Guys I need advice. There is a girl at work I really like. About three ago she made a complaint that I had sexually harassed cos I contacted her on FB and sent her a few messages and I almost got sacked and I had to transfer to a different branch over it.
But 3 months ago I transferred back to the place I used to work and she still works there and she has been really flirty and friendly towards me and I am sure she is up for it. I still really like her.
How can I approach her but without any risk of getting in trouble again if I have misread things? I am 100% sure she only made a complaint last time because she was stressed out with other stuff, she didnt want to get me into trouble.
She is leading you on to get you fired
>>697043939
this
Just send her dick pics already
>>697043695
>>697043939
>if I have misread things
you will misread things and you will be fired
>>697043939
Honestly I dont think she would do something like that, she isnt a nasty person.
I know this sounds like I am deluded and naive, but honestly she is being so flirtatious I dont think I can be misreading it this time.
Men are biologically programmed to overestimate how much the opposite sex finds them attractive.
You're gonna get fired if you talk to her. If she does want you, she will make it explicit when you continue to ignore her, and then you can fuck her. But she probably doesn't want you.
>>697044203
You're on fucking 4chan. You're way too autistic to be reading it right.
>>697044203
Let's back up a bit. What messages did you send her.
An exact quote. No rationalized paraphrasing.
>>697044437
I dont know word for word, but I didnt send her pictures of my cock or anything. I asked her if she wanted to meet up outside of work, basically go on a date - nothing dirty or crude.
>>697044437
this. Give us screenshots.
>She isnt a nasty person
She got you transfered and almost fired. She's a bitch and you should hate her guts.
(also she's a fucking 6/10 at best so she aint shit)
>>697044672
If this is really all you said then fuck her and her snitchin ass.
Fucking rape and murder her OP.
>>697043695
Should probably wait for the next company party before you make your moves. Just be super forward when that happens and she won't be able to say no to you.
>>697044780
sorry, I should have said pic unrelated. I aint gonna post a real pic of her.
And I'm not claiming she is 10/10 or anything, she is just my type I guess.
I wish OP tries to hook up with the grill and get fired, I want to tell
>I told ya
to someone.
>>697044898
Honestly that was all I said, and she told HR it made her feel uncomfortable to work with me. I would have got fired if I'd said anything bad I suppose. But she was really stressed at the time, and we used to talk on FB about her problems - I didnt just message her randomly out of the blue. I dont think she wanted to get me in trouble, she was just having a bad time.
Get as far away from her as possible
>>697044672
OP why would you ask a girl out on fb when you work with her?
Also shes a cunt, she reported you. No girl would do that if they didnt really dislike you, they would just ignore you or ask you to stop.
>>697044672
If you can't provide exactly what you said, I can't work out whether she's crazy or you're autistic.
Are you SURE you can't remember? You almost lost your job over it.
Taking account of what you have said, the best I can suggest is that her reporting you for "harassment" says a lot about her character, and the fact that you're still attracted says a lot about yours.
Get laid (pay for a prostitute if needs be) You will start to see things more clearly the second you nut.
>>697044780
cmon anon. shes atleast wud bang/10
>>697045556
cos Im a beta pussy and I thought it would be easier to do it in writing than face to face I guess.
Honestly she's a really nice girl I really dont think she reported me to be spiteful. Like I said, she was going through a stressful time and thats probably why she reported it. 100% I didnt say anything inappropriate or pornographic. I just asked her to go out with me for a meal though.
I know it sounds like I am a creep but I was speaking to her for like 6 months on FB just as a friend, and I tried to take things to the next step and it just kind of went wrong. But she seeks me out and talks to me, looks right in my eyes, makes flirty comments all the time. If she was still uncomfortable around me she wouldn't deliberately start conversations would she?
Its a trap anon. If a woman values a man and wants him she would never shill on him amd try to get the feminazi HR to fire him. She probably despises you as a weakling and cant stand to look at your face, so she is trying to get you fired. Probably gonna try and sue the company for "damages and sexism" for letting u transfer back.
You need to get her to email you or comment on YOUR Facebook and complain to upper management dude. Women in the work place can be so fucking manipulative man. Men? I want to get rid of you? Straight through middle with their shit. I'll out work you until I get promoted and can your fuckin ass. Currently in that mode right now. Women? They will come at you from every angle they can...and when all else fails? Probably what she did to you or some other kind of harassment deal. I've seen buddies get shit canned just over bs rumors spread by a woman in the workplace. Some guys do this kind of weak shit too but I put them in the female category... be smart man. She's got her eyes on going up the ladder and squashing balls to get there or she's just nuts. One way or the other, stop thinking with your dick dude. Though I also just want to say the women at work who aren't like this can be some of the nicest hard-working peeps too.
>>697045735
dude it was three years ago - I havent saved every message I ever sent.
I know broadly what I sent just not word for word. She was stressed out cos she didnt like her boss and she was always complaining about him, and I was trying to sympathise, and I asked her if she wanted to go for a meal after work some time or hang out? I just asked her on a date, nothing more, nothing aggressive, nothing dirty. I am a bit socially awkward but I am not a complete autist,
>>697046075
stop apologizing for that whore. grow some balls u cuck
> Be me.
> Be 25 and working in burger king.
> Hot 18yr old girl at the cashier.
> No one around.
> i glance a few seductive looks in her direction
> No response.
> i go to grab something from behind her.
> Try and make as much physical contact as possible.
> She responds and grinds her ass on my crotch
>Erection.jpeg
> I turn away
> Cue manager walking in
> Notices the bulge of erect penis
> We exchange glances.
>He looks at the hot girl
>She starts to cry
>Wtf
> He pulls back his fist and lands a mighty blow on my chin
> Fall back and my hand reaches out for something
> Find the fryer.
> Unbearable pain.
> Sue manager.
>WINRAR
Morale of the story..Sexual harassment can work out in your favor.
>>697043695
DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT
DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT
DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT
Don't date colleagues, after the previous complaint you shouldn't communicate with her unless she contacts you first, even then your responses should be closed answers (yes/no/not asking a question back).
It doesn't matter if she is flirting with you
It doesn't matter if if you think she is into you
It doesn't matter if you are making excuses for her complaint before, you can't be 100% sure unless she told you explicitly and retracted her complaint
She complained that you were a creep, don't be a creep again because someone is being polite.
>>697044936
>you type
You are coveting what you see, Nothing more.
Ask yourself this serious question:
Are you lonely enough to mistake the fact that she has negatively affected your life with this harassment crap for some kind of connection or history with her? Don't be an infatuated fool, if you are a helpless romantic at least reserve it for girls who want/deserve it.
>>697045199
This girl is not going to be the one that got away OP.
get over this.
You're pushing a narrative with your dick.
Flirting is the way unstable girls try to desperately manipulate their environment.
And furthermore, let's say she didn't mean to get you in trouble. It's irrelevant. It's shows how unstable she is. Not worth the trouble.
>>697046075
Regardless of what you said then and how she acts now, she went to an authority at your employment and filed a harassment complaint. If she's stressed about other things in her life then she has an awfully strange way of dealing with those problems--pretty good indicator to stay the fuck away.
If she really wants to fuck then let her broach the subject with you, slam that cunt, then report her for sexual harassment.
>>697046204
I dont know, neither of us are exactly high flying executives and it isnt a fantastic job. I really dont think she was trying to get me in trouble man.
I feel bad I made her uncomfortable and I hadnt made any contact with her until I transferred back and now all the time she seeks me out, I cant make sense of it.
>>697046674
>I really dont think she was trying to get me in trouble man.
When people file complaints with work places they don't do it as a bit of banter you dumb cunt.
>>697044203
So, let me get this straight anon:
You still want to give this chick the business end after she nearly ruined your life?
My nigga. Go for it. Best way is to whip out your dick at work for her.
>>697043939
yup.
I can assure you that she finds you just as repulsive now 3 months later.
>>697046470
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS
>>697046075
You are a provider male in her eyes. This comment proves it. Confiding in you does not mean she wants to fuck you. It means she wants to confide in you about the bad treatment she's getting from whatever guy is fucking her. You're in the friendzone with an unstable person, which is actually the danger zone.
>>697046470
THIS. Let her flirt or act foolish all she wants - if she fucked you over once she will do it again the next time she is "stressed out."
>>697046674
You're trying way too hard to make sense out of someone just randomly being a manipulative bitch. Just stop talking to her or prepare to lose your job.
>>697046582
I guess maybe you're right. It isnt like I have thought about her the whole three years since it happened, it is just now I moved back to that office and she is talking to me it is kind of bringing back all the old feelings I had. But maybe she just wants to know I still am into her but she would reject me again if I actually asked her out.
My job isnt my whole life or anything, but I dont especially want to get sacked.
I do like her, but maybe I have to accept it isnt going to happen. I just dont understand why she flirts with me now when she complained about me before just for one message asking her if she wanted to hang out.
>>697043695
Don't stick your dick in crazy
>>697046674
You come to /b/ of all places looking for advice.
Somehow, almost miraculously, you get perfect advice from various anons, all providing different angles that converge on the same basic point.
And you respond by insisting upon what you already thought you knew.
Next time just flip a coin and disregard the outcome unless it matches what you already think.
>>697047216
>I just don't understand why she flirts with me now when she complained about me before just for one message asking her if she wanted to hang out.
This is a typical manipulative behavior
Boss at work is trying to fuck you.
She is doing alliance with him.
Just steer clear or bail the FUCK.
If you don't I'll visit you when they file a lawsuit.
>about three ago
>about three ago
>about three ago
>about three ago
>about three ago
>>697047521
Honestly I think people here give good advice overall. Obviously a few pople say stupid stuff - but most people are honest when they are anonymous.
I guess in my heart I know what people is saying is true, I just dont want to believe it cos I still like her. And the fact she literally comes to see me almost every day at work and hangs around my desk, it makes it hard to just accept its never going to happen probably.
>>697047649
years, sorry
>>697047216
>I just dont understand why she flirts with me now when she complained about me before just for one message asking her if she wanted to hang out.
Women often act irrationally, but they always act with self-interest. Overcompensation, dissimulation, manipulation. Even with the best of women you will be subject to this. Hedge your bets. Forget about this one.
>>697047840
Remove that fucking probably from your mind retard. It's not going to happen, ever. I know this type of woman and trust me that she has an agenda when she's flirting with someone like you.
>>697047840
>And the fact she literally comes to see me almost every day at work and hangs around my desk, it makes it hard to just accept its never going to happen probably.
your basis for pining over a woman is that she spends a little bit of time with you?
I talk to a number of women my age most days and I don't pine over them.
Do you just not get any exposure to women?
Can I ask if she ever explicitly apologised to you for complaining or anything? I mean an actual apology, not her bringing up that she reported you before.
>>697048129
This. The point is, if you were going to fuck her it would have happened.
Fucking happens fast dude, not slow.
Fast as fuck, fucking is.
Dont shit where you eat
>>697048230
>Can I ask if she ever explicitly apologised to you for complaining or anything?
Excellent question. If no, and OP still thinks she's worth it. He is irredeemably autistic.
>>697048230
no, we literally never spoke about it.
when she made the complaint she deleted me on FB and I didnt try to contact her again cos I didnt want to come across like a stalker. Then when I came back to the branch 3 months ago I was kind of hesitant and didnt want to talk to her and make her uncomfortable, but she would (and still does) come across to my desk most days and talks and flirts. I really dont think I am imagining it - like she makes suggestive comments, she sits on the side of my desk, she looks right in my eyes all the time when she talks...
But I never asked her why she reported me and she has never brought it up. I guess its kind of awkward subject for us both.
>>697044365
>>697043939
this, OP is an autistic retard, she's probably trying to be polite and professional and OP is being an awkward shit again.
OP, you're being a dumb ass. Everyone here is trying to help you out on this. Don't you think if there was the SLIGHTEST chance of this turning out well, someone would say so?
>>697046470
This so many times over.
>>697043695
Your lower head is making your decisions.
Use your higher head. It's a fucking trap. Just ignore her. She had her chance. If she keeps it up, get evidence and report her.
OP should add her on FB again, ask her out to a meal, and post results tomorrow.
>>697044203
Maybe she feels bad because she almost got you fired so she's being extra nice to you? Just fucking talk to her fayg
>>697046957
> You're in the friendzone with an unstable person, which is actually the danger zone.
Also this, in this situation at the mo outside of work and it's fucking up other chances of a relationship.
>>697048697
>she makes suggestive comments, she sits on the side of my desk, she looks right in my eyes all the time when she talks...
I need examples of suggestive comments.
People tend to look each other in the eyes if they aren't autistic.
People also tend to sit on desks if they aren't stopping for long.
If she deleted you from fb OR filed a complaint, you should remove all ideas of anything happening from your head.
Can I ask how much exposure you have to women? it doesn't sound like you are particularly experienced.
>>697049127
I do talk to her at work and am friendly to her, but if I ask her out again what if she complains to HR? I'd 100% get fired and probably hard to get a new job.
>>697046360
bull shit. facebook keeps all messages.
>>697043695
She is just begging you to slap her ass one day at work.
Don't let her down
>>697049454
WTF is this shit? I'm out. Idiot.
OP, goddammit. If it were me, I'd hate her. She nearly ruined your life and you are still trying to rationalize the fact she went to HR about you. Literally nobody whose "just going through some problems" does that. Now you're back and like that bitch again? OP, I don't know whether it was your fault for coming off too clingy or autistic, or she just flipped out, either way shit won't end well if you try and make a move on her. If case A, she's just trying to be polite after she pushed you under the bus or if case B, she's a manipulative bitch who wants to get you fired. Man up. Jerk off and think long and straight about her intentions when your junk is limp.
>>697049454
If you cannot comprehend the heaps of good advice you have just received then you deserve whatever this bitch puts you through.
Anons are being way too nice to OP right now. He's trying so hard to walk into the fire and get burnt.
>>697043695
if a bitch would pull a shit move like that I would rip her face off. Literally. I would wait a few months till the tides are ok then wait in a dark alley for her, jump out and bang! fucking baseball bat her face. make her ugly so her outsides will match her insides.
>>697049360
I've been single for about a year. Have had 4 gfs in my life, am in my late 20's
I'm not going to pretend I'm some kind of stud, but I guess I have a normal amount of experience.
In terms of comments she makes - like she talks about how I look or that I've been working out, or liking my cologne, or can I help her with something because I'm big and strong, stuff like that. I suppose you are going to say she is just being friendly or whatever, but not things that typically you would go and say to a work colleague.
>>697043695
Smells like bait. My advice don't even try, she wants to fuck you over.
>>697049454
Nobody is asking for you to ask her out you fucking... ugh. The opposite. Stay. Away. From. Her. Inanonprofessionalway.
Talking =/= asking her out. Your autism is showing.
>>697049454
I think you are completely right in everything you say. You clearly have a good grasp of what she is thinking and it seems completely safe to go for it this time. She's showing how remorseful she is by talking to you so much and the fact that she is looking you in the eyes means that she wants you.
If I were you I'd just go for it, the worst that can happen is that the sex isn't very good, but it's still sex. Just find any excuse to hit on her next time she comes by. Maybe ask her out for a romantic dinner, chicks really dig those. Just be courteous with your courting and she won't even think of going to HR. Besides, she's obviously stressed any more.
Just go for it, it's all safe now.
>>697050099
IDGAF
Stand down, you idiot!
>>697047216
>>697043695
Thought about complaining about her flirting with you? Revenge sounds very easy and sweet
Make sure you have proof too so her word won't win against yours
All this, eh, SAGE, advice is sliding down the brick wall of OP's blubbering stupidity.
>>697050240
Don't forget your fedora
>>697043695
Lawyerfag here (this is not legal advice)
Your best bet is to talk to a superior that you trust and are friendly with. Explain the situation, specifically the "really flirty" part; make sure the superior agrees she's flirtatious. Then tell the superior you are asking her out and see if there's and objection. If not ask her out and if she bitches bring the supervisor as a defense. Or go to the HR Dept and do the same thing
>>697050480
Don't forget your sarcasm detector mr. shit for brains.
go to a shrink, boy.
you've got serious delusional stalker tendencies.
>>697050240
I'd say ask if she wants to go out for a beer near the end of work on Friday in a work colleague way. Then You can talk to her about the whole trying to get you fired thing. From thier all should be clear.
>>697050240
Don't do this to a fellow autistic /b/ro. He needs all the help he can get. Your delete system 32 type comment ain't helping because he just might try that shit. OP, don't do this.
>>697048352
go back to bed kid
>>697050099
She's fucking with you, don't fuck with her.
>>697046470
the fact that OP doesnt come to this conclusion immediately means that he is either desperate for pussy or an omega male.
>>697050627
...homoerotic white knight?
Op is gonna end up in jail on rape charges,
Set up bro...u can't see it?
>>697050559
I don't think she's as flirty as he claims. Look at what he misconstrued as flirty comments...
>>697050578
Honestly thats not true.
I never made contact with her again after she made the complaint and deleted me, I didnt obsess about her. I liked her but i accepted i made a mistake and she wasnt interested. I only transferred back cos the other branch closed. And I only feel a bit confused now because she is acting like nothing like the report ever happened.
I might be awkward with women, but Im not a stalker man.
>>697043695
OP is in love, but 4chan calls it being an omega fag, just move on OP there's plenty of women out there, distract yourself play video games or whatever beta shit you do.
>>697050099
>she talks about how I look or that I've been working out, or liking my cologne, or can I help her with something because I'm big and strong, stuff like that.
Does she usually say something nice before she asks you to do things? does she ask for help with work or anything?.
Regardless you shouldn't act on it unless she explicitly asks you to spend time with her outside of work in a romantic scenario.
Also 4 gfs and you are in your late 20's?
Were they long term (over 14 months) or serious (living together, pets together) relationships?
She sounds more manipulative than flirty, if someone reported me to our workplace for harassment or something, I'd ignore them for the most part.
It really does sound like you are trying to make a mountain out of a molehill in regards to her being polite, face it, you got reported and are known by management for harassing her, they won't forget any time soon and it will be on your company record.
Even if she is making small talk (or as you call it flirting), you can't ever act on it, I'm not going to blow smoke up your arse and say go for it, it is all a bad idea and you should accept that nothing will ever happen.
My advice would be to find a new job elsewhere if possible and try being less autistic.
Ok. This thread is just OP getting told repeatedly not to flirt back and stay away from her for countless reasons, and OP acting like an unsure beta fag and still seemingly unconvinced. We've tried. End this already. Everybody's saying the same shit and now every reply is starting to look like identical mass produced manure bags.
/thread
>>697050627
thanks man, but I know some people are taking the piss. I'm not going to do something outrageous. I guess I'm probably just going to leave it and me basically polite to her and no more.
I really wish there was still a chance, but to be fair what people are saying is true. If she really was interested now she would at least have said something about why she reported me to HR.
I know (most) people are trying to help.
>>697050984
>and I only feel a bit confused now because she is acting like nothing like the report ever happened.
See, this (and all other variations of it) is your sticking point.
The "confusion" is your rational mind screaming as it drowns in the pool of your horny retardation.
If it makes it any clearer for you. The fact that she hasn't explicitly brought it up or apologized makes her unethical and cowardly at best, manipulative and self-serving at worst.
There's no silver-lining. Turn this idea off.
OP: Help guys I need advice
/b/: Ok OP heres some good advice for once
OP: *makes excuses for her filing a sexual harrassment report on him and almost getting him fired*
You are fucking hopeless OP kill yourself
>>697051275
I mean yes she does ask me to help her out with things sometimes, but I dont want to make out like she is a complete bitch or something. She doesnt ask me to do something for her every time she talks to me. Maybe its like other anon's said, she is just being friendly and I am reading too much into it cos I still feel attracted to her. Its probably best to just leave it.
She is a cunt of the highest degree and hates your fucking guts so bad she is willing to be nice to fuck you harder than you would fuck her.
LOL
ITT: OP is going to lose his job soon
>>697051410
Confront her about what she did to you man. Just talk to her about it. Tell her upfront you aren't comfortable around her because of what she's done to you in the past. Or at least ask for the reasonijg for why she did it. Get some closure. Still, even if she spins up a web of lies, don't, and I repeat DON'T fall for her trap and flirt back.
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>>697050984
>I didnt obsess about her. I liked her but i accepted i made a mistake and she wasnt interested.
But then you made a thread hoping we would agree that you should try it on with her, trying to argue that she is interested in you and flirting with you and that she didn't intend for anything bad to happen when she reported you to your superiors.
You are a lost cause because you keep arguing back.
>>697051684
>Its probably best to just leave it.
HOLY FUCK GUYS IT LOOKS LIKE WE GOT THROUGH TO THE OP
Just say do you want my dick in your mouth you fag
DONT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT
DONT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT
DONT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT
AVOID AVOID AVOID
If you are as rational as you say you are she is as well, why dont you just ask her? Tell her that her behavior towards you could come off as flirtatious and that makes you uncomfortable given your prior history. You are both adults. See where the conversation goes. Why havent you already asked her WTF happened last time? You keep posting "you think she was really stressed, I dont think she wanted to get me in trouble." If that is true then why havent you asked wtf happened yet? Why did she do what she did? My money is on she is a psycho and you are an idiot. Prove me wrong.
People here are actually giving good advice this time OP, don't be a victim of feminism.
OP is the ultimate cuck.
He's about to try and fuck this girl cause she said he smelled good and shes gonna take his job.
>>697052112
Yeah, I know that (most) people are trying to help.
I wish I could just avoid having to talk to her, would make everything easier.
/b/ro there are literally millions of woman in the world... you will find another one. .. eject this fag feelings asap
>>697043695
>She was under a lot of stress
You sound like an abuse victim making excuses for their abuser you poor poor ball-less child.
>>697051684
You're literally a fuccboi.
Some girls are nice to guys cause they give them attention. Literally all they want is attention sometimes and if she reported your ass she only wants that.
I would say draw her in and get her seem like the one whose initiating and get that chat recorded so you can show to HR. Sweet revenge. But HR sounds feminazi so you'll lose with evidence, and you seem to like her so you won't do that. And she might be able to flip it around on you since you are an amateur at leading people on, while she's clearly mastered it - she's got you hooked even after she threw you to the sharks three years ago.
>>697043939
A hundred times this. Dont trust her, anything against you us going to look worse in the eyes of the company. You really shouldn't be working in the same place. She's out to get you.
The only redeeming quality of this thread (besides the good advice of several anons) is literary in character.
OP represents the future of the tragicomic satire. Kafka's new protagonist. The nu-man who can't see a forest for the trees, and valiantly defends the bitches that try to destroy his life.
>>697052323
>"I wish i could just avoid having to talk to her"
Fucking dont talk to her then????? What is so hard about this concept????
>>697050240
Sarcasm at it's best. But I agree with the other reply to this,,OP may not hear the sarcasm, no need to fuck over a fellow /bro. Here we unite against female bullshit, regardless of how trollface we are.
>>697051800
>>697052028
OP, this. Confront her about what she did those years ago. Be a man. She should have apologized or she's clearly unrepentant.
>>697052354
well ok
I just am conscious that maybe the way I explained it makes her sound like a bitch or something and she really isnt, she is a nice girl. I dont think what I did warranted her complaining to HR, but I really dont believe she did it deliberately to be horrible so either she was stressed out and did it because of that or maybe I didnt make her feel more uncomfortable than I realised.
>>697052560
could be taken as a micro-aggression and lead to getting fired and publicly shamed.
>>697052772
She is a bitch but you're blinded to her nature because of love. Or you are an overly obsessive stalker but blind to your own faults. Take your pick.
>>697052772
dude... If she's not a bitch bitch, she's a crazy bitch. If not a crazy bitch, she's an idiot bitch.
Stop glossing over the HR report thing. That shit is serious.
>>697052419
That doesnt sound very realistic, but anyway I don't want to do anything to hurt her or mess her around.
Yes what she did caused me a lot of problems, but that doesnt mean I want to cause her problems in return. If that makes me a cuck or whatever I cant help it.
>>697052668
I've given him good advice and I've given him bad advice, it's up to him to follow either on neither. I just wish he'd just decide on one thing and go for it rather than being all passive and on the fence about it. It'll just drag things out and he'll likely end up being fired in the end but suffer a lot more for it. At least make it quick if you're going to do something stupid.
>>697051376
This.
I think OP could possibly be lying. If not, then he's an idiot.
OP, you should hold at least the slightest bit of resentment towards this woman. You should also have enough sense to realize that she's either trying to set you up out of amusement, or simply trying to say "no hard feelings?" without actually saying it.
There, now I've given OP one more post to feed his attention seeking.
>"I just am conscious that maybe the way I explained it makes her sound like a bitch or something and she really isnt, she is a nice girl."
God damn dude why are you fucking worried about this. None of us understand this because if someone (man OR woman) forced me to transfer work locations for any reason (let alone your story) she would be dead to me. You are putting her pussy on a pedestal. Stop it. Whether she meant to or not she fucked you over... and not the way you wanted.
>>697043695
Simple solution:
Cum on her pic
>>697043695
are you fucking retarded?
stay away from her, she nearly got you fired once, do you rally want to have something to do with a girl that reports you for sending her FB messages?
>>697053173
The real advice here is not suggesting you cause her any problems. It's suggesting that you don't cause yourself any.
This is tiresome. I'm going to do what you can't do OP and stop flogging this dead horse.
>>697053251
No, Im not going to do anything stupid.
I guess when I made this thread I was kind of hoping everyone would say I should go for it and it would convince myself, but I think what the majority of people have said is true.
I probably have just misread things. I dont think she is a bitch or a bad person and the fact people are saying that probably just reflects how I have misread her just trying to be friendly and have a normal working relationship.
But genuinely Im not a stalker or anything like that.
>>697052323
Just straight up tell her, Hi [Insert bitch name here] It seems that you are trying really hard to get my attention, I would've loved talking to you if you hadn't reported me to HR for asking you out politely on Facebook three years ago, now if you would please stop playing with my Shrek bobble-head and leave me alone, I have work to do.
>>697045199
she reported you to HR, she DID want to get you in trouble.
wake up
wtf man, and i thought i was beta.
good luck OP
>>697053921People don't get off their ass for nothing, that's for sure
>>697053264
Honestly I felt guilty and stressed when she reported me. I didnt resent it cos I felt like I had fucked up, and we were just friends and I overstepped the mark. If it was just someone you know outside of work you can just move on, but obviously when its a work colleague its different.
>>697043695
do you work in retail OP?
I hope OP comes back in a few weeks after he disregards all of our advice and loses his shitty job. Why ask for advice if you're a fucking pleb cuck autist loser who can't follow along? You deserve what you get coming to you for being so stupid.
anon you already lost your chance with this girl. dont do it.
>>697053695
Why are we talking to this lethargic sycophant?
OP, if your next response is not a simple declaration that you appreciate the advice, you see the light and will act accordingly, and thanks /b/ros, you will have failed yourself utterly.
SAY SHES A BITCH. SWALLOW IT. MOVE ON.
>>697043695
Dude, she doesn't like you. Girls that like you don't file sexual harassment, they get down on their knees and give blowjobs. You gotta move on.
>>697053695
good, she probably acts friendly as she wants something from you, or is scared you'll expose her for complaining about her boss.
stay away from her as much as you can.
>>697054138
would a nice person report someone to HR because they asked them out? no
learn to love yourself because your insecurity and low selfworth is making me fucking cringe.
>>697043695
listen mate. it's the autism. she doesn't really give you hints
>>697054138
unless you asked her "do you want to have sex with me" you asked politely. Which brings me to my next point if she gets stressed out like that why are you after her, says a lot about you OP.
>>697045735
This guy is right. The fact you'd even be considering this crazy bitch means that you've got a lot to learn about people.
You tried, it went horribly.
Possibility A: You were a creep and you don't even know it. If this is the case, prepare to be fired/restraining order.
Scenario B: She's the crazy type. If that's the case, you'll regret proceeding with her. Seriously, mark my words. >You.
>Will.
>Regret.
>This.
The only wise thing to do here is wash your hands of her. Don't be a chump.
>>697053695
See. Op has seen the light. Won't acknowledge she's a bitch but eh this should be enough not to get him fired at least.
/thread?
>>697046075
what is going to happen when you and her start dating and she's stressing out? she's gonna report you for rape or something. you don't need this in your life.
>>697054971
IKR now we sound like bitchy teenage girls giving advice to each other.
>>697054138
...you must be making this up.
She just as easily could have said to you, "No, I don't think it would be a good idea for us to see each other outside of work...kinda makes me uncomfortable." Or have just given you the cold shoulder to let you know she isn't interested. Instead, she nearly got you fired.
You are either flat out lying to us, not telling us everything, or you are so far beyond socially awkward.
>>697054858
Literally the same as:
>>697049772
Same manure bags indeed.
>>697055124
Yep, Im out.
>>697053173
Get an app called italk (or something similar) for your phone. RECORD EVERY CONVERSATION WITH HER.
Seriously she is not to be trusted. She will get you fired one day when she is "stressed' again. She has demonstrated her unpredictability..Think for a second: You would not have asked her out last time if she didn't do exactly what she is doing again...there is a good chance she will get "stressed" again. You don't have to use the evidence against her, just protect yourself. it's a very cheap app and lets you covertly record conversations with your mobile phone. Please don't let her fuck you up again just so she can say to everyone :See, I told you he harassed me, and you fuckers brought him back! He's doing it again!" - I can guarantee you she had a conversation with someone telling them that your workplace brought you back to work with her.
>>697054863
No, needs to acknowledge she's a bitch for his own sake. It's the loose thread that will unravel his autistic systems thinking brain in a flurry of rationalizations and get him back to square one.
He needs her to be a bitch.
>>697043695
if you are curious whats going on just treat her like a human being not a girl and FUCKING ASK HER.
And just in case she is a crazy manipulator (like 50% or so women are) make sure you do it face to face.
Just ask her if you are misreading things, ask her if she likes you, ask about the complaint she made.
You know whether you shit the bed or not unless you are a full blown autist, and asking if somebody wants to hang out/go on a date/whatever is not harrasment, so think back really on who was in the wrong, and if it was her back the fuck away.
>>697055311
It could be we're misreading the situation and he was the clingy one.
>>697055478
He certainly is. My comment stands as is.
>>697044203
if you want to fuck up your job...then dont take our advice. but dont come on here asking for advice and then not take it.
>>697044898
>Fucking rape and murder her OP.
this all day
>>697055582
>>697055311
honestly she isn't. You are judging her just on what I say and everyone here also is saying Im an autist. She really isnt a bad person. I guess I just fucked up by asking out someone I work with and now I am reading too much into her being friendly.
>>697055478
doesn't fucking explain why she reported him to HR and nearly got him fired, she could have easily asked him to stop unless she is the same tard type as him. It's been three years time to move on.
>>697045199
if she wanted you, she would have welcomed the fact that u are asking her out.
your only chance is if she had a bf and he saw the msgs and made her tell on u.. kind of far fetched but thats your only chance.
Ask her. You seem quite flirty.. Are u trying to flirt with me? It makes me feel kind of uncomfortable..
and stay in silence while u are staring her in her eyes.
>>697055837
This is a cripplingly retarded response
see:>>697055151
No non-bitch person, stressed out or not, puts someone's job in danger because they ask them out to a meal after being friendly for half a year.
>>697056237
>>697056237
Ok man, I am a retard.
Look I appreciate people here have been trying to help me and I dont want to be ungratefui, I just feel a bit depressed because its made me face up to the fact I have no chance with her and I am just misreading it cos I am a fuck up.
I guess it doesnt really matter either way what you guys think about her, but she really isnt a bitch and I feel bad I have obviously made her out in a way everyone is saying it thats all.
>>697043695
Hey OP, I'm joining the conversation late, but I have a slightly different take than many here (though I still think it's a bad idea to ask her out).
I suspect the reason she's paying so much attention to you is specifically because of the harassment issue. It is probably very uncomfortable for her to have you suddenly working there again. I think her chatting with you and being friendly with you is her way of both checking to make sure things are cool enough between you that there won't be work issues while also being her way of saying "no hard feelings?"
I don't think she is interested or pursuing you though. Let me ask you this -- did she re-add you as a FB friend? I would think if she were at all interested she would have at least taken this step.
bye op. u are a lost case dude.
>>697056132
Asking her if she's flirting with you is easily misconstrued as asking her on a date (again).
Simple self-preservation:
Record all conversations to protect yourself in the event that she goes to HR again.
If she does that, you're definitely fired.
OP, just stop. It's time for revenge. Make fake sex-notes to other co-workers in her name. Does she have her own computer? Download mozilla on it, or any other web browser she would never use, hide it so she can't possibly find it on her computer, make a fake FB-account in YOUR name and send her messages. You'll demand it to go through her computer, they WILL find a newly installed mozilla with the fake FB-account 'just so she could accuse and get rid of you', "-Like last time." You'll say, threaten to sue her and the company.
You win.
>>697056640
Remember what our first grade teacher told us " actions speak louder than words "
well that.... go fuck yourself now
>>697056640
>she really isn't a bitch
I bet you thought that last time too when she nearly got you fired.
>>697056640
Irredeemable. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
Advice is sympathy enough.
>>697056687
no, she never re-added me. I dont post on FB much now to be fair though. But what everyone has said here is right anyway. If she was interested she would have said at least something about why she reported me three years ago.
>>697056718
NOOOOO
>>697056721
no need to be creepy when doing so.. just a legit question.. I sense some sort of pressure from your side sometimes when we talk. Its almost like you are flirting with me.. I just feel uncomfortable cause I know you dont like me that way, but still.. Help me out here.. I dont know what to think.. You make me soo uncomfortable at times.. Now i know how u must have felt back when u filed a complaint about me..
>>697056640
You're not a 'tard, just a nice guy. It's why people are willing to help you but you must be willing to place the blame where it belongs i.e not on yourself.
>>697056718
underated post
>>697055837
we judge her on the actions she took.
you asked her out and she reported you to HR.
there are no redeeming factors there unless you actually harassed her, and you seem adamant you didn't.
so, unless you are lying to us, she is a bipolar bitch AT BEST (being stressed is not an excuse for ruining someone's life) and an evil manipulative piece of shit at worst.
>How can I approach her but without any risk of getting in trouble again if I have misread things?
Why? No reason exists to approach her. Sex isn't important enough to risk anything for it and she is PROVEN crazy.
OP is horny and stupid.
On second thought, rape her across her desk then wear her face while break dancing and singing "smeggitty smoggity smoo!" and twirling one ovary from each hand.
>>697057229
>virgin detected
>>697057336
edgy fag
>>697056987
You moron.
IS IT NOT ABUNDANTLY CLEAR THAT SHE CANNOT DISCERN CREEPY FROM COOL WHEN SHE IS "STRESSED".
Your answer is perfect for normal people but she is not normal if she tried to get him fired for asking her on a date.
And OP is a moron for thinking she is not an unpredictable bitch.
how about you wait for her to ask you out for a drink.....then report her to hr.
>>697043939
She's a coquette seduction type read art of seduction by Robert greene. The best way to dismantle a coquette seduction technique is to ignore them. A coquette cant pursue to much because it breaks the mystery of them She's going to get you fired
>>697056930
>no, she never re-added me. I dont post on FB much now to be fair though.
I don't know how much you post on facebook, NOR DOES SHE.
It's irrelevant. If she didn't add you again, then that's another reason not to get involved..even if she did add you...you know the rest..AVOID!
>>697057229
I 100% promise I didnt do anything other than ask her if she wanted to go out for a meal or hang out. There wouldnt be any point lying about it on an anonymous board.
We had been FB friends since just after she started at work and we had been talking on FB for about 6 months, not like every day but fairly common. One night she was saying how she was really pissed off at work and hated her boss etc and I was sympathising with her and I just asked her something like "hey, I really like talking to you, do you want to out and get something to eat at the weekend or maybe hang out some time?" I dont know the exact words but something like that.
I didnt send her pictures of my cock or make sexual comments or anything. She didnt reply and then two days later I got called into HR and they made a whole thing, I had to have a disciplinary and I was just 100% honest about what I said and did.
They didnt sack me cos I guess it wasnt really that bad but I had to move to the other branch because they said she wasnt comfortable I had approached her in that way, and they accepted I hadnt meant to be inappropriate, but I had crossed the bounds. I got a written warning and I literally didnt speak to her again until I moved back (cos the other branch closed)
I didnt want to get in trouble OR make her feel uncomfortable so I just tried to avoid her, but she kept coming to my desk and talking to me and I feel like (maybe because I am autist or a retard or whatever) she was being kind of flirty (although I admit not blatant)
But I dont want to start this again.
I accept it isnt going to happen, I just need to leave it and move on.
>>697044203
Then go ahead and get fired OP.we couldn't care less faggot
>>697057353
Kek Why?! I know this is /b but your post is like walking into McDonalds and attacking someone with a table because they ordered strawberry milkshake. Nothing "virgin" about his post at all..in fact it demonstrates a good understanding of women, so why the trollface? Oh..this is /b..never mind.
>>697048697
It may just be that she is sorry for reporting you but doesn't want to admit it. Instead she is trying to be overly nice to make up. She isn't interested in you, just feels sorry for you. She will never want to date you. Move on.
She doesn't like you, and she ratted on you for daring to consider yourself a suitor to her, and now that you're back she's making good with you so that you don't go psycho and kill her.
She's being nice because she is afraid and that is a common survival tactic with women. To befriend your would-be attacker.
Jesus fucking christ dude, no matter what any of us says it doesn't matter because you're still going to fuck up and walk right into another bad situation. More than anything that pisses me off. Why the fuck did you even come here and ask?
>>697055684
hes looking for someone to tell him what he wants to hear
>>697057518
go cry some more u fucking faggster.
I dont care if she thinks she is crazy.. Op will serve her with the exact same dish she served him.
Go and complain..first to her and then to the company.
If they dont take him seriously, he sues for sexism, sexual harrassment with the 'blessings' of the company.
I dont care what some bitch thinks that she will do..
Op goes for it.. If by any chance she is indeed in to him..., he fucks her(witht eh danger of her accussing him of rape afterwards)
if she aint interested and just confused, he carries on..tells that little poem about being harrassed, confused and uncomfortable.. (mention rape eyes) and get your redemption the Beta way. The honest Beta way. You are becoming a Beta Prince. Dont go there. Never go full beta.
>>697043695
Guys, ignore op. He's clearly only going to carry on until he hears what he wants to hear.
SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE HERE - DITCH THE BITCH BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE
>>697052440
>>697058293
got baited like a queer faggy motherfucking nigga shitfaced doglover
>>697058358
I'd like to hope that isnt true, I dont think I am a frightening person. Several people have said Im a stalker but really I am not. I made one mistake, I never contacted her or stalked her or anything after that.
Maybe ask her why she reported you?
>>697049644
this,
i have messages from 6 years ago still on my shit
>>697058483
this all day kids.
>get your revenge you fucking cuck.
she didn't re-add you, she def. doesn't want to fuck. she's just hoping you don't kill her for reporting you last time...
just roll your eyes a bit whenever she says anything remotely flirty, and say you've got something to do instead of chat. then go fuck off and do some annoying work that everyone would want to avoid, so she knows you'd rather do anything than talk to her.
keep it up till she facebooks you asking to suck your cock, then report her to mgmt. and try and get her fired.
>>697043695
Show her your dick
>>697056640
don't be hard on yourself, you like this chick, and this can blind you, and make you act irrationally, happens to everyone, it's simple as that.
just follow the advice, be indifferent to her but not hostile, do not contact her, avoid her, do not talk about her at work, talk to her as little as possible only when she directly addresses you, and it would be unpolite not to answer.
hopefully she'll get the message and stop manipulating you ( most of them do it subconsciously)
>>697058085
Last ditch attempt to reason with OP.
Let's say you wake up in the morning and get a call informing you that whichever one of your parents you love more has been diagnosed with terminal cancer.
It stresses you out, but you still have to go to work. You're stressed. Reasonably stressed.
Arriving at work, this coworker of yours asks you out for a meal.
You're really stressed out as she stands there awaiting a response.
Now, is there any version of that situation in which you unthinkingly report her to HR?
If not, why not? Is it because that would be a shitty and inappropriate thing to do? Would it make you an asshole, perhaps, a bitch, even?
We're not taking shots in the dark when we label her a bitch OP. We're simply making a logical deduction based on the information you volunteered. The earlier comments even prodded at you to make sure we had the fullest possible account of the situation.
She's objectively a bitch. I know more about her than you do. You're going to have to accept that or live wrong.
>>697046360
die liar. stop cripping on that innocent little girl.
scum.
tell me her name. now faggot.
i know where u live. I notice when u are sleeping and I know if u were being a cuck or a feminine penis lover the past year.
Ill have u know i graduated top of my class from the cis transgender woman Feminine penis academy with a bit of jizz in my eye.
You mean nothing to me. No matter how many estrogens u take, no matter how many surgeries ull make, ull never be as pretty as I am. A feminazi cis transgender woman with a cuck fetish.
As we are talking my boy pussi slaves are tracking u down using no hands. You are history little kid.
>>697058085
>maybe because I am autist or a retard or whatever
Come on now /bro, read every thread here..those words get thrown about every 3 seconds, you are none of those things. Just tell your brain you are normal, you can offer value (ie you won't beat her up, rape her, cause emotional blackmail, etc) and then realise you're too valuable for someone that reported you to HR and attempted to ruin your social status. Do you even realise how hard it would be for you to get laid by any other employee there now that she has done this to you. The people here realise these things that you cannot see because you only see the good in people..."She's not a bitch" won't wash here because we all know what she did 3 summers ago.
>>697059059
Even if she did one thing that I agree personally I think was a too harsh, that doesnt make her a total bitch.
>>697044203
You're a retard. Do the company you work at a favor and send her a dick pic and get fired.
She's trying to set you up.
>>697059473
kill yourself op
im out.
/thread
>>697044203
>does something like that
>honestly don't think she'd do something like that
>>697058618
I don't care about getting baited. It means nothing to me. It literally has 0 effect on my life at any given moment.
>>697059317
Ok ok, I suppose I am just being a bit defensive. Like I said I do appreciate people have been trying to help me and trying to make me see how it probably really is.
I dont think I deserved to be reported to HR necessarily, she could have just said "no thanks" but I suppose I was also partly in the wrong and I shouldn't have asked a co-worker on a date.
Even if she was harsh to report it, it doesnt mean she is a horrible person over all.
>>697059692
>baited x2
>>697059815
You're either doing a good job trolling or you're genuinely autistic.
>>697058085
Why would she report you for harassment for that? She's a bitch who thinks she's better than everyone else and now she wants to get you fired. Don't fall for it.
I beg you to realize that it's her who doesn't deserve your attention.
>>697058669
That's just the thing, you don't actually have to be frightening, you have to be unattractive to her. If you were attractive to her this situation would have never, EVER happened.
I am 29 years old, kid. I have seen shit you would not fucking believe. I have a lot of experience with this shit, and hearing about it from my peers. Just. Walk. Away.
Your nuts are controlling your brain right now and your autistic as fuck brain cannot rationally cope with your hormonal urges that are tell you she is an angel. She is not an angel.
The thing is, the first time when you messaged her, you did NOT make a mistake. You had a legitimate interest in her and she flipped the fuck out just because in her mind, you, you plebian beta DARED consider yourself on her level, or close enough to be something more.
It's fucking sad, but that's how the vast majority of these things work. I am going to ask you again to not fall for it, and please for the love of god go the right direction where so many of us, who are pleading with you to save yourself, have been ourselves.
If anything, just wait, and if she continues just ask her in a calm manner to clarify her intentions. She will get mad. Explain to her, with no malice, your situation and if she cannot respect that then that's just too bad for you both.
>>697044203
That's what she wants you to think. Chaos is a ladder
>>697058293
it's just /b/, some amount of noise has to be taken for granted.
>>697045735
This
Also...
>>697043695
Dude, stay far the fuck away. Additionally, tell HR what is going on so you don't get in the glue again if she yells harassment again. Seriously, don't put your penis into crazy.
>>697059815
there is nothing wrong asking a co worker out.
reporting you for it was wrong.
just keep your distance, nothing good can come out of this.
>>697058483
Putting your inability to write sensibly to one side for a minute, I have to ask: are you drunk?!
>go cry some more u fucking faggster.
Projecting much? I'm calling you a moron, not crying.
>I dont care if she thinks she is crazy..
Nor do I so that doesn't make any sense
> Go and complain..first to her and then to the company.
What would complaining to her achieve unless he took my earlier advice and recorded the conversation on his phone?
>If they dont take him seriously, he sues for sexism, sexual harrassment with the 'blessings' of the company.
And how is the company going to give him blessings" when she has put a bad mark in his employment history there?
>I dont care what some bitch thinks that she will do..
Nor does anyone, your drunk talk is annoying though
>Op goes for it.. If by any chance she is indeed in to him..., he fucks her(witht eh danger of her accussing him of rape afterwards)
This part makes a timy bit of sense since a psycho bitch might call rape if she's willing to call harassment for asking her out.
>if she aint interested and just confused, he carries on..tells that little poem about being harrassed, confused and uncomfortable.. (mention rape eyes) and get your redemption the Beta way. The honest Beta way. You are becoming a Beta Prince. Dont go there. Never go full beta.
That is just a string of drunk-talk words, I'm not even going to try to decipher it. Ask your GP for a different form of medication.
>>697059473
>one thing that I agree personally I think was a too harsh
She upended your job security. If you consider that an unintentional consequence of her irrepressible need to tell on you for doing essentially nothing, you have bad judgement.
>total bitch
>total
But you can agree that she is somewhat of a bitch. Good.
What line would she need to cross to be total bitch? Kill your dog?
Dude. No.
Bitch is crazy. Fuck her then never talk to her again and get a new job. Or stop talking to her and move on with your life. Bad news will come if you continue. You know it's true.
Ok, I think I get it and I have to accept there is no chance and I am kidding myself to think there is.
I appreciate nobody trolling or prtending to be OP in this thread and I appreciate 95% of people are giving me good advice. I really dont think she is a bad person and it might be because I am blind but I cant help it. I am just going to be polite but nothing more and try and move on though.
Thank you guys.
>>697043695
Assuming you didn't actually sexually harass her:
>She sends you to HR for sexual harassment
>you get written up and moved
>for whatever reason corporate allows you to move back to previous position
>She is still there
>She now is flirting with you
>You are 100% sure she was stressed out, which is why she reported you
>She is a fucking psycho
You couldn't possibly be this stupid. Its a fucking trap you retard. You are putting yourself in a position to get sued. OR she is a genuine fucking nut case and you are putting yourself in a position to get sued. She already made it clear she isn't afraid to go to HR. You think a lawyer will be difficult for her?
>>697060615
Also, calling her a bitch is giving her some credit. It suggests some agency, and intellect,however corrupted and minimal.
If you insist she's not a bitch, it only leaves the possibility that she's a genuine retard. Broken goods.
If that's the case maybe you guys do suit one another.
>>697061139
still want to hear you call her a bitch, because, she is.
>>697043695
Why don't you just ask her dumby?
Sure women can be retarded and play games but if you want an answer ask her and get one
>hey _________ I'm a little confused. You got me in trouble for harassment before, I left you alone so I wouldn't bother you, and now you are acting oddly flirtatious with me. What's the deal? You you like me to show you my cock right now or are you just trying to get my attention as a friend and only a friend,
If she chooses the latter, kill her on the spot, have sex with her, and then hide her body under your house
Don't shit where you sleep op. She already fucked you over. A lousey bitch right from the start, save yourself the future misery.
>>697061691
yeah, thread is like, over dude.
>>697049454
Then why the fuck are you asking for advice. If you ask that bitch out she can get you fired? Are you retarded? Why would you put yourself in that position?
Be polite but go find someone else.
>>697059815
>I shouldn't have asked a co-worker on a date
I do this literally on a monthly basis.
I've been on a few dates too but most don't take me up on it..
I don't ask to their faces either, it's facebook or other cowardly methods (my success ratio would be so much higher if I demonstrated high value/confidence by doing it in person but that's a different discussion.
anyways: YOU DID NOTHING WRONG.
SHE DID SOMETHING VERY WRONG
given the opportunity : SHE WILL LIKELY DO IT AGAIN.
D O N O T G I V E H E R T H E C H A N C E A G A I N ! ! !
>>697061967
The thread isn't over until I say it is nigger
>>697043695
>I am 100% sure she only made a complaint last time because she was stressed out with other stuff, she didnt want to get me into trouble.
i actually facepalmed.
>>697060612
>go cry some more you faggy Mcfaggtson
>>697060252
This:
>tell HR what is going on so you don't get in the glue again if she yells harassment again.
Damage control time now OP.
>>697062097
It's definitely in endgame mode. It's now about getting the OP to accept that she's a bitch. be helpful, don't rehash old territory.
>>697061146
I don't think OP is giving us the full picture. There is no way HR would move him for just saying hello on Facebook.
Perhaps when she came in to the office in the morning she found him sniffing her chair while masturbating into her coffee cup? That could be construed as harassment.
>>697062285
get out of here u fucking evil retarded genious. Keave. we dibt wabt yh,, bibid kujes y..u hear..nobody.. go and crawl back in your mother's fagjay jay you dense motherfucking moronical plebie pleber from the trailer of da movie that we all hate. just keep doing your thing. love u dude. u are the best.
>>697061139
gl OP
>>697062069
>edgy fag on her period
>>697044203
>>697061139
if u keep it together and she carries on..dont pull the trigger.. I repeat.. Do not pull the trigger. Just gather evidence as that other 'anal' anon proposed and crusify that non bitch. god speed u sad clamsy little fuck. All the best.
>>697043695
You're an idiot, and delusional. Regardless of what reality is, get away from her.
There are tons of options, maybe she feels bad for getting you into trouble, maybe she wants to give you a second chance as a friend. If you try to get this thing sexual, you will just make her realize she was wrong and might get you fired (Or not). But definitely, stay away.
>>697043939
Yes this. Don't be stupid anon. You are, at best, "creepy" in her book.
>>697045556
Yes this. This anon knows what he is talking about. Trust me, I have stalked many girls in my 40 years!
>>697060676
Exactly. That is why you are on here asking advice, anon. Well anons have come through once again with the right answer. If you chose to ignore it, you have only yourself to blame.
There's nothing as depressing as good advice.
>>697061139
Glad we could help, anon. Anons need to stick together, now more than ever.
>>697043695
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
If this is a troll... excelsior to you, sir!
If this is NOT a troll. Get help. You are delusional and are probably a serial killer in the making.
Forget leading you on to get you fired. Shes leading you on so she can sue the employer from bring you back and the same thing happening to her.
Please dont actually be this naive. You sound like a 14 year old.
I'm going to throw out another possible motivation behind her actions besides getting OP fired. Bitch may just smell opportunity. If she can lure him into doing anything that even hints at harassment, she can then sue the company saying "Look I filed a complaint against this guy, the company moved him away for a bit, but then moved him back to my office and he's at it again."
Negligence on part of the company for not properly handling a sexual harassment claim. Big lawsuit against the company, probably settled out of court for serious coin.
>>697062608
I have done this! The chair sniffing! (Not OP). I knew I wasn't the only one!
>>697062623
>>697043695
Are you that dense? let it go, let her go or get yourself let go and your future job ruined.
>>697065205
What's with you and this "edgy" shit? Stop samefagging with this tripe!
Fucking Gaylord McHomosex
>>697065026
Exactly what I was thinking, anon. If you value your job at this place, go to HR, or at least document some of her flirting somehow. Cell phone camera or voice recorder should work nicely.
>>697065452
It's only pussy.
It's only pussy.
It
is
only
pussy.
How about be professional and THAT IS ALL. If she acts weird, document that with your boss on the down low and perhaps ask to be moved away from her. Be cool and professional.
Money matters. Pussy doesn't matter and the people who GET pussy don't treat is like it matters.
Don't fuck co-workers unless in temporary or expendable job in which case rail it.
Crazy NEVER gets better. Ask John Bobbit.
>>697065458
This.
Op has no idea how much he needs to have this documented (recorded).
So many anons have told him but he just avoids the topic like there's a part of him that is masking it somehow.
>>697065452
No, you stop Samefagging anon!
>>697043939
OPEE stay away from the bitch this dude is right.
>>697065558
"edgy", Intensification, implications, bait.
When did you become such a loser? Look in the mirror, you know you can do so much better and be so much more. :)
>>697065797
This.
>copypasta
The next time you lust over an image, or the idea of having sex with an amazingly beautiful woman such as sweet Emma here, I want you to realise something, and picture this the next time you fap over the created memory of your coitus;
At some stage in her life, she's been sat on the toilet for at least 20 minutes, straining like fuck to squeeze out a massive turd, taking a deep breath and clenching her stomach muscles in an attempt to put some pressure behind the huge, stodgy stool of digested food and stomach acids that is currently forcing her anus to painfully widen. Then there's that small spiky bit of shit that pokes out the side and scratches the side of her rectum as she strains, bringing tears to her eyes, so she shifts to one side and tugs on a cheek to make it a little easier for the painful piece to pass.
Then it snaps, and the gigantic depth charge plunges into the water, splashing her arse cheeks with pissy and shitty water, but she can't relax as the turd is still halfway out, and if she unclenches, she just known it'll vanish back up her arsehole like a botfly larvae.
Finally the solid shit passes, but is immediately followed by the newer, softer shit which splurts out of her rectum like someone paint-spraying a fence in a cacophony of loud noises and a stomach-emptying stench that clings to the walls and won't shift for hours
Now she's finished, she takes the pressure off her knees, groaning as her spine rights self, having been arched over for so long. She grabs some paper and wipes, but it was messier down there then she thought, and she realises to lat she's just spread liquid shit all over the inside of her butt cheeks and near her vaginal entrance, and it takes another 20 sheets and 10 wipes before she can be sure it's all gone.
Then of course, it's another 5 minutes at the sink trying to get all the shit out from under her fingernails.
ok this one is easy
>let her ask you out
>be a gentleman and get her reasonably drunk
>take her home and have sex
>when she's asleep, take a nude pic with her phone of her
>'accidently' send it to all coworkers from her phone
5)???
6)profit
>>697043939
in before I just got fired post
in before I just got fired post
in before I just got fired post
in before I just got fired post
in before I just got fired post
>>697065965
"no you" *giggles.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pKNuPjpMWb0
>>697066123
No, you look in the mirror, anon!
>>697066595
see this:
>>697066504
>>697066823
No you see this, anon!
dat bish is 30
>>697066369
Damn, that was fucking hot! I would rather she shit on my chest though.
>>697066982
see this
>>697066504
>>697051410
Seriously man, ignore her, act uninterested, if she is trying to fuck you over she will stop eventually because she knows it isn't working. If she actually likes you, ignoring her will drive her crazy and she will make a move.
