Is it possible to buy a girlfriend in japan?
I heard you could pay schoolgirls in japan to
be your girlfriend for a day, they are even willing
to have sex. But can you actually buy a woman/pay her to be your girlfriend in Japan? Or anywhere except for Africa and third world countries?
Also there's one obstacle, everytime i approach a Japanese girl she will run away screaming, this happened when i was in Wakkanai 2 years back, and all i did was say hi. I still think they're just the cutest, maybe they were just a little bit shy.
I have watched a documentary on it and they're not strippers, They wore normal clothes. It's simply a way girls in Japan can make money, like if her family has financial problems etc.
What's the matter, can't get a literal slut Western whore in your own country? You that beta? You'll still be beta in another country, the language barrier won't hide your inferiority.
idk the only girlfriend ive had it never felt to me like i had to pay for sex and love it just came naturally. unless you mean buying her gifts and stuff but she bought me gifts too so i didn't care. also you always split the bill when you go out to eat
How old you are, are you skinny, healthy fit, athletic fit, muscular or just anything over 25 BMI without any muscle (all by japanese standards), and were you alone or did you have company.. All these things really make a difference.
My first trip to Japan was when I was 20 so barely adult by japanese standards. Was with my then gf, now wife. Had a lot of small talk with local girls from 20-28 which all started with "oh where are you from" etc. Im not good looking by any western standards, max 6/10 but I'd rank myself 4/10. Just have somewhat unique look and skinny fit /healthy body and being a manlet (5' 6" in freedom units) really seemed to help. And also not being "an american tourist" as in being loud, wrong clothing for the current weather, being loud.. We had most success in small talk/connecting with people when we alternated between our native language ( finnish ) and english from every now and then. And just being as white as a white person can be.
Didn't know japanese for shit, but understanding the culture also seemed to help. Am drunk so what I'm saying is prob really difficult to follow but.. No, didn't get to have sex but got to kiss and hug few girls during the 3 weeks I was there with the gf's approval. We introduced ourselves as siblings to younger people just so they wouldn't feel awkward with any approaches they might want to make. To all servers and older people we were married and had our "wedding rings" ready in our pockets.
Success rate of approacing japanese girls alone or with my "sister" were both really low.. Restaurants, starbucks? Never even try. Izakaya? Well, maybe, but most likely nothing. Clubs? Sure thing, but don't expect anything. Randomly in the streets before Izakayas open? That's where we found our luck.
And to the real topic:
No you cant buy them as a mail order wifes, but being rich surely has its perks. But you still can't "buy" anyone but maybe impress.
It's called "compensated dating" as far as what you're referring to.
I don't know if that involves sex, Japan likes to compartmentalize everything.
Separately, you can pay actors to play the role of everything. Father, mother, sister, brother, husband, wife. I assume girlfriend also, but there would be no physical contact in that situation
Just a heads up to anyone actually thinking it's as easy as walking to a brothel or finding a street hooker.
There is usually alot of back and forth messaging before any action (even any meal), and the girls are afraid of foreigners. They want long term sugar daddies, not random guys buying them a meal and a bracelet for sex.
Yes, there are services for foreigners (english speakers) but those girls are most likely not japanese and are closer to hookers.. Well, actually, just hookers. Same with 95% of the street hookers you are offered in the right parts of the cities
you're right you have to put time and effort into good things im just saying if theres no reciprocation then its not a good place
i gave her one more gift than she gave me so i guess you're right
reminds me of nakasu i think in fukuoka. no hookers really just bying drinks to the hostess and talking with here with absurd prices id never paid myself ever. Friend of mine had won a decent price in a local lottery and we had a deal that if any one of us would win more than 100k then the person would pay a 1-2 week trip to somewhere with a budget of 4k~ in dollars. So he paid us one night in a brothel or a bar where we got to chat with japanese ladies who spoke english. there was six of us and I think 3 ended up taking the girl to the hotel and the rest 3 said it seemed straight forward and they could have had the girl or woman if they wanted. Who knows. All the ladies were +25 tho
Just to continue. Finding a hooker in Japan is really easy in any sizable city (Tokyo, Osaka, Kyoto, Fukuoka) and even the bouncers / GUYS trying to sell you the girls that wait inside are pretty friendly and chill. You can easily ingore them and if you have company of opposite sex they won't even bother really. Well, some do, but even as an introvert I found it fun when I was tipsy. Second trip I visited two but it just didn't feel right for me. All the showering and drying etc was relaxing and hot, but somehow I felt like a molester as all the girls where chinese/else. The price for a "real japanese experience" started with 300-400 euro/dollar and that just didn't hit our budget. From what I've heard the price I was asked was really high but.. I felt tempted. Don't regret it tho, just didn't seem my thing. Paying from person straight to another? That would fit me better, but as a foreigner..
Easy in the Philippines girls will stand in line for you.
They will do anything you ask em
I went through a false saying I could only cum if my asshole was licked. Even had a girl bring her friend along so she could lick my asshole whilst she fucked me.
Damned good fun I can tell you and cheap to