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My new girlfriend is into orgasm denial.

She loves bringing me to the brink of cumming, but then she stops. She has given me a blowjob every day this past week, but she never finishes it. She stops right before I'm about to cum and then denies me consent to have sex. We haven't had sex since last Saturday, but she constantly talks about it. She encourages me to watch porn with her. She lets me watch her use her vibrator. It's like her goal is to keep me horny, in a constant state of arousal.

It's driving me fucking nuts.
What do?
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Punch her in the head and rape her
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>>767457861
Rape the cunt you cuck.
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Do the sme to her and make see how much it pisses you off! Alternatively just dump her for being a cunt
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If you're into it then just keep it going. If you don't like it and it's really bothering you then talk to her about it. Communication is key in a relationship and if you dislike it and let it go on eventually it's going to lead to a huge fight.
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Sit down with her and explain your feelings. It may be you are incompatible sexual.

>>767457921
Or this
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>>767457861

Dunt the cump
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>>767457861
Dump her.
She doesn't care about your pleasure, only humiliating/controlling/dominating you.
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>>767457861

Why is this even a question? Talk to her about it and, if you don't like the answer, find someone else.

This isn't that hard...
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>>767457861
Tell her you have a rape fetish and rape her when she leaves you on the edge, not hard mate.
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stop being a whiny bitch and just fuck her in the ass with no lube she will love it
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>>767458002
I'm not into it and I have told her that I don't like it.
She just smiles and says, "Deal with it."

She's way out of my league and she knows it. She has a perfect body.
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>>767457861
wow, leaving my dream
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>>767458154
But I'll never find a girl this hot who would date me.
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>>767458271
Why are you staying with a hot girl if you don't even get sex? The fact that she holds that over your head shows she has zero respect for you. Dump her otherwise life is not gonna get better and you'll just continue to be miserable. Again you aren't even getting sex out of this, leaving her is the only option that's good for you.
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>>767458271
post pic for us to rate your league
inb4 shy beta neckbeard
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>>767458271
Sounds like you're up shit creek. Adapt or break it off. Go for some revenge sex kind of shit, because believe it or not, she's asking you to step up to the plate.
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>>767458271
kek
Then get ready when she's cheating on you, saying the same even if you start complaining.
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>>767458395
this guy gets it
if a bitch denies you pussy she is either cheating, insecure or punishing you for being too beta
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>>767458271
>>767458320
>>767457861
>manage to date a girl way out of your league
>she never gives you an orgasm
>tells you that you won't get one and when you bring it up she shuts you down
>keep staying with her because she's hot

There's a reason she's with someone that's way uglier than her, because if she dated someone her attractive level they wouldn't let her pull this shit. Stop being a fucking beta cuck OP.
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>>767458271
You're such a whiny bitch. You deserve to be treated like that
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>>767457861
jerk off you fucking moron and fuck off dumbfuck
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>>767457861
>virgin story time

Fuck outta here
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>>767457861
you're obviously not a man in her eyes because a real man would hold her down and take what is this you pathetic beta faggot.
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>>767458464
grab her by the pussy and ram the pecker right in the kisser m8 otherwise she will, and probably is already, cheating on you with chad thundercock next door
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>>767457861
pic related? just grab her head the next time your about to cum while she's giving you head and cum down her throat. bitch sounds like she needs to learn her place.
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>>767458320
>But I'll never find a girl this hot who would date me.

It's this lack of belief in yourself that has put you in the predicament that you're currently in. Do you really want hand her this much power over you because of your lack of self confidence, and what's the point of being with her if you don't like the sex?
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>>767457861
nice fantasy
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>>767458526
>pic related?

No, here she is.
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>>767457861
tell her to stop obviously
fuck op its a bit stupid you need to be told how to stand up for yourself
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>>767458271
Cuck alert
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>>767457861
>Put hand between your legs.
>Find balls.
>Dump the controlling bitch.
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ok op here is what you do get a one dollar bill put a little perfume on it. Next time she starts to blow you stop her. look her in the eyes and put the bill in her bra don't break eye contact. Than get up and leave don't come back till the next day. Ignore any texts. If she tries it again. just leave.
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jack off while she is sleeping and jizz on her face. that'll teach her.
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>>767458922
why tho
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>>767458379
We do have sex. It's just I have to go through several days of teasing to get it. And she does on occasion get me off when she gives me head. I just never know which blowjob she'll finish and which ones she'll stop abruptly. It's part of her game.
>>767458384
no.
>>767458426
I'll leave her if she cheats on me. I'll never be THAT whipped.
>>767458459
She likes that I'm very smart.
>>767458464
I never whine in front of her. I'm whining here to vent because it's safe to do so anonymously.
>>767458734
nope
>>767458959
She'll let me do that while she's awake.
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>>767459228
OP's future
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>>767459228
>She'll let me do that while she's awake.

that makes you even more beta
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lick her pussy

she knows your value, and will probably make you give her 15+ orgasms before she will suffer through one of yours

it's humiliating but you'll enjoy it at the same time because you'll become addicted to her pheremones
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>>767459338
>girl lets you cum on her face
>that means you're beta
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>>767459398
kill yourself right now you faggot
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>>767459398
>addicted to her pheremones
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>>767459497
if she denies him pussy and compensates by catching cum in the face so yeah - thats fkin beta dude
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>>767459551
She doesn't deny him pussy.
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>>767457861
i would've said: "what the fuck was that?"
"fuck you, get out of my house"
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>>767457861
return the favor. Instead of fucking her and stopping right before she cums. beat the shit out of her and stop just before she dies.
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>>767457861
>orgasm denial
That's the wrong expression for what that fetish is, bruh.
It's known in the biz as rape begging.
Grab that fuck and face bang til y'all's good and done.
Same applies for pussy.
Fucking henpecked faggots, even before they're married...
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>>767457861

Get a new girlfriend.
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>>767459732
totally.
nailed.
it.
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>>767459228
>She likes that I'm smart

Wow what a not-generic way to inflate your ego while also increasing your perception of her worth.

Did they call you 'smart' in school, too?

It's because they didn't have anything better to say that wasn't better than not saying anything at all.
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>>767459591
> She stops right before I'm about to cum and then denies me consent to have sex. We haven't had sex since last Saturday, but she constantly talks about it. She encourages me to watch porn with her. She lets me watch her use her vibrator

so what do you call > denies me consent to have sex. ?

you cant be that illiteratelio
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>>767457861
tape her on a chair, wank and cum on her face.
you get your climax, she looses her fem dom controls, day saved !
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>>767457861
She has some sort of sexual distinction. Like guys just fucked her and left or used her for sex or something. Or maybe just read too many sex novels. Etitjer way she’s an idiot.
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>>767458271
Ok, I was going to bite, but now I see this is some larp pseudo cuck fetish shit. die n a fire.
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>being this thick
>solution
>when she is using vibrator pull your cock out and force it in a hole
>before that tho, kys
>problem solved
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>>767458271

doubt that mate
show how she looks like
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>>767459997
*disfunction
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>>767457861
op
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>>767460211
pic related
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>>767460211
knobjockey prolly made up this whole shit hence no pictures
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>>767460260
Need something else only you could have taken
Prove it
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>>767457861
you are a total idiot, she is obviously into rape fantasy.

just when you think she is aroused rip her panties off and fuck her vigorously.

she will come force of a thousand suns and worship your genitalia.
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>>767459731
>>767460382
finally some intelligence in this thread
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>>767457861
WHY DOESN'T THIS HAPPEN TO ME
STOP COMPLAINING, YOU UNGRATEFUL FUCK
AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK YOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUUUUUUU
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>>767457861
>My new girlfriend is into orgasm denial.
>What do?

Enjoy it, but demand that if you can't cum she can't either. Eventually shit will explode into the best sex ever and you will achieve nirvana.
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>>767458068
this
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>>767457861
Dont let her sense that you're gonna cum, then let loose in her mouth.
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>>767460572
brighten her life with surprise cum loads.
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>>767459228
Maybe she thinks you like it? Talk with her about it instead of being a sperg. Asking /b/ for sex advise is retarded. These morons are telling you to rape her. Orgasm denial does not necessarily mean she's into rape fantasy. They're jumping to conclusions.
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>>767460572
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>>767460645
Protein shots! Lol
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>>767460733
Kek
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>>767457861
>SO.o...HE was behind of it..
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>>767460473
pic related looks like the perfect fucktoy
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There are a lot of people in this thread telling you that she's begging you to rape her, and you know what? They were right. When it started. When she started acting like this, you dragging her to the bedroom and pinning her down would have solved every single one of your problems.

But I'm telling you this, and I mean it sincerely: It is way too late to fix this. It has gone on for too long, and now the only real solution is to start over somewhere new.
Every single day you're together, every day she's acting like this, she's watching you be unhappy, and she's thinking you're too weak to improve your situation. She's watching your soul wilt because of what she's doing, and it's turned into something she's doing gleefully. Every single time she stops at the end of a blowjob and wanders off? She's knowingly taking a piece of your dignity and self respect and becoming more comfortable and confident that this is the way things are going to stay.

Mark my words. If you force yourself on her in any way now, she WILL call rape on you. She will destroy your life. Your own parents won't be able to look at you, your friends will abandon you, you might lose your job, and no police officer will ever have your side. Because 'taking' her would have been sexy to her when you were a young relationship and still jockeying for who has power and in what ways. She would have loved knowing the guy she met could make her feel so overwhelmed and desired. But if you do it now? If you so much as hold her head down for a few extra seconds until you cum? It's not going to be sexy to her, it's going to be her weird sad weak boyfriend revealing he's actually a gross rapist that doesn't respect women.

This relationship? It's done. If you stay in it, it means you don't like yourself enough to try to get what you want. It means she's right to not respect you. And if you care about yourself at all, you'll end it today.
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>>767457861
Rip that fucking ring out of her nose and send her packing.
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>>767461106
tldr you faggot
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No matter how attractive she is, her personality is a dumpster fire you've let rage out of control. Look go away. She could get depressed and binge eat another 80 lbs onto herself, or trip down the steps and bust up her face in a horrifying accident. And then what? Then you're just two ugly people that don't like each other.

So just make it really clear to her, as politely and calmly as possible (somewhere public). The initial sparks you had together didn't last, and now being with her isn't something you want anymore. You aren't happy in the relationship and don't think it can be salvaged, and you think it's best to peacefully move on.

If she still tries to keep you after you say that, she's saying outright that she doesn't care if you're happy or not, and you have all the more reason to move on.

Don't stay with someone who doesn't want you to be happy, anon.
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>>767457861
LMFAO SHE'S LITERALLY BRAINWASHING YOU, YOU FUCKING IDIOT. HOW DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND THIS. THIS IS WHAT WHORES DO. THEY TEASE YOUR DICK AND MANIPULATE YOU.

WAKE THE FUCK UP. CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR. START MAKING ACTIVE DECISIONS.
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>>767458620
nice
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>>767461327
But I do like her. She has a great personality and she's funny. She cooks for me and does my laundry.

She likes to play league of legends.
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>>767461910
just fuck her ass and piss in her face you dumb cunt
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>>767458002
>>767458002
newfag you are not supposed to give good advice
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>>767458271
>she
post nudes
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>>767457861
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when she pulls off you could finish yourself off. also you could stealth cum in her mouth by disguising the best you can when you are going to cum.
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>>767457861
I think we can all agree this is the worst fetish
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>>767461979
She doesn't like anal. Pretty sure that if I pissed on her she would break up with me.
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just respectfully sit her down and say "i understand what youve been doing to me latly and it hurts my feelers" then grab her pin her to the floor and fuck the shit out of her. but cum hella quick.
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>>767461910
You're the one of the weakest pussies that have ever posted here.
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>>767461106

I want to know what books you read. Or where you get your insights from.
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>>767464606
(You)
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>>767461910

Sounds more like you are being a sugar daddy. Are you paying for everything?
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All the replies to this thread and OP hasn't even posted pics of his girlfriend.
OP is a faggot and you're all cancer.
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>>767457861
>What do?
KYS faggot. Dumber than fuck.
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>>767465355
No. She has her own place and I have mine. I paid for the restaurant bill the first two days, she surprised me and paid for our third date.
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>>767465683
/thread
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>>767459875
Apparently you ARE that illiteratelio.

>>767459228
>We do have sex. It's just I have to go through several days of teasing to get it. And she does on occasion get me off when she gives me head. I just never know which blowjob she'll finish and which ones she'll stop abruptly. It's part of her game.


Also, the only way you have a problem with this is if you take it personally. As long as she isn't cucking you, who cares? She's blowing you, she's jacking you off like literally every day. She wants your shit, she just wants to feel in control.

What don't you like about it? That you aren't in power? Does it really bother you that much that she likes to rile you up? My wife does it to me because after a couple days of teasing my dick is literally harder and bigger, and I cum like a geyser. Ask her why she's into it.

Also it isn't like she put your ass in a chastity device, just fucking beat your meat if you're this mad.
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I never like to agree with anyone who uses the words “beta cuck” but they’re 100% right.

She has zero respect for you, and you know it. This isn’t a fetish. This isn’t a sex thing for her - that would actually be much better, and far more honest. This behavior stinks of manipulation and raw sociopathy. She’s doing it because she enjoys the feeling of having power over you and making you frustrated. It’s hurting you emotionally enough that you’re posting about it on fucking /b/, and you’re a fool if you think she doesn’t know that.

She’s literally doing this because she enjoys hurting you. She’s playing with you.

And you’re going along with this because, why exactly? Because she’s hot? I’m not gonna call you a beta cuck, but your reaction to this situation reeks of low self-esteem. She knows it, too. She knows she can manipulare you.

I’m not even going to tell you to break up with her, because let’s be honest, if you had the self-esteem to do so, you wouldn’t be in this situation.

What I’ll tell you is to think about what’s important to you. Sexual compatability is IMPORTANT in a relationship. Her being hot is not. I’ve been with a few smoking hot girls I couldn’t stand fucking, but right now I’m with a more “average” looking girl who I’m extremely attracted to and feel a real connection with, and I’m having the best goddam sex of my life.

Once you realize what’s important to you, one you realize that you have worth as a human being who is worthy of love, you’ll also realize that this girl you’re with is totally, irredeemably wrong for you.
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>>767457861
Do the same to her.
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>>767457861
Fuck her best friend.....
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>>767465736
Dude, all these fucking incels telling you to leave her are fucking stupid, I hope you know that. Just talk to her about it. If ultimately she isn't willing to adjust for you (only sometimes denial, occasional consent all nonconsent where you "rape" her out of frustration, every other week, whatever) then maybe leaving is a good idea if you can't or won't see eye to eye. Ideally your relationship is strong enough to have a discussion about sexual preference.
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>>767465769
This past week has been brutal. We haven't fucked in 10 days, but she's given me an incomplete blowjob every day. She has taken it to a whole new level and I'm sexually frustrated. I want to have sex, she knows I want to have sex and she has taken teasing me to a sadistic level.

But you're right. It isn't like I'm locked in chastity. She lets me finish myself off and cum on her.
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>>767465809
All of her friends are guys. She's kind of a tomboy.
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>>767466053
How long have you two been going out?
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>>767466169
It'll be 5 months Friday.
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>>767457861

DUDE... IS THAT YOU IN THAT PICTURE?

JUST ASKING... FOR SCIENTIFIC ANSWER...
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>>767466287
no, it's her.
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>>767465785
All you fucking btard faggots telling him to leave a hot girl who clearly enjoys playing with his dick are morons.

You all scream that she's a manipulative cunt, except if she really had no respect for him she'd be getting dick on the side and OP has stated she hasn't cheated on him.

Don't listen to these sad fucks, bro.
One, they're jealous of you for having a girl in the first place, so they're gonna try and troll you.
Two, this is the website that invented the Men Going Their Own Way idea, and posts threads of Japanese sex dolls on the regular.

Are these the guys you should be listening to? They're hostile to women, they view women as unnecessary as they fuck rubber dolls, and they screech how women abuse them constantly. These aren't the guys to help you with your disagreement with your girlfriend. These are the guys who are so unfuckable that they have internalized it and decided to give up on women entirely. How good do you think they really are at determining her point of view fairly?
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>>767466117
>All of her friends are guys.
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>>767466117
>>767466053
>>767466191
>>767458320
>>767458271

Oh my god the red flags are fucking everywhere. These aren’t even red flags, these are red atom bombs. They paint a very, very ugly picture when put together.
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>>767466494
Assuming that they do literally nothing together but fuck, sure. Presumably they do other shit and there are dimensions to their relationship.

Fucking stupid ass btards.
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>>767466404

I have normal relationships with women, am not hostile to them at all and there is nothing here to be jealous of. There's something wrong with one or both of them and clearly beta-boy isn't happy, so I think that most of the "find someone else" advice is still the best.
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>>767466589
She's cooking dinner for me tonight. She cooked dinner for me last night and Monday night too. Every time we hang out, she brings me beers. I never have to get up and get my own beer.
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>>767466792
I never said I wasn't happy. I said I was sexually frustrated.
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>>767466792
Except for the part where every relationship counselor in America would tell you to sit down and have a conversation about it, dumbass.

Just because YOU don't see a better solution doesn't mean there isn't one, you cock-gargling shitstain on reality.
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>>767466053
Femanon here. I would never go 10 days without sex voluntarily. That's very suspicious.
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>>767466838
This shows she is willing to invest energy into you. The sex thing is just that: a sex thing. Talk about ways you can be more compatible. Compromise. Don't tell her you don't want the teasing, say it frustrates you that there's never any way of knowing. Maybe come up with a sage word or something so if you're having a really bad day or some shut and it'd be better for you to bust a big nut than be denied she knows you need relief.
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>>767466927
I know for a fact she isn't cheating on me. Sure, all of her friends are guys, but they are all pretty much stuck in her friendzone. When we first started dating they hated me, but now that we've been together for 5 months, all they do is tell me how lucky I am because she's notorious for being difficult to fuck.
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>>767466927
Suddenly faggot btards decide to pretend to be female in order to generate more ethos for their argument. My wife has PCOS, so occasionally we don't fuck for over a week. Try harder, you weak cunt.
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>>767467038
How long was her last relationship?
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>>767466589

>OP tells GF he really does not like what’s happening and it makes him upset.
>GF says “sucks for you.”
>OP stays anyway and stews in anger

Meanwhile...

>GF is much more attractive than OP
>GF knows this is true.
>OP is too chickenshit to leave a relationship that’s making him miserable
>GF knows this also
>GF will only engage in sexual activity with OP that keeps him at “arm’s length.”
>occasional sexual stimulation, with zero real sexual intimacy
>meanwhile, hangs out with all dudes. By itself, this is a mild eyebrow raiser. I know it’s judgmental, but literally every girl I’ve ever known who “hangs out with all dudes” has been a major league cheater. But I recognize that’s a stupid way to judge someone... unless of course, literally everything else they do screams of questionable behavior.

If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, ITS A DUCK.
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>>767467121
She and her ex were together for 3 years. She broke up with him 6 months before I met her and everyone says she didn't date anyone during those 6 months until we met.

She's had 3 boyfriends.
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>>767466053

That’s because I’m fucking her, cuck. We laugh about you, she laughs and cums as I fuck her hard. We fantasize about you crying about this and you killing yourself. We will fuck as your body is hanging from a noose in the basement.
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>>767467038
It's possible she has intimacy issues or some other problem that makes that level of intimacy hard for her. Think about it, your dick is literally going in her, that's super personal. If she's been hurt in the past, or was abused, or maybe she has some gender stuff because she acts masculine with the dude friends and shit. It's possible the reason she's cagey about sex is because she's uncomfortable. Dont just assume the worst like these fucking morons.

When my wife and I first met, we hated eachother. We fought constantly and nearly split our friend group apart. Now we've been married 7 years and everything is great. Resolve your differences, don't avoid resolution out of fear of bad endings.
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>>767466053
Dude, the next time you two have sex you're going to nut so fucking hard.

This girl knows what she's doing.
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>>767457861
Just play it cool faggot. Hide your excitement a bit and let her know you cum by shooting the hot load in her mouth pleb.
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>>767467174
You're a fucking moron who's putting words into OP''s mouth.

>>767466901
>I never said I wasn't happy

GF literally blows him every day for 10 days yet you say
>occasional sexual stimulation, with zero real sexual intimacy

That isn't occasional, and as stated, she gets off on it. Presumably she masturbates. You're clinging too hard to the notion that OP doesn't like the denial, and extrapolating it into the relationship as a whole. OP has stated that his GF does many things for him outside of sex, which is a sign that she cares for him and enjoys spending energy on him.

This is a case of sexual incompatability that needs to be resolved through discussion, get your pussy fear of women out of here. Your unfucked NEETness fills this thread like fucking miasma.
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>>767457861
When she’s sleep just bust on her OP,and stop being a fag.
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>>767467254
When she lets me have sex with her, she lets me cum as many times as I want. I usually cum really fast the first time and she seems to like it. She waits for me to get hard again and then lets me fuck her again.

When she finally gives me consent, she's very generous.
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>>767467525
Talk to her about it. Compromise.
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>>767457861

next stop niggercocktown
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>>767457861
Ask her politely if she wants you to rape her whenever you want (when you're not doing anything) if she says yes, then next time bang THE FUCK OUTTAHER WHEN SHE DOES THAT
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>>767467487
Except that OP stated unequivocally, many times, that he hates this and she doesn’t care. Maybe you should read more carefully.

He also said that he has already tried talking to her about this, and she has invalidated him.

I would normally suggest an adult discussion, unless of course, like OP here, that’s already been tried unsuccessfully.

Thing is, OP is now backpedaling like crazy so either he’s severely misrepresented his relationship with his first few posts, or he doesn’t like the way the thread is going.
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>>767457861
You fucking idiot. Her real kink is tape. She's trying to convince you to take her. God what a fucking dumbass.
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>>767467944
This is only an indication of her having intimacy issues. She feels like she has to be in control in order to trust Op enough to be in a relationship with him. She's had her heart broken in the past and this is her way of coping with it. If Op can handle it, she'll eventually start trusting him and once that happens, she'll be loyal as fuck.
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>>767467944
You're again putting words in ops mouth. Work on your fucking debate skills, bitch, or just shut the fuck up. Seriously, I'm not normally a violent person but I'd fucking slap your shit in right about now, you're so obnoxious.

OP stated ONCE that he mentioned it to her and she laughingly said "too bad." This is obviously a sexual fetish for her. Part of orgasm denial fetishist is the DENIAL part. That implies responding to a certain amount of resistance. She is playing her part in the fantasy by DENYING him. He also doesn't hate it, it frustrates him, but otherwise his relationship has been describedone as caring and positive.

You're reading too far into it. That's why what OP is sa ting doesn't make sense and it seems like he's backpedalling, because YOU MISSED THE WHOLE FUCKING POINT TO BEGIN WITH GJ.

Bullet in your head, please, never open your mouth to give advice again, it's obvious you can't distinguish your own emotions from the situations being described, you project too much negativity and hostility.
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ITT: Op should just rape her in the off chance she's into it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXpFtwYIKew
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>>767468174
Someone with intimacy and trust issues doesn’t blow a dude every day and then deliberately stop short of the point of orgasm. That’s the behavior of someone who already knows they’re in control, not a person who wishes they were.

That’s what really worries me here. A relationship where one person feels like they’re in total control, uses to to do something they KNOW their partner doesn’t like, and the partner other feels like they’ll never do better so they don’t push it.
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>>767468421
>Openly acknowledges projecting his own fear of being controlled into OPs relationship based on the kinks his gf has

Kinkshaming and general retardation.
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>>767468421
Projecting pretty hard there bud
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>>767468219

Me: using OP’s words and emotions as a foundation for understanding the issue.

You: totally ignoring OP’s words and emotions because you know better. Oh, and responding to an internet disagreement with threats of violence. Yeah dude, definitely the sign of someone with good, solid judgment who would.

Stay mad.
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>>767457861
Kik ?
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>>767464628

I just think men and women are different in a lot of key ways, and that both sexes would be a lot happier if they embraced certain truths about what motivates them. It's not a bad thing, we've just got a few hundred millennia of biology whispering in our ears all the time, and our decision making process isn't usually as complicated as we like to pretend it is.

Individually people are unique and make their own choices. As a group, you can still see the shadow of the animal we evolved from nudging us towards bad decisions.

Men have an imperative to mate with multiple attractive females, and it can cause some short circuits in logic and pro/con weighing since society tries to be monogamous. Their inner monkey lets them get caught up in someone not worth their time because they have nice eyes or something.

Women have the opposite problem, they have every instinctual reason to pick the most capable mate they can. That leads to them mistakenly thinking someone who beats them is worth their effort and someone who's cooperative is to be teased.

It's not universal, you just see that pattern more than you should from an otherwise clever species. At the end of the day, if your partner isn't trying to make you happy (or you aren't doing the same) you're both making a mistake in staying together, and either need to grow or give up.

Nothing I'm saying is backed up by any source, it's just my take. But learning more about language development and child psych shows a ridiculous amount about why people do the things they do, it's all one big elaborate miscommunication.
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>>767468647
>You: Doesn't read whole thread, just reads 2 posts then bases entire argument on that.
>Me: Sick of autistic 13yo btards giving shit advice because they have no idea how to actually counsel someone or critically think.
>Also Me: Hurting you would be fun because I can literally feel what a little birch you are, and confirming your deep-seated fears that you aren't good enough to endure this life would bring me great joy.

See, I can throw however many threats at you I want, because I actually am giving the better advice. Your advice is to retreat from an uncomfortable situation like a bitch-ass, unfuckable virgin NEET. That's what pussy high schoolers do in their relationships. Grown fucking men address issues in their lives, resolve them, and move on.

Tl;Dr: you're a pussy bitch if you think the answer is running away from your problems, and this anon telling you to confirms his fucking omega male status. Guaranteed this fucker chokes thick nigger dick down every day. Don't be like him, OP.
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>>767468776
Chad can have thousands of offspring.

Stacy can have maybe 20.
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>>767458271
What a massive cunt you are.
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>>767459224
Well you see If she is acting like cheep stripper treat her like one.
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>>767457861
She's controlling you. Dump her . I hope you haven't fallen in love with her yet.
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>>767458068
this
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>>767469538

But that doesn't mean people have to live like feral cats. The healthiest children come from stable households and parents who are happy to be together. People can decide to be better than they are.
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>>767458002
Reddit fag
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