Feels thread?
I need a Feels thread.
I texted her (fucking dubs) and I just miss her.
I just miss her Anon. I know I'll get over her. But damn!
>>697193733
faggot
I feel you OP. Just got dumped yesterday and the only thing I can feel is this pain in my chest.
Almost three years with her. I was getting ready to propose.
Shit is no fun.
>>697193908
>>697193733
She doesn't miss you.
>>697193908
HAHAHA
fucking clingy cunts are annoying as fuck
>>697194005
>pain in my chest
see a doctor. lung cancer/heart disease are serious killers.
>>697193733
Pretend you're over her. It works. She will probably even feel guilty, just don't text her anymore. You'll find a better one.
Tip: DO NOT GET BACK INTO IT AGAIN. SHE PLAYED YOU.
Laugh at beta faggots thread? Why didn't you say so!
>>697194281
>She will probably even feel guilty, just don't text her anymore.
Didn't text her since the break-up. I'm not a noob
Still hurts like Hell
>>697194433
There's worse things in life I believe. Girls are not important if they cheat on you.
1/4
>>697194005
Get on my level, gf broke up with me after 5 years together, it seems she had been in love with some other dude from where she worms for a couple months. she swears they "just kissed a few times", but fuck that.
I loved her too much and even knowing she cheated on me i tried to somehow fix things. I mean, we had already made a few plans to get married and shit.
Its been like 2 weeks and everything is slowly getting better, i still love her and i wish i could turn back time to be perfect for her so she doesnt have eyes for anyone else but me.
Shit sucks but im getting better.
Music, friends and family have been helpful, good luck to you.
3/4
Well, Anon. First off, sorry for your loss, my condolences. Being dumped (or girls dying for that matter) sucks, but it's not the end of the world. From your relationships you learn a lot about yourself, and about what you want and don't want in a woman in the future. I take it you've been madly in love with this girl, and Anon, I will tell you this: Never be in an intimate relationship with someone whom you madly love, they will use you, and they will hurt you, and you will never feel that you truly deserve them. In the future you need to find a girl who don't make you fly in the sky out of love, but a girl whom you can evolve with, not one who you are likely to grow away from. Good luck Anon, you will find you true love at one point.
>>697195276
last text 10/10 fucking kekd
>>697195298
Where she works*
Anyway for some reason while i was all depressed and shit i started deleating our porn videos. Which i kinda regret now, fapping to the other surviving half of my folder of vids and pics with my dick in her mouth.
>>697195331
>girl cheated on him
>tell her to 'eat cock'
No but in a seriousness, I know this shit hurts, but you'll get over it. She wasn't good anyways, right? I mean, you knew tons of flaws.
>>697195364
Hope this guy murdered her in her sleep
>>697194395
something like this happened with me when I was 16, it still hurts
I've got a girlfriend for about half a year now. My first relationship, this being in love-thing is kinda cool, makes me discover things and feelings I never thought they existed. Even though everything is good in our relationship, I kinda like to think about the time it'll be over. I don't want it to be over, but still, thinking about it makes me sad. And it feels pretty bliss to be sad about it, idk. Keep posting, I want to cry.
>>697195364
How does shit like this happen? Unless she was drunk the roommate must be the smoothest talker in the world or she just is a whore.
I don't understand the whole Oops I cheated thing.
>>697195331
>implying all girls are the same
>implying there is no space between being an angel and having cheat buttsex
>>697194632
Cringe
>>697196558
This is what will happen when she leaves you:
At first you wont accept it, you will ask her why, and whatever reason she gives wont be enouhj for you. "We can fix this", "it doesnt matter", "together we can make it work together".
Then you'll get mad, you will say things that you dont really mean, you will fight over the smallest, most irrelevant things.
You will feel yourself sinking deeper and deeper, and it will hurt you seeing how she doesnt seem to be suffering as much as you.
You'll cry every day and ask her to come back, she will say that she wont and you will try to convince her that she somehow she still loves you, because how could she ever just forget about you that quickly? Or maybe she started slowly forgetting you long ago and you just didnt notice. You wonder which one is worse, not having an answer.
>>697196558
>>697197255
You will ask yourself what you could have changed to prevent this.
"What if i did this?", "What if i didnt do that?".
In the end it doesnt matter, and days drift by without you realizing that she has already moved on and you just sit in the dark every night, wondering if shes thinking about you.
You will be checking your cellphone every 2 minutes, hoping for any kind of message or call from her.
You will dream of her kissing you and telling you that everything will be fine, and you will wake up crying knowing that it wont, because for you this wasnt "just another relationship". She was the one, and you lost her. She is never coming back, and every minute without you hearing her voice or seeing her smile or tasting her lips is hell.
>Lost the girls of my dreams to a fucking beta faggot
>Lost my bestfreinds
>Be Beta weird fucking guy
>Get depressed
>No money
>No one wants to be around me
>No one to talk to
>Suicidal thoughts.
>>697197255
Thank you.
>>697197255
Dubs speak the truth. I went through this when I was 16. Luckily it was in the 90's and my crying and pleading was done by phone, not plastered all over the internet. I fucked her best friend a few months later and that was the best cure of all.
>>697193733
>feels thread
Posts a test about a guy setting up bis gf to fuck a guy with aids. Nice thread opie
>>697197831
I truly just want to give you a hug, man. Your words sound hurting.
>>697197969
kill yourself
>>697198460
oh shit watch out for these edges kid, they are really sharp
>>697198460
If ever did, i would've taken you with me in death.
>>697198268
Its been rough man, i would gladly accept that hug..
>>697198460
Faggot
>>697198658
Man up
>>697195364
Tell me more pls
>>697198845
I will.
>>697198624
>>697198636
>>697198801
Samefaggoing this hard
>kill yourself
>>697198845
>>697198460
same edge fag
also just like>>697199007
>>697198658
I would be glad to hear your story, maybe we can help you in one way or another
>>697199068
r/theredpill
never look back
>>697199124
ayyyy
>>697193908
Oreganalis postus
>>697199124
You guys are clingy as fuck.
Here's some advice:
After you do the basic pursuing of a woman to show your interest and you know that she has some interest, you no longer should be the one doing most of the contacting, she must be the one to initiate contact 80-90% of the time.
It's simple: If they are pursuing you, then they can't reject you.
If a girl rejects your advances to meet up twice (without giving alternative dates), have some fucking self respect and walk away. If she is interested, she will contact you and bring up getting together, if not, take the fucking hint.
If a woman ever tells you that "we should be friends", say no and walk the fuck away but tell her she can contact you if she changes her mind to keep the door open. Never initiate contact ever again with her and keep your conversations polite but very short if the initiates contact and tell her you have shit to do and that she should keep in touch.
If a woman lets you walk out of her life, then she wasn't worth it in the first place, her loss, know your worth, faggots.
With this attitude YOU will be the prize and be the one telling women to stop contacting you because they don't meet YOUR standards (i.e. they only want friendship or whatever the fuck or it just doesn't work for you).
Have abundance mentality, even if you don't have anything else going on. Always come from a position of strength.
>>697199435
I mean that would be enough to hold me over. I just wanna see you naked.
>>697193733
why do people need to be in a relationship? IM 27 and have never had a girlfriend. Ive only had sex a few times wiht 2 women. sex and being in a relationship is just so overrated.
All i need is some weed and yoga. I guess im in a better situation/place in life where i dont need to feel validated by someone of the opposite sex.
>>697199435
Zozzle
>>697193733
My granddad had a fall last week he was on the ground unconscious for over 24 hours.
When we found him he had shit and pissed himself.
He could not talk properly due to complications.
He is now in hospital with severe brain shrinkage.
pneumonia.
heart complications.
and currently battling a rough detox from 36 years of alcohol abuse.
I love my granddad /b. He is the only guy who has been there for me. He is a alcoholic but he never hurt anyone.
He lost every love he had to cancer and that is why he drinks. He has always been a loner. He is a sick pervert, the kind that would tell you what he would do to all the hot bitches that he sees. He loves gory horrors and laughs at demented shit. I know if he was young in this modern day he would visit here often and post in feels threads, call you all faggots and laugh at the cucks.
Pray for Grand Papa Luigi, he's the only father figure i have bros.
>>697199878
>saved
on a serious note:
good advice, thanks anon
>>697195364
Reminds me of my girlfriend :/
>>697199127
Thanks but im afraid theres not much you can do to help. Im >>697195298 , i've just been trying to go out more and spend time with people i havent talked in a while, just to see whats up with their lives.
She ended up blocking me from everything and the last thing i said to her is that i hope one day, many years from now, we will meet in the street or even in another country and we will be able to talk about how we were so young and stupid.
I loved being with her, wished it could last forever, but just gotta keep pushing forward i guess.
>>697196571
>I don't understand the whole Oops I cheated thing.
I can help you anon:
"My bf is a good lad, but this Chad gives me the thrill of being a good little whore, because I cant be faithful like a mature adult."
"Oh shit, I got caught being a whore. I feel no regrets about cheating, my only regret is actually getting caught. I better try to appease my bf before he dumps me and I lose all the financial and emotional-sponge perks of "dating" him."
Hope that cleared up the picture.
>>697199878
This can all be summed up with "put some basic value on yourself", and is good advice for all interactions.
I know it's bullshit, but I fell for somebody who seemed to feel the same (kissed me and slept with me) then they told me, that it's nothing serious... I'm slowly becoming an alcoholic/ drug addict because I can't deal with the rejection
>>697200322
>This can all be summed up
Sometimes it doesn't need to be summed up though. Sometimes it needs to be drawn out for someone to completely understand.
>>697196654
"It was just a slip up anon teehee :) everyone makes mistakes we're not perfect :))))"
"it was just once and i hated it :(((("
>>697195331
>EAT COCK
Every time.
>>697200182
do you have any hobbies anon? if not you could try something new. i know it sounds stupid but it really helps to forget those memories
>>697200454
yea you're right. in some cases you need everything in detail to understand and apply something especially in cases like this
>>697200090
Amen Bruva.
>>697199878
Good post, anon. Good post.
Saved for future use.
>>697200540
i thorougly love my gf but did cheat on her once, so what? I would understand if she did the same, though i wouldn't want to know.
>>697198801
newfag
>>697200144
You're not wrong.
Both by my post and because I forgot not all boards have the bot.
>>697200184
Shit like this makes me sad. Nothing it that is particularly cringey and nothing implies she's a shitty person, shes just fat. She even says she wants someone she can go to the gym with so she's probably wanting to sort that out as well. Shes probably just a lonely lady whose kids have grown up and left and now she's alone.
>>697200419
alcohol is kinda okay, avoid hard drugs tho
i started out as a social drinker, took a couple beer here and there
then i started taking 3-4, then 5-6, got to the point where i had to drink at least 7 or 8 to start feeling anything, but i was still only drinking at parties
of course, i started to going to more parties than usual
then i started buying my own beer and other stuff, mostly rum
i'd spend my wekend nights drinking until i couldnt see properly
i'd only drink one or two days per week, but when i did i would drink quite a lot you see
funny thing is, when she left me, instead of drinking more i just stoped
started doing things to better myself, all that extra free time i had from not going on dates or preparing gifts would go into me doing excersice and studying for my masters degree
try to stay productive, start with tiny goals and work from there, you will make it man
>>697200825
i mean im fine, i just get sad when i start remembering all those important moments we shared, i just try to not think about it
i feel like if i stay occupied then i will be able to slowly stop caring about her
i cant tell if my just lying to myself or not, but it seems to be working so far
>>697201267
Well you fuck her then.
>>697201455
You don't have to be attracted to someone to empathise. Grow up.
Just give up on women, AVOID THEM AT ALL COSTS. They will not bring you happiness. And if they do, it will come with a flood of crippling sadness. Just say fuck it to all of them.
>>697201057
>so what?
So, it's likely that she'll cheat again. You're walking on thin ice, anon. I hope I'm wrong but regardless I would suggest you keep a backup plan just in case.
Oh, and try not to be a white knight and blindly defend her actions. You're the one getting harmed when she cheated.
>>697201597
Your mom.
>>697201609
This guy gets life.
>>697201267
My post was not to be sympathetic for her. You're misunderstanding the point of the post, anon.
She's a fatty who is deluded into thinking she's WAY better than she is, and on top of that, she's exclusively asking for a super attractive buff dude, while she puts no effort into her looks.
To use /r9k/ terminology, this is a classic case of a roastie hitting the 30 barrier.
>>697199435
KEK
>>697201609
Woman are illogial beings. Yes, they will bring you both sadness and happiness, but i think its finding at least one who you can connect with and give it a shot.
After some time maybe you could end up realising that its worth it. And even if it doesnt work out, you will end up learning lots of things about people, relationships, and most importantly about yourself.
Things that only come from certain special experiences and moments.
>>697200925
HOLY SHIT
>HOLY SHIT
HOLY SHIT
>HOLY SHIT
HOLY FUCKING SHIT
>>697197831
or you can be a cold bastard and just don't care.
when things run their course, that's that. not worth dwelling on what is rapidly becoming the distant past
that being said, it will still hurt. Break down when alone, don't whine to friends, get through it by focusing on hobbies,work and friends.
just my -hopefully not- shit opinion
>>697202147
>Woman are illogial beings
Pic related.
Also, your post was very insightful. Good post, anon.
>>697201440
Thanks, but to be honest I don't even drink in a social context anymore, I find myself drinking anlone every other day
I just try to forget anything I ever felt for...
>>697193733
Dude, stop fucking texting her. Delete her fucking facebook, go nail a few bitches and make fucking sure you have no contact with her for at least a few weeks. Don't talk about her with your friends, don't start feels threads about her online, delete all the pictures of her on your phone, and move the fuck on.
And for fuck sakes, do not even consider the 'friendship' thing.
>>697201440
nope its not lying its actually working this way.
when your mind is busy doing things then it doesnt have time to remember. and after sometime your mind will start to forget these memories completly, or atleast a big part of them
>>697194632
didn't know this was a cringe thread
>>697193733
Nice dubs.
>>697202717
The first 2 images didn't give it away?
>>697202283
The "cold bastard" route doesnt exactly work because you're only lying to yourself.
I dont think your opining is shit, its quite true that you shouldnt whine to others and let the world know that you're hurt.
The world moves on, with or without you, cant afford to get left behind.
However i do think thats having a small healing period is the healthy way. Accept that it hurts, thats its over, and that you need to take your next step in life.
>>697194632
Shit that was hard to get through..
>>697202717
>>697202851
>not even reading the rest of the thread
>why even bother to post if you dont like it
>muh edginess
>>697194112
At what point does someone become too clingy? What are some red flags for being too clingy? Or is being too clingy just something that someone complains about when someone they aren't that interested in keeps talking to them?
>>697200147
I got you /b/ro
>>697199878
Sounds like a chess strategy.
Chess strategy works for dating ?
>>697195213
>>697195276
>>697195331
>>697195364
she honestly deserves to be fucking drilled through her vag with about fifty razors super glued onto the drill, and the guy she had anal with needs to have his dick cut off, attached to a spiked bat, and beaten through his skull with said bat
those are some fucked up people.
>>697200147
I'm here man.
>>697196558
You shouldn't think about when it will end, but instead enjoy it while it lasts. I've never dated a girl for longer than a month, either due to them cheating on me, dumping me, or just flat out ignoring me. Enjoy what you have, even if you know deep down that it will end someday.
>>697203194
- calling her constantly
- touching her all the time (always holding hands with her, arm round her in public etc)
- replying to texts immediately
- always needing to spend time with her
and so on
>>697203438
They call it Game for a reason.
>>697203194
>>697203438
>keked a little bit inside
thx anon
>>697203315
>>697203501
Thanks guys, it means a lot
man the fuck up. I've never had this problem, look at the problem logically. You don't have her anymore, but guess what she's probably a cunt as most females are. Considering you don't have her anymore i can say that she is probably in this category. Find yourself a real woman, relationships are investments. Don't invest your time/effort/energy/money in that bitch. find a girl that deserves it op..
>>697193733
>
>>697200147
Does not sound like a good role model.
Time for you to lurk on fit.
You're welcome.
>>697193908
>>697194025
>>697194395
>>697195213
>>697195276
>>697195331
>>697195364
These guys message girls like they're a diary or something. Sperging out over a text message is prolly the worst thing they could do.
>>697203814
>posting Facebook cancer
>>697202707
>your mind will start to forget these memories completly, or atleast a big part of them
i dont know how to feel about this, i do have a really fucking bad memory, we would often argue because i would forget "important stuff", like her favorite song or shit like that
"i cant belive you've known me for so long and you dont know the answer to these questions! [coworker name] has only known me for 2 weeks and he can perfectly remeber!"
i dont want to just forget she existed and act like it never happened, i want to be able to recall those moments we shared, i just dont want to feel a strong emotional connection to those things anymore
My girlfriend broke up with me only a few days ago and I want to call her so badly and just cry.
She was always there for me when these moments occurred but now she's the cause of the moment and I don't know what to do.
Please help me, I don't want to be alone.
>>697203883
>knowing facebook cancer
>>697193908
S O U L L E S S
O U L L E S S
U L L E S S
L L E S S
L E S S
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>>697203588
What often is always/constantly? is weekly too often?
And is replying to text immediately a bad thing if she does the same thing?
>>697203470
I'd rather be the one time bro that widened her than the long time bro left to cope with some missconceived property use regulations.
>>697203997
Nobody wants to be with a needy crying man. Stop buying into this bullshit that your allowed to feel stuff, man up and go get the things you want. Create a good life for yourself don't put up with women's bullshit and you will attract all kinds of fantastic women who will do whatever you want.
>>697203932
yea the problem is, that it will be probably otherwise. im so sorry pal but normally those emotions and feels will stay stronger and longer in your head then the actual memory of moments
>>697203997
I know how you feel, but back then I didn't find a solution... maybe it helps to distract yourself (any hobbies? friends?)
>>697194395
Cringe more than anything
>>697203997
Please take my advice. Don't call her. Don't text her. Find a friend to hang out with, do something constructive. If you even want the slightest chance of getting her back, you can't come off as a pussy.
But she's probably got some other attention anyway, that's what these bitches do. So follow her lead, find another bitch and get it out of your system.
>>697203997
No one is ever truly alone anon. It might seem like it, but lots of people care about you.
Its okay to cry. You dont have to be so strong all the time.
Give yourself a break, let it out and then you'll be able to come back wiser and better.
I bet she was a really great thing in your life, and you forget whats its like without her, but i know that you will manage and that you will find something else to aim for.
I know what its like feeling like theres nobody to talk to, because she would be the one to always hear your problems.
Write down how you feel, a pen and a piece of paper can be really helpful at times.
Guide yourself. Good luck.
>>697200147
sorry to hear it bro. Im here if you want to talk
>>697195276
>His brother died.
uuuughhhh evil skanks
>>697204156
Just don't base your whole existence around her. Be a real person with real things going on in your life as well.
>>697203997
If you have any hobbies, do them more.
If not, find new one. You will meet new people and
after (maybe even a short) time you will find new friends. You will never be alone anon as long as you find a will to try, and eventhough it might be hard sometimes you will get over it and you will feel even stronger for beating this hard time.
You can do it. I believe in you.
This whole thread is cringe
There are no feels here
>>697199878
But what if a woman is introverted and/or shy?
>>697194632
This is the kind of person who complains that we don't need feminism because women are already treated equally
>>697204790
>Death in the family=consequence-free cheating anal
Skank logic is the best logic
>>697199878
looks like you had corey help you out, huh?
>>697199878
I used to pay stupid teenager games like this. You know where it gets you? You'll have no friends or girlfriends, because you've ghosted everyone after they don't fall in love with you in the first few weeks after meeting you.
Be genuine with people, and they'll be genuine back to you. Don't follow arbitrary standards in contacting them. If you aren't playing a game with them, then they'll realize you aren't playing a game with them. And sometimes they'll say "no", but that's the worst they can say. Then you can be friends, and that's alright. Friends are good. The more the merrier.
>>697205027
>not leaving the thread silently
You, sir, are the cringe
>>697203820
You don't know shit about him fella.
he worked until his body could no longer keep up. He taught 3 grandsons how to be men, he hosted huge parties that 100's would attend, he fucked women half his age, played rhythm guitar in numerous bands and so much more all while under the influence of whiskey. like to see any cuck in your bloodline pull that off you piece of shit.
>>697205031
Then they don't contact you, because they're insecure that you won't contact them, which is the same reason you aren't contacting them.
>>697203438
Yes.
It works because women are like cats, they come to you and purr and want your affection and then they withdraw and do their own thing. If you pursue them when they don't want your affection then they run away or tell you "let's just be friends" because you are overpursuing them (i.e you aren't on the same page).
The strategy can be summed up with "let them come to you". I haven't had a single woman tell me "let's just be friends", as they were the ones pursuing me (after my initial pursuing).
I'm not the most attractive guy either, but now I'm going to the gym so things should get even easier in the next few years.
>>697205201
THIS
>>697200000
test post please ignore
>>697205656
It doesn't look like your script worked.
>>697205201
What is this? A sane person? *screenshot*
>>697199435
Do you think he got the photo
Fapped
Then threw himself out of a window
>>697205201
This guy knows. Fuck all that petty shit, i tell my younger brother the same when he rattles on about how many kisses his "girlfriend" sent him back and if he should send less (he's 9). Be genuine with people and if they aren't genuine back then tell them to go fuck themselves. At least you can look yourself in the mirror and know you're not a knock off version of yourself, be less prone to a mid-life crisis and probably end up with some strong relationships with people. The world is full of snakes too afraid to tell you how they really feel, fuck being one of them. Having to live among them is enough for me thank you.
>>697205949
would be a /b/-tier story
When you posted >>697199878, I thought you might be on to something.
But now that you've posted >>697205373, I can feel you emitting some genuine autism.
>>697205201
Friends don't help me cum and that's all that matters
>>697205201
exactly. dont try to put yourself in a fake abundance mentality. thats delusional and will completely fuck everything up
>>697197255
Not having an answer part is the worst part.
I was dumped once when I thought I was in love.
She refused to expand on why she dumped me.
It drove me mad for over five years.
Bitches are spineless and selfish. This is what I finally learned from that.
I've been listening to a lot of happy music recently even though every day I become a little more unhinged.
>>697205201
>>697206050
>faggots with no game
>>697195331
need to fuck her in the ass with the knife dildo from seven
hey so some of you faggots here are feeling sad, i'm a faggot too but things are going pretty well for me, however like every one else who is feeling good, i haven't forgotten about you sad fucks or when i was a sad fuck
People have always said "love is a game" i'm going to try and conceptualize that for you faggots and maybe redefine it for more modern times. So treat love like a game, but like a game you're more familiar with, say like an RPG.
You're playing runescape, chopping wood for that sweet 31 wood cos i want a mith axe and some faggot g mauler pks me, what do i do? mindlessly go back to chopping wood, cos its a game right? the death is just one of many delays in me getting 31 wood, just like every bank trip, every broken axe and random event is too. It's obviously worse than an annoying mime event, but it's still just a delay in me getting that sweet green axe
>>697206243
>faggot who calls building relationships with people "game"
You're probably the type of cuck with no self confidence, watching Mystery "the pick up artist" on youtube jotting down notes. You have a flame button shirt with short sleeves, a cool as fuck pair o' two tone sports shades. Going around the beach asking girls to play rock, paper, scissors for a kiss. Go top yourself m8
>>697200090
Kys junkie
>>69719987
Coach Corey Wayne is that you?
>>697205373
women are not cats you fucking retard
>>697206747
hey faggot see >>697207002
>>697206747
made me kek, thanks for that analogy
>>697199878
One of those RedPill meatheads, watch out guys.
Just be genuine, like damn. There isn't a strategy, this isn't a game. Be a normal motherfucker and get to know people. If someone doesn't want to hangout, obviously move on and find someone that does. No reason to make it some ideology.
Self-worth and common sense is all it is. No reason to parade yourself as some "Alpha Male". Not every woman is the same, but you'd know that if you talked to some.
I love how she says "we're not perfect angels" like it's an excuse to be a bitch just because you're a woman lmao oh god.... fucking trash whore.
>>697202650
>And for fuck sakes, do not even consider the 'friendship' thing.
T H I S
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>>697205201
It's not game playing, it's being self centered and focused on your life. Focus on your career and things that make you happy in life, not women, let them come to you.
If your interests and the womans interests don't align, then you will have to let them go. There is no reason staying in a fake "friendship" hoping they will sooner or later realize how "great of a guy you are". If you have no romantic interest in a girl, then go ahead and befriend her.
I personally do not have female friends, because they simply can't provide the same level of loyalty, honor and friendship that a male friend can provide. But hey, to each their own.
I only have romantic interests in women and I make it very clear to them.
>>697205031
>implying shy women exist
Get real, anon. You're on /b/, you should know this by now.
>>697207272
fr. don't go around doing this type of shit, it doesnt work
>>697207002
>>697207422
I think we're saying the same thing, buddy :^)
>>697193733
>>697194005
control your brain or it will control you
you feel only what you want to feel
>>697195276
This is great.
>>697207179
i said love is a game, i didn't refer to building relationships with people game, and where i'm from game is what you shoot, nigger
which brings me to my next point about gaming and love, it works best to keep your "online" persona or at least that mentality with girls, you know how online you're the only good one on your team, everyone else is an unreliable fucking retard who doesn't deserve to own a console?
That's exactly the mentality you need to have with girls, don't be offended by anything, don't be hurt by anything because it's a game, just have fun, fuck around, online it doesn't matter if you have a crazy ass negative k/d, you're still the only one capturing the flag as your team mate faggots dribble over their controllers and are cannon fodder
Can we get some feels pictures?
>>697195331
>How can I prove it to you?
>EAT COCK
She already did, kek
>>697207396
don't listen to this retard. do you know how many couples started out as friends?? practically all of the ones that are successful. only do this bullshit if you're looking for rejection and short term relationships
>>697200540
>>697200540
Those things probably make a whistling noise in the wind
>>697205064
>implying theres a correlation between that stance and this type of shitstain
Tumblr pl leave or kys whichever you can do the fastest
>>697207521
ahahahahaha oh kek that's perfect
>>697205373
To sum up : no.
Women are not your property, they do not belong to you, and if you are not hot, you have no say in their process of choosing with whom they want to have incredibly good sex with.
Your post is good though, because you get to the point.
The point is simple :
1-You do not go to the gym, and you do not get choosed for yourself, ever.
2-You go to the gym, and you are picked up for free sex as long as you go to the gym and remain incredibly good looking for today's standards.
If you don't go to the gym, the answer is payed sex if legal in your country, or derpression inducin fap for ever.
Only if you have huge inheritance, or insane genetics (for today's beauty standards, which were ugly in the past...), may you get free sex with the girl of your choice.
>>697207133
kek.
Do you know what a simile is?
Hmm
>>697199878
This works if you're attractive. If not, girls will never contact you
>>697207927
THIS
>>697194632
hey im going to UCL in september wahoo
>>697207932
your simile is fucking retarded. women are nothing like small, furry, four legged animals
idiot
>>697207973
i'm a pretty attractive guy, but i think what is far more attractive is being mentally attractive, whether that's having a cool outlook on life, having a relaxed, mellow personality, or being slightly introverted, i think those are the things that make girls tick, girls see a thousand guys a day and don't obsess and have this kind of "eye candy" phenomena that guys have, you've gotta be a substantial person to get girls, not a substantial looking person.
>>697205201
cant stress this enough, this is an example of an attractive personality, just an honest person who doesn't fuck around and is nice, + whatever personal qualities and quirks they have
>>697195213
>>697195276
>>697195331
>>697195364
It's not still 2007 you cunt. Delete these pics. They're too goddamn old
>>697207927
I'm glad you put the truth out there. Now I can feel alright about paying for sex.
Can I post some feels? It's not about love or girls or shit, it's about my platonic friends... Or maybe my realization they aren't my real friends or bros. Maybe one of them is a true bro that would bend over backwards for me, but the rest? Fuck them.
There's been two shows from artists I really want to see in my town which usually sucks for shows. The first one I ended up going with a random girl from the internet and it turned out really well. But the second time I've been asking everyone if they want to come with me (even offering to cover a ticket) and no one has said yes. I know, "go to a show alone pussy", but I did it once and it's not the same. No one can do me a solid and just accompany me to a show I really want to see.... Everyone is out for their own interests. I've done my part and gone to shows and events and shit with them... no one can do a solid for me.
I've been subscribing to the philosophy of "giving and not expecting anything back" for a while but fuck this.
>>697208904
I'll be reading the thread now, just got here and had to vent.
>>697205171
John?
>>697208533
>mentally attractive
none of us started out sad you fucking idiot, we became this way because we were bashed down for our looks and that caused us to lose that "mental attraction" that you talk about. "mental attractiveness" is literally nothing if you dont have the physical looks to match
>>697209016
small world...
>>697207735
No trying to hook up with slutty cunts for a one night stand is a game that both sexes play. Love however, is not a game. With that mentality you will never find it. And i'm not talking about some soppy rom-com love, i'm talking about having a family and shit. what are you going to do, play mind games with the mother of your children? Enjoy your life faggot, one day you're gonna get old and your dick will stop working. If you haven't found a mate by then you're gonna die a miserable old fuck alone in a hospital bed with nothing to comfort you but the memories of your sweet gaming days on COD
>>697196654
>implying all girls aren't the same
>>697195364
I WANT 2 die lmoa riparon
You young guys need to realise, and fast, that when you act the clingy, adoring, lovestruck boyfriend who constantly displays his need and adoration for the woman, said woman will lose respect for you. The worse you are with this behaviour, the more pathetic she'll think you are. This leads to cheating, eventual breakups and you sitting get in a dark room crying for months. Be a fucking man for fucks sake. The second a woman has any kind of control over you, it's over.
Need to vent feels.
So it was my birthday not too long ago.
Guess how many people said happy birthday to me? A grand total of one fucking person, and that person was my mum.
Why does no one like me, guys?
I try to make friends and people seem to want to talk to me. But then it comes to birthdays and such and no ones there. I even tried to organise something fun. Just drinking in a cheap pub, nice and casual. No one showed up. No one even contacted me about it.
Why am I so alone?
>>697193733
yeah I miss my "big love" or whatever you want to call it
you only get one everything after that is just trying to compensate for the loss
Ok, i have been there a few times, it broke me completely and now...
I'M BACK !
Anyway...
We are faggots.
I will not explain anything else, because I must be entertained by other threads. Such as ylyl etc...
Here is the truth pill :
1-You're depressed and shit. Blah blah, cry more : SHE left you for a more entertaining faggot, who will make her cum fast. She is right.
2-Save money.
3-Buy a trip to a hooker. In a hooker saloon. Treat the hooker respectfully. Cum in less than 30 seconds.
4-Go back home.
It took me 150 euros to understand it. 100 euros to go in the FKK club, 50 euros for the girl.
As i payed the 100 euros, I entered a room full of 9/10 women which were ALL willing to have sex with me.
As I left this blessed room, i entered back a reality where not a single women would be willing to even have a chat with me.
Because I am smelly, i am fat, i look poor, i am poor, i look disgusting. Juuuust like you guys.
If i want free sex, I go to the gym for years on. I am going to the gym, but not for free sex, just to feel good.
I respect women. I look like shit, i get no free pussy. Fair enough.
tldr : go to the gym, and go to hooker at least once.
>>697209165
well actually in my own life i'm fine in terms of finding love, or rather directing my way through life, but the people who come here for support tend to need to be told rather brashly to have confidence in themselves and to trust their judgements and walk their own way through life, because despite all this talk, every life is different and unique and nothing anybody says here will really apply, this is all just hypothetical talk to keep in mind
>>697209323
Doesn't help to be so detached that you fail to express yourself meaningfully when the time comes either.
>>697209799
also should probably say i'm not really the hook up type, so whenever i pursue a girl it's to be with them, and that i have no problem being friends with anybody because i'm a grown up, i dont need to have my dick in some slut to feel good about myself
>>697199878
that's not how people work dumbass
>>697193733
>I know I'll get over her.
I remember thinking that. A decade ago. Good luck!
>>697207521
I would not say feared, I would say sought after....
>>697200147
praying for grand papa luigi
the man sounds like someone who i might become one day...fuck
>>697194632
>actually using the word stalking
Yeah nah
>>697195641
no, no, no, no. do NOT fap to her. it will only prolong the hurt. get over her asap, delete everything you have of her. better yet, post em.
>>697199435
Too bad that dude is UGLY as fuck lmao
>>697200925
NOOOOOOO!!!!!
>>697199614
Don't forget faggots. I use "cutie" as a sign of contempt quite a bit.
>>697200925
That is so fucking sad
>>697195276
>OH MY BROTHERS DEAD ILL JUST FUCK MY ROOMMATES GFS ASS
>fucking dead
I just want a nice girl who's kind, sweet, and gentle and who wants to cuddle up with me and talk about things. Is that so bad?
>>697207927
Being attractive doesn't always work on it's own.
If you are attractive and they see you as "boyfriend material" then they wont put out as fast as when they just see you as an attractive fucktoy.
Example:
I went home with a chick after partying and we went to her place and she gave me a shit load of last minute resistance even though her pussy was SOAKING wet. It was like a waterfall down there but I still didn't get laid that night even though I did everything right.
Fast forward and we are dating and she keeps giving me last minute resistance most of the time. One time because I was getting text messages at 2 am in the morning while I was initiating sex with her. She got really insecure and whatnot because she thought that other girls wanted me that night etc. We had sex many times but she always gives me last minute resistance because I'm somewhat of an aloof asshole so she thinks that she's just another girl I'm fucking.
Fast forward a few months and she brings up exclusive dating. I tell her I still want to experiment around a bit etc. and she then asks me if I got anything with me (condoms) and we had sex in a public park.
I'm not really dating her anymore because she is insecure as fuck and constantly complains about me and wants me to change and has been really negative since the last few months. (i.e she isn't getting her way with me so she is trying to destroy my self esteem, instead of supporting me and making me want to commit to her for being great... yeah she isn't girlfriend material)
Moral of the story: She may be really attracted to you, but if you display good provider/boyfriend qualities then she WILL try to lock you down to a commitment and she will give you a lot of last minute resistance which will frustrate you both and sooner or later turn into resentment for the both of you.
>>697211251
dont worry mate, literally every single girl likes to do all of those things
>>697195213
>>697195276
>>697195331
>>697195364
My fucking sides
>>697207422
>do not have female friends
This. Women are generally poor friends in comparison with men. Mostly they're either annoying bitches that can't shut up about their own meaningless problems or boring mice that go along with anything the bitches say.
Exceptions exist, of course.
>>697195364
she deserves to die
>>697195364
The reason this slut is whit u is because you are a weak pussy cunt cuck.
But her pussy dont get wet from cucks it get wet from alpha male cocks. Thats why she marries you but fuck with alpha
But it doesnt suprise me 4chan full of weak ass bitches
>>697209054
That is not true. One can be persistently more interesting as the average Joe and look worse, if he has the right character. For example Casey Neistrat. I think we can all agree that he has a really weird face but through Training and his personality i think hes really attractive for women, he is short of reaching Superstar Status where he can fuck everthing that crosses his path
>>697207521
I know a shy gal. When i look at her she smile and won't look me in the eye and kind of mumbles when she talks, especially when with me.
She's kind of cute but I'm not that interested in her. She's those to-shy-to-be-notice girls and I'm sure she has no one going after her.
>>697194632
XD its so worth it at the end tho the part about "stalking"
>>697197969
don't kill yourself
>>697208982
man i hate illogical cartoons
A bit deeper feels
I'm almost 30 now but I still have some problems letting go of my childhood I think... I'm very attached to my family just because it's so fucked up and I'm afraid one of my siblings is going to commit suicide somewhere down the line. I know I can't do anything about this but it's hanging over my head.... I fucking hate my parents for their irresponsibility. They know it, I've told them how I felt time and time again. They just wanna stick their heads in the sand. I guess I don't know how to let this go. One of my uncles told me I'm going to have to accept this possibility, I can't control it. Fucking hell, there's the future right there, just accept it. I don't know how I would react to my parents, especially my dad, if my brother does end up killing himself. I don't know if I could hide the fact that I'd fucking blame him so much. He knowingly abandoned a handicapped kid and succeeded with getting out of child support. I'd blame myself too probably, but less.
Have any of you guys managed to stay friends with an ex?
I've started chatting with one, after many years of no contact whatsoever. At first she didnt say much, i guess she was thinking i only wanted to fuck her again, but shes just fun to talk to and in the end a good friend. Theres no hard feelings between us and im wondering if this will only lead to one of us getting hurt again or if we can actualy just stay as friends.
Shes 25 and im 24.
>>697213332
son died in car crash when the father decided to drink and drive....
>>697208982
not sure if i was supposed to but
kek'd
>>697213472
I think it can be possible but at the same time it can be hard. If feelings develop again then it'll all go to shit really quick and someone will be hurt
>>697213472
As long as you make it clear to her that nothing will ever again happen between the two of you, then yes, it could work.
The real question however is: can you really be friends with her knowing that she is fucking someone else? or will you feel like shit?
>>697200090
>rationalization intensifies
>>697213516
Obviously, but the father was putting the son in the bed, it means that the accident happened in another day. Bad timing.
>>697193908
Saw this picture before, sage
>>697200090
I agree about that with the relationships, but not that with the sex.
Fucking some nice juicy pussy after a long days work is amazing.
Plenty of fish in the sea but you're a tortoise.
>>697199435
Now...wouldnt it be her fault if he took the pic and spread it everywhere and sent it to all of her friends and family for being a bitch?
>>697209752
This, I'd say even go see different girls multiple times... You'll learn a thing or two about women too. The stereotype of the hooker who doesn't give a shit is really not true. At least not if you go to a venue that has some decent regulations. Especially if you're young, when you're in your early twenties and the girl is older then they wanna teach you stuff and shit. It's all good.
>>697209390
Focus on your career and things that make you happy, friends will come on their own.
>>697200147
you should hope that he dies rather than lives on with dementia
>>697209390
I'm sorry anon. Happy late birthday. I would have enjoyed it with you.
>>697213714
>>697213810
its been a long while, we both moved on and focused on our lives, she fucked some guys, i fucked some girls, its all good
i guess i'll give it a try, hopefuly we'll be able to stay like this
>>697214079
you... you can't really be this retarded, right?
I still think about my ex and it's been a year since we've been apart, but almost 6 years together when she decided she wanted to blow me off for other guys she worked with.
Threads like these make me glad that I didn't ask anyone out.
That's sad, but somewhat true. The heartbreak doesn't seem to be worth it boys.
>>697216068
I'd rather have a definite answer than regret not asking her
Man the fuck up and just ask someone, rejection doesn't lead to heartbreak
>>697211487
>>697216623
Not talking about the rejection, that's not the issue.
I'm talking about the eventual spiral of shit that follows later in a relationship.
>>697212467
>I'm sure she has no one going after her.
Dont be naive anon. "Shy" girls are girls who dont think they're sought after because they havent been given attention by a guy who is good enough for their tastes.
There's a 100% chance that many guys have shown interest in her, she's just a normal chick.
Dont let your guard down near women, never.
>>697215237
That's what I've been doing. Friends just don't seem to come easily for me. I'm probably just a massive sperglord or something.
>>697215459
Thanks mate. I'm sure we would have had great fun.
>>697198082
fellow oldfag, cheers to you friend from another "thank god my teen years weren't on the internet" /b/ro
well my long distance relationship girlfriend hasn't logged on today, so she is probably out getting fucked by some guy.
>>697217404
topkek
thanks, I needed that
>>697200090
the cognitive dissonance is strong in this one...
>>697217404
I have a brother in law that is literally autistic with assburgers.
He said this to me yesterday
mfw I get Elliot Rodger'd by girls on a daily basis
>>697217404
Why bother with long distance relationships?
>>697217806
she usually logs on every day around the same time
but she just came back home from vacation like 2 days ago
she told me she was on birth control yesterday and i asked if she was having sex and she replied "it has happened"
>>697216845
Doesn't make much sense tho.
>men have strong bonds, they are brothers
>women fuck their best friend's boyfriend
If men have such strong bonds, how come his best friend fuck his girlfriend?
>>697195364
This just gave me anger
And also feels
>>697218270
i love her bro. i haven't felt this way since i broke up with my gf about 8 years ago.
also im an autistic faggot who will never find a girl here and i see a future with her
>>697218397
>tfw you're the emotional support and he's the physical one
>>697218453
I'm pretty sure you're misreading.
>woman will fuck her friend's boyfriend
>two women, one man
I haven't had a girl in 4 years, last girl I dated I loved which was in my senior year of highschool, we dated ever since my junior year. She cheated on me on thanksgiving, she didn't love me and didn't know what to tell me and at the time I wasn't the best with girls, she even said "oh he doesn't know how to treat woman he never had a dad to teach him". We broke up I've had fuck buddies every now and then but damn that shit doesn't fix the loneliness yeah I'm getting laid, but it just doesn't feel right. I'm scared to get in a relationship again cause I don't wanna be hurt like that again. It sucks, it's not a good feeling having a bitch step on your heart.
One of my friend with benefits I actually started loving her, but I was afraid of people judging me dating her, cause people called her a whore this and that but she seriously loved me at the time and really wanted to be with me but I fucked it up. Don't be like me anons
>>697218803
I think i get it now, thanks
>>697218397
>she replied "it has happened"
She has no respect for you because you have no respect for yourself.
She's out there fucking guys and telling it to your face and you're being a nice cuck just taking it.
You are her boyfriend but she isn't your girlfriend. (i.e one way commitment)
Let me tell you something. Women like this are NOT relationship material. Dump her like the cumdumpster she is. Only ever fuck women like this, NEVER, I repeat, NEVER get into a relationship or get out ASAP when the signs arise. If she pulls this shit you dump her ass and never again give her another chance to be your girlfriend. Downgrade her to a fuckbuddy or friends with benefits.
Guys, my gf broke with me yesterday
I'm feel empty
>>697219132
I feel *
>>697218270
I tried that once. Girl was from Nepal. Then those earthquakes happened. Figured I couldn't even be there when the shit hit the fan. It's literally not worth it.
>>697205254
>like to see any cuck in your bloodline pull that off you piece of shit.
Ok, you feel bad.
Do you need my approval to feel bad ? I hereby give it to you.
But please, stop assuming anyone you meet here has a clungy bloodline.
Anyway, I maintain he does not seem like a good role model. I don't think you should go on assuming he is a role model in any way.
Enjoy your life, and grow a better "bloodline". If that can help, grow a better bloodline to pay him your respects.
>>697218767
at least thats something.
i'd rather be in her heart than in her pussy.
i've had a fuckfriend on my side too so i can't really be salty.
>>697219132
Biologically speaking, what you are feeling is the regret from failing to make her the mother of your children. Next time, be sure to knock her up while you have the chance.
>>697218998
Happy to help, anon. Dont be afraid of speaking out.
>>697194632
Filename though kek
>>697219349
You know long distance relationships are a way to insulate yourself from intimacy right? Why are you avoiding close relationships anon?
>>697217125
Completely true just as shallow as the rest of them
>>697200925
thats just fucking sad man, I didnt even cringe I just feel bad for the dude
>>697219064
dude .. we've known each other for 3 years.
do you expect her to be like some virgin mary for 3 years just for a guy at the other end of the world that she's never met? come on.. be real
she knows i've fucked girls too and she got jealous but it's only normal. i'm jealous as fuck too i just didnt show my power level because my friend says that makes their pussy dry.
once we are together in real life then she will not cheat on me and if she does then i will break up, i'm not a cuck
>>697194433
Go to a strip joint. Look at some fine, cheap ass. It will remind you that they are really a dime a dozen, just some act like they are not.
