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> "If she really cared then she would have talked to you"
I'm getting some late night feels, get in here while i kill my pain with vodka
drinking heineken. Playing megaman X because I have no one to drink with.
>>700468950
I think for the first time I'm getting mixed signals from someone. It had never happened to me before, but I might be confusing someone's niceness for her liking me. When we are togueter we are cool, but she hardly ever gets back to my texts.
>>700468793
Honestly bro. Forget her. She was probably a dumb cunt to begin with
I'm in my feels too, listening to all kinds of music. Alcohol, anti depressants, and coke... SMH
>>700469210
I loved her man, she just stopped being happy and ended it. Fuck man i used to just sit on my computer and do nothing, she gave me purpose in life, now i'm back to where i started.
>>700469777
You're not alone man; but fuck, do I feel alone... I feel you anon.
>>700470055
What do i do now, shes already moved on, and here i am getting drunk at my desk at 2:00 am
I have girl and I feel like I take her for granted, but then again I feel like she only uses me. She kissed my "best friend" and I got back with her like a little beta fag. She basically ruined my social life and I can't bare to lose her because an hero
>>700468950
area code?
You always have bars fam
>>700470321
I wish we could have a drink anon. Won the lottery and hit the whore house.
Anyone have some songs to feel to?
>>700469072
If she initiates physical contact like hugs or anything you might be in fam. GLHF.
>>700468793
Be an asshole in an online game. always makes me feel better.
>>700468793
Im taking xanax so much it helps so much i'm on it i haven't been in
>>700470354
alpha the fuck up bro.
>>700470580
Let's do this!
This hits me hard...
https://youtu.be/sCFSl-ONF9Q
>>700470580
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gd9OhYroLN0
gets me every time
>>700470580
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R3kPH2MJzlg
feel with me anon, even though it's not that time of the year
>>700468793
>>700470736
Sorry i didn't finish my sentance silly me but i been taking 2mg for every social situation it helps so much it makes me feel like a normal person why cant i be like this all the time? Im on xanax rn just so i could talk to some girls on my phone i use to browse feels threads everyday and drink but this xanax man helps so much i can actually type and my brain doesnt hurt or anything why cant i be like this all the time? Anons?
>>700470736
You're only digging a hole buddy, but I'm in em too. As long as you don't do stupid shit you're good.
>>700470580
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f-jN3vH26NQ
>>700468793
do pushups/crunches/vsits until the lactic acid is too much to handle. then you'll have at least accomplished something while being sad.
Hello /b/. I have a lot on my mind, and I don't know where to begin, so I'll just dump everything here.
I think I'm suffering from something called alexithymia. I can't describe my emotions. I feel empty and really motivated to distract myself from.. Something.
I'm also in love and I don't know how to tell the girl I adore so much that she means the world to me. I'm 75% sure she doesn't and never will love me back because of how I used to treat her before I got to know her.
I feel like I need to destroy something. I'm sorry if this sounds vague but I'm really having trouble organizing my thoughts.
>>700468793
AN HERO
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>>700470580
https://youtu.be/tayEofaRQIs
This one's pretty great
>>700471257
Stay up anon,
>>700471205
does lifting actually cure feels?
>>700469777
I thought that's what happened with me...turns out she cheated on me.
I feel you, man.
>>700471642
Self esteem and confidence maybe
>>700468793
vodka is for pussy you need whiskey my friend l
>>700471280
kek
>>700468793
THIS IS /B/ KYS FAGGOT
>>700471642
for me it does. Of course I've developed a dependence on exercise so if i don't run/bike for 90+ minutes i get horribly depressed and moody as fuck.
But honestly you have nothing to lose right? Chin up, bro. life gets better.
>>700471746
I'm tall and kinda scrawny, i actually want to start lifting, but where do i start?
>>700471110
topkek
Have liked this girl for a really long time, gets my humor shit like that. We were really close and I can tell she liked me but I nether asked her out cause I thought I would ruin shit. Kinda lost contact for awhile thought I got over her but starting talking a lot recently and realize i still love her.
But this is when feels kick in boys.
90% chance she is currently fucking my best friend, I know this is cliche and all but as soon as she met him she pretty much stopped talking to me and is always calling him and my best friend has already started picking her over me when it comes to things.
I can't blame him though, I had a chance and never took it.
Someone cheer me up
(First time posting in feels thread btw life is actually ok other than this)
>>700472119
Basics. Squats, push ups, pull ups. Then you'll begin to feel satisfied if you consistently work out. Start there.
>>700472239
First time here too man, shit. It's crazy how similar our stories are.
>>700472402
> No weights?
>>700470881
https://youtu.be/9Sehc8XuTlU
>>700472578
yeah it's pretty cliche like I said. Never believed it would actually happen to me though...
/b/ I think I'm in love but I keep self-sabotaging whenever I'm with this girl. I realize how weird it must seem that one day I ask her to go get coffee with me and we spend 6 hours together walking around and talking and laughing and the next day I don't answer her calls or I get really rude and belligerent when I'm talking to her. I think I have a problem of some kind and I'm in a rare interlude between these two extremes where I can recognize how aberrant my actions are. I don't know what to do.
>>700472239
If I were you I'd just find a new best friend and be a complete asshole to the current one
>>700468793
In the same exact shit with you op youre not alone
>>700472779
I should mention that sometimes even her presence gives me panic attacks. Some days I don't want to look at her. Other days she makes me want to vomit or run and hide, and still other days I follow her like a dog. The only constant I am sure of is that I love this woman. I feel scared and alone.
>>700472674
Definitely if you have the privilege, bitches love tall dudes with strong biceps broad shoulders and strong forearms... If you start. Try to stay consistent and never skip leg day.. Squats, lunges etc
>>700472779
Maybe you're Introverted?
>>700472894
But the thing is he is a good friend and I told him I was over her awhile back when I was. But shit changed and he doesn't know that like her again.
>>700472761
WTF is a best friend huh?
>>700473351
I am an introvert, but I don't think thats an excuse for such extreme mood swings. It just seems too facile. I'm not rude to other people, I just keep to myself. To this girl, somedays I just want to smother her and burn her body. She causes me so much emotional distress but she's so perfect at the same time.
>>700473547
Somebody that doesn't judge you for going on 4chan
>>700473648
Damn bro, I feel you, she feels like the other half and it burns knowing someone is in her arms. I'm introverted too, I've lost really pretty girls because of my attitude. Right now I'm with a nice girl, little crazy, but still very compassionate and loving, she owns her own business; she's wife material and I still treat her like a bitch. I feel like I'm just mad at myself.
>>700473847
Haha, Rs. I'm always on here for the ylyl, but today seems different. Maybe it's the rain.
What is everyone drinking; doing tonight?
>>700474526
Water because i'm 16.
>>700474119
This girl is very emotionally strong but also sensitive. She stands up for herself. She's also highly intelligent, but a very devout catholic. I don't love her just for that though. She's a very poor leader. She doesn't have the best social skills. She's not very good at conveying her opinions or desires to people because often times she can't annunciate her emotions. Even so, I'm drawn to her. I don't know why, but I find her amazing. I don't know if I'd marry her yet because of all these problems.
>>700474896
you shouldn't have said that.
I'm sitting in my room, living truly alone, for the first time in four years, after she finally left. Shit has been mounting since February when good old Chad McDoucheFag came back to town and she got obsessed with him.
She cheated on me, and thought I wasn't gonna find out. She swore up and down nothing was happening, that she wasn't just running off to him, and I knew it was all bullshit. Her facebook messages to him and a video I caught using teamviewer confirmed it all.
She threw away a life in which she had everything covered, she could afford to work just part-time because I got this, and someone who would continue to consider her needs (me), just so she could run off with this faggot and fuck him whenever she wanted. So she could have the wondrous life she thinks she'll get.
Of course she left this place a fucking shitpile. I get to clean it all up AND drop the $125 to get the divorce ball rolling. None of the effort has ever come from her. She never cleaned or helped me clean, when we moved in to this new place, she was off with him.
So I finally just let her fucking go and told her to never come back here.
I'm sitting in my room, /b/, and I want to just give up.
>>700475065
I swear I had this beautiful girl in my life, she had her flaws and her reputation was not so good. I took her for granted because I thought I loved a different Latina girl; but that would use me as her rebound, so I never loved the slutty ex, just loved the sex. everyone thought I was dating a whore. So I started to treat her like shit, eventually She left my life and got really fit (probably still a slut) but I realized I had fucked up by fucking her over. The lesson I learned is grow up and treat woman right, I still don't practice what I preach but maybe one day I'll learn and not be alone on a social night... Ive basically lost all my friends and drinking buddies because of these girls man... Now I'm in the feels thread.
>>700475364
Just find hope in knowing that Chad will cheat on her and leave. she will be one hell of a Stripper my dude. Just carry on you obliviously don't need her.
>>700471078
Nah man like everyday i would just get sad and wanna cry and im a grown ass man because i wanted to live in the city and go to places for entertainement and all that i cried at work once because of it but since i took xanax i understand i can move to the city and go to college in a couple of months after i graduate i take them it helps with me not doing cringey thoughts or cringey things everyone at school would ask if i was high because i was so depressed but now the xanax tells my body its okay and everything is gonna be fine
>>700475364
That's actually pretty inspiring, that was a hoe, not wife.
>>700476346
It will have it's withdrawals but if it helps you cope then I'm all for it. I'm a waiter at good restaurant and I need Canadian to function properly, it helps with my anxiety alot. But be careful, keep it modorate and don't abuse. I'm sure you know what you're doing though bro.
>>700476844
Xanax
Canadian? Android is higher than me.
>>700476047
I don't know, fam, I was trying to be nonchalant about the whole affair, but the loneliness just hit me hard tonight.
I know I don't need her and she can go fuck off, but man...I really cared and loved this one. This all came totally out of nowhere. As soon as chad came back.
>Be me in high school
>Meet aznqtπ 2nd semester before classes since I got there early
>Frequently meeting over and over again. Same spot same time
>Begin hanging out with her and her friends
>Every Friday after school we hang out in the city. Become really close friends with her other best friend. J
>We talk a lot about our shit. Getting pretty intimate
>Turns out she got bullied a lot and had severe depression
>New experience. Think nothing of it. Maybe just some high school drama or whatever
>4th semester comes
>Tells me she's moving out of state
>We all hang out one last time. J, her, and a few other friends
>Gooby kiss
>Break after 5th semester comes up
>J tells me she committed suicide
>All these feels
>Depressed friends and I
>We get over it
>Lose contact with everyone but J
>Apparently she couldn't get over it
>They've been best friends since before kindergarten. So I can only imagine how she was taking this shit
>J gets severe depression
>See her every day taking her pills at lunch
>Spend more time with her. Help her get through this
>First suicide attempt by OD
>Second by oxygen deprivation
>Her mom can't take it anymore
>New drugs are used on her but no progress
>Final suggestion is ECT
>Recalling the look on her face when she realized what ECT is and what it's for
>Every time I saw her she looked like she was questioning her own existence. Remember her asking me "if ECT is a last resort am i really beyond help? Am I so far off into depression the only way to fix me is to scramble my brain?"
>Last day before the procedure she looked beyond sad
>After one session she seems a little happier
>After a few gradually getting happier. Although she was calling me by my full name at this point instead of the nickname everyone calls me by
>Through everything she couldn't recall at all her best friend
>Just like that aznqtπ was gone from her memory because it hurt her that much
>Continue talking and she did alright
>College hits
>>700476844
I actually got my xanax from the dw from some canadian they are tabs tho
>>700475989
I think I've already fucked up a lot with this girl. I really can't help it. On the days where I don't want to be around her or I want to kill her or vomit when I see her it's like I'm watching a movie of somebody else's life. I'm in control of my actions, sure, but everything just.. happens. As if it were in a script. It's hard to explain. Whenevef this happens it's like i'm not entirely present within myself.
>>700468793
I have been exactly where you are now op, just get over it, if she is in the need of you once more, she will come, just don't think about right now. Get on with your own life and start building yourself upwards.
>>700477054
Chad won't care for her like you did and she will try come back to you. she is using you as a backup, When it comes to the loneliness music always helps me. There is another thing i do and i have no idea why but if i'm feeling sad or lonely I watch Prison Break and i'm alright again after a couple episodes. No idea why have been doing it for years.
>>700477547
So many questions, so little answers. I feel you brother. I feel you on this.
D e s p a i r
https://youtu.be/6lxQA_FuC8s
>>700478239
I don't really like Prison Break, but music seems to be.
I won't be letting her back. Not after this. But it doesn't stop it from hurting like hell.
>>700477237
>Continue keeping in touch
>Still calling me by my full name
>End of first semester
>Decide to meet up in our hometown
>Tells me she's getting a new phone and wants me to back up everything on her hard drive since her computer is off being wrecked by geeksquad
>Agree and bring my laptop to her place
>Backup the media and shit while she's playing KH and I'm just watching
>Find pictures of J and aznqtπ
>Decide to keep them on the back up
>Gets new chinkshit phone
>Computer still getting sold for parts by geeksquad
>Install all the media for her while she's playing Tekken 6
>2nd semester comes and we have to go to our respective colleges
>Get a call from a mutual friend in February saying she fell into depression and committed suicide
>Grades drop
>Lost a friend.. again
>Every time I make a suicide joke it kills me inside. But I do it anyways
>Think about how it could've been if I never put the pictures of aznqtπ back in her phone
>>700468793
I'm going to be starting my first semester of college in a few days. I'm so thankful that I even have this opportunity, but to be able to afford to go, my parents are selling the house that I have lived in all my life. I dont know why I'm so attached to this place. I guess i just feel like it's a part of me in a way. No matter what crazy shit happened in my life, i always had this one safe, consistent place to come home to. I've had some of my best memories in this house, and now i have to let it all go because change is inevitable and i have to move on with my life.
so she answered me
been a week after we met up and deleted each others number
yet i know through friends that she wants to have contact again
even though she went back to her ex almost a year ago
i dont want to know what she answered somehow eventhough im over it about 90%
>>700478719
Good on you.
I don't even like Prison Break that much ether I have just always fucking watched it when I was sad and it fucking helps me somehow.
>>700478730
Can't blame yourself man. Damn that's deep.
cmon guys bump
realized I love my female best friend. she's the most unattainable person I've ever met and all I think about is fucking her. can't look at her the same anymore
>>700478914
My cousin had to deal with this shit. Minority who got into UPenn. So his mom and dad started working so much harder. His dad would always come home from work and go straight to bed after he left. Just remember your parents love you enough to help pay for your higher education. And that's a shitton of love right there. I would say don't fuck it up but I can't because I know how hard college really is. So instead I'll say this.
Learn to self study. If you can't do that then pray to God you make good friends who will study with you
Actually socialize and network. You're not paying for just an education at this point. You're paying for college and uni events. Make use of that and go to them.
You'll get unsurmountable love as a freshman. That will quickly turn around
Stop masturbating as often as you do right now
If you get put on academic drop and want back in, know that your school accepted you for a reason. Use that knowledge to tell them you're more than this shit. Just know that afterwards you better not fuck up.
Good luck and have fun anon. Remember you're not just paying for an education anymore. Make that money worth it
>>700470580
https://youtu.be/vt1Pwfnh5pc
>>700482230
Good shit
cmon guys i need this
>>700470580
https://youtu.be/jo505ZyaCbA
>>700471642
For me it doesnt. Doesnt help with anything im the long run. Although for the duration i forget how miserable i am. So its kind of like playing vidya and you just forget everything around you .
>>700472014
I want to though
>>700482230
>>700482876
Keep them oldies coming please.
>day after yesterday i met up with the girl who i had something going with for half a year
>she ended things with us to be with her ex
>months passed with no contact and we started texting again
>she started reminding me of things we had
>she came to my city for her country trip
>we had 2 nice days
>talked about everything
>she still has feelings for me
>told me she wants no contact at all
>deleted each others numbers
the sad part about this was
seeing this outgoing girl
always happy, making others feel happy when youre around
start crying, tears running down her eyes
and genuinely looking sad
she told me she needed to cut off contact this time for good, to get over the fact
that i'm giving her a special feeling, special kind of approval and attention she is not getting from her bf anymore
imo she's just going to be much sadder now, than if she'd stayed in contact with me
is there hope some time down the road we might be able to get back in contact?
not like the times we did in the past 8 months were we went no contact for 3 months, contact for 2 months, no contact again etc.
i really like this girl, i like exchanging with her
and i already am sad about having that kind of girl not there anymore
>>700482981
https://youtu.be/rj__jhmPMgI
>>700470580
https://youtu.be/yN4Uu0OlmTg
>>700482862
>>700483121
>>700483030
Maybe what she did was for the best of your both interests. Even if it hurts. Maybe your life will of those "God's" crazy stories where you had to sacrifice to progress. I know it hurts man, but there is many things that can be learned, you don't start getting old until you stop learning.
>>700483574
at that time maybe
but through a mutual friend i know, that she wants to get back in contact
and the she is even sadder now than she was while we were
>>700483650
Don't wait, if she owns your heart you can't let her get married. I would say go with your guy instinct and live it up. You really have nothing to lose. Regret will destroy you down the road.
>>700470580
https://youtu.be/tkiMYQhKJxs?t=15s
>>700483798
texted her last night what she thinks with staying in contact
she fears that i hate her
>>700470580
https://youtu.be/G9Y5Dhzciyc
>>700484013
Make it known that the past was the past, you've grown. At the end of the day you just want her to be happier,that sounds like a man to me. If you have the good intentions go for it. I've broken up an engagement before just to use the girl for sex. Now she is dating an older gentleman that knows how to treat her right. There is no way she'll come back to me. But if I had the chance to prove to her that I care about her I wouldn't hesitate, you my friend, have a small opportunity. Get it bro before you begin to regret.
>>700484464
thanks anon
she is torn between me and him
she is with her ex again because she has history with that guy
and because its the easier way oout, she knows what shes getting
>>700484861
Stay up anon, your story is helping my situation too.
>>700485042
is it?
she answered me
kinda scared to look
>>700485283
Do it. it could only be better than what you have now?
>>700485283
If she answers, she still has an interest, don't let her slip. Even if it doesn't go as smoothly as I make it seem, one day in your deathbead you will not regret it. We're humans bro, we have emotions and they are very real, something we don't have is time, it's limited. Fear will hold you back... I should practice what I preach honestly.
>>700485283
Tell us anon, what did she say
>>700485474
>>700485529
>>700485559
damn
all right ill look gimme a second
>>700485559
>>700485529
>>700485474
so she's on vacation with her guy
but told me she'll answer me when she's back home in about a week
uh...ok?
>>700485724
There is still a hope, She still wants to talk to you fam.
>>700485724
Sounds sketchy, sounds like she's just trying to find time. I had this bitch that would always do that to me "yea we'll hang out blah blah blah" Lowkey I knew she was using me as a rebound. But who knows, maybe she means it.
>>700485880
hmm
i know that she told me that was 2 days at home
and then went with her guy to somewhere
>>700485888
trips of truth?
i believe she wants to spend time with her guy
and talk to me while shes not emotionally down while he is next to her?
thats what i would assume
>>700486001
Maybe she just doesn't want to see you while she is voulnrable emotionally. I'm the same way man, if I'm feeling like shit (like tonight) I stay home and get fucked up to suppress my true feelings.
>>700486253
well she did text a mutual friend about all of it
and what she told him was
"i really want to get back in touch but i fear he hates me after what i told him to get distance between us"
but then again, shes 20 and thinks the guy she s with, she broke up with once, is the guy she wants to be for her whole life
dunno, just gonna wait now i guess
>>700485880
>>700485888
edit:
she added:
give me time, i'm on vacation and it's a bit stressful
>>700486668
She's caught between two different worlds bro
>>700486896
she sure is
>>700486943
For the meantime I would say work on yourself. There's really no time for waiting , time is running out.
>>700487047
yeah
told her what i wanted to
and now i'll just wait
meanwhile, i might go lifting today too
>>700486896
Why is it that girls do this kind of shit?
If she's with one guy, broke up and met someone who she is feeling more comfortable with, why not go with what her heart desires, instead of going back to an ex which i might add never ever works out in the long run, never
>>700487235
The Great Gatsby love triangle. That's the only connection I can make with this anon, anon2.
>>700487401
The what?
>>700471023
I relate to the picture so much, she had told she was leaving to focus on school when really it was for another guy & I stayed as her friend because we were best friends before then she never stopped talking about him & how about they were in bed together & spent time together etc.. it was rough.
>>700487235
well she does this because she knows what shes getting out of the relationship
but since she met me, i somehow arose some feelings in her she never thougth she'd have? dunno
>>700487401
yeah somehow describes it good
>>700487235
Abuse bro, manipulation. Make her feel like shit, then she feels greatful thay she's better off then most single bitches.
Childish shit, but if only we could understand the woman like we understand the ocean.
>>700487606
So all that girl wants is to be used?
>>700487166
Already bro, that's the spirit. Keep it consistent then she'll find strength in you. Mentally and physically.
>>700487458
Have you read the Great Gatsby? It's one of the few books I remember because it quite literally happens to some people I know.
>SPOILER: The three main characters, Tom, Daisy, and Gatsby, have this weird love connection thing. Gatsby and Tom love Daisy, and each want her for their own, but Daisy can't make up her mind. Gatsby ends up dying in the end and Daisy runs away with Tom.
SPOILER FREE: Read it if you haven't. It's an excellent read, and it explains what I said earlier much better.
>>700487673
She wants love, but men manipulate to get what they want and I feel like they get stuck between feelings.
>>700487686
yup
you hanging on anon?
>>700487837
anon here with the girl
she told me that she feels drawn to me
something she hasnt felt since she dated her guy
mightve been stomach butterflies, but those feelings are persisting now for a year in which we have not seen each other
also, what is keeping her from actively going in a relationship with me is her mind and the "safety" she's etting out of her ex guy
>>700487900
Staying afloat, drugs help. I'm sure u can tell by my typos. I really need to take my own advise bro.
>>700488035
you should man
drugs ain't doing shit but keeping you from how things are
also, start lifting maybe?
it helps a bunch with getting more self conscious
>>700488032
I'm in similar situation but she sounds like she is scared of her current man... Either that or she wants you as a rebound if shit goes south on her current relationship.
>>700488156
Real shit man, I need to release stress; not drown it.
>>700488229
scared?
nah
all she is scared about is how she is feeling right now
i'm guessing she's holding me off as the 2nd choice
>>700488329
yeah man
try it
also drugs cost way too much money you could invest in a nice pizza or something similar
>>700470580
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoPL7BExSQU
>>700488449
Worst feeling ever when the girl you would take a bullet for only sees you as a reserve. I feel like females manipulate us more than we do. Damn.. Yea drugs keep me broke but I'm honestly close to the edge, currency means nothing to me. All I feel is pain, I cant wait till its over.. So many of my people locked up or dead. I have my blessings but my depression just seem to outweigh everything. I feel my depression stems from drugs but it's a vicious cycle.
First ime posting in a feels thread so here it goes... My story isnt really like some of the ones i glanced at here. I am head over heels in love with this amazig girl. I dont know what it is about her, im just absolutely fucking crazy about her. And she feels the same about me. Been like that towards eachother for years. We didnt date consistantly through that time though. We had/have a very very unhealthy relationship. We are obsessed with eachother, and it destroys our social lives. We push friends away and talk to eachother constantly always wanting to be in contact. Weve gotten better about it now adays, but not that much better. We still are in contact with eachother 90% of the time. Now, she lives a bit far from me so i only see her maybe once or twice a month. And that only started as of recently because of changes with living situations on mine and her end, befor that we pretty much never saw eachother. But the thing about this situation that saddens me is that she is... Different. Not autistic different, but mentally not all there. Traumatic childhood, not gunna get into it. Didnt really grow up and become a successful adult. Her social skills are shot (when shes not completely fucked up off of mixtures of alcohol and dangerous drugs), she cant hold a job due to residual mental issues from her fucked up childhood, and she blows all the money she has on drugs to make her numb. The reason this is sad to me is because i know it in the back of my mind, one of these fucking days.. Maybe not this week, maybe not even this fucking year. But eventually, she wont want to live her life anymore. She's already started realizing that she is disappointed in the way her life is, and in the past i know she has had suicidal thoughts/tendencies... I usually dont think about that. But whenever i end up on here at the dead hours of the night, the thought creeps into my mind. The thought that i am going to drastically outlive the woman i am in love with. and it just kills me.
>>700488879
Great tune.
>>700488919
damn dude
buckle up
those people wouldn't have wanted that you ended up where you are now
get yo ass up and do something
>>700489123
Takes me back to highschool jazz band. Good times.
>>700489076
Do small things brother, buy her flowers. Let her feel what it's like to be appreciated. Maybe buy her some chocolate or ice cream, let her know what love feels like. Even if you haven't changed as a person, do it for her. Go watch a movie or fuck it put on the Lion King or some shit. Just show her that there is many perspectives to life, not just missery.
Coming from a miserable person... I've done good deeds in my life, I've received my share of blessings yet I'm still on the edge. One thing that keeps me going is compassion, small things people have done for me. For example I'm a waiter and one homeless regular customer bought me fucking shoe powder for Christmas, that's all she could afford but she always appreciated the way I treated her.. One time I broke down because she has nothing in life but is still compassionate and thinks about others... Maybe try something new with her, give her a memory.. I know most people have amnesia but at least you would be doing what is right.
>>700489076
just make her feel youre there for her always
>>700489141
I still have an opportunity but it's slipping away, I'm a young cat has gone through plenty of shit. There's many positives in my life and opening up to 4chan is helping me a little. I don't wanna see ppl in my situation. If anything I would love to give back, but it's like that one song "one step forward and two steps back".. Appreciate your words though bro
>>700489430
Anymore similar tunes?
>>700490158
if there is only a slight chance, you should take it man
>>700490158
TAKE THAT OPPORTUNITY DAMMIT. O KNOW IT'S EASIER SAID THAN DONE MY FRIEND, BUT JUST DO IT. JUST GO UP AND TAKE THAT OPPORTUNITY AND MAKE IT YOURS. IT'S SLIPPING;
DON'T DO WHAT I DID.
DO WHAT I DIDN'T.
>>700490397
this
so fucking much
fuckin hell
why do people overcomplicate things
>oh no i love him but i have feelings for that guy too
TRUST YOUR HEART
THERE'S A REASON PEOPLE TELL THAT
>>700471642
Yes, in that moment you forget any of your troubles in the world, you are just focused on doing that rep. The pain, the adrenaline rush the dopamine. It is a great thing to do when you want to get something off your mind
>>700490628
this
>>700490287
Yea, I've been sleep for too long. Victimizing myself like a sore loser. But it's shit that I have to face bro. I'm scared to be that dude that gave up, and that's the road I'm taking. But I know I'm smarter than that, just gotta let the fucking drugs and alcohol go. Move on past the cold world and create my own, maybe start a business or go back to school. Im honestly done with these girls man, at the end of the day they chose the man they want, gotta work on myself. Easier said than done, but we have to make sacrifices in order to move on / grow..
>>700490769
yes
stand up
be yourself man
life is worth living
and i'm hungry as fuck so i'm gonna make me a delicious sandwhich with all kinds of colorful ingredients
>>700490397
Appreciate it brother.
>>700469777
Exactly me. Although, she went out of her way to hit on me, and according to her friends, she was in love with me for like a whole year before I myself noticed her.
But once they get a little bored they move onto something better or whatever gets the the slightest bit excited, instead of sticking it out.
So she left and im here holding all these feels.
>>700490840
You live your life brother, make that goddamned sandwich and make it your way.
>>700491116
sure will man
you go and do something thats fun aight?
i'll post in a feels thread in about a week and post what she wrote me
have a good one!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kuq7RYQ8Wa0
>>700491177
Peace bro, hope everything goes well.
Any backgrounds you guys want for PC's and phones?
>>700490229
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4PKzz81m5c
>>700492139
space
>>700492420
Wonderful tunes
>>700492451
Space it is, coming up.
>>700492689
>>700492725
>>700492773
>>700492846
I ask if you could contribute city themed pics (night preferably) please, but if you can't that's fine.
>>700492940
>>700492964
>>700493008
Running out of space pics, what next?
>>700493048
>>700468793
Ill tell you right now, drinking only makes it worse. I was where you at just the other night. Im never so depressed when im drinking alone, all i can think about is "Her" and the past. The good times. Drinking just makes it worse.
>>700493074
>>700493111
>checkem
>>700493184
>>700493249
>>700493297
>>700468793
i finally made a fb account and started to Tinder.
Having girls talking to me helps get over my ex.
>do it, seriously, rebound girl flirting. it works
>>700493346
>>700493388
duble dubs
>>>700493387
good for u OP. I might try that out soon...
>>700493466
>checkem
>>700493531
>>700468793
>>700493102
depends on what you drink, malt liquor always makes me a happy drunk. Just find the drink that makes you happy
>>700490916
fucking this, so much
>>700493387
>>700493466
i am not OP
it was a tip for him.
it is how i cope with my ex
>>700493588
>checkem
>>700493811
I got you anon.
>checkem
>>700493880
>>700493612
I'm always on malt liquor. 211's steels rn. I'm not the guy you replying too but I'd just thought we can share some similarities. Cheap beer is the shit. That's why I'm not social anymore.. It gets me through and it does make me happy now that I think of it.
>>700493916
Now posting city themes unless someone wants something in particular.
>>700493994
Since this thread is going absolutely nowhere anyway, here's an unrelated question
I've been wanting to buy a new phone, but I'm basically as broke as a human being could possibly be. Right now I'm thinking of mainly 2 options: the Acer Liquid Zest Plus and the Motorola Moto G4
Which of these would be a better option and why? Or maybe there's another phone in that same price range??
Thanks in advance m8
>>700494024
>>700494046
Couldn't tell you.
>>700494108
>>700494146
>>700494163
>>700472239
>I had a chance and never took it.
story of my life mate
>>700494181
>>700494213
>>700468793
DUDE DUDE DUDE!!
i'm looking for a swf with picture like that and nostalgic music. Found it once two years ago but i lost it
you know. riding cars and sad music
>>700494046
They both sound fancy af. I've been in this thread since OP started it. I'm no phone geek but I can tell you they'll do the same shit. What we've learned in this thread is to follow your heart... And fuck bitches.
>>700494260
>>700494261
>is to follow your heart
so many people don't
they think too much and choose the "rational" choice which in the end hurts
>>700494308
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_BPVtw6oRno
>this song plus gif from above
>>700494260
>>700494308
>>700494379
>>700494322
Preach
>>700494419
>>700494447
>>700494478
>>700494526
>>700494440
but how if people tend to choose the easy way out
>>700494572
>>700494605
>>700494379
Ayyy, I feel that!
>>700494645
>>700494682
Thank you. It's OP's gif minus Pepe
>>700494706
>>700470580
when my my attempted suicide, she told me and my sisters to play this song at her funeral. it gets me every time.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9TcztyNlFx0
>>700494764
>>700494799
when my mom**
>>700493931
>211
My man, that and mickeys and old e are my shit, 4 dollars to get drunk for the whole night
>>700494597
Wish I could answer. I'm still choosing drugs over life... My heart wants good in honor of my deceased family members, my brain just wants to block emotions.
>>700494810
>>700494911
>>700494946
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>>700495024
>>700494841
Real shit. I'm about almost done with my second 40 vibing to the music anons shared on this thread. People be trying to get all hipster with their beers, I go to the store, and I'm out in a couple seconds with my steels haha
>>700495056
Last one for the night /b/ros. I'm heading to bed finally.
To go with the theme of the current (and only) conversation.
>>700494839
How is she doing bro?
>>700495157
Appreciate you anon
>>700495292
Thank you. I hope my small dump gave something cool and new to look at.
>>700495465
Night nigga
When did feels threads become the spawn grounds for circle jerking pussies who can't handle a break up? Or the even more pathetic unrequited love bullshit?
>>700495465
I saved all of them. Thanks again.
>>700495243
she's still an addict. and i'm torn between forcing her out of my life because she's toxic for me to be around, or putting up with it because i fear she may end her life if i end it.
she has nothing else but her kids and we don't talk to her.
>>700495243
thank you for asking btw.
>>700495689
I wish I could see life through your eyes because woman are hypnotic. Maybe you're too young or too old to feel anything, but woman truly manipulate.
>>700495136
good shit, i didnt get off work until after midnight so i couldnt buy shit, but its a fuck ton cheaper and gets the job done
>>700495832
My brother is locked up right now because of an addict bitch who pushed him to get high while on probation. Yea my brother is retarded for hanging with that hoe, but look who took an L? Now my brothers friends are fucking her. These feens have no feelings they are virtually zombies looking for the next fix. Theyll suck anyone's Dick for a hit. Sorry to say but from experience, it's all bootleg love. As men, we need affection; but make it sencire as possible; or else it will be empty love from an opiate addicted.
>>700495884
I'm not saying women can't be hypnotic. For the longest time I had a crush on my friend. I confessed to her at out graduation and when she just stood there blankly I realized that most of the time, your feelings won't be reciprocated and although it hurts to know that you won't be a part of their life you can't do anything about it. And in life, there are really only two reasons for doing something. Can you do something about it? Good, then do it. You can't? Accept it and move on.
>>700496293
My bad. I was talking about addicted girlfriends not about your mother.
>>700496402
i kinda figured lol
>>700468793
If you really cared, you would have talked to her too. You're being a self-entitled prick. Relationships don't magically form. It takes two to build one. The mindset that you have is pathetic.
>>700496396
That's very true, it's the job of us men to do what we must so these bitches can choose us. Because if you handle your business, girls will flock to you. But it's not even about the bitches, it's about giving yourself a name. Reputation.
Anyone ever develop feelings for a close friend just because you're lonely?
She's kind, not unattractive and we get along, but it's obvious that we wouldn't be good together.
Shit's retarded and might end our friendship.
>>700496528
>Relationships don't magically form. It takes two to build one.
some good advice right there
>>700496497
I'm on so many drugs bro, I'm just trying to help.
>>700468793
I own a tiling company and made 2.1 million last year yet i'm too awkward and antisocial to interact with girls. Even talking with female clients is hard.
>>700496293
i had a cousin get shot because the girl he was fucking with told her brother he beat her up because my cousin wouldnt give her money for drugs. drugs will turn you into the worst person
>>700496680
Exactly. The most important person in your life is you. Before anyone else, you come first.
>>700496789
Ask girls if they have a tile fetish and your good to go
>>700496789
As a broke man; does money make you happy?
>>700496686
yep, it ended our friendship after we broke up but during the three months we dated i realized she was crazy and bitchy as shit so it wasnt too hard to get over it.
>>700496932
I'm doing my best to keep drama out of my life. But when people throw dirt on your name for being where im at, shit makes my blood boil. Sometimes drugs calm me but I know I'm going the wrong way.
>>700496778
i know, thanks anon
>>700497187
>Sometimes drugs calm me but I know I'm going the wrong way.
I feel it, im being a bit of a hypocrite when i say
>drugs will turn you into the worst person
i guess i mean addiction, ive kept my drug use in check for years and still have a life, if you include work and shitposting
>>700496934
We as men, we have to stop distracting ourselves from the reality that we are in charge of our destination. Take control, don't be controlled.... I'm on drugs but my msg still stands, this is my stance. Fuck anyone trying to bring you down, know your worth even if you never had shit.
>>700497457
If you think drugs are the way to go, more power to you. Idgaf about you.
>>700497391
Hahaha Nah brother I feel you, I still got my 9 to 5 but I have bigger goals, my failures are my lessons. I know where I'm heading even if I'm lost. I know how bitches work around here, they just chase security.. I'm 23, I have some moves to make; but it starts now or never.
>>700497709
& that's life.
Sometimes 4chan is the best psychiatrist
>>700497457
True that , i fucked up my school and currently looking for jobs not having much money, but my girl and love of my life stays with me even if i had only 1 cent , she has a good job and her parents are way above the average income here but still she loves me for beeing myself and wants to marry me and have kids. @ op So dont give up , be always yourself and dont change for anybody you are great the way you are and someday at somepoint someone will find out how great you are as a person and will love you , but dont ever try to force anything , anything good needs time.
>>700498707
Glad you see the bigger picture, you never grow old until you stop learning; be a student of life. One day you will have your child and you will not give him what he wants; you will give him the knowledge that he needs.
>>700499282
Couldnt have said it better , thats what my father teached me and he had even way less than me in his childhood and future life he came from a really really small village in sardinia to germany to work .
>>700471023
careful, dont be too dependent on it mate.
its gonna be tough but if you put your mind to it you might not need it after all
>>700499944
Thanks alot brother, I had to learn this all by myself; so you're one step ahead of the game if you ask me.. What a man your pops must have been... Ive taken many L 's in my life, but one thing people haven't took from me, is my desire to learn. Learn from mistakes, life, and experience. Crazy how we could be so similar and come from different lands of the earth. Goes to show racism only exists in the brain, not the heart. I'm a Latino, not gonna say anymore; but your pops had the same insight in his heart, because he knew what it was to make man out of a child.
