Does anyone from /b/ have wise words you can share to a depressed, lonely, alcoholic, suicidal 22 year old motherfucker? I’m struggling right now and I’m sure other people here are too.
Get a goal in life
For most people its kids or money, but we al know thats bs
Personally I want to swim across the English channel one day, which is a major motivation for me to get fit right now
The most important thing is to choose something you actually want and not something you think you should want
Life has no intrinsic meaning. It is up to you to give it meaning. Either you can live a short, boring, sad life and kill yourself, or you can live a long, wonderful, happy life. It's your choice anon.
Factually untrue. Life, any life, has one meaning and one meaning only; to reproduce. You're literally alive to make more copies of yourself.
So the answer it so find a pussy and fuck the living shit out of her.
And don't try to argue with this. You will fail and I won't even bother to reply to you.
I went to a counsellor and she wanted to put me in group therapy, only free way to do it. I dipped out of the first session and never went back. She figured I had pretty bad depression, unless I'm drunk I'm just kinda sad all day long. Do you work OP?
White nationalism makes people feel better about themselves? How so? It's a noble cause, but when you become redpilled on that topic the reality is very depressing. It's much easier to not acknowledge the destruction of your people and their civilization and see no difference between the races. Ignorance is bliss.
First, stop with the labels....alcoholic, sad, depressed, suicidal, lonely....in other words, what you focus on is what you feel.
You're an awesome, amazing, kind, loving human being. You have so much to give to others. We lose our way sometimes. That's ok. There ARE choices in life. We make them and sometimes they're made for us. In this case, you have a choice - ether begin the process and journey towards a better future or keep repeating the same,tired, failed blue print.
I love you, you awesome person.
Life is more than positives, it comes with negatives too, a lot for some more than others. Your brain is like a muscle. You need to work it out regularly to cultivate positive behaviors if you want an enjoyment in life. Death is inevitable. We are organic molecules that have grown consciousness out of billions of years of evolution (that we know of); in addition, we are inconsequential in size to the enormity of infinitely expanding space. We are an anomaly, enjoy what the universe offers! You have the ability to focus on the fruit of life right in front of you, but you won'tn't have the will power to grasp it unless you open your eyes and exercise your brain to be positive-minded.
I wish i had an answer. Im 33, alcoholic, divorced, living with parents. I honestly do try as hard as possible. Took me years just to get my bachelors. Ive held steady jobs, but depression/anxiety and low self esteem is making it harder to find work. Anyway im rambling cause im drunk and playing Fallout 4. My advice is just find something you really enjoy and take steps to achieve it. Try balancing out healthy habits along with your drinking, such as lifting, running/walking, clean eating, being outside. The small things really do help.
Yes, white nationalism and alcohol go hand in hand
>Unironic, mainstream beer sold in America for the real Murican'
Stop drinking. Do whatever you have to do. After that, do lots of mindfulness. And improve yourself, stay occupied, stay amused.
It's all one day at a time, and as long as you don't let yourself do nothing, there will be progress. When you look back you'll see how far you've come. But don't trust your own thoughts right now. They'll give you shitty predictions.
White nationalism offers the depressed alienated young white man hope for a better tomorrow and answers to the question of how and why our countries have gone down the toilet.
Honestly dude, listen to this podcast. Pic related. It's called small beans. They've got several different topics go down to the beginning and find the first "Tales from the Pit" episode. Listen to all of those. They are great. It will hot you right in the feels and lift you up at the same time. I highly recommend it.
Reproduce or no, the outcome is the same. We die. The universe itself will eventually, in time, die as well. The way i see it, just have fun and live your life while you have it. It's the only one you get.
Stop watching porn, stop drinking, stop going on 4chan, stop playing vidya, stop eating in excess, stop watching anime, stop watcching tv, stop doing drugs, stop staying at home, go out and socialize, get fit, get a girlfriend, get a job, be a man for tomorrow
>diagnosed with major depression and panic disorder
>doesn’t believe in that shit
Honestly just kill yourself already. If you aren’t going to actually do anything to improve yourself then you shouldn’t even be alive
I'm 35. I was where you are at 22. I also smoked cigarettes. My advice is: Drink less. If you need it to sleep, try sleep aides and less booze. I used to try to keep up with my friends, but too much binge drinking and shitty food led to having my gall bladder removed. Now when I eat too much bacon or red meat, I can feel my body trying to make use of that little organ that isn't there anymore. It's a sharp constant pain. Drink less, enjoy bacon.
Love who you love unashamedly.
Time always passes, and this too will pass.
Love your parents dearly, because they will wither.
Share yourself with many people.
A good friend gave me some advice and I'm still struggling with it but I'm getting a bit better. He said, if you are gonna continue to live and don't want to be miserable all the time, embrace the suck. So, in a way, I'm working toward it. Also, trying to enjoy the small shit and not to beat up on myself so bad and stop over thinking shit. Also another thing I sort of took from a quote: people don't think about you as much as you think, most are self absorbed so fuck it. I have anxiety on top of my trying to find a reason to get out of bed that's not to go hang myself. Uh, try to get out of your head, physical activity helps me. Not like johhing or lifting weights, like working with my hands. I like to sharpen knives and hatchets and I'm going to pick up blacksmithing and some wood working. So, yeah. Set little goals like that man. Like, I'm gonna get up and go, whatever it is you like to do, draw, sharpen knives or finger your ass in public, just do something and keeping the hands busy usually helps, also helps pass time. I've been like this for years and I'm a bit older, so, if you find anything that helps man, stuck to it. As far as I know, you get one of these lives so, fuck it, get out of your head and into a bottle, a pussy, a dude, a book, a fight whatever just try to do shit. Everyone's life ends no one ever completes it. Good luck man, we aren't entitled to shit so make of it what you can and seek meds if you want too. Just do research and do it all the way. Also, be glad your at a young age man. Best of luck anon and remember to try and embrace the suck because we aren't entitled to happiness or anything for that matter.
Take some lithium supplements and do some exercise you lazy bum. And about alcoholism, take the trainspotting route and detox. There is no easy way with that one, you will feel like shit fof many months, so think long before that, maybe you function better with some beers.
What are your problems?
Are they really problems?
Are they problems with you?
Keep identifying problems, which ones can be solved?
It takes time and the problems are never ending, but if you're truly determined to you will find peace one day.