Do we have some experts on female psychology here?
I got proof my girlfriend went out with this other dude once a few days ago, she's been insensitive and very selfish, she said something very hurtful and vitriolic during an argument yesterday and i guess it was the tipping point, i don't want someone genuinely evil who'll treat me like shit. I just called her over to pick up her stuff and told her to give me a few days to think about us. She was visibly distraught and wouldn't leave untill i tell her what this is all about but i didnt budge and she left.
Basically i'm tired of this shit and i want to come out on top from all of this, it's clear to me i gotta break up with her but she's been pestering me with messages asking what's wrong and i really, really don't want to cave just cause she's young and hot and does anal (pretty much the only upsides to our 6month relationship).
How do i keep being ahead here? I feel like i'm under assault and i know there's no way i'll win with words, if i open my mouth she'll find a way to twist it and i'll lose. So far she's acting oblivious and angelic, i just want her to fuck off and maybe realize she's been a total cunt to me, possibly even a cheating one, and i don't want her to make me feel bad anymore. What do i do?
>>708750664
Your dating a teanager expecting a serious relationship.
top kek.
If your guts giving you a bad feeling i would look into it.
if shes cheating get a last fuck then dump her
Keep doing what you're doing. Ignore her and erase her from your life. She will eventually disappear. You're welcome.
>>708751109
she's 22, i'm 26, while she does act very immature i think, i actually tried, falling for the move-in-get-married-have-kids meme, thinkin she'd be good for it. I feel like i'm under fuckin assault and anything i say can and will be used against me, i just want her away without any more emotional bullshit.
>>708750664
'Went out' as in?
>>708750664
Pic related?
>>708750664
Best way to do this is say "I don't like the way you talk to me or that you hide that you go out with other guys from me. I want to break up." and then you should be able to defend your claim with actual evidence.
>>708751379
>all you do is criticize me, anon, and i'm really sick of it!
>you're always unhappy with something about me!
>I don't need to hear you complaining about how i talk or treat you! All it does is push me further away!
>I just went out for a drink because he wanted to write an article about me on his blog!
>*insert random female bullshit twist where she just shakes off any responsibility*
you didn't say how things were after out wuth the guy,was she distant or came home wanting your attention? if she keeps asking 'why?' then just spit it out for her, yr;; het been a little bitch. you said insenative and selfish? if she comes over get mad and spank her like a little girl, you're the man of the house so act like it or you don't deserve a hot g/f. somewere along the way, tell her she's hot but FAR from irreplaceable. either she'll respect you work harder at the relationship or you get the satisfaction of 'showing the bitch'
Since we got female psychology experts here, I'll ask my question.
A girl that turned me down but wanted to stay friends wanted to clean my room. It's a full weeb/nerd room. She knew that so it wasn't a surprise. My room was such a fucking mess it took 2 days to clean.
She found my old waifu pillow case and wanted it, so I gave it to her. Told her she probably needed to wash it. Found out she plans to stuff it and sleep with it. Went over her house the next day and there it was, washed and neatly folded on her nightstand.
Two questions: Why would she want to clean my room? Also, why the hell did she want my old daki? Grills are weird man.
>>708751572
she was all lovey dovey like she felt remorse for lying. It was only about an hour and a half after her leaving work and then meeting me. But i want to nip it in the bud.
If i call her out on her bullshit she will just expertly dodge that shit like you wouldnt believe. it's not the first time i try to bring to her attention that she's insensitive or bitchy. I'm just not equipped to deal with this millenal-like bullshit and female reasoning.
>>708751516
If your point are valid then just ignore however she twists it.
You don't even need to respond to most of it.
Agree to meet somewhere (so that you have a place to leave from) and after she has finished ranting say "I don't like this relationship. Goodbye." and then just leave. Walk to your car and drive away.
it's not weird, she see you as a brother or another girl and wants you as friend, but also....think about this.....if she cuddles with YOUR pillow eventually she's going to wish it was another guy she was holding. =/
>>708751736
I'll ask again. What do you mean by 'went out'.
>>708751736
then don't play HER game play yours.i'll assume your bigger and stronger. i'm not ALL saying abuse or beat her but....spank her like a fucking girl, she wants to act like one, treat her like one. it's YOUR house and YOUR rules.she sounds manipulative as fuck, again fon't play her game play yours
>>708751849
she told me she has this private event to go to after work one evening and it's work colleagues only. turns out this dude asked her out to some fancy opera he had tickets to, so she lied to me and they met up, she came to my place afterwards, it all lasted for an hour or two.
it's this sleazy older photographer/blogger guy she met at a public speaking event she went to a few weeks back and i guess they kept chatting. i don't even give a fuck, i don't know why she felt the need to lie to me but there you go, the relationship is fucked, i'm not emotionally invested anymore and i just want a smooth exit plan. but i know for a fucking fact she wont let it happen, she's too vitriolic and bitchy. i don't even want to tell her i know, if i do she'll play it off.
>>708751834
She has a younger brother though that she's always around, except when she's with me.
It's still my old daki. Like I came on that thing a bunch of times.
>>708751736
her being all lovey dovey is a good sign and prolly didn't fuck the guy but the lying is a warning sign....you should definatly nip it in the bud because people naturally push the limits. especially women and you saif she's hot so she's prolly been pandered to her whole life. show her a diffrent side of real life and she'll respect you for it
>>708752129
>sleazy older photographer
If it's this guy, then she's probably already eaten his ass
>>708752187
she friendzoned you dude...is there a question or you just think it's weird she wanted your 'fancy' cum rag?
>>708752129
look at you playing the badass, in the end you were a snooping little beta and looked through her phone. Well, guess what? After you invade someone's privacy like that you cant take the moral high ground. You violated her trust as much as she violated her.
If I had to bet I would say the grand total time you have probably spent snooping on her exceeds however long she was getting railed at that guy's apartment.
>>708752620
>bait
tell her its over, and thats it. there is no need to explain shit, she will understand it after a while
>btw opera was cool, she is nice, but yeah i agree about the bitchyness
>>708751638
>She found my old waifu pillow case and wanted it, so I gave it to her. Told her she probably needed to wash it. Found out she plans to stuff it and sleep with it. Went over her house the next day and there it was, washed and neatly folded on her nightstand.
is she aware of what a dakimura is
because it appears she's naive as fuck, and you're reading too much into it
>>708750664
wtf is the question her? How do i break up?
Stoop talkin to her. U want to have a last word? Cheat on her and fast
>>708752014
I gotta agree with this anon apart from the spanking thing, that's just stupid. You are in control, act like it. Reestablish the rules and boundaries to your own liking whether she likes it or not. It's not optional, it's not a "discussion" between you and her. You've got some new rules and that's all there is to it. Don't be mad, don't be angry, don't be anxious or tense. That's for HER to experience, not you. Don't say anything like "if you don't like it you can leave". Your conversation will infer that anyway. She will piss and moan and drop every manipulation that she's learned in life because she WON'T like it - because you are taking control. What is she going to do? Leave? Either she grows up quickly or she leaves you, you don't need to leave her. Make her do that. That is a win-win situation for you (and those only come around when you reach the point of no-fucks-given). Either way you win anon.
>>708752620
skankhunter?
>>708752785
I would think so, since she's seen mine out and knows it's a body pillow.
>>708752940
no im talking about the idea of a dakimukura as a cheap, physical waifu presence and not just a pillow with an anime character on it.
do either of your dakimakuras have lewd sides? im guessing not.
>>708752865
my question is how can i be clever in this situation and have a smooth exit without any more emotional turmoil. if i don't tell her i know she lied, she'll keep on playing dumb and innocent and will make me out to be the bad guy. if i tell her i know she's a lying little bitch, she'll find ways to play it down or shrug it off like she does all the other vile and insensitive bullshit she does. it's a lose-lose.
>>708753160
Not sure about that part. When I was texting her afterwards, I got into dakimukura waifuing a little. She said I should get one from Neko Para and I said no because that's not how it works. Then I basically saying some people take it seriously, some as a huge joke.
Both are the same, I replaced it and both sides are lewd.
>>708751207
>anything i say can and will be used against me
I fucking hate this. Then they bitch that you don't open up. Its like the 5th amendment no longer applies! Fuck that cunt. You don't need to tell her that you know she stepped out. As long as you know.
The wife and kids meme sucks ass. It ain't worth it, anon. Take it from a 40 year old married with kids fag. It's a sweet deal for her, but you get gyped.
>>708753187
>my question is how can i be clever in this situation and have a smooth exit without any more emotional turmoil.
i dont think you can. if you're too attached to that thing you can a human being simply because it's young and hot and does anal, then you're simply not mature enough to just cut your losses and JUST FUCKING LEAVE. she's got your heartstrings wrapped in her hands, and she knows it. the only question is whether your beta ass is going to gtfo, get over it and move on.
>>708751216
Tha fuck does it matter? She went out with a dude. Do you know how that bitch would lose her mind, if OP "went out" with some chick?
>>708751302
>Pic related?
Yea, it's your sister/mother/daughter.
>>708753439
>Its like the 5th amendment no longer applies!
5th amendment only applies in court you dumb sack of shit.
women realize you must be thicker than 8 miles of cowshit and take advantage of you good. fucking hell i would too.
>>708753650
Uhm. . ., I'm an Amerifag. I know my rights. The fifth amendment applies wherever I go. Go fuck a goat Pajeet!
>>708753187
WALK AWAY NOW!
Do not keep a single thing of hers. Box it all up nicely and put it outside where it will not be stolen or call a mutual friend.
DELETE! DELETE! DELETE!!
Numbers, emails, Facebook, etc.
Do not talk with her. Do not talk about her to anyone. BE STRONG!
RUN AWAY!! This one will end bad!
>>708751207
You're both immature shut the fuck up and drop her and take like 6 months off women then go find yourself someone who actually has their shit together.
What is there to think about, OP? Just break up with her. She went out with a guy, and then said something mean during an argument. Fucking cunt.
>>708753187
JUST FUCKIN BREAK UP WITH HER AND STOP TALKING TO HER, HOW HARD IS THIS FOR U TO UNDERSTAND?!
Op best thing for you to do is ignore everything and act like she doesn't exist. If you use any words she will always find an excuse.
Sad day is that you need to understand you value on the sexual marketplace compared to her's. Best thing depending on your morality is to either ignore her and pretend she is dead and no longer a factor or take her back, tell her you just needed a break and sneak into a side relationship and when shit goes further south you have another one in the wings.
>>708753950
Fuck you! You are immature. You stupid bitch!
>>708753983
she's not gonna let that happen, dumbass. hence my dilemma
>>708754036
SHES GONNA CUFF U TO HER RADIATOR IN HER APARTMENT?! JUST GO!
>>708750664
>expert on female psychology
you are in possibly the worst place in the world to try and find something that doesn't even exist. they call them experts on "psychology"
>>708754036
>she's not gonna let that happen
She has no ability to prevent it you tard. Go file a restraining order NOW, before she even has a chance to act.
>>708754149
lol true, half the dudes on here are one step away from MGTOW. The other half are just cuckolds who do not know how to have a healthy relationship
>>708754149
some of us are here because you virgin nerds find some good porn. someone has to do the legwork.
>>708754149
Go back to Tumblr please.
Sounds like you really care about her still OP. That's okay to admit being a cuck. Do you wanna lick my cum out of her once I'm done fucking her?
Since you are going to break up with her, go ahead and dump her nudes.
>went out with another dude
>lashing out at you afterwards
She clearly fucked him and feels guilty and is taking it out on you. Dead srs.
In the end, all women are this (pic related).
>>708750664
Tell her the same things you told us and dump her ass. Also, sauce on pic ?
>>708754384
I like you anon
>>708754266
Stop being so edgy, faggot!
>>708753864
cucks have no rights.
otherwise you wouldn't be some 40yo loser that sticks with his wife because he's afraid of being a lone cuck. which is why you let her backtalk to you. i bet you let her step on your cock with high heels while eating the ass of her niger boyfriend.
>>708753548
Uhh yea i guess if i was in an insecure relationship i would be pretty freaked out.
You all are fucking retards. OP is clearly in the throws of an intense cuckold fetish, and is using you all to put his fantasy over. He is probably fapping furiously right now.
>>708751638
Cleaning rooms is snooping/ocd/finding new things fun all packed together. The fact that she asked for your stuff, was the reward for cleaning. She may not "like you" like you, but you have a good chance at having a lifelong female platonic friend. Like a sister.
>>708754631
i'm sorry you think this banter has edges.
why dont you go back to redit, you're clearly out of your safespace. fuckin spineless millennial pussy.
she went on a fucking date and you didn't end it that second just lmao you're a fucking cuck. She lied because she fucking cheated.
>>708754036
I think you are putting her in a spot that is vulnerable and she isn't use to that response. You are right with the words, as soon as you put words to the actions you've lost the edge of the game and she will find any excuse to deny or justify the situation. Not saying anything and ignoring her is the best option in the long run. Pretend she is dead, block her on fb, block her number. This "oblivious and angelic" act is used to get the info out of you but once she knows she has a suitable mate after you, she will drop the act and you will be dead to her. This is a tricky game but doing the least contact with her will put the ball in your court. If what your implying is true, breaking off contact will always leave that door never fully closed. She will always have a bit of worry and wonder thinking about you. Best thing to do is ignore her, uf she comes on by ignore her, if she has stuff in the place, call her friends to pick it up or drop it off at her parents/where ever she goes by with friends and family. Leave it a mystery, playing games with a woman will get you hurt. There are plenty of whiteknight faggots waiting for the fall. Don't give her the satisfaction to adapt.
>>708750664
She will say anything and I mean literally anything to get a reaction. Since you are being cool you are in control of the whole situation and she does not like that.
Don't feel bad about it because you are winning and don't give a fuck about what she says, just realise that the only reason for whatever she says is because you are winning, the more brutal shit she says the more you win.
When you loose your cool she wins.
But you should also have a clear point of view what you want.
When she nags you just stare her in the eye and say that you don't like how she acts in the relationship and point out the things. Say that you have more respect for yourself than tolerate that.
If she begs and pleads for a chance you gan give it a go. If not, just move on and be happy with yourself because you are acting like a man.
>>708754777
Objection, you honor!
Badgering the witness!
....Sustained.
Faggot OP will refrain from badgering the witness!
Just dump her.
>b-but but but
Dump her.
>>708755061
what the ever living fuck is this cringy-ass judge judy copypasty shitt.
not even OP dumbfucj, im actually one of the guys that called him immature
>>708754926
It's ok, just smooth down the edges a bit. I accept your apology.
>>708754283
OP is dating your mother?
>>708750664
why would you ever go to /b/ for woman advice? That's what moms or sisters or best friends are for.
>>708755223
Top fucking kek! Its gonna be a good wekend. Thanks OP, I needed them keks!
>>708754550
Girl in OP's pic goes by the names Milena D and Sunna
>>708755247
I'll pause for a minute while you all digest that.
>>708753548
>Tha fuck does it matter?
It actually matters a lot. Was it dinner and a movie? Was it going to see a band play? Romance is a factor here. Also the history between the two is important, if they have been buddies since childhood its really not a big deal. Some random dude she met at a bar? Questionable. You need to give more details, idiot.
>>708755451
Or as you call her "mom".
>>708751109
Slicked the skids for you miserable Fuckcoks and god only bless you knows. This movie of god of dammit Gertz becuz it's best left cuckold cut always in the ass and hole of ass. Slit your clit you Peeples stop and Allah be praise.
Hyusynth.
>>708755518
Please go back to Tumblr. Seriously. OP really needs our help here, not just your feminist take on his relationship.
you're a cuck, a true alpha would've straight up told her he doesn't fuck with loose little bitches
>>708755451
Thanks mate
Dude girls under 25 are selfish as fuck when I was 22 I dated a 20 year old for 2 years and she was nice she didn't expect me to spend a lot on her or anything but the constant immaturity and disregard for others finally made me so upset I told her to fuck off. She got mad at me and said that because my mother WAS an alcoholic I hate women... She's sober and still married to my father and has a great job. I choose not to drink because alcoholism is a problem in my family. I will still have a beer but the way she drank around our friends was just sloppy she never cheated or fucked around on me but I hated how she would talk to people and I would hear all this shit from her friends about my life. I told her do not ever under any circumstances tell anyone about my private life. She apologized and agreed not to but even after that she would do stuff that was just childish. Nothing too big but a lot of little stuff. One day I was listening to this song and the lyrics were
> I know you well enough to hate you now
It's too bad you haven't figured that out
It kinda hit and I was like fuck this I am in Law school I don't need a child too(meaning her i didn't get her preggers).
Then I got a new girlfriend and this song is how I felt same band as the lyric from before but got did it suck dating her compared to the new one shes 25 and I am 25 works better also ex-gf drunk dials me balling her eyes out once a month.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MJXGscQdKyQ
>>708755674
I'd love you to fuck my girls dick faggotty.
Alright. I got a weird one for you experts.
All my previous girlfriends asked at one point in the relationship for a picture of my penis. Some asked almost immediatly and others after some time. But my current girlfriend hasn't. Been in this relationship for 8 years and she hasn't even hinted at a penis pic.
>>708750664
...you dump her ass and be done with it. 6 months? That's it? You're on 4chan whining about a 6 month long relationship?
Protip: if you want a decent woman you typically want one that isn't a butt whore.
You sound like a bitch.
>>708755638
What? This has nothing to do with tumblr or feminism you dipshit. If I had a lifelong friend of the family who is female guess what? Im not gonna never see her again just because my girlfriend is a cunt. We need more details otherwise this whole conversation is goddamn pointless.
>>708755941
Does she do whatever you want when you fuck? If she's a prude in bed it's because she's not attracted to you.
>>708756098
It has everything to do with it! Your the one who can't see because he has blinders on. It's not my fault that females have overstepped their boundaries and have to be shoved in their place sometimes! God damn liberals have made us sensitive to the moat profitable for of slavery and all you want to do is ass fuck with a cucumber. Jesus fucking WH Christ checks stop drinking coolaids4.
>>708755518
They met at a public speaking contest a few companies put together, he was the photographer/blogger guy hired to promote it. They got to talking and then he asked her out, she said yes, we were having a fight around that time. She went out, then came to me and was affectionate which i thought signaled her remorsefulness. I don't think they fucked, i don't care if they did, i just want rid of her because she has done many other things to show that she is inconsiderate and downright evil, however she'll fucking hound me and make my life hell
basically im not good at this emotions game bullshit and she can steamroll me and im askin for help on how to avoid that
>>708756098
Yes, I believe you. You are no feminist.
>>708750664
She's looking around for someone better to pay her bills.
>>708756289
She lets me do what I want, but she does it because she loves me and not because of some lust in her. Guess you might have a point on attraction.
You all are right. I've decided to let it go. She deserves to be happy. I won't mention it to her and give her the space she needs to fulfill her needs. I think I can really be there for her. Thanks /b/ros.
>>708756793
Op was not a faggotty faggotty Niger cuckold today.
>>708756559
please tell me you don't live together after only dating for 6 months please. Ever heard of the two year rule you date for two years and move in if that works and you still love her you can marry her after 2 years living together.
Keep ignoring her if you want to come out on top. Nothing drives a bitch crazy like being ignored. Don't tell anyone why you dumped her, because they might tell her. You secure that information and sit on it, then just make a better life for yourself. That is the ultimate revenge. Nothing you can do or say to her will hurt more than simply ignoring her and not giving her the information and closure she wants.
>>708756559
Yeah, that's a red flag. If you had been fighting beforehand and she did that, I'd probably just end it.
>>708750664
Her name first letter is C, no?
>>708756902
Yes we are. What of it? Mind your own business NEET!
>>708756721
I hate to break it you but she will fuck guys she's attracted to on the side. If she never initiates sex or anything it's definitely lack of attraction. You can potentially fix that if you suspect it to be the case.
>>708756905
yep thats how I broke up with my GF i said I can't be around you anymore thats it. She's been drunk dialing me ever since and me and my current gf laugh our asses off at her voicemails
>>708756954
How do you know that?
op, dump her nudes
>>708756902
nah, she keeps riding me to find a place so we can though. she also keeps saying she wants kids further along the road and stuff like that. Which is what grinds my gears, you can't talk the talk and be a manipulative, cruel lying person at the same time, unless you're a bit fucked in the head and insecure, or just immature, seeing as how shes just 22. Either way i tried to fix it and it's headed towards disaster so i just want out. I'm itching to tell her i know she lied and met up with that dude just to see her reaction but i dont think if thats a good idea.
>>708757025
I know. I found her tinder profile, but it does not bother me that much. I'm more worried if she is wife material or not. I want kids.
>>708757106
I'm the photographer/blogger who is banging your girl. she tells me how much better I am in bed than you and we laugh about it
>>708757106
cuz i know her, op is lier, she is 25 yo actualy
>>708757005
Relax man I am just trying to help... I posted this
>>708755726
it's similar but not the same I was just trying to help you understand that women with their shit together are cautious about stuff and move slowly like most men do. The age gap is the problem 22 is a bad age its the time where everyone has their quarter life crisis and questions everything it's right when you graduate from college.
>>708757025
Nah, she doesn't fuck on the side. She's too shy to actually talk to others guys and too honest too actially go in on afvances of guys. How do I fix the lack of attraction?
>>708757243
You're either a troll or cuck.
>>708750664
Joel???????
>>708753950
this
>>708750664
>has proof
> still needs more reasons
You sir, are a cuck.
Pic related: her name is Sharon and you are the dog.
>>708757332
she is 25 and op is 28, pls op can u confirm this?
>>708757461
He's a troll.
>>708757368
Lift, improve yourself, and be more dominant in the relationship.
>>708750664
Put that kid (yeah 22 blah bla, it's like the new 12, so I stay with kid) out of your life. You got it already, keep your mouth shut. No word will win you this, because it is not about words, facts or anything like that. She gets this or that feelings about all this shit. Just keep it cool. Do not react. You do not want that shit back. Thing with her won't get better. Save yourself as long as you can go for that.
>>708757676
Look into the redpill if you're serious about changing the dynamic. Though attraction can't always be changed if she sees you as a provider.
>>708757229
My bad someone is pretending to be OP which is super faggy
>>708755726
>>708757337
thats my story its a little like yours
Unless you have physical evidence no point in confronting her just get the last fuck in and let her know that it was fun while it lasted but that she doesn't know what she wants and you do ( she'll be so confused and angry) then just ignore her it sucks because you probably have mutual friends and stuff idk I did but you can still see her shes just going to cry a lot.. if you want you can be an asshole and do what my friend did and fuck someone she knows/is kinda friends with.
>>708755550
Wtf did you say?
>>708757676
I'm already the dominant one, so that's step one. Guess it's time to visit /fit/. Tnx anon.
>>708757783
Don't think she sees me as a provider. Just found it odd that she didn't ask for it as women did in previous relationships. More of an oddity then a problem.
>>708751638
She's trying to fix you so you'll have a real chance at some other girl and leave her alone.
>>708755638
Shit post bro
Anon's tryna help a brother out.
>>708757850
How are you dominant if you can't even tell her why you're pissed off ? Sounds like you're a pussy afraid of confrontation.
>>708750664
> goes to 4chan for help with girlfriend
Hahahahahaha
>>708750664
How to win. Suck her back in pretend its all good and have some sweet makeup sex, some tasty anal. As soon as your done with the sex revert back to a stonyfaced cunt. Kick her out immediately tell her its over even before she has had time to finish getting dressed.
If you think she is psycho enough to claim you tried to rape her have a sound recorder in the room hidden.
>>708750664
Thread TL;DR
I had an ex exactly like that. Then, after putting up with her for a year and a half she started the whole tumblrina phase which made her worse.
Basically she's manipulative and vindictive. Exit asap with a strong, definitive breakup or she's going to hump your leg for the next two years.
I tried the whole break up and ignore thing with mine. Took her a couple years of calling family members and messaging friends telling them I'm the scum of the earth before she gave up and finally went away.
>>708758161
I'm not pissed off with my girl. I think you're confusing me with OP.
>>708757676
You don't have to lift I have plenty of muscle left over from high school sports if you're short then yes you gotta life but I am 6'3" 225 I am like 215 right now because I was really sick and didn't get much nutrition but I have a slight beer belly big arms from sports and a strong chest and shoulders and jacked legs from hockey ( i can leg press 1200 in 10 reps of 15 still) No girls are in amazing shape after 20 the hottest girls I fucked were always 19 going on 20 pussy nice and tight because shes not taken a mile of dick yet and the tits are perky so is the ass. Some girls peak at 22 and they're like diamonds in the rough I always try and fuck them when they're younger and not at their full potential because in the infinite wisdom of schoolboy q " if I fucked her once I can fuck her twice... yeah you heard me right I might fuck tonight"
>>708758528
I'm 5'10 210 at 9% and lifting absolutely makes a fucking difference. I use steroids so I'm past what anyone will naturally achieve. I get hit on and don't even have to try on tinder bumble etc. I have no doubt if I wasn't shredded it'd be harder.
>>708750664
OP I am gonna be honest about this. You are doing the right thing by leaving now but it should have never got to this point.
First ill address her hanging out with some male. You shouldn't be afraid of your girlfriend hanging out with other dudes. Now if it was romantic at all then fine, throw a fit. But if it was platonic then your overstepping your bounds and it makes you look like an insecure bitch. I'm not sure which case this was because you haven't really given enough information but the number one way to drive your girl away is to act insecure.
>How you keep being ahead here.
Do not give her any emotion to feed off of. It seems by the way your speaking about the situation that you would prob give her some kind of emotional response and she will check mate you. Just tell her to fuck off and that's that. The situation is fucked now, just take the loss and move on.
For your future relationships. You cant be that guy that is not hanging out with other women still. You cant be that guy that seems like can't attract other women on some level. One of the best ways to keep your girl invested in the relationship is to make her think other women would like to date/sleep/hangout with you. They are going to throw a fit when you hang out with women. Ignore them. Tell them a relationship is built on trust and they have no reason not to trust you. When/if they still throw a fit tell them to deal with it and do it anyway. She will get over her little jealousy phase and when she does she will love you that much more. Also If you do that you have nothing to worry about with her hanging out with men. Trust me she will love you to much to want some other dude.
if this was me I'd go with the blunt approach no words tell her you think she's a disrespectful bitch that cheats and your tried of her immature shit. that if you wanted to date a teenager you wouldn't have dated a 22 year old that has no respect for herself or others and doesn't have her shit together" Then throw her clothes out threaten to call the police then get a restraining order. Record anything just in case she tries to gaslight and manipulate you good luck OP.
>>708753423
she clearly likes anime idk fucking ask her out why is this always so hard did she specifically tell you she just wants to be friends?
I swear you just described my boyfriend...
He acts like a manipulative girl on the regular
I can never be right, and he won't except being held accountable for things with out me being the ego masher.
It's so frustrating
How do you deal with a guy that pulls this shit???
>>708758968
Nigger, read the thread before posting. OP's pissed about the fact that she lied about what she was doing when she hung out with the other dude.
>>708757268
It's not the same girl. Troll harder.
OP you have to fuck her one more time and then right before you finish, put 20$ on her table and tell her your mom told you not to cum into whores.
>>708758795
Dude I swear its the 6 foot mark because I am a 6.5 at best I do have nice clothes, semetrical face, good degree and most girls that talk to me ask me "I heard you were really really smart is that true?" My response is usually theres all different kinds of intelligence I am just good at certain things. I don't like to brag about myself but I have friends that are making a little more money than me and are arguably better looking than me and I get more pussy because I am taller. I have had girls tell me they would never date anyone under 6 feet unless they were perfect... its insane I have no idea where it comes from.
>>708759352
oh that's brutal. sadly this doesn't work on fuck boys :/
>>708759363
Most girls think I'm 6'1. If you think you wouldn't get more pussy shredded you're dead wrong.
>>708758795
Me too, except I'm only 4.5% bodyfat. MY name is anon. Pleased to meet you.
>>708759363
yeah maybe because it makes us feel safer if the guy is taller. it comes because to the cave times when women were gather's and men hunted if the man is small we assume he's no good at protection us thus were not interested.
>>708759363
we assume they can't protect us*
>>708759603
Hi anon start lifting and drop the Taco Bell. Use tren for 2 years and you to can achieve what I have.
>>708750664
You idiots.
Women that age fuck like rabbits. Youll know subconsciously when they cheat on you. Youll pick up clues subconsciously and start getting thoughts until proof arises after the fact.
Its literally one in 10 that youll get a good woman who is loyal. You have to be a good judge of character and not think with your dick. Youll fuck her enough times that eventually you want more out of the relationships and then OOPS ya fucked up and picked up some soulless bitch with a nice ass.
Make sure AT THE BEGINNING OF THE RELATIONSHIP she is
a) More or equally into you as you are
b) You arent a pushover or "sensitive" (you Can be understanding) but women take these traits as a week man and will fuck someone else while hoping their emotional needs are still met by you
c) Has been fucked over before in some way so they understand how shitty it is. Dont date someone who hasnt had any relationships lasting more than a year or two
Also understand that nothing is permanent and be happy that even if you break up you now know what kind of person they are. Cheating once is irrecoverable. Trust me this is someone who had four two-three year relationships before finding the person I will marry. Also important is complete honesty and communication. She also needs to have initiative and show her affection as much as you do.
>>708758795
I am dating a girl now she's a hard 7 not classically good looking but she's blonde and has long legs which I love. Shes also Irish so my mother likes her. Shes got a small chest 34 A long neck and a long mid section that makes her hips look good and a really perky ass shes like 5'7" though so she can weigh 125 pounds or whatever and look amazing because of the way the weight distributes she also runs so she has tight leg+ass she also knows how to dress up her assets not much make up only stuff to highlight her blue eyes only thing people wouldn't like is maybe her forehead but she has her hair in a way that makes it cute shes also got a cute nose. I am biased though because we fuck like rabbits only girl who has been able to match my sex drive and not be bipolar
>>708753931
real advice here, OP
>>708759244
Bamp
>>708750664
Tell her to suck a dick
>>708750664
Just end it dude.
>>708758528
the fuck is this nonsense?
>>708759958
yes that's also the hard thing about relationships it's hard to find someone that matches your lidibo. also if your on antidepressants that kills it I am thinking of getting off it cause my libido is absolutely dead it's sad at my age... I'm 20 should be being pounded by my gf but now I can let her finger in my pussy hoping I'll get horny whilst I lick her out.
>>708759758
This.
She's 22. it took me to 28 to find wife material. and there were several false "wife materials" along the way.
If you have a bad feeling, its gonna gnaw away at you. Thoughts bounce around in your head and become way more destructive before you vocalize it.
Real advice:
Break up and move on
Tell a friend how you are feeling, or at least a stranger in a bar, buy them a beer after if they listened and gave a "that sucks dude."
move the fuck on. its gonna be lonely, but you have us. and there's still some kissless virgins on here, so you are doing alright
>>708760294
Maybe you should catch some dick... I get that lesbians munch box well but total myth dudes can't munch box as well as a lesbian. I had sex with my best friend who is a lesbian literally because she missed dick. She's still with her gf. Good story though she grabbed my dick because I was in athletic shorts with no boxers while we were lying down watching a movie and I was like uhhhhh and she goes sorry I just wanted to touch it I forgot what it feels like and then it kinda just went from their I let her hop on top and she had 2 really wild orgasms and then I finished after going through the the rhythms and she came again super awkward she had me cum inside her she wasnt on the pill and she was like I will pay for the morning after pill thats my fault I just wanted that feeling again and I was like don't worry I had about 20 of them because my good friends mom worked at planned parenthood and gave me them she has done weird things around me ever since like sit in my lap and grind really hard on my junk at shows. Her GF knows too and didn't care
>>708750664
What a bunch of worthless advice in this threat.
To start off you've been a pussy not adressing issues in your relationship. If you have a problem with certain of her behaviours let her know as it happens. State her the facts and not your assumptions or interpretations. She can then either decide to change herself and work on the relation or continue doing whatever she's doing that's bothering you and thus lose you. Alternatively she can simply explain you the truth about what she's really thinking/feeling because at the moment you're just going by your own assumptions.
You've basically told her to piss of without one word of explanation after being fed up with her for a while but being nothing but sub-assertive. That makes you a pussy who can't adress issues let alone deal with them in a mature way.
Also, "wanting to come out on top" are thoughts that only unconfident men with their tails behind their legs have.
A real man won't even ask himself the question of "coming out on top" cause it doesn't matter a single fuck to his ego.
You've got some maturing to do.
>>708759512
I am sure I would but I don't mind coasting and my girl said she doesn't want me to lift like I did for sports she likes my weird I used to be jacked but I drank a lot of budweiser in college body
>>708754162
Restraining order? Can't you americunts solve ANY life situation without taking it to the court?
>>708753931
THIS, DO THIS, DO IT YESTERDAY.
>>708761295
Uh after a girl cheats on a man there's a primal feeling where you don't get mad at the other dude because you would do the same thing (unless its a friend) but the girl instantly becomes tainted like she got sprayed by a skunk. Even when I have had friends tell me about their girls cheating on them I felt different towards those girls I never thought of them the same. I have luckily never been in that position to my knowledge I've only had 3 serious relationships and they've been really possessive on boths sides though I am a selfish lover and I like dating other selfish lovers.
>>708750664
If she does anal, wife her. Sorry op
>>708762178
It's not that rare. Also anal is annoying you need her to get ready for it and honestly the vagina feels better unless she really gets off to it I don't even bother even when I have permission. I was so surprised when a girl said put it in my ass I was like sweet and then I did it and was like wow this isn't that cool... I am totally down with girls liking a finger in the butt though thats cool and a buttplug usually works too
>>708752129
There are no smooth exit plans where psycho women are concerned. Rip that band-aid off and move on with your life; the hair will grow back.
>>708750664
fucking Cuck
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