You tell me your problem & I tell you the best way to solve it.
Chronic procrastination and I don't know how to stop
Chronic masturbation and I don't know how to stop
>>698700461
bowel cancer
I'm addicted to meth.
my gf is in europe and we both dont have money for flying around all the time
>>698700537
one does not need to stop... one needs to start.
>>698700461
raging alcoholic
I'm Black.
I wanna have sex with Taylor Swift
im not motivated by money, power , being the best and making people like me. what should i do?
>>698700760
You can type well for an alcoholic, it's clearly not a problem.
got a chick preggo last month.....
>>698700909
Become rich and famous by working very hard.
>>698700945
sex
>>698700945
Relax.
>>698701065
functioning alcoholic. I'm at work now. will drink myself to sleep after work just like I've done every night for almost 20 years
>>698700945
eat good food
I don't know what to do with my life.
>>698700461
tiny penis
>>698701103
Help her accidently OD on vitamin c which will cause a miscarriage with orange juice and vitamin pills.
>>698701188
dont give a shit about sex
>>698701214
Why change?.
im a fresh graduate in a foreign country, found the love of my life here.
country requires me to be over 27 to get a job with working visa.
what do
>>698701284
So what? You still have to see it through til the end.
Shitty advice thread is giving me cancer.
Wanting to eat girl meat
>>698701519
Grow the fuck up.
>>698701538
Leave.
I can't find enjoyment in anything anymore.
>>698701689
Then why bother typing in that sentence?
You are a lier.
>>698700537
Organize yourself with calenders & apps to set visualizations of your goals. Do as much work as you can in the early parts of the day, or even go for a run when you wake up to get yourself motivated.
>>698700642
Honestly you just need to cut cold turkey for awhile. Stay off places like /b/ that has alot of nudity.
>>698700648
Consult with your doctor. Also, good mental health is proven to aid in physical recovery.
>>698700688
Find some hobbies & do your best to focus on them. Structure your days so you are always doing something productive so you aren't filling boredom with the drug. Have someone you trust to to talk to when you don't feel well or feel like relapsing. Do whatever you can to distract yourself.
>>698700719
You live in the beautiful age of technology. Skype & facetime. Send her a thoughful gift or handwritten letter once a week. Or have a service send a bouquet of flowers the 1st of each month. Just something simple to remind her you love her.
>>698700760
See the meth advice
>>698700799
Play your advantages
>>698700909
Pursue a DJ/acting career
>>698700945
Be motivated by making others happy. Give them something you can't have. You will find relief.
>>698701652
Best advice so far.
>>698701392
because it's too difficult to get... you know everything is if you don't try...
>>698701903
Maybe because he wants to find out how to find enjoyment in anything?
The girl I'm sleeping with has an inferiority complex which just feeds into my superiority complex so its really toxic but so fucking fun. Solution?
>>698700461
I want a relationship with the girl I'm sleeping with right now, but she just got out of one (fun fact: with one of my best friends & he doesn't know) and doesn't want it.
>>698700461
Suicide
>>698700461
i'm married.
>>698702224
no im asexual
>>698702274
If he truly enjoyed nothing, there would be zero motivation to do anything.
He enjoys whining and feigning enfeeblement.
I'm a trap and I'm all alone.
>>698702373
He asked for problems, not solutions.
>>698702293
Continue.
>>698702655
Good.
Vermin.
I am a queer nigger jew
>>698700461
I'm deaf. Fix that you fuck.
Every girl I've ever been with hasn't been able to get me off. But when I masterbate, I do it just fine.
>>698702677
I also have a girlfriend. I accidentally posted before I got to that part.
>>698701103
Talk to her about it. Explore your options, but prepare yourself to be a good dad regardless. Learn a few lessons from this if you abort.
>>698701332
Get toned & skinny, it'll look better. Work on personality & giving good head & using your fingers.
>>698701519
Either bring her back or long distance until you are old enough. See my post above for long distance advice.
>>698701538
I will do my best to change
>>698701576
Girlfriend. Or tinder, prepare for possible STD's though.
>>698701689
You need to get up & go find something then. Nothing will change if you sit around doing nothing feeling bad for yourself
>>698700461
experiencing endtimes prophesy.. cant get out of body...
>>698702771
That's called deathgrip syndrome. I'm here with you babe.
>>698702785
Continue.
You don't have a GF you have 2 human fleshlights.
>>698702771
Stop fapping.
My girlfriend is moving back to the mainland. Basically we're breaking up.
>>698702917
Fair enough. I guess they are stupid enough to fuck me so they kind of deserve it.
>>698702888
>mfw trips proves..
>>698703096
Get over it.
>>698700461
Totally in love with a woman who's not my wife, she flirts all the time and my wife hates her
>>698702082
>hobbies
I like to jerk off for hours when I'm high on meth.
In love with my asexual girlfriend.
>>698700461
I can't find motivation to do anything. Which is the underlying problem of every other problem in my life.
i was friendzone, but i always love her.. help me /b/ros
>>698702655
Slit your throat with a broken bottle.
>>698703216
Send her pictures of some other guys dick with a mole or birthmark on it.
>>698703215
Great idea thanks
>>698700461
I'm 25 dating a 19 year old.
>>698700461
I hate myself and I'm afraid to live
>>698703457
Hahahahahahaha you fucking suck.
>>698700461
>>>698700461
>I'm 25 dating a 19 year old.
Im 49 dating a 28 year old.
>>698703361
Grow the fuck up.>>698703327
I'm going to make a fake fb profile and add every guy that I went to school with..
Then I will post a link on fb to the thread on anonib corresponding to the school..
Will this get me loads of nudes??
>>698703327
Hookers.
>>698703327
Try to make the slow, hard grind up from betafag to alpha.
>>698703663
yeah sure
ADD, un-diagnosed but highly possibility of mild-aspergers or some sort of personality disorder, inability to connect with normal people, lack of focus, motivation, frequent dissociation from reality, slight paranoia and mild to severe anxiety in basic life situations, socially retarded, nihilistic, pessimistic, and can't keep passionate about anything for too long without getting bored of it.
I set up my life all through high school to become a graphic designer. Became the schools designer, designed posters for events, letterheads for the principal. Even worked with a few clients through the school and did a few miscellaneous jobs. Loved it.
Went to college for it, took out a loan for 20k for schooling. The school I went to was very new, shut down 9 months into it. Never got anything from it except 20k debt in student loans. That was 4 years ago, haven't touched an adobe product since... I miss is, but don't have the motivation to do it anymore.
>>698702293
If it's fun & you are treating her well then there is no solution. If not, you already know the answer
>>698702322
You should just be happy that you are getting some, because you are a bad friend.
>>698702373
You're still alive
>>698702433
Swingers or divorce
>>698702655
Move to the Florida Keys
>>698702770
If you have enough money, they have the technology. Look into researching & keeping up to date with any new developments.
>>698702771
Masturbate less & less porn
>>698702888
Drop some mushrooms, you will find the way young one.
>>698703096
Focus on your interests & hobbies. Workout. Just stay active while your heart heals.
>>698703216
Don't be fooled by lust. It is forbidden which makes it interesting & we always want what we can't have. Look at the situation objectively. It's easy to like someone when you don't spend a lot of time with them
>>698700461
>>698702322
Where's my solution faggot
>>698703854
Thanks dude/dudette
>>698703763
Go to a doctors.
Also your post reads like salarians speak.
>>698703854
Of course I'm not treating her well. How could the toxicity of an inferiority complex feeding into a superiority complex every be healthy? Also, no, I don't think I do know the answer you fuck. 0/10 advice.
>>698702888
>>698703854
maybe I havnt used them fully properly yet..but they havnt done the trick..done mushrooms, hard salvia(too scared to try again, I think itl get me lost more than take me where im going..) and some maybe acid..
>>698703695
Pls respond
>>698700461
OP
>lived with gf for 3 years
>early on she did some dumb shit and didn't come home for 24 hours (with my car!)
>I was mad as fuck but worked it out
>yesterday she went out with her auntie to go somewhere 20 mins away. said she'd be back late
>it's now noon....24 hours later. she doesn't have my car this time, but her phone died or something. straight to voicemail. last I talked to her was around 5pm last night she said she'd be home late
>what do I do/say when she gets here OP?
>I love her so much ....I've been thinking about ending it, only because I can't tell if she loves me back
>She's nice, respectful, amazing, but just doesn't seem to love me. doesn't call often when she's gone. doesn't always say "I love you back". doesn't seem to care about spending time with me.
>aka she says she loves me but her actions don't show it.
>>698700461
A nice girl is in love with me, but I don't feel the same for her. I like her a lot, but I dunno if I can love her. What do?
>>698704252
Nothing.
I really like this chick, like, I wanna be his bf, or maybe I just wanna fuck her because I know shes a whore, but she keeps telling me and everybody we're just friends, we went out like two weeks ago, two friends, her and me, and we got drunk and we start to made out, and the next day she was saying she was very sorry n shit.
We go to the same Gym (I work there) and she told me she likes these dudes, and she talk a lot with one
Should I just give up on her and actually try to be just her friend?
I think the reason she doesn't want anything with me is because we met because her ex bf introduced us, so I think she finds that ackward
>>698704465
Give up.
>>698704252
give it a real chance, if you like her.
be open minded about falling in love with her.
date her. but don't ever lie.
don't say you love her just because she says it.
be honest.
say "I care about you so much....I'm not in love yet. Let me go at my own pace"
it might hurt her a lil but as long as you're honest she can't do anything but respect it
>>698704172
You, me, and everybody in this thread know the answer anon
The more time you take in ending it, the more time you're wasting looking for somebody who actually can love you
>>698703310
Time to find some new hobbies.
>>698703327
Connect with her. Explain how you feel & how you need physical love once & awhile & compromise
>>698703329
Start with small goals & try new things to be interested in. Go for runs & eat well to get your energy up. Get as much sunlight to help raise your vitamin D levels
>>698703361
Move on.
>>698703434
There is nothing wrong with that if we are just talking age
>>698703763
Accept who you are & have fun with it. You are a jack of all trades & someone who likes to try different things. Embrace it.
>>698703813
You just have to push yourself to do it again. Buy some new equipment (you're in a bit of debt anyway) & pick up some freelance work with deadlines. Just accept anything you can get your hands on to get the ball rolling again. I believe in you.
>>698703854
what if i end up homeless in Florida
>>698704465
be genuine friends.
if it turns into more, let it...
the closer you become as friends, the more she will trust you
just don't get "friend zoned" by being her punching bag or errand boy.
be there for her but don't be "all about her"
>>698700461
I am not a millionaire.
I don't taste anything when I eat my cum.
>>698704679
That's what i thought. Good advice, Thanks m8
>>698704875
Obtain money
I'm on my 4th year and I've only done half of the required courses.
Dropped most of those, got a failure or two.
Should I stop studying?
I'm fucked in the long term if I don't get a degree, though.
>>698705049
Question
Are you studying what you like/are Interested?
>>698704789
don't worry, i'm going to go at the university soon
>>698704892
Roll it around on your tongue for longer, eat more salt, asparagus and fish.
Try jizzing into a container in the fridge 20 or 30 times and really get a big mouthful.
Ask your father and grandfather for their advice.
>>698704055
Lol I just threw my bullshit in a nutshell. Straight to the point, ya know? I've been to doctors a few times when I first started experienced depression from all this shit. They just put me on drugs, made me talk a lot, do breathing exercises, and recommended I go to church or something. I feel fucking hopeless.
I'm 26, live with my parents, and I lost my last and first job a few months ago. I worked with a family member, too.. I'm very robotic and monotone with most people, unless they're a fucking weirdo in some way. I just don't fucking know how to interact with people, man. The things they talk about I can't relate to. I'm in my own world, and they are in theirs. I used to be able to socialize, too. I wasn't bothered by talking to people all that much.. but I soon found my social life dying and people finding me weirder as I got older. It seems I was only able to connect with people when I used to go to "punk rock" shows. Everyone was always being crazy, but I never fit in with anybody, and lost interest in a lot of the music.. Ugh.. Apparently I'm and INFP, or whatever.. Taking a look at some of my favorite musicians who apparently happen to be INFPs, too. Offing myself is probably in my future.
I have fetish that can be harmful to me so I'm stuck between unresistible urge and not wanting to do permanent damage to myself.
>>698700461
No one understands me and my financial future's looking extremely bleak. I didn't major in a STEM field.
Also, I've been single for the last 11 years, and it doesn't look like that's going to change.
>>698704715
well theres 3 reasons I haven't broke up with her:
1. I love her, obviously.
2. I wonder if she does love me and is just bad at showing it.
3. I've never known anyone like her. If we can make this work, it would make me unbelievably happy. I've already invested so much time... starting over with someone else (probably not on par with her mentally or physically) just sounds awful.
by the way...she literally JUST called me, from another phone. she asked me to pick her up. what should I say when I get there
>>698704875
start trappin
I slept with my best friends wife while he was away at basic. Now i like her a lot and it really sucks. I feel like i should tell him but that would ruin everything between us.
>>698705536
Darwin says do it.
>>698703932
You're a bad friend. Stop messing around with her.
>>698704080
You either need to change or you need to let her go. You should realize you aren't superior at all, you are just taking advantage of someone & that is pathetic & cowardly.
>>698704102
Spend more time with nature. You will find your answers.
>>698704116
No it will not
>>698704172
Don't breakup over something so small. You need to look at the situation from an outside perspective. Do you know what's going on with her? Ask her if anything is bothering her or if there is anything she wants to open up to you about. Just listen & don't push it. You also seem a little clingy, give her space & treat her well.
>>698704252
Just go on a few dates & see. You never know. Just be clear on how you feel & explain how you would like to try & get to know each other better.
I'm working my way down the list. There are a lot to respond to. Be patient
i have a trouble keeping a hard dick going before and during sex.
what do you suggest?
Raging alcoholic but it isn't fucking up my life in any serious way other than hangover anxiety and I have no desire to stop
>>698705579
>Shes really bad at showing it
Dude, you've been with her for 3 years, you already should know how she is
does a relationship work the second time around? dating the first time, i got sidelined for temporary fun with new "fun" guys girlfriends friend brought into the picture. i left, she came back months later wanting another go. first few months i forgot and got over it thinking it would be different starting over, but now the crap feelings are coming back and starting to resent her more, esp when her friend comes around. starting to think im just that safe choice, safety net and she just doesn't want to be lonely.
>>698705201
>Are you studying what you like/are Interested?
Yeah, sure.
Studying IT btw.
>>698705788
Damn, that's a nice pair.
>>698700461
I keep making more money but its never enough
went from 12/hr to 24/hr with great benefits
still cant afford to even THINK about getting a house
still cant pay all my bills
>>698705808
Have sex with a human.
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I dunno if this is really an issue, but I was thinking of posting this in /adv/ so whatever.
I have very little amount of friends. I do have acquaintances and it's all cool, but I never get invited anywhere. It's always me that do the inviting or I hear about something going on and I just join them. I don't consider myself as annoying. I don't know the reason why I would intentionally be left out. I'm kinda shy, not really talkative, but, hey, i'm not that bad to never be invited anywhere. Of course, while others do something, I spend my time playing vidya, watching anime and other unproductive stuff. I also have some real hobbies like jogging. I did use to go stadium and have a proper coach in competitive running, but these activities didn't gain me any friends.
So obviously I tried to gain friends in the internet. Last weekend we met and had a great time. Genuinely great time, I didn't feel out of place or anything.
So the thing is that one of those friends is moving away about 1200 kilometers. Now I am afraid that I will never have this much fun again. Actually I think I'm getting depressed just by thinking about it (and I rarely feel down despite having no real friends).
So I think I need help with this feeling of depression. I still could meet up with other two guys but it wouldn't be the same and I feel like the third guy would feel as I do now.
>>698705747
2 options:
1. tell him and risk the friendship but keep things honest
2. don't tell him, risk her telling him first, or possibly continue your friendship with this weight on your chest.
honestly, I was in the exact same situation a few years ago. slept with my friends ex the DAY they broke up....and he was suspicious. I actually did it with a buddy and we both hit it at the same time. The bf asked us a few times...I wanted to tell him bcuz honestly I didn't care about his friendship all that much and just wanted to be honest with him. but my friend who also fucked told me he would never speak to me again and would deny participating.
fast forward 2 years...he's with someone else. I stopped talking to the guy from the 3 way, and I finally told the bf what happened. He kind of shrugged like "you know what? I always kinda knew. thanks for being honest." and that was all. no hostility or anything.
the difference i suppose is he moved on by the time I told him, he's also very understanding. What is your friend like? What is his marriage like?
>>698706007
You don't score points for more friends.
Hey dude
I'm not english, so first, sorry for my english. Please rate it when you answer
OK i've met a girl like 6 months ago, and we wanted only sex. We've never seen each other in real life.
Some months, we didn't talked, other we talked a lot, until like 2 months ago where we started to talk a lot. Every day. And we started to want something more than just a sex relation.
So we started to give some cute surnames, to pay attention to the other and so on.
The fact is that, nowadays, we still talk a lot, but we still havn't met. And...she saw her ex bf yesterday, and he told her he wanted to go back with her...She stopped the relation 1 year ago.
But he or she (I don't know) kissed her / him. Nothing more.
We phoned yesterday to make things straight. Well, I yelled at her, she cried, I hang up telling her I didn't want to talk to her for ever. She sent me a text, I called her, I apologized and we talked about us, about what we want.
She doesn't know what she wants. I know what I want. I want to see her and to kiss her and to start a relation with her.
She's afraid to not be able to give me what I want, even if we are in couple.
She wants me to not wait for her, to let some time pass, and then she'll be back, and if I have a girlfriend at this moment, nevermind for her, it's her fault.
But I don't want to do this, I know i'll not be searching for an other gf, but for her.
So I don't know what to do.
I have 2 questions.
1) What to do ? Wait for her ? Do my life and if she come up, good for me, and if not, nevermind ?
2) She'll be back from Paris next tuesday. She doesn't know what she wants so she thinks that we should not meet this tuesday. Actually I want to force fate. So I think I'll go catch up her at the moment she's arriving, by train or whatever to tell her how I feel about her and so on.
I don't know if it's a good idea, because she'll not know i'll be there.
So, please help me dude
>>698705858
I mean I don't think her walls have come down all the way. I don't know if it's personal or if it has to do with external factors (like her last relationship ending badly). I've been waiting for her to open up. she's way better than she was in the beginning but still so far from showing that she's in love with me, even though she say "I love you too"
>>698706007
Get a job and talk to your coworkers.
Get friends and get paid nigger.
>I'm kinda shy, not really talkative
>It's always me that do the inviting
You're better than most of the autists here then tbqh.
>>698700461
24 year old male. Broke up with my girlfriend 4 months ago after 18 months. Seriously regret it, all problems that plagued relationship could be solved so easily. She was crushed, took me a while to realise how I felt. Met up with her mum (like a second mum to me) for coffee last weekend, asked her to approach ex and ask if I can make contact. Ex has said categorically no. Not spoken to her since breaking up, save the usual breakup shit. Ex lives in another city now and I don't want to get in touch if she doesn't want me to.
I have a girlfriend who I'm really happy with and I work with, but it's just not the same and I feel guilty for how I feel about my ex. Ex also hated current girlfriend, although I never cheated.
Feel like shit about it, really want my ex back, or at least in my life. Would obviously cause serious shit with current girlfriend if that happened, especially at work. What do?
I'm scared of women. waiting for a resolution.
>>698702082
My problem is, I want to fuck & marry that girl in the pic now
>>698704833
Find a good job first & do your research. You don't have to go there in particular.
>>698704875
Go to university & pick a good major.
>>698704892
That's good for whoever gives you blowjobs besides yourself. Be happy about it. Could be worse.
>>698705049
Think of it this way, you are still half done. Who says you need to finish in 4 years? Just keep studying at your pace. Your happiness means more in the meantime as long as you are showing improvement or enjoying yourself outside of school. Talk to your professors about the failures & maybe take only a few classes the next few semesters
>>698705536
Fight the urge. Replace it with something else
>>698705546
Change your major. It's never too late. & unless you desire a relationship, being in one doesn't necessarily make a person happier.
>>698705747
You're a bad friend & you should either never talk to them again or tell him if you want to salvage your friendship.
>>698706599
don't put them on a pedestal. try being friends with a few women who you find attractive (if that's too difficult, start with a woman you DON'T find attractive), but genuinely be friends with no intentions of sleeping with her. don't fantasize about her or try to pursue her. just be friends. you'll see that women are human and it will help your confidence.
>>698706490
Being anti-social isn't my problem. I lived in dorms for 2 years. I talk to people. It's just that I spent my free time in my room and stadium. I didn't have friends.
In September I will start University. It still won't guarantee solution.
Also money isn't an issue because semi-rich parents.
>>698706235
they have been married for about a year, but keep in mind he was gone pretty much that entire time, hes back now and everything seems to be going fine between them. I'm not really worried about her saying anything to him about it, thats how she is, but IF he did find out it wouldnt be pretty, he can be controlling and i've known him long enough to know that if he did find out he would probably hurt someone. If it was me he hurt then whatever I guess i deserve that, but I dont want to risk him hurting her.
>>698705788
OP where's my solution??
>>698704172
I have zero fucking motivation for ANY of the things i do, even things i like doing, the only things i wanna do in life is get drunk, browse 4chan, play dark souls. Repeat.
>>698706756
It is too late for me to change my major; in fact, I'm waiting on approval from the school to get the financial aid I need to finish this one (actually these two) up in December, because they say I've been an undergrad too long/have too many credits.
>>698706756
Yeah i know im a bad friend but the risk/reward for telling him is to damn low
>>698706867
Get out of yesterday and look to tomorrow, cliche problem is cliche and boring.
>>698706995
Watch a film called office space.
>>698706815
>In September I will start University
>semi-rich parents
Sounds great.
Just talk to people a lot.
And don't forget to smile, smiling is important.
>>698707121
yeah thats helpful
>>698700461
I broke up with my gf after 5 years. I said that last year was the years in which everthing she felt to me disapeard and she don't know why.
>>698706340
Am in exact same situation, except i've met her already. Rest stays the same. Some months no talk, then talk everyday. Am curious what to do.
>>698700461
boring ass city. no action going on no way to get laid
>>698700461
I am biseksual , i am suicidal. Idont have a gf, i am not enjoying life i a am depressed , there is no purpose at life
>>698705788
I'm truly not clingy though OP...seems like the more space I give her the less I hear from her.
I used to not even ask where she's going or who she was with, but she cheated on me with her ex about a year into our relationship.
I still give her plenty of space. ok for the last month....she went to stay with her friend for a night an hour away. ended up staying for a full week, calling maybe every other day and saying "sorry can't talk".
she came home, slept one night, then went to her mom's house for a day. same thing...didn't come home for an entire week and barely called.
She finally came home yesterday....and that's when she left with her aunt. Said she'd be home last night but never came and didn't answer her phone. It's been a day now.....I just feel like she's avoiding me or not thinking about my feelings. I would never just not call or show up.
btw this disappearing act is pretty new.....before this, the most she'd ever been gone is maybe 1 day. a week when she went on vacation with her friend once, but that was normal and doesn't bother me.
it's when she goes out with no thought of calling me or keeping me posted when she'll be back. Also, she lost her house key. She showed up last time after not answering the phone for hours. I ended up going to my buddy's house. She called me mad because I wasn't home and the door was locked. She said I should have left it unlocked for her.....but I never have any fucking clue these days when or if she'll be home.
>>698700461
My problem is smug delusional fucks like you who think they have the capability of knowing the best way to solve all the problems in the world. kys.
>>698707233
Thanks for reading my long post and responding! I appreciate it. Hope you have a good day! I will do it - have a great start in September.
>>698707595
I usually feel that way...but actually his advice is pretty solid, I think
I'm a 19 year old kissless handholdless virgin with literally no friends and also social anxiety. I also depressed of the fact that i have no one .. i wish i had a nice gf, maybe my old crush, but nah, i'm too ugly, so what magical tip could you give me ..?
>>698705352
Im going through alot of similar things. What ive found is that exposure and momentum will make things better while hiding and stagnating will make it worse.Get a job that keeps you active and around people. The more exercise you get the more energy you will have. The same goes dor socializing, the more you interact with others and observe how they interact the better you'll get.
>>698700461
wife doesn't into blowjobs
also sex only once or twice a month
>>698705891
In my personal experience & from what I've seen I don't believe in breaking up & getting back together. You lose so much after that 1st time.
>>698706007
You need to learn some instruments or languages or pick up some interesting hobbies that you can actually share with people. For the time being though, find some people in the gaming community to do events with. But I suggest diversifying your portfolio to become a more fun person to be around. You'll also be happier anyway.
>>698706340
You guys haven't actually spent time together so once you do you'll be able to communicate much more intimately. Most importantly, don't get frustrated or angry with her. Just accept her mistake. You even said it yourself the majority of your interaction was just about sex, you have time to grow into something more than that now. But it's up to you after that to decide after all that if you want to pursue a serious relationship.
>>698706519
The fact you have a new girlfriend means you are just suffering from just missing her. Just accept what happened & continue forward. I never think getting back together after a breakup is a good idea, especially since you have a new gf now. Your ex will never feel ok about that. Move on.
>>698707339
Well what do you want? Drama? Peace? Your guilt is yours to keep.
So nut up shut up and get on with other shit.
>>698700461
depression
Hey everyone, I hope my advice is helping. Sorry if it's not completely in depth, there are alot of you to respond to & I'm trying to do this in a timely fashion. If i haven't followed up with you after an intial reply you can reply to this with your posts attached & I'll do my best to continue with you.
>>698700461
apparently im attractive. But i grew up a Jehovas Witness untill i became an atheist. To be frank. I have no game. I cant approach girls. I find it awkward. Ive got maybe 7 girls sending me looks right now at work. And im too much of a beta to do anything about it.
>>698708237
Smile.
>>698708329
im a manlet
>>698708000
> your second advice
Thanks! Any further suggestions for hobbies? I was a part of football (soccer) team. No friends from that time. Basically I can do different sports. I can even share you a little story:
I had a day-off from work last summer, in which I invited two people whom I wanted to be friends with to play some basketball. Nothing fancy, just ball throwing. Well, they invited some friends too. It was all cool, I knew some of those others, got introduced to those I didn't. In the end one of my ''friends'' asked why did he rarely see me playing basketball, because they go to play quite often. I asked him why doesn't he invite me then? He responded something like that:'' uhh, I dunno. No one seems to mention or remember you.''
So yeah, I have no idea how to get into groups of people to play casual sports with.
I also like tabletops but I play online, since no one in my city would play with me (and yeah, I've tried to arrange that).
>>698707936
I wish it were that easy, but I live in the middle of nowhere, in the south. There's no opportunities. I'm a small town, country kind of guy, but not in terms of interests, hobbies, or personality. I don't have a car anymore either, I hit a fucking deer and totaled it. So that makes finding another job even more difficult. The only options are hard physical labor, and I'm a fucking scrawny weakling and just a shitty worker. I'm lazy. I'm hopeless, I do not believe in myself and I hate exercising because I feel no joy in it, like I don't feel joy in basically anything anymore. I've got excuses for days, and it's because I know myself. I've pushed myself so hard over and over again, and I just don't seem to keep things up. I just stop.
Currently fucking a girl who lives with her boyfriend, i bought her a cheap car but she hasnt tried tobget her license yet so i don't want her driving it til then but she lives 40 miles away from me so i cant really stop her
I need £3200 by Friday and I can't get a loan that isn't some loan sharking they will end up with my legs broken.
>>698707931
Improve yourself & make yourself a better overall person. Pick up some hobbies & dedicate your freetime to them & you'll find friends with the same interests. & You are still young. I lost my virginity at 17 & that was the same year as my first kiss. You're completely fine where you are at. Don't beat yourself up
>>698707996
Ask her what you can do for her without mentioning you want something in return. Never make it a IOU system. Maybe look at yourself & see if you could use some cardio, gym time, or better grooming. Once you show effort to make your SO happy unconditionally the happier they will be to treat you.
>>698700461
I can't see any girl I talk to or hangout with as any more than a sexual object and it's preventing me from actually connecting with people unless I get to fuck them first. It's all I think about almost all day. How do I control it.
>>698705536
foot fetish is not so bad
im madly lusting after my best friend, who happens to be asexual
the fuck do i do because i want to dip my pickle but she doesn't want any pickles inside her
>>698709171
well i lost all hope that i will be ever a normal human, i consider suicide as an option, but i'm a fool so i wait .. if i wouldn't be ugly things would be different.
>>698708237
Hobbies. Workout. Stay active. Plan your days & make yourself wake up early. Shower & dress well right off the bat & you will feel better about going on with your day. & sunlight; good vitamin D
>>698708365
Just treat them like a friend & a normal person. Just do that for awhile & just slowly build your confidence & experience. Don't do anything you need to force. It'll make sense eventually. Coffee & walks in the park are good laid back dates to talk.
>>698708850
That's good! Soccer is universally a popular sport & easy to get events & teams to join. I started playing in my late teens & dedicated myself to practicing & joined alot of clubs & rec leagues which led to making friends. & remember you need to show effort as well to let people know you want to be involved with them. Play well but don't take it too seriously unless you are on a legit team, & be lighthearded & just talk & joke around. But like I said, diversify. You'll have greater chance to have things in common with people, plus you'll have something to entertain yourself in your personal time.
>>698708937
That just sounds messed up? What would you like to accomplish?
>>698709851
Stay away from /b/. Watch less porn. Enjoy other things in your life. Less porn.
>>698708873
I know exactly how you feel. I didnt mean it would be easy, I just meant that if you can develop a job/routine that forces you to get exercise and social exposure it will get easier. 21 days to form a habit/adjust. Hoof it for 21 days and it should get easier.
>>698710752
If she's your best friend, she already likes the mental aspect of you. Maybe if you convey how you feel & take it slow you may get somewhere. The key is to not pressure her or expect anything. >>698710815
There are plenty of brilliant people who have contributed great things to the world or their communities that aren't exactly beautiful. Take it as a gift, you are not distracted by superficial things. Also, hookers. & love yourself anon, you're a good person. Keep treating others well.
>>698700461
I have andropause
>>698707586
Personally once someone cheats it should end. You don't seem very happy & your trust for her is understandably low. I think you should seriously consider leaving
>>698707452
Do your research & move to a new city. Find a job before you leave.
>>698707661
Good luck! :)
>>698700461
snobs...
BF wont let me play with his ass
>>698709050
prostitution
if that fails, rob a prostitute at the end of her shift.
>>698712624
Exercise, eat healthier, & get your 8 hours.
>>698713111
Whatever replaced silk road.
>>698713417
Have you tried being polite about it. Or maybe see if he wants something in return so you can play with it.
I want a gf.
>>698712856
what are the signs that a man loves you vs just cares about you vs just using you?
shitty standard teenage part time job that I hate.. want a new job not sure what route to go, will only be available weekends in about 3 weeks
Wanna be millionaire.
It's a problem for me. People always tell me "If you would really want it you would make it".
As if, life would be so simple.
>>698700461
Lol everybody tells me ill look sexy as fuck if i workout, but i just dont. I know itll get me pussy too but idk why tf i dont try.
>>698714325
Either go out to talk to real people or go a dating site to meet virtual people.
>>698714394
Find whithin yourself wha tyou like or love and apassionates you.
Look for job on that route.
Fuck.... I really like this girl, we listen to the same kind of music and we both have had a rough childhood. I'm really too anxious too app her plus she's seeing her "friend with benefits" often
>>698714337
If he loves you he'll actually go out on dates, he won't act completely distant after getting his nut (don't mistake for being tired), he'll make time or show effort to converse(it's never up to par on how much a girl actually wants, but it's at least enough), he'll be interested in your hobbies & interests.
>>698714325
Be a cool & caring person. Then talk to female
>>698714394
More detail & more specific on what kind of advice you want
>>698714905
Ask yourself why a million. How about start with a more focused goal like "I want to make this much a year". Then explore which jobs in the field you are interested in that makes or can make that much. Also, budgeting.
>>698715336
I use sports as incentive to workout. Running? Boring. Dribbling a soccer ball or basketball & getting good cardio? More fun. Also, you need to jam to some music that gets you pissed or energized while you lift, helps immensely.
THIS GIRL USED TO BE A CHILD NUDE MODEL
>>698700461
Typival depression and want to die. Standard shit not working. What do?
I'm kinda drunk right now and put with a friend.I am distanced right now from my doing nothing and jacking off routine and I can picture the person I want to become.but when it comes time to doing the things I procrastinated Jack off and sleep .waste time and generally am not in the mood for it.right now I see the path.possibly tomorrow I won't give a damn most likely
>>698715532
>>698715956
well bear with me.. I love animals and being outdoors but jobs involving that are not easy to come by, volunteering at the zoo - if I get lucky and approved, but it's still not a job.
aside from that, the normal fag approach would be to go with computers and IT which I don't love but I would do it.. again I need help finding something entry level and preferably weekends because I'll be in college. if i could find a legit help desk or call center job from home that would be great
>>698716277
Know the feeling....
>>698715692
If those are your only reasons maybe it would be wise to look elsewhere. Otherwise just tell her, she can't read your mind.
>>698716075
Read through the thread. I've given alot of advice on this topic
>>698714905
Actually anon it is... read richdad poordad. Study personal finance. Million is easy af. Gl out there.
>>698715956
>Ask yourself why a million
Because I want it and I wouldn't need to work anymore... sorta.
I still would have to learn investing and whatnot. But with a million I would be free in pretty much every sence.
So... should I try to forget it? I mean, if I would really want it I would sell bullshit for $100 USD a piece.
Haven't fucked my gf in about a week--she won't let me touch her vagina and never seems to get in the mood lately. We've been having sex at least once every 3 days previously. She claims she's just not in the mood.
Is something wrong? Am I doing something wrong? Or is this just a normal occurrence
>>698700461
I don't have any friends...
>>698700461
Literally habe no motivation in life. Have a criminology degree, hold an advanced first aid ticket, several years of constructiom experience, 1000hrs of various heavy equipment experience and I'm a decent welder and carpenter
>>698716484
Thanks OP if I die tonight because she killed me my name is Boris
>>698716503
Nah man. Invest in personal finance classes, seminars, books, audio books, any.
Youll be surprised the shit u learn
I get on bigger pockets com all the time.
Like minded richfag wanna bes abound.
We'll get there anon.
>>698700461
How to live?
Premature ejaculation.
>>698700648
Depending on where in your bowels it's found you may have the option of surgical removal. I had colon colitis and had a large part of my large intestine removed. If its in the small intestine you sadly end up with an ostomy. There is also the option of chemo though most doctors will recommend this if the cancer has spread or if they believe it has good chance of spreading.
Ever since I broke up with my ex almost 4 years ago, I haven't felt much for another person. Landed a sweet programming job in Germany, but still feeling pretty miserable. Been drinking a lot (although never so much that I can't function).
Been talking with a girl friend I've known since high school (who I had a crush on back then) and told her that she's the only person who has made me feel something lately, but she's back home and I probably won't go back. Although nothing came out of it, I'm pretty sure I guillotined that friendship (one of the few I had left).
wat do
>>698716398
Then go ahead.
Shit, you got your shit together. You know your options and apparently their consequences. Just choose and follow along.
I don't even know what I want from life.
>>698700461
I need a job, and I need one fast. Not helping things is the fact that my state raised the minimum wage in January, so a sizable chunk of the unskilled workforce got laid off. Now everyone and their uncle is looking for a job. I've applied everywhere in town and the precious few jobs I managed to get an interview for all went to someone else.
>>698700642
Start on an ssri. If your depressed this will help, most people who start ssri's have trouble achieving erections fir the first few weeks as their body adjusts to the new level of neuro transmitters.
>>698700461
am fat
>>698716277
Organize your daily activities so you have a clear plan. Start early in the day accomplishing tasks. Also read through my posts in this thread, I've answered alot that are similar to your situation.
>>698716398
Just do retail ( flexible hours) or secretary work(downtime to do homework)
>>698716503
To get to that point you would have to work at least 10-15 years at a great job to save that much after normal expenses. You need to think more realistically. You need a good career
>>698716512
Have you heard of a period? If that's not the case, the fact that you are upset over 1week of not having sex means you have a problem.
>>698716517
Look through the thread I've offered advice on this already.
>>698716742
Explore new things & you need to do some self realization to understand you are in a good place compared to alot of people & you shouldn't take it for granted.
>>698717090
Less porn. Less death grip. More foreplay. Exercise.
I'm 5'8'' (1.72m) which I consider short. How the fuck do I fix that?
is uni worth it or should i just drop out famalam
>>698717374
Get involved with new hobbies. Just go serial dating. Don't take it too seriously & just relax & try & have fun. You just need to get involved with more girls & explore your options.
>>698717441
Search for something out of state or try a temp agency in the meantime. Keep applying for everything.
>>698717821
Exercise & eat better
I get mad at people who enjoy rape hentai and guro. Like seriously mad.
>>698718026
i'm in retail lol, want to do cashiering or just something easy
>>698700461
>>698718833
I have a hobby, I play guitar and saing, it doesn't help at all. Been trying to meet new people but it just goes nowhere real fast.
>>698718833
Go run 5 times a week, lost 20 kg a year ago, gained everything back
>>698718406
You don't. You accept it.
>>698718457
University is only worth it if you picked a good major.
>>698718981
Stay off 4chan then
>>698718987
Then you have your answer, just find a position at a different place & explain your availability
>>698700461
the girl of my absolutest dreams lives 3000 kms away from me.
>inb4 kill yourself
I got an infection downstairs that basically meant my dick was pumping battery acid and the docs were so biblically incompetent at helping me that now I'll probably never have sex again because the urethra is all fucked up.
I've spent over a year going to the docs and telling them that I got an infection which has left lasting damage but they just don't help me. Like they literally cannot wrap their heads around it. I go in and say "I had an infection which was eventually treated but it has caused lasting damage to my urethra which causes me pain and discomfort and I can't have sex and if I do it's literally one minute and then I'm in pain for a while and it has taken so long to fix that my partner fucking left me" and they just stutter and refer me to another department.
Everyone told me I needed to see a guy in a particular department since no one I got referred to was qualified to help me, and then when I got in a room with him after a year of being bounced around he basically walks in and goes "What you lying for?" and prescribes me viagra to "Help the erectile dysfunction" even though I explained that I couldn't get hard sometimes because my fucking cock was hurting and that kind of kills your mood. I've even tried the viagra but it obviously hasn't helped.
The worst thing is it turns out I had a pretty good dick. I'd actually got to use it for a few months and got a lot of compliments and now I'll probably be alone forever because who the hell wants to date a man who can't give dick?
>>698719239
>stay off 4chan
I don't solve problms by ignoring them
Why do you do this OP, you're giving this false impression to all these anons they have someone to talk to share their stories. After their one question they'll go back to suffering alone, living their life.
>>698700461
>22
Mom and dad died due to cancer.
Only finished high school because of it.
Living in shit country, with a shit jobs which pay 180eur/month, but am in debt about 4000eur.
Bank wants it in a month.
If you find a way past this without me becoming a gigolo, you are god.
>>698716512
If you were sexually active then she suddenly stopped and become defensive about it then she's probably cheated or maybe you knocked her up.
Lay off for a little while and see how it develops. If it persists then find out what's happened, because if it carries on then something clearly has.
>>698719110
Then get involved in more. Learn more. That really isn't enough. Ones that you can enjoy or share with others. Or that have clubs or groups. Being 2 dimensional by having 2 interests, & your programming job won't get you far.
>>698719192
Being in shape isn't a 1 & done. It's a lifestyle.
>>698719428
Someone has to move. Or both move somewhere together. Find a way.
>>698719440
Find doctors in a different state or country because I think you may be in Antarctica.
>>698719440
this kills the man, no really sorry for your loss dude
>>698719239
studying comp eng at my country's top university
i never really studied at school but decided to go into study monk mode for a year to pass the entrance exams and get into a good uni
turns out i cant be bothered with studying one bit,which means i can't keep up with my uni's curriculum
is it worth it sucking everything up and forcing myself into getting a degree?
>>698719954
Thanks anon. I hope she didn't cheat on me. Do girls become less interested in sex when they get pregnant? She has an IUD so I doubt that's the case.
I'm in love with a girl who doesn't love me back, and feel nothing towards other women, and have been faking my way through empty relationships just to feel alive while I know I am generally lacking something inside.
I am in a relationship with a girl that constantly doubts us having chemistry.
She says she doesn't feel like she's in a relationship with me.
I have to pretend like I'm superman and act super confident all the time, because if I don't I feel like everything will fall apart.
It's starting to kill me.
Yesterday she told me she's having doubts again.
She's away visiting her family now, and we usually talk every day, except for today.
Probably the first day in a year we haven't spoken to each other at all.
It hurts. Help me op.
>>698719549
Where else do you run into people who like hentai then you weirdo.
>>698719774
If I can at least help a few escape their fate then it is worth it to me
>>698719808
Seek government assistance & explain situation. Or drug trade. Or flee your country.
>>698720723
Seriously it has been a week you need chill. No wonder she needs a break.
>>698720257
100% yes. Just grind through it. You have a good opportunity to get a degree to get good jobs to make you money so you can do whatever you want. The alternative is to dropout & struggle & then have to pick it back up later on. Don't set yourself back. Just do it now & get it over with
>>698707996
I know that feel ;_;
I wan't muderer all peaple i see.
>>698720067
>Find doctors in a different state.
That's good advice but I was in my final year of Uni when it happened and the docs there were useless, then I moved back to home city and they've been bouncing me around forever. About to move to another city to do a Masters but I don't want to have to restart this process all over again because it'll just add another year of no dick to my life and I'm already starting to lose it.
Every time I see a nice girl on the street now I just think "They would never love or want me. Even if they wanted to."
>>698720151
Thanks, anon. The worst thing is people say "Oh sex doesn't actually fix anything" but it did. Having a regular sex life and girlfriend who loved me levelled my mind and body out and I was finally happy and stable.
It feels like I've been living in black and white ever since, and always will be now.
Op here. I'm done. Good luck little ones
>>698721805
come on
one last
ciao
>>698721411
Govt doesn't give a fuck. No money to flee. Go too few friends to sell drugs to.
>>698700461
No gf and terrible social anxiety, pretty good looking though apparently.
Small penis
>>698721805
leaving just as I come with my problems :(
>>698721692
oh but it's just the sex, right... No, no it's not it affects selfconfidence, courage. Not alone physical pain but worst of all it fucks with your mind
Got kinda the same problem m8, being a 19 yo kissless virgin. It eats at you it's not just sex it's being undisered, missing out. Welp I'm ranting again...
>>698700461
capitalism is destroying the world
I have no fap material
>>698721171
I'm this guy >>698716277
And debated it with my friend
Sometimes life doesn't give you want you want,it can be cruel or ideal, it depends on what position are you on.the thing is that if she feels that you don't have any chemistry, try to explain to her that you love her and you are seeing a great future with her, if she doesn't feel the same well... The chain is broken , I am sure you will feel heartbroken but you have to search for the right person. Imagine if you figured it out years later, it would be a waste of time and would hurt you both of you at the end.
>>698700461
GF broke up with me and I want her back
>>698723264
thank you anon
Crashed my car, need money
>>698723264
What my friend is probably trying to say.
8F you have no chemistry.don't waste your time trying to force something to happen.
Let life take it's course and yourselves to find the right person for each other.
If you love her.let her go be happier with another.and yourself will find a person more appropriate to yourself >>698723723
Receding hairline and I'm only 24. Really starting to damage my self confidence. I've heard cutting out coffee can help. I drink 1-2 cups of it a day.
I want to experiment with my sexuality without being caught, getting an STD, or losing my dignity
>>698700461
After three months after breakup and no contact i've slept with my ex. A week later I slept with another woman. And after sex she said to me I'm still not over with my ex. Looks like she was right. I still miss her somehow in those moments i've got nothing to distract me from doing so.
I dont think its possible to get back to her, because she's a lot more mature than me and got already over it (thats what she said)
What do OP?
>>698703327
shes not asexual, she just doesn't want to have sex with you
I don't find the motivation I used to have for being good at what I am studying.
I haven't been to Walmart in over a week.
