What is her name?
Why they the one you are thinking of?
i love her, but she hate me
Jennifer..
I don't know. I never felt anything towards her.
and now, i hate everything
>>710794895
What if it's a him
and we're pretty cool.
Sparrow...i really want to be with her, love her...but am married...fml
Caitlyn Jenner, such a strong and beautiful woman.
Jazmin.
Could I ask for some advice from you guys? Kinda trying to learn how she feels about me, and I need some reassurance.
Rebecca, i love you, i hate you
>>710794895
Marte. She's a hottie.
Melissa. Too bad we're literally 10000km away from each other now. She also got a mudslime boyfriend :(
>>710794895
death
>>710794895
I am thinking about your moms. Buttfucking all of your moms.
Lucy, we partied with together last weekend, my mate joined too, can't wait to do her again.
>>710794895
LaQuishlaRifra
>problem?
simone, i love her but i resent her
Juliette.
Cause I missed my opportunity.
Florencia
Lina. Still love her but we've long since broken up and aren't on speaking terms :(
>>710795458
go ahead fgt
>>710794895
kurwa, her name is kurwa
>>710794895
Rosa
She's the one that I love. I don't know if she loves me, though.
Alexia. Because that pussy was 1A yesterday
Maggie.
A shy girl that I am friends with. She knows I want more, but she gives of signals of both interest and just friendship at the same time.
Her Name is Lauren... And I, destructively, love her... She cheated on me, then apologized and I forgave her... Now she tells me she doesn't even remotely love me anymore... And I wish I could hate her
lola
Mackenzie
>>710794895
Rebekka. I just feel a rush of happiness just by thinking about her.
Halle
stupid bitch drives me crazy
>>710794895
Eleonore.
Legit ran 3 miles for her just to talk to her, she's driving me insane
Carly
Kyri, i would have like to have been what she wanted but now we are both faces in a crowd to each other
>>710794895
She's dead to me.
Laura.
We used to be together for some time, I learned a lot about myself thanks to her. Shame all is gone because she was afraid to finally have her future with me. I think of her every day.
Ellie. I love you, I'm so sorry.
cassie. wish i could get over the bitch
>>710796165
Thanks haha, rn she's just ignoring me. Despite everything I've done to deserve otherwise
>>710796004
This is why I hate woohman
>>710796039
I second this...
>>710796058
>>710796102
>>710795548
This makes me a massive faggot but...
D'awwww
>>710795904
Here goes. And thanks for offering to listen. I'm gonna make a moderately-long story short.
>be me, once a beta cuck that's started lifting and confidence-building up towards alphadom
>decide to talk to cute girl I've known for a while but never figured I had a chance at til now
>ask her out, and to my surprise says yes
>we go out and have a really good time. She's laughing at all my jokes and we talk a lot.
>recently asked her about her feelings for me
>"Oh, anon, don't get me wrong, but we've gotten to be really good friends. I just haven't developed feelings for you yet"
>yet
>I'm hanging on to that yet like it's my last fucking chance /b/ros
How fucked am I? Is it a bad friend zone or can I climb my way out of this one?
>>710796290
She's very beautiful, and she knows it, so as an effect, she uses a lot of guys... I just happened to be one
>>710794895
Condoleezza Rice
I want to punch her face
>>710796281
Been there man. I am gonna bet that you almost don't want to move on, so the best advice I can give you is to meet new people, you might think that there aren't new people like her but you will be surprised.
>>710796455
Try to move on, Anon. Don't forget her, leave her be. Find someone that will treat you good, you deserve it. Hang it there.
>>710796406
no. you're fucked. she already thinks of you as a friend. that's not gonna change. move on buddy
My boo
>>710796496
You are correct, I appreciate you're advice Bro, I'll do my best
GIRLFRIEND OF LITERALLY 7 YEARS BROKE UP WITH MY 3 DAYS AGO AFTER PROMISING TO STAY WITH ME FOREVER.
I DON'T EVEN CARE, YOU ARE ALL PUSSY FAGGOTS.
THE ONLY GIRLS NAME I CARE ABOUT IS VLADAMIR LENIN. THE ONLY THING YOU SHOULD GIVE A FUCK ABOUT IS THE PROLETARIAT STRUGGLE.
GROW UP INDIVIDUALIST PUSSY FUCKS, THERE ARE ACTUAL PROBLEMS ON THIS PLANET.
>>710796455
Then it's at least comforting that you fucked her.
>>710796406
Play it like you have been, reminding her what you are and how good of a dude you are. If you continue to make her laugh and have a good time, then definitely. Try not to talk about feelings much.
>>710796599
Thanks /b/ro, I'll try my best
I miss her.
>>710796746
Haha definitely
Sharon
Leaves me hanging for a week when she went on holiday with her girlfriend and her fucking Snapchat pics. Then breaks it off.
Now I'm angry and treating women like shit.
>>710796406
she wont develope feelings for you while you are friends, its just doesnt work that way meng. you have two options, you try to cheat her with some lies that you have a date or some other shit and hope she reacts angry and go from there, or just stop hanging out with her. the truth that noone will tell you fgt is that at the moment your friendship is meaningless for you and you should stop wasting your time. gl
Can't say her name because it's unique and she's "famous" enough that you could track her down from it.
Thinking about her because I've been crushing on her for months then finally asked her out on Wednesday but she said no.
>>710795993
Fuck it. I'll post a little bit of my situation, if anyone has input.
Shit she does or did towards me:
>She is shy, and kinda doesn't acknowledge me unless I say something, then we can talk for a good while without issue. This is even when it is just us standing next to each other before class.
>Does not initiate texts, but is willing to talk for hours with detailed replies once I get her going
>I have seen her looking at me from a distance, sometimes locking eyes.
>When I asked for her number, she took my phone and punched it in. (It was the actual number, obviously)
>When I asked her to grab lunch the first time, she said she was busy that weekend, so I offered up Monday, which she accepted.
>She even has sat next to me at random on a few occasions.
But... This also happened over the summer with her
>I invited her to hang out with a friend and I on short notice.
>She said she was busy, sisters graduation. (Turns out it was true)
>For some reason I did not trust her.
>So I sent her "I don't mean to sound like an asshole, but if you don't want to hangout, just tell me"
>She did not respond to that accusation. (understandably)
>A month and a half later I decided to apologize. It basically went like
Me- "Hey, I'm sorry for what I said. I was not right for me to accuse you of that"
Her- "Hey, Thanks! I appreciate the apology. I've just been very busy over the summer"
>doesn't seem to be any real lasting affects from that. Everything resumed as usual.
Catherine
Mary. Ave, gratia plena, Dominus tecum. Benedicta tu inter mulieres,
et benedictus fructus ventris tui, Iesus.
ITT: bunch of beta cucks, most probably virgin, with oneitis
>>710794895
>What is her name?
rosemary lisa wolfe
>Why they the one you are thinking of?
she is my waifu since 2008
>>710797368
no u
>>710797368
you're correct and hopefully i can one day get over it or finally make my dream come true
>>710797372
That feel when you cum deep inside her looking deep in to her eyes must be amazing.
>>710796406
Dude forget her, it sucks and its hard to do but you have to. Keep up the gym time and improve yourself. But what ever you do dont fuck her. That just makes shit more difficult
>>710797242
Okay, you're a lot more beta than I thought you would be. Have you made it clear to her that you like her? You're not going to get anywhere if you don't send any signs, be they obvious or subtle.
>>710797938
It's clear. I did ask her out in April, and made it clear that it should be just the two of us. (We did actually do something then, but nothing came of it.)
>>710796970
>the truth that noone will tell you fgt is that at the moment your friendship is meaningless for you and you should stop wasting your time
agree
>>710797643
that will never happen
it's a weird feeling to know this is not gonna happen in 1000 lifes
>>710794895
GTX 1070
>>710795281
maybe because your grammar is shit.
>>710798310
Is that it? If that's all then I mean maybe you need to be a little more on the offensive if you're catching my drift
Violet shes beatifull, i mean 10/10 but she never pass her depression, i was with her...after 6months whit her, she kill herself.
Idk, thinking in her always makes me sad
I'm gay, faggot.
>>710797066
Got dubs. Maybe she'll change her mind.
my cousin, and her name is stephanie
>>710798567
Lol you faggot
>>710798545
It's gonna take a lot more than dubs to change her mind, anon. Think bigger.
>>710798465
Maybe. Any ideas? I don't see her really at all currently, beyond maybe momentarily in passing. And only speak to her monthly at most.
Last time I tried meeting up with her was a month or so ago
> "Hey, are you free anytime soon? I would like to grab coffee and chat"
> "Hey! I'll have to get back to you on it. Taking 7 classes this semester on top of working the two jobs and getting stuck babysitting this weekend has been filling up my schedule."
> "No worries. I just figured that we should meet up soon"
> "Definitely!"
At least she never used the dreaded "friend" word... Yet....
>>710796912
Blir det Århus på henne?
>>710796712
Don't know what it says about me, but I can name all of them.
Che, Lenin, Castro, Trotsky and Ho Chi Minh
>>710798683
Like trips?
Women get jealous when I show attention to another woman. I don't want to use anyone but I could. I'm fairly attractive, perhaps more than she is, but it's subjective so it's hard to say
Lizzie
>>710798412
lives*
>>710794895
dont even know, had a chance, i saw her ever other day for months should have talked to her but im a retard
>>710799050
is it too late? im sure you could find her
Elizabeth she probably doesn't ever think about me and it's been 6 or 7 years but I'd drop everything for her and I don't know why
>>710795979
I hate your guts and hope you die.
Sincerely,
Rosa
>>710794895
she liked to go by "Jesse" but I prefered "Jessie"
her vagina was always shaved, which was cool
she let me cum in her butt once, but only once. i didn't get to fuck her, but when I was about to cum she let me stick it in and finish.
she dumped me when we were 15 and I haven't seen her since. It's been a little over 10 years.
Kelly. She is everything to me. Sadly, I'm just a friend to her.
Jackie
she's dead
I dated her when I was 18-19. She died in July at 21.
Victoria
>>710798621
lol its fucking weird right i can never say anything
alison
>>710799294
'She let me' instead of you taking charge.
That's why she dumped you.
>>710799406
im sorry anon
>>710799582
I was a fresh teenager, I still believed the lies that you should treat girls right and if they really love you they'll come around.
Alizeah... fell for her 2 years ago and just got around to telling her... she told me she liked me and then tells me she likes being alone... what do /b/?
Shania
I love her, but she just wants me as a friend and I feel like I'm losing her even there.
I've wasted so much time, money, and effort on her this past half year, and I've dropped or overlooked numerous opportunities (work, life, etc.) just for her.
And now I fucked up with her. And because of that, she's fwb with her ex again, who likes showing off to me what she can do that I can't.
>>710795447
that's a dude dude
>>710794895
Juicy Cunt
>>710799406
Died from what?
>>710799406
My condolences, anon.
I don't know her name, but she worked at a deli I used to go to.
She began hitting on me, and told my friends that she thought I was cute. The owners would ask If I was dating her yet. But I'm not.
Infact I stopped going because of her flirting with me.... Fuck. I kinda regret it in a way, but I am only interested in another girl I knew at the time
Laura. I don't know why I like her but I do.
>>710800151
You gay.
>>710795551
Pics?
>>710800151
“If you truly love life, don’t waste time because time is what life is made of.” – Bruce Lee
>>710800066
my DICK. it was like a pin prick. blood loss, died instantly
I don't know her name. But she was the prettiest girl I've ever seen.
I saw her on the train and she got off before me.
>>710794895
Gloria
>>710799841
“If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you’ll never get it done.” – Bruce Lee
>>710800453
I guess that could be used for the other girl I posted about in here? (>>710795993)
Basically I need to make the most of my time, and therefore make the most out of life. As time is only finite, and when that runs up, our life is up.
All i want to do is destroy every smartphone in existence. They have destroyed women everywhere.
>>710794895
> Sarah
I know I shouldn't be, but I'm still so in love with her. Why do I keep thinking she loves me back? She told me she doesn't. God I hate myself so much I don't think I can take much more of this.
>>710800881
“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.” – Bruce Lee
>>710795667
Off by one
Claire
Fuck that cunt, started ignoring me for some reason. Off to the next girl I suppose.
I hope she chokes on a dick.
>>710799193
maybe, but without her name would be really hard.
Mota
I have to wait till my sister leaves - then i can smoke a bowl or two.
>>710800868
“As you think, so shall you become”. – Bruce Lee
>>710801086
“Don’t fear failure. — Not failure, but low aim, is the crime. In great attempts it is glorious even to fail.” – Bruce Lee
>>710800921
>caring about girls
That's like cuckolding yourself. They truly cannot and will not love you the way you love them. What they consider love is just them misunderstanding their emotions. It is 99% of the time attraction/lust and that will dull and they'll meet somebody who gets those chemicals firing and she'll leave you.
And then the same thing will happen to him, she'll leave him for someone new.
not saying this to be mean, I'm not spiteful, I'm gay, and it's just poor straight guys who have to deal with their bullshit.
When I first got a girlfriend I was still talking to this other girl but quit since me and my other got serious, we dated for 4 yaers but broke up eventually. Would at least like to see how she is. She has a really unique name but doesn't have social media and lives in a different state now.
>>710801333
“Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do.” – Bruce Lee
>>710794895
Leanne
>>710800811
"Time is a thing made of life and stuff, don't waste that stuff, called time."
- Bruce Lee
>>710801426
bruce lee fucking died, how smart can he be?
then his retarded son died the same exact way
>>710794895
Julia.
I'm always thinking about her, a year after we met for 2 weeks.
>>710801518
“Do not allow negative thoughts to enter your mind for they are the weeds that strangle confidence.” – Bruce Lee
>>710794895
caroline
there is nothing special about her other than the fact she seemed caring
>>710801280
That's an awesome quote anon, thanks!
>>710794895
Diana.
Natasha. My ex,. Together almost a year. She broke up with me a couple of weeks ago because she didnt like me anymore.
Crystal.. Fucking hate you.. But i love you...
>>710801728
“Be happy, but never satisfied.” – Bruce Lee
>>710801730
“In order to control myself I must first accept myself by going with and not against my nature.” – Bruce Lee
>>710801518
"Fucking is life that leads down the path to die. Die well." – Bruce Lee
>>710795878
The same feels bro
>>710801518
“Real living is living for others.” – Bruce Lee
>>710801453
I knew a super butterface named Leanne that texted me "when you gonna let me suck your dick?" once but i had my phone off and when replied a day later she was sober and embarrassed.
>>710801986
"A monkey is great pet. Until it dies."
– Bruce Lee
>>710802129
“Mistakes are always forgivable, if one has the courage to admit them.” – Bruce Lee
>>710794895
But i'm not thinking of anyone in particular. i've never met this "her" you're talking about.
>>710802129
Saved you getting arrested for rape.
>>710802349
“Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one” – Bruce Lee
>>710802335
"Hate is the sweet elixir that fills my gook soul with life." – Bruce Lee
>>710802378
"Stop it" Bruce Lee
>>710802644
“In the middle of chaos lies opportunity” – Bruce Lee
>>710795446
Remember this as the day you almost caught Captain Jack Sparrow
>>710802756
"Gerbils are evil." – Bruce Lee
>>710795446
“Absorb what is useful, discard what is useless and add what is specifically your own” – Bruce Lee
>>710794895
>>710794895
Sammie, because I've got a shot.
She's everything I want
But everything is bad in her life and I believe there's a reason why.
Also she lives in Rhode Island, and I in Georgia
Jenna. I think she likes me but I'm to beta to actually advance any further than occasionally talk to her.
>>710803115
“Life’s battles don’t always go to the stronger or faster man. But sooner or later the man who wins, is the man who thinks he can.” – Bruce Lee
vote for trump
>>710803115
>oh you...
>>710798756
Call her, don't text too much. More likely if you're talking over the phone or (better) seeing her in person. Tell her you like her and that you want to see her or something.
>>710796233
What did you do, anon?
>>710794895
Julie, we hangout in the same group of people but I'm a beta faggot who doesn't have the slightest clue how to talk to her. I'm like 85% sure she likes me, but fuck, social autism at its finest.
Mary....wish I fucked you when I had you naked in my bed instead of telling you we should wait til you were 18....
Chloe, my girlfriend
>>710803364
I have been considering saying something like.
"Let's go in to the City this Saturday, and go Ice Skating."
But still may be to ambiguous.
I would do it in person, if I actually had an opportunity to (I did the first time in April, when I had a couple classes with her)
And about not texting too much, that is not an issue, as it is only ever 3-4 weeks or so at most.
>>710803212
"Take things as they are. Punch when you have to punch. Kick when you have to kick. " - Bruce Lee
"Who is your daddy and what does he do?" - Bruce Lee
Brittany
I love her I want to be with her but it will never work out
>>710794895
Kasia
i wish i could forget about her
>>710800151
Fucking retard. A girl liking you more than you like her is only a good thing (unless you're a chad player idiot), go back there and take her for a walk or something. See if she's interesting.
What you have here right now is more important than what you might have, when it comes to relationships. When you come around to consider her, she'll be tired of you. Go, see her now.
Janie...i wish incest wasn't frowned upon
>>710803599
Cunta Kenta
>>710803788
Glad there's a quote to go with this way of thinking. Thanks anon
>>710796260
Dat you Spencer?
>>710803284
How about no?
bonquisha
she da realist nigga i ever fuck wit real talk.....
Jack
it'll never happen tho
>>710794895
Alice.
>>710804108
“Be self aware, rather than a repetitious robot”
– Bruce Lee
>>710803994
SHUT UP DAW Y U B LYKE DAT?? NAW
Audrey.
I always wanted her and we recently got together and hit it off. Spent two nights together. She wants to hang this next weekend again. Fuck. She's making me wait for sex but he chemistry is unreal so fuck it I'll wait.
"Where is the cat?"
-Bruce Lee
Katie....I don't miss the smell of your pussy or your breath, or your shitty attitude, but you did things to my cock that no other girl has. Fuck you cunt.
>>710803115
You're going to jail as well?
>>710804108
why do you like hillary?
>>710803599
for you 2 quotes
“A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at.”
– Bruce Lee
“It’s not what you give, it’s the way you give it.
– Bruce Lee
hillary clinton and she must be stopped
>>710803766
>And about not texting too much, that is not an issue, as it is only ever 3-4 weeks or so at most.
Texting in itself isn't bad, I just meant that when making plans, it's better to talk directly to someone (not just relationships). Then it's more difficult for them to just fake an excuse, when they hear that it's a real person they're talking to and not just some text.
Wife....I'm sorry i fucked your mom and haven't told you yet.
Jackie. Everything was perfect, and then we just stopped talking. I miss her so much
There used to be one girl who I absolutely always thought about but by the grace of Gaben I was able to move on. Rn it's two, Gabi and Tessa.
>>710804537
“Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.”
– Bruce Lee
>>710804158
Play with the cards that you have, not the ones that you might have.
Emma
>>710803994
I don't even know if she still even works there. I haven't been there in atleast 6 months.
Linh. she so purty. typical asain girl at coffee shop, just known her since 8th grade. also cocaine.
>>710804513
“To know oneself is to study oneself in action with another person.”
– Bruce Lee
>>710794895
Kiss-Shot Acerola-Orion Heart-Under-Blade
>>710804493
Yea. I guess. but about the possible location of a date that I mentioned, is that reasonable enough? Should I use that as the location, even if I never skated before? It could be quite embarrassing for me
Andrea Ornelas, she is so weird and, i love this, i love ahe, i fucking love she
Mom. I want to fuck you so bad
>>710801319
you might be right my faggo m8. I hope you're not tho. There are females with gr8 loyalty and stay with u to the end, not every one is a skanky bitch. I also find the differences they perceive life intriguing. One reason I love them so much. On the other hand, they're so manipulative and evil. I suppose men can be that way too, tho. Humans are just so fucked up
>>710804817
>>710804868
“The possession of anything begins in the mind.”
– Bruce Lee
>>710804832
It's fine if you approach it with humour. Being a poor skater is just a source of comedy, so that's (probably) not a problem either, unless she's very high strung.
Lucy, we were together for a year. She told me she didn't want to be in a serious relationship this early in her life.. Told me she still wanted to be with me.. Started being a hoe a few weeks after.. That was 3 months ago and she's on my mind every day since. I loved her more than I've ever loved anyone
>>710795806
yes it sounds as though she might be a female of african american descent, and thus enables her to be called a racial slur, more well known as "nigger"
Sarah. I've loved her since I was 13. 15 years later I'm married to someone who drives me fucking crazy and she's single, traveling around Europe
>>710805012
I don't think she is. So it could be a source of some lighthearted comedy, with me, and possibly her, falling on our asses constantly. Then I guess after that we'll find a decent place to sit down and eat.
Should I wait until the Semester starts winding down following Thanksgiving? She should reasonably have less school work then, so hopefully time to go out.
>>710805018
“You cannot force the Now. — But can you neither condemn nor justify and yet be extraordinarily alive as you walk on? You can never invite the wind, but you must leave the window open."
– Bruce Lee,
>>710794895
hillary
Lucka, becouse I love her and can't get her out of my fucking head. I think she likes me too, but I can't really tell because I'm a fucking cunt. what do?
>>710804801
Good news - it's a shop. Just go in there and see. Pretend that someone sent you over to buy something (mortadella sausage, something edible you wouldn't normally buy). If even the owners got involved, you could even ask one if she isn't there "Hey, so how's (girl) these days?".
I'm no casanova, or even very good at it probably, but you've got to just do it if you think you have any sort of remote chance. In this case, it's very likely that you can find her again and see if she wants to meet to talk, or take a walk somewhere. Not on a "date" out of nowhere, you might not even be interested. But you know, unless you find her downright unattractive, there's no reason not to see if she's up for something.
>>710805340
“Don’t think. FEEL. It’s like a finger pointing at the moon. Do not concentrate on the finger, or you will miss all of the heavenly glory.”
– Bruce Lee,
>>710804350
I don't
Janie. She's okay.
>>710805555
“After all, all knowledge simply means self-knowledge.”
– Bruce Lee
checked and good night /b/
>>710805392
This quote actually makes me feel a lot better, thank you anon
>>710805505
I wish I knew what the hell Bruce Lee was talking about but thanks anyway
>>710794895
I just can't forget about her long curly her and her big, encouraging smile.
But she left for a better job opportunity or something. Hope you're happy now, moot.
Cory.
Still trying to get over her bitch ass. Been about a year now since we called it off.
>>710805346
>Should I wait until the Semester starts winding down following Thanksgiving? She should reasonably have less school work then, so hopefully time to go out.
I can't answer this, timing isn't exactly my thing unfortunately. Someone with more experience around maybe? I'd say just communicate. As they say, communication is key. Just don't seem overly eager with it. You have to judge this on a person-to-person basis. Maybe don't throw the whole ice skating thing right in her face at once, but start by asking if she's got some time on the particular weekend.
Leily for me.. known her for 4years, loved her for 4years too. She's the gf of one of my best friend, he deserves her so much harder than me. The guy suffered a lot and they love each other, cant ruin that.. god i feel alone
>>710805496
>"Hey, so how's (girl) these days?".
Don't even know her name.
The owners know me, my family, and that she was interested.
I suppose I could just drive there during my lunch break at work on Saturday, and see if she is there, while just innocently getting lunch.
And I don't find her unattractive at all, she's kinda cute (Thin, probably my height or a little taller so 5'11 - 6'), but gives off a crazy vibe for some reason.
Bianca ;-; she wants me as a friend
>>710794895
Kate.
>be me
>girlfriend for 5 years
>go visit different city
>drunk with friends
>we nearly kiss in bathroom
>stop, say I'm sorry and we shouldn't do this.
can't stop thinking about it
>>710805891
True, so maybe like
"Hey, are you free Saturday, by any chance?"
and then if she is.
"I was wondering maybe if you wanted to get together?"
and then depending on how much time I could do something more local with her, or do the whole Ice Skating deal
>>710805946
Yeah, the lunch thing is a great excuse. Maybe bring a friend if you need more cover, have him hang back, pretend like you were just showing him the place. This depends on how awkward you are about it. Personally, I'd just pretend like I was there yesterday and act accordingly. I'm sure you could find her name out by the owners. If she's cute, what do you have to lose? You're not committing for life here.
>gives off a crazy vibe for some reason
That's probably because she's a woman. No offense, but you'll have to be more specific than that to make me worry.
>>710805982
But you don't want to be tortured every day, do you? Try to get closer to her, and if she refuses then distance yourself. It's better not to get constantly teased.
>>710794895
Amber
>Friends since we were three
>Fell for each when we were 15
>Keep her outside of romatic because she's too great and I wish her to be with someone capable of making her happier than I can
>Bullshitting around like this for 10 more years
>Amber starts to feel lonely
>Suddenly got with fucking boring NEET douche, got preggo after just 1 year in relationship
>Ask her if we still have some kind of "thing" for each other because I can't seem to get rid of it
>"Yes"
>Ask her if she's happy
>"No"
Fucked up bad.
>>710794895
danrong. I can't take it anymore, why
>>710806392
You deserve it, anon.
TEN FUCKING YEARS
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>>710806672
>You deserve it, anon.
Yeah I do, but the shitty thing about the situation is that she doesn't.
>>710805933
>he deserves her so much harder than me
His dick is probably so much harder than yours..
>>710806371
True. I suppose I'll swing by this weekend? (I think she works earlier hours, so I may not be able to see her for a few weeks)
And my parents order from there several times a week, so I should be fine just going in like nothing is going on.
Yea, I'm awkward as fuck socially, but I can usually just force myself to not be a complete moron, so I should be fine
>>710806392
The feels...
>>710794895
Carina, I still miss you. I'm 28 and she's 40, with a 14 yo daughter with mental problems.
We work at the same place, she was my "first" real experience of dating and sex. I fell in love with her and she just step aside.
After a week we broke, she asked about how I was. I told her that I was destroyed, but she just give a fuck about me. So I give her an ultimatum, we could still hanging out, or just left the things the way it is. She told me "Hope you have a beautiful life, farewell". That was really hard, I couldn't stop crying for 2 weeks. And seeing her at work, like nothing happened... god, please, make it stop...
>>710806145
Yeah, again, don't read my word as gospel. We're just discussing this. But asking if she's free the upcoming weekend is probably better than having an entire plan prepared of her to either agree or disagree to. That's a lot of decisions (commitments) to make at once.
Like you said, if she has little time you could meet up for something shorter. I'd offer to maybe cook her food at her or my place, if she said she was pretty busy studying. That requires you being able to make a salad (caesar is good and easy) or something, though, so might not work. Not sure if you were close enough to go to one another's place, but who would deny food if you are?
the oh so beautiful Lauren.. im in love with her and she probably doesnt even like me.. maybe if i roll dubs on this shell love me one day
>>710805632
What's with all these Bruce Lee quotes?
>>710806788
You don't know much about women, do you?
In every woman's life there are at least two men, the one she married and the one shie didn't marry..
Women are like that, they always need someone unhappy left behind. I guess it's some kind of evolutionary thing, so if her alpha fucker dies, she still gets support by the beta.
Uhh, yup, the beta are (you).
In other words: Fuck that shit.
She somehow decided against you, no way to deny that. She just loves the thought that you still like her. And maybe every now and then she will say stupid women shit like "oh my, just imagine we were a couple, how easy life would be.. hahaha."
She's just playing you, either fuck her or don't, but stop giving me this "she's too good for me blablabla" shit, you double faggot.
Belle,
Drove her into the arms of someone else because I'm a loser.
>>710794895
I don't know.
Only seen her in a dream once.
never seen anyone like her before.
probably never will.
>>710806392
>fall for each other
>you reject her so she finds someone else although she wants you
>she makes a kid with someone she's not happy with
Admittedly I got feels, but you're both extreme fuck ups
>>710796227
Same
Michelle a baughman
>>710806920
Great. You should find out if she still works there if she isn't there in the first place probably, just throw a casual question in there if you feel it's appropriate. She liked you, so it's not like you're asking for the phone number to their daughter, you're just checking if she's still around. Obviously if the owners were involved earlier, they're rooting for you so they should be friendly about it.
>Yea, I'm awkward as fuck socially, but I can usually just force myself to not be a complete moron, so I should be fine
Just approach it from the attitude that whatever you do, you can't really mess up too badly if you stay cool about it. Be cool, Anon! That's dumb general advice maybe, but I mean don't be so serious. Most "awkward" moments aren't so awkward if you just pretend like it means nothing to you. That's the key I think. You don't matter, they don't matter. Nothing really matters. Just get what you want to get done, done.
Good luck.
Estay. The one cute girl I had a decent chance with in highschool that I screwed up royally due to social retardation.
>>710806971
Yea, I know to not bring up the full plan. But it doesn't hurt to have a couple ready to go, depending on her availability.
And we are kinda closeish distance wise, 30min or 15miles. But may be kinda odd for that to be the first "date." Besides, she has a large family, living in a small hour (Mother and Father, her, and 7 siblings) So the going to her place may not be ideal. And my house is kinda a mess and under construction.
So, I'll probably ask if she is available one weekend.
If she has a couple hours or so free, we could go to a nice place to eat. (Kinda got a place in mind, Italian Restaurant that is very popular here)
Half a day or so, maybe to the boardwalk or something
And full day, then that Ice skating thing.
Abbey. I cant tell if were friends or something more. She keeps playing games man
GOD.
>>710794895
adolf... because she did nothing wrong
>>710807559
Don't worry.
He's probably pleasuring her in ways you coudn't even imagine. Right now he is putting his meaty boner in her tight, wet hole and - oh, the irony - just when she moans to the feeling of his girth, she suddenly thinks of the loser who drove her into the ams of this big manly man. "Thanks, loser!" she thinks and chuckles, but only for a moment, because he thrusts his big cock deep inside her, making her forget about anything else.. - the loser wound't understand.. ;)
Claudia.
The one and only.
She left me for some other dude.
I know i know but my self esteem aint the highest
My Mere. That's Meredith for short for all you autards. She was engaged, I tried so hard to take her from him. She loved me but not enough to change her entire life track. She was 20, I was 28, her SO was with her since H$. Her life was already planned out. Fucking tried so hard. We clicked instantly, best year of my life.
>>710794895
Fucking pathetic. If anyone gets all fucking melancholy because of this then you don't deserve "her" in the first place.
Words of wisdom:
1 Just fucking ask the broad out
2 Don't act like it's going to be forever. Know when to end it before things go too sour.
3 If you get rejected move on.
>>710807917
Thanks. I am also obviously working on this other girl who may or may not be interested. So it would be awkward if it kinda turns out both are into me, and I kinda have chemistry with both
>>710794895
There never was a Her
Im going to die a wizard
>mfw
>>710808461
She went back to her ex that treated her like shit, I revel in her pain. Got some dick of my own, but that sounded like it came from a place of pure cuck. Fag.
>>710808558
>Fucking tried so hard
Rater "tried fucking her so hard", eh?
Nice you """clicked""", but she sucks off the other guy right now.. I wonder why?
>>710808135
>If she has a couple hours or so free, we could go to a nice place to eat. (Kinda got a place in mind, Italian Restaurant that is very popular here)
>Half a day or so, maybe to the boardwalk or something
Assuming you really have never skated before, and that skating isn't her favourite activity in the entire world, I'd say that those two are both individually better than ice-skating. You want to do something where you can talk, so that's why something like a movie is actually generally a bad idea for a date (since you can't talk).
Here's some PUA bullshittery that I think might have some merit to it; try to arrange it into three different settings. She'll remember it more distinctly/feel you did more. The restaurant is great. Boardwalk as well - but a long walk might seem like just a long walk - as in, a night at the restaurant might seem like as much an experience as half a day on a boardwalk. Quality time, not quantity.
>>710808871
I see, so she likes getting treaded like shit, probably? Well seems like "sex with the ex" is a thing.. :D
Sarah, im gonna ask her out this week. Shes cute
Julia
>>710808135
>>710809062
Err- not THREE settings specifically, but rather, I meant that you're probably going to get as much out of one semi-date at the restaurant as one at the boardwalk, regardless of time spent. Unless you distinctly change setting somewhere along the walk (like getting into a restaurant and sit down, or whatever).
Boxxy
I'm going to be the last one of my kind.
>>710808594
>So it would be awkward if it kinda turns out both are into me, and I kinda have chemistry with both
A problem more of us would like to have. Either way, you win. Just let the other one gently if you do have to choose. Women aren't generally put off by you being desired by other women either, it actually helps. Just don't seem like you're intentionally playing them out against each other (and indeed, don't actively do that).
>>710796004
>I wish I could hate her
Man I know this feel.
>>710794895
I wish i had a crush
No one. Nobody is in love with me, nor will they ever be. Thinking about someone who won't love you back is setting yourself up for misery. Life is difficult as it is, do you really want to make things worse?
>>710809062
>>710809260
True. At least we both live like an hour from Midtown NYC, so there is no shortage of stuff to do.
If I did anything like a Boardwalk (Don't think its that good at this time of year), Central Park, or just NYC in general, we would still go to a nice place to sit down and eat at some point.
>Assuming you really have never skated before, and that skating isn't her favourite activity in the entire world
Well, I did once, like 15 years ago when I was like 5. and I don't know about her. Don't think there's too much harm if its not her favorite, but it is kinda a cheesy romantic Late fall, to winter date
>>710809407
True. I suppose if it does get to that point, I would probably just stick with Maggie, as she is the one who I genuinely fell for. The other is more of a possible interest, if I get to know her.
>>710797242
She's a shy little girl, looking for someone brave to "bring her to life". If you take that long to smooth talk her, you will have a tough time..
Anyway, just two hints, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but:
1. Never pull the "meh, don't you like me?".. if you are asking her what she is doing the whole time, you look insecure and overly jealous. That's not good anon. If she doesn't care - neither do you.
2. Never ever EVER (I fucking dare you!) you apologize to a woman, unless she really forces you to do so. There's a couple of reasons for that, but long story short: only weak guys say sorry. Women don't want another pussy, they already have one.
Also you imply that there is already a relation ship between you two (and women hate it if guys move too fast), the most important thing in the beginnig is to not show affections at any means. If she has the feeling she could have you, you already lost.
Megan, She's the daughter I never had, with the girl i never stop thinking about. 9 years, 2 children later with a girl that loves me more than anything in the world, and I maintain the charade that she didn't and doesn't mean anything. I'll go to my grave holding that secret...
Briana
Faviola
>>710805611
>Janie
I'll continue. Janie is someone who I happen to have a certain fondness for. Apparently she also likes me, however she lives 1000 miles away from me and we'll probably never meet.
>>710809909
I also meant that there won't be much talking while skating. But it might be fun! You'll have more time overall anyway that day. You should do what you would enjoy yourself, as long as it doesn't potentially force her to do something uncomfortable (skating is well within the comfort zone).
>>710810304
>Never ever EVER (I fucking dare you!) you apologize to a woman, unless she really forces you to do so.
The wording of this all might a bit radical, but essentially, yes. This is correct. You must always seem like you meant to do what you did, even if you didn't.
>>710810764
Yea, with the skating thing It would be more of just a part of a thing that lasts a good portion of the day.
Skating would be fun, but not much talking, but then we could go eat, where we can talk for a bit nicely.
>The wording of this all might a bit radical, but essentially, yes. This is correct. You must always seem like you meant to do what you did, even if you didn't.
I would think that's reasonable in most, but my situation, where I accused her of lying, may have called for that.
>>710794895
Roxy. best sex I've ever had. looked like ana cheri/Tianna gregory. my affair with her lasted a year and a half. ended this May. I've never been with a girl that got wetter during sex than she did. I ate it all up everytime. So hot.
>>710810040
>the one who I genuinely fell for
>genuinely fell for
Don't get too hung up on an idea. People are people, feelings come and go. Maybe in time you'll find that you like the new one as well, but differently, if you give her a chance.
Who knows. Don't mentally discard the new one because of a pre-concieved notion of her being #2 in some way. She might turn out to ultimately be better for you (which should be priority, if the stability of the relationship is your goal, as it would be mine).
>>710794895
There isn't anyone
Diana, shit not again
Vivian Gay, Shes the smartest prettest girl i have ever seen, she doesnt even know who i am
>>710811510
Well, yea. That's true. I'm just saying, that theoretically if both are exactly equal to me, then I would go with the first one. But really, I would go with the one who makes me the happiest
Maria
>>710811281
>I would think that's reasonable in most, but my situation, where I accused her of lying, may have called for that.
Yeah, I wasn't saying it in response to your situation. That was most likely correct.
>>710794895
Alisha.
She's my girlfriend, and she's sitting infront of me studying while I smoke up.
>>710811855
Yea. The original guy seemed to be saying that I was wrong in apologizing to her there.
What else would I do? Just text her out of the blue hoping she forgot about that? Doubtful
>>710795458
She thinks you're cute and will date you when you're more successful
>>710811719
>I would go with the one who makes me the happiest
That's all I meant. A classic example of feelings trumping what might be better for you would be something like wanting an ex-girlfriend, and holding off on a new potential one because of that. In your case, evaluate them as individuals rather than picking what your initial choice was (i.e. the one you had made before you knew them both). You get it.
>>710812069
In that case it was fine. But in general as you know, just seem like you know what you're doing. Apologizing makes you seem like you didn't mean to, which implies that you weren't really in control. Something like that. Don't be an asshole either, but don't needlessly apologize for stuff. Just correct it by doing something right, instead of outright saying you're sorry about something.
>>710811281
>>710811719
I have to go. I hope I helped somehow. Good night. (eurofag here)
>>710794895
I won't say name bc I am too paranoid he'll see although pretty sure he doesn't get on 4chan
>Be me 18 f
>love my best friend but I can't tell him. >Shit sucks because everytime we snap, talk, or text I like him more and more. >Sometimes I'll go to places om campus where he chills out on purpose just so I can feel him close to me when we hug.
>I also recently get really turned on by him.
>almost everytime I see him I cry when he leaves.
>started smoking
>my depression and anxiety is getting real bad
>idk what to fuckin do anymore
>>710812402
Well It was the same guy you were replying to in all...
Good night, you did help a fair bit.
>>710808817
Is the plan to die a wizard? or just accepted fate?
first is fine. second is sad
>>710809842
a realist. Good to see someone with a sensible outlook. But you can never succeed if you don't put yourself out there.
>>710794895
Her name is Amanda.
>We are engaged to be married
>Both employed professionals
>Have a dog together
>Just bought a home
>Just picked her up a new crossover
>Opened joint 401K
>She's laying next to me preparing her presentation for tomorrow at work.
>Our dog is burrowing under the blankets.
Life is pretty good.
>>710812608
Tits or gtfo
>>710812608
Telll himmmm
Maria, I let her get away :(
>>710812069
>the original guy seemed to be saying that I was wrong in apologizing to her there.
Yes, you just made it worse.
If only by reminding her of yourself being a salty cunt.
>What else would I do?
Just acting like it never happend. Dropping by, being cool, funny, gentle. Even if she would tell you about this "incident" (and trust me, it's not as important for her as you wished it would be), you could just play it cool and say you don't remember.
Generally women like men who can express their feelings. So there's nothing wrong with being mad, sometimes this makes a woman feel like you a real man (and not a little bitch). But being a little bitch afterwards doesn't help your case.
Just to make one thing clear:
As soon as you are in a relationship, you will have to say sorry a lot of times. Really. But before you are in a relationship (or had at least sex a few times) it's a totally differnet ballgame.
Game 1 (before the mating):
"I'm the cool guy you cant have. And yes, I'M FUCKING YEELLING AT YOU - because I can. But actually I'm always cool. And no, you can't have me. And I have a hidden, dark side, that I will only show a very precious female. And you are NOT this female.."
Women don't want to play it safe, they can always have some guy. They want the one guy they can't have.
Game 2 (after the mating):
"OK, got me. Actually I'm just a normalfag, and guess what, so are you. But we are having a good time, don't we? I think you are kinda cute. Not that I'm into you, but.. OK, wanna give it try? Be my gf for real?"
Betas often mistake the first game for the second. She wants to EARN you, not to get you for free..
