Found out my gf cheated on me today.
Drinking alone now, and feel like shit.
>general feels thread.
>>707516018
Just take the night off, doge. Drink a bottle, eat some comfort fude, and watch that new season of JoJo.
>>707516298
really want some bourbon, but i've already had a few beers, and dont wanna risk driving.
>>707516018
That sucks bro
If it makes you feel any better, I found out that my girlfriend was seeing another guy on our très expensive trip to Paris. It was right when we got to the hotel too. I'm not the suspicious type but something inside me told me to check her phone. Yep... not good... ruined the trip. Felt like someone had stolen $2,800 from me and then punched me in the stomach. Total waste of time and money and it was just awful
My oneitis is coming to visit me next week but she's probably gonna stay the night at some guys house the night before she's see me. Feeling jealous and shitty right now.
>>707516823
Ahh, is the liquor store within walking distance?
>>707516887
Damn, that's rough, buddy.
This isn't the first time i've been cheated on either. (same shit, different girl) Worst part is, she had no remorse about it.
Think i'm done with relationships for a while.
>>707517153
Haven't even checked. Just moved here a couple days ago, actually. Now going to a trade school so I can get this good paying job i've had my sights set on for a while.
Think i'll check gmaps now that you mention it.
>>707517431
Yeah it sounds like you have either really bad luck with women, have really bad taste in women, maybe have low self-esteem, or you just need time to figure out what it is you really want in a partner.
It's true what they say, though. That which doesn't kill you...
I became totally unmanned when I found out she was seeing someone else. I threw a fucking fit right there in the hotel room. I had no idea how to feel or what to do with myself.
That girl is out of my life, but if it were ever to happen to me again, I'd know just what to do. I wouldn't raise my voice, wouldn't throw a fit, wouldn't act like a man-baby... I'd just break all contact and do me.
>>707517897
Where are you from? If you live within ~25 mi of me I'll come bring you some bourbon... totally cereal too
how about kill yourself?
Or you want bore us to death?
>>707518295
I'm not even sure which it is anymore. I felt the exact same way too, man.
I was furious, I mean, but I wasn't able to express it. What could I say anyways? Nothing that would change the fact. Just cut off all contact with her.
>>707516983
Sounds suspicious.
>>707518658
I'm in houston tx
appreciate the offer, man, but i'll survive
>>707519548
Yeah I'm no where near TX anyway
>>707519548
Were not together, but I'm just jealous as fuck. That fact that she may be fucking some guy really fucks with me. Thought she wanted to visit just to see me and our friends.
>>707520015
i like this
>>707519697
All good /b/ro, still appreciate the offer
>>707519868
My advice, for what it's worth, I'd just tell her straight up how you feel, but I am already pretty tipsy.
thats what awaits every normalfag
now go die in fire, cancer
>>707520624
I feel like I need to get drunk before telling her that. She's knows I'm Into her. She knows I'm a virgin. We've also have hooked up multiple times and more often than not sleep in the same bed together.
>tfw my problems have so much layors of complexity it's too much to type out, and even if I gave context none of you would understand the emence emotions I'm feeling and the personal hell im living through so all I end up doing is chilling in these feels threads not saying a word
>>707520714
and what awaits you?
waifu body pillows and loli/furry threads?
piss off you fucking degenerate
>>707520862
I was in the same situation when I was a beta. Hot chick, slept in same bed but never sealed the deal! Regret it to this day. Sometimes you just gotta man up and go for it. Fuck the results!
>>707520894
Damn that's some feely feels, /b/ro
Wish I had some feels to contribute to this thread, but my life isn't so bad right now. Used to be a huge loser, spending all my money on heroin trying to numb the feels. But I'm clean now, a teacher, doing my thing, making my money and living like a fucking monk, still cruising /b/ and whatever. My only complaint is that my girlfriend blew up like a fucking balloon and I haven't had sex with her in over a year kek
>>707520862
I'd say there's hope for you, then. Might as well go for it. Better to regret something you did, than you didn't do in this case.
>>707521179
understandable.
>>707521206
This girl is honestly the hottest girl I've ever associated myself with. Guys are all over her all the time, but she's mostly into girls from I've witnessed and from what our friends have said. I've had completley naked in my bed but she wouldn't let me go down her. She did mention that she hadnt shaved in forever, like I give AF. She also mentioned how you should never fuck a girl that's drunk and some bs.
I have a very strong chance of sealing the deal. But the fact she might be stay over some guys house makes me pissed off.
>>707520894
>>707521663
replied to my own post, my bad
>>707521663
Yeah the odds are in my favor IMO. Pretty much all of my sexual experience has been with her. Have yet have sex or oral with her though. Really wanna stop overthinking about her staying at this guys house. Maybe they won't fuck, or maybe she's not even going
>>707521774
How old are you # 1? You think that now, the regret I have is not nailing her which is a big difference from falling in love and marrying her. I thought I was in love several times until I met my wife. That is when you know it is real. Yeah you may have feelings and want to nail her but if you are under 24 I would say just go for it, odds are against this being the one. Then you end up married to someone else wondering why you just didnt go for it!
>>707520015
Thank you man. I was looking for that image for some time and it really helped tonight. Fuck everyone else, i'm back on my path.
>>707520015
As a married man I can say this is the most sound advice I've heard in months
>>707523002
no problem. i had a feeling it would help a few people
>>707522783
20. Not in love with her, I just really like her. She's super hot, 10/10 body, 8/10 face, pierced nipples fat ass, beautiful tits, she has a lot going for her. I also genuinely love spending time with her, we share the same hobbies and take part in them whenever we see each other. And shes the only girl I've felt truly comfortable around.
I don't think I'll ever get married to be honest, but that's entire different conversation. Just not something I'm really interested in, that could definitely change though. But yeah nailing her is my main goal here.
>>707523392
Where are you from /b/ro?
>>707516018
I know that feel bro my ex gf once did that
>be me
>be out of the city visiting family
>gf was working so she can't go with me
>I was for three weeks
>She an I having some problems before I left
>In the last week in my travel she was very cold with me, I think maybe was for the time
>I come to the city. See her nothing very different from the usual
>Was sad because my mom came back with her thrash exhusband so I talk to my gf
>Next week she tell the true, she was working and after that go to the fair, she met with a friend (boy) of her friend (girl), she get drunk and have sex with the boy.
>I was shocking I and run from her house, crying
>She and I had been together since almost 7years and we decided to start planning a wedding
>I broke up with her the next week
>That mount I lose my mom, I lose my sister, I lose my gf
>I didn't drink, I just punch in the face the boy who have sex with my ex gf and I punch the "husband" of my mom then start to drink
Right now I'm trying to make a company of home made beer
>>707523869
Northeast USA.
>>707523955
Atleast you dont have to worry about accidentily fucking your cousin then
>>707523392
>But yeah nailing her is my main goal here
first laugh i've had today, thanks anon
>>707523392
Well you answered your own question, I see 2 options, go for it, or try to bang her friend, well not really, try and bang her, this has happened a couple times with me, I liked this girl alot, basically same scenario, she would bang other dudes but we were really good friends, got close with her friend, needless to say the girl couldnt stand I was going to fuck her friend and fucked me instead, I think she did it just to shove it in her friends face, the mentality I think was "if anyone is gonna fuck him its gonna be me" youd be surprise if you get another chick what might happen. Girls are very jealous and possessive.
Post pics or it didn't happen.
>>707520015
#16 ... if she is offended by the thought of and/or does not agree to a prenuptial agreement, she's not the one for you and you should just walk away.
You can generally feel on someone else who gives a shit about you.
>>707519548
I'm in Houston
Whats the tramps name?
>>707523943
damn, 7 years? sorry bro
at least you got the satisfaction of hitting that fucker in the face. I wish I could have. Even if he didn't know, i cant help but hate them both.
Anon, i'm really sorry. I've cheated on every one of my boyfriends, no matter how much i try to change...
I just love the attention!
>>707524436
fucking whore
>>707524609
you're just jealous i'm cuter than you >:3
silly boys.
>>707524169
There's no way I can pull another chick. It took me a lot to come out of my shell just to get this far with her. Even just hanging with a girl one on one all day was something that had been foreign to me up until recently. If she really is going to stay at this dudes place I may honestly go as far as telling her to not even come over.
>>707524436
if troll, gtfo
if not, kys
>>707524392
Laura, although she didnt move with me, so she's not in houston.n't feel the need to
>>707521774
femanon here
>I have a very strong chance of sealing the deal.
No, you didn't. She didn't know how to say "no" directly without hurting your feelings, so she said something about never fucking a girl that's drunk.
Trust me, if she wanted you she'd be begging for it.
You were never gonna seal the deal.
Stop girlfriend-zoning her
>>707524420
Thanks man, Feels great when I punched the fuckers. Like 8 or 9 mounts back before that I started to be fat so I decide to do diet and exercise (go to the gym), thats why I could punch the two guys.
>>707524392
>>707525004
keep fucking up my reploes
was saying that although we weren't living together at the moment, and because I don't live very far from where i'm at now, we didnt feel the need to move her w/ me.
Whether that was my mistake or not, i dont care anymore
>>707524828
This is how I imagine it is going to play out, you are gonna get pissed tell her not to come over, she is going to act surprised stating what is wrong, she knows what is wrong but is going to goat you into dumping your feelings because that will boost her ego then she is going to let you down gently but just enough to keep you hanging on that you may have a chance, plus will give you some BS that there is nothing serious with this dude. I think in my experience you are just around till something comes along that is better and has prospects. She will give you just enough to keep you around. Might as well go for it and force her hand, either she puts out or you roll, else 2 years from now you still going to be playing the fool
>>707523943
Anon. Shit wI'll get better and maybe one day other anons can injoy that beer. Cheers.
>>707524805
>you're just jealous i'm cuter than you >:3
You know what they say: "low prices have increased demand"
>>707525411
I bet. Shit, now this motivates me to workout more, myself. Thanks bro, hope things get better for you.
>>707525187
She got all serious after saying that. Talking about how she had been raped and what not. Are you saying it was just elborate way of saying fuck off?
we have hooked up multiple times why would she let me continue to finger bang and suck on her fucking tits if she didn't have an Intrest in me?
>>707525187
Settle down faggots, I'ma give you the borderline personality disorder guide to love and relationships.
> Backgound
> Diagnosed with borderline at 17
> Spent the proceeding, and subsequent years dating and banging a multitude of chicks, breaking their hearts.
> None of them wanted to go out with me at first.
> Fuck them, I maxed out Charisma and Intelligence at birth.
Get this shit
> Manipulating people to fall in love with you is fucking easy, unless you have no confidence.
STEP FUCKING 1.
> Meet a fucking girl. Have a fucking personality. Don't try and be fucking nice. Nice is fucking boring, and no one likes people who think being nice is a good fucking thing. If you're a dick, be a fucking dick.
STEP FUCKING 2.
> Probe around conversationally. Find their wants, and fill them, without being dishonest about that shit. MAKE THEM THINK YOU CARE.
STEP GODDAMN 3.
TRANSITION INTO THE RELATIONSHIP. Make a move. If she relies on you, she can't say no. If she isn't relying on you, you either fucked up, or picked the wrong target.
BorderlineBro will be taking goddamn questions now.
Force her hand?
So youre saying, If she doesn't put out now I should just say fuck it and stop talking to her
At least you're not a loner piece of shit like me that can't get any.
>>707525411
Try not to be too mad at the guys.
As retarded as this sounds can you blame them IF (emphasising on the IF) they didn't know she was with someone else and had this hot girl try to have sex with them that they did it?
Obviously if they knew then fuck that guy but it's by far worse that she betrayed you. Us guys need to stick together more and rat out of girls who we know are cheating.
>>707526505
Am I fucked? Should I just move on and not even bother with her anymore? Your steps apply to me well.
>>707527960
Which poster(s) are you, my nigga?
>>707516887
That's really messed up man. If that happened to me I don't think I'd consider dating seriously again.
>>707516887
Massive cunt going on the trip without telling you she was cheating. I hope you left her high and dry in a foreign country.
>>707528230
The virgin guy with the girl that is probably staying the night at some guys house. >>707521774
>>707516983
>>707516018
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g2jAwiq6YsE
>>707527579
This.
Although I'd take it one step further in that I feel like you shouldn't be mad at the other guy provided he wasn't a friend of yours. Whether he knew about you or not is irrelevant, really. What, just because another dude has a penis like you, you expect him to conform to some "bro code" ? You expect him to feel some obligation to you or sense of duty? That's idiotic.
The guy that my girlfriend was seeing, the aforementioned one I brought to Paris with me, I didn't even bother to look him up or contact him. It wasn't his problem. If he knew about me, then he's an asshole but who cares? The real issue was that my girlfriend was a slut, and *she* was the one from whom I expected loyalty.
I'm all for guys sticking together and bros being bros. I'd never sleep with a friend's girlfriend; hell, I'd never sleep with a friend's ex-girlfriend from years and years ago. But would I sleep with some dude's slutty girlfriend? Yeah, I might. It's nothing personal. Your girlfriend's a slut and it's not my fault. If it wasn't me, it would be someone else. Sorry dude but you're not my bro just because we both happen to have penises.
I found that disconnecting sex from relationships and overcomming the feeling of "posessing" a girl and "owning" her makes you less worried about cheating and I guess would make it hurt less it it does. It should be more about being in love and having each other instead of just banging. That's what hookers and sluts are for.
>>707528493
Thank you for pointing yourself out, my dude.
Here's what I would do.
> She seems promiscuous; pressuring her emotionally won't work
> Try and be sincere in asking her how shit's going
> Send her one fucking text that weekend, and make it casual as fuck
> If she responds, you can progress into reminding her of what "her" feelings are (which are actually ones you're manipulating her into feeling.)
Be smart. Use your own judgement.
You have my faith anon.
>>707528272
It was pretty terrible.
>>707528477
I didn't speak to her and sort of just did my own thing in Paris. I had been there before, so I didn't need to see all the tourist attractions or anything. I had already done the touristy thing already.
When we got back Stateside, we drove back to the apartment awkwardly. I packed my shit; she cried, and I left. Begged me to stay and wanted to "make it work," but I was over it. Haven't seen her in years, actually.
>>707516018
Time heals everything dude, believe me, I've been there
>>707529489
Damn I would have kicked her out of the hotel room and told her to fuck herself. You did pay for it after all. Good on you for being mature about it I guess.
>>707529208
She's really not THAT promiscuous, she fucks more girls than guys I know that for a fact. But that really doesn't make a difference in this situation.
If you can think of some examples of what to text her and "reminding her" that would be great
>>707529846
Depends on what you've already set up. Can you describe to me the emotions between the two of you, most importantly on her end?
>>707529781
Well keep in mind that I had a week to cool down. Those first few hours were not pretty. I fucking exploded. It's actually kind of embarrassing because I can't imagine how foolish I must have looked. Really wish I had been able to keep my cool but I had never been cheated on before.
But after those first few hours I was over it. She wasn't the one for me and I had always known that in the back of my head I guess. Tried making the best of the trip but I basically just walked around Paris chain-smoking and eating falafel. Fuckin' L'As Du Falafel... ahyeahbabe
>>707530296
chain smoking and falafel in Paris actually sounds like a good time, hopefully the trip wasn't a total waste /b/ro
>>707530140
Whenever we see each other more often than not we sleep in the same bed. Well be hooking up, making out shell be naked. Farthest I've gotten with her is fingering her. That's the sexual side of things.
Emotionally, were both good friends. I like her a lot, she knows that, I'm not in love with her though. If she let's me hook up with her as much as I do she must have thoughts of being more than friends, right?
>>707531129
I'm a different anon but my ex was sleeping naked with this guy in my dorm before she met me and it was a similar story, she let him finger her etc and was basically using him for attention n shit and bragged about it. He was massively beta but even after dating me for 6 months and fucking me every day and telling me she loved me and all that shit she dropped me just as fast as she dropped him. DO NOT get emotionally invested in this girl
>>707531129
I just remembered that other people don't have the borderline empathy thing. My bad.
No, she probably doesn't. She seems concerned with the sensory, not the emotional. While sex does release oxytocin, and she probably loves you on a chemical level, if she sleeps around as much as she does (IDGAF if it's with girls) she's not emotionally mature enough to handle intense emotions.
Keep the girl. Keep the sex. Expect STDs. Good luck, my man.
>>707526505
Problem being that I have no confidence.
>>707531525
This girl is an obvious attention whore. I'm beta but I can disquise it. I'm naturally kind of a bitter asshole/dick, and not your typical nice guy. I don't sperg out much around her. Wouldn't day I'm not alpha by any means but I certainly get a huge confidence boost whenever im around her. I'm doing my best to not get emotionally attached to her, I'm just being really salty because I've finally experienced some sort of sexual intimacy and I over think shit to the max
>>707532108
Sort your shit out then. If you can't be comfortable with yourself, be comfortable pretending to be someone else. At least around targets.
>>707532476
Wouldn't say I'm alpha**
>>707526505
