Feels thread
Anyone else ever just feel like they have no one else to talk to about life problems because they might seem miniscule compared to others?
All the time buddy. I try not to talk to anybody about my feelings and just bottle them up.
>>767943613
Tell me your problems OP
I get that, Anon. I'm currently dealing with some weird shit with one of my friends. She keeps sending signals that she wants me to ask her out, but I don't feel the same way. I'm not sure if I should just date her for a while to make her happy. I don't want to lose her as a friend as she's the closest friend I've had in a while but I don't know what to do. I'm not really looking for advice, just someone to talk to.
>>767943817
That just makes it 10x worse
>>767943817
>>767943987
I understand the bottling up the feelings thing. I do it all the time as I know people don't want to talk to sad me, but everyone loves happy me. It's hard not to get conditioned by all of that.
>>767944104
That's exactly how I feel. Nobody wants to talk to a sad person about how they feel bad. It's annoying and no fun. So I just try to fake the happiness around them to avoid being a bother.
>>767943613
I dont need someone to talk to. Just drink until your brain stops thinking. No one else wants to be dragged into your trivial little problems
>>767943961
Long story short, I think I have some kind of minor autism that makes it extremley hard for me to make/keep friends other than the ones I just joke around with all the time who I can’t be “real with” ever so I have no one to talk to ever about real problems and on top of that student debt is crushing me aswell as the thought of how fucked US politics are
yeh
but i have no friends so i really dont have anyone to talk too
i just started a apprenticeship so im really trying not to be awkward and fake it when im there but its difficult
>>767944330
When you get older you will have very few if any actual friends anymore. You better learn how to deal with things yourself or your 30's/40's are going to be a real killer
>>767943613
I don't know, I just grew up bottling feeling up and got used to it. Well, to be honest it's more like I don't bottle anything at all, I just don't give a fuck about anything.
Set yourself a goals and work. I had edgy bipolar disorder and now that I dont have even time to wipe my ass properly Im the most stable I have ever been.
>>767944450
Same here. I remember getting beaten by my dad before I would talk about how I feel. I still remember hearing "you are a man, you dont have "FEELINGS" *smack* *smack* *smack* Dont be a little bitch. No one likes a little bitch *smack*
And lord help me if I cried. I would get beat 5 times harder
>>767944223
Yeah, I usually just have one friend that I reveal my true feelings to. This way you can keep face to almost everyone, plus you will have one friend who will be there for you. I currently have this, but that friend wants to take things to the next level and I just want to stay as friends. I guess the world can't always be simple as I want it.
I struggle with this too, I have found a small community I get along with and I have a RL friend, all else are aquauntances from studying and worthless stuff, everyone feels alone really
To any and all you guys who feel alone and left out and like nothing has meaning, you can change your life. I used to be a sad sack of shit and I had a lot of problems things will seem tough and itll feel hard to get through them but if you keep a smile and get over your fears and talk to people things will improve so much. Theres so many things to experience and so many precious things in this world you cant miss out on. Do what makes you happy not the people around you.
>>767944658
My father was simply a stranger living under the same roof, used to beat me sometimes and didn't care at all about the family. My mom is so overprotective that it's annoying, it goes beyond any limit, she literally doesn't want me to travel anywhere because she wants me to stay close to her.
So I guess it was pretty confusing growing up with two extremes like that. There were countless traumatic events too, but that would take too long.
People think I'm really cold because I don't have any emotion, but on the inside I don't know, I just have no idea how to show or react to those feeling.
Bump, I'm feeling pretty down today
>>767943613
Pretty depressed about my body... i have a lot of "unchangeable" attributes that suck. Never had a girlfriend. I am 25. And every time I look at myself in the mirror i want to end it all.
So much bullshit going on in my life and I'm afraid I can't keep it up. I just want a quiet life but everything changes so fast. Time flies by quicker than ever, I miss being a carefree happy child, never had someone who really showed their love for me and everyday I think about ending it all.
The only reason I can't kill myself is because I'm afraid I'll be remembered as the "pussy who wasn't strong enough" which I think it's true. Even dead I'm worried about what others would think of me, pretty pathetic huh? I'm afraid to talk to people about this because I'm afraid they will laugh at me or saying I'm just doing it for attention. Give me a reason to keep on going.
>>767946506
im ugly too, it sucks big time, theres nothing worse in this world than being ugly
>>767943963
sounds like you got urself in a pickle anon
>>767944223
>>767944104
i think its a bad mentality to have, to assume that people dislike talking to you when your down/sad... you should find someone who you can open up to like a family or a friend etc
its nice to get stuff off your chest every once in a while
>>767947321
Yeah, I'll try being honest with her. I just hope it goes better than last time as best friend before ended up living in agony with being friend zoned for so long.
>>767943613
I just got a bj from my girlfriend a few minutes ago. Feeling pretty good right now.
>>767947662
I do, but i just don't open up to everybody. I sucked when I was between friends and couldn't talk to anyone, but now I'm starting to open up to this one girl I eat with everyday.
>>767944270
what about your family?
>>767947792
thats great anon
im an introvert myself, so i can relate on how awkward things can be with new groups of people, but i dont think theres anything wrong with that
>>767946506
Same, I got stretch marks everywhere. Back, ass, arms. I look like a tiger when I'm naked.
>>767947020
Hey anon, i think its in our mindset to worry about what others perceive about us. Worrying about that isn't pathetic its normal, even in this extreme circumstance. As for a reason to continue, I can't really answer that since I'm not you, but there has to be someone in your life that cares about you and helping support them by any means is a reason I guess, whether it be your family or friend or lover. Best of luck with whatever you are going through anon.
>>767949196
I feel distant from everybody I know, mostly because it's in my nature to alienate myself socially, one of the this I hate most about myself. I'm not able to feel empathy for someone else and still I expect to be loved? My feelings are very contradictory and I'm afraid living for someone else isn't a option. Thanks for your time and attention still, it may not seem much but replying helped a bit.
nightdrake#2302 has and will listen to anon before. Seems ancient, it’s worth a shot
I'm madly in love with someone who doesn't even like me back. I would do anything even to just have sex with him once lol I'm so pathetic. I've tried getting over him but damn. I'm such a loser.
>>767947020
This is an antenna that manipulates metaphysical potentials. I’m busy decompiling the build so someday you and others can be taught how to use it. Stay frosty anon.
I'm dating a chick that's 4'7, she's doesn't have a medical condition just a fucking midget.
good fucks.
>>767950384
Hey, pretty cool project you got there.im afraid that it won't cheer me up but it's still pretty cool an I'd love to see it work. Thanks
>>767949669
I'm not really sure if this is relatable, but im a textbook introvert which usually leads to me being alienated when outside my circle of friends and I'm going to a uni away from home and without any of my friends, so I guess im going to be in a similar position to you, and its something I also hate about myself, but I guess we just have to come to terms with who we are and accept it, and try work around it, and If you can't live for anyone else then live for yourself anon, go set a realistic goal for your current lifestyle and try your hardest to go and meet it, maybe along the way you will find someone or realise that there was somebody who has loved you all along.
>>767950343
Are you in love with him or lusting him?
>>767951278
Probably more lust than love youre right about that. But doesnt matter I cant sleep either way.
>>767950783
Good anon, it’s hard work with a meaningful end goal- to help others. We are evolving quickly but lagging behind with helping youngens get on the ladder without getting knocked back off. I recently asked the president Of ULA (big company in US) and he had this to share.
>>767951257
HI thanks for your time. Sadly I don't have goals. All my life things just playied out by themselves, so I kinda lost that feeling of wanting something. I never had goals/objectives in my life which is part of the problem I just let myself go with the flow and pretend I care.
>>767951421
I can't really help seeing as I have little to no experience with this, but when I asked my friend for advice on a girl, he told me to just talk to her more often and build a relationship from the ground up, essentially. Doubt this will help.
>>767951645
Ive tried chatting with him but he just responds with one sentence replies so there's nothing to work with. He's just not interested. But thanks for trying to help me out
>>767951645
New responder here: it will work if you and her strike a balance, hit her up for short greetings and good vibes. I can promise you there is a universal law of 3. What goes around comes around multiplied by the power of three, but it does not adhere to the dimension of time so don’t expect anything back ever, because that is when it will trigger a return. Be well & successful traveller- remember, “no” is always a valid response in situations that you believe you must take a stance upon.
Search for this signature without the cross. It’s a door. Open it.
>>767952039
Que?
>>767952189
Take a little time & space to reflect upon it anon, we pick our words very very precisely.
I was watching this show. A character asked another if they think there is a finite amount of suffering in the world. Like if one person is in the hospital in pain and gets cured then pain goes to someone else. If there is a god of some sort did they make it so there is supposed to be so much suffering. IDK just made me think.
>>767952526
Life itself is suffering, it’s on purpose and intended. It is life. It is the purpose in which we learnt how to overcome the impossible. (Not op) It is the time you must learn new things to take on that pain and suffering so that others do not need to carry yours but will look to you as their inspiration to also keep the going- going.
>>767951590
I realise my own hypocrisy... Whilst attempting to helping with your problems I am reminded of my own in the process. Once again I'm not sure If you are the same but I too lack a dream or passion for anything, and have always went with the flow in a sense. As a result I can't help you with this, but we've gone this far by winging it, so whats a little more time? maybe we will find something along the way, maybe not.
Anons their is a cure for what ails you
