did losing your virginity change you as a person?
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did losing your virginity change you as a person?
>>703586278
wizard here bumping for interest
Yes
>>703586278
i was a closeted faggot before, and after i wasn't as closeted as i used to be
It made me only view women as sex objects
>>703586801
How so?
>>703586853
This
>>703586278
Nope.
It's strange because you can always spot a virgin.
yes and no.
by yes, it uplifted the pressure of me having to lose my viginity as each year make it seems like i'll never lose it. also experienced something that everyone wants to experience
no because i still felt like the same old person
>>703586830
>>703586856
Honestly, things aren't really that different. Its not like something magical happens or you turn into a unicorn. You had sex, it felt pretty good probably, and you probably want to do it again. That's about it :^)
>>703586278
yes, before you view the pussy as a conquest to be had and are full of angst because of it.
after its like a relieving feeling and you can function more normally (especially around women)
It lets you realize sex is overrated as a form of love but sex is meaningless and should be for pleasure alone
Nope
>>703586829
exactly how closeted were you before you lost virginity?
>>703586278
No. It just happened, we both agreed that it was a shitty experience, then kept trying until it got better.
Masturbation, on the other hand, has changed me as a person. For the worse. I fap every day and I can't stop myself. I'm addicted to porn. I waste countless hours just browsing absolutely nothing, occasionally jerking myself off to whatever seems novel to my crippled sex drive. Please help me.
>>703586856
Confidence boost, permanent as well. Lets you know you're not a complete desolate loser
The girl I lost it to was smoking hot so yeah I guess you could say it was a confidence boost.
>>703587053
Dis
>>703587105
and kids if that's your thing
>>703587169
i thought i was straight but was only attracted to penis, and men disgusted me.
>>703586278
nope.
>did losing your virginity change you as a person?
I lost my magical wizard powers.
I lost my virginity this week to a girl I met online. we only met one time, and it was a lot of fun. but she has not responded to me since. just cut me off completely.
I don't regret it, but I will be sad if i never get to see her again. its also hard to go back to my regular fapping now too...
I did learn a lot from the experience though. a lot about how its actually not that difficult, and that most women secretly want sex a lot more than you would think.
I did get a pretty big boost of confidence too, it feels good that I can simply answer 'no' now when asked if I am a virgin, instead of going into detail about blowjobs etc.
Although this may have been a one time thing, and I won't do it again for a while, it was a good experience, and the memory of it will keep me going for a while...
not in the slightest. maybe some more confidence if anything. male.
>>703587892
did you frequently get asked if you were a virgin?
>>703586278
Absolutely. But it was the falling in love with someone and eventually losing them that changed me. Not just the fact that my peepee had been in a vagoo
>>703586278
Only in the fact that I felt absolutely nothing, got bored, faked it, and then proceeded to feel nothing at all for the next four girls. All of this eventually lead to me preferring cock.
>>703586278
Does fucking a girl exclusively in the ass count as losing your virginity? If so then I'd say no.
>>703586278
yes, wanting even more punani
>>703586278
I think it did. It certainly changed the dynamic of my relationship with my gf. We were both so coy with one another in the beginning, but now there's a sort of closeness that comes with it.
>>703586278
Not so much the sex part. More the way she treated me afterwords. We were really good friends, she knew I had a crush on her. We fucked. She told me to keep it a secret from our friends. I move on, have a real GF cuz just friends. She tells all our friends in front of my new GF trying to start drama. No drama. Stop hanging out with her. Later she turns all my friends against me. Starts dating abusive guy. Who cares. Thanks for the sex weirdo. Fast forward 6 years we're still sorta friends. Have had sex with some other girls since then. Life is life man
>>703588405
well sex is sorta INTIMATE
>>703587892
enjoy the herpies, this why she no answer
>>703586278
I think it's a really empowering feeling, like I sort of accomplished something by courting a woman enough to let me in her pants.
Of course, I'd actually fallen deeply in love, so losing my virginity was like magic that I'll never forget. I guess it made me kind of a pompous asshole at the time though. I'll never forget her aviators and hair that covered half her face.
r.i.p. muse
It unlocked a ravenous sexual appetite and it ended with a pregnant girlfriend. Who I moved in with and will soon marry. We're pretty happy. I guess it just sped up my family plans.
i learned what women will do when drunk despite their bf
>>703588629
i love pie
>>703588727
the love of my life left me after taking my virginity,
I've had other conquests and romances, some spanning years and thousands of miles.
to make it worse, its only been a year and I see them in porn on 4chan sometimes.
>>703586278
some people feel a sense of accomplishment or rather they've jumped a life "hurdle". It's all about frame of mind. If you're in a group that doesn't give a shit about losing virginity (aka just go to the whores and get it over with its really nothing)
>>703587445
this is like a scary reality to me
it's like the only thing that gets me hard any more...
Absolutely
>>703588315
I honestly would like to know though
>>703589728
i would say that counts as losing your virginity... why are you so against doing it the normal way?
I'm 19 and I haven't lost my virginity yet. I had a chance a while back but I really feel like waiting.
>>703589899
Wasn't an option at the time
>>703590332
how was her penis ? feminine ?
>>703586278
No. losing your virginity isn't the life changing experience people make it out to be . Sex is overrated
>>703586278
>>703587017
> it lifted the pressure of me having to lose my viginity
THIS
>>703586829
Kek
>>703590524
good sex isn't overrated, when you've had it you'll never say that bullshit again
Yes
I was a whiteknight, sex has redpilled me.
it's shit
it's overrated
I tried like everything you could do
you get close no pleasure from it
peeing after holding for a while is ever better than this shit
hand is better and I'm not even joking
I still get sex, but I get my pleasure from degrading the woman.
AMA if you want.
>>703590713
>good sex isn't overrated
Virgin spotted, actually thinks there's sex that's other then good
>>703586278
Nope. Nothing changed. In fact, every time a girl wants to fuck, it feels like a drag. I just don't crave it as much I guess. I'm still nervous around some girls, but it's easier being around fat, ugly girls obviously. Still...I think something is wrong with me
>>703590869
1/10 made me reply
>>703590713
Nah, sex is way overrated, no matter how 'good' it is
>>703590778
>it's shit
>it's overrated
you're obviously doing it wrong
>>703588629
>Herpies
>Her Pies
I love pies.
>>703588315
Fuck yah
>>70359098
>1/10 made me reply
replies are overrated
but does losing virginity to a hooker makes a difference?
sex only sucks if you are uncomfortable... if you both arent getting into it, how is it supposed to be fun? just gotta be with the right person...
>>703586278
>>703586278
I was raped by my mother when I was 12. My father denied it, my brother ignored it, and she threatened me into silence for the next 7 years. I cant bear even thinking about sex, reminds me that every time i tried to tell someone they all had the same answer
>men can't be raped
It made me want it much less. Now I'm even more chilled out.
>>703586278
let's put it this way: if it would have been different, I think I'd still be no genius today
>>703590869
Clearly a virgin. If you've had sex you'd know there is such a thing as bad sex because the first time you have sex will be terrible.
>>703591214
Nope,since women are incapable of love
>>703591346
When I lost my virginity it was fucking great
>>703590778
well. I just had sex and it was great. maybe try it with a partner you like, crazy idea, I know, hah ;-)...
I took my girlfriend's virginity. She is still cool.
>>703591346
> such a thing as bad sex because the first time you have sex will be terrible.
Virgin confirmed
everyone faps to their first time, EVERYONE!
I was abused by multiple partners, so yeah finally trusting someone enough to fuck was a huge deal
>>703591548
>everyone faps to their first time
I still am... I don't even watch porn any more. I just keep the scene engraved into my mind, and relive it over and over
>>703586278
Wait, it's impossible to be on /b/ and not be a virgin
>>703586278
Made me a lot more confident.
The biggest surprise was when my first fuck moaned when I was inside. Apparently I wasn't totally terrible like I thought I would be.
>>703591016
sure thing, or maybe not
receive deepthroat
rimjobs
handjob
currently my sex life is doing some nasty shit with a girl on her twenties.
I spit on her, I hit her face, she licks my ass and do everything
>doing it bad.
People said I was a very nice shot (that's how they say it in my country), I had multiple partners, they all felt good, but just not me.
Not as good as I thought it would be
Last partner (the current one) does it a little bit better.
Maybe it's just me, and maybe it's physical, because I can last a lot more longer than the majority of men, but look at the cost of it, it makes me feel empty sometimes.
I'm not trying to say "hurr durr mah dick", but more saying that it's overrated and the cost for it is rather painful.
>>703591501
on my 27, read also what I said.
Few years ago, I came to the conclusion that I was maybe just different..
that's just sad
>>703591712
I hate to break it to you...
>>703587082
Dude I totally feel this way too. Before I lost it (lost it about 5 months ago, am 21)
I would always feel strange around girls. Now I'm like normal. It's like in the back of my head I'm like 'heh, I know what that crevice in between your legs looks like and feels like.'
It almost makes jacking it better too since you can picture any girl and imagine what her vag feels like. Luckily the girl I lost it to was also a virgin so I felt the true powah of a tight pussy.
I almost was gonna say 'nothing op you dumb fuck. You're still the same person', but this post reminded me that your behavior towards girls definitely does change. Very subtly. I feel like I can have decent convos with girls now.
Then again, it probably depends on how socially intelligent you are as well.
I, evidently, don't have the best social skills (I've been trying to get laid since 14 and have met a number of girls that would have liked to lay me since then, yet I'm 21 and just lost it) so maybe this is what losing your virginity does to unsocial weirdos like me.
>>703591848
>It almost makes jacking it better too since you can picture any girl and imagine what her vag feels like
Trust me, they aren't all the same ,some are way better then others ,why do virgins think all pussy's the same?
>>703586278
Yes. Getting laid in general changes me as a person. When I have access to sex I am calmer, more laid back, less ambitious and I almost never think about sex. When I do not have access to sex I become more perverted in my fantasies and think about sex all the fucking time. I'm also more angry and sad.
It's always been my belief that sex never seems important unless you aren't getting it.
>>703591742
so you're a little sado I guess. then it's no wonder you get no pleasure out of it ... still, best thing for you would be to find a partner who understands and is compatible ... maybe a bit submissive
>>703591742
It's not what you do, but how you do it.
And there is much more to explore than what you described.
Maybe you're just victim of the patriarchy that compel you to act tough and manly and to dominate your partner, and deep down what you need is to be pegged and suffocated.
From what you are telling us, you look like a guy who is trying to "perform" when he's having sex.
Hence, "you're doing it wrong"
>>703588101
This. The first time I had sex with a girl I loved felt fucking amazing.
>>703592303
yup, I do think the same.
>>703592340
>And there is much more to explore than what you described.
I do agree with that, because I do think sex is just doing something with both people doing it.
I never felt THAT MUCH connected
I do feel different because of the bad experience I have, but I have to hold on on hope.
>you're just victim of the patriarchy
OH FUCK OFF with this buzzword and boogeyman that doesn't even exist you little shit.
>you need is to be pegged
pls go.
>who is trying to "perform"
Maybe, but I don't even know. Spitting on the face, hitting it DOES give me pleasure, it's not even about performing that much, it's just that I tried things and I selected and kept those who could bring me a little bit more than the basic shit.
>>703591976
Because we're fucking virgins...
I still feel like one, honestly. That one time wasn't enough. It was with a girl who was getting on a plane the next morning to fly across the country back to her home. I haven't seen her since. What's worse is that she was in pain throghtout the whole thing so I couldn't take her to pound town, so to speak. It was just an hour an a half to two hours of me slow stroking her in diff positions. I still had a blast either way.
Hitting it from the back was better than I imagined it being, I'll tell you what.
>>703592744
there is a social pressure on men to be strong, to be dominant, etc...
If you are doing the thing you do to "perform" to" impress your partner" because you want to comply to what the popular image of "being a nice shot" is, you are victim of the patriarcal system who prevent some guy from admitting they just want to cuddle and have slow sex or from saying to their partner that they want to be choked
Made me realize I don't like pussy. I'd say it was important.
>>703586278
It makes your dick fall off and gives u uncontrollable diarrhoea for rest of life
>>703591976
>why do virgins think all pussy's the same?
because for the most part it is? sure some is tight and some is loose. some deep some shallow, some wet some dry but for the most part its just some squishy area of skin with a hole for your dick.
>>703587202
/Thread
No, but after being many times with hookers I've become competent at fucking.
>>703589578
not him, but penis and milfs.
maybe less porn will help.
>>703593146
>If you are doing the
I am not. People say I am a nice shot. I never tried to be it.
I don't want to be dominant. I am, it just happens
When I do sex, I do not want to be rought, I just do it, I just naturally want to chock the neck, to feel the suffocation while I am fucking, that's just natural for me.
I tried the other way around, it didn't worked, and I didn't like it. I feel that I am quite old to know what I don't like
And stop using that shit word for a concept that doesn't exist please.
>>703587398
Nah dude that's illegal. We don't talk about that stuff on 4chan.org/b/
>>703592885
it only gets better after the first time man. i don't recommend fucking a tonne of random girls however. find one and work at it with her. its 10000000x better when you know what each other likes and wants.
>>703586278
what was this bitch's name again?
It can. It's not guaranteed to, but it definitely can. It changed me. Immediately after getting laid, I left a fast food job and got a proper career. Now I've been doing IT for 5 years and I'm a supervisor.
>>703586278
U become permanent normie
>>703586278
Still a virgin.. rip.
>>703586278
Not really. In fact it kept me about the same mentality. once i got laid at 17 i felt stucked (11 years later) ive focused most of my life on video games and want sex.
>>703586853
This
when you guys are hooking up with someone, what really is the best way to go about it? are condoms worth it? is going raw worth it? are STDs the worst thing in the world? does birth control always work?
>>703590778
>>703586278
It didn't really change me as a person. But it does change how you see yourself.
Basically the first time you have sex you open up Pandora's box and see really see your sexuality for the first time, and one of 2 things will happen.
1) you are straight and totally ok with it. This is the case maybe 95% of the time. It's also the case for whoever replies this with shit, or tells me to kill myself.
2) you are straight and you are grossed out by it (me). I didn't really expect that to happen. I am definitely straight, I definitely prefer the company of women, and this was after much pondering the possibility of asexuality. I'm straight, but I find it deplorable, and now several months later I am finally comfortable with being straight (again).
>>703594922
Use a condom
Getting a chick pregnant/std's will funk your shirt up fam
No, not really. It just made me realise that women are simple sex objects. The only purpose of them is to take dicks and that's it. After that i didn't had the usual anexity around them, became confident and it helped me to get even more laid later. So yeah no not really that much
you instantly find your chill and get less goofy/spazzy after pussy.
>>703587053
Spot on
>>703594922
It's different from person to person. Someone likes going raw and someone is playing it safe. In my case it's if i know that a girl is safe I'm going in raw. If it's a one night stand I'm using a condom.
>>703594922
Hook up any way you can.
I recommend wearing a condom 100% of the time. I have stuck my penis in some questionable vagina and never regret wrapping it up.
Unless of course you don't give a shit about yourself and want sex to feel good, then forget the condom.
Really though, condoms are not so bad if you get a comfortable one with proper size and lubrication.
Once again whether or not stds are bad depends on how much you give a shit about yourself. Tbh I wouldn't give a shit about catching gonorrhea or chlamydia because we have the technology to fix those. Herpes and hpv on the other hand are for keeps. Herpes is uncomfortable, but I'll do near anything to not have herpes or hpv.
>>703595501
what about pulling out? is that safe?
>>703595744
It's safe for the girl. Not much safer for you. It does help you not make babies though.
Yeah i became more confident and started hooking up with lots of girls. hate if u want
>>703594922
Use condom, and don't be cheap on your condom. I have a sexshop near my place where they sell lots of different model, they were able to give me advice about good model for me, and it made a radical difference from the generic things that are sold in supermarket
>>703595069
>>703594962
shilling that hard
butthurt detected
>>703586278
ive been wondering for a while now and i still dont know
i dont think so, mostly because i had a lot of cyber sex before, so it doesnt really feel like anything is different
Nah.
Came inside a slag at 18 and thought 'well, at least I won't die a virgin."
I'm 23 now, still don't care, rather keep to my creature comforts of games and booze and food. Last time I had sex was a year ago. I'm not a very sociable person so while I can get it in I find myself annoyed with a girl if she sticks around and becomes needy and that isn't kind for anyone.
>>703587174
>Masturbation, on the other hand, has changed me as a person. For the worse. I fap every day and I can't stop myself. I'm addicted to porn. I waste countless hours just browsing absolutely nothing, occasionally jerking myself off to whatever seems novel to my crippled sex drive. Please help me.
jesus this is accurate
does anyone have a gf on BC? this would be perfect imo,,,....
>>703591742
>Few years ago, I came to the conclusion that I was maybe just different..
you mean youre GAY
>>703586278
Yes, my first girlfriend got me hooked on heroin the night we first fucked.
I was working in a warehouse at the time, she had promised the pussy that night, had to unload 2 semi's full of fitness equipment, got home, tired and back hurtfrom a particularly heavy piece I moved myself.
Told her I was a bit too sore from it
She made me promise not to tell anyone, sets down a dub of heroin and has me snort it, feels amazing.
Take 6 hours to cum when I hit it, not altogether pleasant the next day, for either of us
8 years later still together
>>703596467
>tfw quit masturbating for a month for no reason
>started again
>dick is super sensitive and I could jerk off in 2 minutes flat now
I don't know how this makes me feel.
>>703586278
yes but only because i lost it to my sister
nothing was ever the same after
>>703596842
>8/10 made me kek
but no, that would be simple
>>703597112
it will always be better after a break... thats why its best to not do it so much.
>>703596166
Kee guess your ass is red-raw faggoT
>>703595744
Of course, when you about to nut you pull out. No matter if she's on the pill or not. If I'm going raw, whenever i want to nut I'm pulling my gun out and cuming on her face/stomach/or back, or even some times she's swallowing. Gotta watch out anon these bitches can be slik af
>>703586278
it put the nagging thought of being a virgin to rest which is something I should not have allowed to get out of hand in the first place
It made me realize that my body still wants sex even if my mind doesn't care
>>703591037
underrated answer.
>>703598848
Lost my virginity two weeks ago. And in those two weeks I've been more horny than ever.
>>703599125
Good for you. Keep it up, man. Or don't if you don't want to.
>>703599229
Thanks, it made me feel a lot better about myslef, also I managed to beat minsweeper on expert later that day. Life is fucking good.
>>703599457
Shit dude. Well done. Next stop: that one thing you've been putting off
All it did was give me slightly more confidence
>>703587017
I agree with this guy.
before I was a virgin, I was going on online dating sites and being like "hey! we have shared interests! lets be friends" (you know the type). and girls would ignore me for the most part. Or I would just get awkward friendly conversation going with someone, that led nowhere...
I got the feeling like "well if none of these girls want to be friends, there is no way they would ever go as far as sleeping with me..." then one day i talk to this girl, and like usual, its the regular awkward conversations about shared interests, but we seemed to get along fine. so we decided to meet up. she was pretty shy, and I dont do so great around shy people, so I was thinking I would be lucky to even get a kiss out of it.
Eventually I did kiss her, and she went crazy and started making out. it eventually led to us having sex.
I was blown away by this, for a few reasons...
1- someone just had sex with me
2- someone as quiet and shy as her has such a wild side
3- maybe online dating sites really are just for hooking up
4- putting in some initiative goes a long way when you are alone with a girl
>>703586278
yes best thing that happened to me
>be me, 20 at uni
>all of a sudden flunking classes
>loose my shit a few weeks in
>get depressed and think I am a failure both academically and socially
>go on backpage and call a hooker
>loose v card and I feel high as I drive home
>drop the classes I am failing with a W
>straight A's with two classes
>GPA is still high at a 3.7
>re-do classes online over summer
>realise that my virginity has not afected others but only myself as my sex life is only known by me
>started playing my mandolin again after years
>continuing bodybuilding now that my wrist has healed from rugby
yup shits worked out for me
Yes
Made me realize how overrated sex is. I spent my high school life up until i was 17 thinking sex was the best thing ever. Then I did it and sure it was fun but it wasn't that great. I do it still do it occasionally for the hell of it if the girl is easy but if it takes any form of effort I tend to not go for it
>>703600003
also
5- maybe girls really do love sex more than I believed. I always assumed they only did it out of pressure or payback
Made me see that sex is overated, a lot.
>>703586278
I feel exactly 0% different...
>>703600466
Mostly this, but also with the realization of just how much society treats it as some kind of holy grail and symbol of adulthood or some shit like that, when it's no such thing.
This is clearly a bs thread since all anonymous are virgins by default.
>>703586278
it's a 100% load off your mind, you focus on it so much and then it happens and its usually not as great as you thought it was going to be, but you your hormones keep you wanting it and it can be amazing with the right person/situation.
>>703587548
Worth it ?
Yes. It personally changed the way I perceived relationships between people. I understood why some people would stick together when there were no true feelings involved. I began to understand why some people cheat in relationships and I basically understood how susceptible and weak we are to our own impulses.
Yes, it was totally the difference between being a mature boy and a young man.
And since I was the first guy in my group to get laid,
it gave me a good amount of social status too.
The world really opened up for me after that, gave me a lot of confidence and led to frequent sex.
>>703586278
Meh.
That's been over 20 years ago, wasn't the most important thing to ever happen.
Still prefer head.
>>703601385
This. I waited until I was 26 because I thought it would mean more (christian upbringing). Doesn't really though since sex is all about impulses. Like this guy said, start a longterm relationship and you'll both understand why ppl stay together when they're incompatible, and also why people cheat.
Nope still a samefag
>>703593597
Reading through this thread and this post called my attention.
I'm not a feminist, but there is a pressure on men to perform a more active role, and to be strong, to be tough, not to show their feelings, and so on. I abhor the use of the word "patriarchy" to describe anything, but it's idiotic to deny that there is a social pressure, be it inspired by a natural necessity to make men be/act stronger, or be it just a pattern that keeps repeating itself.
It may be harmful in a few cases, to the most feminine/gay men out there, but it's certainly not epidemic and it is not directly harmful to all men, as some retards would claim.
OP is a faggot. kill urself, rid us all. i heard that exit bags were pretty tight. much love shit fuck
>>703586278
I had an unhealthy childhood, I don't know what virginity is like. I had to be carefully instructed on what is inappropriate before I started school.
>>703586278
No
It certainly made masturbation better after knowing what a pussy felt like, and having memories to fap to though.
Lvl 20 virgin what am I .
>>703595080
You are gay, and in denial, mate.
I'm not saying this as in "haha you're a fag", I am saying this as in "women's body may not interest you as much as you want to believe".
You don't have to be attracted to hairy, muscular, big men, to be a faggot, and that's something you should always keep in mind.
>>703586278
Lost my virginity to a fatty, still the only female I've fucked, or the only person for that matter
It sucked and made me realize that A: fat people are worthless. If you're 60 pounds overweight, kill yourself. B: sex is meh, and people who honestly go for it often are doing so to fill a void. C: if she puts out because she thinks you're cute, and dates you for that reason, she's a shitty person and a cheater.
>>703586278
>be me
>age 6
>find dad's porn stash and try to kiss same sex cousin on lips
>also same age
>gay sex
>older cousin of opposite sex tries to salvage our sexuality by offering herself
>cousin wincest for next 3 years
>mfw i never had a normal sexuality
>mfw cousin was abusive and manipulative
>mfw i just like to fuck alot now but married to a wife how hardly fucks
>>703590778
I've got nothing against your opinion, but I would like to add my 'edgy' picture to your replies.
>>703602477
dont be a fag man, just add the pic and maybe shittalk the gay fucker for a bit
>>703601385
Best answer I've seen, so far.
>>703591312
Was she hot?
>>703602473
>tfw no cousin gf to have sex with as a kid
>>703586278
What kind of stupid ass question is that? Only a virgin would think that.
It's just fucking sex. Your granparents did, your parents did it, most people do it eventually, some never do.
It's not a big fucking deal, if it "changes you as a person" you are a huge fucking faggot and hopefully it changed you for the better.
Yeah, I think it's one of the reasons I don't date
A lot of women are just sluts
>>703586278
Changed me big time. Became obsessed with pussy literally we would fuck whenever we could, out doors/indoors anywhere we could get away with it. Wed fuck till my dick was raw but what i didnt realise is all of my friends that i was phasing out subconsciously. I used to be in control back in high school, i was popular everyone respected me, i was the hardest and the oldest. Girls are fucking crazy man they change you and when you're not the man you were they leave you
>>703586278
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=43pM0CwByhY
>>703605066
Just out of interest, where are you from?
>>703605066
i could not agree more
>>703605282
The US
>>703586278
Only in one way, realising how unimportant this virginity thing is.
Nope. Had sex and life carried on the same.
I mean, yeah, nutting felt good, but it wasn't life changing.
>>703586278
Yes
>You'll cum in 2 min
Went for 40 minutes couldn't cum, didn't even feel close
>Feels great
Back was fuckin sore
>Looking at 10/ 10 isn't the same
Knowing how pussy feels like makes having sex with them more of a status pleasure than a physical pleasure
>Porn is no longer as enjoyable
The sex becomes more cringe than the acting
I was tired of people using the "you must be a virgin" argument against me, as it was true. Now I can say I've had sex so they're wrong. Probably the stupidest reason to have sex ever.
>>703586278
What seems to be the trend from these responses is that every person essentially draws what they need from it, and their experience seems to be tied more to what is/was going on with their minds than with the act itself.
Interesting thread.
>>703586278
Gonna throw in my run of the mill experience.
Nope.
>In high school
>have sex with girl
>go about life
Boosted my confidence a bit maybe, but nothing earth shattering.
>>703591818
I think you know who that is. You sick fuck.
>>703606205
yea porn starts to look really fake, and you realize that everything you enjoy doing is not what they will do in porn anyway...
>fucked a girl
>shit was boring
>didn't feel any different
>still feel beta
>>703607524
Amateur porn
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>>703604578
>its not a big deal
whiteknight wizard detected
>>703586278
No. It feels good, but the superior feeling, the one I've had since I could comprehend.....is the love of the Fuhrer that lies within my heart. That is when I came alive. The touch of a woman hardly compares.
>>703588777
mundane trips
>>703586278
I guess so? I mean my view on sex changed because the first time I WILLINGLY had sex was kind of just me giving someone who turned out to be crazy a pity fuck. :/
Old news though, this was 6 years ago mind.
>>703608712
are you saying you got raped a lot?
>>703608894
I consider the time I lost my virginity to be when I decided to have sex. A lot was never implied and I don't see what difference it makes, having it taken from you isn't cool regardless of how much.
>>703608712
How do I get in on these 'pity fucks'? I could use some pity.
Made me finally accept I'm bisexual leaning towards trannies.
Guys can't get me hard at all and women, while I can fuck them, don't really interest me.
Trannies is all I fucked for the past 2 years and it has been good.
>>703609075
She was a manipulative bitch and pretty much lied about everything to get me to feel sorry for her from her abusive household to losing her first child etc.
I kinda felt bad... I guess I don't let many people in and well, I can only really do something with people I feel close to. Anyway- I did damn alright lol, but point being after some time I found out how batshit crazy she was. We broke it off and she started spreading rumors and making out like I was stalking her. She was in fact doing exactly that- trying to make me jealous by having fake phone calls infront of me (her phone literally started ringing during one of these).
I am a trap, but I still love women, sorta in a lesbian way. But when I finally hooked up with a girl, I started to see how well she reacted to me being masculine, and it may have actually made me feel less interested in being a trap...
>>703609359
Go get fucked in the ass and see how you feel after
>>703609321
Pretty much that entire first part, minus the "losing her first child" part. Pretty much that.
>>703609660
Sorry it happened to you too. :/
had little more self confidence about my physical looks and felt kinda more like an adult
>>703586278
No.
19yo femanon virgin here, I hate the pressure on people to lose it nowadays. On one hand, I just want to get it over and done with so I can actually say I'm sexually experienced (and just out of curiosity), but on the other hand I'd much rather wait and save it for the right person - if someone out there who is the 'right person' for me actually exists... things are a bit shit when you're ugly as fuck too.
>>703610414
You'll be fine- and stop bashing yourself. I'd say just wait- I didn't and it didn't do me any favors.
>>703591346
Mine was ok, I dedicated a lot of time getting her off on foreplay and while it hurt her but gave me a great orgasm, she was definitely up for getting fucked more often.
The first time I had sex was with a guy that I had known for years. He was really sweet and was also a virgin (at least that's what he told me). He had turned on some music to get us into the mood dimmed the lights. It was perfect. We started making out and right as I felt him enter, his dad pulls into the driveway...
>>703587017
thats about it
>>703607969
is any experienced fucker really watching something else?
cant imagine something more boring than a hd pornproduction with a so called "star"
>>703587202
this
>>703603107
Dude what the fuck.
>>703590778
Pretty much the same, wouldn't call him edgy
>>703591501
>>703591016
>>703594962
>>703595069
>>703602477
He's entitled to his opinion you underage limpwristed mouth-breathing soft-voiced neckbearded aids-ridden loose-assholed fat ugly pencil-necked faggot motherfuckers.
>>703586278
Considering I lost my virginity to my dog, I would have to say yes.
I hate other people a lot more than I used to
>>703586853
This
>>703587202
This. I was really depressed before hand all my friends would give me shit and even girls would but somehow fucked a 10/10 and now I couldn't give a fuck what people think. It's such a backbone for a lot of things.
>>703586278
Yeah, most definitely did. I'm sure if I didn't lose it, I'd probably have cringey opinions about sex and girls. Like a horny teenager virgin who's never evolved from that state.
>>703613808
>wat
>>703586278
Why do you people give sex so much power? This is why men will always be cucked by women. Because there are so many men who think sex belongs on a pedestal. Once you get it regularly, you'll see it's not that big of a deal. Everyone else will spend 75% of their lifetime income thrown away on women.
>>703586278
I am 22 and I recently lost it, but I will always be sad that I missed out on teenage love... I always fantasize about sneaking out with a cute girl and secretly trying things we have never done, and hiding it from our parents.
I see lots of stories like this in this thread, and it just makes me sad that I was such an autistic, unlucky teenager...
>>703586278
Short answer YES, long answer YES.
>>703615572
Have you ever kissed a girl in your teens?
>>703586278
well i got raped so ya
>>703615636
I had my first kiss when I was 17, but it was kinda pathetic even then... we were both just desperate
>>703586278
It gave me confidence cause apperantly if you havent done sex you are a loser, which is stupid cause its nothing special its just inserting penis into vagina.
>>703587174
You are me
I suffocate from this routine so much, anyone have some tips of escaping?
>>703615931
you must've lost it to some ugly fat chick or nerd girl lmao
>>703600003
>before I was a virgin
wat
>>703587202
this
>>703615727
So How it changed your view about sex? Or about men (or women)?
Made me realize sex isn't as great as society tells you it is. Would have rather been writing my book the whole time, and it was good sex. We went for two hours, she blew me for a good quarter or so of it and she came like five times. Maybe it was because I just didn't give a shit about her, but I realized there was a lot more to life. Haven't partied or had a one night stand since. No regrets. I wouldn't recommend virgins give up, but don't loose sleep over it. Quit porn and get into the arts, abstaining from sexual pleasure has a positive effect on both creativity and social skills in my experience.
>>703616691
lol, you still sound like a virgin.
>>703586278
No, it just felt awesome.
Boosted my confidence, made me semi sociopathic towards girls as I've realised 90% of them are easy as fuck, also I don't worry about texting back or what I say anymore
>>703616837
o shit, you sure showed me anon
There's just so much better shit to do in life than go std hunting at clubs and house parties. You find a girl you like, you get her to stick around and you get on with life. Sex shouldn't be the center of your existence. You're not in high school anymore.
>>703613808
I approve
>>703617003
>semi sociopathic towards girls
o shit u soudn so badas anon fuking alfa as fuk
>>703617141
just stop anon you are making it sound worse for yourself
I guess I'll never know
Na. A good conversation beats a good root.
>>703586278
No, only lifted the burden of oh fuck what if people know i never had sex
>>703586278
I wouldn't know. It happened pretty early on in my childhood.
>>703588777
>>703602477
>>703617277
>>703617777
This thread is full of lucky number 7s
>>703586278
No, but having a relationship and being loved helped.
>>703617277
Found the virgin
>>703587892
Yeah, for a few months after the first time fapping loses basically all of it's charm.
>>703586278
I lost my v card this year and I'm 26 years old. I lost more to know how it feels, and if it's worth to approach girls (I don't like taking care of people or being much present in their lives), not due to pressure.
Found a fwb in a dating app, fucked her like 10 times in a span of 3 months, i "broke up" with her. Then I fucked once another girl, but this one wasn't so nice. Didn't let me finger her, etc...
Anyway, After I lost my v card I stopped seeing sex as something great. Most times fapping is better. Losing that also diminished my libido.
Now I know approaching a girl is not that worth for sex. I have to chat with the girl, etc... Just not much worth for me. As for the sentimental part (I never had a gf), I will still find out someday, but I'm not looking for a gf.
>>703586856
Realized that I don't want to fuck random sluts and am going to save myself for the right one. Wish I could go back to being a virgin.
no
>>703586278
Yes, I learned that old guys like taking advantage of younger guys. They like to so much, that they are willing to pay to be with a young guy. I've been whoring myself since I lost it when I was 20. I'm 27 now and still do it.
Also, fucking girls is better than boipussy. So much better, but guys are way easier
>>703590778
Lmfao. You got that deathgrip action going on.
when you prefer your hand to moist pussy, you know you've caused some damage.
>>703620538
>boipussy
Fuck off
>>703586853
This
>>703588405
Agreed, it's like, literally nothing you do in your day can be more private than getting naked and letting me put parts of my body inside of you.
In a way that sounds creepy on paper, it lets you be very comfortable around a person.
>>703620538
So basically you're a manwhore
>>703589215
I know that feel anon, I know that feel.
>>703620820
Yes I am
>>703620712
Not my fault you're not bi
yes
i am now twice as lonely as i was a virgin. now i know what it is i am missing, as a virgin you are blissfully ignorant.
>>703590269
Underrated, lost mine at 15 but regret not losing it with someone I loved (and who loved me).
Problem is most girls you'll meet don't have theirs, if that's a problem for you. But save it for someone who deserves it, it'll be hella worth it.
If you can find one, I hear first time between two virgins can be hilarious too.
>>703586853
this
>>703586278
Found out through doing so that my peenor is well above average, and that I seem to have endurance to last long after she's cum (avg. anywhere from 30-90 mins).
So it changed my confidence a fair amount.
I dont understand why you virgins didnt just sweet talk a slampiggy in hs. Easy pussy for you betas due to their low self esteem
There is really no difference losing a virginity. I lost mine from a creiglist ad. I was just carouse what sex would feel like. I didn't even cum when I fucked a girl
>>703586278
No.
I just wasn't a virgin anymore.
>>703620018
Same, casual sex is great and all, heaps of good times to be had, but I'll never have that life-fulfilling moment of giving my first time to that perfect someone.
Hindsight's a hell of a drug.
>>703586853
pretty much this
>>703621217
you mean you didn't learn that in the locker room at school?
i was 17 when i found out a 6" circumference is actually way above normal, and 7" in length made me the blackest white guy in the room
>>703610414
Olddag here. Post Pic, i will judge you truely. Bet you look good.
>>703587445
Same
>>703586278
Yes, I felt that I now belonged in the adult sexual world, and that sex was at least possible in any relationship. Got the virgin monkey off my back.
>>703621543
Nah, we don't do that gay shit in Aus.
With an apparent national average of 6", my 8" makes me feel pretty fucking confident. I always thought it was small (the only other dicks I'd seen being in porn), so finding out it was anything but, from a girl I was sticking it into, was a pretty cool day for me.
>>703610414
Don't do it just for the sake of it, save it, thank me later.
Try to find a wizard of your own so you each learn at the same time, also.
>>703592744
>>703593146
"victim"
The only thing victimizing people is the very concept of 'patriarchy'. Instant victimhood there. Shit concept.
As for virginity lost it at 14, made me a bit more confident and got rid of all that emo angst bullshit. Instead of putting pussy on a pedestal I was able to focus on other things like school, hobbies, w/e.
