Why're you still single?
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Why're you still single?
>>710369229
because I look like Brian Peppers on crack
I'm on /b/ what do you expect?
Why are there never threads on /b/ like "Why are you married?"
>>710369229
OP That is the gayest picture I've ever seen
>>710369344
This.
I don't put myself out there or attempt to flirt. Friends say I'm a good looking guy but that can't help being a antisocial shut in.
>>710369229
waiting for the economy to collapse to get some random woman with decent genetics to sell her self to me as my slave who I'll brain wash with consent
women aren't even human to me I'll wait until I don't have to treat them better than they are
I can't even manage my own mental state, I shouldn't try to bring my insanity into another person's life.
>>710369229
Because my girlfriend was cheating on me with a nigger.
Cause I broke up with my last girlfriend after the third time trying to make things work with her and failing.
Not realising that she was also the only friend I had and now I have absolutely no way of meeting new people.
Errors were made.
>>710369229
because my ex won't take me back and I want that woman to have my babies.
I'm not. I will be soon
>>710369462
I feel this. I wouldn't say i'm good looking, solid average though. But i don't put in the effort. That and none of my friend's have single straight female friends. Help me meet women /b/
Because I barely know anyone, I never know how to start a conversation and I am kind of a lone wolf, I love to do whatever I want to do. That's why I broke up with my first gf, she was like a limpet.
>>710369464
oh and buy silver or bitcoin now guys , before the US elections fucks the world economy
>>710369229
2 reasons really.
1. Too ugly
2. Socially retarded.
Because I don't trust a single one of them. None of them would accept me for who I am away from the limelight
>>710369906
Why not try guys?
I push people away and I'm afraid of commitment
>>710369229
because im poor
>>710369229
Because i dont really like to socialize
I have a girl that likes me; but I don't know how to approach the dating stages. Why can't she just ask me? Like ffs....
>>710369229
I dont have time for womens bullshit
>>710370146
Just ask her out man, 30 seconds of exposing yourself to some shit you'd rather not do will possibly make your whole life better.
>>710370146
Jesus H christ. Ask her, "Wanna start dating?"
Then think of fun, interesting activities that you already like, and ask her to join it. Such as watching movies, or playing games, or whatever it is that you do for recreation.
Not that attractive, often awkward. Standard stuff ready.
>>710369229
Because i have Asperger's + several psychological disorders.
0 social life
>>710369229
I watch anime
>>710369229
Because I'm fucking two girls at the same time
>>710369229
Because women are retarded sluts or nasty fatties.
I've been on enough first dates to not give a shot
I generally just avoid people.
Not like I hate them tho.
Just burned myself too much trying to make relationships work.
>>710369229
Because I am not talking and meeting enough girls.
Finding a girlfriend really is a numbers game for me. Have to meet a lot in order to find one I am interested in and if I am they usually already have a boyfriend or are not interested in me.
>>710370146
You can't do anything wrong if she likes you, just ask her if she wants to do something with you
>get fucked over for years by a half a dozen different girls
>finally meet the one
>finally
>five years later
>she's no different
There was only so much I was willing to put into relationships and that has been exhausted.
>>710369229
Im extremely anxious about meeting new people in general
Hell even doing something outside of my daily life gets me nervous
I don't think that I can trust people again and I don't want to try it anymore
>>710370355
I think I may ask her. I see her Saturday. I'll just be like, "So where are we going on our first date" and if it fails miserably, probs OD on something, we'll see.
drinking problem
>>710369952
The cute ones are taken
>Assumed [A] was dating our mutual friend she was occasionally hooking up with, suppressed my crush on her, found out she was into the idea of giving up fucking him to date me but gave up after I "put my walls up" in her words.
>A few months before that, assumed [C] figured that I wasn't attractive/interesting enough for her or just saw me as "just friends" anyway, since our friendship has been platonic for the last couple years anyway. Later told she used to have a thing for me, but assumed I wasn't attracted to her because of how I acted. She's now dating some other guy.
>Seven year span of not looking after [K] and I broke up, because I was busy suppressing the desire to ever want to have companionship again because I was afraid of being hurt.
>>710370934
We all have our demons, yours is merely visible from the outside
>>710369229
>Misogynist
>Asshole in general
I really don't know since women seem to generally like it to be treated like shit.
I study software engineering. I interact with one girl every two weeks. She's taken, and is in an easy position to abuse her power if that changes, -> can't trust anyone issue again
>>710370920
Think about an activity you can do together, don't make her think of something. If you are socially retarded, think of something that gives you enough topics to talk about just my doing it.
I have social anxiety to the point where I am almost afraid of even being in semi-close proximity of people. Also I am denser than a dwarf star when it come to a girl liking me.
>>710369229
Im not. Thank you.
>>710371378
+0.2
Not this bad for me, but the same reason essentially applies to me.
>>710371378
neutron star buddy ;)
>>710371289
She likes reading. That is about all I know about her. I game for the most part. WOW, and Gears of war atm. The other part of my day is spent on my dog and keeping semi busy otherwise I think about killing myself.
>>710369305
Honesty will get you everything your heart desires
>>710369229
Married. Two kids. 32. It's just as hard.
I'm a crazed, broke artist living with my maybe bipolar mom in a very small apartment. And if I'm being honest I'm very picky. I've met maybe a dozen girls in my life I would've actually dated. Dated 2 of them and it was awful.
I like memes
>>710369229
I'm not.
>>710371872
You said that a minute ago
Depression.
>>710369229
I dont trust a woman to stay loyal to me.
I fuck alot of tinder chubsters and am happier
>>710371701
Don't you go to work or anything like that? Back to the topic, ask her about some of her favourite activities, then decide quickly and ask her if she wants to do one of those activities with you. Don't be mentally retarded enough to ask her if she wants to read with you.
You're obviously single, faggot
I'm actually not anymore so that's pretty cool
Afraid to ask her, not sure how to.
Right now I'm in a very comfy friends with benefits situation. She tells me she loves me and cooks for me and spoils me...
She's hot, smart, and very interesting (and a /b/ tard)...
I'm thinking if making her mine.
>>710371958
Every day I edge closer to joining tinder... I feel like it's the social symbol of giving up and becoming a desperate loser who's begging to be fucked, and I can't trust those people to not ridicule me for it, especially when I used to be well respected
I'm too clingy
>>710371986
I work but its so easy I more or less black out for the 8-12hrs I'm there. If I ask her it will mainly be a walk down by the cat walk; but since winter is coming, Idk wtf to do. Maybe a cafe????
>>710372085
you've already lost her anon
>>710372356
Sounds like a good idea, you can't go wrong with drinking a coffee together
>>710370819
i feel you bro
>>710372055
Ask her what exactly?
Pic related this is the girl who likes me.
>>710372608
Are you the guy I've been talking to about where to go on the first date? If yes, good luck!
>>710372586
I don't know, honestly. I was with this one girl for 3 year before we split. Haven't had any interest in dating since, roughly 6 months. I guess I don't want to ask her if she'd like to get together and do something and her turn me down. Haven't done this in a while, man.
>>710372729
Indeed
>>710369229
Im not. But i wish i was cuz i miss fucking a different slut from tinder every week when I was. Now im all chained down n shit.
>>710372759
If she turns you down, move onto the next one. What have you got to lose?
>>710373040
I know, I know, you're right, anon. It's just weird, I haven't felt this way in a while, know what I mean? I'd say I'll let you know how it goes, but I won't see her until 1400 today
Thank you
>>710373040
This. Y'all need to understand that being turned down by a girl is nothing that should keep you from trying it. There are millions of girls out there, just move on and try the next one (or kys)
>>710373184
This. Its all a fucking numbers game.
>>710369464
Shit like this is why you don't know what tits feel like, fag.
>>710372420
I wake up every morning to "good morning, I miss you!" and her going on about our lives and how she fantasises about having a family and future.
We were childhood friends, and even the she loved me. She's always insisted that I am the best thing to come into her life, both then and now again but I never gave her the chance. I found her on Facebook 8 years later and we hung out and immediately sparked a connection. She quickly left her boyfriend and I (months into our sex and other folly) broke away from my girlfriend too. We saw eachother more and I think ahe understands that I care more for her than my ex.
I've always been skeptical of her because I'm kind of a white knighty beta, but she is an absolute diamond in the rough. She's kind of goth, beautiful with a tight body, doing a PH.D, is an actual good cook and writer and artist. She strives in everything she does, I've never understood why me.
>>710369229
I never really got in the mood of searching for a relationship.
I'm single because I'm too nice and treat women with respect. I should be more of a fuckboi, seems to work for everyone else :/
I'm dull and boring and don't do anything beside work. I live in a pretty big city but I just don't really enjoy meeting new people.
>>710369379
Yeah this is the real question. Who the fuck would throw their life away to be with a woman? Normies, that's who
iam 28 and were single for almost my entire life
i just had a moment of omniscience last week and somehow woke up. now iam asking girls out and iam not afraid for being turned down. i keep advancing my strenghts and work on my weaknesses and its turned out pretty good so far. a nice girl will come to dinner in 3 hours and i also got a date with another girl tomorrow.
i don't know what happened. it just made click and iam not worrying so much anymore.
its somekind sad that i had it in me all the time and never got out but iam so happy it finally did.
>>710373680
Being the nice guy will get you friendzoned 100% of the time. When you meet a girl you only have a small window of time to make your intentions fucking clear. I go for the sex within the first 2 weeks. 3 max. Any longer than that, you lost her to the friendzone.
>>710373819
it's called a stroke, anon
>>710369229
because I mentally and biologically don't need one due to excessive masturbation.
As soon as I start thinking that getting a gf will be good, I masturbate and then that feeling is gone.
You cant compare thousands of dollars and months of time go to waste, instead of 10 min that takes you to cum. 10 secs flat if you are on a hurry. You simply cant compare.
Need of love, emotional support, is for the weak of mind and body. All your testosterone should go to increase your gains and improve yourself.
I have a child btw. Divorced twice. I stayed with the kid, and I don't pay a shit to the whores, because I have a good lawyer. Just in case you are wondering because I wont be answering any longer. Time to go back to work.
My teeth are shit and I'm socially awkward, can't small talk for shit.
>>710373975
I can too well -> can't escape it
Mostly that I can't get my mind off of one girl, who gives of mixed signals.
So I am not really willing to go with another girl, on the chance that the other is into me. I don't wanna push her away
>>710373975
Grow a big dick, women love those
>>710373975
So am i nigger. But i could still pull pussy off tinder and meetme. You have to get them comfortable and get them horny and then theyre fucking yours. Sometimes, even on the first meeting.
im not, im just horribly unhappy and lack the confidence to leave who im with, she'd probably kill herself once im gone
What's better, forever alone or a relationship with many many restrictions?
I've been with a fair amount of chicks and it never works out. Theres been like one girl who I felt a connection with but we never linked up oh well truth be told she probably would have been shady eventually I find it very hard to trust bitches maybe I am a piece of shit because I never went to college never had my own shit no car so who knows but I've also fucked around with a few guys but I don't care to live that way it's just something that I can't really explain but I've always felt weird after wards. I'm not attracted to men whatsoever It could be mental i don't know.... wat do
>>710369229
Because I'm a socially awkward, confidence lacking, bad skin having, pathetically built, completely unmotivated, cynical, irritable, egotistical, self-obsessed, balding, unskilled, bastard, who hasn't got the muscles to make up the lack of looks, the ability to make up the lack of skill or the will to make up the lack of everything.
>>710374095
Push her away NOW. Make it clear that you won't be dragged all, and that she WILL lose you entirely if she keeps going. Do it now or suffer for years. 12 years for me.
I'm not single because I'm not a socially retarded beta cuck
>>710374152
Theres a god damn formula to it. Experiment and figure it out
>>710374286
It's called force
>>710374240
I'd still bang you
>>710374286
Girl + Chloroform = Fun?
>>710374274
It's not so much mixed signals, as it is that she is just very shy and introverted, and that may be the cause.
I'm only attracted to Eugenia Cooney so I'm still single because she won't answer my texts anymore :'(
>>710373291
Found the underage
>>710374419
That means a lot, man. Thanks.
...you're not by any chance a decent looking girl, right?
Broke up with girl on last Friday.
Feel weird in bad way
>>710374478
OK, well, if she's genuinely shy and you're sure of it, hmmmm..
>>710374637
Kys
>>710369952
Why try?
poor social skills, obscure as shit interests, blase about almost everything, depressed, no money/car
>>710369229
High standards and a refusal to budge on any of them.
>>710374710
Because an intimate relationship with another human being is very rewarding.
>>710374655
I remember that she said word for word, "I am just coming out of my shell" during a speech in class.
I mean, she does stuff like this
>She is shy, and kinda doesn't acknowledge me unless I say something, then we can talk for a good while without issue. This is even when it is just us standing next to each other before class.
>Does not initiate texts, but is willing to talk for hours with detailed replies once I get her going
>I have seen her looking at me from a distance, sometimes locking eyes.
>When I asked for her number, she took my phone and punched it in. (It was the actual number, obviously)
>When I asked her to grab lunch the first time, she said she was busy that weekend, so I offered up Monday, which she accepted.
>Appears next to me at random.
>>710374673
gfys m8
>>710374832
>>Appears next to me at random.
You may be dealing with a ghost. Best not piss her off.
>>710374621
you're making me wetter every second
Sorrman you're out of luck right now, I'm a dude
>>710374118
My dick is big enough. But you kind of got to get to the stage where they get to see it before that matters.
>>710374152
None of that works unless you have a way to bridge a connection, which is typically small talk because deep talks can't just be broached and become exhausting if kept up for too long. I'd gotten to the level where I felt like a girl was comfortable around me in silence once, but she was already taken. FeelsBadMan.
>>710369229
i dont take myself seriously enough to be financial stable or care enough to provide a decent education for myself. Therefore, women dont find value in me but I reject the women who are interested to save them the burden of having such an asshole for a boyfriend.
>>710374953
...An effeminate dude?
>>710374832
She sounds like she may actively be pursuing you, as far as an introvert goes. I recommend attempting to make your feelings a bit clearer to her. Just make sure you don't scare her off. Maybe a film or to the library for a read. Something without many people
got a crush on a grill
but she dont got the same feelings
i could have get another one but i still love this chick
ya and i am browsing on /b/ so
>>710369229
Girlfriend of five years broke up with me. I'm okay with this because I was only with her because I needed her financially, but had been planning how to leave her for 2 of the five years.
>>710375170
same here anon
I do, i wish I had a boyfriend instead.
>>710375083
Perhaps slightly, but that's about my limit
>>710369229
because i'm ugly
>>710369229
I'm not, but in a way I wish i was...
>>710375144
The thing is that I have made attempts to meet up with her. (I had stuff I kinda wanted to talk to her about.) But she always is busy. Usually family or work reasons.
Last one went like this
> "Hey, are you free anytime soon? I would like to grab coffee and chat"
> "Hey! I'll have to get back to you on it. Taking 7 classes this semester on top of working the two jobs and getting stuck babysitting this weekend has been filling up my schedule."
> "No worries. I just figured that we should meet up soon"
> "Definitely!"
>>710373747
People that have emotions? That want to spend their life together? Yeah fuck those "normies"
>>710375144
Don't worry about scaring her off that's moronic. Even introverted girls aren't like little skittish butterflies. You just have to make it easy for her by taking the reigns.
Don't ask if she wants to go out or anything, give her a specific time and place and implore her to come. She won't be turned off by dominance
>>710373975
Small talk is easy, stop thinking and just be bland. It puts people at ease.
>>710369229
I'm not
>>710375384
Well, you could either leave it at that and move on, or let her have more time and risk wasting it. Up to you... can't really help much onwards
>>710369229
I enjoy my personal and financial freedom. Also, because women generally find me unattractive and unappealing as a man...which is fine, considering the average woman has NOTHING of worth to give to a man other than sex. I can give myself an orgasm without the headache.
>>710369229
I'm not, I'm married
>>710375384
Bro be specific. Don't ask if she's free anytime soon. Say something along the lines of "Hey, you should come have drinks with me tomorrow, 7pm sound good?"
She's introverted so it's easy to find excuses not to do things.
If she says she's not available just continue pursuing. "You busy on Sunday then?" blah blah I know a cool place etc
>>710369229
>I've decided not to slum anymore. I used to be rolling in pussy, but I was notoriously not picky.
>I've gotten enough different women that I'm confident in my "score", now I'm looking for the right one for a long term relationship.
>I want to have kids and a wife and shit. And I believe the one you commit to and have kids with needs to leave your families' genes one notch better than your own. Hence, I will not reproduce if it's not with a quality woman.
So I'm in a two year dry spell, I know if I went by to my slumming and sleeping around way I could get laid TONIGHT.... but I'm doing things differently, I've decided to have standards.
>>710369229
Because I ruined things with the one person I'm head over heels for.
>>710369229
>Why're you still single?
because im a girl with a penis
turns out most guys despise me
I want to be single.
My gf bored me but I don't want to hurt her.
Been thinking about this for 1.5 years.
>>710375626
I suppose I could wait like 3 weeks or so, or until when Classes start to wind down for the semester? Then offer up something, that is more "Dateish" (Ice Skating?)
>>710375688
Yea. I am thinking I should do something like that. Like I said above, I'll probably offer up a day after thanksgiving for something specific.
>>710369229
Fat and ugly
>>710375862
because you're fucking gay
>>710375862
if you look like a female i will love you
>>710375904
OK, but if neither work just be ready to drop it sooner rather than 12 years later.
>>710376074
its not gay if I have boobs
I'm a MGTOW.
>>710375882
TELL HER RIGHT NOW
>>710369229
females dont seem to like me
I barely ever leave my apartment except for classes, and none of the girls in my classes are attracted to me. Pretty simple really
>>710376365
Im at work but now im distract.
>>710369229
>Relationships are exhausting, pretending you are attracted to hambeasts is hard work with no reward. If they are attractive and don't require pretending then it's the following concerns...
>The stress of her potential cheating.
>The stress of jealousy of the other circling guys in her life.
>The stress of her getting bored.
>The stress of her turning out to be a monster and fleecing me in court because she insisted to move in 6 months ago.
>The stress of her tricking me into getting knocked up against my will (Especially if she is a hambeast).
>The stress of her getting knocked up by someone else and forcing me to raise it against my knowledge and against my will (especially if she is a hambeast).
>Introverted. I love the solitary things in life too much (reading, writing, sketching, hiking, MMA, lifting, movies, brewing, academic pursuits... etc). I haven't been motivated to be social, it doesn't interest me much. My level of connectedness isn't the stick I use to measure success in my life.
>There's nothing in a relationship I can't get on porn hub or from a one night stand with a cheap 5 drink bar whore 2/3 my age.
>I'd rather be alone by myself, than alone with an unattractive monster that demands more and more for less and less or an attractive monster that demands more and more for less and less then throws me away (while potentially shattering all sources of well being in my life).
>Simply put, I am single because I love my life and enjoy living it, and for me traditional relationships don't add anything positive to it.
>>710376381
This too. Love me for who I am, not who you expect me to be. I'll do the same
>>710369229
Because I am a selfish, self serving guy. I like my space, don't want a cunt fucking up my home.
Also, variety is the spice of life. Except nonwhites.
>>710369229
i'm ugly. i have no confidence. i'm weird, i'm awkward, i made odd comments, start awkward conversations. Or participate in conversations that could become awkward, but hey im the weird, ugly kid so me joining automatically makes it awkward. whenever i talk to a girl i end up saying some weird shit. i like offensive humor, weird, dark humor, that's not attractive to the people, the girls i know. I lose motivation every time i try to work out, basically remaining what i am, a fatty. I enjoy playing vidya/drawing worlds n shit for a vidya i made up then playing sports, or shit. Most of the girls, or even some of the more popular guys probably wouldn't want to hang out with me on weekends. So im stuck with this one kid whos semi-autistic but hes got a good heart, and hes a good friend. My opinion is different from that of most of my peers, in the sense they are all christian, and i am more skeptical/naturalist point of view, so fuck why would a christian girl (protestant) i believe, want to date someone like all the things i have mentioned above. they wouldn't. i go to college with this chick, lets call her Sasha, and this chick is perfect. perfect body, perfect tan, her face is quite possibly the prettiest ive seen. don't even get me started on her personality, she's one of the kindest people i've met, and has a all around good personality, good sense of humor, good everything. not to mention shes super smart. but look back at me now, a semi-overweight, weird, vidya playing faggot who sits at home more than going out and interacting with my peers. is there even a sliver of a chance with her? maybe. but i have no confidence, so now there isn't. that's why im single /b/...and it fucking sucks.
TL;DR: i'm a faggot with no confidence, i like this girl alot, shes perfect, i'm far from it, never gonna do anything bout it.
>>710376395
I want to, but I'll get surgery and will be on recovery for 6 weeks, also holidays and want to lose some of the fucking 40 lbs I gained since we've been together before looking for other women.
I'm a piece of shit for using her
fuck
>>710376340
Yea. Atleast I haven't gotten to that point. I've only known her since January.
But yea, I'll drop it if it doesn't work this time around
>>710369229
Because I've been hurt before (abruptly, too) and now I'm afraid to ever risk my mental health like that again. Plus, most women in this country are absolute garbage and not worth spending your time with.
>>710376381
aren't you a special snowflake
I'm fat
Pretty sure that's the only reason
>>710376704
No, just red-pilled.
>>710376652
I read every word anon. Don't fall for the religion meme, you'll lose your entire life
>>710375862
>because im a girl with a penis
That makes you a dude, fam.
>>710376723
Girls love pillow heaters. Hop on tinder and mention that you'll warm them with cuddles.
....B-but im married with two kids
To live madness at its best.
>>710369379
You must not be aware of how to start your own threads anon
>>710377004
really?
>>710377521
yes
>>710377521
Yeah....really. Your a dude. Get over it....and if you cant then die in a hole.
why are all of these "nice guys" so self absorbed
nobody owes you a relationship just because youre being kind fag
Because i sexually identify as the hacker known as 4chan and no one can now who i am
>>710377923
They are broken, anon. Their alternative methods are just as ineffective
>>710377923
In the same sense, women are not entitled to 'decent men' (even though they rarely actually go after them) and being able to force a man to listen to her prattle on for hours about her first-world problems.
how do you fucks deal with rejection? it's the one thing i can't stand anymore, i feel like if i ever get rejected again im going suicide
>>710378234
I just bury myself into my hobbies.
>>710378234
The amount of fucks given per rejection decreases in a logarithmically asymptotic manner.
>>710378289
>>710378346
it's hard not to give a fuck, they make me feel like im the scum of the earth and im not a bad guy by any means, last girl literaly said "i would never be with you and no one ever will"
Because everyone hates me and it will never change..
>>710378659
I know it's hard, man. Same reason I don't try either. She's not the best for you.
>>710369229
girlfriend died in a car wreck last week
>>710378659
It gets easier with time. I've been single for the last 11 years, and the last gf I had (we were sophomores in HS back then), is now a divorced, 400 lbs single mother of 2 with a GED. As for other women, I see what they put men through on a regular basis, and consider sex as not being a valid enough reward for all the bullshit they (women and relationships) come with.
To hell with women. They can go on to make movies, books, songs, etc about how 'great' they are without men, while us men just sit back, take it, and stay slaves to the pussy. We're better off without them, and if you play your cards right, women will need YOU before YOU need THEM. Having a gf is like having a full-time job with NO benefits or pay other than sex, and you can give yourself an orgasm.
It's just not worth it.
>>710369229
Because I don't want a relationship. Tried it. Didn't like.
>>710369477
Ooo edgy
>>710369229
Cause im uncomfortable with my sexuality and can't continue to live vicariously through the women I have relations with...
I want boobs.
i broke up with her because i thought she'd be better off without me.
i was right.
my name is emma and im a male. FUCK you mom
>>710379354
You're pathetic.
>>710379955
i know.
>>710369517
G-g-g-god damnit... We share the same fate, /b/rother...
because I cant stop walking into shops with pineapples
proof:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHMOwc1H8pQ
>>710369229
Because God hates me. That's why.
>>710370657
Yeah you can. One moment youre cool,next day you have crush on them, ask em out lol nope. Turns out they hate you for even asking, probably. Not all of them, some may still be okay with you, or just ghost on you. Its bullshit ekther way.
>personal experience
>>710380301
God's not there, bb.
>>710371754
If that were true, people wouldn't lie.
>#bazingazi
>>710369229
Because i'm black in italy and people think i am an immigrant?
>>710380447
Maybe that's why then.
i am ugly as a pug,
Yall beta niggers are overthinking it. Don't be a nice guy. Start off with small talk, invite her over after a lil bit not too long, watch some shit together, compliment her, go in for a kiss, transition into makeout session hand on thigh. If no objection, move hand further up and start fucking teasing her. Sex ensues. Being mildly attractive and keeping your ass clean helps too. Worked for me a lot when i was single god damn. N if you don't think you're attractive, a fucking haircut and a shave can do fucking wonders.
>>710369229
actually, I'm doubles
>>710380761
>the stereotype that every single guy has to be fat, ugly, unhygienic, and socially retarded fuckboys
Maybe some of us just don't want to have to deal with the bullshit.
>>710380761
Getting laid is fucking easy. If the pussy is good, keep it. If not move on to the next.
>>710375384
Fuck it, youre done. Those are clever excuses, until you actually suggest a date, shes goimg to keep giving you flimsy excuses.
# S A D W A Y N E
A V A N T G A R D E M E M E S
>>>>>>>>710380632
>>710369229
i have lost the ability to fall in love. i can be horny and i want to fuck all the attractive girls i meet but i cant fall in love with them anymore. i don't know why, but i can't. i meet girls all the time, i'm not antisocial and i am attractive enough for women to want to talk to me. i live in a country with a high count of attractive women, and it's not uncommon to talk to a 10/10 girl who some times shows interest in me. i could make one of those girls my girlfriend if i wanted to, but i don't fall in love. last time i fell in love was in 9th grade or something. got rejected as i had no idea how to talk with girls. i got some practice over the years and now as i am approaching 20 years old i consider my self kind of good with women. i am happy i am single, but i hope i fall in love with a girl soon. i miss that feeling. the most of you guys long for a hole to be filled in you chest. you need to feel loved. i was the same until the hole consumed me into a depression that again consumed me so much that i stopped feeling at all in a way. i could only feel good or sad in the moment. acceptance would replace the feelings i had for anything at all.
>someone close died
sad for some minutes and then accepted it
>rejected by love of my life
sad for a moment then accept it
>humiliated
angry in a minute and then forget it
i have this philosophy about life now that probably fucks with my head.
>don't think about it
it works every time. when you are sad, you don't get sad because of the thing, you get sad by the thought. if you push the thought away, you can't get sad. it also works with anxiety. if i panic, i don't think about the thought that makes it scary. then the adrenaline stops after some minutes. i don't know why this makes me incapable of falling in love, but it's kind of chill. i don't need to worry about falling in love with lets say a girl i know i never will see again.
>>710380761
>. Being mildly attractive
>and keeping your ass clean helps too.
I'll take "things that I'm not" for $500, Alex.
>>710381574
Over summer I tried to meet up with her three times?
1st excuse was her bros graduation out of town
2nd was that she was going to the beach with friends (gave a general area)
3rd was sisters graduation.
>>710373040
>What have you got to lose?
A friend i actually care about. :I
I was like that for years. Looking back now I just think I was a dumbfuck with all that self pitty.
Maried for over a year, have a baby, never been hapier.
>>710382063
Blown it. Move on.
>>710369462
Asocial*
>>710382781
Honestly, I think that the fact that she still deals with me after I accused her of lying to me, says something about her
>I invited her to hang out with a friend and I on short notice.
>She said she was busy, sisters graduation. (Turns out it was true)
>For some reason I did not trust her.
>So I sent her "I don't mean to sound like an asshole, but if you don't want to hangout, just tell me"
>She did not respond to that accusation. (understandably)
>A month and a half later I decided to apologize. It basically went like
Me- "Hey, I'm sorry for what I said. I was not right for me to accuse you of that"
Her- "Hey, Thanks! I appreciate the apology. I've just been very busy over the summer"
>>710382063
Yeah, i don't wanna be the one to say it but i don't think she really wants to hangout. Until you use the words "date", you wont know for sure. Ive been burmed like this before, honestly she may not feel the same way, Anon. Sorry, bro.
Still ask them out, straight, no bullshit. No "do you want to", ask for what you want, which is a date.
>>710382998
Yea, you are probably right....
Still though, she does seem to be a strange one
Bump.
Not single but if me and my girlfriends dad keep butting heads the way we are its gonna end soon.
>>710369229
Never had a relationship, had sex like maybe 5 times tops. Haven't had sex for more than 10 years. I'ts too late foe me, too embarrassing. Planning to disregard females and acquire currency for the rest of my lonely life.
I'm 29
>>710384850
I have nine years then
bump
Because being an alpha in his 20s puts me on some kind of a hit list rather than a list that women collectively use to find dates from.
That, and she's British. Which I can just do better.
Relationships are restricting. I'm 24 I want to have sex with as many people say possible before I settle down.
I'm ugly. thats why
>>710369462
^^^this
>>710369229
Because the cute girl at university is as shy in front of me as I am in front of her. Ironically we are both really outgoing in presence of other people.
>>710369462
Similar here, except i'm not good looking, average at best.
>>710387859
She's not being shy, she's expecting you to take the wheel, breh.
>>710369229
the boy in the picture is seriously vaping and the girl has dyed her hair so you better not complain that we've never had a gf
bump
>>710387982
Problem is I am as shy as she is which is unusual for me since I never was shy especially not in front of cute girls. People told me she neither is but in front of me she acts shy af. Lets hope she actually wants something and not that she simply isnt interested because she really is my type.
>only am working part time
>don't have a drivers licance, will have it by end of next month
>I don't get out much
>I'd rather play magic at my local card shop then go to some hangout
>mostly I'm just not trying to find someone
There are no people who like traps here.
Best shot that I have at finding someone is looking for a transman or something.
being single is much better.
problem is, most people just can't be single. i feel sorry for them.
>>710390618
u cant get any and trying to psychologically defend yourself
>>710381854
wow. what you describe is EXACTLY how i am experiencing life too.
someone please, how do we cure our lack of falling in love?
>Every girl I have ever met or had a connection with lives over a thousand miles away
>Apart from this place; I have no social life
>Not sure if girls are nice to me because of social pressure or because they genuinely think I'm okay, so I'm reluctant to ask any of them out
>Also, can't really imagine starting a relationship with any of the girls I meet
>I want a gf who speaks English, but can't find any whose English isn't broken or with an accent that makes me cringe so hard I get Bertref.
>Can't really pretend to be from any English-speaking country on account of my ID-card and family.
>>710372608
She is beautifull anon
>>710390911
That's a question for a shrink rather than anyone roaming these halls of decrepit emotion.
Hard to get back from having given up.
Something major is going to have to happen in your life, and let's face it: These things rarely happen outside of movies or fairy-tales.
