Post your biggest mistakes in life ITT. >fell in love
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Post your biggest mistakes in life ITT.
>fell in love
In b4 didnt talk to her
believed in her, and let myself fall.
>>706252338
I fucked her several times a day for 2 years.
>>706252027
This!
I was a happy little sociopath... then I fell in love, was rejected and have become lonely. And in this state I have been ever since.
made fun of her on 4chan
Woke up this morning.
>>706252594
How can a sociopath fall in love? Also how can you fall in love without even dating?
>heroin addict
>grabbed dad by throat last night
>spent 8 years dating older mentally fucked up woman
>wasted college and early business years because I didn't know how to work, or that I suffered from depression. I just drank, did drugs, was jealous of everyone, and stayed poor while everyone else got rich.
>never stood up for myself or my sister when lived with abusive parents
I don't know which of those is worst
Stayed in friendzone instead of living my life with someone who loved me back
so heres the beta thread
>>706252705
I probably only thought I was a sociopath. Everyone just felt so beatifully distant until I met her.
I fell in love without dating, because we worked together. And you know: Working sometimes gets boring, so you start chatting a bit... and well... I was enchanted.
>>706252923
Here's the alpha male with the perfect life everyone. How many hoes you got on your dick rn, Chad?
>>706253115
go back to >>706243538
Biggest mistake ever
>>706253076
You liked her a lot. That isn't love. Love is when you share everything, your deepest secrets, your biggest fears, and how deeply you want them in your life. You tell them all your new dreams that consist entirely of them. Then they do the same for you. They make you feel special. Then something fucks up and they cheat or you cheat, or you grow apart. And it's the worst feeling.
>>706253115
>they dont exist
and yet you complain about their very existence every day
so what is it, motherfucker. being held down by the chad that dosent exist?
>>706252027
looked up this page on google http://wuoo co/YjUz
>>706253457
Who's complaining? I hope you are just kidding and aren't too stupid to understand basic sarcasm.
>>706253198
She never cheated. I'm certain of that.
>>706253562
>its not sarcasm
shit man you got me. i couldnt tell the difference between you being retarded or not. hell, still cant!
>>706253756
and thats what hundreds of thousands of other men have said
and were wrong about.
your not one of them tho. im sure about it.
>>706253756
>wifing bitches
>>706253776
>>706253823
Of course.
>>706253439
After some time I actually shared a lot with her, but yes, you might be right: it probably was not "love" in its deepest and purest form. (I have experienced what you described later in life.) But it was not simply having a crush either.
So: Is there a word that shitty state in between?
>>706253858
We never got married.
>>706253997
Infatuation?
Cheated on my bf with his dad :/
Let my Family fall a part, probably was the only one that could do something about it
>>706254059
Tits or gtfo
>>706252027
>falling for the love meme
ya big silly
>>706254070
So why didn't you?
>>706254130
Idubbbz, is that you?
>>706254003
u r a fuk nigga
pull up nigga
we got 30s in them 40s nigga
fuk round and get u ass put on a shirt fuk nigga
pussy nigga
teeth in the ass ass nigga
tell ya mama rent u a book frm the library ass nigga
run from the mop ass nigga
told yall
man fuk w a real skreet nigga pussy nigga
>>706254088
Could be a faggot
>>706254088
No.
>>706254175
Nigger?
>>706254177
Higher chance of being girl since she fucked bfs dad. Much rarer among fags.
>>706253076
Such edgy
>>706254255
So you're an ugly bitch then?
>>706254033
(I am not a native speaker, so this comment should be taken with a mountain of salt.)
To me infatuation sounds a bit too superficial to describe the state I was in. It also sounds more obsessive. I did not have the desire to own her. After the initial phase I wanted to see her be happy and to help her through some difficult phases (uni can be really annoying sometimes).
706254070
Was very young at the time, still think about it from time to time
>>706254289
How? I described how I was bested by a woman.
I got married.
Actually I guess it doesn't matter I was miserable before I got married.
I think it was my destiny to die young as a junkie but I miraculously turned my life around and the universe is punishing me for not dying of an OD in a gutter like I was supposed to.
>>706254306
No need to be mean :/ people at school think I'm pretty so I don't need to know what you think
>>706252027
In this ITT faggots feeling miserable
>I'll pass
Spent 10,000 on weed and smoked it all in 6 months
>>706254507
Saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaame fuck I wish I had my money instead of crippling depression.
I live with scars but not regrets. I like who I am today and even the negative experiences of my past have made me who I am today.
Wasted my late teens and early 20s drinking and smoking shit alone and being a useless drop-kick.
>>706254342
I guess you could call that love. Very basic love.
>>706254427
Where did everything go wrong?
>>706254451
Try harder.
>>706254492
>in this ITT
At least we understand acronyms, nigger.
>>706254507
Bruuh. Why not a better drug at least?
>>706254616
Indeed. I just wanted to help those in need and maybe get a few things off my chest myself.
>>706254659
So where does that leave you now?
Learning to play guitar
>>706254849
How is that a mistake? It's great for meeting women.
>>706254849
how is this a mistake?
>mine: getting married.
>>706254764
Because I refuse to touch meth and that's literally the only thing you can get in my entire state apart from weed
>>706252027
choice of degree, inducing a psychosis with shrooms
>>706252027
Let her know i love her
>>706254764
>Very basic love.
That is probably the best way to put it. Also lines up with later experiences which were a "refinement" of the one I described here.
And no: None of those later experiences worked out either. That is why I regret the first one.
>>706252027
I put my dick in crazy.
Graduated with a bachelors in a field I realized too late that I utterly despise.
>>706255209
Age?
>>706254922
What state? You can get any drug anywhere. Just gotta know where to look. But it must have been hard to deal with smoking not nearly as much once you'd ran out right?
>>706254954
Worth experiencing at least?
>>706255027
The bigger mistake would have been to say nothing.
>>706255029
So you keep falling for girls without making a move? Have you even tried?
>>706255058
She fucked up your car because you fucked her sister. Something like that right?
>>706255209
It's something at least. Never too late to go back and redo some shit either.
>>706254907
>be 11
>learn guitar from advanced instructional videos/skip beginner stuff
>get pretty good at 3 finger picking (Doc Watson) and leads (Clapton/Hendrix)
>join band at 16
>singer has cute girl but he don't like her, so he lets me talk to her, we talk often n shit-but she a bitch (fucks everybody but yo ass)
>drummer introduces me to cigs, weed, 2pac and the worst...stealing
>end up heartbroken over the bitch and criminal record real quick for the stealing
>Feel like I could have taken a different life journey if I had of learned to play the Tuba
>
>>706255405
those are all young people mistakes. they are almost "mandatory" in a sense.
how old are you now?
>>706255405
Those temptations are shown to us all the time. Everyone will encounter drugs at a fairly young age. Most avoid it. You were just one who indulged. Nothing to do with guitar.
>>706255335
>Worth experiencing at least?
The worst feeling you can imagine. I was living in an unending nightmare from age 18 to 21/22 I guess.
>>706255506
mandatory retardation for kids with shit parents
>>706255652
Were you sectioned? That sounds horrible.
>>706255335
I'm in Tasmania Australia so everything is rare as hell and meth/ice is easier to get then alcohol here
Literally 2nd day sober in 6 months and I'm all amped and having withdrawals from tabbaco
>>706255506
I'm an oldfag now...caught the record 3 months after graduating high school with a 4.082 #28 out of 300...that chick's already had like 2 or 3 kids now...I snuck in a good job before the trial so I didn't have to lie on the application about background shit....had that job 5 years making 15/hr but that shit shut down and went overseas....now I'm fucked as an entrepreneur but at least not dead or in jail
>>706255678
bullshit. you can have the best parents and the most conducive upbringing and you can still make stupid mistakes based on lack of life experience alone.
but i guess you're just spouting bullshit broad statements because of the site we're on.
either way. he's probably young and will probably correct based on his regret. good for him.
>>706255738
I went voluntarily. Meds saved me, but didn't cure me. So the way I get completely rid of the panic attacks and reality loss was calming me down with poppy seed tea, because I read that opiates have anti psychotic effects.
>>706255792
Try replacing your addictions with slightly better ones, or even a good one. Like exercise every time you want a smoke.
>>706255543
it was hard to avoid it when your idol is Hendrix and hell, even Clapton singing about Cocaine ffs lol....
>>706255897
Do you have to keep drinking it still? I can't imagine how fucked that would have been.
>>706255928
Clapton got his kid killed while on cocaine.
>>706255405
>Feel like I could have taken a different life journey if I had of learned to play the Tuba
Well I guess that goes for everyone
>>706256022
>plays Debbie Downer tuba music...wonk wonk wonk
>>706255899
Yeah that's what I did before, I was clean for previous 2 years, got fired from a new job I just started and quit last one for after being at new job for 3 months, haven't had friends or living family since highschool, got depressed lost gains and spent last 6 months trying to fill some void
>>706256333
You could do it again. Get a new job after sobering up. Keep clean and try to socialize with people at places you find even a little bit interesting. It sounds much harder than it is.
>>706253076
you type like a 12 year old faggot
>>706252027
i know a guy for 22 years he lives in a block near and i was sure a certain window is to his room but month ago i realized its not
>>706252825
you sound like a buddy of mine that i grew up with.
didn't die in my sleep tonight
>>706256701
Sounds interesting. Did you crawl into some old woman's home while she was fingering her wrinkly old cooter?
>>706256846
Make sure you do tonight then.
>>706256951
I hope I will!
>>706256980
We all do.
>>706254342
Love is indeed the word you would use. One weakness of English is that it has many words for bad feelings, but has very words for good ones. The word love is one such weakness. It's used to cover basically any positive emotion stronger than like. You love your dog. You love your sister. You love your girlfriend of three months. You love your spouse of 50 years. You love that new show you're binge watching on netflix, and if I am to believe you when you say that you had more than a crush on this girl, then yes, you probably loved her. Keep in mind however, that there are other, deeper forms of love that some people may automatically think to when you use the word, and it would be best not to confuse them.
>>706256003
No I am completely fine since 4 years or so. I have a light panic attack once every six months but that is nothing to the mind crushing panic attacks I had on a regular basis back then.
I just took poppy seed tea 4 or 5 times and it somehow broke the circle of absolute dread by inducing happy feelings.
>>706256870
no i just tried to not run around naked in front of that window , unnecessary
>>706257044
wow, you have it pretty fucking made if that's what you come up with for your biggest mistake in life
>>706257025
That's good to see. It's not every day people recover from shit like that. Most end up blowing out their own brains or something.
>>706257044
How old are you?
>>706255335
>So you keep falling for girls without making a move? Have you even tried?
I have tried and failed a few times. I do make moves, but I get either friendzoned, shamed or end up in a weird half-assed-non-relationship.
Overall I make progress on the female frontline, but I am not talent.
>>706252027
>love at first sight
>her name is 4chan
>I no longer have room in my life for any meaningful relationships
Majored in graphic design
Didnt sleeped with college grills when i had the chance.
Played video games instead of having an actual childhood
>>706257197
>How old are you?
29 , when im drunk enough i dance naked on the streets and break road signs , thats shithole i live in
>>706257019
Really good and interesting comment. I will keep it in mind when discussing this and similarly ambigouus words.
>>706257500
Disgusting, is that Germany?
>>706257301
You're trying too hard or you're being creepy. Smile, say hello, introduce yourself. They're human too, but they know exactly what you want just by how you act. They will friendzone you if you come across as creepy, which is easy to do it you only go after girls you love. Try going after someone unattractive. Not disgusting, just not your usual choice. Go after them and you'll be confident. Eventually you'll have enough confidence to go for better looking women, etc. Good luck, anon.
>>706257315
You're never freed.
>>706257346
You have the chance now.
>>706257375
Didn't we all?
>>706257161
but imagine you believe you have a dog for 22 years and then turns out its a cat , similar
>>706252027
born, i wish i was aborted
>>706257558
even worse - poland
>>706257669
Nigga you high as fuck
>>706252682 this
/thread
I quit.
>>706252841
>>706252027
abusing xanax and other benzos. they pretty much ruined for my 5 years and i still have epilepsy. eh.
>>706257701
>>706257757
>>706257761
It's never too late.
>>706257707
Well you know, I am asking because my area looks almost the same + SJWs and robbing refugees + Salafists.
Cheer up, browsky.
>>706257805
Make up for it by getting good gains.
>>706257621
>You're trying too hard or you're being creepy. Smile, say hello, introduce yourself. They're human too, but they know exactly what you want just by how you act. They will friendzone you if you come across as creepy, which is easy to do it you only go after girls you love. Try going after someone unattractive. Not disgusting, just not your usual choice. Go after them and you'll be confident. Eventually you'll have enough confidence to go for better looking women, etc.
I realized that too. Trying too hard is why I fucked up with the first lady.
After adopting a do-not-care attitude things have improved considerably and getting on a date with a woman is no longer a problem. Sometimes I go with women who I am interested in and sometimes not. My confidence has also improved after taking dance classes. (To all anons having trouble with the Y-chromosomeless humands: Dance classes fucking work!)
But even with all this progress I had only two girls crushing on me. In one I was not interested at all and the other one led to a weird half-non-relationship for a few weeks.
I just have not found out how to go from having dinner or movie nights to: Let us discuss relationship shit.
> Good luck, anon.
Thank You and thank You for Your advice. I will keep on fighting.
>>706257805
But they feel great.
>>706258046
been trying eating healthy... doing shit with my life... im kind of getting there. but last night had a light epilepsy ending up gnawing the fuck out of my tongue....
>>706258119
what you talkin bout willis
>Going to do sea-clifft climbing alone
>Thinking that it would be better to jump down than trying to get a better grip with the risk of falling backwards if i would have failed
And the worst mistake of all.
>Jumping down when the wave came so i hit the rocks below as the wave go
>>706258115
>I just have not found out how to go from having dinner or movie nights to: Let us discuss relationship shit.
Nigga, this IS most relationship shit...you find the right movie (at home) and the right drinks (wine) and snacks (roofies) and you'll get that part you feel you're lacking
>>706258236
Benzos give a great buzz. nothing to regret
>>706258366
no but the epilepsy that can induce if you abuse them for years... a part from that benzos felt fucking awesome. it really suited me with the social anxiety i had. i aint touching them anymore.. id rather have a shit ton of anxiety then grand mal epilepsy
anybody posting about love or "her", kys.
>>706254616
Not leaving Indiana sooner
Going to college in Indiana
Not leaving Indiana again
Not putting 60k into internet at the bust point
Not leaving Indiana again
Not selling every single thing I owned before leaving Indiana
Paying off the house in Indiana with gold at 430/oz
Carrying the house at -10k annually waiting while it vacilated between vacant and trashed by renters
Not again selling everything everything I own before moving again across country
Every time I go back to Indiana (eg next week)
Basically anons, go to college where you want to live and if you don't pack anything you can't truly live without in your hatchback the day you graduate and go. You just get more and more that weighs you down to a place.
Still I'm happy now and would suffer it all again twice to get here again once.
about that thinking love is a mistake , stop now and think , you have a choice :
be in love with someone , have sex 15 times a day , play video games together and watch movies - it will last for few years then everything will get fucked up and you will suffer
OR
dont have it all and be a retarded virgin like all of those losers
now what would be a mistake ?
>>706258564
and where is this Paradise you're at now that is so much better than Indiana?
>>706258348
While You are right about me not getting laid, I KNOW there is more to a relationship than just hanging out. I know there are some women I have feelings for and some I have no feelings for.
Don't get me wrong: Getting laid would not be bad either (even though I won't resort to drugging guests), but that is actually not the main thing I worry about.
>>706257500
lel polish faggit
>>706258788
so you want that part of the relationship where you argue about where your paycheck is going, where you're at when you aren't home, "he's just a friend", "it's girl's night out", etc etc? seriously, even without the sex, the dinner and movies are about as good as you can ask for, the rest of the parts of the relationshit are what usually end up ending it
>>706258729
A mistake is for example if you dont punch the slut that destroyed your life.
>>706258736
Denver. P the Californians and weed are fucking shit up but everything I love about this country is Rockies and west, I could be deep in Moab before noon, Yellowstone in two days, Rocky mtn national is an afternoon adventure there and back, but honestly it's more not running into that Midwest attitude "where else would you go?"
I'll be homeless before I ever do more than visit back east.
>>706253076
THIS. All of this. Fuck all you faggot motherfuckers. This right here. This is it gentlemen. The reason were miserable. We shut ourselves off to the world happily, then the moment we open up to someone they rip the only pieces of our putrid heart that we had left. Now what the fuck do we fucking do?!?! They're always on our minds now constantly reminding us of the fabricated lives well never have. Fuck all of you and this stupid site
>>706258995
I think I made my point very poorly. The activities like dinner, movies and travelling are completely fine by me. What I look for is an emotional connection
Yes, fights, arguments etc. may result from this, but I want to at least have felt something once for someone and have that feeling returned. Yes, it might no last forever and involve loads of crap. But at least I want to experience this once.
>>706259278
that's one sad fucking picture.
porn
>>706259173
nahhhh that would be weakness , if something gets fucked up i get pissed off on myself as im the only one strong and with brain around , most of women are just dull cunts so who should be responsible for anything ? me or them ? as im making decisions its on me
>>706259405
oh ok, now I get it, you're gay.
>>706259278
I liked a girl at work in college. Chatted it up for a while. Asked her out, she said no to a casual date I shrugged and moved on. The worst part is there was another girl who probably would have said yes standing right there and really it was a toss up but you only get one bite at the workplace apple and I tried for the wrong one. The whole thing caused me to be a little bummed for like a whole evening before moving on. Man dating is rough.
>>706259636
and i know how strange my sentences look , thats my style , it happened after roleplaying troll
>>706252594
I'm in your footpath, won't i ever change back to who i was?
>>706252027
I sucked a homeless dudes dick because I lost a bet.
>>706259706
Nope, in that case I would have lost my virginity earlier and to a man.
>>706259789
Trolls can't solve the captcha and you're not playing d&d do fuck of with that shit.
>>706259789
>i put spaces before AND after punctuation
wew lad
>>706259811
You might. I won't. I found it impossible to return the past, so tried to do the best I can do in the present.
Good luck finding Your way.
>>706259813
Greentest story
>>706259952
no i mean words i use and their locations
>>706260059
You must be an amazing role player!
>>706260163
im not doing it now but that shit damaged my ability to communicate , try to talk like troll from warcraft all the time for a month
>>706252027
>>fell in love
I also fell in love with a girl who we ended up having weird friendly/sexual tension/distant relationship (and we never fucked).
She kind of broke my heart, gave me mild depression.
But it definitely was not a bad thing. Yeah, my heart hurt.. but it was the greatest motivator, to evolve further as a human being
to finally become more manly, to become more serious etc.
I realized it was time to stop being overly youthful and boyish and careless, since a girl I fell for really wanted (still wants) a mature person, despite liking me a lot.
So this sad moment was def a big push in life.
How the fuck is love a mistake op?? I'd understand if you told your mistake was you ran with scissors or accidentally burned your little brother alive. But love will from all aspects be a good thing.
>>706252825
Now this is a man who really made mistakes.
And fights them.
fucking op - boohoo :((( I fell in L0ve :( *sad tears*.
fuck you OP.
>>706253115
Drove to fuck a girl.
On my way fucked another one.
Have one old BDSM fuckbuddy who I adore.
Have had countless 5 minutes Date & we fuck events.
Have 2 girls who are hitting on me (I really can't fuck that fucking many at the same time so I keep them distant)
Have my secret crush also
Now that's being a Chad.
>>706253439
now this guy gets it.
very deep emotional connection is #1. And you'd be REALLY ready to die for that person. Not just fantasize about it, but really would give your life for them.
Secondly it's when you like the person without really knowing why.
For example the girl I love (I think it's love) is definitely not the prettiest one. She is really pretty, but not the big ass/big boobs bimbo.
She had something else (as a scientist I can be less romantic and way it was pure chemistry - we on basic level both felt that our pheromones matched perfectly).
>she has that walk, she has that talk.jpg
This little girl is the most beautiful thing I ever met, despite anything.
>>706252027
>trusting women
Hoes and bitches mang. At least those are my personal experiences.
>>706254616
/thread
>>706252027
I divided by 0.
>>706257019
fuck you, immigrant scum
http://www.thesaurus.com/browse/love
>>706256701
shit, that's crazy
>>706252705
socio here, we arent 100% emotionless, in fact sometimes we can make a choice to let some emotion grow on us. its usually a bad fucking idea
>>706257301
Dude.. I not only tried - went to dates, got super drunk together, danced in rave parties, we had amazingly good time at friends country house, we have quite a lot of things common (the most probably being that we love travel, sports, animals and are kind of oldfags/loners among our friends (all best buddies are about 3-4 years younger than us)) etc etc etc.
We have weird sexual tension always.
She made the first move when we met. So she def likes me.
And I was such a noob back then I never made a move further. She def wanted a fuck. Maybe still wants.
So the problem was that I was and still relatively am fucking poor. Not that she cared, but by being poor I had blotched self-confidence. Like, where do you even take a girl when you own nothing?
It was back then. It was a bit sad.
So I made this whole situation into motivation - I work 5x harder now. No matter what she still thinks of feels after all this time, I have a vision that I will work myself into some wealth and next time we will meet, I will emerge as Phoenix, or as Superman.
Girls need surprises.
No matter if there is still any feelings, I will prove to myself who I am.
Biggest regret - not fucking a girl when she needed it.
- not fucking working harder when I had to, but that only concerns my cash balance now, nothing more
Things that have bee the biggest successes
- Helping A LOT of friends and acquaintances without asking anything back. I got so many close friends it is unreal. I could literally be a bum for 2 or more years and still get a bedplace and food, till everyone got annoyed hah
- starting going to gym seriously. God - this molded me from smart beta to amazing alpha
>>706252338
Actually talking to her
>>706258115
Rules of thumb
> forget her to get her
Means you start fucking ignoring her a little. People who are too clingy are annoying, no matter how good friends they are. Same goes in a relationship.
&
> surprise her.
When you act, act in a cool, unordinary manner.
An example - I had a crush. I knew where she works. For Valentines instead of messaging or calling her, I bought a ton of flowers, went to her workplace very early in the morning and left them there with a notice to the administrator, but anonymously.
Girl was really happy and posted it to social media later with all her friends being jealous of her newfound secret admirer.
Much later I naturally somehow revealed it was me.
These are thing you do. something special. Something you will have to do if you are in a real long-term relationship.
>>706258210
Jesus fucking christ that looks painfun. Cant you blaze it 420 to get rith of epilepsy?
>>706252027
I could have stopped my dad from killing himself, but I did not say the right words the night before.
>>706252027
>Post your biggest mistake
discovered /b/
>>706255652
>unending nightmare
When did it end anon?
>oh when i was about 21/22
>>706252027
bought a 4chan pass. Regret and remorse sets in when you see
>Thank you for supporting 4chan.
>>706254070
Fall apart*
Learn how to spell fuck boi.
