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i am in love with another one exactly as i am with the current
wat do?
>>710771903
I'm a paranoid
>>710772214
What of?
Do you have legit reasons to be?
>>710772205
Stay here, I'm curious. What do you want to do?
I take a dump on your head
shes nice but no ass no tits no face
>>710773187
Do you want to be with her or not? It's that simple
>>710773278
idk, shes nice
I'm in love with myself but my hand cramps up too much
What do you mean, relationship problems?
I've got 99 problems but a relationship ain't one.
>>710771903
I love my wife but I really want to fuck other women. Wut do
>>710773449
>a relationship ain't one.
That's your problem, actually.
>>710773513
Options:
>fuck other women, preferably whores
>cons: must live with the secret
>focus on fapping
>con: you don't fuck other women
>ask your wife if you can have sex with other women
>no cons if she agrees, apart from STD's
WE NEED BUMPS
>>710772320
When people watch me. I imagine that they think I'm a cunt.
I sometimes act as a cunt, so yes.
>>710774384
>I sometimes act as a cunt,
Example?
Why?
i'm forever alone
>>710771903
my gf will not work (continues to go to uni on line)
barely keeps up with the house and has lost interest in sex
>>710774821
Work out, buy tighter clothes, get a haircut.
Join dating websites. You will not remain alone forever. I promise.
I really suck at sex
>>710775135
Write her a reasonable list of tasks to be done for a day. If you are the only moneymaker of the home, she has to comply to some housework.
As to sex:
- is she asexual
- does she still love you
- are you on good terms
Are all valid questions.
>>710775308
Perhaps there's simply no chemistry with your partner. What's the problem exactly?
>>710775406
Just started dating, tried twice, couldnt put it in
Guess i was too high
my gf freaked out when I dropped a Cleveland steamer on her now she is gone and wont answer my calls or texts
>>710775521
Because you weren't hard enough? Or because they were too tight?
Being high surely won't help.
>>710774480
For example, when I'm at the gym and practising some exercise, I don't answer to people until I'm done, even if they ask politely.
Because I am an autist. I must count each move to try to beat my score.
Wife won't let me cum inside her. She's on BC. what do I do?
>>710773419
if you're not attracted to her physically, it won't work.
>>710775677
I don't believe you.
>>710775860
i'm not really, she is kinda cute
>>710775754
That's not too bad, especially if you explain afterwards.
>>710775844
Why doesn't she?
Have phimosis so I'm scared to get too close to this girl I'm talking to before I get it sorted. But it's taking so long using cream and stretching.
thanks to my gf i don't have friends coz she was jealous
>>710775993
>not really
>she is kinda cute
What dude? Decide. Are you attracted to her or not? I had a girlfriend for 4 years, she started gaining weight towards the end. When I would see her naked, I would kinda get turned off. still wanted sex but, not really appealing with her new weight. Didn't mean to but I started treating her worse because I had no interest in her physically. Not that I was mean, but I didn't care as much because I didn't care if we had physical contact because I wasn't that attracted. You NEED physical attraction.
>>710776308
No you're just a loser mate.
>>710775997
I don't explain anything.
>>710775959
bot a huge deal, my apartment, my name is on everything and I got a side gal so it will just be a bother going thru all the her moving out crap
>>710776204
Get it cut. My parents got me cut when I was 4 because I had this. I don't even remember my uncut kid dick.
>>710776004
Afraid of getting knocked up. Doesn't want a kid yet
>>710776325
idk we haven't had sex yet
she's not hot she just kinda cute
>>710776400
Then do. Won't cost a thing and people won't think you were a cunt. If this happened to me, I'd really wonder why you ignored me and didn't say anything afterwards. I'd take it personally and wonder about it for quite some time.
>>710776507
Get her to use the bar thing, inserted in her arm. My woman has used it for years and we fuck often. No babies.
>>710776518
So what if they are not "omg fuck me 9/10"
Do you find her attractive? yes or fucking no? goddamn it dude. Sure you appreciate her being nice as a quality, but that just sounds like friend status there.
>>710771903
Gf lost all interest in sex. I do love her but this is jeopardizing the relationship.
>>710776659
I'll talk to her about it. It's annoying af
>>710776755
idk, i guess
I love my wife but I really want her to leave me the fuck alone for like a week. I just want to be alone for while. Impossible for some reason
>>710776965
well then just spend more time with her. You'll start appreciating her good qualities more and become more attracted to her as a whole. Of you could just find that you look at her and feel nothing after some time. Either way spend more time with her and you will get your answer. Don't force anything.
>>710776845
Did she lose it or never really had it to begin with and tried hard for you?
Lots of females are virtually asexual.
Mine is a horndog. You could pound her 4 times a day and she'd be plenty happy. (I'm the one who turns down sex, while only been turned down twice in 7 years.)
>>710771903
Every chance she gives me, I fuck it up. Now she's gone. Maybe it's for the best. Still hard to get over though
I'm in love with a muslim girl and she loves me, but her super-religious family would kill us if they ever found out we are meeting, life sucks
>>710777005
Ask her. Explain it with introversion, needing a pause, etc. Take a week off, I'm sure it can be done.
>>710776542
So, you whould be the paranoid ?
>>710777095
>Of you could just find that you look at her and feel nothing after some time.
>>710777134
>Every chance she gives me, I fuck it up.
Please share.
>>710777165
Fucking your girl is now an extreme sport too. Have fun!
>>710777165
You're free to do as you want. If her family is that closed minded, you and your lady friend need to be prepared to shut them out.
>>710777216
the anon here
yeah this is what I'm afraid of, I don't want to do this to her because she is so nice
>>710777182
She takes shit so personally. I tried but she thinks its because I'm sick of her. People just stress me the fuck out. She can't wrap her head around it
>>710777206
No, because I'd literally have no idea why you did that. A paranoid person would assume you had evil intentions towards me, while I could only assume a bunch of weird theories and never be sure, which would trouble me far more.
>>710777322
>I don't want to do this to her because she is so nice
>>710777322
you wont know unless you try. just trying to be truthful with expectations.
I just wish she had bigger boobs some times. I like hers, but then I get used to them and the grass on the other side looks greener. Literally the only problem. I just need to get over that feeling, cause I don't wanna mess our relationship up.
On the plus side, she is open to 3somes with girls in the future
>>710777243
I would verbally abuse her. Granted I was younger and stupid then. We would always break up, and get back together. We did it constantly, seemed like we did it once a week. Our last time being together, everything was going well, and then she got mad about something then just left. Even though I miss her, there's no point in us getting back together if we're just going to fight and break up again.
>>710771903
My ex still loves me and she is a "good" girl with a job and a car. But we really don't get along. Another ex is currently living in Barcelona ( I live in south america) and she is just great and all but I don't really know.
>>710777422
even worse is that she is a close friend to my sister
and even worse worse her dad is a military person
>>710777165
I was in that situation. She ended up developing schizophrenia and depression. She killed herself. They blamed me. I still get death threats. Only just started dating after that (been 7 years).
Many of my friends say I'm attractive, but I can't seem to get a girl. Maybe it's because of my slightly flamboyant personality, or my awkwardness. I try to talk to new people but I stutter a lot because I'm actually scared. /b/, what am I doing wrong?
>>710777332
Give her an article about introverted people to help her understand you need time alone. Explain to her it has nothing to do with her (even though it may), and insist, a lot.
>>710777875
These are excuses. You know they'd understand if things didn't work out. I mean, what are the chances they would?
My GF is slowly turning into a SJW.
Yesterday she literally tried telling me that either gender being dominant in sex is misogyny (yes, either gender).
She also started following anti-porn blogs on tumblr (fucking help).
Not even kidding. Wat do.
>>710777556
idk how she'll handle something like this but you may try talking with her about it. Saying something along the lines of "I think you're an awesome person and someone would be lucky to have you, but I'm having an issue with physical attraction." It doent really say that shes ugly or whatever. You could even say shes cute, but for whatever reason, physically it's difficult to feel attracted.
>>710777838
How long would it take for her to come back?
Why can't you fight and not break up, since you both know it's fake breaking ups?
Its smells when i take her in doggy so she gets angry when i dont want to fuck her unless she just showered
>>710777842
>But we really don't get along.
Explain.
>>710778004
i guess youre right
>>710778043
Go through it with her. Compare the fear mongering to the exact opposite viewpoint. Be understanding, but be honest. Talk about how it makes you feel, not about how she should feel.
>>710777876
>I was in that situation. She ended up developing schizophrenia and depression. She killed herself.
>Only just started dating after that (been 7 years).
Gave me real feels.
>>710777303
>>>710777005
But they might bomb his house?
>>710778116
We would break up, and get back together roughly once every week for a few months. We then took a long break before getting back together for a little less than a week. I learned from my past mistakes, and was nice to her again, but looking back on it all I was doing was objectifying her. She did the girl thing, and got angry over nothing then left me, and I just let her go. I don't really see us getting back together anymore.
met in high school and we're friends for a few years, both in college now, have been together almost four years, I work around 30-35 hour weeks with 13 credits and she works around 12 hour weeks and right now is only in one art class. This is still some Improvement as she didn't work at all before this year, and her parents have paid for everything for her (stays at home, they bought her car, etc)
My main concerns with the relationship not in any particular order are
1) diminishing sex drive- it's slow, but it's definitely gone downow some, she was never a huge fan of bjs so I didn't push too much for them, but I would get them sometimes from her as a surprise which I thought was great, but now without pushing for it, and even with pushing for it they're a very rare occurrence. Sex has gone a similar way, with her previously just wanting to jump me every chance she got, to now just wanting to cuddle a lot of the chances we have alone.
2) laziness- with the huge amount of free time she has every week she doesn't do a lot, she plays a ton of video games and will stay up until like 6 most nights playing with friends, which is whatever, but there's been a number of times I have had to postpone or cancel plans with her because she was up all night and didn't wake up in time, which really frustrates me when it happens because it's rude and just makes me feel like not a priority which leads pretty easily into the next point
3) habdling emotions- when confronted about something like that, or stress, or last minute decisions, she tends to shut down and just be really sad, cries occasionally and will usually just waste the time she has to make a decision or correct something being sad about what's already gone wrong this is probably the most frustrating part
Also any advice with motivating her is welcome, but please remember this is only an issues thread and I'm trying to point those out, there's still many good points I enjoy and do love her
>>710778043
You might need to kill her
thanks for the thread op. it's nice to vent.
>>710778043
If you can see eye to eye in issues like this it will slowly but steadily break you apart. Have a long serious talk with her, if you can agree to disagree great, but if there is no agreement, you're fucked.
>>710777929
>I'm actually scared. /b/, what am I doing wrong?
Observe:
>/b/, what am I doing wrong? I'm actually scared.
That's it. People can feel that you're scared, so they feel like there's a reason to be scared, since you are, and nobody enjoys that. To fix it, stop being scared. Start by not giving a fuck. It'll help a lot. Treat girls as friends. The rest comes on its own.
>>710777111
She was plenty interested for the first year, then gradually declined to today. No sex since june.
>>710778043
I have a theory that women semi-consciously do things to test us. Argue calmly with her, and win, that way she'll know you're worth your salt as a man. Every woman needs to know her man will be able to stand her faulty reasoning, or so I imagine.
>>710778171
She is jealous. Sometimes we get together and for one reason or another we start fighting. Some days she even recognizes she reacts badly. Like gets very angry quickly for the stupidest reasons. Plus we don't have much in common...Nothing really. I mean taking all that into account I could have her as a "wife" and have a regular life...Just like everyone else.
Im a girl, Im 21 and Ive never had sex with boy. My girlfriend took my virginity. Now looking for a cock that would fuck me right
>>710775372
yes she says she still loves me even flirts but will not initiate at all
yes we are on good terms
no not asexual
im the sole bread winner
>>710778052
He should get her to work out.
>>710778449
I'm a dude who suffers from those problems in a current relationship. My GF's solution is to be a hard-ass and to try to hold me accountable. She should know I'm too stubborn for that to be helpful, but I want her to feel like she's helping.
I'm not sure what actually would help. Probably just having someone to go through the issues with every time they flare up. Then again, I'm aware of them and want to improve. You haven't said how she feels.
>>710778169
Just tell her her ass is stinky. I got a sensitive nose and I know that problem.
>Lady, your asshole has bad breath, guess you forgot to brush its teeth.
>>710778169
Or this, something I do for keks. When her asshole stinks, I shove a mint in it.
>>710771903
My girl has mad bipolar disorder, with ups and downs that last for months. For a few months she'll be so in love with me that she wants to get married but then suddenly she'll dive the other way, lose all interest in the relationship and want to be friends. I love the girl to death and when she's on her mood highs she's one of the sweetest people I've ever met, but god it's so fucking frustrating.
>>710778449
She needs some projects and something in the future to look forward to.
For the sex, try going longer without doing it. Maybe even live away for a month. Let the urge grow.
>>710771903
My GF is overweight and in denial about it.
She eats pretty well, and goes to the gym sometimes.
We're long distance right now, so there's no way to make it more often.
She has Lupus and type 1 diabetes, so her attitude comes from assuming she can't look any better. I'm honestly not sure if she's right, but the denial it's given her is pretty annoying.
>>710778591
>No sex since june.
Damn bro, I feel for you. I could have sex every night if I wanted. Usually twice a week, nowadays, though I fap more often. I can't imagine. I hope you don't feel unloved.
>>710778799
Comment limit was reached so I stopped typing. How she feels about what part?
>>710779212
Take her to the gym with you. do it together.
>>710778727
>She is jealous. Sometimes we get together and for one reason or another we start fighting. Some days she even recognizes she reacts badly. Like gets very angry quickly for the stupidest reasons.
Very womanly, you know. The trick is not to fight. Don't fight. If you remain calm the whole time, it'll be difficult for her to actually fight. Be cool, smile, be in control, since you know what's going on here. It could work.
As to interests in common, if you two love each other, you can still be interested in the other person's interests.
It's all better than being alone, for both of you.
>>710779437
>We're long distance right now, so there's no way to make it more often.
>>710779169
I'd like to not but I get the idea of not always being available for it my concern is that it will not have any effect and I'd just be going without for no reason, also we don't live together if that's what you mean
>>710779480
Then buy her some dance lessons etc
>>710779346
Any of your points. I can identify with all of them. Does she see them as problems? Is she motivated at all to improve them? Does she know you see them as problems? Does that matter to her? If so, how much?
>>710779517
Sacrifices have to be made, my dude. If you can't go a month without sex to try and save your relationship, you need to buck the fuck up. Absence makes the heart grow fonder or something like that.
>>710771903
i don´t have one, that´s the problem
>>710779517
I see. What I'd do is not initiate myself, if that turns her off. If she's in the habit of making herself have sex with you against her desire, this can only make sex with you feel like homework, which would kill any sex drive even if she's sexual. I've experienced that when my girlfriend wanted beanflicks every morning. I felt used and I hated it. I stopped touching her for years afterwards (smelly vadge at the time, poor hygiene, all better now).
>>710779806
I said it before you.
>>710773533
>>710779806
>i don´t have one, that´s the problem
What are them weird apostrophes?
>´
What IS this shit? Where are you from?
>>710779940
>pretending to be a newfag with a stranger on /b/
just why?
>>710780162
I'm very interested in punctuation, that's all. I can spot the French because they put a space before their question marks, and the German because they have quotation marks up and down, etc.
>>710779611
That leads back into the third point, any type of confrontation just seems to be met with shutting down and her being sad about it and it feels like it doesn't change at all. I've tried hardass for a bit, I've tried being motivational, I've tried just saying do what you want I'll support it, I'm not sure of any way to approach the problems and not get those reactions
Dude won't stop bothering me to hang out with him now that I've finally moved on after he friendzoned me over a year ago. He won't date me, but he apparently can't stand not being around me.
>>710773701
Having opted for #1, I can tell you this: it's a rollercoaster
>>710780258
Oh, I see where you're coming from. Sorry for judging /b/ro, I'm interested in that stuff too.
>>710780341
Maybe he's asexual and in love with you.
>>710780381
>Having opted for #1, I can tell you this: it's a rollercoaster
Please share the stories. I feed on that shit.
>>710780408
No prob. I'm an English teacher, I'm paid to be anal about text.
>>710780330
You don't approach them. She has to want to change. She needs to see a reason to change. One anon recommended projects that get her motivated. That works for some people. For others, just seeing a significant other struggle with it will do the trick. For me, it happens in phases because bipolar - so every few months the problems switch anyway.
Point is, everyone is different - but in the end, people need to change things for themselves. They need a reason to.
>>710771903
Love my girl, through and through. Unfortunately her kids are fucking losers and she is stuck in "deep down their good kids" land. Yes, I'm an old fag, there are probably others reading this with the same issue. Fucking frustrating but I've learned over the years to not get in the way of a mother and her (in this case total fucking loser) kids.
>>710780485
Nope. We fucked this whole time. He's a perfectly sexual straight man who won't date me for unknown reasons, but can't not be around me and constantly wants to fuck me. Maybe he's just not looking for anything serious, but when I ask if that's the case, he says "no".
>>710778591
You have no idea. I tried talking to her, to settle the problem, that brought june sex.
The time before that was august 2015.
>>710780728
There are more oldfags than you can imagine around these parts... I'm 34 myself.
I feel your pain but I agree: it's between them.
>>710779282
You have no idea. I tried talking to her, to settle the problem, that brought june sex.
The time before that was august 2015.
>>710780894
This intrigues the shit out of me.
It's like a riddle.
I can't imagine a reason not to date you for real considering all this. Maybe he has someone else? Ask him to explain his damn self.
>>710780900
>You have no idea. I tried talking to her, to settle the problem, that brought june sex.
>The time before that was august 2015.
>August 2015
>2015
>mfw
>>710780564
I'm a linguistics major, so I make word trees for fun. Comparing them between people with non English first languages can be pretty interesting too.
That symbol is U+00B4 btw, an acute accent. That narrows it down to about 15 languages I believe.
>>710780665
I feel like leaving problems alone until she wants to deal with then hadn't done anything either. We've been together a long ass time and I want to make it work, but I feel like being able to communicate problems is a huge part of that in the long run, and I've seen so many relationships, including my parents, fall apart because they weren't able to communicate and eventually shit just blows up, so really I mainly just want to find a way to bring them up without her just shutting down, maybe it isn't possible though
>>710780925
You sir have the same wisdom. Patience in my best bet. She'l get tired of their bad decisions and set them free from the nest..Maybe a year tops; that's no sweat for a 40-something like me.
When she's with me, it's amazing.
When's she's the pissy, over jealous, controlling bitch, I hate her.
>>710781255
Does she know about those concerns?
Even if she has trouble dealing with it, they're pretty important to be upfront about.
>>710780508
As of several years ago, wife stopped really caring about sex anymore. Get it about once every week or two, but it's pretty vanilla - always the same script, maybe one step above duty-sex. As her sex drive decreased, mine went into hyperdrive - started working out and got off some maintenance meds that were keeping my testosterone levels down. Look pretty good now, get flirted with at random on the regular. Tried to pour that back into our relationship, with subtle and not-so-subtle nudges at freakier shit - playing in public, etc - and while she never shut me down, she never really got into it either. Excuses, etc - that sort of thing. My sexual frustration simmered for a while ...and gradually started into a low boil.
And then I discovered AMPs :)
Rolled pretty quickly through the "no no, we're not THAT kind of place ...but if you nod-wink-nudge just right we'll give you a fucking five-star HJ" sorts of places on into the "Spa"s ...the ones where it's pretty much a brothel. Recently graduated to well-reviewed BP girls that I've screened through my AMP connections, got a few providers that rec me to more ...open-minded girls.
>>710771903
She doesnt let me be with my friends. we're all getting older and i don't get to see them often. Some times i just wanna catch up and have a beer, I'm still in my 20's, i should be out having fun with the guys, it's too early to settle down. She's great every other day but sometimes i feel like i'm letting myself get tied down too early. and i dont know if i should just enjoy the rest of my 20's before i get too old, or just settle down early because it's gonna be slim pickings for good girls as i get older.
ex is not dating this guy but they're doing romantic stuff and she has a heart emoji next to his contact name. All they've been doing is fighting, he pressures her into doing stuff she doesn't want to (sexual things). Sometimes she'll tell him about a problem she has and he'll interrupt her in the middle of it and say he wants to fuck her. Lately she's been going to me and talking to me and it's been great, actually. We quizzed eachother over the phone to prove how much we know about eachother and we both did very well. the other guy couldn't even name her favorite TV show.. wasn't even close. I don't want to be friend zoned though. When we broke up she said we'd never date again but I've heard stories of that stuff changing. She still finds me attractive, she trusts me more than anybody, and she feels comfortable around me. She has told me she lost feelings for me (the romantic sort) but still cares about me. Very fine line between romantic feelings and attractiveness/caring, apparently. I feel like she said she doesn't have feelings for me because she was trying to get with the other guy but I don't know. Girls.
I don't have any relationships.
I'm so depressed I can't even manage a boner when I succesfully bullshit a woman to sleep with me. Still feel the urge to try.
I haven't really talked to people in 6 years. People never have anything interesting to say.
I can't really feel anything at this point. I'm an observer as shit unfolds before me. Everythings a gray mess of nothing. I can't get myself to care about things even though I try.
What do?
>>710781130
I love her, I truly do.
But I can't keep up with this drought.
Now I know why people cheat.
I am in a loving relationship with my wife and two kids. She is my best friend and we have a good sex life. However I often fantasise about rough fucking other girls. I would never cheat but I am aware that the temptation would be very seductive when drunk. I would never want to rough fuck my wife because I love and respect her too much. Just give me a hot dirty slut to abuse and spit on.
Anyone else similar?
>>710780508
>>710781533
Would love to score some side action with an unsatisfied housewife or three, but I haven't quite cracked how to move from "barely flirting in the produce department" to "pounding like fuck bunnies in the back of her minivan". So, yeah: goals, I guess.
>>710780894
>>710780485
>>710780341
Maybe I should explain a little better...
We started out mutual fuck buddies, but I also made it pretty clear I was ok with things evolving. After a while I decided I liked him more than just for sex and lunch dates, so I told him. He said he didn't feel the same. When I asked why he said he didn't really know, but that he just doesn't see us working out long-term in an emotional relationship. We stayed fuck buddies, and now that I'm jumping back into the dating scene, I've been declining more and more of his very frequent requests to hang out (basically every day), and now he's been...freakishly clingy. I mean, the escalation in frequency of the requests to hang out was just the beginning. Now he's practically begging, and talking about how he's so depressed when he's not with me, etc...even telling me to ditch my dates and invite him instead.
Dude asked me if I wanted fast food in the middle of the night and when I said I was too tired, he came over anyway and sat on the stairs outside my apartment and ate the food when I refused to let him in.
I guess, I'm just confused/annoyed that he's acting like the boyfriend he never wanted to be with me.
>>710781656
find a hobby outside the internet retard
>>710771903
>meet girl a few years ago
>instantly hit it off and become close as fuck
>friendship naturally progresses to romance
>only manage to date for like a month before i unexpectedly get an opportunity to move back to my home country
>i take it
>we agree to stay in touch as friends
>i move
>despite the distance, time difference, busy schedules, and basically every odd being against us, we keep growing closer
>ending up falling for each other
>we confess, the feeling is mutual
>but we don't want to jump into a relationship until we can meet in person and come up with a proper plan together as it's gonna be a very tough long distance relationship
>she had planned to come and visit me next summer
>she was so excited about this and would talk about it all the time
>until then though, we had mutually agreed we could see other people as long as we let each other know
>looking back on it, probably a stupid idea but for us it seemed like the best option considering the unique circumstances
>we were both cool with this and it works fine, barely anything happens anyway because neither of us particularly want to do anything
>then about 3 months ago i drunkenly kiss an old flame
>tell her right away as usual not expecting anything bad to happen
>she flips
>she hates me
>i'm heartbroken
>constantly try and explain myself and apologise and ask for another chance
>occasionally i break through to her and we talk for a bit then she goes cold again
>keep begging and pleading
>so heartbroken i don't realise how little space i'm giving her
>this pushes her away
>later hear that she got a new bf a couple weeks after shit went down between us
>no idea if this is a rebound or not
>either way i'm heartbroken and i haven't healed even a little bit
>>710781786
(I'm this anon >>710780381)
Get her tipsy or all-out drunk and tell her. Way better if you can keep yourself entirely satisfied at home.
>>710781204
I loved studying linguistics at university. Very useful when I teach regular English to kids and teenagers. I feel like the only teacher who ever explains why irregular verbs even exist.
>>710781271
Best you can do is discuss it with her. You can tell her what you'd do yourself if you were her, etc. It may give her new ideas.
>>710771903
Whenever I'm alone, I have no idea whether people like me or not. I just don't know if they fake our friendship. Of course, they tell me that they like me, but I've seen them tell the same to people they otherwise talk shit about when they're not around. I guess I'm just afraid of being in a fake friendship.
too young
>>710781656
>Get off whatever brain-fuck meds you're on. >Eat healthier.
>Start a solid mass-building exercise routine - stronglifts 5x5 is good. Start small so you can stick to it and see some results pretty quick.
>Go outside more - preferably take up a hobby that puts you outdoors.
>>710781983
Last time I spoke to her was last week after giving her a month of space so that we could both calm down. She was still extremely cold. She listed things that she disliked about our relationship and I was completely unaware of all of them. In fact, they painted me out to be possibly emotionally abusive/manipulative.
I never thought I would be this kind of person and honestly I'm not 100% sure what led her to think this way. But I'm gonna go thru our conversations, think a lot, and maybe ask other people to see what they think. And if I conclude that I have been emotionally abusive/manipulative I'm probably going to commit suicide because I can't live with being a monster.
I still don't know what to think of the whole situation. I don't know if I'm genuinely a bad person for doing what I did and kissing that ex, if I'm just stupid, or if she's in the wrong. But I still think about it every day. It's my biggest regret.
>>710782141
I get ya, but I have a hard time not going into rants about morphosyntactic properties. It takes a real nerd to appreciate the nuances in language.
>>710771903
Hey OP, you don't love me. What gives?
>>710781624
You're going the right way. If she feels comfortable with you and is attracted, that's all that's required to begin again.
>>710781671
I don't know what to advise you to do. How would she feel about you sexing someone else?
>>710781786
>I would never want to rough fuck my wife because I love and respect her too much. Just give me a hot dirty slut to abuse and spit on.
Your wife is most likely into this shit too. Most women are, but it's hard to admit that, for them.
Rough fucking shouldn't be a problem. If anything, just actually try fucking her really, really hard, see how that goes. Most women find that to be a hot compliment and it turns them on like nothing else.
It's not disrespect to act sexually how you feel, especially if she wants it too. Just discuss it.
>>710782923
Thanks a lot anon, I know it doesn't seem like much but I was seriously freaking out over this.
>>710783046
Like you run of the mill woman.
She would flip out.
>>710781983
Ah man, I feel for you. I really, really do. All my love goes to you.
My advice: fight for her. Keep trying, don't give up. She may need to see you trying hard as fuck just to know you REALLY care, since she may believe that you kissing another means you don't.
Good luck. I'm with you.
I don't see how love is an evolutionary advantage, or even an advantage of sentience.
>>710782260
Asperger's?
Judge by deed. What they DO with regards to you.
>>710771903
I dont have any, thats the problem.
>getting real friendly with ex boyfriend
>fucker broke up with me
>don't know if I should try to reboot the relationship, or find someone else
Pic unrelated
>>710782260
Me too honestly
>>710782438
You're not a monster, and you're not abusive. Trust yourself, man, you think with sense, she thinks with her heart.
Don't give up.
>>710782605
Maybe I do.
>>710783942
Depends what you want. I'm having the same thing with a girl that dumped me twice already, although there's a second guy to make things interesting.
>>710783803
>love woman
>stay with woman
>protect woman and her kids
Without love, women would not be tolerated by men.
>>710784161
He seemed kinda shitty tword the end of our relationship, but damn I did love him. I could understand some of his objections like my drug abuse though.
>>710771903
I'm 21 she's 22, My girlfriend is pregnant and I don't trust her, she has a sketchy past that I don't really know anything about, and she has daddy issues. Oh and she gave me HPV. Help me /b/ro's. What do I do
>>710784568
Run. Far away.
>>710784568
You the father?
>>710784932
Yeah, as far as I know, I used to work night shifts though and her date of conception was during a stretch where I was working 12-16 hours. So only a DNA test will tell.
>>710783832
>Asperger's?
Yeah. I get extremely awkward around people and generally lack social skills. People also notice that I apologize way too much and say that I don't have to, but then again, how can I be sure?
Thanks for the advice though, will keep that in mind.
>>710785071
If you aren't jump off that train wreck as soon as convient
>>710771903
Gf is far for studying, yesterday I fucked my neighbour
>>710785216
Oh you know I will. That'll be the easy out. I'm worried financially if I am the father, and if I can't handle it mentally and emotionally if I'm not.
>>710785397
This shits why I only suck cock
>>710785591
Thinking about it tbh
>>710771903
im not in one. thats the problem.
>>710785694
If your partially a fag I'd hop on the cock wagon, no fears of knocking up a throat and a far lower chance of a man being insane.
>>710786160
Wouldn't even know where to start, or meet people. CL is too sketchy. I need to trust someone
>>710785944
Hey for that short period with love its fun
>>710784552
I think you have to make a choice between him and the drugs if that's what drove you apart
Getting bored of gf of 5 years and planning on leaving her for some other hot girls. I'm 25 and in good shape, and women often love me so it wont be hard
I go through periods where I absolutely adore her and want to marry her, but also go through periods where everything she does pisses me off and I cheat on her, this girl does nothing but good things for me, always treats me right, been with her for three years. But I'm afraid that I don't truly love her and if I marry her I'll be making a mistake. What do you guys think? Never told anyone this.
where do I start...
>GF says I don't treat her right
>I apparently call her mean names, I only called her a bitch about 3 months ago, but she keeps bringing it up everytime we argue
>She says if I won't treat her better she will fall in love with someone else...
>She says I always hurt her, yet I feel like she is always hurting me..
>We ran away together 3 years ago when we were 18, she wanted to study architecture so I agreed to getting 2 jobs in order to be able to pay for her studies, but she always complains that I'm never there for her or that I spent too much time working... That is btw the reason i called her a bitch.
I don't know what to do /b/.. I fucking love this girl and I would give my life for her.. But I dont think she feels the same, not anymore atleast...
what do /b/?
>>710786438
I live in fairly libtard area. As a result if I suspect someone of being gay I sutally ask them, and develope a relationship from that point on.
>>710781983
She was likely seeing other guys and was angry that you got something on the side too, because she's a woman. Don't take it personally, that's just how they are.
Just move on, bro. She's just a person.
>>710771903
my problem is the lack of one;
>can't talk to girls in person
>she's not very active on facebook
>talk a few times but nothing overly convincing
>i love her to bits but fear she doesn't like me
how would i conquer my fear?
>>710786842
Damn. What about bars? Even if they're not inherently gay.
>>710786816
Your problem is falling into the role of a provider. She can't wrap her mind around the fact that you working so much for her education means you can't give her attention. Also, being a provider means that she will always have a bit of disdain for you, that's just how women work.
Dump her ass.
>>710786522
I'm off those wonderful benzos and cooling down the weed. At this point I just have to decide weither to prosue his advances, or not.
>>710786442
there was never a short period in my life where i was loved.
>>710787147
I love you anon.
>>710786996
Best way to conquer it is to face it. Small steps first. Like saying hi. Then you can progress further with conversation.
>>710786788
I hear you. ive been dealing with the same. but it tends to be the latter, non loving kind for me lately. are you thinking that life holds something else for you? that you should be doing something else?
I'd just wanna follow my dreams. lead a better life than this meaningless one.
>>710787262
yes but she's always with her mate how would i do that?
also she mentioned an online game perhaps i could join that?
>>710783716
I don't know, I really want to fight for her because I love her more than anything. Before shit went down I really believed in us, even after everything happened I kept believing because I've never been closer to anyone in my life.
But she doesn't want to hear from me. I'm blocked, she's with someone else.
>>710771903
31
wizard
never kissed or been on a date
>>710787029
I've never been that ballsy, but if you live in a fairly populuse area west of Virginia simply asking will at worst result in the offence of a gay looking straight guy
>>710787147
Jesus
>>710787320
I know I could do a lot better, she's never her real self, she is super fake just to make a good impression on everyone and that makes her super boring. I'm an exciting and active person and there's other girls who I click with better, but her family and my family are so close that if I break up with her everyone will be kind of in shock or mad at me.
>>710787331
Is her mate a lassie or a lad?
Also you should join the game if you talk to her. For example:
>Hi.
>Hey anon. How are you?
>Good thanks. How was your weekend?
>Great thanks I did X with my Y. What about you?
>I was just playing *insert online game*
>Oh wow anon. I never new you played it.
>Yeah I love it. You should add me.
Obviously take it with a pinch of salt but that's a rough plan.
I asked a friend out, since he had said he was bi...
Seems I actually came on a bit strong/creepy and fucked our friendship up
>>710787051
I would but we've been together since we were 15.. we are now 21.. I only now realize that I don't know how to talk to girls, I only know how to talk to her.. This life is the only life i know. And I wouldn't be able to see her with another guy.. I would probably kill myself if she was to get another boyfriend... I know she isn't the only fish in the sea.. but it feels like shes the only fish for me, know what I mean?
Any other tips that dont involve me breaking up with her? I know I might be asking for a lot.. but im on the brink of depression.. breaking up with her would only worsen that...
Bump
>>710787770
but when i spoke on fb other night I said I had no clue what the online game was mate.
Also her mate is a girl which makes it worse for me.
>>710787954
What'd you say?
>>710787954
Just say you'd like to forget it happened. From what I can tell they sound like they're embarrassed too.
>>710788002
I've got nothing, man. You're in too deep. IFF you survive this, make sure to never get that deep into feelz and oneitis again.
>>710788214
Hope I will be able to make it... wish me luck anon...
>>710771903
I cheated, now I want to kill myself. Been a little over 2 years of hating myself for ruining my relationship with her.
>>710787758
I hear you, the worst feeling is when you know her mother well and get along maybe better than your actualy girlfriend... your friends have had stable relationships for years now even though one of them cheats like a madman, (and only you know). The other has a skype relationship after a good year of being physically so close.
And they would despise you for breaking up. but I just want a girl with real emotions, real manners... or no girl at all.
>>710784035
I don't want to give up but I dunno I don't want to become any more depressed than I already am.
And I really hope I'm not bad. I'm gonna read our conversations either way to make sure. I couldn't live with myself if I was...
>>710785363
Feeling any guilt?
>>710788122
Well say you tried out the game then instead of saying you were playing it. It could start off a conversation well.
Also you should be thankful that her mates a lassie. If it were a lad (that's straight) it would be a lot more awkward to hit on her.
Just to get a better grasp of your situation, can you give yourself and the lassie your looking at ratings out of ten?
>>710788391
Shit man, you and I have the same situation going on it seems like. I wish I could break up with her before I get even deeper into this hole, but I've been with her for so long I'm afraid I won't know what to do if she's gone. We live together and I hate being alone. I also don't think I could take seeing her with another guy.
>>710788584
I'm a 6.
I consider her a 10, obviously, but my mate tells me she is about a 7.
My girl is overseas for half a year and i think im having an emotional affair with with another girl. Im together with girl A for 7 years but i feel somehow more emotionally attached to girl B. Girl A is 9.5/10 girl B is 4/10. what do
>>710788868
Fuck girl B until girl A gets back. She's probably getting exotic wiener overseas anyway.
>>710786996
Don't count on getting signals from her. Some girls may actually LOVE you and fantasise about your body and yet they won't show any sign of it.
If anything, judge more by how she reacts to invitations to coffee and such, but even that can be dubious. She may say no because she feels too shy, for instance.
Conquer your fear by defeating it: assume it's already lost and try anyway, for practice. Once you realise you have nothing to fear, you'll be fine. Every inch of experience you acquire can never be removed from you. You can only build up.
Now relax.
>>710788701
Okay. So you're only one away. Nice. Just be chatty as I've said. Do you feel you have any other problems with talking to her? Like, rivals? I suppose she's a 7/10 though.
>>710788952
i think A is very faithful cause she is desperatly in love with me
>>710789018
She's a quiet (almost lonely) person in a sense so I don't have any competition; which is good news; at-least I hope, fuck knows what she does on this game, lad.
Yes; my problem with talking to her is that I can't. I can't make her have an emotional attachment over Facebook; let us behonest please; and I can't speak in person so I'm fucked.
>>710789060
That's what she wants you to think you retard
>>710787344
>But she doesn't want to hear from me. I'm blocked, she's with someone else.
Find her address, write a letter. Don't give up. Being with someone else means shit in this world. If she's meant to be with you, she'll be with you. Keep fighting. If anything, it'll keep you busy, and you may come across someone else yourself eventually.
Keep fighting.
>She said she loved me and no one was as close to her as I was.
>Later we talked politics and she said she could not be friends with someone with my political views
>I asked whats wrong but she didn't answer
>Blocked me from all social media
fuck that bitch
>>710789226
i really dont think so, shes constantly talking about founding a family and having kids etc
>>710789060
Yes, but you're not there with her. You're thinking of her with a man's point of view. When you're not around, giving her attention and regular good dickings, she's going to stray, and rationalize it away like that *snaps fingers and flips fedora at the same time*
Really though, just have fun while she's away. She's probably doing the same, man. Take my word for it.
>>710788390
>I cheated, now I want to kill myself. Been a little over 2 years of hating myself for ruining my relationship with her.
Tell me more.
>>710788673
I see, yeah it's alarmingly similar, but i guess I could cope being alone more. I'm lonely by nature, I like being alone the most. The most worried i am about the not so vivid line where breaking up becomes really troublesome for the girl. i do like her, but not romantically.
Are you easily jealous? Ofcourse she will hook up if shes below 30 or something. i think its just the matter of if you have the balls to see her as an ex, laugh it out and live on.
Could you enjoy free-er life like i would?
I'd go hit on a girl or two.
>>710789338
Keep telling yourself that, friendo. You just can't trust bitches.
>>710789214
What is it that's stopping you? Why are you nervous? Just get in there and talk. You'll never know if you'll succeed if you don't try.
>>710788427
Bro, I'm sure you're not bad. If you want a second opinion, you can write me here: [email protected]
It's a throwaway address, but in case you want someone else to check, I'll do it.
Real monsters don't worry that much about being monsters or hurting others.
I'm sure you're fine.
Me and my gf argue all the time. The worst part is we so completely in love its almost bi polar.
>>710789410
I cheat about twice a month, but she is madly in love with me, she never leaves the house, has one female friend that she never hangs out with, but I miss being single, chasing girls without having to hide, I miss my alone time, every waking moment that I'm not at work, I'm with her, to the point where I hide in the bathroom pretending to be sick just so I can Snapchat and Kik other girls, but I feel like I still need her around, even if I do hate her about 60% of the time, the other 40% makes it sort of worth it.
>>710789691
Why do you argue?
my girlfriends vagina smells and it turns me off every time i smell it
>>710789618
My mind stops me. I just don't work. I can't talk to girls and when I do I either freeze up or make a dogs bollock of myself.
I wish I could just ask her to come out one day on Facebook; I reckon I could do it one-on-one when I'm ready but idk...
>>710789736
Jesus Christ are you me? I've only cheated on her twice though. But that's exactly how it is for me
>>710789736
Just keep cheating then, anon. You need fresh tang every week, that's your biology. But you need a main squeeze at home to watch Christmas movies with.
Women do the same thing, they just have an alpha who gives them seed and good dickings, and a beta who gives them money and attention.
>>710789736
Be thankful you have a girlfriend. And one that wants to be with you every waking moment you sperg.
>>710789911
Guilt? Why do you cheat?
>>710788952
>>710789226
>>710789431
But serious, can you forgive yourself for turning a 9.5 down for 4? I think penis will hate me forever
>>710789769
Tiny little things. Things that don't even matter.
>>710789736
Polyamourous relationship ain't a thing... even though youd wish it would be. If you dont feel guilt, how long can you do that? you know its one or the other.
I wouldnt try hiding things forever... ive tried. It starts to suck after years.
>>710790037
Of course you can. No one said you have to dump the 9.5. Just fuck 4 while you can to get your rocks off.
I met a girl at work. She's smart, about to become an RN, about an 8/10 on looks. She broke up with her fiancée. We dated for 2 weeks. We have great chemistry. We share so much in common. Fall deeply for each other. She tells me how much i mean to her. Ex fiancee heard she's seeing someone. Wants her back. Someone convinced her own mother to move all her shit back to his place. She feels stuck at the moment. Tells me we should just keep our distance cause her ex is crazy.
>>710789805
I don't know what to tell you. Just go for it.
>>710789911
Shit man, you give me hope that I'm not alone. I honestly don't know which way I want to go now, I know that this hole will get a lot deeper if I break up with her, but eventually I'll be happy, I've missed to many opportunities with better girls because of this one, but I just can't seem to let go. All she really has going for her is her looks. She doesn't have any money or a good family, but I do, so I know I could do a lot better, if only I could get myself to let her go I think I'd be a lot happier.
>>710790003
Just something to break up the monotony of my life. It's such a boring cycle. I love the hell out of her, but we argue a lot and the fun and excitement?and adventure just isn't there. I do feel guilty for cheating on her, but I need someone to make me feel like mylife is exciting again, even if only for a couple hours.
>>710790221
I will try. I will say "Hello" when I pass her or something.
I had a gf for about a year but she never felt as strong as I did, never said she loved me and broke up with me about 4 months ago. I still kind of feel like shit because I'm not in a position to realistically meet anyone new and even if i do i'll hopefully be going off to school in a different state again in less than a year so I feel like there's no point in trying to form any kind of relationship with someone until I move. I'm not sure how to feel better other than just waiting and distract myself with pointless shit
>>710790218
dump her, move on.
Protip: Don't fall in love with a woman.
>>710790280
More depth than I expected.
I'm 21 years old and I've been driven insane by my depression. I've only been in love once, but that one girl had to start banging my then close friend. It sucks because I was finally starting to get really close to him too. She was technically cheating at the time with her now previous (old and creepy) bf. It was so fucking weird when they were a couple and everyone in our circle of friends would say so behind their back even though I defended them at the time with a shit eating grin because I'm a beta faggot and I love her. I'm failing college, and I constantly smoke weed to escape my crippling depression. The only reason I have for not killing myself at this point is because I've discovered how to potentially traverse other dimensions. I am now absolutely obsessed with escaping this place and making full contact with the people on the other side.
>>710790337
Start working out and getting into good shape, pick up a really fun and constructive hobby. Make some art. Fuck a hooker or two. Then when you move to a new state you'll be ready to slay pussy
>>710790464
>how to potentially traverse other dimensions. I am now absolutely obsessed with escaping this place and making full contact with the people on the other side.
I've read so much /x/ that I am not actually sure you're trolling here.
>>710790459
Sorry. Haven't really had a chance to talk to anyone about it. So it kinda just starts flowing when I start typing
>>710790464
Are you from Ohio?
>>710790280
That is exactly how I feel. I feel like my life is a routine when I'm with her. The sex isn't there anymore, the trips and adventures and fun aren't there anymore. She doesn't get ready anymore so she's always wearing no makeup and has her hair messy, she's stopped caring. I keep my image up only so I can still get other girls and break up the routine of my life with her.
>>710790675
Don't be sorry. Posts like yours are the reason why I start threads like these.
By the way, this is OC. It's the first time this thread is posted with that picture, which I made with over 9000 hours of Paint. I think this thread will be the next "we all have secrets" thread. Just hope it won't turn to meme shit as fast.
>>710771903
Met this girl some time ago while visiting the area where she lives and we really hit it off, got cold for a while when i went back home but when we started chatting again we instantly hit it off again, now she's sending me nudes and we're all lovie dovie but the problem is the distance, takes about 4 hours with plane to reach her which isn't something I can afford to do very often right now. At the same time I'm kinda hanging out with chicks in my area, one being my long time crush that kinda brushed me off, well now she's started being interested in me and I'm not sure if i can stay loyal to the long distance chick. important to note also is that pretty much nobody in my vicinity knows about my relationship to this long distance chick because she is about 3 years younger than me and i'm afraid that people around me is going to judge me for it. what do /b/?
>>710790708
Pretty much me. She just doesn't care to keep herself up, she's too comfortable and takes her life for granted. She thinks I'm not going anywhere, but in reality, I'm not. I just need to mix things up and make things exciting again
OP signing off. I'll keep reading from my bed, on my phone, but won't be able to post anymore.
Good thread, will start again.
>>710789293
If I found her address and wrote a letter surely she'd just be creeped out and dislike me even more.
She doesn't want to hear from me.
I want to be with her, I don't want to give up, I want to fight, but right now the last thing she wants is to hear from me.
>>710790862
Hope not. Threads like these are why I still come to /b/. To know that I'm not the only one going through shit. Because everyone IRL , including myself, does an incredible job hiding these feelings and pains. So it's nice to come here and feel normal and know I'm not alone.
>>710791057
She takes everything I do for granted. She has nothing and I provide everything for her. I just need to get the fuck away and have some alone time but she doesn't understand that. She thinks that she makes my life so much better just with her presence. But that got old real fucking quick.
>>710791174
Then let the situation rest in her hands, and move on. You don't have to forget, but don't focus on her. Busy yourself with other things. Even other girls. Don't give up, but don't focus on her when it's her turn to move.
>>710789659
But if I did it, even unintentionally, then it doesn't matter. I did it.
She's not gonna think "oh he didn't mean it, it's fine".
>>710790464
if you're not taking any other drugs take some st. john's wort, it helps with depression
>>710791339
I'm starting to think that you really are me. Lol. Yeah, she doesn't have a job, no friends, no hobbies. She's just there. She cooks, she cleans, she fucks, but she's not an interesting person or fun to be around, she just mirrors my personality and brings nothing unique or exciting to the table.
>>710791441
>But if I did it, even unintentionally, then it doesn't matter. I did it.
It should matter, because it does. It matters! Intention is everything.
I know she may not agree to that, but what the fuck...
>>710790512
thanks, I'll try that. making art is actually my hobby
>>710791407
But moving on has been near impossible for me because my mind just races with thoughts of her. It's been months now and nothing's changed, I've just become more accustomed to the constant heartache.
Every option just seems impossible.
I just sound like an idiot at this point fucking kek.
>>710791548
Holy mother fucking fuck that's exactly how mine is, but she doesn't really fuck anymore, which is fine with me because I'm not really attracted to her that way anymore because she doesn't put any effort into making sex exciting anymore, basically just says bust your nut and let me sleep, so I jerk off instead of going through the trouble of getting her in the mood. Which is why I like to fuck other girls that actually want me.
>>710791716
Same here. Experiment with that too. Don't keep doing the same thing. Recently I started buying old plates and stained glass from thrift stores for dirt cheap, then breaking them and gluing them into sculptures. Good shit.
>>710791745
mine barely wants to fuck anymore. She swears up and down that she's still attracted to me, but I don't care enough to put any effort towards her anymore, it's WAY, more work than it's worth to fuck her. I don't know, maybe this is normal? Maybe not, all I know is that when I'm balls deep in some slut, I feel alive and I feel like the old me, excited, having fun, and smiling the whole time.
After my last relationship,I haven't felt any need to pursue another one. I'm not even sad/ filled with regret over my last one ending, it needed to- I just seemed to have lost interest. It's been over 6 months, is this normal?
>>710771903
should i feel like i would die for someone if necessary before getting married to them? if i'm not sure does it mean i'm not ready?
>gf and me are in long distance relationship
>its only for a short while just a couple weeks
>didn't think i'd miss her this much
>she is CONSTANTLY busy with what she is doing and so i almost never get to talk to her now
>im always the one starting conversations and trying to keep them alive
>i brought it up to her about how i miss her and shes always busy and im becoming depressed
>she says its just a couple more weeks and that she misses me even more
>she says shes free tommorow and that we can talk on skype for a while and catch up
>hyped as fuck
>the day comes
>wait a while
>its nearly midnight and nothing
>text her
>nothing
>text again
>this time she reads it but no response
>check her friends snapchats
>see her with them wasted at a strip club
>go to bed with thoughts running through my head
>wake up today and ask if we can talk
>she says she will call me when she has time
its been two hours and nothing, wat do bros im at my emotional breaking point, my friends and coworkers are starting to notice and ask about me being down all the time
>>710792056
It's a huge rush isn't it? I barely even feel guilty doing it anymore. It's so much more fun finding a new girl and putting in the work to get into her pants. Fucking my gf is more of a chore to me and I don't even enjoy it anymore.
What do you do in a relationship?
Have had plenty of one night stands but went on my first actual date a couple of days ago. I quite likw her but I don't really know how to move forward without having sex
>>710792205
She's neglecting you, and that's pretty shite of her. Lose feels, dump her, get new girl.
>>710783232
All of this.
If you're still nervous, kill a bottle of wine (or two) with her first - then you have the cover of "it was the alcohol!" in case she isn't into it
>>710773449
SHE'S ALL 99 OF EM I NEED A MACHINE GUN
>>710792281
Not the other guy you've been talking to, but I agree so much. Fucking my GF is just a semi-daily checklist of things I need to do that day. Mow the lawn, water the plants, fuck the lady.
But it's so much more fun to put in effort and chase into fucking a new girl every couple weeks. It puts a spring in my step. Where fucking my girlfriend who's losing shape just makes me tired and frustrated. She can't even make me cum anymore.
>>710791441
What is your home country? And from experience, she was cheating on you and then got mad because you met someone. I swear it.
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>>710788002
Cut your losses now, anon. Seriously. It's only going to get more and more fucked up from here. Better to get the pain out of the way now - that'll be that much sooner that you can get on with the rest of your life
>>710789328
Ditto this - you dodged a bullet anon
>>710771903
>I'm in love with my cousin
>She's in love with me
>Cant be together because its weird as fuck
>>710790627
Not trolling - reality is tuned to a carrier signal (like a tv channel) and there are a ton of different ways of altering this signal - some can even achieve this through sheer will alone but it can also be done through drugs and genetic engineering.
>>710792584
Too true m8. Women only care about winning. If they cheat, they didn't mean it and it meant nothing. If you cheat, they're mad that you got some.
>>710792590
This too. Just like a bandaid, do it now, or it'll hurt worse later.
>>710790707
Nope, but I am somewhere in the U.S. - for now
>>710792335
I don't want to dump her, I truly do believe she loves me, I just think its long distance and no communication being the problem, but how can i comminucate with her if shes constantly busy and doesnt reply to texts or calls? I just don't know what to do
>>710791489
Thanks, I will try this!
>>710792526
This far into the relationship, where our families regularly get together and my little sister (2yo) is super attached to her, how do I even set up the breakup? I joke about it to her all the time but she takes it as just that, a joke. She thinks I'd never leave her but I really want to at least try being without her to see if I can handle it. How can I talk to her about it and actually break up with her? She lives with me so where should I do it?
>>710792915
Regardless of your beliefs, she doesn't love you. If she did, she'd make time to talk to you and not party. Stop being a bitch, my friend. I'm not trying to be a dick, but you need to grow a pair and drop her ass. If she's getting drunk at a club with friends, I can guarantee you she's cheating. Just drop her, there's nothing you can do now, my friend.
>>710792526
>>710792281
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>>710791745
What the ACTUAL FUCK you guys - you're wrestling with all this shit for a woman you're not even legally entangled with!? If these are merely gfs just broom that shit and walk into the sunset...!
>>710792912
Used to live in Ohio and this happened to a friend. Just sounded too familiar, and wondered if you were him.
>>710793246
Can we talk more about this? You got kik or something?
>>710793340
You're interpreting it wrong. I enjoy having a girl at home to cook and clean for me, but she is just boring to be around. So I have sex with other girls. There's no real problem except the one of struggling with its morality, which can be quickly dispersed with fucking a different bitch again.
>>710793452
Yeah, let me set it up, one sec.
>>710793558
Exactly. Hit the nail on the head my friend.
Seven months ago, my girl of 3 years told me she was cheating on m on my 21st birthday. I left our apartment, moved back in with my parents and got super depressed. I was also 280 pounds and 6 feet tall. I got super into diet and working out. Now i'm 184 pounds and I'm still super bummed and I can't seem to make connections with women i'm interested in, and part of me thinks I'm still hurting from the last chick.
What do?
>>710793452
Add me, Yurongo.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v25Gxovr3bE&t=29s&ab_channel=RelaxationCreationsASMR
>>710792099
anyone care to help?
