When did you stop trusting females?
>>703441041
>2016
>trusting anyone
>i seriously hope you guys don't do this
>>703441041
when did you stop the critical thinking process that allows you to separate worthless snakes from genuine females?
now we can be classic /b/ and all call me a white knight or you can reflect on your own life and think about all the genuine, trust-worthy females you have in your own life.
if you can't get pussy or get fucked over by a bad few then I feel sorry for you dude but pinning the blame on all women is the trademark beta thing to do.
>>703441041
>>703441582
Who gives a fuck
>>703441041
September 27th 1995 when my wife up and left with our kids and my dog I had since I was 14
>>703441041
You don't have to worry about trust when you own your woman.
never started
After my parents divorce and i saw all the lying that my mother did to get more money out of the whole thing.
When I got lead on by this girl I had a thing with for a long time. Not so conceited as to flat out distrust women, just more aware.
>>703441041
after they turn 18
>>703441041
Trust are overrated.
You don't need it.
About 5 years ago, when my exgf fucked another guy in the room next to me.
1976 in Montreal. She swore she was the woman for me even while pounding my ass with her feminine penis. She changed her name since then so its hard to find her for revenge.
i'll never forgive you bruce...
>>703441041
Dude don't trust anything you hear and only half of what you see that's for boys and girls
>>703443110
/thread
>>703441041
when my ex so was so cold and dumped me because she was ill and after time i realised she used the "its not you its me" routine and i ate that shit up. im trying to make plans to see her again this tuesday, hoping to catch up and talk things over with her for closure, see if we can get back together ever or if i should just cut her out of my life and move on
>>703443597
b8
the feminine penis did not exist until January 12th, 2003
>>703443229
Real talk nigga, my mom lied our whole childhood to me and my bro about how bad and evil my dad is just to reel in as much money as she can get, keep in mind my mom is a doctor and not even considered low class like the other even Feircer gold diggers
That and the fact my entire gaming life I saw how fat girls become with attention from boys, and how air headed they are, even the modest non attention whore girls who were just playing to play were selfish, big ego and basically even though they never took from anyone, they never gave, most of them wouldn't even grace you with a hello to make you smile unless you're a 9/10 and used the fact they're not attention whores to act like they're some new breed of angel above all other men.
That along with the fact that feminism is starting to prove itself a movement to kill as much as they can out of men, I hate women and it's not even my fault, I guess I was unlucky enough to never meet a decent one to keep my hope alive, now I just jack off and hope that I'll meet a good one one day
>>703443829
Don't get back with her!
She will see you as a little pathetic bitch and she will use you and probably cheat on you
>>703441582
what if the only woman i can trust is my mum and she cheated on my dad with my uncle? literally the one woman who i should be able to trust is a snake who betrayed my father.
i still love her as my mum but she is an example of modern women
2nd girlfriend.
I don't think it's a matter of not trusting, I think it's more like you see a girl and you know that she's gonna act exactly the same as a male her age, minus a few things here and there. But when you see a girl as "a 22 year old kid" instead of "a 22 year old girl" it makes a lot more sense that they would be so out of control.
>>703444010
>1976
>Montreal
>Bruce
fuck out of here
>>703444226
>Montreal
>Anyone with a semblance of a penis.
Fuck out of here.
>>703444415
fucking olympics you stupid shit
>>703444103
got any female friends?
>>703444102
she wouldnt cheat on me, she isnt that type of girl. how ever she would dump me again then drag me along as just friends until im so depressed inside that i cant hide it.
the scary thing is i can never tell her how i really feel because she may just say "i cant handle this, we need to break all communication because i cant handle your problems" she is going through a lot of shit in her life so i know she doesnt want to feel responsible for my depression
The same time I stopped trusting males.
>>703444647
yeah and a couple female work friends but i dont trust any of them from work because they all just put ona happy face to make life easy and my real friends are unreliable so no i dont trust them either
>>703444567
there's no olympic event for feminine penii sadly
>>703441041
Birth.
i never really trusted anybody tbh
>>703441235
>Current year
>Doing something
>Fucking normies
>>703443110
wise
January 5, 2016
>>703445101
>haha meme
>doing something
>haha 4chan meme word
faggot
>>703441041
I don't trust people outright. I believe it's an ongoing process of proving yourself, and while very few actually manage to do so for very long, a couple of them in my case personally have been female.
>>703441041
i was 27 or 28 years old.
i... have some regrets. but don't we all?
>>703441041
You shouldn't in the first play dumbass
>>703441041
When I was 6 years old.
after this
>>703441041
When my ex cheated on me after a 3 year relationship
>>703441041
After all 3 of my gfs cheated.
>>703442921
nigga how old are you
>>703441041
> 3 older sisters
> single mother
From my very first memory.
>>703445528
10/10 would suck
>>703441041
I don't trust anyone- I sometimes make exceptions for circumstance but generally that shit doesn't happen.
>>703442921
that's one old ass dog. it probably died shortly after so no worries
>>703445288
>I am not sure if you have any questions
>The only one that I can do to get to
>Niggers
When a friend of mine had a nervous breakdown. I supported her and helped her move. We kept in phone contact almost daily.
And then all of a sudden she stopped replying and answering.
So I contacted her breast friend, my ex. She agreed to keep me informed. And so far, I've had one message about her. And sure doesn't reply to even the most simple question about her.
I went from support role to entirely nothing. She could be dead for all I know. Thanks Liz...
>>703441041
Since I was 16 yo, Now I'm 20 and still thinking the same
>>703445743
I agree
When my ex was okay with me making out with another girl. Something didnt add up there
>>703445641
What are you, a nigger?
When I loaned her £3500 and she never even had the decency to text me happy birthday a few weeks later.
>>703445477
Stupid BITCH stole from my piggy bank. She also stole from my school so I had to leave that school and transfer to another. Everyone knew. She wonders to this day why I am so hostile to her and other women. I am 37 and foreveralone
>first gf fucked my brother
>second gf fucked my best friend
>third gf had a 3sum with 2 other guys that i knew
>fourth gf left me for a rich guy
so i guess like 5 years ago.
>>703446270
you sure do know how to pick'em anon
>>703446344
its not even the girlfriend part that annoys me. It's the betrayal i feel from my brother and friends that use to preach "bros before hoes".
>trusting anyone
faggots
>>703446646
zozzle
>>703446053
Just poor.
>>703446611
everyone says bros before hos until puberty hits
>>703446780
Understatement of the century
>>703441041
When my mom tried drowning me in the bathtub at age 2 before my dad beat her into a two week coma when she was busted.
>>703441041
never. i judge based on character faggot
>>703441041
When I was 9 and my sister ratted me out to my parents.
>>703446270
kill them all, that'l give you closure
>>703446993
classic move
>>703441041
I trust mostly everyone.
Huge time saver.
>>703447020
The king of cucks
I trust only one person. She happens to be a female. Whoops.
After my 1st 3 girlfriends
> 1st girlfriend left me for one of our friends
> 2nd girlfriend broke up with me cause she didn't like my friends and didn't want me seeing them (I refused) > 3rd girlfriend I was on and off with her for 5 years I always took her back when she came back I loved her and felt I needed to protect her and help her.
> Found out she cheated on me around 5 times with different people.
> broke my heart. Always wished for the best for her.
Stopped trusting women.
> few years later
> start dating a friend I've known sense I was 11
> super chill always supportive of every thing I do
> happily dating for 5 years
> have an apartment together
> own 2 dogs
> both pull our own weight to make this work
> know for a fact she isn't cheating
> always honest with each other
Not all women are untrustworthy, just have to find the right ones.
>>703441041
When she ran away at thirteen. Came home six months later, impregnated by a 25 year old.
Yeah, she broke my heart
>>703441041
When my mom started making me keep secrets from people, and helping her lie about just about everything.
Really not even bad stuff, she's just a compulsive liar, and probably bipolar.
Still love her though, but the trust isn't there.
Girls are gross, right guys?
>>703447855
yeaaah, sure anon.
>>703446178
Fucking bitch. She should have sucked you off on your birthday for that kind of favor.
>>703447691
she is getting railed by black dudes on the reg when shes at "Work"
>>703441041
Probably a decade ago when I finally figured out how adults men act vs children and how adult women act vs a child.
How women act is almost the same as any child would in most circumstances.
>>703447963
Not sure if you're being sincere... but I'll take it.
>>703448226
Doubt it but nice b8
>>703441041
Never. Unlike the faggots here, I dont have any problem with women. Probably why I have had many wonderful rewarding relationships with them and hold no animosity for any of my exes.
when she did the things she promised me she could never do to me.
But hey, guess the red pill is better in the long run.
After my 1st gf. She opened my eyes.
>>703444066
Good luck if you're american lol
I stopped trusting females after how easy it was for me to cheat on them. If you give your girl too much credit she's capable of cheating.
>>703441041
After my mother turned into a pathological, manipulative bitch who single handedly ruined relations with my family, and attempted to taint the relations I had with my friends after my departure.
I haven't spoken with her in over 4 years and I STILL fear that she is trying to manipulate things in my life.
>>703449332
>>my mother turned into
I found out my mother was
>>703441235
hey look I'm 16 and don't even know how to greentext!
>>703449781
Well to be fair, she had been feeding my family lies about me my entire life. I barely ever got to see them so they had negative connotations about me whenever they did see me again.
It wasn't until later on (around 17 or 18) that she stopped putting any effort into seeming innocent.
When my ex fiance told me she got herpes from sleeping with a couple niggers
Never started. I was taught, never trust anything that bleeds for a week and doesn't die.
>>703451287
found the beta virgin
After ending up in a female friendgroup as a guy. Really maked me paranoid. Couldnt tell after while who was friends with who. Even they couldnt tell but that was apparently normal.
Saw from close how every girl who had a boyfriend cheated often. (Maybe cause 90% was male in the area and they could do whatever they wanted without thinking about reputation)
Saw from close how they manipulated and used guys who liked them in bad ways.
How they often talking about leaving their parnter when they god sick or went to a bad period like it was the most obvious thing to do.
Could endlessly go on.
Got the same when I got to many female colleges.
I know guys are just as evil in a certain way, but at least you know who is good and who is evil. You know who is your friend and who is your enemy. You know what to expect.
Now I left almost all female friends, have almost only male colleges and it reduced stress extremely.
Still paranoid towards women and it stops me from having more than a sexual relationship with them
>>703454247
was meant for >>703451287
When op mom told me she weighed less than 200lb
>>703441041
as soon as I got hit on by a married girl, that pretty much did it for me. it started as soon as she came back from her honeymoon, and we've been fucking ever since, behind her "husband's" back
When my most recent gf was trying to abort her last boyfriends baby.
>kill me
>>703444665
All girls are the cheating type.
Plus if she doesn't care enough to give some emotional support then just don't bother dude
>>703450310
What stuff did she said/do, if you don't mind sharing
>>703446907
It's amazing to which length a female has to go before a male will set her straight these days, props till your pops.
>>703441041
When i came on /b
>>703442699
The dubs spoke
not soon enough.
>>703445736
Lol. Way to comfort him.
>>703441041
You'll find love eventually anon
I don't trust anything that bleeds for 4 days and doesn't die
>>703442953
this is how it needs to be. women are property and they act like it. and many women aspire to be sex objects
>>703443490
god that is so fucked up. i thought my situation was bad. if she'd have done something like that though I probably would have killed them both any way i could
u guise
why a girl tell u one story, then months later the details are different
y they lie. y they so evils
>>703441041
i think i lost it when i was very young, cant remember.
also my older sister played a part in it by being a total bitch to me while growing up.
>>703441041
To be fair, I only really trust my brother, and even then there are some things I will never entrust to him.
>>703444066
there's nothing you can do. it's why women need to be put in their place. they very clearly are not to be trusted to make decisions.
I fully support beating a disobedient woman...
>>703441041
not yet
>>703444194
ugh, yeah, i'm sick of women acting like men. it's repulsive. i hear this was done on purpose though for population control purposes.. look into Henry Kissinger and controling world population. He happens to also be a jew. not sure what kind though
>>703444749
no one here knows what they fuck you're implying. your explicit comment offers zero context.
speak more if you want people to talk to you, faggot.
>>703441041
I was 16, i watched many of my friends get fucked over mentally or worse from their girlfriends. It was at that point i decided i would have nothing to do with it, its risk outweighed its reward.
>>703445135
that's such a stupid text to send...
>>703445748
another reason to not put any energy into women unless you're getting sex. and get it upfront. do not do something for her first. she'll always take it and run
>>703441041
It was a lead up to it, but I finally snapped and realized not to trust anyone after I got back from the military at 23 years old, by my own mother
>spend 4 years sending money from my pay check every pay check so every 1st and 15th
>dig my mother out of debt
>dig her out of debt so well she can now afford a better apartment...
We're talking hard wood floors and marble kitchen good
>always talk about how when I get out I'm gonna live there for a bit and go to college
>it's agreed that that is what will happen
>2013 I got out
>waiting at train station
>nobody shows to pick me up
>call a friend to take me to my moms house
>get there and the usual greeting happens
>mother:"so where are you living anon?"
>"uhhhh I'm living here... What do you mean?"
>mother:"uhhh you can't just drop out of nowhere and just expect to live here."
Fast forward because fuck going over that
Spend first winter/holiday season living out of my car until a friend took me in.
Turns out someone took out a car loan in my name while I was in and completely destroyed my credit score
>>703444194
>>703444194
you sir are a wizard the just helped me out alot
>man i socialised with women purely to have sex with them
>and they caught me out and dropped the relationship! WHY
>woah hold up this DUDE is eying my ass and nothing else
>time to defriend him!
Relationships are only good for sex and financial support. Woman only look for financial support and getting as much as they can out of their partner. They know when they have kids the divorce courts will rule in their favour. Men become trapped. Keep paying their partner or divorce and lose everything. Woman can't be trusted in relationships. Stay single and have freedom.
>>703459449
words to live by
>>703450111
Nice trips, just use this: '>' key before you type.
>>703459449
You can still have relationships. Just find a woman no one wants to be with.
>>703441041
When she said "wait for me."
When she said "I do like you but i just don't know anon, i've been hurt before"
When she said "Okay lets try it"
When a week passed, she said "we are just not confident as a couple
When I found out the truth and the guy she was with logged on to her facebook and uploaded his pic with her, kissing.
When I still stayed like a dumbass only to have her say "You're a great guy anon, any girl will be lucky to have you"
When she said a few days later "its over"
I have never trusted any girl after that. I can make them smile, make them come to me but in the back of my head i always repeat it to myself, don't get hurt, not again.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uora19qsuv8
>>703441041
When they start to wheel you in with sex to have a child.
>>703441041
I have learned to trust very few people. In fact the only person I really trust is a female. It's taken me 25 years to build this level of trust with her and I can't imagine trusting anyone else this much ever again.
>>703455371
She basically made me out to be a horrible person; many of her claims were completely fabricated.
She also claimed that I had some kind of mental illness, although I've never been diagnosed with any such ailment. It was as if she intended to coerce them into despising me at any cost
>>703443368
This
>>703459955
You picked the wrong woman
>>703459449
You're picking the wrong women
Males, females, it doesn't matter. Everyone is shit. Don't trust anyone.
wtf i hate >females now
>>703459955
Scared little bitch, you are.
Go fuck yourself with this whiny attitude you don't even deserve a 'good' woman.
You are like these people that get bitten by a dog once in their life and and forever and on have fear of dogs.
You want to find a trustworthy and faithful woman? Then you have to risk, to get hurt. And when you get hurt, don't cry over it like a little girl. Just accept, that this girl was a bitch, and there are plenty of better (trustworthy) women out there, that deserve a strong minded man like you are!
Or...keep hearing said songs on jewtube and cry your lonely self to sleep. Your decision
Just go out with asians who are considered below average in their home country and you can never lose.
None of that south east asian or pinoy shit of course.
You must be substantially better looking than her too.
>>703457523
i am you holy shit. fuck older sisters, such bitches, really shows how women are
My dad died when I was 2, so I've been living with my older sister and my mum. My mum beat me when I was too weak to fend for myself and my sister is a total bitch to me.
When I started hitting back my mum stopped hitting me. At the start of this year my sister called the school councillor on me for hitting her. Just a couple nights ago she attacks me with a vase trying to throw it at my fucking head and throws water everywhere. As soon as I started to call the cops she started crying and shit. When I stopped she just went to her room and stopped crying. This was all because I ate some of her food.
Basically learned to never trust women and that they are total bitches. My sister used to threaten me with fucking knives. Definitely wouldn't miss her when she leaves. I can hardly talk to girls my own age at all, I just start squirming and don't know what to say. Back in middle school I had girl friends, but never a girlfriend. To be honest I don't care anymore.
TLDR; Women are total bitches. I love guys, they are so fucking cool compared to girls. I'm not gay, I'm attracted sexually to women.
>>703453139
^ this man knows women...
i too know women...
i don't like anyone but at least women can only rape me when i am drugged.
>>703447439
Let me guess. Your mother?
>>703461214
Ok faggot. Your problem is that women close to you are angry that you look and act like a little bitch. If you were a real man they would be too scared to attack you... They wouldnt even consider attacking you or befriending you.
All those women would be sexually attracted to you and you wouldnt be sitting on b complaining now.
You would have multiple children running around.
>>703443490
i feel you
4 year relationship came to an end because ex gave in to temptation and slept with a colleague
being together for so long i knew her as well as myself and when she came home that night her body language etc was all fucked up and i knew something was wrong
ran into the bitch about a year later and didn't recognise her because she had put on 17 kilos because i broke up with her
I know I shouldn't shit up /b/ with my text wall, but I should get this off my chest
>be me, junior in high school
>have had crush on girl since 2nd grade
>spend 9 years pining away
>it was truly innocent love, something I will never feel again
>finally work up the nerve to ask her to prom
>she says yes
>feel like the greatest man alive
>rush to buy tickets and tell all my friends
>the very next fucking day
>she walks up to me after class
>anon....
>i actually really like someone else
>and I'm going with them instead
>but it was really nice of you to buy me this ticket
>don't say anything
>just nod and walk away
>go home and stare at the wall for a while
I didn't cry or anything pathetically emo like that, but that day....broke something inside of me. I can't work up any romantic attachment to anyone anymore. I can't cry either. What the hell happened to me?
>>703461214
This would apply to you too >>703460714
You have a shit family. And you are a whiny little bitch. And that is it.
Women aren't the problem (in general). The way you deal with your problems, is the problem. And you deal with it in a very weak way, my friend.
Get your head out of your self-chosen fear of women in general and you will find, that a lot of ... well 'some' of them are as cool and trustworthy as guys. There are a shitton of bitches but in this western world there are a shitton of backstabbing asshole guys too.
You just 'love' guys because you can be close to them without really 'loving' them.
You are afraid and weak, and that is it.
>>703461599
Your brain learned from experience.
It's trying to avoid past pain by avoiding the actions that caused it.
>>703461517
I go to an all boys school. I was like 14 when I started hitting back. My mum wasn't attacking me for discipline or anything, probably for stress relieving, she bit and scratched till I had to wear clothes that covered up the wounds.
I know wing chun, so I'm pretty sure I can defend myself, but my sister would just call the cops on me if I laid a finger on her, and she gets to hit me all she wants and no one would care. When the councillor came around all he seemed to care about was reprimanding me. I think you should be able to hit people, it is a good punishment system.
I'm too beta to go out and meet women, fml.
>>703461831
Is it fixable? Every day I feel like I'm just slipping further and further away from any chance I have.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=af59U2BRRAU
>>703461599
Did not read it yet but let me say people like you are the problem, why this world is getting dumber by the minute.
This >>703461599 is a text-wall to you??
You are just like my 16 year old cousins. Every text longer than 20 lines is way to much to work with and a book is something a teacher forces you to. Otherwise you won't touch one
>>703461900
I never fixed it in myself, but i did stop disliking it.
Im used to it now.
>>703441041
age 21.
there comes to a moment where you realize that its all shit and you were being played from the start.
since then i no longer trust anybody anymore.
not just girls, but people in general. i dont trust my parents, my roommates, my colleagues, etc.
everybody is the same. such is life.
then later on you realize its irrelevant and decide to sink your morality so low that you no longer care.
so now it no longer matters.
>>703461884
>wing chun
>defend yourself.
funniest thing in this thread.
>>703462007
>is a text-wall to you??
It's a bother for people to read. I don't need to cause more trouble for people.
>>703462050
I guess that will do. How do you stop feeling empty inside?
Gay.implying you "trust" men.
>>703443829
used that line before on my last ex-gf.
tbh it wasnt me. it was because she was clingy as fuck
>>703462121
yeah, got into it cos of a friend
next year will probably start jiu jitsu and/or boxing
>>703462259
>clingy
that's not really a bad thing, those chicks are loyal but i'm guessing she was overbearing in your case?
>>703461599
Now i read it.
You teenage self got hurt really really bad. But ONE time! You gonna let that one time teenage-love-hurt define how you life your life?! Well good luck, you would deserve to stay lonely then.
Also >>703461831 is bullshit. Don't let people tell you this shit. It was ONE OCCASION! Get over it. You can only fight the fear and pain of this one occasion by having nice occasions in this field (love). You won't have thit by complaining and shield you against love.
You have to trust and risk (but be careful at it). And you NEEEEEED to give good love-thingies the chance to happen to you. At least give them the chance. Please. It's the only way you can see that there is more than this hurt you got this one time
>>703462322
as somebody whose dont wing chun before, boxing is much more useful.
BJJ or whatever just puts you in a position where you cant run away.
boxing lets you go full nigger when the situation turns south.
plus less moves = more time with each one.
>>703462402
yeah... kinda overbearing. plus i think i may have a problem with emotional intimacy.
that or mild autism. i dont like to be physically touched for some reason
>>703462121
meh...wing chun isn't too good, right. But as it may give the anon fitness and self confidence it's not to bad for a start.
>>703441041
I never did.
>>703462475
>Well good luck, you would deserve to stay lonely then
People don't "deserve" anything. I know full and damn well that it's my fault that I'm the way I am now.
>>703461884
>Everybody get down tonight!
>>703462126
I pretty much plugged it up with hobbies. I fix broken things.
And while >>703462475 might be right, that love can fix it, it just never happened to me, so i can only speak from my experience.
>>703441582
I cannot stand people like u
>>703462641
That's good to hear. I really want to own and fix up a muscle car someday.
After my ex dumped me for a girl then now she's with a guy onto ABDL.
>>703462731
I fixed up a dodge pickup with the cummins 12 valve 5.9 liter engine. It was pretty challenging but fun at the same time.
My engine coolant is still slowly going somewhere i cant find, and i had to replace the transmission after 5th gear exploded, but its been a worthwhile ride.
>>703441582
It may be a little mistake on setting responsibility of trust to a non-wiling or a weak person. And this is mostly not their fault.
>>703462898
>its been a worthwhile ride.
Good for you man! I'm glad that you can take pride in something.
https://orangecounty.craigslist.org/cto/5706458725.html
This is what I'm looking at buying. I have the cash, and I've had it checked out by a good mechanic, so I'm ready to pull the trigger.
>>703441041
>Stop
Lulz
>>703462623
I wouldn't even say it's all your fault. The bitch caused it and that is mean and hurtful as fuck.
But one does deserve what one it working towards to. You earn things. With whining you earn and later deserve your lonelyness. my opinion though.
With tryining, risking, strenghtening your mind, you work towards being happy in love one day, or at least happy with being alone since then it would be your choice, not the fear deciding it for you.
I would love to know you giving the good live at least the chance to be yours...
>>703462641
>I fix broken things.
Can't fucking attitude though can you mate?
Jk, i feel you, women suck
My favourite saying that I made up at 11yr:
"Boys suck, but girls suck more"
>>703441041
After my dad died, she started hanging out with a rich guy and snogging the old cunt to get his money. She's still doing it, even when she supposedly "loves" someone else.
>>703463013
That's one great looking car, if i lived nearby and had the cash on-hand i would buy it in a heartbeat.
>>703445247
share your knowlegde /b/ro
>>703463061
>With tryining, risking, strenghtening your mind, you work towards being happy in love one day, or at least happy with being alone since then it would be your choice, not the fear deciding it for you.
Thanks man. I'll try my best to live with more heart.
>>703463153
Right? I've been saving for two years to buy something like that.
>>703461599
>not ripping the tickets and let her cry the shit out of her
>>703444665
mate use your brain and realise that girls are ALWAYS
>going through a lot of shit in her life so doesn't want to feel responsible
girls can't handle their own problems, let alone any body elses
just pretend to her that you have no problems, you are absolutely good as gold without her, and she will want you back because you're problem free and she wants to off load her problems on you for attention
but i advise just moving on, you'll find better, you'll never go down the ladder
that girl doesn't love you, she gives you rehearsed lines like "got too many problems" and "it's not you it's me" she's a liar, she doesn't have the respect for you, or the courage to say how she feels
>>703462641
>>703462731
>keeping yourself busy while you know the hole in your heart still is open and won't ever be filled by any hobby in this world.
Distracting oneself from a problem, does not make the situation better. It just keeps your mind of it...most of the time.
That's the weak mans method. Please don't follow it. Or...at least don't follow it strictly.
>>703441041
Between 2005-2007, I think.
>>703445135
What is that kid? 13? Kek
>>703463243
Well, lets hear the "strongman" method then,
Can't hurt.
>>703442921
You put the old in oldfag.
>>703441041
When I realized that not even the females in my family are sane
>>703443338
What'd she do?
age 5 when my mom touched my peepee
otherwise this: >>703441582
>>703441582
This
>>703441041
>stop trusting females
as soon as they start to bleed
>>703441041
about 6 years ago.
>>703463163
And if you get shit on by people while living with more heart, don't let it fuck you up again! There are a lot of shitty people in this world so be careful. But at the same time let the better and trustworthy persons near your heart. Embrase it. Take it! The good life is yours to take! The nice things in life. Love, sport, hobbies. Take all the nice things you cant grab. Because they are yours. If you just really embrase them and let them near you.
Yes this is bound to the risk of getting hurt but it's still a ton better, getting hurt, while letting the nice thing get through to your heart, than building up a wall to keep the hurtful AND the nice things out.
I know what i am talking about. I had this kind of wall up for over ten years. But today i risk getting hurt...but all the nice things come through too and i love my life so so much more. I want you to have this too
>>703441041
2003?
After my first real girlfriend just like every other man.
I couldn't believe all the negative stereotypes about women are pretty much accurate. Fucking all of them.
When my Ex sent a picture of her boobs to a coworker of mine. Dumped her after that.
i confess, ive been an asshole in the relationship and didnt listen to what she wantred to change but that doesent mean shes allowed to cheat on me.
Fuck this thread. You can't trust men because they want you to let them face fuck you and then throw you away. I'd fuck a guy all day everyday and fulfill all of his fantasies, then cook and clean for him if he would commit to me and not cheat.
>>703441041
when i met my mother
>>703448577
Not same anon but I don't doubt that she's fucking a coworker.
since my ex cheated on me when I was in a hospital recovering from chemo, she even defended it after we broke telling she was lonely
they lie all the time
>>703463521
I'm going to remember this post. I need to do this.
>>703442921
>left
>with my dog
You pussy. Kill yourself.
>>703463780
>can always be reconquered
>>703441041
>Age 14
>Never looked back
>They know that they are disgusting creatures, ask them, they usually smile when you say it but you need to be a Alpha to get away with it dont be trying it as a Betafag
>>703463315
Just wrote it >>703463521
In short: You gotta take the risk of the hurtful to be able to fully embrase the nice things.
And about the hurtful things that happened: Please don't just distract you from them. Feel the pain, accept it as a part of life. You felt that pain, because you had something beautiful in your life (love and trust) and that got hurt.
But by just distracting yourself from it, you give in to this fear from these hurtful moments in life. And this fear is overtaking, if you give her this room in your life.
You don't give her this room by saying "Yes it happened and it hurt like fuck, but im still here, im still going to do my best to get happy in life and love and i wont let this fear stop me from it, because i am strong enough to take these kind of hits!"
Take them, and then get in again.
Imagine youself as if you would love the sport of boxing. If you would get out of the ring after the first lost fight that hurt you real bad and said "i could do other things that wont hurt me...im going to find another hobby,,,like fixing cars", then you wont ever be good at your beloved sport. You will allways have these feelings of how you would like to box again...but it COULD be so hurtful and embarrassing. So you never do it again and stay at your side-hobbys to compensate.
Boxing here is 'loving'
If you train yourself (mind mostly) and get into it again, you might get hurt again, but you might win so much! And you wont miss it, in quiet moments and ask yourself, if it wouldn't be a good idea to not let your fear decide what you do with your life.
I hope that was kinda understandable. Im tired at the moment
>>703443368
This desu senpai-kun.
>>703445748
same case with me .. i literally was supporting a girl and put all love talk with her .. and all of a sudden she got engaged to someone else and total silence .. she now banned me on whatsapp and all calls... called her few and all she says that she dont need me ,also dont wanna meet/talk with .. if karma is a bitch it will take her well in future i prey to god
>>703464059
>In short
>>703464059
Betafag detected
>>703464059
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1X2b0kq9EE&feature=share
>>703448594
Cuck
>>703464422
Check em
>>703464059
Well put anon. Maybe ill give the ring another try, once im done with my current project.
>>703458703
mother too can be a bitch .. my mother disowned me as a child (she had some fight with dad) and i was raised by grandmother.. she didnt cared for me even when i was sick .. i got in job .. and she was all over .. and then now she talk of going to court for me taking care of her ..(there is some stupid law in my country of guys takin care of parents).. wtf u didnt raise your 1st child and now u expect money from him .. god
I've stopped trusting others as a whole when I hit about 20 years old, 23 now.
>>703464157
yeah that was the plan...did not work out a i saw too, when i allready posted it
>>703464183
mhm...i am. Keep crying over 'mean woman', how every bitch hurt you and how 'don't give a fuck' while crying inside, like the alpha you are.
>>703464315
uhm...nice video. But what exacly does it have to do with my post?
>>703448594
>many wonderful rewarding relationships
shallow and professional exchange of courtesies are not relationships
what can be so wonderful about opening your heart and soul to a woman even if she claims to be your friend if you know she lies and deceives everyone else so there are no reasons o believe anything she says or trust her, ever
when i was 18...im 31 now. whores...
>>703460521
Disco Stu approves this.
>>703459746
WHOOOOOOOOOOOOSHHHH
>>703446270
>my brother
I hope you broke his knees.
>>703464541
can't get any worse than being hurt and lonely. And since most people in this thread allready are...i would definitely reccomend giving love and happiness a try.
Good luck with your project and after that, in the ring.
When mom told me she didn't breastfeed me because she didn't want her newly increased and "sexy" boobs. That's when I realized the nature of a woman
>>703441582
What if you're wrong?
I can get pussy just fine, it's not hard.
Now.. Trust? Both men and women are, in general, untrustworthy. Women are generally more so just for the simple reason they will be more interested in being appealing to you if they're attracted.
That's about as simple as it gets and if you doubt me, check any recent studies on how humans see opportunity and how our brains are hardwired to ignore any 'rules' to seize it.
It's fun in a way - our brain figuratively lights up when we see something that, regardless of fucking up other people, benefits us.
>>703441582
Whoa just read this. So early in the thread such a rational and mature answer. Im shocked
Never really have to be honest. I fucked almost every girl my friends ever dated. You feed them a line about how you can tell they're not being appreciated and 8/10 times they melt.
fucking whores.
>>703464907
>recent studies on how humans see opportunity and how our brains are hardwired to ignore any 'rules' to seize it.
What a load of hurr durr I'm a psychopath guise bullshit.
Check out any of the recent studies about how you're a wanker covered in diseased shit. They are about as real/accurate as any of your special snowflake studies.
i don't trust anyone
>>703465200
You took the words out of my mouth.
>>703465249
And are you happy in life?
>>703465180
Disco Stu can also approve that.
>>703464706
The sooner you Betafags realise that every woman is evil inside the better you will get along in life, they are like monkeys they don't let go of one branch until they have hold of another. Its a constant delicate balancing act keeping them keen and into you, the moment you let your game slip your screwed, however there is always someone to take their place so just think along these lines and you will be fine anon.
>>703445528
that is tehnically not a female, so you did not get fooled by a female
>>703441041
September of 2002.
Its not that i dont trust women because i do trust them in a way. I really just dont expect anything meaningful, competent, or lasting from them. Ive met no woman in my LIFE that can be trusted to accomplish all but the most simplistic tasks. Attempting to do otherwise is trying to sort a very tumoltrous quagmire of ability, attitude, motivation, etc. Women are oversized children and shouldnt be expected to perform any better then that. Im not even mad about it its just a fact of life. Still love my wife and pussy is great. I mean theres a reason women have been the obsession of art and culture for millenia but their minds certainly arent.
>>703441041
Never trusted any female due to troubled mother. Thanks mom !
>>703465657
So basically you're saying we should think like they think
indeed as humans all genders are assholes by default :(
>>703441041
When I realized how illogical they are
>>703465657
You sound like a very very sad (and even more ugly) man.
I won't be as bitter as you. I like my life.
But thanks for the advice. Im sure, from your standpoint out, you meant good, by telling me this bullshit.
When certain men look to much like women.
>>703465960
No hes saying to understand how they think. You'll never think like a woman because they cant keep a single track mind. Theyre too scatterbrained by nature and most without focus cant maintain a course. Just accept women for what they are and move on. Be a fucking man about it. Your not going to change women you just adapt to their shit like when they get bored be an asshole to them they get butthirt but a short apology and cute date later your getting your dick sucked.
>>703466107
Youre a bitch nigga. Seriously not even him but if your a dude and thats how you feel its no surprise youre here wasting your life bitch nigga.
can i have more of this girl
>>703465960
mhm the sooner you grasp this concept the better you will get along.
>>703466107
How i sound is irrelevant, its about grasping the fact no woman is trustable its not in their programming. they can only be partly trusted while your stimulating there minds, the moment you let it slip your fucked as they wander when the next Alpha suddenly appears on social media or in the real world spouting the right words and bullshit.
>>703441582
Youre a complete idiot. Women are fucking idiots and programmed by evolution to be as deceptive as possible.
My penis is of a good quality.
After my mum told me she raped me when I was a young child then sent me away to an abusive foster family.
>>703466276
Dude my mother is a fucking veterinarian. You can call her whatever the fuck you want but don't call her scatterbrained. Literally that shit is harder than being a doctor. 100 species vs only 1.
>>703441041
When even the best girl I dated set up a threesome hours after I said no.
Or maybe when she was flirting with her guy friends.
Or maybe when she was sneaking off to some guys place at lunch during school.
When even the best of my female friends randomly up and ghost me for months out of nowhere or when they get a new boyfriend
Maybe watching even the most trustworthy of my female friends start slutting all over the place behind their boyfriends back as soon as they get a little booze or weed in them.
Maybe when my mother and father divorced and she tried to get child support from him that was three times what he was earning while he was in college.
Maybe when she tried to claim he beat me so she could get full custody. He never beat me, I was one of those wild kids who'd ride their bike off of docks and jump out of trees so i ALWAYS had bruises from doing stupid shit growing up.
>>703441582
>when did you stop the critical thinking process that allows you to separate worthless snakes from genuine females?
It's not about stopping it, it's all about waiting for them to slip up on their act and fuck up somehow. You can't tell which girl is good and which girl is a snake until the snake strikes.
I'm not up for living my life in constant fear of what people might or might not do to me. Don't fuss, bro.
>>703445955
Yeah she was probably already fucking someone else, just wanted to have a card she could play if you ever caught her cheating
>Yeah but you kissed ___ so it's only fair!
Pro tip: If they approach you with the idea of a threesome or an open relationship, they've got their eye on another man or they're already fucking him.
>>703466989
>the best girl you dated was garbage
that's a you problem, kiddo. bitch niggas like you are the exact same as the girls who date fucksticks and get cheated on/abused every time.
>>703441041
When my fianceé cheated on me back when I was 20, and then had the nerve to dump me before I had summoned up the courage to dump her. Females are not to be trusted.
>>703467422
I feel like having a fiancee at age 20 kinda points to other problems
like you being born in a third world shithole or you being poor
>>703467422
Dubs have spoken!
>>703467658
Maximum of keks.
Nah, I'm from Denmark and my family has around quintriple of the average earnings pr. household here.
Try harder.
When I became one.
>>703467743
Newfag has barfed in the form of a shitpost!
>>703467840
so you're just crazy
good for you fuckhead
>>703468040
Indeed I am - I even have that in writing from two different psychiatrists. Now gimme back my tinfoil hat!
>>703466366
>thinks im wasting my life because im on 4chan for an hour on a sunday
That projection. Enjoy sucking at life kid
When my gf who i live with, dumped me for nothing after 5 years of relation
>>703468147
lol
>>703468393
Did you teach her a lesson, Anon?
>>703468393
She never dumped your for nothing anon you failed to keep her mind stimulated you become boring and irrelevant. Where you at now in your relationship status?
>>703457287
> tfw your girl calls you daddy and begs for dick
A feeling like none other
>>703441582
found the female
>>703466596
Are you happy? I imagine a person with this mindeset you have to be very sad and pathetic.
Also you are technically right about that no woman ist trustable. But this goes for every human. Because...they are not machines, you know?
But again, you might really have good intentions, by spurting this bitter bullshit around here. Im still not agreeing. As far as it is not rational to trust any human 100%, i am.
After that our ways part. I like the feeling of trusting a person 100% even though i know it's risky and not rational. But it makes life a lot nicer to trust your friends.
You are right on the rational side. Im happy in my life.
>>703468474
actually it was 3 days ago, and i was stuned by this bitch dumping me. So no, haven't teached her a lesson yet.
>>703441041
when stop?
lulz, never started.
>>703445528
Wood let her fuck my butthole/10
i never stopped
>>703468715
>her
after i got one pregnant after a one night stand.
>even though she was on the pill
then she told me i was the father
>and i fucking believed her
then she refused to kick out the dude living with her
>even though i offered to pay his rent and move into his room until she was comfortable
midnight calls saying she was going to kill herself
>speeding my ass 300km and talking her out of it
getting back up for work at 6am
>paying for every medical test not covered by her insurance
broke up with her after months of abusive phone calls from her family saying i wasn't doing enough
>she gets mutilated by sticking her head near an auger at work, which tears half her face off
i quit my high-paying job and move 300km to live with her and help her recover
>during a random argument about her still going to work even though the doctors told her not to
STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN DONT NEED NO MAN
>fuck you i'm out, call me if you need money for any more medical shit
calls police and tries to say i hit her and raped her
>i was 300km away
nothing is done to her
>3 months later she's changed her last name and married some other guy
sends me a copy of the paternity test they had done
turns out it wasn't even my kid, she was acting out because i kept repeating, week after week, that there would be a paternity test no matter what.
guess it finally sunk in that she wasn't going to fool me.
then guess what happened.
she's such a stronk independent woman that she fucking paid $400 to get a paternity test done, listed herself as the kid, and our son as the father, tried to fool me with this shit.
>got a court paternity test
she left the state before they could test her and i have no way of finding her.
so fuck women man. i dont even know what the fuck they want.
>>703441041
Because I've seen one gf of a friend cheat on him and get pregnant. Another cheated on her current bf with her ex.
And my ex was obviously trying to get fucked by another dude that went on the same school. She later did exactly that.
Great experiences, thank you.
>>703468611
Yes i am very happy, i am honestly not bitter sad or pathetic (but you only have my word for that anon), my intentions are to make you Betafags realise you will continue to be butthurt by females if you carry on the way you do. We would all love the concept of trusting someone 100% but its not possible and never will be, its a bullshit emotion thats is not needed in this life. I honestly wish you luck anon in your future pursuits but mark my words if you trust you will lose.
>>703465200
Stop doing studies on me
most the population isn't the same, Everyone's different
That's why stats aren't accurate
>>703469006
:) I new you where here
>>703441041
because society treats everyone like garbage, especially the females
the problem is that children are extremely impressionable
especially females
so everything people were told that they were, they became
especially females
>>703441582
/thread
>>703469541
I don't agree with you anon its nothing to do with that, its just how they are society has not treated them like garbage for thousands of years.
>>703461536
what a bitch, you doing good ?
>>703469273
Thank you, for warning me. Im willing to take that risk. I like this emotion of trustin 100%, even if something in the back of my head says it's dumb, i have to much fun with it, to give it up. Im just going to continue believe in a good outcome of this.
And even if it hits back some day...i sure as hell will have had a lot of good and happy times with it, until that day comes.
>>703468474
Just do it, /b/ro. There's never a bad time to discipline a woman.
>>703441041
When my mom brought me in to this fucked up world at birth.
When none of them are my gf
>>703445748
You asked you ex gf about a girl.
That is best friend with a girl that blocked you on social channels.
>>703470498
I did not expect to change you anon just educate you a little with my many wise years of experience with these evil creatures. Yes you enjoy them moments they can span long periods of time if you keep on top of your game.
>>703447963
This would be great meme for "black ppl" , just stick a tag nigger on the left , the pop up a blackmen on the right when he shakes his head, just helping out cause im high racists and thing about advertisement allot. https://youtu.be/cgKqvpf1LYk
>>703469021
Dude you should be better than to stick it in crazy. This says more about your poor judgement than it does about women.
>>703445748
Geez you guys are weird, you just didn't act. She's not talking to you because you're a trained counsellor, she just moved on because you were being a pussy, at this point you're an ex.
ive been in several relationships, every girl cheated on me. now i didnt date sluts either, i dated girls who i thought were really nice and genuine but then in time i was fucked over.
i have a hard time dating any girl now. it's either i keep on picking bad ones or there is something wrong with me lol
>>703445430
Cringe
>>703466632
Hahahahaha!
awww poor little beta. Some mean girls were mean to you and therefore the entire gender is mean
LOL grow up
>>703466989
>this man gets it
>implying women serve any other interests than theirs.
Women have something that we have to fight to get , choice. And that's making it so easy for them that they dont have any interest to not be a slut.
Where men need to BE a lot of things a woman need to APPEAR like something and that's why you cant know if they are snakes or not , but most of them are just snakes waiting to act
