>tfw no mentally unstable gf
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>tfw no mentally unstable gf
Hi. I'm Zone.
>>751868828
heh..hu uh... sick
>>751868828
Can anyone tell me what it's like sexually dating a mentally unstable girl
Mentally unstable girls will give you a deepthroat just so they could die choking on it
>implying
I have one. I won't post pics because you'll think she's a man.
>>751868992
Sex is great. Everything else is painful and just not worth the effort
I had... actually almost all my ex lovers were mentally unstable.
They had all kinds of crazy fetishes too, which was a plus.
>>751868992
If you really love them there's about a 90% chance they'll cheat on you.
>>751869141
Agreed.
>>751868828
>Tfw mentally unstable so I'll never get a gf
I'm probably just gonna get drunk and hang myself soon
>>751868992
i dated a girl that had depression and severe psychotic symptoms, its not as fun as you think. pretty boring tbh, no sex drive, no motivation to do anyting, all she could talk about was here illness. i mean if you have a thing for being somebodys career then sure, but do realise the mental and physical toll that kind of relationship will have on you.
Step 1. Go to NA meetings
Step 2. Get gf and drugs
>>751868828
dawg don't romanticize mental illness. it's tough on both people in the relationship.
You can have mine. I'm breaking up with her 2NITE
>>751868828
You're only missing really good head. They're usually too damaged to be of any use besides pleasure holes
>>751869024
>MFW I throatfucked my mentally unstable childhood friend over the summer and she was more into it than me
In all honesty though OP, it sears the soul to see someone you care about have to deal with that shit. It's like having a normal gf on some days, but most of it is dealing with nonsensical behavioral spasms wishing you could just talk about current events and go out to dinner.
>>751868828
Where do I meet fucked up women? Asking for me, friend.
>>751869416
>>751868828
you can have mine
>>751869432
this. so not worth it honestly.
>>751869024
Kek
>>751869168
Can confirm.
>>751868828
I've had many mentally unstable girlfriends.
Sadly, they're never "Harley Quinn" crazy, they just do unbelievably shitty things for no reason and then hide behind whatever "mental problems" they have.
"Uh no, asshole, it's not my fault. Do you know how many different medications I'm on??? Fuck off if you can't forgive me. I can't control my brain. It's not my fault that I sucked another guy's dick."
I should probably just stop trying to find crazy girls, but I'm so hooked on the idea of finding the perfect one.
>>751868992
I dated a chick who had mild depression, GAD and went in and out of those constantly. Will admit that all the sex and the fooling around were pretty awesome, but at the end of the day, I felt more like a counselor or a psychiatrist than a boyfriend, so when the chance to bounce came up, I took it. It was too much to deal with, and really not worth it, she didn't want to find help at all.
>>751868828
Enjoy your future anxiety attacks every time you think someone is upset with or mad at you.
>>751868828
>tfw people romanticize this shit all the time
>tfw my sister has hebephrenic schizophrenia
>tfw my cousin has manic depression with paranoid tendencies
>tfw i had to take care of both of them for the better part of a decade before they were sent to a transitional facility and later to a residential treatment and living facility
Fuck off you cucks there is nothing even remotely good about having someone like this in your life. If you arn't bound by blood you wont enjoy a single day with them.
>>751869690
Hit the nail on the head.
>>751869638
mine cheated on me gave me chlamydia! :D ya it was great totally worth it. i totally dont wish she fucking kills herself
>>751869690
Anyone had success dealing with this kind of thing?
>>751869416
>relationship
>>751869690
Fucking this.
Everyone thinks I'm super nice now, at least.
But what they don't know is I'm just terrified of half the shit I see other people say, because of my extremely unstable ex.
The fear never goes away, you can never relax, you choose every word carefully.
And the worst part is, you start to think like a crazy person.
>>751869882
girls just wanna cheat. everybody wanna cheat.
>>751869120
Fuck me that image is accurate
>>751869984
If your girlfriend is having panic attacks she's 100% cheating on you.
>>751868828
Just go downtown and talk to random girls walking around homeless or not, well homeless is easier.
>>751869999
uhh quads???
>>751870049
honestly idc about the cheating but the STD like seriously? she's a worthless fucking piece of lying trash i just wish i had realized it sooner. ya know, before i got an std
>>751870094
fingers crossed
>>751869984
Years of waking up every day and acknowledging said problem until it gets slightly easier to manage. Feelings of fight or flight will eventually just stop after you get burnt out.
>>751869999
Quads
>>751869120
Jesus that made me sad
>>751870197
Throw her off the bridge in such a case.
>>751870213
muh security
>>751870282
I should only be so lucky to be given such an easy out.
>>751870033
The "ex" and the feelings that follow never really goes away. They may not be anywhere near you, you may have not talked with or have seen them in years, yet they still exist in some twisted manifestation created only by you. It gets easier when you realize the feelings you have are brought upon yourself and nothing else. Not a blame game by any means, but breaking that association is really difficult.
>>751868828
There's this autistic/depressed looking girl i see on the train every tuesday on the train. Since she won't stop looking my way i'm assuming she's interested.
How should i approach her /b/?
>>751870292
Yup.
>>751870352
Eat your fuckin cheesy nuggets fuck.
>>751870457
flash penis to her when no one is looking
>>751870084
>>751870248
I have many damaged gfs because I have a damaged gf.
>I'm sorry my acne scars from high school make me look ugly anon I'll learn to use makeup
Holy fuck my ass is raw from shits
>>751870544
Too crowded for no one to be looking at any one moment, but i will look for a window.
>>751870457
the other guy knows his stuff. just flash your penis to her and you are set my man.
my girl suffers from clinical anxiety with a bit of depression thrown on for good measure. been with her to several docs and they all had the same conclusion.
we're turning 30 this year and she panics at the idea of leaving her house to stay with me. granted, i live in what amounts to a crappy little shack while i try working my way up in my career but most people we know have it worse off.
i've developed this feeling recently that she cares more about being comfortable than actually being with me. the difficult part is that i know part of her hesitation is her anxiety. she's effectively kept inside all day, unable to go out and do anything herself and would be alone when i am at work.
we've been together for 12 years and are engaged. been weighing on me lately
yeah id love someone as insane as me
>>751869120
>my kind of girl
>>751870729
She hates you bro.
>>751870593
some of these are hit and miss, but i guess the damage to normie scale varies. tell me your secrets.
>>751870457
I vote for show penis
She'll boil your bunny, anon
>>751869648
>they just do unbelievably shitty things for no reason and then hide behind whatever "mental problems" they have.
Wew, feel like I've been there. Sorry to hear you went through that anon.
Still, you've learnt from it and don't have to fall into that trap again, right? :)
>>751870593
Holy fuck, this hits close to home.
I came for lulz, I'm getting feelings
>>751870610
>>751870851
I've accepted the possibility, any other ideas?
>>751868992
hit or miss, some days she really tries with sex or shes doesn't have the drive for days. The worst is how exhausting it can be. You never can go anywhere, decide on anything, and watch what you say at all times.
>>751870033
Hope things get better for you!
Look you got double dubs! :)
It's a good sign
>>751870988
But boy-howdy, at least you got some sweet, sweet dubs.
>>751870729
Ah dude the feels, i just broke up with my last girlfriend for this exact reason. it stings man
>>751869120
post 'em
Been there three times. Don't do it, it isnt worth it
>>751869787
this
Hope you're able to enjoy your time without them now
>>751871197
Have you ever thought maybe it's you who is mentally unstable?
>>751870729
12 years together, both 30, and thats the best you guys could do with your life? Holy fuck anon....
>>751870995
Eh, stand near her on the train, find some arbitrary reason to start some shitty small talk conversation that doesn't make you sound like a creep or a stalker and ask her if she wants to go for a pint or coffee or something. Then, when your out for that drink or coffee, flash her your penis.
>>751871142
it's not going to get any better, is it? at least i have a bullet handy if i need an out
>>751870851
There's no secret really. For a long term relationship it requires lots of patience. If you can't handle her when she really needs you then you don't deserve her. They're amazingly loyal and forgiving but they need a bit of grooming. Worth the investment.
Approaching them has to be the hardest part. Go to an anime convention they're everywhere.
>>751871154
Nah man a big part of damage girls is self esteem. She knows what she looks like. She sees it everyday in the mirror. Whenever I post her there's always people who think she's a man.
>>751871294
it's honestly worse, i left out the details of my own failures trying to get ahead.
My girl has BPD and anxiety.
Things are either 0 or 100
>>751871301
Loved it.
> find some arbitrary reason to start some shitty small talk conversation that doesn't make you sound like a creep or a stalker
I could sure use some pointers on that too, though.
>>751871197
I guess i empathize with her, and feel i could help her improve like i did. I wish i had someone like that when i needed it. I think i know what kind of a person she needs by her side. Would it not be worth a try?
My gf right now is a depressed anorexic, bulimic, self harming alcoholic.
Fucking 31 years old and 8 years my elder.
I love her dearly but she doesn't want to change. Adopted, her parents forced her into anorexic camp, shes delusional, lets people use her just to be apart of a group.
I really just want to kill her in her sleep or something just to end her day to day pain, but then when she decides to take it out on me I figure that its not my duty to make that decision.
She's kept me worrying constantly everyday. Her friend commit suicide and she had a meltdown. She'll usually get drunk and just get mad at me when I tell her she's drunk. I can't bring up her problems unless I want to be met with the "don't talk about things you know nothing about" old shit. Then I'll just yell at her and she'll cry and ask me not to leave her.
What do guys? I already talk to and see other girls but the thought of leaving her and the potential outcome of her killing herself is a thought I cant bear to cope with.
>>751871343
Preaching to the choir, we're at 5ish years and a lot of improvement, but I'd never pass up free advice.
>>751871343
>Approaching them has to be the hardest part.
Advice on >>751870457 ?
It's funny, my ex said I was the crazy one and that's why she loved me. Never thought of myself that way, but I like a few compliments every now and then
>>751871506
Glad I’m single. Good luck with that bro.
>>751871506
>I really just want to kill her in her sleep or something just to end her day to day pain, but then when she decides to take it out on me I figure that its not my duty to make that decision.
If you really have these thoughts then leave NOW. You will find yourself more and more enticed to act on them. It's a sad thing to do, but you cannot allow her to hold you down. If she's not willing to change, there's nothing you can do about it.
If she does end up killing herself, it wasn't your fault. You did not drive her to the position she's in. No one could ever blame you for trying to find a healthy relationship.
>>751871531
Don't get angry when she's sad. Hold her and tell her how great she is. Always be her cheerleader and she'll be yours.
>>751871560
Sit down next to her.
Ask her name.
Small talk.
Try not to sperg.
Sperg a lot.
Get gf.
Dating a girl with PTSD, and depression right now. Can confirm that the struggle is real. When shits good, it's really good. When it's bad, it hits the fan. She is getting therapy, so not giving up yet. Still, it affects your life aswell, bigtime
>>751869301
This. SSRIs make the sex drive completely disappear.
>>751870729
Dude, you don't need this ball and chain around your neck for the rest of your life. She's stunting your growth as a human being, essentially holding you back by making you feel guilty - that she needs you therefore you have to stay with her.
My gf (kinda splitting up atm) is Very comfort oriented, liked me so much because I was a comfort giver.
I'm breaking up with her, as she's not working on improving herself, and has not been since we got together nearly 4 years ago!
I've supported her all this time but I've become a crutch for her, instead of the stable base to allow her to work on her flaws and improve herself, that I intended.
Also she cheated on me a few months ago, because she doesn't stand up to other people, such was her patheticness.
Don't do it bro. You can do better
>>751868992
i got this one.
pros
>hyperloyalty
>likes to do fun loner stuff with you
>quiet
cons
>not knowing what behavior is due to what drug or symptom
>she doesn't operate on logic
>every critical decision is your responsibility
>every slight misstep in daily life becomes a situation
dating people with legitimate mental issues stops being fun when you actually have other shit you could be doing with your time than having to convince your girlfriend that her pet rabbit doesn't hate her because she bought the "wrong" kind of lettuce home.
>>751871419
Im not trying to be a dick but maybe you guys are not good for each other as a couple. I find aside from obvious shit like trust honesty and being able to depend on each other, you also need to be able to push each other to be better versions of yourselves. If in 12 years you guys are still not in a much better place there could be better people out there for you both, or one of you could just be holding the other back. if its the 2nd it kinda sounds like its her since shes 30 and living at home.
>>751869492
Top kek!
>>751871785
For real, I agree with you 100%. Been a year with her now and I can't believe I knew about all this from day 1 but still chose to let it get this far.
>>751870593
>mfw most of this is accurate
>>751868992
Pretty good usually, but then again I enjoy fucking crying chicks which was a regular occurrence and she just told me to keep going and ignore it because of how often it happens and how it would ruin the mood if I addressed it
Also 100% of the time they will do you, ghost you, or attempt to hurt you
>>751870995
haha you're taking the possibility of getting arrested well
Talk to her. Is there anything you can see about her that you have in common?
Where's she going? you can ask that, aren't the patterns on the chairs in need of changing to........
because.........
What does she think?
Also
Hi I'm anon
I see you most days and got curious as to who/what sort of person you are
She listen to music?
"cool, like .......band?
They're...........
I listen to............
Compliment something she has/wears (IF it doesn't make you seem like a creep)
Any questions mate?
theres no such thing as a mentally stable girl OP. that's an oxymoron.
>>751871840
Sounds like a plan. thanks.
I had an ex who was extremely damaged. Would cut herself, had a mistress to dom her. She liked being put down and under someone's control do much that she recounted her dom told her to deepthroat a banana until she puked and made her eat it. She enjoyed that experience and she deserves it for being ugly. Which she wasn't, a solid 7/10 or 8/10 with a bit of effort. I tried to change her, kissed her wounds and tried my best to make her feel wanted and beautiful. But she had a need where she would want me to hurt her or make her do degrading things, and I couldn't bring myself to choke her out or force her to do other things. I had to end it.
>>751872572
Fucken screencapped for reference. What should i do if we run out of things to talk about? It happens to me a lot.
I have bipolar disorder, which ruined all of my personal relationships, want to give it a go?
inb4 bipolar isn't a real thing
>>751871506
>Get into relationship with obviously mentally disturbed girl
>Too much of a pussy to end it
You deserve the cage you locked yourself in and then tossed away the key to
>>751872130
>My gf (kinda splitting up atm) is Very comfort oriented, liked me so much because I was a comfort giver.
>he's not working on improving herself,
while i can never imagine her cheating on me, period (she comes from a good home and never leaves the house to begin with unless it's with me or her parents) this is a pretty accurate description of her as well. i'm sure plenty of it is due to her problems but at the same time i know she's a lazy cunt as well
>>751872212
we're both fucked up. her by miles but as for myself i have absolutely no confidence in myself. i feel hollow inside and so when it comes to performing at my job i often fall through unable to push ahead. i know i could get a better girl than her but whenever this thought crosses my mind i fall back knowing then i'd be the one holding someone else back.
we're probably terrible for each other but i can't imagine it working with anyone else.
i do appreciate the replies by the way guys. i have no one i can ever really discuss these things with
>>751872727
I had to do a lot to fix the relationship between my bipolar father and depressive mother. I succedeed, even though i was already pretty fucked up from being raised by them while they were un-medicated. I do not believe you can't hold a relationship.
>>751869120
Jesus that image.
>>751871506
>but she doesn't want to change.
Leave her. ASAP YOU DUMB FAGGOT
make the necessary plans and arrangements as soon as humanly possible.
If she confronts you about it, be brave and upfront about why you're packing your shit.
DO NOT HESITATE
DO NOT STALL
DO NOT "give her another chance"
DO NOT STAY IN CONTACT AFTER YOU'VE SPLIT
DO NOT IGNORE THIS ADVICE IT'S NOT LIKE I'M DOING IT FOR MY OWN GOOD
I wish you all the best mate.
You are in an abusive relationship that will end with you getting hurt and/or arrested and getting jail time, etc.
Get away from the crazy, surround yourself with happy, healthy people as much as you can, and watch your life improve.
>>751872725
anon, take this advice from someone that has to start conversations with entirely new people every day
the best conversation starter as it opens up a lot of material
> where are you from?
>>751872503
As in it's you or your gf?
>>751873037
18/f/cali, barely legal, loves anal ;)
>>751869141
/this.
>>751871840
>>751872582
>Don't get angry when she's sad. Hold her and tell her how great she is. Always be her cheerleader and she'll be yours.
no no no no no no.
As soon as her self esteem improves, she'll lose all respect for you, assuming that course of behaviour doesn't do it before it even gets to that.
Doesn't matter what their mental state is, they're still women and prone to being led around by whichever emotion they are experiencing at any given time
>>751873037
> where are you from?
She's from my town, we take the train on the same station. Still, thanks a lot for the advice. As a complete sperg i really appreciate it.
Why do you have to chat with strangers every day?
>>751872727
Depends, introduce me to your other half
>>751872009
Be prepared to bail if she shows no improvement over time. Otherwise you may as well be in prison.
>>751873110
Who hurt you anon? Didn't think she was put together enough to do it did you?
>>751873118
>my town
everyone i meet is from my town yet it still opens conversations. "oh i've been here my whole life!" and unless you know her she could've lived somewhere else before. isn't this just some train chick? even if you know she's lived in the same place her whole life, she doens't know you do. get her talking and take it from there.
oh, and i'm in sales. the sort i do requires developing a relationship with my clients beyond "sign here, k bye"
>>751869432
This is 100% true.
>>751873285
He's a pussy making excuses, don't waste your time
>>751869690
SO
MUCH
THIS
Ive been through some serious shit in my life and the very fine fucking sharp as pointy shit stick in the eye worst of it was from crazy women.
I was in a bombing as a young child
Ive been on fire several times
Ive been shot at Ive been in a few high speed car crashes
Broken my neck
Still the very worst things that ever happened to me were because I loved insane women.
My crazy Girlfriend. Still love her tho.
How does h3h3 do it
>>751873069
Myself. The tired expression especially
>>751873424
Post full body
>>751872808
Perhaps so but I'm gonna end it either way. Frankly I'm tired of the constant bitching and her alcoholism kills her bank account and I'm tired of being asked to bail her out of overdue bills
>>751872937
I appreciate you /b/rotha. Its the first step thats the hardest I suppose. But fuck it, I'll probably be so baked I wont care about anything that's not on an illuminated drive thru menu
>>751873285
Good point, I'll try to remember all of this next time i see her.
>>751873342
I'm asking for advice on how to go about it, and i have never given excuses. I'm autistic as fuck but you take it to a whole new level.
>>751871506
>>751868828
Yeah, but no.
You think from TV and movies that you'll find some Manic Pixie Dream Girl that's a handful but so amazing because she gets you out of your comfort zone and isn't the sex just so amazing?
Really though, the sex— while amazing, is nowhere near as frequent as you probably think it is since after the first few months of seeing her she's used to you and is depressed all the time, or even is suddenly not in the mood because she gets fixated on something you said or did over a year ago. And you don't get to see your friends as much because she doesn't want to hang with them and is mad judgmental about them and thinks you're cheating on her when you don't drop what you're doing to go buy her ice-cream and sit on her couch with her doing nothing but smoking weed and watching some trash anime or workplace drama TV show.
It gets old.
>>751872725
haha it happens to me too, we just sit there in awkward silence haha.
Don't revisit old topics unless you have plenty more to say.
Maybe current events if you're feeling brave. It doesn't have to be big things, just what's going on in your town, something you saw in the local news, whatever. give your opinion on it, invite them to do the same (if they're interested they'll do that anyway)
Try to find subjects you're both interested in, and that should make things easier.
make sure to ask her opinion on things, so to engage with her in the conversation and not make it one sided.
Most important thing to do is practice socializing with people other than her, the more you practice, the better you'll get at all the things you've asked advice on.
Your practice doesn't have to be good looking, or smart, they're just practice for socializing, talking to.
That should take some of the pressure off.
How's all that sound, anon?
Mentally ill women are the same as mentally ill men. They are ill and require help more than you can give them.
>>751868992
Fucking amazing. Only worth the trouble for a little while tho. Eventually if I stayed w her, she probably would have eventually killed me.
>>751868992
>>751873673
Sounds doable, thanks anon. I'm bound to fuck it up because autismo, but i guess sperging with other strangers first is a great idea.
>>751872854
>i know she's a lazy cunt as well
they almost certainly are - mine was.
laziness will come about as a byproduct of their condition, which will in turn, make it worse, making them more lazy, making them less prepared to do anything, making their anxiety about getting off their ass and doing life stuff even harder.
What is allowed is what will continue.
Your confidence is holding you back huh?
Mine was too. When we started our relationship, I thought she was the best I could do.
Now I know I can do better.
My confidence has improved as well as seeing her flaws and her lack of wanting (badly enough) to change them, more vividly.
I can post more of these if you like - I practically collect them.
>>751873910
He said none of that. Fucking newfags.
>>751868992
If she's bipolar, the sex is amazing and kinky as fuck while she's in the manic phase. Sex during the depressive phase is pretty much nonexistent, and the depressive phases generally last much longer than the manic phases and there's often little to nothing you can do to get her out of them.
>>751868992
Not worth it my dude
>>751873488
NO, Don't "fuck it"
Save yourself!
The longer you essentially put yourself in danger the sooner and bigger the possibility that something REALLY SHITTY will happen to you!
And baked or not, you'll not be able to get away from it then - it'll be too late.
Please anon, do it, if not for yourself, then your /b/rothers here, who don't want to see another one of their kind rotting in a hell they've made for themself/leet happen.
>>751873972
goddamnit if what you're saying doesn't ring true.
the lack of confidence though finds it's way in all aspects of my life, annoyingly. this was prior to her as well i'm entirely unsure i can rectify it and hope to do so is if anything poisonous and painful to even think about. lol i'm hardly any better than she is even if i can function pretty normally in day to day life
is that jordan peterson btw?
>>751873880
Practice makes good mate, good luck and don't over think things, or worry too much about it all.
Consider it a learning experience.
>>751871506
Being alone is better than living with that shit
>>751873465
Are you a grill?
>>751873488
Least you've grown a pair
>>751874322
Having been alone for 25 years, without friends or females, i'd like to find out by myself.
>>751874223
Yup, the man himself.
He's got a "12 lessons" thing on youtube,
1. - stop saying the things that make you weak
They're really good and you could learn a lot from them. I highly recommend them
>>751874157
I can't believe someone really is offering this much care towards a stranger. We'll forever be bonded bro. I'm going to pack my shit now and hit a buddy up to stay at his place for a bit.
I hate to bum off people and refuse to at all costs but I believe this is for the best.
>>751874322
I can agree with that after taking a step back and seeing it all from the outside looking in
>>751874450
ye do you wanna e-date bby
>>751870593
>mfw this is the semi-trap dude i want to date
i think i'm okay with this, but this is perspective i didn't have until it was put so plainly in text.
>>751873118
>Why do you have to chat with strangers every day?
Huh?
you mean for the practice, to develop it as a skill? It doesn't have to be every day, but that would be a good level to get up to.
Or me personally, with what I'm doing right now?
>dated the epitome of "sad BPD alt-girl"
>sexy as fuck
>sex was incredible too
>on good days she was the most loving caring partner I could ever hope for
>on bad days she was an abusive sociopathic cunt
>sex was still good tho
>
>>751874476
thanks man. will check it out, love his material.
>>751874689
>want to date
correction, am dating and intending to continue
but fuck
>>751873174
Multiple breakups in the past with me taking it very personally every time, taking months or more to recover.
>>751873403
I'll never go near them again
>>751874688
And get ghosted for the third time in a row?
Yeah nah fuck that
Can you pls explain what it's like to date someone though?
I'd like to know what it's like from the other end
>>751868992
had a gf with considerable depression. lived together, sex was kinky af, she was a very passionate person and beautiful but had trouble with simple shit like not being a slob and taking care of hygiene and keeping up with her prescriptions etc. it's a rough ride but I think it was worth it while it was happening
>>751874689
>mfw I am a trap who matches a lot of that and just realized I may be slightly crazy
>>751871343
Or you could find someone without all the baggage needing a fraction of the effort
>>751868992
Fucking epic
>>751870033
Gf left me for friend you think u can fix them but it will always be your fault not worth in the slightest
>>751874938
Smart man.
Sadly I gaymarried one.
Im turbo fucked.
>>751875073
>Trap
>May be crazy
>May
No you're definitely mentally deficient
>>751873330
sadly so.
>>751874596
Stay strong. You CAN DO IT.
No second chances for her, it's not healthy for either of you.
Maybe I'll start a weekly advice thread in future. I'll post courage wolf pics in it.
You do what you need to do till you get back on your feet, you can pay them back when you're able.
Glad I could help, if one more man doesn't suffer like so many others have, the world is a slightly brighter place.
>>751875287
This.
>>751875287
u don no me
stop making this thread OP
>>751869787
Hi crazy person here. I've dated only mentally ill girls and I'm always the crazier one. I habe to say it feels epic and wouldn't trade it for anything.
>>751872147
That list of cons... are you describing mentally ill women? Because that just sounds like women in general.
>>751875255
It can be an easy trap to fall into. You give them your support and your heart, they eat it all up but are never full, and trample on your heart as they leave.
Had a friend who was like as you described.
I'm actually glad they've gone now, now I'm over them - they were such a waste of time, energy, resources, feelings, etc.
have an info pic
>>751875363
You're a faggot, I don't have to
Why do you fuckers even put up with these broken people? All the mentally damaged women I've dated I dumped as soon as I confirmed their red flags. Some were several months to a year in before it really surfaced. Even then I cut it off and walked away. How can you let them suck the life out of you like this?
>>751875509
wew, I see it too, point taken (wasn't that anon)
It's even more pronounced in mentally ill women.
and the consequences are worse.
>>751869120
damaged girls are best girls
>>751875676
Because feminism and marxism have ruined women to the point where being the provider and them relying upon you has become uncommon
It's been the order of things for literally millions of years therefore why the fuck do you think we want the only girls guaranteed to give it to us in this topsy turvey world?
>>751875551
I've since moved on that was like two years ago but you still or at least I can't stop thinking about what I could have done different even though I know it wouldnt have changed much. Thought revenge could help but decided maybe it's not worth throwing away what I have now.
>>751875676
Because these fuckers may also have mental health issues, or far more often, be really lacking confidence.
Fearing they can't do any better, or getting led into a carer role by a woman who's essentially playing their feelings and sense of honour.
>>751876117
>Implying that women in the 50s weren't constantly doped up on quaaludes to deal with the crushing existential blackness of their existence
Go back to /r/incels
>tfw her masturbating with my pen only made it better
>>751876373
Mommy's little helper!
>>751876242
That sounds exactly like low self esteem. You felt some guilt because "maybe you were the one at fault"
Someone I knew committed suicide last year.
Even tho she'd been depressed for years, had a horrible mother, had caught an illness that left her with chronic fatigue, AND I'd cut contact with her after a fall out, I STILL felt bad, as if if the clock had been wound back, I could have convinced her to make the most of her life, I could have helped, saved her, etc.
So you see? It's not really your fault, you just feel it is because you don't value yourself highly enough.
>>751876117
yeah it's all going to shit.
There are still some good women left, but they are becoming increasingly scarse.
>>751876373
Do you really think things aren't this fucked? thanks to womens lib and apps like tinder the 80/20 rule now applies to dating where the top 20% of men have access to 80% of the women, except those 20% aren't interested in dating they just want sex so most of those women aren't going to marry the men and meanwhile 80% of men have to try to divide 20% of the women between them meaning there are a lot of men who are never going to get a girlfriend. So a lot of us are looking for the most damaged women that will never cheat and will actually try to build a partnership with us.
>>751868992
It was the kinkiest year of my life. I've never had better sex. No rules, anything is game.
Had to drop her because you can only take so much codependent abuse before your out. Taught me a lot though about myself, and allowed me to explore what I'm into. Learned how to be a good dom, and learned how I love to be a sub under some circumstances.
>>751877246
>I love to be a sub under some circumstances.
What did she shove up your butt?
>>751877075
What an interesting point anon. Here are my thoughts on it.
It's like having a budget to spend, when you're trying to attract a woman. How you view yourself (as well as skills
talents and characteristics) will determine how much "money" you have as your budget. Men who do not try as hard,
and do not feel worth much, will settle for very little, i.e. - mentally ill women, who they'll just try to make the
best of.
this feeling of self worth and perspective of self, are alterable, but can seem entirely static.
thoughts?
bumpity
>>751873760
You're me, right?
>>751877966
You go for what you believe that you can get, there is a lot of evidence that seems to demonstrate that men are very good at guessing where they sit in the heirarchy and which women they should be able to attract as a consequence. The problem is it's not the same for women, I lived with a guy who was a med student came from money and was a good looking guy, he went through 2-3 women per week, many of whom were objectively below him but were simply an easy lay. This seems to have convinced women that they could get a guy like that because he right swiped them that one time. I would rather not go for an emotionally damaged girl but considering the state of the dating market I would rather go for something that I can get that I am guaranteed will result in a long term relationship with no cheating than to take the risk of dating a girl who is closer to my relative value and risk her trying to trade up.
Ok the thread will die soon (also almost 4am here) so I'll take this opportunity to say it was good talking to you all.
Good topic OP, I hope I made a positive difference for everyone I replied to.
Maybe I'll make a thread sometime in the next week or so, maybe I'll hijack someone elses, to give advice and hope to everyone who needs it.
Look for the courage wolf.
Farewell for now
>>751878591
thanks for the feedback
>tfw lonely madman without lonely madwoman
>>751877400
All sorts of fun toys, the better question is what did she shove down my shaft, and how much did she hit me.
>>751871025
This
You especially have to watch what you say to them. You cant even joke around and say certain things that would usually be no big deal in a regular healthy relationship.
>>751869120
>I won't post pics because you'll think she's a man.
Because you cant change chromosomes with hormone therapy?
