Why do westernised Asian girls loves white guys /b/, and pick us nice asian dudes last?
I spent a good proportion of my life as single - I'm an asian dude but can only speak English (I'm also westernised) and have noticed that all in their teens and 20's Asian girls that I craved, loved and wanted didn't seem to want me back. I noticed almost every single one of them seemed to prefer white dudes, and it made me sad tbh.
Sure I liked white, asian, etc. girls but they only seemed to go for white dudes and it kinda really hurt me.. but now that I'm in my early 30's I've noticed almost all of the asian chicks I used to talk to and wanted seem to want me now. I've worked out and had shit done to my face (honestly the best I've ever looked in my life so far) and I've got a nice 6 figure job. I've noticed now the Asian girls that are in their 30's seem to want me now.
I won't lie some have gone fairly downhill but other are still really attractive... but why do they all of a sudden want me now? I've even had this girl of my dreams, my best friend and Asian crush I had since middleschool who still looks hot af, tell me I'm a "perfect man". She's ALWAYS only liked white dudes before... and she's seen how I act and support her after all her shit she dealt with and now she wants to be with me. She said some shit like she's had her 'fun' and now she wants to have a 'King' in her life and for her to be his Queen. (We had a deep ass discussion about this, won't go into too much details now.)
I don't get it /b/.. can someone explain why these Asian chicks I liked are acting all different now?
she wants the beta bucks back faggot
>>767824564
Asian men have small penis
I know if cause I'm asian man
and you can't deny it
>>767824564
Im a mid 20s white guy with a long term asian gf, from what ive been told, probably because theyre over 30, and to be an unmarried asian girl over 30 is unacceptable to them and their families.
>>767824564
AYO WHATUP ASIAN BOI, US WHYTE BOIS TAKIN YO *BITCH* ASIAN BOI
>>767824695
My gf is vietnamese, and from vietnam.
For her, she'd never date a vietnamese guy because they're still very chauvinistic and extremely sexist. She's a feminist and could never deal with someone like that. Mind you, not 3rd wave feminist, but real feminist because Vietnam is still incredibly sexist.
It also helps that I treat her with respect, spoil her from time to time, and treat her like a companion and not a housewife who's sole purpose is chores and child rearing.
>>767824893
Also true.
>>767824564
Real question: why do white girls like black guys?
>implying that our taste of girls are much better then white and blacks..
>>767824564
They are physically bigger and stronger. They are more successful generally. They tend to be more respectful, and interact well with Asian parents. And they aren't big scary black men
>>767824838
Eh 6 inch, I'm not proud but not too ashamed of my dick size.
>>767824893
>>767825066
I'm talking wbout westernised ones. Probs the same though.
>>767825042
Are you white? Like I said I'm westernised. I had plenty of white girls date me and I loved them, many ended in good terms and they thought I was the sweetest kindest guy ever.
I do understand some vietnamese dudes are like that. By the way what's your nationality, white-American?
>>767825123
Still doesn't answer why they want me now. And also I'm a fucking manlet but I make up for it with a greek-god body from the gym lol.
>>767824564
Honestly most Asian girls I know prefer Asian and then white. I do like in the south though not a big city. All the girls I am talking about are in early to mid twenties. Even my gf said that she only ever wanted to date white and Asian.
>>767825109
Actually it's the black guys that like white girls, that's cute that you flipped it around though. You want it to be true so bad
>>767825391
Live* not like
>>767824564
Asian girls primarily dates Asian guys. The problem with most Asian guys is that they're usually shy or tend to avoid talking to girls and end up seeming like betas. Its not a race thing, because its the same case with white betas, mexican betas, etc. Its a competitive world and girls won't come knocking on your door unless you go out there and try.
As a white guy, i think most of you Asian guys are pretty cool. Don't fall for extremism or /r/aznidentity/ propaganda. Most of them hide their racism behind social justice, and blames their incel status on race instead of trying to improve their behavior.
>>767825319
There's no difference between women. You weren't attractive enough in your 20's, they're getting older and realize they can't get hot guys...they want safety and security because they're getting older and want a family. You're safe, you have cash now...so yeah, you're attractive enough to them. Happens with white women, too.
>>767824564
So it basically goes like this
black/spanish men = masculine
asian men = stable
white men = both
once you get into your 30s you're running out of time and you need to give something up, which is why women in that age group just want a stable man, like how younger women usually want a masculine man.
White men usually have an upper hand on asian men in almost every way.
>>767825042
my boyfriend is Vietnamese, really cute and all, I think he actually prefers White Girls for some reason
>>767825477
Yeah, it is generally only the fat slags that can't get white or Asian guys who lust after your average black guy. If a black guy is hot/rich he'll get any race, just like a hot/rich guy of any race.
>>767824564
White man talking here OP, but that's what I've heard:
>Whites are usually much nicer and respect them more than an average "Open Bob".
>Whites got bigger/better maintained dicks.
>To be with a white guy is more instagrammable
>Whites usually have an easier life in Western Countries
>White guys treat Asian girls like white girls, not Asians.
>They know they are a whites fettish so they can use it as a bargaining chip.
>They know whites will show them off a trophy not as just a girl.
>>767824564
High-tier LARPing right there, friend.
I see lots of faggots bit the bait.
>>767824564
Im white. Your problem isn't because you're Asian. Now you probably have some studies and a good job. Women notice at 30 that living with Chad is a shit-tier life. They start to search serious partners at that age. Now it's your time to go with 18 to 20 year old girls. Forget the girls of your age, 30 year old girls are for +50 year old guys.
>>767825525
Eh I seemed to get white woman more easier, they seemed nicer to me and actually wanted to talk to me (teens AND in my 20's).
But like I said the Asian girls seem to want me more now than they ever did. They also don't seem to care about dating Asian guys anymore, but I just feel as though it's like we're a second choice now..
>>767825846
R u an asian girl?
>>767826044
Lmao I heard that before too but it's funny how surprised some girls are to see my average 6 inch lmfao.
>>767825827
I guess Asian dudes need to lift more lol. I found it harded to get asian girls than white woman
>>767825042
Spotted the beta. Enjoy your sloppy seconds.
>>767826291
>It's funny how surprised some girls are to see my average 6 inch
That's because 6 inch is in white countries
Eatdogistan average is 3.5 or something
>>767826358
Every girl is a sloppy second. I fucked a 13 year old girl and even she said i wasnt her first at the time
> mfw I wa s 23
>>767826212
So pretty much you're saying:
>Woman reach 30
> looks start fading.
> Realises she can't get everything she wants anymore using her sex appeal
> desperately trying to find some poor soul to take her sloppy seconds(millionth) and provide for her
Correct?
>>767826358
using the term "sloppy seconds" is some beta shit for real
Went to Vietnam and met a girl that was a 10/10 by local standards.
She was obsessed with having kids with a white man as she wanted kids with blue eyes. Didn't have the heart to tell her the unlikelihood of that one...
Had the odd racist comment from men in Hanoi but generally nobody was fussed by us.
Been with a couple of Thai girls (not bar girls or any of that carry on) and nobody bats an eyelid no matter where in the country you are.
>>767826646
correct.
That's why you should avoid having a girlfriend of your own age. women's intentions are totally different from men's intentions.
>>767826291
personally, I don't think it's all about lifting
You need to have the right charisma and be quirky at the same time. A lot of asian girls don't like dudes who are "too big" just usually lean. And of course some love big dudes. Depends on the person really
>>767826607
Hello there anon I am too interested in such adventures.
Could you give me more evi- details about it please.
>>767824564
Delete this incel shit and stop making everything about people's ethnicity.
>>767827274
Kek
I lived in Korea for a year, the korean girls i dated said they didn't like korean guys because they didn't treat them well and still held traditional beliefs about submissive women; they also said they were generally creepy assholes.
Of course this is coming from korean girls who specifically seek tall white guys so that's their bias. I've also known Asian girls who want the traditional korean boyfriend/husband so maybe it's just you.
the real answer
>>767825893
>>767826358
Lol, I'm her first.
Dirty jungle asian reporting in. I'm just a few years younger than you. That's weird because its the complete opposite for me. Asian girls of all type have been extremely easy to get with and white girls in general seemed uninterested. But yea asian bitches through being a slut at that age and want stability and someone their family will be comfortable with. You should definitely fuck around with younger bitches and then find a nice anything other than asian girl. Asian bitches are the worst. I'm over em.
>>767824564
>Why do westernised Asian girls loves white guys /b/, and pick us nice asian dudes last?
Why do white girls love black guys and pick white dudes last?
Maybe there's a subconscious biological drive in women to procreate with males who are genetically as different from themselves as they can get.
Or maybe it's cock size.
>>767824564
TL:DR
Maybe it's cause you're one of them hook weirdos who's obsessed with anime.
>>767824564
You should try not being a fucking faggot. kys
>>767827182
I had a Thai gf and she said the same stuff to me, I have blue eyes she wanted kids with blue eyes too, but I told her it was impossible, for some reason she refused to believe it.
She also asked me if she should get blue contact lenses once, and another time asked me if it would be weird if she dyed her hair blonde. I told her it would look unnatural on her.
Basically Asian girls that seek out white guys are self hating Asians and wish they were white. Subconsciously or otherwise. End of the story is I stick with my own race now. I want kids that are white like me. I don't hate Asians though or interracial couples, it's their life not mine.
>>767831529
Every 7/11 you go into in Thailand has a decent sized section of skin lightening products.
