So today after our exam I decided to just ask. Ita been almost two hours and still no response.
How bad did i fuck up /b/
>>745733735
you took a shot.
Even if she's not interested anon, you went about it pretty normally. If she rejects you, or ghosts you, just move on. It's a numbers game in your youth.
you were a little abrupt. If she actually were attracted to you it would of worked.
>>745733735
no fuck ups here
>>745733897
This: Doing something is always better than doing nothing.
>>745733735
If she rejects you remember to call her a whore
>>745733735
You win some, you lose some.
Don't be discouraged. The guy who gets laid 1 out of 10 tries still gets laid more than the guy who never puts himself out there.
>>745733735
maybe lose the maybe
>>745733735
Good job OP. I wish other anons could do likr this
>>745733735
be a man and learn to not give a fuck about rejection.
the only opportunities you should care about are the ones in front of you, not the ones behind you.
if one doesn't work out, if it turns out to not be an opportunity after all. so what. there will be more. and with each opportunity that passes you by you'll learn how to maximise efficiency in gaining whatever those opportunities have to offer.
godspeed my son.
what matters is you tried anon. you did good.
>>745734190
also, you need to incorporate these two sayings in your internal modus operandi.
"even when I'm wrong, I'm right" - because even when you're wrong you learn something new which makes your mistake a success in a way.
"I never lose, I either win or I learn" - 'nuff said.
>>745734047
This
>>745733735
You didn't. The first two responses from her took forever if those times are correct, so you're not out of the game yet.
Even so, you showed some intestinal fortitude and kept all the spaghetti in your pockets, so fuck it.
Just for a reference (second on the left tall one)...and hily shit didnt think /b/ was so nice
>>745733735
pretty bad lol
first mistake is you treated her like a moron, as soon as you sent that "question" she obviously knew that was the only reason you started chatting her about her results in the first place making you seem extremely fake and superficial
secondly, what kind of why to ask was that? you didn't ask to go to dinner, you didn't ask if she was free.. you literally just told her how you would like to tell her your results... maybe?
lmfaooo bruh
Why be so fucking cringey? Next time say "hey going to such and such place for drinks tomorrow want to meet me there?". Jesus "I'd rather tell you over dinner?" Mine as well put a mlady in there for fucks sake!
>>745734360
Fuck the haters. You didn't do it in an awkward way, you just asked.
>>745733735
Not too bad - shoulda left out the maybe.
>>745733735
time to send the dick pic my man
>>745734375
> implying there is an opener out there that isnt complete dog shit
>>745734449
Could not imagine how it could be more awkward
>>745734375
>>745734375
Fair enough, i could see that. Would it help that we've texted a lot more before and we're lab partners. We get along pretty well like those cliche teen movies.
>>745734107
This. Well played OP
>>745733735
You did fine anon ignore any1 trolling.
Asking is always better than not asking, try to be more assertive in future though. Like don't put maybe on the end of sentences. Speak/type to them as if you know they are going to say yes, it shows confidence.
That was a good try, even if it didnt work at least you actually tried. And it wasnt even cringey, good job OP.
>>745734498
>the only way in is through a "opener"
>writing the word imply even though you're already green texting
are you still in fucking high school?
The amount "you did good anon, ignore the haters" in this thread is fucking sad. If you beta faggots honestly think this a decent attempt at getting with a girl then god help us all.
yes i mad
>>745734541
um no. state what you want and don't be cringy
>>745734682
beta faggot hater
>>745734595
Nope, im just a gay retard nigger jew.
I'd like to tell you more about it over dinner maybe?
>>745734541
You might hear back yet! Ignore the "experts", you didn't do so badly. I'd throw a $20 that you get a response!
>>745734682
Bet, what would you have said and how would you fix this?
>>745734402
What's so cringe about it?
Wanna be chad go back to your basement fucking dweeb
Here's the thing. You completely lost any control of the situation. You gave it all to her. Read between the lines of what you wrote. It says, I like you and want to be more than friends. So what's wrong with that? You put her in charge, that's what is wrong with it. Now she decides what happens next. You can't let that happen when dealing with bitches. Keep them guessing, keep them clueless about how you really feel and what you want. You asked, and that takes balls and I give you credit for that. But don't ever give them control.
she seems like a cunt
>>745734555
Stop giving people false hope you fucking closet dweller, that was cringe as fuck and OP is a fucking beta that will never get laid
>>745733735
The 'maybe?' ending probably kills your chance.
>>745734682
nobody ever stated it was a good attempt, and ive personal got away with worsts, mind you im a attractive fit dude
>>745734800
I don't know what kind of sad bitches you're talking about, but i've gotten plenty of girls, just by being myself and letting them know i want them.
Just talk to girls if they like you for who you are good if not then cut yiur losses and move on. I din't know why some fuckers say there's special lingo and you gotta maintain control of the bitches and bullshit like that
>>745734739
fucking kek'd
I dont what it is /b/ shes a bit taller than me and she doesnt have much of an ass or tits. But just sometging about how she is and how smart she is pulls on me. Maybe its the glasses idk. I feel like im stuck and if i say anything its gg's. What do?
Ignore all the virgin naysayers OP. They're clueless.
You had the balls to be upfront and ask and that's cool. It wasn't in a thirsty way either, you played it cool.
But yeah back to the naysayers. These niggers seem to think that how you ask a girl out matters, but this is bullshit.
Obviously if you're a bumbling autistic mess of a man when you ask or whatever then you're outright gonna be rejected. But aside from that pretty much anything goes.
Because when it comes to women, they make a decision about you the second they meet you. If a woman is likely to date you, she knows instantly. And from that point onwards she's waiting for you to ask her out, and you're likely completely oblivious to that fact most of the time because they want you to take a risk and "conquer" them by showing you have balls and taking a risk. So she's already decided that she'd go out with you, you just haven't sealed the deal by asking her.
If a woman rejects you, it's because she's already decided she's not interested whatsoever. How you asked doesn't really matter. If she's interested she'll say yes, if she's not, she'll say no. A simple "wanna go out on a date sometime?" Or what you said, isn't gonna turn a woman off if she's already interested.
>>745734800
What a sad, hollow existence you must live in.
>>745734885
says the man who's only seen pussy at on the Internet, lol. Not cringe op. at least you tried. some of these fucks won't leave the basement to try.
OP I think you might have asked too soon, but if she doesn't reply after the whole day move on because there are plenty of other girls.
>>745734954
Im 5'11 and head of a fitness department. Now in rugby cause why the fuck not. Ive had other girls but its just this one one that throws me off.
>>745733735
At least you took a chance, OP.
If anything that girl is porbably freaking out wondering if you were serious or just joking around with her, and she probably has no idea how to respond.
If she turns out to be such a stuck p bitch that she wouldn't even text you back and just completely blow you off, then that shows what a social reject and how shit her personality really is.
>>745733735
PROTIP
Call her a rancid swine if she declines,
Or better yet call her that before she answers
>>745734800
I half agree, and half don't
It depends on the woman tbh. Some women like this approach (they tend to be the less troubled, more mature ones), others like to be left guessing (the ones who have issues, who think that no good man will want them, so any man who wants them is low quality, and they attach themselves to men who don't care about them because they believe that's a sign that they're a catch).
>>745735098
I've had 3 girlfriends in my life and I didn't get them and fuck them by being a cringe beta fuck.
Stop making their life worse by pretending that wasn't cringe and beta as fuck
You're only celebrating him because you're even more of an unhealthy pussy than he is
>>745734112
This.
>>745735237
This. Doing this is a good way to scope out the true cunts in the female population. How they react or respond to you indicates how low or high they are in general quality. If she ignores you, she's a cunt and wasn't worth your time anyway.
>>745735034
dont go full basement dweller now. She is nothing special, treat her like any other puss
OP, literally send a new msg saying, "Pick you up at 8 for dinner"
So as of now am theres nothing much i can do huh?
>>745735038
pretty much this
>>745735441
I like that, firm handshake.
>>745735342
3 gf's. nice, I'd be proud of you if you weren't in your 30's. Sounds like you hate on op because he had the balls to do something you can't. maybe you can get the 4th gf /b/ro. good luck.
>>745735526
If she doesn't reply move on
>>745735769
Damn..gg
>>745735542
>>745735598
Also, another point about the naysayers.
From their comments it seems to me that they listen to women far too much.
Women complain about how men approach them in an effort to test them. Shit-testing it's called. They'll complain about what they want you to do so that the weak-minded appeasers will show their true nature and try to charm them, thus ostracising themselves and socially castrating themselves while the "real men" will continue doing exactly what the women are complaining about because they don't care. So yeah, it kinda separates the wheat from the tares.
Basically, whatever women complain about, they want. That's how they tell us what they want.
For example. Women complain about unwanted advances, or male advances with no justification. This is because they enjoy them. Unprovoked advances show that a man knows what he wants and is willing to risk rejection, reputation and whatever else to get it. It shows confidence, ambition, that instinct to "conquer." The only time women don't enjoy this is when a man is being a creep, that's only when these complaints are genuine.
So yeah, women complain that they hate it when men make advances and make men believe that keeping them guessing works a treat when the opposite is true (unless you're dealing with teenagers or women with massive self-worth issues). Keep being risk-takers, just do it in a way that makes you appear calm, collected, confident, articulate and most of all, not creepy.
>>745733735
You should follow that up with a picture of your warthog.
She has seen your charm and wit, you are sort of in the back of her mind, but she thinks you might be too weak to bother with, so you need to reinforce your alpha status with a subtle, romantic gesture, a casual picture of your custard chucker framed in moody lighting.
Then wait for a while, let it sink in, don't answer her first response text, just let her hang for a while and bask in your manliness, perhaps with a beer.
By the time you get around to replying to her texts, she will be eating out of the palm of your nuts.
>>745733735
You didnt. She's just not interested. Sorry bro, move on or send her your cock. Only options
>>745736201
You make some good points...
>>745733944
Dubs has it. Don't stop trying. Rejection is a huge percent of it. Don't let that matter. Try again with the next one.
>>745735526
Are you stupid?
You left the conversation open ended. Close to deal, moron. Send her a text saying something like this >>745735463
>>745733735
that was a pretty tactless attempt, no lead up and "did you really laugh" sounds like stalker shit, totally set the wrong tone
>>745736448
The thing is she has to respond. We're lab partners and we study often together. If not ill just confront her in person. Rip
>>745733996
Until the gaping slaw jawed haahaas of the opposite sex make you become jack the ripper. Now your success rate has risen to almost 100 percent
>>745733944
This. You might as well mentally prepare yourself for rejection because it's going to happen a lot, in fact about 97% of the time. But that 3% will keep you going for the ones who are receptive to your advances. Soon you'll know which fish are the fish within your league if you are unsure whether you fucked up with this one.
wait a day and if she doesn't respond just say something like "sorry thought something was there, moving on). That will relieve any tension if you got class with her or w/e. that means you actually need to move on.
>>745736774
Fuck leagues. I pulled big tittied cheerleaders in hs. I dont why the hell i over think shit when im with her.
Its been almost three hours and no response. Is there anything I can lead up with? Dont want to end it like that.
>>745736774
If your good at reading women rejection almost never happens. Mind you the % of women that show signs usually isn't high (depending on your looks)
Another pic of her
>>745733735
Worse thing to happen you will be oc for a cringe thread.
>>745737034
Just wait until you see her in person.
>>745736879
noooooooo fuck that.
because then she'll think it was a big deal to OP.
it's like the other day on Tinder I matched with some girl I used to be "friends" with a few years back who's fresh out of a relationship. basically propositioned her 'cause I wanted to be straightforward. got politely rejected 'cause she's just come out of a relationship. bumped into her a couple of days later after her unmatching me and she added me on FB afterwards and we've laughed about it.
act like it doesn't matter and that increases your sexual marketplace value 100x. act like it matters by making any amount of a deal out of it and you look weak.
>>745737034
just be patient, you wouldn't want to come off as pushy.
don't make it too big in your mind, that way you will fuck up
>>745733735
"DInner" ?!
What are you, 80 years old englishman ?
I won...
Went about it normal enough, if she's not interested she's not worth your time.
>>745737227
Fuck my English
>>745737227
> I won..
Are you sure ?
the real fuck up is not storing her name in your phone. I use emojis and descriptions in my contacts for girls - but I always forget their names :(
another good trick is to say "hi xxxxx" in an early text so you have it for reference.
But on the real, the more you get denied the more shots you've taken, the more pussy you'll get . Always go for it
>>745737227
No.. You lost. She's just to nice to say it directly.
>>745737322
This
>>745737227
friendship is magic
>>745737227
>I won
>mfw op gets rejected and he doesn't even know it
>>745737227
>we'll all have to
she is not interested in doing anything with you 1 on 1. do not push the issue, you are already making her upset and anxious now because she has to see you because she is your lab partner
there is a saying never shit where you eat. it is bad form and classless to ask a girl out like this unless its the END of the class and she is not REQUIRED to see you again.
Do not be surprised if she requests a different partner
You lost, she means a group outing if I'm not mistaken.
>>745737227
>we'll all
>>745737034
>I pulled big tittied cheerleaders in hs
Ok so you have this big ego and think she should date you because you landed a big tittied cheerleader in hs? Why the fuck would you ask /b/ for help then if you're so godamn alpha? You are full of shit.
>>745737060
Uh no it's mostly dependent on your level of autism, and judging by the texts he sent, he's fairly high up there.
>>745737122
At a point when she just wants to be left alone your only digging yourself a grave if you make a fuss about it. Shes not physically attracted by the sounds of it. Oh and tinder doesnt apple to this situation, there is anonymity with Tinder.
>>745737227
OP. Woman always take some time to decide. Was good that you threw the Rod and waited for the fish to bite. Patience m8 (just don't wait longer than half a week that's too much to hope for)
>>745737227
No sir, you have been friend zoned. Could safe it by being assertive and say "I ment just you and I." Do not make it a question at this point.
>>745737227
don't listen to them OP, it may not be a yes, but you've got your foot in the door.
>>745737227
>I won...
That or you're two texts away from being cuckzoned. See
>>745737445
Be certain faggot. Get a date.
>>745733975
God damn he's only asking her out to dinner in the most casual way possible. Not like he said "I'd rather tell you with my dick in you maybe?"
>>745737497
this, man up or strap in for dissapointment
Ill keep /b/ posted in a couple of weeks. If youre still intrested of course. Thank you for the help and keeping me sane..you know who you are. GG's
Assert yourself and say "I meant just you and I" don't make it a question, and dont send anything after that, or any stupid ass emojis. Just say it, and depending on what she says, go from there. As it currently is, you're like 97% rejected
>>745737445
As sad as it sounds, I think this is the likely outcome. If I were op I'd act like it never happened and move on and hope she doesn't publicly embarrass him by making said requests.
>>745737227
Respond with "Lol, that's not what I meant, but never mind" and leave it there
>>745735034
just fucking wait, you dork. don't text anything back and just chill.
With draw yourself op and make it clear to her in hopes of saving public humiliation
>>745737714
This.
>>745737714
This. Could be a shit test. She could be wanting him to assert himself and make his intentions clear.
Maybe she thinks he's asking her as a classmate and nothing more but isn't entirely sure so she's thinking if she makes out she'll bring other classmates, he'll man up and make his intentions clear.
>>745737227
fuckin rip, dude
>>745737227
"You all" implies a group gathering. You're still in the friendzone boyo. Not even going to sugercoat it, you're probably just another guy for her. Shes probably used to this kind of shit, that or shes not interested. Either way, the implications don't bode well.
Personal advice, stop giving a fuck about her.
>>745734942
Nah. That was needed.
Could have gone without "maybe." As for the reply she gave you, that's a dinner for friends and NOT a date. Make it clear you wanted a date, don't do this beating around the bush shit these beta teenage faggot want
>>745737086
I think she's cute and I think you didn't do it in a completely horrible way. If she brushes it off or says she is busy and doesn't offer up another time or day then just brush it off and play it cool around her. You may be able to scrape your way out of the friend zone or maybe not, but if you think she's cool then you took your shot. Be proud of yourself, and thanks for treating her like a lady and not listening to any of these assholes who have probably never had a meaningful relationship.
>Maybe ?
>MAYBE !?!?!?!
Ahahahaha IM dyin
>>745737227
We'll all? As in more than 2? As in not just you and her? If so, this is only half of a win, but a good start nonetheless.
>>745738137
A good start for a beta relationship that will only end in being cucked and friendzoned.
>>745737445
Dude, you're being overly dramatic, there.
OP you didn't win. Finish this charade and make it perfectly clear, in plain english, that you meant just the two of you. If she says 'No', then so be it. Don't be a bitch though.
Get a straight up answer /b/ro. You don't need a female BFF, what you need if a GF and some pussy. Having a female friend cock blocks you super hard.
>>745737227
listen here faggot, no one in this thread really understands what is actually going on.
>girl is mildly interested you
>probably finds you attractive, but isn't willing to actively pursue you
>casually flirts during an average convo
>laughs at what you say even though it isn't that funny
>jokingly compliments you to make it seem less awkward
>you make a move
>she isn't exactly sure what to say
>she talks to her friends
>they probably already know that she thinks you're kinda cute
>talk about possible options
>determines that she wants to hangout
>not ready for a one on one date
>suggests hanging out in a group
>opinion on you hasn't really changed
>willing to see how you guys interact
this is all assuming you're even mildly attractive though. it's just a soft rejection if you're ugly or come off as gay
>>745738078
He was asking a question. if he didn't have maybe, he would just sound like a douche that thinks he's owed dinner, or that they're already in a relationship.
>>745738078
Don't listen to this guy. Be pushy about it and she will request a new partner and it will be awkward. You took your shot and she is only barely interested (since she didn't completely ghost you) or just being nice. But there's still a chance down the road if you act cool and treat her right.
>>745738425
Um no, this is the real world weeaboo
>>745738256
You dudes that think you're some form of super man are living in a fantasy world. You clowns must be Chad wannabes.
>>745738425
>posts anime reaction image
Yeah op listen to this guy, it wasn't a flat out rejection she wants to get to know you first, maybe. Or maybe she isn't interested, else she'd just say ok or jokingly flirt back in some way, which she didn't do.
Tagging the "maybe" at the end is weak. It shows tut lack confidence.
Asking a first date over text is lame. Do it in person or at least on a phone call, not over over text though. Don't set dates over text until you've gone out once or twice.
Asking in person shows your confidence. It puts her on the spot and makes her make a choice. She may say no but she's more likely to say yes in person than over text. When you ask have a plan already. Know the day, time, and place. Be a man, take charge.
>>745738658
uh no just a realist. here's your chad wannabe:
>>745738770
>>745737227
That's not a win. She masterfully shut you down. It's clear she's out of your league.
>>745737227
Any update OP?
>>745734360
She's cute anon. If it doesn't work out go for the short one on the right.
>>745738834
Whatever kid, you don't know shit. You're beta and will remain so. Grow up and show some initiative. Worthwhile women date men, not children.
>>745734402
"Mine as well"? Are you fucking retarded?
>>745737437
Bors
>>745735456
This.
>>745738640
>>745738692
kek these kids don't even know what flirting is
>she isn't willing to immediately date you
>she wants to hangout but she obviously isn't interested
give me a break
>>745737227
Where's my $20? You closet dwelling wannabe's know nothing. Well played OP. NOW you play it cool and don't get too excited. Set it up when you're in lab together in person.
>>745738834
Chad gets pussy. You don't.
do that shit in person, sounds like you got the same class and probably see each other quite often
To be honest, its going pretty well so far. Cant post conversation due to her work place being revealed and giving me directions and how to pick her up.
Next time I post it'll be with her. Take it easy /b/. And honeslty, just go for it and be yourself...id rather have her fall for ME and not me trying to be someone else.
>>745737227
ok good, now ignore her until she texts again
>>745737086
Bro...text her again and tell her you mean it. You are going to take her out for dinner. Name the time and place. Don't leave her guessing whether you were serious or not.
>>745733735
>>745737227
A dinner is not a win, but you might have a chance. Youre friends/lab partners right? ive eated out with a lot girls that im (was) friends with who thought i invited them out for a friendly dinner and not as a date.
Im guessing you are gonna go out somewhere to eat dinner? pay for the whole thing and ask her right before the meal is finished if there is anything she want to do/anywhere she wants to go after dinner. if the question of it being a date pops up then you can simply answer "well, it certainly looks like it was, doesnt it?" and then follow up with "wanna go on another "date" sometime", if she had a good time then the answer is most of the time a yes
>>745737227
Some time = never dumb ass
>>745738834
why wouldn't you wanna be like chad
>his dad owns a boat
>crushes mad puss
kid's just jealous he isn't sigma alpha epsilon material
>>745739187
>>745739162
Teach me your ways Chad, when will I get the pussy I deserve?
>>745739162
Real world: Women don't wast time with there busy scheduleds courting to find a decent male, they don't need to. ugly betas are easy to distinguish.
>>745733735
'tall girl with glasses'... asking her out and you dont even know her name..
>>745739273
Honestly OP idk what to do now.
It's all about the way you see it
-optimistic
-persimistic
-idealistic
I like to take optimistic always it even helps me if things don't go that well.
Good luck
>>745734360
the one in the middle looks like a demon :O
>>745737621
she knows full well what he meant
>>745737561
spotted the betafag
>>745737714
girls love passive aggressive comments
>>745739273
And then op pretends like she accepted the date when she didn't. That's really sad and pathetic dude.
>>745733735
>but did you really laugh
why would you ask that
>>745734402
Agreed, you're in college. You literally just had to invite her to drink with your friends. If she was interested you'd get some fuk.
>>745733735
Just a tip. Don't ask like a question. Present it as a statement.
"I'd rather tell you over dinner" gives off much more confidence which women like than the way you said it.
>>745733735
OP your a fucking idiot. you don't ask a college girl to dinner dumbass thats why she stopped answering. just ask her to smoke or study and talk to her then.
>>745734112
this
confidence
>>745737227
fucking KEK
>>745734402
agreed your the only person that realized the cringe
>>745739612
something tells me thats not op
>>745735098
It was absolutely cringy but I'm proud of him for trying. It's just an awkward way of asking her on a date. He'd have been better off straight up asking then using a weird line about showing her scores. Good news is It's only a month into his freshman year. He's probably a creep though
>>745734112
this nigga gets it
>>745737714
>>745737926
>>745737943
No. not this you idiots. "Never mind" is such a little bitch thing to say. It's not assertive at all. It says "I've been defeated but I'm pretending to not care." Instead of never mind, say "I meant just you and I." or something along those lines.
>>745739502
holy shit, at least learn how to write a real sentence before you try to act like an adult on the internet. They're still in school anyway, nothing "real world" about it
>>745739941
Insulted his weeaboo fantasies don't work on women
>>745740176
you've obviously never seen school days. yous should watch it and learn how girls actually work. Nothing weeb about it
>>745733735
> maybe?
Take note lads. "maybe?" is how a textbook beta ends sentences.
Is this even /b/ anons? Where are the insults the evergreen "op is faggot"
OP I want you to understend that now is a personal thing for /b/ and if you get laid it's like /b/ got laid
>>745739588
Okay
establish dominance and say "I think you got it all wrong, I like you and I'm asking you to go out to dinner with me" don't give her an option to blow you off, if she says no then say something like "hey, you know I had to ask" or some shit like that to make yourself seem more alpha in her eyes even after rejection, like it didn't phase you
>>745740579
and make sure to puff out your chest and pee on her to mark her as yours
>>745739273
OP if thie is really you. That dinner has to be 1 on 1. Fuck that group bullshit. If shes interested she'll fucking go for it. If not, suck it up and finish the semester and stop giving a fuck.
>>745737227
"We'll all"
>>745740753
this guy gets it
It would be hard over text tho, so take a pic of you pissing on a picture of her with a caption "TOGETHER FOREVER" and send it her way, it'll make her wet 100% guarantee
>>745740286
>Anime
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
>>745739273
>"we'll all"
>pick me up btw
>wow she's into me
if this conversation continued and you're under the impression she pretty much said "yes" to you then be prepared to be her ride home...make sure to drop off your friends that'll come along too, don't wanna leave em hanging, also pay for the dinner, it was your idea after all
>>745733735
Textra is pretty cool.
>>745734360
/b not "nice"
>>745734360
It's honesty. Not our fault it usually hurts idiots.
>>745734375
Autism
>>745740922
Also not that it really matters or I aspect you to believe me but ive been dating a hot asian for some time, only wish she was home right now to laugh at this with me
This thread will hit post limit because of the shills shitting yourself that you could actually come here and have someone say "yep, good job have a nice day".
Nolifes kek.
>>745737445
If he drops it then I don't see her asking for another partner unless he is overly creepy. Just don't initiate contact with her anymore at least for a while until this sort of blows over.
>>745733735
im guessing youre maybe 5ft 8 with a neck beard and has a 4 inch penis. it would probably be 7 if it wasnt for your fupa you fat 258 pound fuck
>>745741929
look at the retarded trumptard trying to politicize the topic of this thread when it has nothing to do with politics at all.
Did I win?
>>745743567
Gj op
>>745743567
grats /b/ro. can't believe /b/ gave some good advice for once.
>>745740922
>>745741863
I have an asian gf too, but she goes to another school. We watch anime together online though
>>745743567
let's just hope you aren't boring or you'll regret not having other people there. Have you ever been alone with her before?
>>745743567
now fuck her right on that driveway friday night
>>745738425
if she was mildly interested she probably wouldn't have implied every one should eat since it was plainly evident op was asking her out, you spastic. She would have laughed or said "maybe" or "Idk" or acknowledged that he's asking her out. She brushed him off hard
>>745743567
Fuck yes, OP. Fuck yes mate.
>>745743714
True but more than half of the thread is basically fags acting like they're specialists on everything.
>>745743567
congrats op, but would be a bummer if her answer to "its a date" is "oh, i thought we were going out as friends because you wanted to talk about our bad grades, since were lab partners after all"
>>745743567
stop using exclamation marks unless you're fucking 12
or a puppy
>>745744059
it's the first time we've ever hung out and she wants to do it with other people around. there's no way she's interested. If that were true, no one would ever hook up at parties, concerts, etc.
>hey anon, come to my party haha
>are other people going to be there?
>of course haha xd
>no thanks. do I look like a cuck
>>745743567
Gj op. Just be cool and casual with her, don't try too hard. the fun has just started.
>>745744451
>enthusiasm kills the man
>>745743567
Come back with pictures, then you will truly win.
>>745744559
reeks of desperation
be way cooler and laidback than she is or you've already fucked it up
>>745744652
>*Takes out notepad*
The shit I have learned on 4chan could fill a pad of sticky notes.
>>745743567
>yeah its a date
>>745744873
I think that notepad would be full of penis's
>>745744873
it reads like you're surprised she said yes
you don't want that kind of effect on her
don't let her think of it as her doing you a favour
and don't ever give her any idea that you really like her until after you fuck
but that's a lesson for another day
>>745733735
Nah, you did fine, mate.
>>745745061
also yeah, this was fucking terrible
>>745745085
nah most of it will just be the word "abort" smudged with hand sweat
>>745745158
Keep going man, this is clearly gold advise from a true player.
>>745743567
>>745743567
yes, make sure you leave "tall girl with glasses" as her name in your address book in case she sees it. youll seem like a playa.
>>745745409
I need to bleach my eyes now
make sure she knows you have a micro peener tho
Tell her your gay though. Make her really want to convert you
>>745743567
OP is a fucking dumbass.
He is awkward as fuck, and aint gonna get no where with this hottie.
If he keeps acting all needy as fuck.
OP, just dont fucking talk about marriage or her having your kids on this "date"
>>745733735
>Ita been almost two hours and still no response.
>How bad did i fuck up /b/
fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucking lol
I feel op is hopeless from here out. Good job though /b/
Good job but fuck me
>yeah its a date
Fucking kek
>>745745061
This
Would not be surprised if your date turned into a free dinner the moment you said that.
>>745733735
Would you rather tell her over dinner or would you not, wtf is this maybe shit? You tried and fail, it was better than not trying. Better luck next time.
>>745747919
>>745745914
I'm not normally the type of person to say this, but it seems like you're projecting, or at least envious.
>>745733735
it could have been worse
>>745749581
>>745736616
biggest thing is just keep chill about it. dont message her again, next time you see her in lab just act like nothing happened. It sucks not knowing, but if she hasnt responded the answer is probably no. Dont let it get to you, as long as you dont act like a creep now, showing her that you're genuinely interested in her as a person will get you some points and maybe pay off down the road
>>745733975
A little abrupt? This is the most respectful and most normal way to ask someone out. What the fuck are you talking about? At least he tried.
>>745751365
This.
>>745735034
Lol, calm down.
Are you of drinking age? Next time or next girl, invite to drinks. Dinner is awkward and fucking retarded.
>>745737227
OP. Don't listen to everyone else. This is all you need to know.
You have decent lines, just horrible execution. She may still be interested in you and the
>we all
could just be she doesn't like you and wants others there cause you awkward af or she doesn't know if she likes you enough to pursue anything further. You need to stop saying cringe shit, but also be yourself (balance both, assuming your naturally cringe)
You have 2 options. Be the direct, but playful, later in the week you could bring up the plans.... OR... let her..(this route may never go anywhere because some girls dont like to take the initiative)
You could say..... Yeah that sounds like fun! we could invite (insert names of friends in common) and you show me how much better your mark was compared to mine lol
>>745736153
Women complain about advances when it's an ugly guy they're not attracted to, simple as that. "Creepy" is their codeword for "ugly".
>>745737498
>>745743567
i told you OP.. see it all the way through. Good job!
>>745736566
This
>>745743567
Anyone wanna provide me with an analysis of this text for my.. research? My current thoughts
OP seemed to come on a little too desperate by confirming it to be a date and choosing a day/time within the same text. I understand it could be assertive but I read desperate. Also lol at I'll pick you.
Her response of umm sure that works lulzzzz didn't seem to inspire any confidence of her wanting to go on an actual date but reluctantly saying yes to dinner instead.
And finally smh at yeah its a date!
>>745733735
I would say bad, but >>745733897 is right. I just hope you are underaged and still in high school. Beyond high school it might seem weird.
>>745743567
>Its a date
You drag things on more then you need to. Stop that.
>>745739306
Most of the time. If she ghosts you after having a good time then just move on
>>745743567
>it's a date
you'd be better off if you didn't say that
>>745733735
>"I'd rather tell you over dinner maybe?
how hard is it to type
>I'd rather tell you over dinner.
when will guys learn that girls aren't attracted to faggots?
You took a shot , did it the way u thought was best. That's all you can do, it's not creepy nor is it an excellent approach. It's pretty normal.
Fear nothing padowan , have confidence in yourself to understand rejection and learn it's just part of life
We all get it at one point, learn from it.
>>745743567
I'm sorry OP but the sad reality is you MAY not get anywhere with this chick. You say allot of cringy shit.
Her response didn't give the most confidence that she was into you. Please for the love of god dont take her to dinner. The only chance you have is avoid that cringy dinner shit, take her somewhere fun where you both dont have to think of things to talk about, theme parks/carnivals events hell even go carting. etc.. are good places to go where you both can have fun and laugh, this will be much better then a dinner date. Normally if i knew you werent cringy then maybe the dinner could do but the dinner will back fire on you. It'll leave too many opportunities for the convo to go stale and cringy, and if you go to dinner you are walking into that.
>>745733735
Good lad OP, even if she rejects you at least u were a normal guy asking if shed like to have dinner. You didn't fuck up at all friend, be proud.
>>745754041
In high school I would just take girls to the movie so I wouldn't have to talk about jack shit. Just make out the entire time. (I am assuming OP is in high school, idk.)
>>745733735
kys yourself
>>745743567
Good job, you steered the ship out of the friendzone. Next time don't send a wishy washy text, just ask the girl in person. Women want someone who will make a plan and be clear about it, as I'm sure you are quickly realizing.
>>745745371
My fucking sides
>>745743567
damn bro nice one, congrats
>>745743567
>"I need to change though"
That strikes me as a good sign. She wants to look hot for you, OP.
>>745754320
ma nigga.
You struck out, but 90% of people on this board have never asked out a girl so you did better than all of them.
You'll get the next one
>>745743567
You were doing well until you added the "it's a date! XD" cringe bs. Always let her say the last words so you don't seem so excited and desperate. You want to give the impression that you ask girls out all the time and this is just another girl you picked to hang out with because you're bored.
>>745735038
Well in most cases I'd agree with you there anon but you see OP and this girl are in the same class and will likely have to see eachother almost daily for the next few months in the same class and if you're seeing someone that often then there is no excuse not to ask them out in person and now that he has gotten rejected he has to go through the awkwardness of being in the same class as her. Also he is shorter than her so he should have expected this outcome.
>>745734047
Fucking incel!
>>745756008
Lol I posted this reply without seeing the outcome. Fair play to you OP.
>>745733944
Dubs speak the truth
>>745756330
this creeps me out every fuckig time
