My new girl finally confessed she has slept with 14 guys before me, she only 24 but wants to settle down with me?
>don't know what to do
That ain't shit. I slept with 17 guys before I settled down with my girl.
>>699741167
wait...
>>699741035
What is your problem? Do you prefer Virgin or experience?
>>699741035
She does not want to settle down. With you.
>>699741167
kek´d
>>699741035
It's like you were pre-cucked. With 14 guys by 24, she seems like an impulsive mother fucker, would not spend life with.
>>699741035
Your worried you dont match and measure up ? If you have to ask you do not measure up you useless limp faggot !
>>699741035
You know the rule.
No hymen, no diamond.
>>699741035
Well you could wait until you are older and settle down with a 30 year old who has been with 25 or more guys. All chicks fuck bro. Also, if you are actually talking about "settling down," your relationship is a joke because it isn't happening organically.
>>699741035
If she started sleeping with guys at 16 that is a new guy every 6 months. Not the best shows mentally unstable and low self worth. If she did some gang bangs in college 16 isn't that many couple of weekends.
you deserve better then that anon
>>699742129
But what if he's a furry?
>>699741035
run
Like throwing a hot dog down a hallway...
ITT: virgins that judge a grown ass woman for sleeping with more that 1 person in her lifetime
>mfw these faggots would fuck anything regardless on how many times someone else has fucked it
>mfw I have no face
>>699741035
My wife slept with 10-15 guys before we started dating and eventually got married. She has slept with 7 more since then. So what?
Honestly at that age it's kinda fine, it would only cross the line if it's over 20, and more than 10 only before 21
I wouldn't go for her and think I could do better. Your call
>>699741035
Nothing to worry about unless any of those 14 guys were niggers.
>>699741035
Lol ask how many times per guy. My girl was only with 3 guys, 2 were once each and her first was 3 times. Idk which is better, relationships or hookups, but getting an actual number will make your feelings more clear.
>>699742686
Damn, you took a vow of chastity?
Cucked to death
>>699742663
Were those other guys niggers?
>#aidsisforlife
>>699741035
she's done getting pumped and dumped bu Chad. Well she would love to keep fucking alphas but she's also well aware of her degrading looks. So now she's scrambling to find a nice beta provider who will aid her with her kids/marriage/divorce fantasy. Don't fall for it
also I've just had this convo two days ago. Is that you Steven?
>>699742965
We are swingers. I get to sleep with other women as well.
Daily reminder that the number she said must be multiplied by 3
Whore. Leave her.
>>699743069
Ahh okay, that's cool.
>>699741035
All good OP, thats average for a girl these days before they settle down.
>>699743187
>implying girls settle down these days if you look at the divorce stats
protip: if someone files for divorce it usually isn't the guy
My ex had slept with more then 30 guys. At first I was ok with it, until I found out that I knew 8-10 of the guys personally. Was hard sitting in the same room with 3 other guys, thinking that she has sucked all of them.
this isnt the 1950s its fairly normal for women to be in double digits nowadays, if it was like 80 then id be a lot more hesitant but by 24 id slept with 27 girls and 2 guys, if you went to university its not that difficult
>>699741035
Don't do it
because there will be a 16th guy after you
>>699743314
Yea that's when it get weird
>>699743410
>she's never yours to keep, it's only your turn
this applies to all earthly things you can love. Pets, friends, material possessions, but especially girlfriends
>>699741035
So she should be good with sex. Cool. get her tested.
>>699741412
why does this even matter? its not like an experienced whore can do much better, a pussy is a pussy.
>>699741035
Your girl is practically a virgin
>>699741712
whore detected
>>699743314
>>699743570
Cumbrothers unite.
yea I'd say anything from 10 or 25 is normal depending where you live. It's pretty easy for girls to get laid by comparison. My college housemate literally used to just go to the club, find a guy she thought looked hot and would just ask them to fuck her. She'd be in and out in less than 10 minutes some nights. She'd do this about once a week, sometimes 2 weeks whenever she wasnt seeing someone.
>>699743732
If only you knew
>>699741035
meh, my gf slept with 20 guys before she was 18, including niggers. It is fucking horrible and I broke down hard when i found out what a slut she was, but i am one hundred percent sure that she is faithfull. And I myself passed 100 girls at the age of 24 and stopped counting, I am now 28, so maybe 120-130?... A slut deserves a slut i guess.
If you're asking us, you're having doubts. If you're having doubts, then leave her.
>>699743251
True anon, most girls want to settle down to cover their tracks of being whores. At least they have an excuse after the divorce of becoming whores again that they tried to settle down.
>>699743773
yea in some countries being "weinerbros" isn't a good thing. it's a really disgusting thing.
>>699743591
Girlfriends are okay, pump them up then throw them out
Wives are different, this is a financial contract that can implications for the future
>>699741035
not normal, don't settle down with a girl with a bunch of partners. means she feels low self worth and was looking for it in sex
I mean I slept with 16 girls and I'm only 20. Its really not a big number. When she hits like 30-40 then maybe I'd be a bit more worried.
>>699741035
I know full well this is b8, but:
leave her ass. If she had so many dicks, you will be just one of them. Let her be the slut she is and release her into the wild where she belongs.
>>699741035
big deal dude
>>699743814
i really dont care. sex isnt an important part of my life. sure its great and all but who gives a shit. ive only been with one woman for the past 10 years.
>>699743821
No, it means marriage is not for you
If you are sleeping around that much then you need to avoid marriage. Marriage is a contract that you have to honor and will cost you a lot of money and trouble if you fuck it up.
>>699741688
agreed.
>>699741035
wonder how many of the 22 guys gave her anal and creamy pie or maybe a dirty sanchaz. she choose you out of all the guys so you should be consider yourself lucky OP.
>be fat most of life
>sleep with two girls until 22
>from 22-24 lose weight, act like a horny 16 year old girl and and bang 15 girls
>look like a giant sleazebag when try to settle down now
It goes both ways. I'm still a fuckin autistic nerd but i just looked okay and partied a lot for a while, so most people understand.
>>699741035
well if shes been with 14 other guys and she picks you then that means you do it for her. she could have any penis she wants and she chose your wallet
>>699744144
as a man yeah. For a woman it's the endgame tho. She can have her big day and rub her friends nose in the fact that she'll never be without support again, be it by a nice castrated beta bux, or by the alimony he has to pay
HA
Chasing Amy
>>699741035
Why even bring up that sort of thing. Well now you know. Is it going to haunt you and hinder your current relationship or are you going to move on and not picture 14 niggers lined up to fuck ur gf every time you see her naked
>>699741035
you haven't fucked 14 girls in your life? faggot
<23 y.o.
<20 girls
no but seriously, you have an insecurity that your girl has explored more people than you.
>>699742603
I never got this about women who have more boyfriends. Say she dated 1 guy before you compared to 14 guys who maybe 10 were quick flings. Figure in the long term guy and her have sex 2 to 3 times a week average compared to the girl who doesn't have a steady boy friend and is getting laid an average of once a week to 3 times a month.
>>699741035
>she only
Nigger detected. Off yourself and do the species a favor.
>>699741035
NYPA newfag
>>699743773
I think the proper term was Eskimo-brothers
>>699741035
This may come as a shock to you, but as you get older, your sexual partners tend to get older too. Very few guys in their 30s and 40s are banging 18 year old girls every day.
Since the number of sexual partners you've been with tends to increase as you age, it isn't going to get any better.
Your best bet is to accept these as facts of life and get over them. Is her body nice and her pussy snug? That's all that matters in the bedroom.
I really dont think the number of sexpartners will affect your relationship if ofc u are alpha, if u are beta u will not make it.
Also reply to this or your mother will die.
>>699741035
Don't listen to these faggots OP. The mileage of the pussy maybe high but you're getting a life time warranty.
>>699741035
I had a girl who slept with over 100 by the time she was 17.
Get rid of it or you will fucking live a life of pure regret.
Find someone who hasnt been pidgeon holed
24 men who unloaded her semen on / in her... thats nasty. Did she swallow them?
>>699741167
There is nothing wrong with sleeping around that's okay, there is no financial risk as long as you don't have kids
But marriage is not the same, once you are married then sleeping around is wrong and is grounds to have you punished.
If you sleep around stay away from marriage because you are going to end up cheating on your partner and you will have to pay out when you get divorced
You can't have both
>>699741035
become fucking number 15 and drop her ass.
>>699741035
They say your cells renew every 7 years. So just tell her to wait celibate for 7 years so you can have her body at it's best.
If she says no then you will know she was not the right girl for you.
>>699745308
did you even watch a chick flick? They're pretty much all centered about the idea of cheating, keeping backup betas while still falling for alpha males, tingles over logic etc. That combined with social media makes grills into creatures that will always be on the lookout for something better. Because they "deserve it". If Mark and Stacey have a rocky relationship, but they go on trips regularly, your gf will want to go on better trips. She doesn't care about you as a person, only how your status can elevate her above her friends
>>699743035
>she's done getting pumped and dumped bu Chad.
Nah. If Chad came along offering her some dick, she'd forget her commitment in an instant. Women are liars, if she admitted to 14 guys, the truth is a higher number. But, for the sake of argument, let's take her at her word. She's fucked an average of one guy per year since age 10. Or, more realistically, a different guy every six months since age 17.
There are two ways to look at this: she isn't a whore, and only has sex in a committed relationship... The problem here is that she can't keep a relationship together for more than six months. Red flag.
Option two: she is a whore. Red flag.
She isn't done with Chad. Chad's done with her. She'll take any dick she can get. Run.
>>699745578
cells decay and regenerate all the time doofus, it just takes 7yrs for a complete body cycle
>>699741688
I'm a guy and I've beaten that with women. What's the problem, faggot?
>>699745772
Based assessment anon
>>699745735
If you're picking women who base their social rules on movies you're a fucking moron. That's like marrying a weeaboo and expecting him to be socially well adjusted.
Sounds like OP is the type of guy to get insecure because he's only been with one or two women while his girl already played the field.
Classic case of you not wanting to settle down. Chances are if you do, you'll cheat on her because the urge for new pussy will be too much to contain.
>>699741167
>sa..savage
>>699742663
Cuck detected
>>699743882
>this is a financial contract
That's real wisdom, right there. Nowadays, everyone is all worried about being in love and having that Kodak-perfect Disney princess wedding. They forget what marriage is. They marry for the wrong reasons. Then they can't understand why they're not happy because they don't know what marriage is. People need to learn that you can love someone and be "in love" with them and that's not enough to get married.
>>699746081
the amount of weeaboos in society is maybe 10%, yet the amount of women who watch chick flicks and are social media addicts is prolly over 90%
>>699745106
Scheiss Filename
>>699746206
>I want a kid
>I want a wedding
>I want because I deserve
never do you hear "I want a family"
Its pretty fucking autistic to think shes a whore just cause shes been with more people than your faggot ass. Its not uncommon for guys to sleep with that many girls in the UK by 24. Heck I hit the 15 mark by the time I was 19 (thanks uni)
>>699746412
This.
>>699745869
>I'm a guy
Girl spotted. Guys never say they are
Her past relationships are part of why she's who she is today. If you love her in the present moment you love her because she's screwed 14 guys and learned something from all of them.
>>699746608
Insecure girl faggot detected. Tits or GTFO.
>>699746081
>you're picking women who base their social rules on movies
He isn't. He's pointing how fictional media is often based in reality. He isn't applying the movie to real life, he's saying that real life applies to those movies.
You might not want to admit it, you might hate the idea, but this:
>how your status can elevate her above her friends
Is the absolute truth. She may love you, but this is always in the back of her mind.
>>699746680
Like how to screw the 15th guy over
>>699745772
This.
>>699741035
So she slept with 60 guys and sucked 180 dicks. If your OK with used goods enjoy aids. If not GTFO
>>699741167
>>699745869
Found one of the feminazi's
>>699741035
What a cheap slut that won't settle down anyway and keep taking miles of dick behind your back.
Your dumb ass is going to get several sides of STD with that fooling.
>>699746412
>>699746466
Feminazi/samefag
>Dump the slut
Sorry to break it to you fucks but the number of partners a woman have directly correlates to how stable she is in a long term relationship.
The more usually equals the less stable.
>>699746879
thx for backing me up here. It's just that I observe this shit every day. Whatever you do, don't underestimate her friends.
>>699741035
It's a bit above average but everyone has a past.
Forget about it and see how tings go.
people on b actually thinks 14 people by the age of 24 is much.
fucking fedoramasters
>>699747268
Should respect she was honest. Be a man and show her you're the best one
>>699741035
I used to think like the beta cuck you are, but then i took an puberty to the knee
>>699747135
SameSamefag
>>699745772
This.
Recently dated a 21yr old who had fucked 20 guys & had been in a relationship for two years, so do the math. Found out she fucked another guy the night we met and dipped fucking asap.
Now I get to see her fb & Snapchat updates and she isn't slowing down any. It's kind of disheartening realising how low her self-esteem is.
But that's what it is, it's a measure of self-worth and evaluation. If you feel the urge to fill your void with sexual partners there's probably more serious underlying issues.
>>699747268
You don't know how marriage works, do you?
>>699747451
Are you trying to get him screwed over?
>>699747451
>women telling men how to be a man
pic related, that's all we care about
>>699747220
Don't underestimate the propaganda programming them either. There is a reason cunts are the way they are and the exclusive business model of females is the way it is. Guys need to see cunts as the disposable holes they are or get ground up by a lies fueled machine geared to destroy men.
>>699747220
Same guy again, I trust my friends if they say my girlfriend is up to shit, wouldn't you? You seem like a pretty big queer, I'd probably warn her about you, too.
Also. As fucking if all women are constantly in competition with their friends. None of the ones I've been with have been, I think you're just shit at judging people.
So much virginity in this thread. 17 is pretty average if you dont have a fedora.
>>699747791
Women are ALWAYS competing with each other and sabotaging what they can. It's the cunt way.
>>699746412
Males are supposed to breed a lot while females are supposed to choose. So you being with 20 girls and a girl being with 20 guys are very different things
>>699747791
>hurr durr women aren't competing with their friends
it's you who is the delusional one here bud. You've never heard about social circles where all the chicks suddenly get preggers, or want to get married? Just because one of them started it off and gets showered in attention they all want that shit. herd mentality
14 dudes .. Just remember that's 14 people and that's more than you .. Never date a bitxh that has fucked more than you never
>>699748111
We have evolved past those base instincts though, that's why contraception was invented you fucking autismo.
>>699741035
That's about normal faggot
>>699747768
I agree. It's sad really. Living in the West in our golden cages has turned women into consumer whores. It's an ugly game that's being played here.
>>699741035
I'm bisexual and fucked about that many guys before my current girlfriend, more girls though by far. Quit bitching it's in the past
>>699741035
>14 guys at 24
>>699745869
Even so, you actually had to work for it. Guys always have to earn what they get in life. All OP's girlfriend had to do was spread her legs, and clearly she did so eagerly and without really thinking about the consequences. That's a little off-putting.
>>699741035
That means she had all her fun and now wants to be serious. Dont be a faggot the past dont matter
>>699748143
Again, if you're picking those people you're a shit judge of character. I've never had that problem and I've had a pretty good number of relationships.
>>699748236
>We have evolved past those base instincts
bullshit, prove it
>>699748377
>how do vaginas work dad?
>>699748431
But thats a notion enforced by guys, if there wasn't a queue of 20 guys waiting to fuck her on social media, girls would have to work for it too.
>>699748550
durhghhhh
People have sex for fun.
Proof. Spaz
>>699748515
>implying she'll insta transform into a nice housewife without any memories of the superior men she fucked before. Alpha widows everywhere, unable to respect their newly acquired beta hubbies.
>>699743821
>I myself passed 100 girls
Maybe in the hallway you fat faggot
>>699742603
Yeah, I have to agree - It's not about that at all for me. I just don't like when a girl has slept around because it's slutty and shows she's not making responsible decisions. If she's been with like 5 guys but loved all of them at the time, and was in serious relationships with them, I really don't care if she's been fucked like 5000 times. But if she hooked up with people in bars whilst drunk just to somehow feel some perverted sense of self-worth, she's kind of trashy.
>>699748656
People have sex for fun because they get pleasure from it, which is nature's way of forcing higher level creatures (ex dolphins) to breed. How is it related to losing instincts anyway?
>>699741035
What is the problem? 14 guys by age 24 is not a lot... I'm 21 and I have slept with like 70 girls. Granted, that is much more than average, but I wouldn't say that 14 is weird by any means
>>699748143
Ever heard of social circles where guys share nudes and make plans to make a woman think they're emotionally invested so they can pump and dump? It goes both ways, there are retards everywhere. Pick someone safe and you won't have this problem.
>>699741035
Who cares how much dick she had. If it was in the 50-100s then maybe id be like "the fuck were you doing?" 14 is nothing. If you like/love her she seems to want to commit to you so it's in your court man. If you can see it leading somewhere fucking go for it. If you see it ending bad cause you are too busy thinking of 14 cocks everytime you see her then you should get some help.
>>699747791
Even good upstanding women judge their worth based on their position relative to their friends. If they're not spoilt whores, then it'll be very subtle. It'll show up like this: we should get a gym membership or we need a new car or I want a baby or I'm tired of this apartment, etc. And every time she mentions something like this, chances are she just observed one of her friends doing this and she's instinctually trying to keep up.
Most of the time it's innocuous stuff, suggesting trips, hobbies, etc.
Most of the time she isn't cheating on you. But she's ALWAYS comparing herself to those around her. She needs to keep up. If you can't give her that, or if she feels like you're slowing her down... She will find some strange, at least.
And of course she thinks she's in love with Chad. She's infatuated with what she thinks he represents, until she finds out he's just another guy.
NOPE
>>699748880
or just dump her and find a fresher grill
>>699741824
>no hymen no diamond
a million keks. underrated toast of the year.
>>699747632
Obviously most of of the world cares about forests. But they just keep burning them down.
>>699748793
You missed out the part where the guy said 'Males breed a lot and women are supposed to choose' which is archaic and retarded. Stop getting triggered over evolution.
>>699741035
Who gives a fuck... Has she fucked any while she was with you? Do you like her? 14 guys is nothing.
>>699742965
I literally laughed for about a minute after seeing this pic
>>699748542
>pretty good number
This is one of those topics where having a higher number isn't good. I mean, you think you're a good judge of character, yet you've had two dozen unsuccessful relationships? Think about it, dipshit.
>>699748968
One with that new car smell.
>>699748431
Seriously man, I didn't have to work for it. I made a lot of kick ass friends and "happened" to start screwing them. I don't really know how else to say it, but friendships turn into relationships pretty often if you're into each other. Almost every relationship ended by going back to being friends (besides the one that went crazy and drugged me, hahahahaha)
>>699747451
>Be a man
How about you go fuck yourself? You're just bitter knowing that men will always look down on you for your slutty past. There's nothing remotely manly about taking care of a woman financially once she's done riding the cock-carousel and wants to 'settle down' - That's the very definition of being a loser.
Having sex with more people correlates directly with how attractive you are. People getting pissed saying shes a whore are probably just undesirable.
>>699741035
ALWAYS remember you CANT turn a hoe into a house wife. Its never been done.
>>699748582
>grills only fuck lots of guys because lots of guys want to fuck them
But usually those guys have to put in some amount of work in order to obtain said pussy. All the grill has to do is spread her legs, that's it. That means she needs to have this thing called "self control" to not fuck everyone who wants to fuck her.
>>699748898
After a certain point that's just called having a social circle, moron. You want to have experiences in your life instead of sitting around having never done anything.
>>699747434
I expect most people seem that way to you, don't they?
>>699749279
Are you honestly saying if the tables were reversed and it was guys that needed self control we wouldnt just fuck anyone. I think not.
>>699741035
Big deal, she knows how to fuck. Let her curl your toes.
>>699748582
>if there wasn't a queue of 20 guys waiting to fuck her on social media, girls would have to work for it too.
I agree - But there is always going to be a queue of 20 guys. You're just proving my point, mate. Even an ugly woman can go to a bar and wait until the men gets a little drunk and a little desperate and get laid with ease. It's just never going to be quite that easy for a man unless he's blessed with good social skills, charm, a nice sense of humor, a decent job, and great looks. The woman only has to look okay and people will still want to smash - That's the only criteria she needs to fulfill.
>>699749129
Actually, dipshit, they were quite successful. My goal in life isn't to settle down and get married like some cuck faggot, I want to have met as many awesome people as possible in my life as possible. And every one of them was worth it.
Free sex.
Holding hands.
Mutual love.
Good times.
High for months.
Go back to being friends and find a new gal when the buzz dies.
Sounds like a pretty fucking successful business model to me.
>>699749702
>holding hands
>>699749532
ARhghhh you're missing my point, we as guys are preprogrammed to behave this way, we are hardwired to create the queues and smash the ugly bitches when we're drunk. This is not a womans fault though. Until we stop queuing up the cycle will never end.
don`t be a dumb prude. Enjoy her experience! Everything that nags in you right now is just low self esteem. She trusts you, confessing that number. If you`re not an idiot be cool, react cool and enjoy someone is honest with you. Congrat her even for her honesty. She will never forget that you`ve been the one cool guy who didn`t judge.
>>699749532
And despite this fact many women want more than just getting smashed. It's called having emotional needs. I'd venture to say lots of them only get smashed as a self confidence boost after getting screwed by a bad pick, which is something I do, too.
>>699749779
It's fun and soft, and if you don't think so you're a faggot. This is probably why you can't get women who aren't dangerous cunts, you can't even open up enough to admit you like oxytocin.
>>699749345
No, that's wrong. I want to do stuff because I want it or value it. I don't want to do stuff because my friends and acquaintances are doing it. Do you actually have so little passion in life that you have to follow your friends? You have zero dreams of your own?
>>699741035
haha man 14 is nothing. If you're worried about your girl's number aka the fact she's actually had sex with another human being before you (holy shit shocking), then you got some deep-seated issues to contend with.
>>699749838
>She trusts you, confessing that number
no. trust me no. if she tells you the number it doesn't mean shit - she might even be lying, unless you REALLY trust her and know her for a long time.
>>699750028
Perhaps, like humans tend to do, she found friends WITH THE SAME FUCKING VALUES AND AMBITIONS.
>>699750121
Fucking. This.
>>699749798
But how could we stop when fucking is like our number one favorite thing?
You say it's not the woman's fault, yet most men universally agree that it's preferable to settle down with a woman that has shown she has had self-control and a good judge of character by being in fewer but more serious relationships compared to settling down for a girl that's just been fucking around for fun all her life and then one day says she's 'ready for something serious'. Statistically, the odds of her sticking with you is just a whole lot smaller.
If the roles were reversed then the women would want to marry the serious men who were committed to the relationship as well, rather than Tyrone the gangbanger. I am absolutely certain of that.
>>699750017
never said i dislike holding hands, just seemed fun that you pointed it out of all the things (ie out of romantic shit)
>>699743732
virgin detected
Wife had been with one dude just one time. Had a micro cock. She drew it for me and it was like 2 inches hard and stunk like hell. Said she figured all dicks looked like that and wasn't interested in them.
Best part is I still see him. Looks depressed as hell. Guess a 2" dick will do that to you.
>>699750236
Sorry, I thought I was being accused of being a cuck. You're good. <3
>>699749018
>>699749137
/thread
>>699749881
Emotional needs is the wrong choice of words. What they really want is validation. To feel desired and wanted. Instead of figuring out their own self-worth and being comfortable with who they are as people, they always needs SOMEONE ELSE to tell them what they are worth - That's how most women work, and it's pretty sad.
>>699750333
KEK
Poor guy
also nice trips
>>699743104
under rated, kek
>>699750121
>>699750188
You are not getting the point. The point is that she is 24 and was with 14 before. If all of them were relationships - she had a new relationship every 6 months (if she started at 17), and that means she can't hold a normal relationship. If most of them were quick fucks - it's even worse as it means she is a whore.
>>699745802
You totally missed the point dumbass.
If she fucked all these guys then 7 years from now nothing on her body would be the same as it was. So, if she is willing to wait and not let anyone or anything violate her body for 7 years then OP might give her a chance.
(the fact I have to point this out to you is proof that you are an idiot)
>>699750572
Lol i think you're missing the point hahaha
What is the issue?
>>699741167
Hold on a second
>>699750470
This. The ones who are not like that are quite rare and they are the ones one should try to get.
>>699750489
*tips fedora*
Yeah, he's a fucking wreck. After wife dumped him, met some whale and managed to have a couple kids. I know his wife fucks around on him because of his "condition". Was talking to my skanky ex and she said they had hooked up and indeed confirmed his micro cock.
I sort of feel bad for him. I mean I'm no John Holmes but a 2" dick? Wow.
>>699742129
>better then
Opinion invalidated.
>>699750470
You sound to me like you fall under that. Also. I'm sorry pal, but emotional needs include those things you just bashed. You have to be able to do what you said it should be as well, but things things you said shouldn't be ARE when it comes to emotional needs.
>>699743148
No one asked for your approval.
>>699750930
I am very comfortable with who I am. My girlfriend has been in about 5 relationships before she got together with me, and she also had a one-night-stand once. She probably had sex over a thousand times before we got together, but I really don't care about that at all because she was serious about all those guys (except one, which I can forgive). It just didn't work out between them. Shit happens - We've all been there.
Similarly, I've never had a one-night-stand, been with 6 girls in total, and had sex well over two thousand times. We're both 27, both of us have self-control, and now we've been living together for nearly a year and I've never been happier. Sex is great and I've never once felt insecure about it. I might propose to her someday soon because she's a keeper, not 'easy come, easy go'.
>>699751630
I suggest you wait for a year or two more before proposing, just to be on the safe side.
>>699750145
Yeah, she just happens to do it only after they've done it, every time. You're retarded.
You're right to feel icky about the whole thing. This is the truth and don't let anyone convince you otherwise.
Sex between a man and a women is inherently male dominate. The act of penetration is dominant for a male and submissive for a female. It doesn't matter if she's on top, shes still being fucked.
Without thinking this, you're thinking it. You obviously don't want a girl you love to have been dominated and acted submissive to those guys.
Couple this the current sexual courtship paradigm. Any moderately attractive girl knows that most guys would like to fuck her. The female is the gatekeeper to the pussy. It's her job to keep men out. Most men. In the past the gate keeper had to take into account, social norms ie; don't be a whore, religion and family pressure. With causal sex becoming more mainstream, these societal pressures have been removed. The only thing stopping a girl from taking the dick is herself. With increasing trends towards instant gratification, the only thing she factors in is
>is he hot
>disease (maybe)
That's it.
In addition to that, she doesn't have to try very hard to have sex. She can literally go out of a night. Start talking to a guy and get fucked that night. She doesn't really have to be attractive. With how casual sex works, she fucks up. She's getting fucked by guys who a multitudes better than what she could get in a relationship because she is exploiting a mans nature.
Lastly, you have to contend that she has been fucked by vastly superior males to yourself. This obviously fucks with your head.
TL;DR
Sex is male dominant
She shows almost no restraint
society tells her casual sex is okay.
It's easy for her
She's been fucked by better men than you.
>inb4 virgin.
>>699751630
Haha, I think I thought you were the other guy. My main point was that validation falls under emotional needs, though I think you're right that validation not being met is a bigger issue than emotional needs not being met.
>>699749366
>>699741167
Take a load of this guy.
>>699752801
Damn nigger, you need some English classes.
>>699752801
kek
>>699741035
A) Always double the sum of the number when a women say how many men she have sex with (24 x2)
B) It's better she have already played and then settle down then opposite...settle down and fuck men behind your back.
C) Better having relationship with experience women then a women who don't know how to fuck
>>699753263
17 x2 I meant, just woke up
>>699753263
Point C is debatable if you're a dominant man who likes submissive women, because although an inexperienced virgin will be quite mediocre in bed at first, you can teach her to do things exactly the way you like them, basically custom-tailoring her to your preferences. Only works with the really obedient ones, though. An experienced girls will struggle with this more because you cannot learn something you already think that you know. In any other case, rule C is very valid.
not op but have a question, happened a some time ago kek, met a girl who was 15 she said she was with 2 guys before (pretty sure was getting with 3rd one at the time). Is it like normal nowadays or what? Do girls start fucking from 13?
Also her last relationship lasted for ~2 years so first one started even earlier apparently
>>699752801
>>699752801
We sure wouldn't be the first.
>>699753538
Yes this is common
>>699748694
kek'd
>>699753688
Well fuck, what did the world come to
>>699741167
/Thread
>>699748377
so what? I've fucked 10 chicks and I'm 22. Just man the fuck up and live in the now. Only reason you would care is if you have a micro prick, which 90 % of the people on here has, so whatever.
>>699753349
Faggot
>>699753501
I have been relationship with women who both was inexperience, as you said as well you can learn them but same time you can have bad luck...one of them I had relationship she was totally inexperience and having sex with her was like...fucking a dead person, she just laying on bed and didn't do anything...the worst relationship I had in 9months
>>699753535
?
>>699753801
The end is near
If they admit to having fucked 14 others they probably have no intention of staying with you.
Just remember that and continue
>>699753801
In thruth ppl have always been fucking, a lot more than youd think
>>699754113
tbh i expect a war in Europes soon or something like that
>>699754171
but since 13, with older guys?
>>699753538
Depends on where they are from, but European girls normally lose their virginity somewhere between age 13 and 17 I'd say.
I lost mine at 14 (male) to a class-mate (female) who was the same age and also a virgin, and three years later I was with another 14 year old virgin.
I also popped the cherry of one girl that was 19, and one that was 23 - Though the last mentioned was in a wheelchair so I think that was why people stayed away. Hot as fuck though - Nothing wrong with her except that she had troubles walking due to a bad spine.
>>699741167
>>699752800
took you a while, but so worth the wait. Legendary
It's not hard to find someone who hasn't been on any one night stands. Western girls are getting desperate these days and freaking out a bit when they're single with a crappy job at 25.
>>699748739
And this is why you never get laid.
>>699741035
"Settling down" is the most widely accepted form of Settling
>>699741035
yOU beta retarded
what matters is not about past, its if you feel she truly loves you which seems posible because she was honest with you.
14 guys its not that much.
Considering like she fucked at 18 for first time its 2.5 guys per year. Some crazy night whatever.
So dont be an asshole dude and love her and fuck her hard. She will say to No.16 that No.15 was fucking awesome and you gonna feel good :]
>>699741167
>>699754083
Yeah, she has to be submissive and perverted and really eager to please you. If she doesn't have those qualities she will likely just lay there like a dead fish, and sex will be horrible. Though I have a feeling that kind of person is always terrible in bed even with more experience, honestly.
>>699753668
got em
>>699754352
Well indeed girl is from Europes, Sweden more specifically.
>>699754340
Maybe not since 13 but picture this: you live in a village with like 500 people and nothing to do. Question what do you do?
>>699741035
Only people who rarely have sex put any value on how many people their partner has slept with. Just let it go. Doesn't matter. As long as it's under 4 per year, she's perfectly normal.
Also, DON'T ASK QUESTIONS YOU DON'T WANT TO KNOW THE ANSWER TO.
>>699754690
Here is Sweden, everyone (I mean EVERYONE) has a moped, they go shopping and ride, party a lot, doesn't strike me as a boring life
>>699754853
>do you love me
>>699741035
that's like a little more than 1.5 different guys a year, really not that bad.
>>699741035
you know you need to at least multipy by three. just try things i guess.
>>699754853
Exactly, once youve had sex with a couple of people you dont even ask partners this question anymore, its a massively inexperienced persons' notion.
Who cares how many she slept with? It is 2016 and girls fuck around as much as guys... get over it and enjoy the cock sucking skills she learned
>>699754868
I can as well confirm Sweden is one of the country who have most slutty women...
>>699754853
Maybe he asked because the answer is important to him.
>>699741035
Definitively not a keeper.
Too many sailors have rowed that boat.
>>699741035
stop being a tweedy retard and face the fact that she is a women, also 14 is not a big amount for a 24 old, plus this kinda assures she's experienced and knows how to fuck
>>699754868
Jaja men folk hade inte mopeder för 200 år sedan din cuck
>>699755062
>once youve had sex with a couple of people you dont even ask partners this question anymore
Unless you want to know how consistent they were in their previous relationships.
Slut stays Slut.
Deal with it.
I slept with a 34 year old mother recently, she had her husband watch. I'm 27 and my experience has been limited to only a few girls. I've been in a ten year relationship. She taught me a lot and I still want to go back for more. Trust me man go with the experience, you will learn a ton and the sex will be Awsome and when things move on all that experience will be put to good use.
This is the most insecure shit ... Seriously.
"B-b-but another man s-s-saw your b-b-boobies? I'm sorry, my ego can't handle that. We can't be together anymore"
So many damaged kids with low self-esteem in this thread ...
>>699754646
Well, I'm Swedish too, so I think that's pretty common. Got four sisters and they all lost their virginity around the ages of 13 to 17. Don't worry too much - At such a young age, the relationship is unlikely to last for a lifetime anyways; and if it should beat the odds and last forever, then does it really matter that she was with 2 or 3 other guys and made some stupid decisions? It'll be in the past and you'll have the rest of her future.
>>699754461
Found the cuck
>>699755354
>implying everyone doesnt lie when asked
>>699755166
>also 14 is not a big amount for a 24 old
kek
Enjoy your inevitable divorce.
>>699755384
My best sex experience was with my friends mother...but he didn't like too see when he walked into the room
I've fucked 11 guys so far, didn't think it was a big deal to guys. Guess I'll be saying 3 instead of 11 ;)
>>699755511
So you advocate to trust into Sluts AND Liars?
Are you liberal by any chance?
>>699755423
Guess you are right mate, tacka
>>699755413
It's /b/ bro. What the fuck did you expect?
>>699755511
You'll know when you're penis doesn't fit in.
>>699755554
Yeah the husband had to leave a few times, he regretted it days later from what I'm being told. Just tried to hide but I knew he was there. Plus he went to check the kids a few times.
>>699755413
I fucked this girl once. Gave her a blindfold and had her eat my ass while I jerked off. She licked all the cum of my stomach. That's your girl. It's fine if you're just passing by, but why would you settle down down with a girl like that.
>>699755511
You'd probably be surprised. It's most kids that lie. Once you've developed a healthy view on sexuality, you tend to think "If they don't like it, they can fuck off".
I always tell the truth - I don't know. I stopped counting after 9 or 10. Which is realistic. If you're still counting after 10, you are letting sex define you as a person.
>>699752801
Get a load of this guy
>>699755754
There is a ton of truth to this, if you're above average in size. It's not like in porn - If you're with a girl that's a virgin or fairly inexperienced, she'll really struggle with taking your cock. You'll need a lot of lube and patience.
You are a fag. I'm 20 my gf is 3 years older then me and has fucked 20 guys. I was 20. I couldn't give a shit. If she is committed to you and open about everything, why would it matter? Be happy a girl cares about your.
>>699755701
It's okay gay guys don't care by 25 they're around 50
>>699755701
Good gurl, make sure to lie on your partners, because honesty is overrated, right?
But hey, you are a Slut.
Selfishness and lying fits the description, hence normal guys will avoid you like poison, anyways.
>>699755701
No, you say 33. If they have a problem with it, they're not worth your time and have some mental hangups with sex and what it means to share it. It's better to figure that out early on. Put it on a business card or something.
I bet most of the guys in this thread think that girls in the 1950s weren't screwing at the same rate they are now, too.
>>699756020
aye aye, but OP's gf want's to settle down with him, aka marriage, aka if-you-fuck-up-it-is-for-life
>>699756015
You can always just fist them before you fuck them.
Just saying.
>>699755701
>>699755849
Because at the end of the night, all she wanted to do was make you happy. A girl doesn't eat your ass because she enjoys it.
>>699743732
What kind of sex have you been having? Sounds like some boring ass sex
>>699741824
LOL!
Seriously though, no. Fuck that stupid shit. Who cares if she's a virgin?
Like, virgins suck at sex.
Just get her tested if you're worried about catching something from her.
Get yourself tested if you're worried about having already caught something from her.
Other than that... does she fuck good? Do you like her?
If so, go for it, why not.
>>699741035
Think of it as a bonus. She has the experience to know what she wants and wants you. She won't get 10 years down the road and wonder what it would be like with another guy sexually.
>>699756239
Bondage mainly.
Usually just speculums & anal expander.
She doesn't fancy the whip, but takes it once in a while anyways.
Who gives a shit. You also fucked her before she settled down, odds are you'll be the 15 next time she wants to settle down with the next guy. 20-24 is the age of fucking. If you ain't fucking at the same rate of average than the problem is you not her.
>>699756304
Who cares if car is fresh new, untouched? Yeah fuck it, no one!
>>699756304
>Who cares if she's a virgin?
I did.
Hence I married her.
Now we are swingers.
Life is strange.
>>699756015
No, it's not. Dude. There are so many variables at play when it comes to looseness. For example, really tall girls tend to also have really tall vaginas. They are bigger in general. Harder to bottom out, their base size is a little larger. Petite girls are, obviously, the complete opposite.
Also, inactivity will cause the vagina to shrink back up in less than 8 months. You can google this. Girls talk about after going without sex for a year, a guy can assume they're a virgin.
Don't get me started on that retarded shit where /b/ thinks inner lip size defines sexual habits.
>>699756551
>Don't get me started on that retarded shit where /b/ thinks inner lip size defines sexual habits.
But anon, it does.
>>699756471
>Who cares if car is fresh new, untouched? Yeah fuck it, no one!
>fresh
>new
You have obviously never encountered a vagina, new or pre-owned.
>>699741035
You're chasing Amy.
Watch this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlYZnd7dEPw
>>699756790
And now you know why Pedos exist.
>>699741035
>>699741167
THIS need to be in a best of 4chan threads
>>699749188
Despite dubs, none of this happened.
>>699745772
or option 3... she used to be a HUGE whore,
and has weaned off of dick.
>>699741035
OP I knew a 20 something that told me she had slept like with 30 guys at least she was honest, also women are obviously chances are they are going to get more sexual partners.
They just want to fuck a guy even if they are fat a guy strangely denies getting a blowjob.
Im not even going to ask my new gf howmany she had sex with. Who cares. Last guy she dated was indian or something. I called it a nigger and she said he was paki/indi. So basically a nigger for all im concerned.
She dumped him because she did better in college, better at work and socially that him, and he wanted to be the alpha in the relationship. He couldnt handle it so he was being a little bitch. She also made it clear shes in for the long term and not a couple of months/years, otherwise it would end right now if i didnt feel that way too.
She is in real estate doing pretty well for herself. Finishes her education next year, basically great as far as im concerned. Shes also infirtile, so no kiddos. Cool by me, i hate kids. Looks 8-10.
Last five gf's cheated on me, so im still kinda reluctant to go with it. Would you guys go with it? She's a cool girl, looks great, very intelligent, competitive and wont hold back to give you shit if you fuck up.
>>699743035
All of my this
She's rapidly heading towards the wall and you're set up to be the cushion
>>699744540
Are you gonna do the kilometers of how many times she got plowed like that other guy.
>>699741035
>>don't know what to do
Fuck her better then them 14 guys..
That's a low number if it was 114 then you should run but 14 ain't shit for 24 year old I know a 22 year old that has fucked 50+
>>699756966
Sounds pretty believable, really. And long term friendships make the absolute best relationships, and conversely, good relationships devolve into amazing friendships after you've fucked.
Sometimes things just sort happen. A little alcohol here, a recent breakup there, a coincidence that leaves the two of you alone ... I would bet at least 15% of sexual encounters start that way.
>>699752801
>>699752801
Oh my
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bjzUTZNd-PM
>>699741167
>>699757136
>I called it a nigger
And this is where things get complicated.
If she slept with 1 black man, you should count it as having slept without about 75 white men as far as what it says about her reputation and tendencies. Because that is truly messed up.
>>699757136
>She is also infirtile
You mean infertile, and if you marry her, prepare yourself for the crippling depression she'll experience when she realizes she can't have kids even if she wants to.
>>699741035
Religious fag?
>>699741688
At least 6 years of adulthood.
2 sex partners per year.
>Total whore gobbling down cocktail every spare second
>>699741035
Eh me and wife are at 7 or 8 each idk
We got married when she was at two and I was at 4
>now it's just a revenge thing
>its a poisonous. Marriage and we should just get into swinging
>>699741035
make sure to get her tested for the heevies broseph
>>699741035
Dude, unless you're some jihadist warlord then it's safe to say you can marry a non virgin woman.
>she's had practice and you were practice to other women before her
>>699757618
People are idiots. Most of the relationships I've seen from people between 18 and 25 last on average 3 months. And sex is usually given out long before the first month is out. It would be highly unusual for you to have not had sex after 1 month.
>>699742325
Then he should be napalmed
I'm in a similar situation. I've been dating this girl for about a year now and she just told me that she has slept with 19 guys. I knew that she had sex prior to meeting me but I didn't know it was that many guys. She's been in two relationships before meeting me and she cheated on one of them. But it was only because he cheated on her first. As for the rest of the guys, I assume they were friends with benefits or flings during the downtime between relationships. She claims that she's loyal. And I'm inclined to believe her because on multiple occasions l, some friends with benefits tried to hit her up but she shut them down pretty hard. However, once after an argument she hit up one of those guys and set up some meeting. But afterward regretted it and told me about it. Which is fine and all, but she then told me that she doesnt know what she might do if she became too upset after an argument. What do you think, /b/?
>>699749215
Please explain the land-whales who are in the double digits.
>>699743808
Let me guess, you watched half the town run a train on your slutty housemate yet never did anything with her yourself because you were "just friends".
>>699757535
>>699757136
Yes, around 35 she will go crazy and turn into an emotional wreck and psycho. If you're lucky she'll only be super depressed and you can comfort her on a daily basis, and she can both your girlfriend and your baby all at once. If you're unlucky she'll be abusive and annoying as shit about it and make you want to kill yourself. Good luck with that.
