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Homewrecker/ cheating thread,

Don't know why I am using 4chan yet again for advice on my love life but here I am as fellow femanon friends are too judgy and I cba explaining to people. It goes a little something like this:

> met a guy at work, who is in a relationship but we have such a great laugh
> both work in the hospital together and work closely
> he adds me on facebook
> I make an excuse to mail him, just for chat
> been chatting non stop for a week we genuinely have a crazy amount of things in common, see him sometimes in work, speak to late into the night on the phone
> casually ask about him and his girlfriend and he says they don't really see each other much because they are both swamped with work
>I really have an interest in him in both a physical and emotional sense
Does this sound as if I could be in? How would I seal the deal? I don't want to come across too keen incase I've picked it up wrong


Homewrecking experiences?
do you think I could be in with a shot?

> pic related
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>>715154360
Tits or gtfo

Also obvious bait
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Don't be a slutball. Tell your b/f that you're tired of him and make a clean break, then go and fuck this work friend. Have some fucking balls.
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>>715154535
Yawn, no. Not wanting attention wanting help.
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>>715154360
Tell him he's your soulmate then kiss him on the mouth. Guys love this kind of stuff :3
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>>715154684
I am not in a relationship! This guy at work has a girlfriend and I don't know where he stands with her, as he has non stop spoke to me and we speak in work and phone each other etc. Don't know if it's just him being friendly or what. He's complimented me a few times about I look nice and have a nice figure not in a pervy way, in like a nice way.
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>>715154722
>femanon
>not wanting attention

tits or gtfo nigger; anon is anonymous, the second you indicate you're a walking pussy you're an attention whore.
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As long as you're okay with him doing the same thing to you when you're time is up.

Would you seriously ever trust him to not talk to some other woman behind your back? Ohhh...but you two have things in common and possibly share feelings, so he'll be good to you, right?

It's swinging branches, lady. I tell men the same thing I'm telling you. You don't go after someone in a relationship, or just out of one.

If they are just out of a relationship: If you're unlucky, you're a rebound they'll dump soon. If you're lucky, it'll be something that lasts a little longer, but eventually they replace you for someone better.

Find someone who has been single. Has no baggage. Has taken the time for themselves. And is not currently in a relationship.

I know you won't listen, so enjoy your trust lacking relationship.
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>>715154360
Would be glad to advise as I can relate to this.

but first tits or gtfo
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>>715154902
I've been on this site for years, drop the act. Just had to show gender as it might be considered different the other way around, k?

>>715154956
I know that's my thing, I was thinking way into the future if he does it once will he do it again. However he might genuinely just be unhappy and not want to break up for no reason. I mean he barely sees her.. I'm not sure the full story. I have trust issues as it is. I feel like I'm probably doing the whole 'want what you can't have' thing. However I know a couple of people who have cheated or homewrecked and now have a function relationship. I don't think he's the kind of guy to cheat though, like doesn't seem that way. I'm like hm why talk to me ...
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>>715154360
>met a guy at work
found your problem right here. don't shit where you eat kid
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>femanon not posting tits
this is now a homewrecker thread
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>>715155489
the way it works is he now works in a different part of the hospital from from and we will both be moving hospitals in a few weeks
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>>715154360
Are you Kylie?
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>>715154360

> casually ask about him and his girlfriend and he says they don't really see each other much because they are both swamped with work

Can't wait for him to use this excuse on you when you guys get together and he cheats on you. Sorry to break it to you, but you're new and exciting now, yet in a year or two he'll be moving on to that next sweet piece of ass that he manages to squeeze time from his swamped work schedule to always talk too.
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>>715155655
and then you will never have to work with him or anybody he might have spoken to ever again in the future? it's about your reputation as a professional not whether things might be awkward between you two after you bump uglies
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I'm impressed by the amount of cuckqueen pics you have and are rapidly posting
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>>715155475
No, you're a literal cunt
>been on here for years
>doesn't know the rules
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>>715155887
Look I know what it's like and I understand that but then again can you think Of it this way,you're stuck in a relationship you don't want to be in, but you just stay in it because it's easier to do? And then you start talking to someone else and realise you have a lot in common? You genuinely could find the person you spend your life with?

What I mean is, we speaking during work and after and in the morning before, however he works 6 days and she works an hour away like 5 days so they are both always working and shifts overlap
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>>715155978
Yes pretty much I'm moving to a different hospital. So there is not even a chance really and he's not the type to go on about it tbh.
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>>715154360
Nope nope nope. You should know the rules. Identifies gender does not identify titties. Show or gtfo.
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>>715154722
Yawn? You know the rules, whore.
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>>715156383
sauce
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>>715156218

I'm not trying to stop you, I'm just warning you that people who cheat tend to continue cheating. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you two really do hit it off!

If you two are meant for each other then by all means get together, but if he does fuck you over eventually it was no one's fault but your own.
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>>715154360
Quick question, do you smoke?
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Tell him there's no such thing as true love. Also tell kanta Claus
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>>715156538
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>>715156584
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>>715156218
>>715156327

Why tf did you come here and start this thread if you're not going to listen to anyone and just argue instead. You are petulant and defiant. I doubt he would want to date you anyway.
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I know a guy that did
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>>715154360
Keep what you have going. Wait for him to make a move, since he is the one in a relationship, you should really wait for him to give you the go ahead. You could try inviting him out to something casual after work or something.

Since you seem worried you might have picked up the wrong signals, that's my advice.
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>>715156812
>>715156815
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>>715154360
Only niggers and Filipinos work in hospitals.
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>>715156803
why would you come here and start this thread if you're not going to post tits*

fixed

also, shut up cuck
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>>715156768

Just give me the fucking source faggot.
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>>715156832
faggot cuck
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ITT a bunch of monogamous assholes torture themselves over not being psychic.

Just be honest and do what you can for as long as you can.

Life is pain with moments of pleasure until we fix it. Stop trying to control everything. Relax.

Be honest with eachother and with yourselves and with reality.
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>>715156516
Thanks, I appreciate what you say. I totally understand where you're coming from and I am paranoid about everything at the best of times but I don't know. I've not really felt this way about anyone in a long time.. I thank you, hopefully he realises how much it would benefit him to at least even dump her. Or maybe consider dumping her, I don't know though. It's so annoying I don't know where I stand.
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>>715154360
I would refrain from lying and just tell him the truth over drinks. I'm into not eating dick at night. Be alluring nudge the opinions of your loves
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Tits or gtfo hoe
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>>715157084
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>>715154902
How new are you? That rule only applies when the femanon is using her sex for attention, not when it's necessary to the story.

You don't just jump on femanons and demand tits. You only do that for attention whores.

Please lurk moar until you understand how this place works, k? Good :)
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>>715156832
Yeah I totally agree. I've planned a night out with a group of people and he will be there. So who knows maybe drunken words will be exchanged. I don't know if he would cheat I'm sure he would probably dump her, it's just trying to show I'm interested and show how much of a laugh we have together without him possibly being like wtf
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>>715157002
somewhere on tumblr, i don't remember
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>>715157221
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>>715157195
Femidiot trying to tell a man how a site works, LOL.
The rule is tits or get the fuck out, post tits, we help. Or gtfo
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>>715156516
cuck
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>>715157195
Thank you, fuck I know it was only relevant to the bloody story
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are you fat? it sounds like you're fat and guys just don't talk to you, so when someone is nice just to hang around you take it like he wants something with you
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>>715154360

>Felt like going on to explain my thought process but, didn't feel like typing it out. I'll keep it short.

>guy dumps his gf, takes you in, you're now the replaceable bitch he had previously.
>guy doesn't dump his gf, you could very well be his fuck buddy. HIS fuck buddy. He places the rules, he makes the call. You won't like this. Work will suck. etc etc. you lose.

>"Maybe he is genuinely friendly", HA. don't count on it. We know damn well what we do and how we do it. The comments we say and how we say them.

>Stay away.
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>>715157313
But who would want help from the kind of asshole that withholds it for that reason? Self solving problem.

Guy with gf speaking and no need for advice.
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>>715157221
You are a shit human being. I hope he cheats on you next
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>>715157084

Also, don't let him string you along as his side girl either. If he really does care about you he won't hesitate too much to end it with his current GF. If he is making promises about breaking up with her, but never does then he probably won't. Goodluck Anon!!
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>>715154360
Man... I hope this is bait OP...
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>>715155475
oh wow, way to flaunt femanon AND be a bitch
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>>715157582
>guy with gf speaking
sorry you need to be 18+ to be on this website
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>>715157515
I weight about 60kg? And I'm 5ft 6.
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>>715157587
just trying to help
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>>715157720
yup, just what i thought, fat, i'm sorry
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>>715154360

>excited to be a side girl

live your dreams cum dumpster
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>>715157313
Do you know why we post tits or gtfo? It's to force attention whores to accept that the only thing of value they have is their sex.

There is no reason for that in this case because the femanon is not using her sex for attention. She only mentioned it because it was relevant to the story.

This is what happens when edgy little teenagers get on the site. They start copying everyone else without knowing what they're doing. Now everyone posts tits or gtfo whenever there is a hint of femanon, not only when it's appropriate.

I hate /b/ now. You guys made it shit, you fucking autists.
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Why the fuck do you idiots keep posting in these threads? All these fucking sluts want to do is fuck fuck fuck and have absolutely none of the responsibilities. They don't care what you think. They are only looking for things that will validate their feelings. By posting in this thread, you are only furthering in enabling her.

If she were a respectable woman, she wouldn't be asking to cheat on anyone. The thing though is that she's not. By the simple fact that she made this thread proves it too. She's going to be sucking dicks for the rest of her life just like any other whore.

Either sage and hide or tits or gtfo.
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>>715157664
Yeah I know, I'm speaking to him just now and he's complimenting my smile and just saying how he's been staying up late to chat to me every night so I'm like meh. who knows don't want to get emotionally attached and then end up hurt but I already feel like I have one of those stupid school girl crushes! I'll give it a couple of weeks and see where it goes and maybe just put my cards on the table...
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>>715156516
OP is a cheater too, knowingly homewrecking.

It's like, you want to be alpha, and you encourage cheating and homewrecking. The way you say it makes you sound like a beta white knight faggot though.
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>>715157941
Congrats, you're now a side hoe. You probably aren't even his only side hoe
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>>715158037
I'm not a slut or a cheat. I should have really said in the post, that does it sound like he would dump his girlfriend sort of shit, my bad, tired
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>>715154360
He'll do the same to you when you're with him
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>>715158193
>I am not a slut
Oh boy
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>>715157901

Summer came early this year.
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>>715157901
Fuck off you fucking faggot cumguzzling piece of shit, you're obviously a loser faggot that transferred here from reddit or 9gag TITS OR GTFO has been the PAYMENT sluts need to make in exchange for help. This whore blatantly stated her gender and why she wanted help so now she has to pay the mother fucking toll of one pair of time stamped tits.

YOU FUCKING CUCK.


Next time, just tell your story you dumb whore, guys are not 'home wreckers' so one would assume it was a girl typing without mentioning your gender at all, dumb bitch.
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>>715158210
I know that's what I'm thinking, but what if he dumped his girlfriend for me and didn't cheat. I mean it could be different because we could spend more time together than him and his current gf, maybe they just weren't meant to be.

>>715158282
Genuinely not just young and confused fs
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>>715157715
Yea I'm 37, try again. X)
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>>715158454

tits or get the fuck out bitch
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Wait till he makes a move on you. That way you don't have to feel the guilt of conscience since it was he who decided to wreck his relationship. Just don't expect your thing to last a long time. Also, you can expect it to end badly... as in, you guys won't want to talk to each other anymore after it's over. And, yes, I'm saying this from personal experience.
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>>715158376
Except that if you don't explicitly say you're female, you are assumed male.

Nice try faggot
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>>715154360
I've gotten with quite a few women that have boyfriends. #1 rule is don't date them. If they'll cheat/leave that person for you,they'll do the same to you later on.
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fuck off. you're done here.
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>>715158597
refer to rule 30 faggot.
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>>715158560
Yeah I get what you mean. What do you think if he maybe dumped his girlfriend? Or even if we just spent some time together going Christmas shopping nothing sexual. then maybe he will dump her, the amount he's on the phone to me etc it doesn't seem like he speaks to her that much at all... or if I FaceTime him we can chat for like 2 hours and not pause it so it's not as if he's texting
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>>715154360
Depends on if you want to break a relationship
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>>715158743

Fuck me you must have the crazy eyes bitch
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>>715158873
It's not even that, I should have maybe reworded it to say what are my chances of him ending a relationship, is there a point in me kind of making the effort to show interest. As it is we talk all the time, compliment each other, have such a laugh any time we work together
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>>715158938
Probably a bit insane
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>>715157941
I vote cards. Be honest.
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>>715154360
If you don't know then we don't know.

By the sounds of it he is feeling you out, but playing it safe with is current relationship, he can probably tell you like him.

>Don't know about how you both are with eye contact or physical contact, facial expressions, compliments or general admiration.

But i would suggest finding a time to tell him that you think he's great (could be during a text based conversation) so he knows he has some solid ground (people like stability and are resistant to change, and a lot of people need real substantial reasons to leave a boring relationship).

I would also suggest finding times to stick your tongue, bite your lip, and letting him see you glancing at him.

As long as you remain confident and independent it won't put awkward pressure on him (I'm trying to help you avoid mistakes I've made, but gender reversed).

Carry on building this, and then after some time you may have to lay it on the line in order to avoid misunderstandings, heart ache, or potentially just being a stress relief to someone who's to scared to make a mature decision and change his situation.


>Random potentially useful out of context sage wisdom
Remember that the future brings uncertainty, and uncertainty brings anxiety.
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>>715158743
If you want to get serious with him and she's only his gf, then you have a solid chance. You can express that you want the relationship to advance beyond what it currently is, but that for that to happen he has to be straight with his current gf. That way you put the ball in his court and if he says no, then it's a clean no. But you have to be mentally ready to handle the potential "no".

If he says he doesn't want to end it with his gf but still wants something with you, then you have to be ready to just have a few flings but risk friendship.

If he says he just wants to be friends with you, then he's a genuinely good guy and it's up to you whether to corrupt him or try to win him over from his gf.
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>>715159196
Think that's what I'll do, we have a night out on the 2nd.. I think I'll just need to have a few drinks and be honest.
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>>715157901
This.

Robot kids copying without understanding.
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>>715158988
Hmm.... How is his relation currently to her? If he really has a good relationship to her you are basically creating an impossible situation. If I were him, I would regard you as a good friend and stick to my relationship. He might however be different from me and maybe his relationship doesn't work... What do you know about their relationship?
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If you know someone is in a relationship you don't try to make moves you disgusting pig.

You don't decide if he should be in a relationship or not, you know that most people in a relationships have their own work and don't see each other the whole day, a good relationship means that you can trust your partner to ignore filthy swines like OP.

And even if he gives in, it tells me that he will do the same to you.

You mentioned that you have trust issues, well take a good fucking look at what you are doing right now.
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>>715154360
Relationships that begin with infidelity end with infidelity. You establish the premise that it's OK to fuck over your partner if you're bored. You will never really trust each other.
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>>715157853
That's not fat it's ideal

You've been watching too much porn anon
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>>715157941
>>715159253

Yeah he is definitely looking to "jump ship" if he's being that open and obvious whilst still in a reltaionship.

He clearly needs to know that you feel the same.

>What out of work activity could you and him both do? Got a mixed gender social circle at work? Organise something fun and different! how him you can be fun and independent and be a positive force on him! Organise a paintball trip AND then invite him along!
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If he cheats with you, he will cheat on you.
Don't get attatched, casual relations only.
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>>715159253
Wow I love this shit.

See when we are working together there is a kind of chemistry. When we are speaking he make nices cute compliments about be dimples and says how slim I am and not to lose weight but also comments about my boobs? We both just have so much of a laugh and I can't help but smiling when I think about him.

I think he is trying to get to know me better but the past 3 days when we both finished work we have phone and spoke about our days and interesting things that have happen... and we have a good laugh common interests etc...

I agree, I've already said how amazing he is basically and how he has it all... and he retaliated by saying how attractive I am, funny and just a lovely person? So? Positive?

Thinks kind anon, words noted
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>>715154360
I cheated on my wife for about 3 months. Eventually it ate me up and I told her.

Not worth it when you look back on it trust me. Sure it was fun and exciting at the time, but looking back im disgusted with myself.
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>>715155894
Got a link to this vid?
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>>715159408
another newfag pretending to be an oldfag
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>>715159721
But don't put too much awkward pressure on him, remember he still has to care for his girlfriend's feelings about all this.

Just make sure he knows that you feel the same, and not by just mimicking his compliments.
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I'm going to agree with the anon saying you shouldn't make moves: you're disrespecting guy's gf and the guy you're into by ignoring their preference for having a relationship.
They might be on the rocks right now, and only need you to get in there too fuck it all up. They may be malt in love and you might be insignificant.

Anyway, when you decide to chase after him you can either both get inappropriately drunk and screw, or you could just have a few drinks and tell him you're interested. For what it's worth, I think he's in to you but i don't think there's a good simple answer for you.

If he's interested he still has his gf, and the breakup will go badly and be weird if you guys immediately go for each other. I suppose if he's not into it hell just be flattered.

I would disregard the apocalyptic "he'll cheat on you too" stuff, though. People cheat for reasons, and it has more to do with the relationship than the outsider
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>>715159325
Yeah, I understand. See I'd die if he just was like no sorry I don't want that. Especially all these sort of signals he is giving me it's so confusing. Think I should give it another while then just be straight with him and take it on the chin if he says fuck off.
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>>715158988
Me again. My problem is, and I think the insults other anons here give you are unnecessary, ignore them, he has a relationship already. Even if it's not good you are invading it, maybe you are not fully aware of it, that's not something to feel guilty of, therefore people here make it clear, but now that you realize it, it might be better to keep this as a friendship.

Your best chance is if he breaks up without your involvement, he is single and you can try. But you might have an angry ex of him.
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>>715157052
Found the edgelord
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>>715159422
I know that she works like an hour away from where he lives. All he said more or less is that he barely sees or speaks to her. That both their shifts are overlapping and stuff. However he plays sports a lot so I know he has free time... so I don't know. He never ever speaks about her
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>>715160067
He's cheating on her with you emotionally already. Get ready for him to drop her remorselessly or go through some inner turmoil
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>>715159549
I know I was going to say, I am very not fat
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K first of all he straight up told you him and his wife have problems.

That means that hes actively cheating on her already and will cheat on her again, but will remain with her, so if he fucks you, he will never actually get with you.

Or he will get with you, and he will do the same thing while with you with someone else.

A truely faithful relationship even when theres problems, will not reveal those problems.
Faithful partners will always tell other people how great their relationship is even when it isnt.
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Great job Spiderman! another thread saved
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>>715159721
Yeah I know he wasn't open like that in the first place but over the last 48 hours everything's getting more kind of cute and compliment like, we chat, we snapchat, phone each other so I mean.. i don't know it's hopeful. Maybe he's just with her because it's easier... who knows I don't want to prod.

Yeah we are going on a big night out and I play sports with some of them... so I could see there eh
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>>715160613
the best thing you can do is kys, literally fucking die and improve your family nay the world
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>>715160229
Hmm, if he doesn't speak about her, it might mean he either wants to avoid the subject, or doesn't really know her that well. He however flirts with you and you should bear in mind, he might do that with other girls too if he is in a relationship with you. Maybe however he does it because he doesn't see her much and looks for attention elsewhere.. my concern is if you can trust him.
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>>715160054
Yeah I know. I would feel horrible, I don't think he would cheat.. don't think he has it in him. But I know if he would dump his girlfriend 99% something would happen. Just need him to see it's worth it, because he seems so happy speaking to me
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MODS PRUNE THIS THREAD
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>>715160108
Yeah I know, I don't even know if I could homewreck between the paranoia and guilt I'd be unwell no doubt. I just hope he dumps her but I can't expect him to do that like 2 months after meeting me
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>>715160230
Yeah, we've not spoke that long I don't know if he's that horrible a guy to drop her like that.
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>>715154360
my 20yo slut wife cheated on me with a cop to get out of a speeding ticket & she told me he said that he was just serving and protecting her young sweet pussy
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Prepare for a crazy psycho-ex if you "steal" him
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>>715160230
>Get ready for him to drop her remorselessly or go through some inner turmoil

This is so true
This is so true
This is so true

He might be distant and weird with you if he starts having inner turmoil, if that happens then the course of action depends on the type of person you both are.

But when shit gets confusing and "real", confident honesty can solve atleast your own stress and confusion.
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>>715160810
Yeah I agree. Like I made a remark about being wived and stuff and he kind of glazed over it.

I know, I think he is genuinely unhappy and feels sort of trapped and just likes that security of a relationship... I don't know he's such a lovely guy though that's why I'm like maybe he genuinely does like me and is unhappy in his relationship because he 100% doesn't seem like that guy
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>>715161179
Yeah, I agree too...

I am just waiting for him to go all weird on me but I don't even think he's seen her in a week?

I don't know, I think maybe he just likes having someone to speak to and he has found this emotional bond with me that he has missed with his gf?
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>>715160978
If he dumps her soon, it's unsure how it would work with you. Maybe he'll do the same. And if it takes long for him to dump her, it will be like stealing him from her and as they were longer together it would be worse. I think it is a lose/lose unless his gf agrees, which is a zero percent.

You might be best keeping him as a friend, if he will be single in the future you can date him without guilt of wrecking hus relationship, if he broke it himself without your involvement. That's really the best chance you have. Oh and move far away before his ex will take revenge on you.
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>>715161512
Haha that is true. I just hope we are all grown up enough for no one to really seek revenge. I don't know I will play it cool the next few weeks until this night out, and then go from there I think see how things have progressed
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>>715161712
Well the best advice I can give, don't try to wreck the relationship, stay friends.

It's bettee to have a good friend then a boyfriend which isn't trustworthy.
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>>715161500
>Just keep getting to know eachother and making eachother happy. And keep up the mutual admiration aspect.

If so I see 2 outcomes:

1- He will make the decision to end it with his gf.
OR
2- You will understand (trust) eachother well enough that you will be able to talk about it with him, whatever his thoughts or answer is.
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>>715162353
That is very true, I'll just need to build up the friendship and see what happens from there then.
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>>715154956
This! Especially the rebound part.

Got out of a long relationship, 8 years, and immediately rebound with a girl at work.

I feel so bad that I made this girl feel so loved but when I broke it off to get back with my ex, we are married now 4 years, I still fucking see the looks and sounds of pains in her eyes.
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>>715162353
>>715163001
Glad I could help

Just remember he is the one with the delicate situation.
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Just telling my experience here,
Only had 2 partners, first one when we were both really young and inmature, she dumped me for one of my closest friends after a month, can't really blame any of them, I still think that dating her was an error and that it was my fault.
My second (and actual) girlfriend, which I kind of homewrecked her relationship. He was with a douchebag who treated her like shit and kind of abused her, homewrecking that was the best thing I could have done for her. We've been in a relationship for 3 years now, we both had trust issues at first, but we were really open to each other and ended up fixing that. I know that she wouldn't dump for the 1st guy who come across because there has already been a few and he rejected them all. Neither would I cheat on her. However, she has a lot of issues which I had tu put up through these 3 years and I'm getting tired of that, and she doesn't seem to make much progress or to make some effort to change that. If we end up breaking up it won't probably be because there was another guy/girl who homewrecked us, but due to the issues that could have happened no matter how our relationship started.
Tl;dr : Homewrecker guy here who has a trustful relationship. Relationships may end due to other factors wich are not cheating /dumping for someone else.
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>>715154360
>be 18 y/o me
>been in a few relationships, nothing serious
>think cheating is wrong and people who cheat are mentally and morally inferior
>while in a relationship of 2 months i meet this amazing qt
>smart cute likes everything i do etc
>she starts texting me and it goues on for about 3 weeks
>my plan at the time was to break up with the current gf and quickly hook up with the qt because thats technically not cheating
>at a party with the qt while gf was away one weekend
>hammered
>fuckit.webm
>hook up with her and 6 days later break up with gf
>fast forward 14 months
>still together with the qt
>go to switzerland for the summer
>meet 6,5/10 16 year old, annoying but pretty in a goofy way
>obviously not as hot as my gf
>still she always followed me around, was openly into me and that fed my ego
>last night before i go home we fuck
>had sex before but the thought of it being somehing forbidden made it the most exhilarating experience of my life
>mornig after feel like shit
>month later when i realised no one will find out i have no regrets
It's been 3 years and we're still together, i must have cheated at least 10 more times and i feel shitty because i love her more than anything but at the same time nothing feels as good as cheating

As it's already been said on tt, if you're ready to get cheated on afterwards, go for it

Also tits or gtfo
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>>715154360
>fellow femanons
your gender was irrelevant
tits or gtfo bitch
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>>715157195
you're literally wrong
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>>715157195
announcing your gender as female when it's not r necessary IS attention whoring
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>>715157901
except her gender is NOT relevant. the situation could be identical between two men. fuck off white Knight
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Can someone tell me what cba stands for? Ive had three people say it to me now. I assume its something like "cant be bothered"?

There was a married man who was interested in me but he had two kids and wassnt really worth my time. Ended up deactivating my facebook and never heard from him again.

You might really hurt her feelings. He should break it off with her before pursuing you. Its just the right thing to do. It could end badly for you because he might end up still having feelings for her and its gonna fucking suck for you
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>>715154360
Theres only one way. Kys and take him along for the journey
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>>715157901
Someone needs to hit up /r9k/
Youll fucking love it here after visiting THAT shitshow. But who knows, maybe the robot lifes for you
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>>715158454
why wouldnt you just show your tits
if id be female id post them all over why the fuck not
i post my dick too for all the fags here
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Yo Original poster,

I guarantee you, 100%, he's playing you. He will have sex with you, he'll flirt with you, but you'll never be his girlfriend.

Look at what you're doing, which is essentially having sex with a married man, and snap out of it.
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