Legitimate question here. What do I do if I think I'm a pedophile. How do I get help? How can something like that even be helped? inb4 kill yourself - I'm not depressed and I want to try change my views and am willing to try to. "Normal" 18+ girls (/guys) hardly turn me on compared to a semi-chubby loli/3-4 year old. At first I just liked loli but now I'm concerned that I'm actually into real life kids. It scares the fuck outta me.
You're probably not a pedophile you're just really attracted to Loli art. Lolis are way different in cartoon form than in real form. Jerk off a little and then ask yourself the same question afterwards. If you are a pedophile you're fucked, society views pedophiles as the lowest of the low
The problem I'm having is sometimes I see a kid that resembles loli art with legs similar to the OP and I think I'm starting to get turned on by it. Maybe it just reminds me of loli. hm
If you live in Germany, you can get help.
Almost anywhere else mentioning it to a health professional or therapist will get you reported to the authorities.
And no, there's nothing you can do. Just accept it and vow never to actually touch a kid.
your local degenerate/ pedo here,it was really scary at first and i hated myself for a while. Then i realized that it's just who i am and have to live with it. Just how some guys like it old we happen to like it young. i have no intent on ever touching anyone under 18 cus u know...laws and stuff. There is no help,there is no one you can tell. i was lucky and my friends accept me for who i am but uhhhh...yeah
Meh, a lot of people find a lot of weird shit a turn on. The thing is do you want to cross a line and act on it, if the answer is yes then you’re a risk. Otherwise, do what everyone does with their deviant fantasies and keep them as fantasies.
Don't fret too much op. There are two types of pedos;
>attracted to young children.
>attracted to 2d. But you're not attracted to children. It's just the two things you like (sex and cute girls (and let's face it no girls are cuter than young girls))
If you're the second type then you probably think young girls are cute but also want to protect them and would never want to harm them. And that's okay
See a therapist, unless you're showing signs you're about to act on your urges, there's nothing they can legally do to report you.
And you're in California? Pretty sure you get a tax break for it there.
>They fell for the 18yo hag "law"
Not op but:
"At first I just liked loli but now I'm concerned that I'm actually into real life kids"
Tax break for like loli, oh boy
Yea, I never could see myself wanting to harm a child. I would be disgusted with myself for life. I just would want to hold one and cuddle and treat them like they're everything to me. Just makes me really sad that I'll never be able to truly express my love :(
First off, learn the difference between arousal and attraction. You probably aren't a pedophile. I find plenty of kids arousing but I am not attracted to them. Little Kelly gets my dick hard (and I wouldn't say no cuz I'm a slut), but Mama Sally is where it wants to go given the choice. There is more to attraction than just getting your dick hard.
This is important though, if you are an actual pedophile then find work with adults exclusively, get a vasectomy (to avoid accidental impregnation should you get with an adult), and never tell anybody. Society will NOT understand, they do NOT want you getting help, and they WILL try to hurt you if they find out. Good luck OP.
I was gonna call bullshit on this, but then I looked it up and it is indeed valid...
also for some reason the page went right to this fun little nugget of info:
"Anal intercourse in Canada
Section 159 of the Criminal Code criminalizes anal intercourse, but provides exceptions for a husband and wife, and any two persons 18 years of age or older. These exceptions do not apply if a third person is present, or if the anal intercourse takes place anywhere but in private. However, courts in Ontario, Quebec, and Alberta have independently declared s. 159 to be unconstitutional as violations of the equality provision of the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms."
Bad luck, that's just how you are, same as gays. The best you can do is just stay away from kids irl. If you can't, then try to get help from psychiatrists. Don't make it public or tell anyone. Normies don't understand, they think every pedo is a rapist who should be castrated and go to jail.
>every pedo is a rapist
Statatorially, yes. That's how it works, fucktard.
When was the last time you slept with a woman? I mean that as a serious question. If you've never had sex then it may just be a matter of uncorking the bottle. Incidentally, do you feel any infatuation when you're interacting with a kid that you find arousing?