GF just broke up with me, feels thread?
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GF just broke up with me, feels thread?
Consider yourself lucky.
>>703107328
what happened?
like why?
Join the club fucktard
i lost 2 girls in the span of a month.
fucked a whore last night.
Nothing will fill the void
>>703108471
If you lost 2 girls within a month then there is no way you were w them long enough to be in a serious relationship. Stop trying to be dramatic fuckhead.
>>703108782
one was a 2 year long relationship
met a girl in LA that i fell in love with
broke up with my girlfriend to be with new girl
new girl breaks up with me
>>703108782
>>703109003
>met a girl in LA that i fell in love with
LA here
you bring them here
not meet them here
>>703109219
well fuck i didnt know that was a thing
we were both in LA for a conference
>Get a pizza. Fuck it.
>>703108402
Long story short she lost the spark
>>703109404
no eat it
>>703107328
Lol, fucking loser!
If you didn't take their virginity consider them to be a useless Whore. .. They don't teach you that in school but it's the truth
Offtopic. Idc fucktard
I lied b.
Not the way i usually lie
a way that will destroy my entire life and lose all grip to these people i call friends of mine and kills the ability to look into my parents eyes
no gf or smth, didnt commit crime
its just this lie whut do
>>703110034
faggit then dont let them know
>>703110034
its a prank bro!
>>703110182
thought about this one but nobody would actually believe it
>>703107328
Sorry to hear, bruh. Labor Day Weekend was one year since I met my ex. It wasn't easy, but it was easier than when she first broke up with me.
>>703110465
time machine!
>>703110660
this kek
>>703110465
seriously though
you have a couple of options
1. its a prank
2. blame drugs
3. someone made you say it as a bet (you won)
4. SAY YOURE FUCKING SORRY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BluLQ2QwZgQ
>>703110968
1 wont be believed
2 harder probs inc then
3 hard to do maybe best one though id need some proof for it
4 ofc first thought but wont help, srsly
and ty for thinking bout this shit rly means smth for me
i think ill just keep it up and wait till nobody remembers
>>703109697
what is that tumblr post
>>703107328
get over it faggot it happens to everybody find a new pussy simple there milions out there
>>703109457
That sucks. The best thing you can do is try to get your mind of it. Do shit with your friends. Also dont be scared to talk about shit like this with your friends. Thats something you really need.
>>703111746
Im not "chassin duh pussy cuh" as rare as it comes i want an actual relationship
>>703111377
That hurt
>>703112126
>>703111377
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9P4AwCCTio
2 guys kissed world gbye to this, that hurts due i knew them
>>703107328
Next.
>>703109457
kinda similar.
>broke up cus we moved to different cities and agreed to not try long distance.
>I regret doing it about a month later.
>i tell her
>she says the relationship was dead for almost a year
>feel shit cus i miss her, try to not lose hope but she says it's never gonna work
i cry on the inside sometimes
>>703112977
>>she says the relationship was dead for almost a year
damn that's brutal.
Basically she was just waiting to move to dump you.
>>703109003
>Thinking you can have a good realationship with a bitch from LA
Kek
fucking god guys
i can't stop thinking about this girl. but holy fuck, she doesn't even care about me, like 0. i can't just stop thinking about her, this is slowly killing me. only remembering about her is painful.
make it stop please
I just miss her
>>703113242
lol some random ass camwhore is never going to give a fuck about you buddo, best thing is to try and get your mind onto other things
>>703113242
if you are OP. I've been there. Went 3-4 days without eating properly because i felt nada. It gets better. It's shit, but it does.
>>703113419
That really made my dick hard.
>>703113242
Nah, it will stop in about 6 weeks time
>>703107328
>>703113242
Things like this you don't get over,you have to go through.It eases with time.You have to be strong /b/rother.
>>703113460
That's really beta, get your shit together man. I mean, feels are okay, but you're taking it to the next level.
>>703113426
i wish this girl was a camwhore, but i see her every day. we used to talk and stuff, but then as the big autist i am i just decided she wasn't worth. now i'm paying for it. this is the fucking hell.
OP here
She said "When we first started dating i couldnt get over how much i loved you but that drained away
>>703113562
vies nederlands brood, bah
>>703107328
It was the same with me, just approaching a month ago, actually.
It still hurts, I'm not going to lie. But you become accustomed to it. And then you make peace with it. I was in love with her. I thought about marrying the girl. I'm really not okay, I'm fucked up as hell about it. But you are one resistant mother fucker and your body wants you to continue, so you will find away.
Give it two months. You will miss her, but you'll be okay. I believe in you man, we're in this together.
>>703113669
Here's some love
>>703113630
Tell her you still feel that about her, and that you'd love to re-assure her mind about how she made the wrong choice. If that doesn't work, use psychology.
>>703113242
Currently in your shoes. Going to an hero in a few days.
>FeelsBadMan
>>703113621
it's probably the reason im in this position in the first place. if only i was born alpha like you .
>>703113772
jij ook sgat
>>703113630
That's fucking cold. Your probably better off.
>>703113845
Oh no, I am awfully beta. We all are, this is 4chan. You just need to take risks.
At least you don't have any permanent attachments. Not like you two were married OP. It gets better, slowly. Get wasted tonight if you do that. Get forgetful.
>>703113918
omg sgat stop ^-^
>>703107328
Women are like drinks. Nothing gets you over the last one like the next one.
My ex admitted to sniffing my panties after I left. Is that a thing?
>>703113756
sounds like me. I showed her the ring and told her. she told me to throw it away. Feelsbadman
>>703114028
Actually, science has shown that men are unable to fully recover from a break up. Marriage doesn't do a single thing besides legally having a few small advantages.
>>703107328
>>703108471
I've been single for the last 11 years. Trust me: you're better off single.
>>703114081
Oh shit. Sorry Anon.
>>703114081
She's not the one. The one will come.
>>703113974
What do you mean take risks? I took a risk and told her all my feelings. It didnt work.
This was my first serious and long (3.5) years relationship. I dont have any clue on how this shit works. I just improvise and apparently did it wrong.
>>703114217
This is true. But kids and a house, are way fucking permanent. And the two can go hand in hand. It makes it way worse, I promise.
>>703114351
In a situation where it's hard to believe. but thanks
>>703114081
You poor poor guy. Even if she didn't love you, she neednt treat you like that. You deserve someone who loves and respects you. You sound like an emotionally intelligent, caring guy. You will be fine - and you'll meet someone. I know this sounds so fucking lame but the motto I've been living by since we broke up is "Stay kind, keep your heart open". I think that way you'll only be on the path to better things.
>>703113808
As edgy as it sounds, i do that to lots of other people. But not her. She is too good for that
>>703113819
Well /b/rother, hope you get your eternal rest, gl
>>703114225
this sounds super beta, but having someone that cares about you, you can just chill out with and do whatever with and get occasionally lay that doesnt need all the awkward pickups to aquire is super chill. also miss someone i can sleep next to
>>703107328
>>703108315
>>703108471
>>703108782
>>703109457
>>703110544
>>703111746
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>>703112916
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>>703113242
>>703114603
>>703114572
>>703114492
and everyone else here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQTbkEeCTeM
i really think thaz true
>>703114225
I just want to feel love once. Not pussy, but a human connection. Am I wrong to want this? Way can't I live in a better time?
>>703113242
>i can't stop thinking about this girl. but holy fuck, she doesn't even care about me, like 0. i can't just stop thinking about her, this is slowly killing me. only remembering about her is painful.
The anon I quoted below speaks the truth. At first it felt impossible to go on - that I was never breaking through this pain - but as the anon below said...
>>703113603
>Things like this you don't get over,you have to go through.It eases with time.You have to be strong /b/rother.
It will still hit me from time to time and if I don't have my support system around I'm fucked.
>>703114572
thanks for the stuff man. I'll write it down, those are wise words.
tfw too poor to afford liqour to forget how poor you are
>>703113603
I will try man. I will try, but the mix of feelings about this just results in more and more sadness, fuck my fucking brain.
I know the feels bud, I hope you find a way to move on. I haven't.
>>703114978
It's all this. The screens. The information. The reach ability of everyone. Even the fucking 90's were hella different. You had to be somewhere when asked. Not nearly as many phones. Hardly any social media. It was exponentially better. I have had a child, but it hasn't been the same for this world for a long time.
>>703114912
>cares about you
No one really 'cares' about anyone, Anon; we just tolerate each other with incentives. For intimate relationships, the incentive for men is sex; for women, it's being provided for. People are animals, and like animals, we only look out for what's in our immediate best interest.
>>703114978
"Love" is just a cascade of hormones in response to an agreeable external stimuli; there's nothing 'special' about it. Seriously, once you stop giving a flying fuck about women or notions of 'love,' your life will improve and you'll learn the one thing that's most important to a man:
>his freedom
>>703114417
You probably didn't. Beta cucks usually are nicer than alpha's.
>>703114476
If you have kids, you have a reason to stay together. If she is not committed in doing so she doesn't give a shit about the kids. Valid enough reason to give full parental rights to you.
>>703114492
I do want to at least give you one tip, don't rush. Just take it slow, eventually you'll know the right moment.
>>703114603
Please stop being a beta cuck and treating girls like gods. You're a decent person, and she fok'd up there. You can regain yourself and your feelies.
>>703114923
It's a comedy series, not meant to be entirely accurate.
>>703115309
I have sole custody. There you go.
>>703114978
>I just want to feel love once. Not pussy, but a human connection. Am I wrong to want this?
You're not wrong at all, anon.
Im spent my birthday alone today, just like every year. Just turned 21.
>>703107328
You and people like you are the norm for which everyone else here is negatively offset by.
In other words, stop making feels threads, fag.
>>703115309
Op again
Shes the only girl ive felt like this my whole life
>inb4 virgcuck spotted
>>703115477
Happy birthday anon
>>703115096
Your more than welcome. I hope you feel better in time, and that good things come your way very soon.
>>703115306
Aww, how cute. It's you.
Life has two options.
Deal with the thought of our useless existence and over-complicate things, or make the best out of it.
EnJoY lIfE
>>703115516
The downfall of here.
>>703115574
Thanks. Never had a party because i have no one to invite. My parents never made the effort to celebrate when i was little.
>>703115306
Spotted the virgin
>>703115306
maybe you're right. but the feeling of someone enjoying your company is great. it's like a friend you have no limits with when together. and you get laid, which is a bonus
>>703115459
You're a good human being, you have all the time to proof it. She'll get envious about your life eventually.
>>703115547
Maybe because it was your only girl ever. Haha, but seriously, don't feel bad. You're the one being hurt, project those feelings.
>>703115646
>it's you
The fuck?
Anyway, I've found that one can make the best out of their existence by not getting involved in everyone else's, AND not needing self-validation through approval of other people. That goes especially for women, who tend to be selfish, self-centered, childish, vindictive cunts who usually have the mental capacities.
>>703115306
I know I want to be free more than anything but a the same time, I'm single right now and have been for eternity. I'm now happy and have tried everything to be happy. Except funding someone who I think will make me happy. Like, my family "loves" me but I don't connect with them all in the way I want to. It just doesn't feel right. My brother who is 14 is the one I connect with the best but he's 14 so yeah.
I don't think I'm going to last long. I would like a reason to keep going but I keep swinging between "oh life isnt so bad :) you can do this for 40 more years" and "I just want it all to go away. My existence shouldn't have happened". More so the latter. I'm fucked but I do want to experience " love" before I die
>>703115477
Go buy a handle and celebrate by yourself
>>703113819
lolwat don't
>>703115831
>you don't care about women or having a gf
>you must be a virgin!
No.
>>703115852
I am right, and you'll see as you get older. Once you stop letting women control you with sex, you'll see just how useless the lot of them really are, and how pointless it is to even bother with a relationship with them. Sex, or lack thereof, is why you feel the way you do right now. Imagine if you didn't care about it or women.
>>703107328
Now you can happily be a faggot without lying to your gf.
/thread.
>>703115477
Happy birthday
>>703115896
Kudos, but the thread ITI is extremely beta.
>>703115896
Let's all listen to the my highschool gf cheated on me so all women are selfish cunts guy
>>703115820
this is sad man, your parents are a couple of assholes.
>>703116127
In This Internet?
>>703116040
Fucking cancer. GTFO
>>703115547
idno how long you were together, but lets say 3 years.
You traded off 3 years of (mostly) happiness against maybe 1-2 months of sadness.
>>703115306
if you cant see more in emotions than chemics im sorry for your loss
if it came down to science
were nothing and the pain part of anything isnt worth trying these things. If you came to this point, you died
maybe not your corpse but what point is out there besides love and being loved
im sry for you
>>703114074
If you're a fucking loser.
>>703115974
Your family doesn't 'love' you; like anything else, they're only maintaining contact as long as they think you can be of any use to them. The minute you get into a bind or something, watch how many actually come to help you, or even check if you're still alive.
You'll be fine once you stop giving a damn about anyone else, especially women and "family." Live for yourself, fuck everyone else.
>>703116166
No, she didn't cheat on me; she was just a cunt. Glad we broke up though; she's now 400 lbs with two kids and a GED.
>>703116216
No, this is a simulation of the internet.
>>703116216
School is clearly out. Kek.
>>703116260
I feel sorry for YOU for still believing what you do. But, disillusionment will hit soon enough.
To be honest rejection is part of why most can't stop thinking of the ex. When you can't have something the desire the need becomes stronger. So in the end we look like a bunch of toddlers sulking in the corner because we want that toy we had and didn't care much for but now it's out of our reach.
>>703116296
No, Im pretty sure they do actually care about me which is why I haven't killed myself yet. I'm now saying they would love me if I killed someone but for the most part, they would be there for me. Maybe I'm wrong but thats what's they have me thinking
>>703115857
The thing is, shes the only one ive LOVED, sure pussy is pussy but she was special
>>703115477
Go out to a bar, celebrate
>>703116408
may i ask what gets you through the day?
What do you do?
Are you happy? If yes, why? If no, do you ever think you will be happy. Seems with the way you see life it's hard to make you happy
>>703116408
i were believe me
half step into dead but you can kill yourself if ya want, what point is there for you in life?
I mean, besides being a rich wizard
That confirms it.
>>703116296
Oh I'm sorry, so you're the my highschool girlfriend was a cunt to me because I was an insecure faggot so all woman are cunts guy. Wake up man, you're hiding behind the "love doesn't exist" line because your feelings have gotten hurt, and are now scared to get hurt again. Deep inside you are craving to be loved.
>>703107328
http://static.fjcdn.com/movies/We+all+know+that+feel+when+a+gif+isn+t+good_7d309c_5279045.webm
>>703116264
That's kinda sad...
>>703116554
And again, as you get older, you'll see how much your family really 'cares' about you. I say this, as my own family has pretty much moved on without me for one reason or another, which is fine because I don't care about any of them anyway (except for my parents).
Maybe it's because I'm an Atheist and they're all Bible-thumping fanatics, or maybe it's because I'm in my late-20s and have no intention of getting married/having kids. I don't know. But I do know that they only come around to talk to me or my parents when they want something.
>>703116724
My hobbies and interests. I workout, I study, I look forward to my own future without the notion of 'love' or any of crap. I can shut out people just as easily as I can let them in, though I prefer the solitude.
>>703116737
The meaning of life is to give life meaning. Do what you want, not what some broad tells you she wants.
>>703116858
I am love incarnate faggot
>>703116630
Just, don't think it's bad to try and regain her. And don't be ashamed of using some nifty old persuasion. Use it ever so little, and it slips easily through the cracks. Alpha's have it built-in their brain chambers, you just need to learn it.
>>703116944
Not trying to be offensive to you -- just curious; are you diagnosed with autism?
>>703116858
>y-you want to be loved!
No thanks, a relationship is just a second full-time job, with the only 'payout' being depreciating sex over time. I'd rather have vidya, my hobbies, good food, and financial security/freedom. I don't need anyone for those.
>you've been hurt
No, I just learn from other people's mistakes.
>>703117073
No.
>>703117093
Keep hiding in that bubble buddy, I'm sure you are truely happy in there.
i got yelled at by my gf for having anxiety
>>703116858
To be honest, all of perception doesn't exist. It's basic philosophy. You're just trying to be edgy, and it's definitely not working.
>>703116937
In a few different ways.
>>703117191
Happier than I would be otherwise, and I'll be even more so when I achieve my goals.
>>703116944
The meaning you give life is ultimately meaningless because physics dictates you can't create something from nothing. Life has no inherent meaning (therefore =0). The meaning you give it is also meaningless because you come from life (0). Therfore your meaning of life is nothing more than something you convinced yourself is worth living for.
>>703116944
hmm.
even looking at the big picture of life where everyone is a slave for the community where you work, just to get enough cash to eat and live, there is some excitement in love. This makes life seem like even less important.
creds for not giving a fuck.
btw maybe ur gay and the "love" you ignore is just because you havent felt real emotions
the feeling of regret guys, it's the WORST ONE EVER.
holy shit, send help please.
it hurts anons, it hurts.
>>703117351
mmk. Pretty sure it's not chasing some cunt either.
>>703107328
Here you go op https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1maLbOjEWV0
Who are you trying to convince Anon?
>>703117240
I'm not trying to be edgy at all -- to each their own, but some of the things that you're/that guy is saying clearly reflects to someone that has gotten his feelings hurt and is too afraid to commit again.
>>703107328
>There once was a nigger from Haiti
>Who thought he was a bit brainy
>He shot up a bar
>Stole the cash from the drawer
>Then died in an earthquake soon after
>>703117397
Maybe a change, something drastic? Make a move, change a thought and all that.
>>703117391
Life has certain parameters/limitations you have to abide by. Yes, we need money and food to survive, so why waste any of it on another person, especially some cunt who will just jump from one dick to another the minute they have more stuff than you?
>maybe you're gay
The only thing worse than dealing with a woman, is dealing with a man who thinks he's a woman.
>>703117397
this.
find a new hobby or interest to get your mind on other things
>>703117351
whatever he talks about is right
People search for something higher, new level important thing in the world, something that gives them safety, meaning, a place in a world thats more than going to work, get rich and die
if this thing is being the best student of the world ok
but for the most people you cant find "fulfillment" in maths or smth
>>703117191
Does this count as projection? Just because you aren't happy living alone doesn't mean the same applies to everyone else.
>>703113242
it took me two years to get over my ex, who is the love of my life.
it will get easier, eventually.
>>703117449
It's not. I'm getting at everything is pointless and all boils down to you doing whatever the fuck you want and leaving others to do whatever they want because none of it matters anyhow.
To piss your bed in solitude after your next work out and see if any one cares. They don't. And if they did, you don't care, so whatever does it matter? It doesn't. So whatever you want bud. I'm glad you feel the need to come here and preach that loneliness is the best thing for YOU. Most other humans want, to some extent, some amount of human contact, and most would like some contact from the opposite sex since that is biologically what we are supposed to do
>>703117568
Although what he was saying is totally true, we all know he's a 15-year old kid with autism trying to spew his POV on us just because his GF broke up with him a week prior.
>>703117625
Well, she's supposed to have her own income aswell, and I truly believe there are genuine people out there without the gold digger mindset, and who are too good to cheat. we'll, i guess i can hope.
Tbh you sound terribly pessimistic.
>>703117937
Or don't leave people alone because who gives a fuck anyhow
>>703107328
It is called a BAWW BREAD YOU FUCKER!!!!!!
>>703117937
That's exactly what I'm saying: fuck the world, and just do you. To hell with women in particular, and all the shit they bring with them.
>>703117949
I'm 27 and don't have autism. Sorry if what I'm saying bursts your bubble of the 'ideal' world you thought you lived in.
>>703107328
At least you don't have a kid bro
>>703117937
It does get mind numbing being totally alone. But if I were without a kid, I'd probably do just that. It's really a question of have you had enough, of all that. I've been in so many relationships, and deep ones. It just isn't what I look for anymore. Not saying I prefer alone, but it's a lot more peaceful sometimes.
>>703118074
Of course, she'll have her own income; the whole "wage gap" thing is bullshit, because women DO less than men, but still get paid regardless, even if they're shit at their jobs. Thing is though, it's about basic instinct and self-interest: why should I spend mine (paycheck), when I could convince him to spend his? And that's why you'll likely end up footing the bill for everything, and her money just goes to gas, a car note, and maybe groceries.
>>703118155
Classic autism case. Doesn't know how to paint something gray. Pathetic.
>>703117826
Not at all. It is proven that humans need affection to be truely happy. We are made to procreate, thats human nature, anyone saying that they do not need love or that love does't exist, is either ill or is lieing to himself because he has gotten hurt in the past.
>>703118355
>you're autistic because you think differently and don't want to be around people!
k bro
>>703118262
wise words my friend.
when i am in a relationship i wish to be alone.
When i am alone i wish i had someone else.
the grass is always greener on the other side.
>>703118155
No. what you're saying is fine for your. YOU don't want human connection. Thats fine. Stay away from people or whatever. But I think you are wasting time (personal opinion, not that time has value anyhow) trying to convince others, especially people in this tthread, that human interaction is completely pointless. All things are pointless, sure, but some people crave having the touch of a woman, man, child, or whatever so I suggest you move on, and go be alone.
>>703118435
Not at all. You're autistic since you're unable to define both negatives and positives into a single meaning. You either have a negative POV or a positive POV. People with ASD have repeatedly shown to have difficulty with this.
>>703118525
Is fine for YOU.
Fucking auto correct
Kind of feel like it's almost an empty phrase anymore, autism. It's almost like an insult anymore. They've stretched the diagnoses to fit kids with an easy label. It's getting super cliche.
>>703118525
I'm just here to help OP get over it, and others if they're suffering from the same problem. What you have to understand is, such 'problems' as OP's come from what: dealing with/caring about women. Once you stop doing both, you'll have a lot less problems. I can't tell you how great it is to be able to do what you want, when you want, and not need to tell/inform anyone else about how your day went. The same especially goes for not having to listen to some ravenous cunt prattle on and ON about how her day went.
>>703118660
>negative POV
By whose measure?
>>703118751
Autism speaks.
It's time to listen.
>>703118509
It's human nature. And people do stop having sex eventually, and it becomes more about give and take, 20, Wo years in. But shit, the human condition.
>>703118950
Kek.
I got molested when I was a child and have always had a really fucked-up time talking to girls until I went to college. Why? It was a different environment that's literally all it takes go somewhere else you will see the difference.
>>703118806
Don't act like you're retarded.
>>703107328
You're a faggot.
>>703107328
>Whoops, I mean I FEEL like you're a gigantic faggot.
>>703118333
nice trips.
if in the end this makes me happy, and she has real affection for me, i don't understand why it's a problem. I think its easy to see through a gold digger and a real person. I also had a deal with my gf where i bought and fixed digital and electrical shit, and she would do interior. we always split the bill on the apartment and groceries we both did whenever needed.
my ex was wayy smarter than me. If we both get a job and she gets less wage, i will actually be surprised. I've never worked any near as hard as her.
what you say might be true in avarage, but this is not always the case.
>>703119103
I'm not. I'm genuinely asking.
>>703118406
I can't believe I have to say this...
Do you have a single fact to back that up?
All pretty fucking jaded. That's for sure.
>>703119217
But do you really want to take that risk? The risk so many other men take, and get ROYALLY fucked over by? It's like digging through garbage (most women) to find a steak. Would you still want that steak, even with all the broken glass, syringes, etc in it? Focus on yourself. Women are only out for themselves, and they will use you (a man) as an apparatus.
>be 15
>walk to school with friend
>San Jose California
>Im white , hes black
>he has a blue shirt on
>car pulls up and guns him down next to me
>Black guy gets out waves gun in my faces and beats the fuck outta me.
>Killed one of my first real friends over a shirt colour.
>Didnt understand why until a few years later
> my friends parents where middle class , no hassle black folk who worked hard and owned there own place.
>I hate niggers , But fuck that black boy was one of the realest and most honest people ive ever known.
>tfw first real friend was killed over his shirt colour.
>>703119224
Another reason you're autistic. I feel sorry for you, but you're a high-class case.
>>703119452
Hm, so you can't answer.
>>703119423
Sorry Anon. Your stronger for having survived it.
kill yourself faggot
>>703119329
Are you really retarded? Millions of years of evolution due to procreation, and you're the special snowflake that has no need for it? It IS human nature.
>>703119513
Of course I can, but it is only good for the autistic to stimulate their own ability of figuring out the way of thinking of others.
This is a weird ass feels thread, honestly.
>>703119679
You say this, using 'autism' as a buzzword, but I think it's really a cover for a lack of any real answer you might have had otherwise.
I'm right, you're wrong. Nothing autistic about it.
Been trying to hang out with a friend for a couple weeks now. He's always busy, when he's not he says he's about to go to bed and to get at him the next day, when it starts all over again. "Sorry bro I'm going to work." "Can't I'm tired and wanna go to bed."
Thats if I even get a text back. I know noone cares, but whatever, I'm drinking alone in my room and feeling pretty insignificant cause he's really the only friend I have..or had, who knows
>>703119329
>7+ billion magically appeared
>and it's not because billions of people have had sex which was brought about by their natural urge to have sex whose urge is cause by hormones who have evolved to make us feel good when have sex so that we keep having sex so that the species continues to exist
Yes.
>>703119794
Not at all, I've been around the autistic and I can tell you that they're exactly the same as you. Accept it, go to a doctor and get diagnosed.
>>703119417
In your 27 years you must've been reall unlucky with the chicks you've met. I guess if you are going to the trash looking for steak, you will either find bad steak or no steak at all, but i'm more of a; go to the store and look through the steakes they have and see whatever ones the best.
It's a risk where you can either end up like exactly this moment for a couple of months a time, with the upside of possible having years of enjoyment.
At the moment I sleep from 3-4 am to 2-3 pm, get dinner at 5, watch series, play games etc behind my computer screen and rinse and repeat.
to me, thats not living life at its fullest
>>703119833
You're probably not a very good friend of his (in his eyes) if you are so low priority. you should tell him, and if he appreciates your friendship he should do somethin to show it. If not, theres better people who would enjoy your company way more.
>>703120003
Never cared for women from the start, and as I've gotten older, I can see I was right not to. They are seriously more trouble than they're worth, and OP will soon start realizing this.
You can live your life to its 'fullest.' I recommend learning about other cultures, taking up a second language, and travelling. Travelling alone is the best, because you can go wherever you want, whenever you want, and don't have to feed anyone but yourself. Take this OC from Korea I took last December when I went for a week's vacation. No gf, no 'family,' none of that; just me and 7 days of whatever the hell I want.
I'll be going to Japan (for the third time) next year, and probably China or Thailand after.
>>703107328
Just break up with her instead.
1. Wait a few hours
2. Text her saying you're sorry but things just aren't working out like you thought they would, and you think it'd be best if you went your separate ways
3. Play dumb when she brings up her already breaking up with you
>>703107328
Sorry Billy
>>703107328
>be me, 13
>find small lump on left arm
>growing over the years
fast forward
>be me, 17 turning 18 in under 4 months
>been a dropout for 1year
>legal age is 18
>getting ready to work to have lump checked out
>lump still growing
>MFW don't want to finish college anymore
>parents enroll me anyways
>3 years later dropped out to grab work opportunity
>employer has a million internal issues(not really, but you get the point)
>quit job, pursue selling of general merchandise items
>solo doing sales, no wingman to brainstorm with
>run out of funds to move around
>run out of money to put into cycle
>run out of leads
>run out of ideas
>running out of hope
>my parents hate me now
>they don't know I have a growing lump in my arm
>gf can't do much to help
>she's all I have now
>posting on /b/ to find refuge from this shit
>lump still untreated
>I have maybe a decade left
it was nice knowing /b/.
>>703120326
>asia
Autism confirmed
>>703120326
that look like ching chong rip-off of picadilly circus
>>703120608
It would seem that the most logical course of action would be to focus on money instead of women.
>>703119452
>>703119651
Obviously the humans that need affection are the ones that procreate, while the ones that don't, don't.
Not everyone is the same.
>>703120326
I like travelling, but would never do it alone. If i travel alone, which i've done on a couple occasions, I will bring my laptop and get stuck at the hotel the entire time. I enjoy company, even If i have to compromise doing shit you never thought about doing yourself.
It's how I learn to expand my view of shit. Maybe I didnt think to visit that museum, but she did, and it's now something I enjoy thouroghly.
I see your view on this though, but I kindly disagree. Trips are cool, but theres way cooler to share it with someone.
I've been in a relationship for 7 years and now that has ended. I moved countries to be with her and now I am back to my homeland. This fucking sucks. We were engaged for a year too. I'm so sad
>>703120665
>Doubt you've ever been.
>>703120675
It's Myeongdong, Seoul (which isn't in China) around Xmas.
>>703120441
kek
>>703120601
If you live 10 years, thats about 3,650 days of shitposting you could do. Get to it boi.
>>703120768
Yes, I am bleeding out of my box right now,
>>703120853
ching chong chi wao pang pao
>>703120601
did you ever check your lump?
>>703120853
I haven't been. Thanks for asking.
>>703120836
feel for you man. that sucks.
>>703115831
Spotted the dyke.
>>703120831
It's like one of my old professors said:
>one of the best ways to travel is to 'get lost'
And you can't do that if you're constantly hounded by someone tagging along, slowing you down, with:
>my feet hurt
>I'm hungry
>you said we were going to go over THERE
>I don't like this place
>I'm cold
>BUY ME THIS! I DON'T KNOW WHAT IT IS, BUT BUY IT ANYWAY!
>We're going to have to leave some of YOUR stuff behind
and so on.
>>703121015
I was assuming. Correctly, it seems.
>>703120831
I agree. I have never really traveled alone I always had a destination to go see that person in that destination or I would travel with them. Having a companion is so much better than travelling alone, I guess. But I guess since we're not together anymore I might just try traveling alone to break out of my shell and become less of an introvert. I'm thinking of traveling to Japan maybe to see what it's like.
>>703120997
verified tumor, yes. further test needed to verify cancer.
Can't afford that test....yet..
the way it sits now, it's grown around 200-300% its original size
>>703121067
Thanks man. It sucks. But I guess I'll just have to take it a day at a time. What sucks is that I lost my job now because I worked over there now I'm jobless.
>>703107328
But I do know one thing though
Bitches, they come they go
Saturday through Sunday, Monday
Monday through Sunday, yo
Maybe I'll love you one day
Maybe we'll someday grow
'Til then just sit your drunk ass on that fucking runway, ho
>>703121239
How bout you cut it out, ya cunt
>>703121416
K
Same happened to me today. A few weeks before I was going to propose too.
She just said our relationship isn't new anymore. It's not exciting to her. After 5 years she just now decided that. Fairly certain she lost feelings for me once I ultimately failed at being accepted to medical school. I applied to so many but I didn't get accepted to a single one, and I think the fact that I couldn't make ends meet really turned her off.
Oh well. I guess.
>>703121430
>verified pussy
>>703113669
Het leven is hard, maar het brood van de Delhaize is harder.
>>703112126
>chassin duh pussy cuh
it's shocking that you can't hold on to a woman
>>703121567
Wish I can just reach through the screen stroke your cheek and then you and I can go and get a beer
>>703121081
The more i keep this conversation, the more i realize you see every possible negative outcome of every situation. Seeing it that way leaves you with nothing to win, but I see it differently.
I've been to several trips, and never had this happen to me.
Also getting lost is defo possible with company. With my family they always plan out every single thing we do, when we do it, and then the day is more of a chore than a vacation, but my ex would be like me, go wherever and improvise. I enjoyed it. If she would nag there was possibly a good reason to. If she's cold there is a good chance i am pretty cold aswell. If she's tired that means we had a good walk etc etc. I like exploring but i also enjoy hanging around doing nothing.
I am usually looking for solutions for problems that appear, I'm not looking for the problem itself. Which i guess leaves me with a more open mind and see positive outcomes more frequently.
>>703120325
I'm not sure I want to. See whenever someone is upset at me for whatever reason and comes to me about it we work it out, no problem. When I'm upset and go talk to someone about it I'm an asshole and have no reason to be upset.
If I treated people the same way they've been treating me I'd get the shit beat out of me by multiple people. It's like everybody elses feelings are way more important than mine because mine are stupid and have no meaning or some shit.
itt: babies first breakups and the saddest lot of beta closet fags i've ever stumbled across
turn back now
>>703122174
Fuck you Ross
>>703121200
damn, that sucks balls. hope you win the lottery and can afford any meds and cures (if there are any). Anyways, do some crazy shit. Tick off stuff from your bucket list. You actually have a reason to YOLO
>>703122069
I see things as they actually are, rooted in reality rather than idealism.
What I (and the professor) meant by 'getting lost,' was 'getting off the well-beaten path.' It's better to do that alone than with some nagging 'family' slowing you down, and potentially making you literally lost.
>>703121390
Since you were there for a while you have a lot of work experience. Getting a new one is probably not going to be the biggest issue. Take some time to be alone with your thoughts and then get to work when you are ready. If its your home town you probably have parents or siblings that can help you out if you need.
>>703121200
>>703121200
if you punch your stomach hard enough i'd be willing to bet your baby balls would jostle free from your abdomen and you'd stop being such a pussy
>>703122285
U wot m8?
>>703107328
>go to my local bar
>been going for 5 years
>a guy there we will call "Alec"
>Alec is in his last 60's
>He is a tour pilot
>hes flown commercial planes 747's etc for 20 years
>Hes in the bar with his pilots uniform on
>20 year service gold boeing watch
>Flight medals and service pins
>gold captain stripes on shoulders
> ask him how he is.
>was his mothers funeral today
> "oh fuck, Im sorry I didnt mean to.."
>"Its okay anon she had dementia shes better off there in all honest"
> 4 hours later
> hes sat there on his own sliding left and right on the bar drink in hand.
>come up to him and say , Alec, Are you okay?
> "NO im fucking not you cunt!"
>"no Alec I didnt mean.."
> "I understand how you feel and im sorry , im here"
> Alec:" How the fuck would you know how I feel!"
>*throws his glass in my face and cuts my face open*
I Lost my mother when I was a teenager I just wanted him to know he didnt need to be alone on that day.
Were cool now he came in the ambulance with me and I told the cops not the book him and explained he was emotionally heated.
>>703122419
Thanks man. Sometimes you anons are alright.
>>703122469
lol replied to wrong comment.
dude go to japan and live your life. sounds cool
>>703122669
Do you want to come to Japan with me?
>>703122420
I just punched my stomach and now my stomach hurts and now I'm just sad thinking about my ex
>>703122356
"Actually are" is a very stern term to use. It might or it might not happen.
I guess when you jump from the edge of the pool there is less chance you end up hurting yourself, but you will never feel the excitement and butterfly belly you get from jumping from the higher diving board.
I'll rather take the risk and if i land improperly it hurts for a while, but it was fun while mid air.
>>703115309
All Comedy is derived from truth
Fuck. I fucked up. I keep thinking about her. God damn it. Now I'm going to go and listen to some sad fucking music. I fucking hate this shit god-damn it I'm such a pussy beta faggot
>>703123032
We should travel sometime man
>>703123032
With the possibility of spraining an ankle, I'd rather remain earthbound.
>>703123037
Yeah, the fact that you're a faggot is pretty hilarious
>>703122731
sounds like a good experience, but I do not either have the money to travel, and the culture there is wayy different from my regular life. I don't think I would enjoy it. It looks like a cool place to travel, It's just not for me (I think)
>>703123081
What musuc?
Can I save it?
>>703123136
Would love to travel man, I don't think i am any good company tbh
>>703123231
aviation- you were my everything is my go sad song. it hits home for me so thats probably why.
>>703123249
Fuck no. When a girl says there's some things that just can't be fixed she's absolutely dead set on breaking up with you the only way that you can salvage this it is if you suggest counseling couples therapy. Because it shows that you are ready to step up so just ask her.
>>703123320
Why wouldn't you be good company? I think you and I would have a good time
>>703123159
I guess we disagree. I like gambling.
Nice talk though i like to hear different views of life.
>>703123231
https://youtu.be/BpkU4xKkp44
Going old school here
>>703123488
I'll have a listen
>>703123488
Are you Asian or something like old-school Asian like hmong or something
>>703123718
Sorry, couldn't do it. Pearl Jam's "Black" makes me feel. Well, that last part about the sunshine and shit
>>703123224
What is your regular life seem like a very interesting character
>>703123772
Im Hmong and didn't know what song you're talking bout, looked up up abd instantly knew it
>>703124071
btw not the guy you were asking sum rabdom fag
>>703123570
I don't know, I just hate having responsibility towards my company.
it's kinda like when you are the guy putting on music in a group of people you either don't know or don't know that well;
-will my music be appreciated by everyone?
-this song was way better when i heard it at home on my own
-should i skip, is this the right kind of music etc etc.
I think too much and I don't like to be the reason someone is not enjoying themselves.
you seem like a nice guy though, so nothing against you.
>>703123772
nope. never thought of that but i just enjoyed the lyrics. it's very relevant for my life so thats might be why i like it.
>>703123997
Honestly I usually avoid discussions because I am not generally an intelligent person. I usually have no good arguments and end up just shitting down my own leg with stuff i say. Here i have some time to think before i talk and i probably seem like a much more interesting person than when you meet me. I think I can be good company if you have the same interests, and i think i am generally liked in my group of friends, but thats a different story.
>>703124126
I don't really care man I think just you just need to relax and just take it easy. You think too much too much negativity. you just got to go with the flow brother
>>703124683
So what are your interests then?
>>703124310
Oh okay. Because it seems like people that know that song Or generally Laotian or Hmong or Cambodian
>>703123981
What about aerosmith - dream on.
that might be more your alley.
>>703124753
you might be right, i've always overthought stuff.
>>703125096
So where would you like to go on our travels?
Same here going on two weeks ago now. The thing is it will seam like you're going to be depressed, bitter and deeply sad forever. I find nine times out of 10 I eventually end up looking back on it all and think wtf was I thinking anyway? In time your delusions will fade once your hormones are no longer hijacking your brain. One trick is to make a huge effort to not think about any good memories. Just think of the bad stuff. Sounds counterintuitive I know but swallowing that bitter pill will help you to get over the bitch faster. You also may find there were some red flags there all along that you ignored. It can actually be pretty shocking when the rose colored glasses come off. You'll get through it bro.
>>703124864
i have a bachelor degree in graphic design and generally enjoy vidya games and computer related stuff.
![divorce_3[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/6Oav2ck.jpg "divorce_3[1].jpg")
>>703116038
What you need is a black woman.
>>703125358
You see you are literally me I've got the same fucking degree same fucking interest you fucking asshole so we can hang out God damnit and travel
>>703125472
Fuck no. I'm a black man, and there's no way in hell I'd even touch a black woman.
>>703125254
I've been all over europe (i am eu fag), usa and egypt. I'd really like to go to australia or nz. I want to visit every continent, but for asia maybe malaysia or singapore. Idno really.
>>703125503
holy shit thats kinda crazy. you might be me, but probably a bit better looking.
>>703125280
This might work if you aren't willing to salvage of sort of relationship with her a friendship I mean. If she fucked you over somehow then of course think this way but if you still want to be friends, if that's even possible, then really just see you gotta move on and try to stay in contact with her
>>703116944
>pulls out the "i'm atheist" card
you are arguably the most autistic person in this thread right now
>>703125580
That's exactly why though. White guys and black girls do pretty well. And you're just posting pics of bad looking black girls. I could do the same for any other race or gender combination
>>703125855
Has anyone really ever successfully been friends with their ex? That shit just doesn't work.
>>703125739
Well I don't want to go back to Australia because that's where my ex is that is where I lived for The Last 5 Years before I moved back to America. Maybe we can go to Singapore?
>>703125852
Man I really want to hang out with you now whereabouts are you from?
>>703125940
Yet I don't have autism.
>>703126007
As a black man (or any man, really), a black woman would be of no use to me. If anything, it'd be more of a disservice.
>>703125580
Sorry. Just assumed you're white. My wife is black, and she is fantastic. The hardest working woman I know, a dedicated mother, steadfast, thrifty, and stoic.
>>703126038
Will my ex and I were best friends before we actually got together and now we've broken up but we still are friends but everytime she talks about going out with some guy whatever it still hurts but I just gotta remember to move on
>normalfag problems
>>703126042
I don't know which is which, if you are the same person responding to my posts, but as I mentioned earlier, I am in a situation without much cash to spare. I have enough to get by atm, but no chance to even go to my neighboring country. I am currently looking for work, so maybe in the future
>>703125580
Shouldn't you be out selling drugs and getting shot at?
>>703126231
They're only remotely feminine toward white men. Not that I'm blaming you or anyone else for it, but it's just a matter of fact. Probably because they (she) know that white men don't need them, so they leave those shitty attitudes and childish mindsets behind, saving them for black men instead.
>>703126156
I live in norway. that itself might say a lot about how i am as a person.
>>703126387
I'm a black man, not a nigger.
>>703126387
What's with you edgy fgts these days
>>703126231
Yeah, it's almost like racist stereotypes are stupid.
>>703126485
Excellent point my friend.
>>703126339
Yes, I'm the same guy. I just didn't read your earlier posts. Well that kind of sucks. There's a way that we can travel. Just Close Your Eyes with me right now and imagine we are in Singapore.
>>703126655
>Those don't interest me.
>>703126524
Sorry not gay so you can't blow me. Nice way to try to be sneaky about it though.
>>703126720
Better?
>>703126421
Cool man. Can I come visit you? We can like hang out and do shit
>>703126806
No. I have no interest in women or sex.
>>703126719
If I could choose, I would be anywhere but where I am now to get my thoughts on better things. If only.
You seem like reasonable dude btw man, we would probably get along well.
>>703126754
Who in the God damn blue blazes is this semen demon
>>703126038
im pretty good friends with an ex, but it took about 2-3years before that was possible. she's actually one of my closest friends now, and the person helping me go thru my current breakup.
most of the time it doesn't work, tho, and there's a good reason for that
>>703126389
There's no childish in her. If I had to attribute her good qualities to anything, it's her background. Her parents have stayed together all these years, and they're solid blue collar folks with the work ethic that entails. Me and mine are way bigger "niggers" than her kin. I'm the one with childhood memories of gunshots, assaults, and familial violence.
>>703126903
How about something funny?
>>703126964
Where are you from anyway? Maybe I could come and visit you?
>>703115087
The most accurate post I've seen on this site... hang in there /b/ros
>>703126988
........what?
>>703127087
>
This is true and you know it to be true 100%
>>703127155
I mean who is she?
>>703126877
Where are you from? Its kinda far fetched to say yes to a stranger you just had a couple of words with over the web. could chat it up if youd like though, can't say no to more friends!
>>703127453
I'm from America. You gotta throw away email or something maybe we can exchange pen pals and shit I don't know maybe if you want
>>703126257
See that's why it doesn't work! I have know idea why you'd want to torture yourself with that. Sounds like she turned you into a beta orbiter.
>>703127095
Hey man I've answered another guy earlier, i am this guy >>703126421 If you follow the replies back you'd know a bit more. As i told the other guy, having visitors would be cool as fuck, Its just scary saying yes to someone you had a couple of words with.
>>703127395
Oh I don't know some foot whore......I'm not very helpful in this thread.
>>703127309
No. That it sometimes true for the person who did the breaking up. The person who got broke up with always feels like shit. That photo represents one of two possible outcomes for the person who did the breaking up.
>>703127619
Well funny thing is I'm actually married and have 2 kids. It's just that she was my first love still something I can't get over and my wife knows that so doesn't really matter
>>703127453
He's going to eat your skin bro.
