Hey femanon here. Been messing around with this guy for a little over a month and he wants to be in a relationship w/me. I'm not interested in that, with anybody, not just him. I already know he is the best I can get and he resents me for making my choice. What do? Am I a bitch?
Fuck off, whore.
>>706935031
Fuck off bitch
>>706935031
If you have doubt towards your decision then I think you made the wrong decision.
That said, I think you are a dumb bitch who forgot two rules.
>>706935107
Why am I a bitch or a whore?
>>706935031
Only if your forward with them and don't continue to lead them on. Otherwise, that'd not a good thing
>>706935031
You tits and timestamp or you get the fuck out attention whore.
Sage
Best you can get in what way? Looks?
Little guy.
Oh snap; a Pikáchu!
>>706935391
Honestly he's like a 6.5/10 but idk he just treats me right if that makes sense. I just don't want a relationship but am I wasting my chance?
>>706935490
Please refer to >>706935198
If you only wanted to "Mess around" you would not have considered the way he treats you.
The way I see it, you want to date him,
you just dont want to except it.
>>706935490
Are you serious right now, what kind of answer are you looking for?
So he treats you right but you don't like his looks. Do you like him as a person or object?
I'm a bit confused on this whole situation.
>>706935203
Look in the mirror then look at you post
>>706935490
Women everyone
>>706935031
fuck a guy in front of his eyes and he won't resent you anymore. Be smart though, he might vid it up and then you oughtta tell him to post it here.
>>706935818
As a person but I dont want to be tied down
>>706935031
Honestly dude first off why get advice from a bunch of faggots
Secondly if you don't want a relationship and he does you just have to let him go
If, however you keep doubting yourself eventually you're going to have to accept your decision when hes got it all and you find yourself wishing he could share that with you
>>706935031
you are a slut yes
>>706936224
Then don't, just tell him you want to be friends. Which in turn will cause your friendship to diminish quite a bit. But if he's cool, he'll stay friends with you.
If you rather have a friend's with benefits thing, be forward with him and tell him.
Does that help at all?
yeah, listening to the terrorist wannabe >>706936232
at least cry allajkbar while chasing him with a chainsaw aking why in a tone40
>>706935490
I suppose it depends on where you are in your life, what you're doing now and what you plan to be doing in the future. Picture your life in, say, five years. How do you imagine it being? Will entering a relationship now negatively affect your plans in any way (considering both immediate and eventual plans)?
Vote Nathan!! Together we can make this happen!
http://www.strawpoll.me/11380612/
>>706935031
Post a timestamped picture of your tits so you pay in advance for the attention you are feeding on.
Once you poat a time and date stamped picture of yourself with your bare tita hanging out then I will give you the best advice in this world.
ITT: Retard Femanon in Denial
Really /b/? you're all niggers.
tits or gtfo cumdumpster
>>706936517
probably inside a dude skin
>>706935031
Buy a cat or a dog, you'll be fine.
>>706936576
fuck off scientologist!
>>706936445
But if I do that then I know he will resent me, because he might think I wasted his time for a couple months.
>>706936576
this
>>706936713
You did,so post tits,then kys
>>706935031
Tell him whats up. If he deals with it cool. If not ... well you got the shot end of the stick. And I mean TALK .. fuck texting and all that shit.
>>706935031
you dont resent your decision, you're fully aware of how you're torturing him, you better tell him right the fuck now that it will never work out between you and stop giving him hope or you're simply a fucked up bitch who thrives on peoples misfortunes.
Now that being said, TITS!!!
>>706935031
>femanon here
>sage goes in all fields
>>706936863
He already knows what I want or dont want for that matter. But he still wants to put the time into me for some reason.
>>706936224
>I dont want to be tied down
You just want to fuck around. Just tell him you just want a fuck buddie. If you can't tell him that than yes you are bitch.
>>706936713
There is a special rung in hell for cunts like you. There is only 2 options. Date/fuck him or don't. Why do stupid women like you always have to make it more complicated than it is?
>>706937009
I want an emotional connection not just a fuck buddy. I just dont wanna be committed to him.
>>706936950
>>706937009
Indeed. Please don't lead him on some misguided love that will never happen. That shit sucks. If he wants to be your fuck buddy then cool. If he cant handle that then shit sucks. Choose wisely but don't lead the poor guy on endlessly.
Sage sage sage
So let me guess this straight. You led this poor guy on for a whole month without realizing up until he said it that it would create romantic feelings, after which you now suddenly have been enlightened that you don't want a relationship, but were totally fine with letting things progress for the last month.
Furthermore, you even admitted that he treats you well in this post >>706935490 but then later said you "don't want to be tied down" here >>706936224. Did you really not see this coming? Are you really so blissfully unaware of the state of reality that you were completely blindsided by the fact that that a guy you've been fucking for the past month might actually have some intimate feelings for you and want to move beyond that?
Please do not try to be involved with any more men in your life, it is clear to me that you have very little awareness of how your actions will affect others and would be better off alone so that nobody else has to suffer from your ineptitude. You embody the stereotype of a woman that every man resents to his very core. Good day
>>706935031
>>706935031
Listen bitch stop wasting the man's time...Now go cheat on him like you were already planing to do and dump him....
You are a fucking slag just like every other woman..
>>706937128
you don't fucking know what you want so stop pretending that you do.
You like having him as a safety blanket but you're holding out for better. Just admit it.
>>706935031
all these fucking newfriends answering and literally no one even asks for tits with timestamp or gtfo
>TITS OR GTFO
what has happened to b
>>706937221
He knew from the start that I wasn't fully interested in a relationship. He confronted me last night saying "you're never gonna want a relationship with me" and he was right. I dont want that. But I really do like him on an emotional level but I dont want to be committed to him because I am going to college in a few months and hes staying home. He says he wishes we could just try something and I have literally no interest in that.
>>706937340
Quiet samefag, you're boring me.
>>706937128
You can't eat your cake and keep it. How can you have an emotional connection and still looking forward to find someone else?
>>706937336
This.
>>706937730
I'm not looking for someone else because someone else hasn't shown up yet. I just dont wanna be tied down to one guy and I will let him know if someone else comes along so we can end it easily
>>706937546
so....basically what this guy said: "You like having him as a safety blanket but you're holding out for better. "
>>706937340
Muh internet hate machine summed up in a post.
This place was always about the lulz and butthurt. You are providing both right now so people will continue.
If you want to be a whore your whole life then go for it, but id be willing to wager once your alone in your 30's 40's you'll start to regret things.
>>706935031
You, I, and anybody who isn't a stupid beta all know you made this thread for attention and that you aren't SO lost and confused on what to do that you came to a random image board to seek some guidance on relationships, please OP kill yourself, 7/10 made me reply
>>706937811
ayup, holding out for better but needs someone to take care of her libido and fragile ego
>>706937811
Future cheater spotted.
>>706937883
He isnt just an option, because there isn't anyone else I would even consider dating. It's just that I dont wanna date anyone, let alone him
>>706937811
Then tell him he's a fuckbuddy and a friend but nothing more. If he won't accept that then sorry, shit sucks. But don't lead him on. We aquire feelings regardless of what position we are in but if theres an understanding then it shouldnt matter all that much.
>>706937546
>I really do like him on an emotional level but I don't want to be committed to him
AKA
>I have all the feelings that would constitute a relationship but I don't want to actually put in the effort and not be able to be a slut in college
Yeah, better you just cut ties with him now before you hurt him any worse than you already have. It's sad that he Good luck with all your slutty endeavors in college, I'm sure you'll just be thrilled about being able to blow some guy in the bathroom at a kegger since you "won't be tied down"
>>706938001
oh yeah he is just an option because you literally just said you'd drop his ass as soon as "someone else" shows up
I dated a wishy washy bitch like you in college until I saw through the bullshit. I hope he wises up soon, sees you for the needy parasite that you are, and dumps you with gusto.
>>706938049
I dont only want sex from him the main thing is the emotional connection but I dont want a "relationship"
>59 replies
> no tits
There is no difference between sites like thumbrl, reddit or 4chan anymore. fucking cucks. OP you useless breeding cow shiw us yar tits!
>>706937340
This.
>>706937709
>>706937931
Cancer.
>sage goes in all fields
>>706938251
>wants all things that define a relationship except call it one
bitch you need to get your head checked
>>706936576
She's not really looking for attention
Tits or gtfo is for attention whores fucktard
>>706938345
lurk moar, nigger
>>706938345
I just want some sort of confirmation that I am not insane
>>706937709
>implying
>>706937931
>Muh internet hate machine summed up in a post.
jesus fucking christ is this how people on reddit talk??!?!? you clearly have no idea what b used to look like, im out of here, b turned to shit
and i thought it was a meme b is getting worse and worse
>>706938295
THIS
>>706938251
And that is for the most part a "relationship" if you don't even want some tang from time to time stop wasting his time and make it clear he's only a friend. Some people aren't huge dicks and don't mind talking with you ladies. But when you pull shit like this it's enraging and makes your gender look like total cunts.
>>706938374
Well actually it's important in this context that she's a woman
She is a complete bitch and a whore but she def isn't attentionwhoring
>>706938001
You literally just said in this post: >>706937811
>I'm not looking for someone else because someone else hasn't shown up yet
Which basically means that you don't think it's a wrong thing to do just because the opportunity to be a total cunt hasn't presented itself yet
>Well I'm not a total cunt because I haven't met anybody who would enable me to take that role yet
I really hope this whole thread is bait because you've set a low bar in how women are willing to rationalize their disgraceful actions
>>706938412
You're on /b/, idiot.
Of course you're insane.
>>706938412
You are insane.
Confirmed
Tits
>>706938412
you're not going to find it here, you are acting irrational because you want all things that come with a relationship except the exclusivity agreement.
So you're either crazy for thinking that's possible or you're just a cold bitch.
>>706938295
>implying I want to see the tits of such a revolting creature
No thanks pal
>>706938486
Well actually no it isn't important at all. The question can easily be rephrased to hide gender.
This again
>>706938493
What exactly am I doing that is disgraceful
>>706938579
Well then go ahead well see
>>706936713
Of course he will. That's just human nature. But you have to accept that. That's what being an adult and "dating" is all about.
Just bite the bullet and be forward with him. Don't dwell on things and move on. Shit's life man.
But I'm curious, what are you thinking about doing?
>>706938567
>since you probably prefer big black dicks
I understand anon, to each his own
>>706938667
>Hey OP here. Been messing around with this anon for a little over a month and anon wants to be in a relationship w/me. I'm not interested in that, with anybody, not just anon. I already know anon is the best I can get and anon resents me for making my choice. What do? Am I a faggot?
>>706938895
I want to continue with that we have honestly
>>706938461
>>706938318
*Yawns loudly*
>>706938664
Oh I dunno, how about leading a poor fucker on for a month, saying that you feel and do all the things that constitute a relationship but refusing to accept the title because it would mean you are "tied down" and therefore actually have obligations as a human being to care for somebody other than yourself, not to mention the social obligation that you won't be able to fuck random guys whenever you want to. You are incredibly selfish, immature, and apparently feel little concern or remorse for causing pain to others who conversely feel affection and are willing to take the role of being the shoulder you can come to at a moment's notice. That's even worse than disgraceful, that's just plain psychopathic. You are a fucking sick human being, period.
>>706936713
YOU DID WASTE HIS TIME FOR A COUPLE OF MONTHS
God dammit I never rage on /b/, like NEVER, but you are such a subhuman cretin I can't help it
>>706939050
Seconded
>>706938948
Ok man i'm gonna acknowledge you got me
Basically the same
>tits or gtfo dirty bitch
>>706939144
How did I lead him on if I let him know from the start that I didnt want to at the time. I only just admitted to myself and him that I didnt want to at all.
>>706939050
Also my response to you
>>706938909
In fact anon, you're right. I'd almost rather see a big black cock than have to stomach the physical embodiment of the emotional degenerate who created this thread
>niggers still bumping this shit
kill yourselves, all of you
>>706936445
Most women end up "not wanting" to hurt a guy when ending a relationship. "Oh but we can still be friends" is worse in the long run, as thats misleading and thats how stalking starts, "oh theres still a chance, etc". Its better if you are honest and tell him, I don't want to be in a relationship with you.
>>706935031
>femanon
>no tits no timestamp
Where the fuck do you think you are.
Stop being a pussy and tell that bitch no.
Don't come back
>>706935490
Yea if you pick him so you dont "miss your chance" your deff making the wrong choice. Something called "settling" comes to mind
>>706939228
>hey anon, I know we're starting to get pretty serious, but I just wanted to let you know that I'm not interested in a relationship right now. No worries though, I'll definitely keep talking to you all the time and messing around with you, and since I only said "right now", I know you'll still be willing to keep at it and change my mind. Oh wait no, actually nevermind I actually decided now that I don't want to have a relationship with you ever, but thanks for playing
>>706939228
You basically put him in a relationship after saying "were not in a relationship"
Call it whatever you want, but a rose by any other name is just as sweet
>>706939567
that isn't how he sees it, he sees it as a personal failure
>>706939416
Here's a pic of the guy
>>706939633
You're a personal failure
>>706939688
K Den
>>706935490
>treats femanon nice
>femanon confused
Yup you're a whore. You're so use to having 5 cocks stuffed in you at once that a legit nice guy confuses. You're a cum guzzling whore and i hope you get gangbanged and murdered so everyone's last memory of you is how much of a whore you are
>>706939759
keke
Look everyone I do not want to hurt him. He means so much to me and I don't want to give him the runaround. I know I won't find anyone better but I am just not in a need of a relationship at this point in my life. What is the problem with continuing what we have right now?
>>706935031
Kys bitch
>>706939688
I was I never a position exactly like his but unlike him I realized I was being fucked with and moved on.
You should have seen how pissed she was. Shit, it's been 6 months and She still fucking hates my guts for not letting her do to me what this girl is doing to him.
>>706939688
jesus farting christ diarhea its wojack in real life !!!
>>706935031
>been messing around with a guy for over a month
>I'm not interested in being in a relationship, ie: commitment
>With anybody not just him
>why am I a bitch or a whore?
Because you
A) didn't make your intentions clear from the beggining
>this makes you a bitch
B) Wish to live a life of sexual promiscuous without the intent of turning it into a relationship
>This makes you a whore
>>706935031
He's a control freak. Kick him to the curb. Tell him that as well. Might help him in future.
Why are you fucking idiots even responding to this? What is it about ruining /b/ that gives you so much pleasure?
>>706939841
I'm going to go around and say that after school you'd be looking to be in a relationship with him, correct?
>>706939895
Yeah, but its hard for a guy in love to "give it up". I met an 70 year old homeless jewish guy who was still pursuing "his girl", and thats how he ended up homeless. I asked him when this happened, "35 years ago", its how he lost his job and home and everything
>>706940028
After school is in 4 years I have no clue what I want then
Why the fuck are you faggots responding? The rule is tits or gtfo. I see no tits, so this bitch needs to either needs to show those melons with a time stamp or fuck off.
>>706937128
lol that's not how it works
>>706939841
You are giving him mixed signals, that there is "still a chance".
>>706940143
I was in love, and I do still have feelings for her to some degree, hence why I still put up with her shit, but I know toxic when I see it and I wasn't going to wait around and be toyed with
>>706935031
going to /b/ for help?
desperate desperate kt
>>706939759
Looks like a burn victim
>>706939841
I hope nobody better ever comes along and you settle down with this little wimp
>>706940174
Well honestly, if he really is willing to wait for you and be faithful to you for when you get out, then you have yourself a keeper. You should really tie him or you could lose him.
This is now a Spiderman thread.
>>706940348
Well, you are strong. Maybe she thought you wouldn't leave and when you did she figured out that you really were a catch
>>706935031
Where you from?
>>706935031
You are describing Polyamory. Do some reading, it can work
>>706940409
She said he was the best she could get
>>706935031
You made your decision so who gives a shit...just don't turn into an ultra cunt when he invariably moves on...pussy is pussy after all.
>>706939841
>What is the problem with continuing to lead a guy on who obviously has feelings for me? I mean, it works really well for me personally so therefore it's alright, right?
If you really had feelings for the guy you would not torture him so you selfish bitch.
until tits and a timestamp, OP is a dude.
>>706939841
Fellow femanon here. Ignore all the haters on here, you never meant to cause any harm. Would you mind posting a picture of him just so we can see who you're talking about?
>>706940013
Threads like this have been happening and responded to since /b/'s creation fag. If you don't like it, then leave
And since the last pic was bullshit, maybe a pick of his dick? Between your tits?
>>706940985
Tits or fuck off
>>706940571
Northeast United States
>>706940471
What the fuck is wrong with you? You're willing to subject this poor guy to the likes of this bitch? He deserves better and he'll find better because he's only 18. If this cunt isn't willing to settle down, then let her rot until the day she realizes she should have taken the chance, but it'll be long gone by then.
ITT fragile anons fell for obvious bait
>>706941153
I see. Is your first initial "C"?
>>706940985
>>706941099
Not attention whoring, looking for answers or confirmation. Not here to post pics, newfags
>>706941260
Wow... I was literally the only person defending you and this is the response I get. All I wanted was a picture of the guy so I can get some context. Fuck you too honey
>>706941260
you're ONLY looking for confirmation. you want others to tell you that you're doing no wrong to soothe your guilty conscience.
You're a dirty slut with no heart. if he expects a relationship and you cant reciprocate, do him a favor and cut it off. Confused rejection is worse than confirmed rejection. if this is b8 10/10
>>706939276
>tells niggers who keep bumping to kys
>bumps to do this
Kys nigger
>>706941379
that'll learn ya, fucking retard.
ur just a simple whore
>>706935031
Fuck off Sarah
>>706935031
Not just a bitch but a stupid slutty one.
>>706935031
Hey anon here. Been messing around with this girl for a little over a month and she wants to be in a relationship w/me. I'm not interested in that, with anybody, not just her. I already know she is the best I can get and she resents me for making my choice. What do? Am I an asshole?
>>706941527
I'm maybe a whore but I'll get to fuck whoever I want.
Hey all. I have been lying to all of you. This is really the "guy" in question. I have been answering all your questions with quotes or near quotes from the girl I have pretended to be. I posted from her perspective because I know 2 things about /b
They love to think they're talking to a real life 3D girl
And they would have told a guy to "fuck her as much as you can then leave"
What say you now, to me, after knowing the other side of the story?
>>706939759
the issue is not him being bald but the lack of eyebrows
>>706941738
>>706941713
>entitled bitch alert
kys thanks
>>706941456
>wat is sage
lurk moar, faggot
>>706935031
If you don't want a relationship you shouldn't be in one
>>706941738
youre autistic and she deserves better than you
beta bitch
>>706935031
I kinda had a similar situation when I first started dating my current boyfried. He wanted to be in a relationship but I didn´t want have any boyfried because just three months before I was left by a guy I had a long but disappointing relationship with. However, my boyfriend and I kept hanging out and it became clear we were technically already in a relationship although we kept saying "we just met and never stopped". Now it´s 2 and a half year later and I´m happier than ever with him. Don´t know if that helps but I think if you really like him give it a shot.
Don´t know if you already made up your mind, didn´t read the whole thread.
Also, don´t come to /b/ for advice...
>>706941713
I'm proud of you
>>706941713
you have to respect him, if he thinks that something is possible between you two, and if it's not the case for you, you have to be clear as water with him.
>>706942125
ur a nice whore slut, I like you
>>706941738
Prove you're OP with screenshots at least 3 of our responses then. We'll be waiting
>>706942125
damaged goods alert!
>>706939841
stupid bitch, i was in "that guy's situation", not having a gf after few years then we go out buncha times, i talk to her in school, kiss her on cheek, she didn't say she doesnt want anything with me so i thought there is a chance, she was leading me like that for a good month after when i kept asking her out she finnaly grew balls and giant futa cock to tell me she doesn't want to date me, but using SMS tho,
don't be the same bitch, femanon, tell him now, don't prolong the suffering
>cunt
>>706935031
tits or gtfo
>>706935031
Yup you a bitch.
Diagnalize ur anus op, i'm goin inside my house.
>>706942125
Woman are so sexist thinking every guy is the same...
The thing is r u a user or can u dump this friend & stand alone
>Hey femanon here.
You know the rules. Tits or gtfo
Why don't you just try it?
>>706937221
What happened to you nigga?
>>706935031
>>706938345
Her reply to you is her telling you she wants attention. You're a fucking idiot.
>>706942793
It´s not like I didn´t want to be in a relationship bc I´d think it´d go in the same way as the last one, it´s more like I had planned to be single for a while like finding myself or some bullshit. Also I´m far from thinking every guy is the same, but you´re right it´s definitely bad advice to project the bad experiences from the past to a whole new person and thus never even try to make it work
>>706937336
This
After skimming through this thread.. holy shit, OP. You're a remorseless whore in denial.
>>706943544
Well how about you stop trying to find yourself you fucking cunt and be a good whore by finding your camera and sending tits you fucking bitch.
>femanon
>Tits or Gtfo
>>706938983
I hope he doesnt anymore. I feel pretty bad for this guy.
>>706935031
first of the fucking all this: >>706936879
>>706943012
Second, you're just an irrational woman.
>>706939699
dubs of truth.
>>706937546
You are a whore, thats it
>>706937546
so why are you leading him on? just cut ties. jesus christ, i feel sorry for the dude. he's being handled by a bitch who even couldnt hang out with him for a dinner date.
>>706937546
Stop being such a typical college slut, you fit the exact stereotype.
You and people like you deserve no one. Go contract aids and leave the poor guy out of it before you get pregnant. sick, inconsiderate, heartless bitch whore.
>>706939228
Yeah and you acted like if you were in a relationship or at least you gave hopes to the guy that you could have a relationship with the guy, but at the end you just watch your hands by saying i told you i'm not interested in a relationship, so you dont feel tied down to suck cock in college, you are the definition of an autistic slut
>>706935203
The rule is tits or gtfo. You probably don't want to be asking this to /b/.
Look, it doesnt matter how the fuck you think you covered your ass by telling him you didnt want a relationship, he was lead on. And now hes come to you wanting more because of all the things you two both did that got his heart hoping.
Personally, if I were him I would be heartbroken to know how little you seem to really care after reading all of this. That youre struggling to decide if its worth it is crushing, and I would have left you out of shame and sadness. He deserves a woman that is excited to be with him.
If you want to have the freedom to fuck dudes at college thats cool, I can understand that. So tell him its over and thats that. Quit being a goddamn chump.
I really hope he wises up and quits wasting his time with you.
>mfw this shit thread is still getting bumped
/b/ is kill
Reading shit like this makes me wish I was gay or plant.
>>706939228
You lead him on by playing at his emotions by giving mixed signals.
this guy wants someone to love, and you've probably expressed that you want to be emotionally intimate with this guy AS WELL AS sexually intimate. You're such a blame-placing piece of shit. Just stop fucking him if it's such a big issue. You'll avoid a clingy beta fag while you find some fucktoy in college and will be avoiding months of conflict in the future.
>>706935031
You know the rules bitch, tits or gtfo.
tell him to fuck off faggot
dubs
