, Tea, Coco. Comfortable couch in a coffee place if daytime date. Relaxed Bar Crawl. Try their on tap beers. Moving her from location to Location in the evening will make her feel like she’s known you for longer. Day time activitied give chances for high fives, Hugs, You’ve got something in your haif. Kiss her right before you go to the bathroom or to buy drinks, Then she can process it while you are gone. Lean in 80% towards her fsce. She will meet you if she wants it. If you can take her to a rollercoaster or similar she will associate you with that rush of adrenalin.
Or you know: I think you’re cute, Lets go sit awkwardly in the dark for 2 hours, talk about the film, Then you try to pathetically kiss her as you say goodbye.
Also, When she’s home. Insist to borrow her bathroom. Wham, you’re inside.
>>767959621
Shit anon I'm not OP but I'm definitely screencapping this for amazing advice.
>>767959800
You’re welcome friend. You can check my sources. Models, The rational male, Bang and day bang. Art of charm and how to talk to girl podcasts.
You can use Pick Up Artist Game to find a high quality girlfriend without getting creepy with it. Have fun bro
>>767960051
Thats why you have to ask her out
>>767957113
get a drink or coffee nigga, dont out yourself in an eating or silence situation on the first date. Just get some casual drinks and have a laugh, be confident and be yourself, chicks respond to that, even if you are a massive nerd
>>767960051
Buddy, You’ve got no game. That’s fine. You can learn that. Society doesn’t teach you this shit. Girls like the bad boys because they are certain and decisive. Most nice guys have alterier motives but a bad boy just says straight out: You’re hot, I wouldn’t feel bad about letting you suck my dick. The nice beta expects her to do it because he bought her a nice dniner. It’s the trade off.
Until you’ve been inside her your story is one if defeat. Get your shit togerher, Take her out. You’re too busy for female friends you want to fuck. Also stop masturbating until she rejects you. Then you go find a new girl.
No, fuck you and your dance eccuse. Also don’t justify that movie shit like that. You two aren’t different.
>>767954844
Play dumb on her, and when both of you are alone steal a kiss from her. Even if she rejects you (which is probably not going to happen) you will feel much better than being a Mordecai.
Also if she rejects you, don't get mad at her. Tell her after a few hours (on text message if you are too pussy) that you don't want things to get weird and you cant afford to lose her as a friend too. That theres not too much to think about it.
>Protip: don't you ever say you are sorry. She will hate you for saying sorry.
Also you could go the easy way and rape her. You know almost everything about her at this point. wear a mask and rape her. Then show your support as the friendo you are. Then fuck her again until she asks why does your dick tastes like her rapist (you can always say that you fucked the rapist in the ass).
>>767960829
Clearly bad advice.
Just be a man and take her on a date OP
>>767961207
Dates are for faggots. Also OP will spagett because has none experience at all.
>>767957113
Don't tell her how you feel. Just ask her on a date. Obviously show that you want to go on a date with her but don't push your feelings on her at all.
>>767961381
>don't tell her how you feel
Disagree. You're a pussy if you don't go all in and she'll know it
