im feeling lonely, console me.
girlfriend of 2 years left me 2 weeks ago.
feels thread
i'm prescribing you some dank memes
Post nudes
>>709941265
thank you
>>709940962
Delete everything. Her phonenumber, facebook etc. Because you need to forget
>>709941407
care too much
>>709941534
i dont know if i can.
>>709941617
Thats not an option. You have to. The sooner you do it the faster the healing starts.
go workout you fat piece of shit
>>709940962
Bro, there's 7 billion people on the planet. As much of a clitche it is to say "more fish in the sea" it's true.
>>709941846
just did it. thank you
>tfw check email and she writes to you after like 3 years
What is this feel?
>>709942210
Is this something good?
>>709942394
I dont even know. We both fucked up. I really miss her but I moved out of town anyway.
How do I into this feel?
>>709942601
very carefully
>>709942126
Nice. Now you need something to inprove. Do you work out?
>>709940962
Fötus
>>709942601
What did she wright?
>>709942126
I had to do that too, it's the best advice ever. That was what really helped me deal with the situation... that and talking to other girls. I still talk to her sometimes if I really have too, but no facebook or instagram. It just ruins your life
>>709942126
Good job. Trust me when I say you're doign yourself a huge favor. It's takes a man with strength to move on.
For one, I prescribe some good vidya, if possible. Something to get lost in. Maybe start watching a tv show or something? Anything that you can get immerse yourself in for long periods of time.
>>709942126
OP, how does it feel to never see her smile again? Hear her laugh? Smell her hair as she gives you a hug?
How does it make you feel that soon, some man with a bigger cock is going to be fucking the tight pussy of your girlfriends, and she is going to be happy she left you for a real man?
>>709942809
yea i do hema twice a week, im in shape. Ive just made some shitty mistakes.
>>709942991
Ill take that to heart, avoid her.
>>709943032
hema and a few games should keep me occupied. thank you.
>>709943055
see my friend, thats what hurts the most.
>>709940962
I know that feel bro. My wife left me 2 months ago. We have been together for almost 7 years and married for 2. The hardest part about it is sleeping alone and wondering how she's doing and if she has already moved on yet. I try to stay positive. I try to sleep. I remind myself every day that I have good friends there for me. Taking things one day at a time really helps. Trying to do stuff that makes YOU happy is the best medicine. I'm still in the healing process. Never forget that you aren't alone and that we stay strong because we help each other out
>>709943497
you should kys, it won't hurt anymore!
>>709941617
>>709941617
>>709941617
Here's the deal.
You keep all that shit, her number, pics fb whatever and start to dwell on it. Hard. Every thought about her moving on or her being happy without you is killed by anticipation of the next.... Until you're a shallow alcoholic husk of a man.
Or you can delete everything, hit the gym 6 days a week and find a better woman who deserves your faggotry.
Your move
>>709941617
Anon wasn't asking. You need to do this. At least temporarily.
>>709943626
i choose the gym
>early 20's
>dead end town
>friends all moved away and on to other shit
>became very introverted
>lost everyone
>now completely alone
>broke as fuck
>barely been looking for jobs because I've been so fucking depressed
I don't know guys. It's so hard to pull yourself out of this hole with nobody there for you.
>>709940962
I've told you before;
time!
> have a nice day.
>>709944050
No body there for you? Piss off m9.
The word deserves is a human invention. Do it for yourself, then you'll see those snakes and even some new ones come into your life. But don't trust them kek.
>>709943568
>>709943568
Shit. Married? My gf was 6 yrs and she turned into a child. Never married thank fuck. What happened?
>>709944050
Get ready for the usual advice from anons
>lift
>vidya
>hobbies
>>709940962
Advice in this thread is actually good. You should remove her, and any contact you have with her. 2 reasons. 1, You need to move on, you will be too tempted to check in on her. 2, she WILL check your Facebook and Insta. She will wonder why you removed her, and she will start to think you don't care about her anymore. The longer she is in the dark with her thoughts, the better. But not you. You're going to be strong and resist thinking about that shit. And when she eventually texts you, be it weeks or years. Always answer with, "Who is this?", she knows you deleted her number. It'll eat her up thinking about it.
>>709943626
Shit, /b/ gave someone good advice
>You aren't supposed to do that
Guys I know this sounds fucking stupid and isn't a real problem but I just need advice I started talking this girl a while ago and we became great friends and she always tells me I'm super attractive and my body is one of she's ever seen but she still won't get with me Ik I'm not in the friendzone because she said she would hookup with me but always work out all the time but she's the only girl to ever show even the least amount of interest in me
I'm also in the same boat OP. Not two years though. She didn't leave me either, but she induced me to break up with her.
Honestly, forgetting her is really good advice. But if that doesn't work, I have a another way to deal with this. I like being stoic (I know, it's cliche af. But hey, it works).
I mentally revisit every moment of the relationship. I look at my pics with her. I try to remember all the good times I had with her, her laugh, her smell, her cuteness, everything. I remember declaring myself to her, and how she was about to do the same. I remember clicking instantly. I still have so many pics of her that I stumble upon when browsing though my gallery.
I then think of how she's probably moved on already and most likely with some other dude. I then think about all the pain she caused me. The lying, the hypocrisy, and double-standards. I look at her flaws and how superficial she actually is, but how she was so charming that I pursued her. Her flawed personality wasn't enough to push me away.
Then, I put that shit in a scope. I force myself to realize how fucking trivial it all actually is. I have no financial ties with her, no kids, no real connections now. All I have is memories, and small consequences of spending time with her when I could have done cooler shit (lik getting diamond in League). I realize that that pain she caused me is on me, only I am feeling it. I am forcing myself to feel it, so I can now for a fact that I can force myself to not feel it. I listen to the music we both enjoyed, the series we both watched, etc. and I take it back. I make it mine again.
I force myself to be reaction less every time I remember her. I don't forget her, I force myself not to care.
Way more efficient if you ask me.
>>709944640
It's just the universe repeating itself. I asked the same question you did on here 8 years ago. My response was that I didn't know if I could. I listened to anon.
fuck this thread is gay.
Something similar happened to me recently OP. Not two years, not four, but almost six. I was going to propose next week on the vacation that we were going to take. She moved out a little over a week ago. Shit fucking sucks man. I haven't ever lived alone, I left my parents' house and she moved in too. Four years ago.
Just hope you can get over it, I hope I can. I still have the ring too.
>>709944507
We moved across country to start a new life together. She's an accountant, she got a killer job offer. I chose to leave my job, friends and family. We got married right before we left. I kinda went down hill after we moved. I'm a greenhouse major. So what jobs I could find didn't pay much. (9-11$/hr). She wanted to travel. I couldn't afford it with the mortgage and all.(I still had to pay half a month, which killed me). Then this guy named Mariano came along...he makes good money, but most of all he travels for a living. Every year he goes to 3-4 new places and she started having feelings for him. For 3 months she would leave at 8pm or so and turn her phone off and come back at 2am on a work night. She told me she had feelings and that they didn't do anything ( which I do believe since I trust her) She told me he was independent and that he was going somewhere and I wasnt. She asked me to leave 2 weeks later. Now here I am. She confessed her feelings with this man and he rejected her. She wanted me to come back but I told her no. We still talk almost daily. The anxiety gets to me. But most off is the uncertainty of what will happen.
>>709940962
You have about 6months to `1 year of heartbreak and feels ahead of you boy. Enjoy it
>>709945404
>>>/f/uck
>>>/y/oure
>>>/e/dgy
>>709940962
The trick in getting over your break-up is, to be blunt, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stop being so inwardly focused and look outside yourself for once. That's it! It's that simple.
>>709945755
Don't take her back. She took you for granted. Fuck that bitch.
>>709945755
I know the feels man, long ass story but started an online relationship with a lady in a different country turns out she had an uber abusive husband and was cucking me online. tried to move overseas, she left him and lived w/ me lasted all about 1 month before i got really sick with pnuemonia and not taking care of myself. She left me while i was strapped to breathing tubes in the hospital with nothing. I had to stay in a shelter over christmas because i was in hospital and couldn't pay rent for lack of working.
Mfw i work an immigrant level job for 7$ an hour, walk 3miles a day w/ damaged lungs just to scrape the money together to afford a plane ticket back to my country, and a week after i get back she messages me and tells me she made a huge mistake and wants me back
>>709946072
I know, I really should just move on. Everybody tells me the same thing. I still can't get over her though. She's all I have ever known. We met when we were 18. I have only dated a few times before. And now it's like I just woke up 25 and now I have to try to piece my life back together. The biggest thing I fear is being alone. That's one of the main reasons I still talk to her.
>>709946397
Bro, there's a limit. I can't even feel bad for you. Why did you leave your country for someone you met online? Do you even have a place to go back to now?
>>709946902
Its a very long and complicated story, and yeah i am living with my gf of 7 months now, nice paying job etc.
When all this happened i was at a bad place in my life, 240 lb's (180 now) depressed lonely, and i met this woman and even though she cucked me and treated me like shit it took all of my loneliness away and i think she really cared about me in her own way. So i took the plunge stayed with her for 6months online listened all of her issues and then threw everything away and hopped country to live with her, i took care of her kids got lease on an apartment tried to do everything i could for us to make a life together, but it wasn't enough. Its hard to get started in a foreign place and ultimately i got fucked hard left with absolutely nothing miserable. The worst night of my life is when im laying on the floor in some church with no where to go on Christmas eve its cold as fuck its dark and this shitty pentatonix christmas mashup song is playing all night off the church speakers.
I don't regret anything though, this changed me made me stop being a beta doormat and take control of my life i even got to travel across the world, and fuck some dudes wife until yeah the obvious happened.
>>709946397
Shit, that's does sound familiar. I feel you man. I hope things have gotten maybe a little better since then? I hope you stay strong though it. I know Shit jobs as well. While I was going to college I started at the bottom working in a tomato field pounding stakes and tresseseling and harvesting thousands of tomato for 8 bucks an hour. Shit sucked. But I eventually got my degree and worked my way to a greenhouse tech and things got better
>>709946824
The reason she took you for granted is because you fear being alone. I'm not even a Redpilled, but that's basic psychology. She knows she's all you have. Prove her wrong, show her you have yourself and that's all u need.
>>709944527
>implying it's bad
>>709947729
Its all good now man, the whole experience changed me for the better i think. Only struggle i have is trusting again, lots of trust issues i think i project onto my current relationship because of this previous experience.
But yeah, shit jobs man they suck.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L1nQpoAvTSg
my dump is done
I had a girl I was with for 11 years leaves me probably 3 years ago. I haven't talked to her since. I'm extremely lonely all the time and I don't really see it getting better. I'm constantly trying to not be a pile of shit, but I'm always depressed. I probably think about killing myself three or four times a day. Every action I take, everything I say fills me with dread and anxiety. I hate myself more and more.
>>709947747
This you kinda nailed it on the head. She does know that. She even tells me that. "You need to do 'you'" "If you want to be with me you need to find happiness in you." I try but I don't know what to do with myself anymore. I worry about what she is doing more than anything else. I realize now that I forgot how to function on my own. I really do miss her. And she says she loves me. It's a battle with emotions and feelings at this point. I know this is getting deep and I sound lame af right now. So thanks for hearing me out.
>>709940962
Heres the cold truth op. People will say delete this and that, theres plenty of girls out there blah blah...if you really loved her and she was the love of your life your fucked. Me and my ex split 3 years ago and many girls later shes all ai think about. Weve had zero contact and I dont even have a single picture of her it doesnt matter. My career has takin off i bought a house with my gf of 2 years and i go to bed every night wishing she was my ex. Love is love..and you cant stop it.
>>709948764
I feel you. I think the key to it is to not dwell on it. It will be hard and you will feel like shit. But you need to try to pick yourself up, take things day by day, do things that make you happy. It will take some time but making yourself better and being happy makes people notice. They can sense that shit. Trust me, being sad only attracts more sadness. It pushes people away. Once you learn to be happy with yourself people will find you. Do you fish? Try doing things you like. Maybe go for a walk for awhile. Think about yourself now. You are doing this for you
>>709949179
Everything is my life is good. But since that breakup i think of suicide 3 to 6 times a day..i lay on tbe couch for hours wondering if she even thinks about me anymore...its rough
>>709945755
You're going to break, do it and get it over with. Submit and forget, my friend, it's the real man's way. Also checked.
>>709949544
Trust me, I've been trying. But then I can't seem to shake the overwhelming sadness. Every once in a while I'm able to shake it for part of a day, but eventually I'll go out, talk to friends and everything I've done makes me want to shoot myself. I don't see anything worth shooting for anymore. It basically feels like I'm waiting to die. I had another girl I was seeing I liked alot, but she went fuckin insane, so I haven't really felt the need to do that shit again. I'm just getting angry, sad and bitter.
>>709949176
>>709949179
It's fucked up but true. It doesn't take much to fuck you up too.
I cut off all contact with my ex who I was dating for almost 2 years, a few months ago.
Her parents didn't like me and her entire family was asian.
She was trying to text me several times saying she was still praying for me but it hurt too much. I never responded and eventually blocked her number.
I still think of her pretty much every other second of the day. I miss the idea of having her as goal. (I was working to move closer to her but there was a lot of stuff going on between our families that prevented me from doing a lot of shit).
We were theoretically perfect together but her parents wouldn't let us be together and she wasn't strong enough to tell them to fuck off.
She eventually told me about some other guy she met through their church and it broke me. She tried to pretend we could still be friends but my /b/rothers I've been stupid, but never that stupid I have way more self respect than that.
She was a lot of my firsts (first sexual experience, etc) and I don't know how to shake it.
I've since gone back to the gym and have been losing a lot of weight that I gained while dating her and eating good food again. I just miss her so much. I don't even know how to shake it, but from what I've been told it stays. And I don't know how I'm going to deal with that.
>>709950070
I feel you man. It def stay and it sucks. it like ill live the rest of my life half empty...somethings always missing.
Hail the queen <3
Gayyyyyyyyyyy
>>709941569
why? she'll be or probably already is, letting random penises in her vagina.
Stop sulking and slut shame the shank
every night i speak to some sort of divine power or devil and ask him to make me normal in the hope i could finally feel like a regular human and not a disgusting piece of shit, but in reality every time i do its false hope which hinders any progression i try to make towards being normal, i know this every time i do it yet will do it every night without fail
>>709950380
Yeah man, worse yet I've been having dreams with her in it. Kinda varies from nightmares where she hates me or to where we're together again.
I'm fighting through it but it's so fucking hard to do.
I just keep telling myself that she doesn't love me, she never did and she never will. She doesn't miss me at all too I know that (she's already dating this other guy and I know within their culture that's pretty much her marriage right there; they'll probably be married within the next year because of her social expectations).
I fancied going to a dating website a few weeks ago but I couldn't do it. I don't even know when I'm going to get back out there. I have nothing to work towards anymore.
>>709950722
Ah man I can relate to this too hard. Worse is that I could have won her back about a week after we broke up but I did something really fucking stupid that I couldn't recover from.
2 years now and I still dream about her. I know she just thinks I'm crazy now. I used to be so happy all the time but now I just have no desire to do anything.
>>709950680
no divine power is going to fix that shit. just put forth the effort and believe in yourself. you can do it man
>>709950070
This is the hard part man, it gets better. 2 months in comparison to 2 years relationship time is nothing. Your brain is rewireing itself, and its a long and grueling process but you will get there you will get to the point where you can wakeup, she might cross your mind briefly but you don't even give a fuck anymore, or feel anything significant.
Took me about a year in all, the pain started to get less and less and eventually just went away your on the hard leg of the whole thing so stay strong dude, get the motivation to fuck some tinder bitches.
>>709950031
Nothings worse than not breathing man. Things played out this way for a reason. You need to push yourself to be motivated by something else. Your mind is messing with you at this point. You need a vacation or plan a trip. Once you get out there you will start to see that things in life are so much bigger than lost love. You need to find happiness in yourself. It will NOT be easy at first but it will come if you put time into it.
>>709951061
Always that regret.
I think I had the chance to but she was so cryptic with all of her shit. Eventually I think she just weighed the pros and cons and realized she didn't love me enough to put up with our kinda-sorta warring families (my mom's white and she's super racist and said a bunch of fucked up shit about her and her family which scared her off).
I know I've pretty much destroyed any chances that I may have had with her by cutting off contact but I don't think she'd be down with getting back with me just cause of all the pressure her family was giving her.
Bunch of racist fuckers I tell you what, people are always bitching about white people being racist when really the Asians are pretty much the worst when it comes to racism.
I met her parents earlier this year and the first thing they did was ostracize her for dating me (or at least that's what she was telling me...).
This other guy was also in one of her church groups and the fact that they're together now makes me wonder how long she'd been thinking about this shit.
I didn't even get a second chance after our "break" that she knew I was working towards fixing us with.
It would have happened eventually and I knew her parents weren't down but I believed her when she told me they were progressive and that she'd always love me no matter what.
>>709950722
Don't force rebounds bro, wallow and get it out of your system, unless its a random hookup your just going to hurt someone else because you will never love them, you can try and you will try but it will never be enough for them and will end badly. Work out your shit before you subject anyone else to that.
There was a girl, lets call her cookie, sweetest most awesome girl i have ever met, who loved me very deeply but i made the mistake of letting it be a rebound thing and i was so caught up in all my past bullshit and ex's that i couldn't ever be a good bf to her an cost myself what could have been an amazing relationship, after all is said and done i think back about cookie and how there was such amazing potential there and how i really fucked up by pushing her away.
Your heart will open up again, give it time.
>>709951257
I've never really been that confident. Which is both the reason why I think we started dating cause I kinda "nice guy'd" the shit out of her her but that's also what broke us too because we had too many arguments based off of both of our insecurities.
I've been running 7 miles every other day and getting my form back in strength training but I've never been that social, so I don't feel like I'll be meeting anyone else anytime soon (I'm 27) and shit just doesn't seem to be getting easier.
Thanks for your encouraging words, I haven't given up yet but you know what its like. You know exactly the type of unshakeable pain this crap brings on and I don't even know what to do with it anymore.
>>709951720
Ah that's rough. When I was with her I think I was too focused on my own career and there were a few times throughout the relationship too where I think I made her feel unwanted (which obviously kills me now).
It's a really weird feeling when you realize you were the one responsible for it all falling apart, which is what I still struggle with. Just one of those things where you want a time machine so you can go back and slap yourself in the head to tell past you how good they have it...
>>709944606
This
>>709952018
Distractions man, running is good. Running will keep you sane but don't leave yourself too much thinking room, find a hobby get really into that hobby. In my case it was gaming, made some really good bro's talked to them everyday.
The pain will always be there but you need it push it aside and move on until its not unbearable anymore, keep holding onto the fact that it will get better. Everyone has different ways of coping just find yours and try and get as much enjoyment out of your day as possible.
>>709940962
Don't sorry buddy being lonely is what u were destined to be.
Just do what every average person does after a break up and go buy cocaine to bring you back up.
>>709945243
Do a 360 and walk away. You need to imprint it on her forehead that she has two choices:
1. Start something serious with you
2. btfo
If you remain status quo, her feelings towards you will never change. You need to man up and get down to business and stop letting her play you like a violin. That's what growing up is all about.
I miss talking to you R, I don't like that all we have become is awkward eye contact when we see each other on campus. I miss hearing your voice. I wish I know I'm not good enough and that's what's killing me inside. I hate myself.
Thank you, /b/
You're all a bunch of retarded cucks, but these threads help keep me sane. Spent many nights clinging to my pillow and spending time with you all. And I love you all for it
>>709952494
Indeed, there was some stuff I could have done to mitigate all the shit that was going down. But my family is pretty shitty towards letting me do whatever I want.
I'm a grown man and it's taken me this long to distance myself from my oppressive mother because she always held the family over my head.
So that's one good thing that came about from this. I just wish it didn't take me losing my ex to get there.
It's filled with a bunch of regret I just wish I knew I did actually have someone else to look forward to but I don't even know if that's true.
>>709940962
What happened op? Couldn't u keep it up or something?
>>709953315
Love you too /b/rother.
>>709940962
>>709953221
Do you want to talk about what happened, Anon? You don't have to, but it can help sometimes. Here's a cute doggo :) I hope you feel better soon.
>>709940962
Dude mine of 3 years left me a week ago
>feelsbadman.jpeg
>>709951681
I always have this feeling that I want to go home, but there's nowhere for me to go.
>>709940962
You'll get over it, eventually. And when you finally do, you'll realize just how much time was wasted sulking over some bitch that obviously didn't love you enough.
>>709953555
hey friendo that's not the complete adonis story
>>709953729
Nothing bad we just drifted apart. One of biggest regrets so far.
guys, I have a problem. I always show my self as over confident and i end up coming off arrogant. I tend to be the smartest person in the room(not even trying to be arrogant or anything, i have a very high iq) but on the inside i feel like im nothing. i always feel like nobody likes me and generally thats true because of how i portray myself. how do i fix this? I just want to have friends again
>>709954281
>>709950070
I wanna be your friend man. I just feel like we are similar.
>>709954240
I'm sorry to hear that, man. Regrets fill all of our lives, but I find it important to learn from them so they don't happen again. I'm not very good at this sort of comforting thing, but if you ever need to vent or feel, just come to these threads, they help me a lot. Here's another doggo :)
>>709954281
Maybe try listening to others more? See where they're coming from, and how they think or feel about something, maybe that will help you interact better. People don't like being one-upped, nor do they like being brushed off or looked down upon. Just try your best to be pleasant to them. I can't offer much help, since I've never been in that situation, but I hope you figure it out, Anon.
>>709954281
you sound exactly like some kid in my calc class.
>>709955216
Im in cal3 with differential equations
>>709955174
thanks man, I know that people dont like to be one upped and i honestly hate it when people do that to me as well, but it's just super hard for me to interact with people.
>>709954281
People don't respect you because your that dick that breaks the unwritten law of our society, no one is equal but you sound like you project your "superiority" over others, even by reading your text i dislike you. Be a genuine guy, quit summing people up the way you do. And above all don't make anyone feel like they are less then you, drop the cocky over confident act and you will be fine.
>>709955574
There you go agian with that shit.
>>709955574
No problem Anon, glad I could help. I also have difficulty interacting with people, more so starting engagements rather than maintaining them, so I feel where you're coming from. Just try to be genuine, and talk about others and take interest in what they do/have done, instead of just talking about yourself, since that may be why you come off as arrogant.
>>709955756
Im honestly in that class though. Im not trying to one up or project anything.
>>709945268
You beautiful bastard.
>>709955068
Lol really? Same thing happen to you?
>>709955574
honestly dude, you sound just like him. listen to what
>>709955174
said, and work on it. keep in mind that being overconfident sounds just as bad as being unconfident. you can do it. keep your goals in sight
>>709956352
dont worry man
>>709955756
is full of shit.
you did nothing wrong in that post
>>709956561
>>709956010
>>709955755
thanks /b/ros.
>>709941617
I know it's hard. I have been in your position. But rest assured, the continued thoughts of her are as much of an addiction as alcoholism or an addiction to cigarettes. It will not end unless you make it end. Remove her completely or she will remain with you forever, and she is clearly not sticking around to please you anymore. You will slowly chip away at your own mental health, until you feel empty.
Other than that, my only advice would be to distract yourself by any means necessary. Vidya, jerk, go outside, go to the gym. Anything. Absolutely anything. Just keep your focus off of her.
>>709956846
No problem, I hope you have a good day tomorrow :)
>>709957034
you too man. :)
hey /b I'm in the same boat tonight seemingly entering depression. My gf of 4 years and I just broke it off about two weeks ago because we thought we needed some alone time. I have no contact with her for about three days and when I finally talk to her she seems like she's already moved on and doesn't even want to try to talk about us. I come to find out she's been hanging out with some fuccboi since the day after we broke up every single day. when I find this out I am dumbfounded, I can't believe she chose move on so quickly and all I can think about is what the hell happened. after about a week I find out she's already fucking this guy and had been since day 2 of our break up. I don't even know what to do right now, she is my longest relationship and honestly the first girl I've ever loved. I don't understand how she could turn around and do something like this and even have the decency to admit to it as if she doesn't care. She is the last person I would ever expect to do something like this since she's always been the innocent, socially awkward kind of girl. This is not the girl I feel in love with, she has completely changed in the span of a week. All she does now is go out and gets drunk and fucks this guy basically every day with no remorse. I don't know what to do, I feel like I've lost my best friend and soul mate.
>>709956352
I was just kiddin m8
Shoulda' put a ring on it, faggot.
Sup /b/, I think that this thread is the right thread to do this.
I going to turn twenty in a few days. I never had a girlfriend before, been rejected more times than I can count. But above all of that. I hate love. I hate the feeling of falling in love. I hate it because I know that in the end I will never reach my end goal. I won't be the happy person that I would like to be. I won't have someone that will love me the same way I love them. I hate that no matter what I do, no matter what I say, no matter all the things I buy. I will never get to be happy. And I hate that feeling.
I always end up with the same story. I do all the things that are supposed to be rights. I make all the right moves. But in the end I am left heart broken, and I have to see her be happy with someone else.
I come to these threads to see if my friend posts. I know he enjoys feels threads so I come here hoping I'll see something vauge to our situation so I can help him. Or just to see if I talks about me. I love him.
>>709958587
I'm sorry man, went through some similar shit. Lots of family problems and shit. She did move on pretty fast from me too.
She's practically dating some guy I knew she was "friending" with but I knew there was some more shit. Long distance relationships suck ass and I lost her cause I couldn't move down to see her fast enough.
Either way I feel for you man. I don't know that there's anything I can say to make you feel any better because there isn't anything anyone can tell me to make me feel better.
Just keep fighting through it.
>>709959752
I thought I found love but she dumped me for someone else man. It doesn't really help cause 9/10 she's not there for you even when she pretends to be.
Hope things get better. I'd an hero myself but I'd leave my family with too much debt and I'm too chicken to but I've got a long life ahead of me. Maybe cancer or something will help me go out without much of a fuss.
I really wouldn't mind that so much right now to be fair.
>>709945644
Holy fuck. It's hard for me to imagine how shitty you must feel. I hope you start feeling better soon m8. Also, care to green-text your story?
>>709949179
I wish this wasn't true, but it is.
>>709959758
I don't know how to man. I don't understand what I did to make her do this after four years of being together or what would make her seemingly give two shits about me or our relationship. She literally didn't even want to try and every time I've talked to her since to plead her to stop this, she treats me like I'm her dad telling her not to do something and does it anyway. I keep telling myself none of this is real because it just seems so impossible yet everyday I come to the reality she is gone and nothing I can seemingly do will bring her back and it's physically killing me...
>>709959973
I would like to an hero myself too. I want this torture to stop. I don't want to see this again. I just want to be happy.
>>709960508
You fucking beta, she never liked you, she was with you only to fill the gap of her social insecurities and lack of validation. She surely has a cock inside of her by now. Learn and grow from this you cuck master.
I hate myself. I feel like I'm trapped inside of myself. I want to scream, I want to run away from everyone. I want to not feel like this anymore. I can't tell if what I'm doing is right, I can't tell if the things I do and say are things. I'm so fuckin sad all the time. So lonely and sad.
Sometimes I feel I should just leave everyone behind. Just leave and go somewhere else. Run away from everyone and everything. My life has no meaning, I have no purpose. I have nothing. Everything has been taken from me. I don't know who I am anymore. I don't like anything about me. I want to quit.
>>709948377
I would defecate on that card
>>709944050
Kill yourself because you cant even help yourself
>>709961636
Go to bed, Aubrey
>>709961623
Who hurt you?
>>709944527
>>> kill yourself
>>709950616
That's not what he needs right now. Take a seat.
>>709961623
I have laid in bed every night thinking this and this is what I fear the most. The thought that I turned down my best friend who had feelings for me at the time and two other girls for her and that all she did was play with my emotions for four years is honestly the coldest most heartless thing anyone could ever do. I sacrificed so much for her for this?
>>709948511
>never stopped playing
Haaaaa my man!!!
>>709962284
If you re considering it, might be true then, I went through a similar path about 5 years ago with my cruel slutty ex, she threatened to go to the cops if I kept harassing her, whilst she had a nigger's dick in her ass.
Aside from the stock advice, no one can tell you what to do, but from experience, you'll come out of this stronger, wiser more mature, suffering creates character, and time heals everything.
Embrace and accept it dude.
>>709940962
Fuck off. You had a girlfriend? Why are you even here. That's like going to Ethiopia complaining about how bad you felt after you lost the leftover to the best meal you ever ate to an emaciated audience. Fuck off...
>>709940962
Haha lucky bastard.
I keep wishing my girlfriend will leave me, women are psychotic. You are free man! Feel peace not lonely.
>>709963339
You clearly never had a girlfriend. Women are manipulative lying cheating controlling bitches. Watch "Feminism Lol" on facebook to really grasp the full picture.
>>709963695
facebook? I'm fucking high or stupid as fuck. I meant youtube. Jesus christ what was in that burger I ate earlier
>>709948511
ouch, that one hurt.
>>709951681
finding happiness within yourself aint always easy anon
>>709963695
No shit. I imagine most of the people here haven't had one. Notice all the I'm a virgin and lonely threads. Fuck off. It's like you're complaining about how bad fast food is to people who eat rats and insects just to survive. None of us care. We'll make the decision after we've experienced it at least once.
>>709951862
>your heart will open up
Im beginning to think mine is like that flower that blooms every hundred years. It aint happening anytime soon and nothing i've tried has gotten it open.
>>709963330
I'm only considering it because I feel like its the only way she could do this but I can't accept it because we were always so happy together. We did everything together and she seemed like she genuinely cared about me. I literally don't understand what happened to her to make her turn to someone else and replace me. Why would someone want to throw away a relationship built upon so much happy time together and start over with someone new you don't even know or trust?
Ya know, /b/, Anons.
I've been alright for a while now, I've not thought about anything really other than my slowly dying mother but she's happy and I love the old cow, happy I can spend my time with her until she passes. I've been active with my friends, I've been enjoying my games, learning shit and doing things, hell I've even got in contact with my old man again and we're getting along.
But shit just hasn't been happy for me these past few months but it just happened to get worse recently. It's stupid honestly, it all happened over a random message a few days from an Ex. Nah see, I'm whiny cunt but I grew up and got past her, sure the memories come around once in a while but they go as well.
Well shit /b/, it was my B-day a few days ago. I thought she forgot about me but still she sent me a cute little drawing she did for me, I'm young but this girl really helped me sort my shit out in simple words. It got to me lads, she's happy with this other guy and doing all this good shit -happened to learn this just to confirm the photo was from her and some prior shit- and then I get this nice shit out the blue.
Remember the good times Anons, shit's difficult but time goes on and all that.
>>709964373
Of course you can't accept it, the event is fresh in your mind, give yourself a couple of months. There are several reasons she might have done it, but, does it really matter right now? Do you really want to hear them? Knowing the true reason will not give you peace.
>>709965181
but how can I move on and be happy with someone else without knowing what I did wrong. I have reluctantly come to accept the fact she doesn't want to be with me anymore after she has repeatedly chosen him over me. My heart is absolutely shattered and I don't want to go through this again with someone else so I want to understand what happened to change and avoid this in my future.
>>709959752
I feel you anon, am 22 and haven't had sex since a drunken new years eve party 4 years ago with some land whale.
Its a very complex sort of feel, the feeling of wanting desperately to have somebody to love and feel for, but at the same time being held back by the bitter taste of experience in your mouth while also at the same time worried you might be pushing away someone who will actually be the one for you.
its weird man, it makes me want to drink so much I just fall asleep and never wake up.
>>709945644
damn dudes
im ~20 days into being single after living with my now ex for like 16 months
what helped me the most was taking benadryl every night to sleep. now 20 days later of remembering how bad she was, and cleaning my place of all her traces i'm feeling a lot better
it's really hard if you still have her shit laying around. have to get it out of sight, out of mind
>>709965620
dont' go changing yourself for hoes and sluts anon. you have to keep doing you. never change just cause some bimbos don't like how you are.
>>709941265
>>709941617
Improve yourself to spite her she gave you up then why should you continue to feel anything for her. I know it fuckn sucks, you cant eat, you cant sleep you feel like a peice of shit. Over time you'll be able to say her name out loud and not feel this way any more. But it takes time. Your not alone /b/rotha im going through the same time. So hang in there. You/we will meet someone else
>>709944606
Damn right /b/rotha
>>709966161
but honestly if it was something about me that was bad enough to drive away the only person I've ever cared about so much and have been with for so long, don't you think I should make a change to better myself?
>>709940962
Same boat, almost 4 weeks ago now GF of 3 years left me.
She left me cause her parents didn't approve. Girl would rather make her parents happy than pursue her own happiness. What fucking kind of fickle person chooses someone elses happiness over their own. What kind of person throws away their best friend like that. What kind of person cuts out their strongest supporter from their life that quick.
Girls parents literally told her 'fuck you and your happiness, you're doing this' and her response wasn't to fight or be like 'naw mom and dad this is what makes me happy' she was just like lol yup ok.
Fuck life man. Fuck people. God isn't real. The world sucks.
>>709966752
Also, she still wants to be friends but I don't know if I can bring myself to watch her be with someone else and I don't understand how she could even want me to watch that. what do you think /b
>>709945755
Never take her back she's a dumb bitch and you honestly deserve someone who would never throw away 6 years of a relationship like that
>>709967026
You didn't make her happy. You sound like a selfish prick.
Maybe this will cheer you up.
https://youtu.be/fYzbvpwHprs
https://youtu.be/8m7Z4AVWja4
>>709967482
t. anon's gf's parents
How do i cure my oneitis? I literally can not stop obsessing over a girl. I can never speak around her, I've never had a conversation with her, and I have not been able to stop thinking about her.
>inb4 "Just talk to her"
I don't want to sperg out in front of her
>>709967056
>she still wants to be friends
fuck that, she's already made it clear she doesn't give a damn about you. so you should respond in kind and not give a damn about her.
she doesn't want to be friends, she just wants you as potential backup/resource to use.
>>709967977
lol ok dude. She left you because you're clearly a self centered piece of shit
>>709968027
go fuck a prostitute ffs
you're only screwing yourself over by letting your unreciprocated desires control you
>>709967482
Honest to god man. Every one of this girls 'friends' I've met use her in some way shape or form. They ditch her at the drop of a hat. I was one of maybe 2-3 people in her life that actually gave a shit about her. No bullshit. I've been with her long enough to see her friends dumb ping-pong manipulative behaviour and I've seen her brought to tears because of it.
Shits dumb man. I'm so frustrated and flustered. I've tried texting her but she just ignores me now. Probably just trying to distance herself from me and forget/move on but even that I just can't believe/understand.
How the fuck can you ignore me. I don't deserve even a reply? I'd rather her text me saying 'fuck off don't talk to me ever again' than to just get nothing back.
Crazy how girls can switch from someone who supposedly loves you to the moon and back to something colder than an ice wall.
FUCK.
>>709968307
That's not me.
>>709968564
This is me.
And she didn't. Her family is religious - I am not. I support her religion and her culture - they don't like outsiders. She left because her parents told her she had no future with me so she gave up on us.
Literally - that's what happened.
I've always wondered why people think I'm good. I've never been talented and I've always be afraid to show my work to people yet everyone says "i'm good" even though most of them have never seen a single thing of what I've done (not that I want them too).
I feel pressured because everyone treats me like I'm worth something but deep inside I know i'm just really fucked up and I want to just end things, but I'm too much of a coward to do it.
Still, if I'm going to stay alive for a little longer, I just hope to be as good as people want me to be.
>>709945261
I did this as well. Good advice
>>709941569
>>709940962
Give me your nudes faggot.
>>709940962
>Meet up with girl my friends say is into me
>we go to a bar even though she doesn't drink
>encourages me to drink
>she wants to see me drunk? I dont know
>get shitfaced
>im a happy drunk, albeit a little emotional
>ive been known to say some weird shit
>she ends up leaving around 10:00 after being there a few hours
>tells me bye but im drunk so dont think to walk her to her car
>text her a couple times that night once i started sobering up
>nothing crazy, just how i was a little embarassed
>doesnt text back
>text her again this morning about something unrelated. Im really just fishing to see if she'll respond
>she doesnt
So yea, i dont know what i did wrong. I originally wasnt going to drink, but she wanted me to for some reason. She even talked this guy into buying me another drink because i wasnt going to. I warned her that i get weird but she said it was okay. Ive felt like an asshole all day because i feel as if i said something that was really strange or something that hurt her feelings. There was a drunk marine telling me to go and fuck her in the pussy (his words), but i remember saying no repeatedly and maybe saying okay so he would leave me alone. I dont even think she heard that, but i dont know. I havent had a girlfriend in a long time so im not really that great in these situations and the fact that she wont text back sucks. It may be nothing but im disappointed in myself to be honest. I have class with her tomorrow so if she doesnt sit beside me, i must have fucked up.
>>709968760
See, it's just funny that >>709968564 sounds more like you, because of the whole "I'm awesome and she totally left me because parents are just retarded" vibe.
It doesn't matter who's who. It doesn't even matter why she left. She's gone. Odds SIGNIFICANTLY indicate she isn't coming back. Find a hobby. Find yourself. Find what YOU REALLY want.
Then find a woman.
>>709968307
>he thought I was the other anon
Tel us more about people you don't even know, edgy little faggot.
>be me
>be 17
>12 year old brother still sleeps in my bed because hes too much of a pussy to sleep alone
>wake up in the morning, go to school, normal day.
>stalk 4chan after school like a betafag
>too tired to do anything
>listen to earl sweatshirt
>get yelled at by parents
>at this point i just take it like a bitch
>do homework
>take a shower
>get dressed
>get into bed
>"hey bro can i sleep with you?"
>say no
>brother turns passive aggressivw.
>mom makes me
>mom you're turning him into a pussy
>stalk 4chan more
>realize how lonely i am
>cry myself to sleep
That's been my day for the past 2 years
I want to fucking die
>>709943055
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OLpeX4RRo28
>>709970356
Why don't you beat the shit out of him? That's what we did to weird little brothers 10 years ago...jesus fucking Christ...grow a pair and do your pussy brother a favor
>>709970356
I feel you man. You have to get friends and not just sit in front of the computer all of the time. Trust me, the loneliness will eat you up inside. I know that's easier said than done, but you can do it!
>>709970659
If i could i would
He'd just bitch and then i'd get kicked out
I can't risk it
But boy do i want to
Im not fat by any means
But hes a total fucking hamplanet. He takes up 3/4ths of it and its a queen sized.
Fuck my life
>>709970915
YOURE FUCKING
you got me.
Congrats.
>>709971030
Jesus dude i'm sorry
Honestly this has been a shit fucking week the girl im talking to sends me a picture of her in her underwear and I've been trying to get at her for a while now and I was happy but my "friend" started texting her and she snapchatted with him too and responded at the same time as me anyways this dickhead shows me the picture and she's responding with cleavage pictures and I know that she isn't my girlfriend but I am mad at my friend and her. I'm really sad at the moment because I was going to hang out with on Halloween and I've been sad this whole week and he knows I haven't been happy so he screenshots one of my snaps and starts "roasting" me so I just decide to block him on everything, I've know this kid for 4 years and he pulls this shit because of a girl he met like a week ago. Honestly I feel like shit that he would just become a dickhead over a girl. Did I do the right thing? Or am i overreacting because he's done this before.
>>709971351
Fam, that fucker aint your friend, you better cut of ties with both him and the thot you were texting, you're better off that way.
I know that feel. Just don't do what I did and have relapses where you look at her facebook and or drunk message her. It's been two months and it really sunk in recently that she's moved on and I haven't. I have made a list of things to do to get my life back for the next two weeks and so far I'm following without resorting to going back to drinking myself to death and crying like a bitch. It's hard man. Stay strong.
>>709971528
I didn't even do anything to him and he does shit like this, what sucks is that he hangs with my other friends so I have to pretend he isn't there and it's going to be hard.
>>709970757
Yeah i'll try to turn shit around some time
Thanks for the advice anon
I hate being alone. But I do it to myself and I shouldn't be sad. I'm just good at drinking myself single.
>>709971914
Yea man. Keep your head up and with a little work you can start to turn things around.
>senior year in high school
>meet the love of my life
>dating someone else, become friends
>they eventually break up, we date for three months
>lose virginity to each other
>buy her a prom dress
>best four months of my life
>her ex and her stay friends, gets me jealous
>i give her an ultimatum and she refuses
>break up
>everyone tells me shes a mess and cant stop crying in class
>dont care, thinking of her sends me into rage
>tell her to return the dress
>date the girl she hates, take her to prom instead
>fuck her in a closet, everyone in school finds out including her
>start cheating on gf w her
>mentally exhaust both chicks, lose both
>i get deep into drugs and forget about her
>year later, mom tells me someone passed by with a dark red box
>i open it, its a box of notes between her and i in class and a diary
>diary is massively depressing, sends me into deep guilt and self loathing
>looks like she planned to make sure i'd never be able to live it down
>last entry says i'm the love of her life but shes finally over me
>lost the love of my life over high school drama and drugs
>proceed to get fucked up everyday, almost overdose on rolls
>meanwhile she gets knocked up by some ugly ass guy she doesnt like
>keeps the baby, cant finish school, gets dead end job
>guy leaves her
>single mother of one
>she hits me up on twitter and we start talking again
>i'm now in long term relationship and with a good job but idgaf shes the one
>we start sexting for two days nonstop
>gets cold feet because she can't start loving me the way she did before and i'm in a relationship
>one month later, she finally finds a decent guy who looks like ten times the man i am
>dies in an drinking accident
>postmortem everyone finds out he was going to propose to her
>she goes mentally unstable
>mfw the love of my life is completely ruined and will likely never have a real relationship again
I got out this weekend after nearly 3 weeks in isolation. My friends are awesome and it was an okay time. I thought being around people would help and id get home and be motivated to move on with my life... but im not. I dont know what to do.
Ive tied a noose and have it hanging but im too much of a pussy to do it and im even more of a pussy cause i dont do nothing but sit around and feel bad. why the fuck am i like this. i just wanna die.
>>709967026
>fuck life man
Yeah i guess
>fuck people
People can be dicks sometimes
>god isn't real
Excuse me but reddit is that way.
Im not even religious but wtf did that have to do with anything
>>709972477
dude you need professional help. stop feeling bad and go get help and fucking help yourself. fuck
One of the worst feelings is knowing you fucked up and there's nothing you can do to go back... I miss her so fucking much.
>>709972618
Easier said than done but you are right
I just feel like there is a target on my back as of late
>>709945268
You're welcome btw faggot, I'm glad it worked out for you.
Daniel???
Honestly in a similar situation as a lot of the /b/rothers in this thread, and I gotta admit it's helped me put things into perspective, like I actually am confident that I'll get better. It's fucked but I think /b/ just pulled me out of the gutter.
>>709974356
yeah this is a good thread. I actually find some of the best advice/inspiration from threads like these. Only place I can find stuff like this.
Thanks for the advice above anons. I'm going through my own stuff right now, but it's helping me feel better about myself.
>>709974724
Cuz we actually understand what it's like to be like you. And you all understand what it's like to be like me.
>>709971351
Fight him, and get it over with, or find a creative way to fuck him over. Choose one faggot, and stick with it.
>>709959752
What day in November?
You need b0ss
>>709970356
kek
>>709970757
this is great, the support anons get from other anons amongst shiity 'kys faggot' is a nice breath of fresh air
