Feels thread bros?
Also, help me please.
My girlfriend says I'm controlling. I sometimes tell her to do better at things such as conversing with me. She gets annoyed because she doesn't feel like changing herself for me. She says I'm manipulative. I make her feel bad when she doesn't give me what I want. And she doesn't like to say so because she doesn't want to make me upset. I usually tell her she's been difficult when she doesn't do what I want. I also question her about her friends, because I dont trust them. I also get a bit jealous. And I don't like it when she goes places with them. I don't deliberately try to be controlling. I think it's because I'm really insecure. She says she might leave me if I don't work on this. Help me bros. We've been dating for 11 months and i really love her.
>>695222289
Oh my god, are you me?
>>695223588
Probably.
>>695222289
Leave her.
If you need to manipulate her, even unintentionally, and don't trust her, this relationship will not work. You can try to improve yourself, but you 2 will probably break up one day or another.
It would be better if you could trust your girlfrend's friends, but if you already don't trust them, that's hard to happen.
Break up, improve your acceptance skills, understand that a girlfriend is not only a woman but a complete pack with families, friends and adictions, then start looking for a new girlfriend
>>695222289
>At the club.
>Turn off the autism.
>Meet guy.
>"Hey nice to meet you. Don't dance with my girl don't want any trouble."
>Don't want any beef so spend the rest of the night dancing by myself.
>>695222289
i literally went through like the same exact thing earlier this year and then she broke up with me
cant change a person if they dont want to mate
>>695222289
You don't love her. You don't even know what it means to love someone. Jealousy, manipulation, demanding she change when you won't...kill yourself. Right fucking now.
DO IT, FAGGOT!
>>695222289
you dont want to be with her anyway, you are literally trying to change the way you interact.
>>695226576
this is pretty dumb. you can choose to be ruthless, work on charisma, work on courage, you may not be BORN gifted but you can hone your talents.
people act like they are stuck where they are and deserve some special life.
>>695230544
It may imply the guy going around the circle is not willing to choose those things. That's why, if you choose "Later" at the end it gives you another opportunity to be courageous, charismatic, etc. when the opportunity comes.
>>695230544
exactly right. The real successful people know they aren't born with these traits but practise and become good at utilising them.
>>695222289
Feel you bro. Recently broke up with the girl I thought would be with me forever. 30 months together, every day was the best day ever and for once I felt motivated and appreciated life every day I woke up. Then one night she decided to move out. No arguing beforehand, no fighting, nothing. She came to sleep next to me, woke up before me to pack some stuff and dropped the bomb when I woke up. Worst wake up ever.
Now life is back to what it was before, me witnessing it roll by every day. Not giving a fuck. No spiraling down, but no progress either. Not particularly sad or depressed, but not happy either. Everything is just a big void.
Here, have a picture.
>>695230859
thats what you'd think but in the context it seems to be implying that you have to be born with those things and its unfair for those who arent. maybe im mis reading the tone of it all though, but it came off as whiny.
i like my feels strong.
>>695231213
It is a bit whiny, but I know, when depression hits hardest (like it has over the weekend...still not on the other side of it yet) I get whiny. It's a bad trait to have, but I have not yet found a way to overcome that works for me.
>>695231731
i didnt say that you were whiny, just that the image itself seemed whiny. though i guess posting it and thinking of it in the context of 'LIFE IS UNFAIR CUZ I DONT HAVE THESE THINGS' is whiny by extension, but commenting on the image itself here.
why are you depressed?
I don't have much.
Only recently got back here. Had a few years of break.
I missed you bros though.
>>695232124
>>695232124
Were you in love and happy and she just dumped you?
>>695232203
This would probably have been more appropriate.
>>695222289
So her logic is she is perfect the way she is but you have to change? Yeah, thats a keeper.
I'm alone.
Didn't see another human bean for 6 months
>>695222289
Do a barrel roll!!!
>>695232221
I know I was, I know she seemed so happy and joyful too. It was never discussed thoroughly though. She said she didn't see us progress. Still have her picture next to my bed. Still have her toothbrush next to mine.
>>695222289
Been in the same situation, trust me if you stay in that situation its gonna be a big waste of time /b/ro, either you the change the way you are and live in agony or you let her leave and try again later
>>695232640
Are you okay with that?
>>695222289
>On /b/
>Has gf
What a fucking liar. Fuck you and an hero
>>695232850
>Still have her toothbrush next to mine.
Damn. I can't dump hers
>>695232640
Thank me later.
>>695231906
For the record, I should have clarified; I didn't post that image. I was merely defending it.
I've been trying to move to another level in my life and external factors are seeming to work against me. I don't go outside much after work and breaking the ice with people is very difficult (way to self conscious of how much of a derp I can be and a shredded sense of worth lingering from junior high...18 years ago) so I'm chugging along with minimal external support. It just sort of cascaded Saturday into Forever Alone and yesterday...a misunderstanding at work led to me being sent home very early and completely unbalanced my carefully maintained emotional wellbeing. I'm still not fully recovered but I have today off so I'm praying a little extra time and no triggers will finish pulling through.
I hope...with what little I have left right now.
>>695233017
No
No friends
I tried. At best they just answer "Yeah sure Buddy I will text you and we'll grab a beer"
(They never text me)
GF left me and is probably fucking Chad or Chad2. Probably forgot my name and my face
No job because I dropped out of school
>>695233241
Yeah. Still have her shampoo she left. Still wear what she bought me.
Feels are horrible at you like that.
>>695233251
>>695233251
woof, that is the most tumblr thing I have ever read mate.
fuck ur triggers.
>>695233447
i relate with that one.
life is a constant struggle of finding the balance between being liked and being yourself. very conflicting feelings often times. what is something you can improve and what is simply putting on an act?
>>695233447
Learn a trade and try to get to know people through that
>>695233447
Go for a walk.
>>695233447
been there, im this anon:
>>695233719
things that will help
>suggest a day
>if they turn you down, suggest another day
>if they wont hone in on a day, drop em
it sucks but thats how you find out who actually wants to hang out with you.
>>695233587
And her clothes!
And since she moved out of town she doesn't have reminders of me. She got a clean slate. Clean of me!
>>695233876
>>if they wont hone in on a day, drop em
Yeah that's what I did. And now no one left. And they clearly don't care, they have their real friends. I was just passing.
>>695234109
thats why you go and make more and more. its a world full of people, and you'd be surprised. my friendships may not last long, but i manage to make em meaningful.
>>695234109
and woof i relate to that image way too hard. but im changing it . a lot.
you gotta forge your friendships.
>>695233908
Yeah man... It hurts. A lot. Acknowledging it only makes it worse.
I feel constant stress about finding something to get my mind off of reality. Standing still alone with your thoughts is just too crushing and everything gets so very dark and grim way too fast. Trying to fall asleep is hell. Alone in bed, there's just too much time to scroll through all the "good memories". No matter how hard I try, they always eventually get to me, way too quickly. No matter how hard I consciously try to block them out.
>>695234270
I can't go alone, I just drink too much and I'm that creepy dude staring at people or talking non-sense, clearly too needy.
>>695234700
what? nowhere in my post did i say to go to a bar mate.
>>695234700
>>695234830
on top of that you are insisting you cant do anything because of a behavior you can control, if you want to be a sad loner because thats what makes you special, then stop posting.
you and I were cut from the same cloth. the difference is I work at it. perhaps thats the difference between making new friends, and being YOU.
>>695234658
>Trying to fall asleep is hell. Alone in bed, there's just too much time to scroll through all the "good memories". No matter how hard I try, they always eventually get to me, way too quickly. No matter how hard I consciously try to block them out.
I just numb myself with shitty TV shows until I can't resist and fall asleep.
But then you dream about her and you have to wake up
>>695225692
This guy is right. As it stands you are not ready for a mature and committed relationship, OP. Work on those trust issues and allow your future partners freedom. Keep communication clear and open. Yes, if you have grievances you should air them instead of letting them fester, but consider what your issue is and whether self-improvement over compromise would fix it. You don't trust her friends? Is that something you need to tell her to fix or something you should work on yourself? Your relationship is built between two people only. Trusting her friends has fuck all to do with your trust in her, so you need to drop that shit and learn for next time around.
Going three years single before my current gf after splitting up with who I thought was the "one" lead me to figure out a lot of my own issues. My last relationship broke because of issues in me. When I accepted that and worked hard on self-improvement, I've managed to approach my newest relationship like an adult, not a petulant child.
>>695234942
Yeah sure I love being a sad loner, I feel so special. I'm like a snowflake!
>>695234658
I feel you bro but you just gotta find a distraction until you find another someone to fill the void, my distraction for now is weed, super smash bros melee and my friends.
>inb4 i know melee kinda sucks to some people
>>695235260
you claim you dont want to be, yet you insist on being one. you've given up on basic human interaction because 'NAH I STARE AT PEOPLE TOO MUCH'
think about it anon. do you think the people on tumblr want to be oppressed? yes. none of them actually are so they whine about how they are all day because of minor inconveniences in order to make themselves feel special.
you, like them, have a victim complex. being a victim, being able to whine, gives you a purpose in life.
tumblr has its 'most oppressed' contest.
4chan has its most depressed' contest
and you are determined to win.
what do i have that you dont? simply a will to make friends. i dont take excuses.
>>695235451
Who do you main, anon
>Marth fag here
About a year ago, I pretty much fell head over heels for this girl. She was great in every way- we shared a lot of interests and skills, she had an outgoing personality, I didn't even know a woman so right could exist. 2015 passed- we talked a lot but needless to say, I never really "said anything". Fast forward to about 5/6 weeks ago- I was seriously considering asking her out soon, then I found out. See, Some of my friends ( including her) and I were down a local cafe, talking and just having a good time. She asks me to pass something to her, and I fumble a bit, almost passing the wrong thing. My good friend notics this and immediately picks up on what's going on. After I gave her the thing, he walks up to me with a pained expression on his face. He discretely says to me: "Uhh, dude, you know she's a lesbian, right...?" It felt like a cannonball just blasted a hole right through me. I manage to squeeze out some words and look collected- "Yeah, I do- there's no... yeah." A little later, we all separate and walk home. I walked in, closed the door, walked to my room and flopped onto my bed. I didn't know what to think of what just happened. I didn't know what to do with myself. I still don't. I still talk to her as I always do. I want to let go, I want to pull the plug, I want to STOP but I just can't. At least my friend was kind enough to spare me the internal humiliation etc. that would have happened had he not told me.Funnily enough, though, she seemed to get slightly flirty with me every so often.....Maybe she's bi? I doubt it.
>>695235669
>what do i have that you dont? simply a will to make friends. i dont take excuses.
No clearly you don't have problems to make ones.
>>695222289
Im identical to you bro, and ive been married for 5 years now so heed my advice:
>find a girl who is weird and socialy inept
>her being chinese or japanese helps, they default to the man in relationships
>get rid of her friends asap, female friends subconciously always try to ruin relationships cause they want what she has
>use silence, it hurts more than words and is alot more subtle
>when she dosnt do what you want frame it as she dosnt listen to you/respect you/love you
just a few pointers
The only genuine friend I have had doesn't want to speak to me. I have to see her tomorrow for a project review for college but I know we'll sit there in silence while I dig myself into a deeper hole. I don't have anyone else.
I'm a burden on everyone I come into contact with emotionally and financially. My parents don't want me around, my mother called me an embarrassment. I'm a disgusting, worthless leech.
When I was younger I thought I was going to do good things, make people happy, I wanted to be an animator, but all I can do is hurt people. I'm going to take my dog for a walk and then kill myself tonight or tomorrow. I hope you guys find happiness. Best wishes.
>>695235451
Yeah. Been playing games on Steam a lot lately. Not much of a social person and I've already had my share of being intoxicated. Games work just fine for the time being.
inb4
>>695229297
>>695236046
My now- fiancée dated only women through college. I taught her to love the D.
Go for it.
>>695236726
Whats your steam brah ? Cs:go ?
>>695236985
>colour
>color
I stopped reading, britfag.
>>695236985
I'm going to get fucking rich as a VR developer
>>695235843
Dude saaaaame
>>695237340
My nigga
>white Marth tho
>not red Marth
At least you're not green I guess
>>695237567
Sorry bud not a big ken fan
I'm in a shitty ass job
No gf, virgin, never kissed, no friends
Think about how I want to die every day
Life is shit
>>695237051
Occasionally.
76561198021219569
>>695222289
I'm in the same place as you bro and have been for quite some time I know how miserable it is to let her hang out with people you dont trust, my girlfriend was still friends with her ex boyfriend years after they broke up, only because they were best friends since elementary school, but if your girl really likes you and you dont try to force your opinions or anything on her she'll slowly open up to the idea. Or you could be an alpha and continue to manipulate her to stay in the relationship and act like you dont give a shit about any of it, for example when she goes and hangs out with her friends just stop talking to her for a week which i know itll be hard to do but after like 4 days youll give in anyway but shell get the message. If your girl isnt giving you what you want there is always and I mean always a girl whos gonna be better to you so keep that in mind. She doesnt matter, only you matter so do what makes you happy
>>695236152
I had the same issues. all those images you posted struck thee same chords with me. my longest friendship was 9 months.
just because you have 'problems' doesnt mean you can work on them. you chose not to. i am working at it.
>>695236311
whats the point?
>>695222289
>Life traps, OP, life traps
Read a book. Think about counselling. TELL HER you feel insecure. Tell her you feel jealous. What's the worst thing
>>695222289
Here's the thing OP:
That fear of losing her is getting you too much.
Effect being that you're acting very controlling, even deliberately so.
Try to get rid of that, and make clear to her that that's the reason why. Not in a desperate manner, just very clear. Ask her if she can help you get rid of it, and you have to work on it yourself as well.
First off, start trusting her more. Seriously, she's not up for a relationship where you can't even get the trust of your significant other.
Second, understand that she needs her own space, just as much as you do. And grant her that space.
If anything, do your best and show that you are doing your best. If she understands and you are showing that you're putting effort into changing, then both of you will feel a lot happier.
If anything, ask yourself if it's really alright for you not to trust her friends or if it's just you being afraid. If you do feel like there's something wrong, be straight up about it.
This isn't about you being her little bitch, it's about recognizing that you have a fear that is having a hold on you. if she can not appreciate that you are reflecting on yourself and putting effort into changing it, it's not worth sticking with her. Maybe you won't believe me when I say this, maybe you will, but humans are replaceable. She is, your friends are, even your dog.
>>695229228
not feels. just. pure. degeneracy.
>>695238657
it was pretty bad advice. jealousy goes away after a while and later she will complain if you dont pretend that youre jealous so you really have to fake being upset just to make sure she doesnt go too far to spark your emotions. dont complain when she does something bad even though it is really hard. instead try to compliment her when she does something you appreciate. learn how to scream and cry of happiness so that even the dumbest girl could understand how happy you are. this will teach her how to make you happy. girls are really not much different from dogs
>>695239068
>Tell your gf about your insecurities
Top kek virgin.
Do this if you want to fast track to separation.
She'll lose respect for you and smell the weakness every time you are near.
>>695236719
If you are going to kill yourself, please remember there Is Life out there Outside of places where you are used to being.
And you night not realize it but there Is people who dont want you to die
If you arent going to kill yourself, youve proved you arent totally worthless, you become stronger from experiences.
Show people that you arent worthless, by being alive.
>>695237710
What job
trenbolone will never cheat on you.
>>695231028
This is a lie that serves the establishment. Try as hard as you want, but you'll still fail. But by the time you realize it, you're too old to do anything about it. Not that it changes anything, because all revolutions fail anyway.
>>695240242
If shes not there to support you, she means nothing, love Works when you support eachother, she Is suppose to Be there for him
>>695240620
Self termination is a basic human right
>>695241000
it is, but how can you end everything when you havent seen everything
>>695241000
Rights don't exist, faggot. But if you have the opportunity to kill yourself, you better take it.
Short story time.
So there's this girl I met at college during freshman year. She was beautiful, but reserved - and not many guys noticed her.
But I noticed her. And I, being the beta faggot I was, couldn't work up the courage to talk to her.
So I thought I could get her to notice me through other means, whether it be wearing a Romney hat in liberal land or spending a shitload of money for pies in some forgettable class that you shared.
Then, I thought that if I lifted, maybe becoming /fit/ would get her to like me.
But I still couldn't talk to her, though I was able to talk to other girls. They were babes, not a single girl under 7/10, but they just weren't her. There were girls that were much sexier than her, girls that I had a chance with, but turned down because I had put her on a pedestal and worshipped her like an idol. They say that the things that you want most in life are the things that you can't have.
That statement will never be more true than when she passed away. It happened so fast, the police reports said. When a motorcyclist comes down on the wrong side of the road and you swerve to avoid them, you don't expect that you'll wrap your car around a telephone pole. I cried so hard the night I found out. My dad overheard me and give me a bottle of Jack Daniels without saying anything more than "drink up". I drank until I passed out.
I want you Anons to know that you need to stop being afraid of talking to "the girl". You know who I mean. The one that you think about before you go to bed. The one that you daydream of when work is slow and you can afford to fool around. The one that might have liked you back, but you never bothered taking to her.
Don't let your dream die in vain.
Don't let Regan die in vain.
>>695241151
I haven't eaten all hamburgers, but I'm pretty sure I know what the hamburger I haven't eaten taste like.
>>695241328
Yes but you havent change the place, you havent eatem all the pastas
>>695241556
Hamburger is a metaphor for pasta.
>>695240732
Salesman at a supplement store
Always retard people and angry come make me pissed cause they have no respect for me and always think they are my boss and order me like: let me taste this, give me this free, do this and this
Fucking hate people
>>69524130
I've received similar advice by my grandfather. He passed in 2009 due to cancer that spread through his body.
He said, "Regret comes from omittance."
What he means is: Regret doesn't come from what you HAVE done, it comes from what you HAVEN'T done.
>>695222289
Can you imagine seeing her with him? Laughing, smiling, enjoying life with him?
Can you imagine her saying 'I love you' to him, and him saying it back?
Can you imagine her taking off her clothes, and having him run his hands over her body?
Can you imagine him being the one she marries?
Him being the one who she spends her life with, happily?
I can. And it kills me every moment of every day. I'm here for you, /b/ros. Please... just be here for me too.
>>695242196
Try being more passive agressive
Also have you tried for searching others jobs
>>695236904
Eh. Maybe she is bi.
>>695241328
Life's a one time experience. No matter how good or bad or painful it is, it's worth going through. At least you can say you've experienced something in the end.
I love all of you.
Like the brothers I never had.
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0XuNjoWeG43
-J
>>695242411
Tried before this got but all of them turned me down, cause I didn't have experience in sales.
Just because I workout at the gym and know this stuff I got in to this job.
I really want to leave but I really need the money for my flight to japan that I'm arranging (the only thing that will be good in my life).
And on November I go on a pre University school for a year cause my grades in high school suck and I can't apply to any good degree and I can't afford to search for a job
maybe its cause ur a faggot
>>695242404
I love you man... that really hurt.
Emo kid here, much too long for me to read, but ill post some of the best tunes here for ya. Dont kill yourself
>>695243008
Beautiful.
>>695243381
>/mu/core
>>695243480
Sorry, no dethgrips here
Also, if this is so /mu/ why do I catch flack for even mentioning the emo revival?
>>695243088
Well what do you love doing, or are good at you could Chase after that or focus on studying or go to conctructiom job, they arent that hard really, simple once you get how things work, and extra muscle Is always good on big conctructiom site, i worked at couple of them when i was 17. You Just totta find contacts.
There are alot of things you can do, if you start simple, My friend earns living from buying cars from others countries cheap and importing and selling them higher
>>695242902
There's no moment you reach when you say "okay, I'm at the end, wow I actually did things in my life, let's die now". You just get a heart attack out of nowhere and spend hours in agony before you lose consciousness and die.
If your life sucks, there's plenty of people that can live instead. It's not like there's a deficiency in numbers of people to live lives. And maybe you even free up resources by dying.
>>695243817
Ahaha, /mu/ hates everyone, including themselves.
Digging your taste for the most part though.
You'll like this guy.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7kqI5fAlv5E
>>695244034
Or bomb Africa
>>695239413
if you left your basement you might understand
>>695244251
Maybe those niglets are very happy. Monkeys shit where they eat and seem happy, why not niggers?
(TV exaggerates the suffering in Africa because they want you to send them money.)
>>695222289
Sounds like the ol reverse control projection. Gotta think of a way to make her realize she wants you, or not. Install tinder perhaps, speak plainly in your desc. Chicks eat that shit up.
>>695244218
Heard of them before, gunna check it out now, thanks bro!
>>695244832
By speak plainly, I mean something cryptic like "seeing what else life has to offer"
Also try drinking together. NEVER WITH HER FRIENDS
Goodnight /b/.
-J
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XdttkLjFNwM
>>695244027
I'm not ry a big guy for a construction job my weight is 60 kilo because I have a psychological eating disorder that interfere with me trying to gain weight
Stupid body
Cars wouldn't work in my country cause we have 100% tax on import cars so I'm paying double to get a car from outside the county
The problem is that I didn't find my will to live, I'm and 1.5 year will probably go to university and I don't know what I want to do in my life or what to study.
The only thing that keep me "strong" is my flight plan to japan but after that I don't know what to do.
I don't have any friend either, they always say let's meet up I will text you and never text again or when I ask they always have plans. No female friends also
When I'm not at work I'm in my house doing nothing and lay on bed unhappy
I wish there was something that could make me go back in time and change my stupid life
>>695222289
I'm living your nightmare
Change yourself, work on you, look into anger management before something awful happens.
My wife left me because I did that stuff and her friends encouraged her, she has a restraining order on me now, for one year and I'm in anger management that would've solved our problems if I had only done it when we were together
Work on you my brother, you must have a good heart if you're trying to talk this out now. You can do it..
Too late for me now
>>695245480
Where you live?
Maybe get heavy vehicle licence and start transporting stuff or something
I dont really know how things work on some countries, because in My country its really easy to make money imo
>>695246382
Fucking jew land named israel where the only thing that the president is care about it is oen money and welfare
Heavy vehicle license is too expensive about 2500$-3000$ to get because of the system here
From start I think I'll just try to find a hobby, have any good idea anon?
>>695247100
Well what type of hobby
I myself enjoy Playing music, tinkering with electronics and circuits and audio stuff such as mixing in
Small concerts.
>>695226576
I like this. Anyone without any of those traits deserves to die.
>>695229445
oh boy
>>695247633
Idk I have a problem I tried of anything quick I tried soccer basketball tennis guitar trumpet piano martial arts computer games, programming and more I can't remember
>>695248469
It seems like you dont Invest enough Time and motivation on them?
Oh and try Bass, its really underrated Instrument, easy to learn, hard to master.
i havent really been here too long, but ive been lurking since maybe april. first time posting in a feels thread, and i want to get this off my chest and maybe get some advice.
>at the lake with my friend and his sister
>have a huge crush on the sister
>hide my feelings usually but shit slips sometimes, nothing super obvious though
>were all watching the sunset
>i see the sister
>the light from the sunset surrounds her, her form sillouetted by the pink sky
>she turns to me and smiles
>i smile back
wake up
>its 6 am
>go to lifting, do my best to keep the dream out of my head
>get home around 10 ish
>tell her and my other friend (not her brother) about the dream
i skipped a few bits but thats the part that really sticks out in my memory
in the dream she was my gf, and we were happy together
>they try to figure out who the girl in my dream was
>she asks if the girl went to our school
"doesnt matter since ive got no chance with her, but being friends is better then nothing"
>my friend knows whats up
>probably laughs for a bit, but doesnt tell her
>shes confused and probably has a clue
>conversation dies down
nothing important for 3 or 4 days
>get a text from her
>pic related
>after a couple hours, respond saying i like her too
>saying i do want to be more than friends, but change scares me
>she says we should let things settle down
>all conversation after that is kinda awkward
i know ive fucked up, do i have any chance of redemption? also if it would interest you i could post the text conversation. i want to do something, but im kinda scared how her brother or family would react if anything happened between us.
worth a read
>>695241206
anything you can defend you ability to do is your right
>>695244640
summerfag
>>695222289
Chill the fuck out you weak, spineless, insecure excuse of a man. You probably thought a girlfriend would sole all your deep seated self-loathing and inadequacies but instead it has brought them out and made them glaringly obvious in the context of another human being, and just as before you've proven unable to deal with them, only this time its not just you you're hurting, but the person you've convinced yourself you love.
You've gotta sort yourself out man. It sounds like you aren't ready for a relationship yet, too much baggage and bullshit floating around in your skull that you're only somewhat cognizant of and comfortable dealing with.
>>695250205
post the conversation
>>695252612
>getting baited
>>695230038
>You don't love her
love, fuck that shit
>>695229445
I tried. And she didn't love me. As nearly everyone else.
>I also get a bit jealous
First of all: THIS - STOP IT! Jealousy is childish trait that girls finds off-putting.
>I'm controlling
>I sometimes tell her to do better at things
Sounds like you really want to help her develop and explore her potential, but unfortunately you channeling this into manipulation.
sounds like you need to improve your communication. and the one thing you need to do in order to improve things is easier said than done: you need to learn to let things go and move on.
micromanaging is one of the best ways to ruining it for yourself socially. and getting rid of this trait will not only improve your relationship but also be a great gain for you on many levels.
>>695222289
>when she doesn't give me what I want
anal sex?
If all that nice people got killed or couldn't be saved, why would I be saved? I'm doomed.
>>695222289
You sound like you suck. Not trying to be dick, but everything you wrote out makes me think you need to change yourself or you are gonna end up all alone.
>>695253981
Fuck, remember it
>when she doesn't give me what I want
eat shit? what, faggot?
>>695222289
So it isn't true love. If I had a girlfriend I'd give her everything she would ever imagine. And be always nice to her. I had a girl, that I loved. I tried to be the best for her. But she didn't love me. But I still tried. And nothing. I still love her. She doesn't. Forever I guess
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>>695253816
next part
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>>695256186
part after
so am i compleatly lost? i feel like i said something wrong
>>695256392
>>695256186
She just told you she has feelings for you, the majority of what you said was "I'm worried how other people will react"
Use the stones between your legs, ask her out on a date. Don't give a fuck what her parents might think. Do what she wants you to do. Be a fucking man for fucks sake
>>695256186
>>695256392
you are being WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY to forward man
>>695234658
Wow. Hit me like a ton of bricks.
>>695253981
I remember that one... It made me feel so angry and so sad at the same time.
my girl left because we've never really had a connection. like our conversations don't flow. can anyone help me fix this?
>>695257947
You can't, she's gone. Probably already with another guy.
Its normal. Be more patient your view is slanted.
>>695257947
yeah don't be autistic
>>695222289
>>695225692
Some people just cant help it. They just get used to manipulating others in situations where they're uncomfortable or uncertain. It feels like you're always getting put into these situations where you don't know what the best thing to say or do, and then eventually its just a habitual aspect of how you interact with others. It feels safer to do it this way, but it takes away transparency and damages trust.
Maybe you're just anxious and bad with emotional interaction, maybe you have bpd or sociopathic tendencies. The only thing that matters is that you're honest with yourself about the way you try to communicate your intentions and thoughts to others, and maintain a dialogue with her about this. If you dont want it to end you need to make sure you guys are letting each other know where the problems are. She needs to tell you when you make her feel bad when it happens, and you need to let her know what it is that makes you insecure or uncomfortable enough to respond this way. Just keep reassuring each other when it gets rough like this, that part shouldnt be to hard if you love her
question for you /b/ros
what does it mean when she does literally anything you tell her to, anytime?
is there any possible reason why is this bad?
how lucky am I?
>>695259310
to what extent?
>>695229228
my life
I really need some advice right now. I don't know whether to continue studying humanity-based subjects (which I will likely excel in) or do a more maths and sciency one, which I will likely find massively more difficult and hard to do. Maths and science ones are obviously more likely to be beneficial for jobs and such, but will the merit of choosing them be cancelled out if I don't do particularly well.
I'm really, really stressed out right now, and I need to pick soon. Any words of advice would be very, very appreciated.
>>695259748
>#relatable
>>695259542
Anything.
Schedule changes, clothing, food, movies, games, sex acts.
If I ask for anything, my opinion becomes law.
I try not to ask for things just to prevent myself from overstepping my boundaries.
But the weird thing is that it doesn't seem like there are any boundaries.
>>695225234
tht big black reference
>>695259800
Are you in university/college? What year of study out of how many?
>>695235843
Fox.
>>695225234
She just doesn't care
>>695260405
She's the one single beta girl in your town
>>695260771
Shit.
I never realized this until just now.
It never really crossed my mind that there are even beta girls.
Seems like all the women that I usually run into are super independent types. A lot of them are in business and medical jobs
>>695222289
>she doesn't feel like changing herself for me.
And dropped
>tfw life is tearing you to pieces and you feel horrible for being depressed because others have it worse than you
Anyone else going through this?
>>695260518
Nah, I haven't gone to university yet. I've got another year before university. However, I have to choose what subjects I'm going to study at my school - the choice and results of which will decide what university I go to.
>>695261623
A-levels?
>>695260405
Theres a lot of people like that, usually just means they aren't really picky with how they spend their time and don't have a lot of opinions. I feel like a lot of girls just don't realize how much easier it makes everything though. Every guy ive met who was like that just realizes their opinion shouldn't matter because they dont care nearly as much. If you meet a girl who realizes this, wife her
>>695261476
went through it. The key is to not give a shit about anyone outside of your bubble.
I found 9/11 jokes and being racist helps.
>>695261987
Yeah, that's the one.
bump so no 404
I've pretty much been in love with the same girl since 7th grade. I tried tell her how I feel a couple years ago but I didn't know how to take it from there. Then a couple months later her and a good friend of mine started dating and I tried getting over her, I thought I did but J ended up going back to her. Then we ended up being really close friends but and I actually felt confident enough to ask her out and I got the blessing of my good friend who was with. Minutes before I was gonna ask her out she had told me that she really liked this fucking douche in our class and they started dating. I got really depressed and angry especially when I saw them together, I was angry at the fucking douche who didn't deserve her but I never publicly showed my emotion. I almost crashed one time after I saw them together after school. Everyone knew I liked her so I'm pretty sure he did that on purpose to spite me. Then when I noticed they weren't on speaking terms anymore and we started being close again. I got my confidence back and I was gonna ask her to our senior prom. I had my friend help me on how to ask her out she made the poster for me and everything. The morning of the day I was gonna ask her she tells me that she's gonna go to prom with a friend of hers that she's known since like kindergarten only because her mom said it would be cute. At this point I got really depressed again to the point that I could not hide it for the first few days even though I would deny it. I remember the day of prom and the day after were one of the saddest days of my life. I got to see her and all my friends have a blast at prom through snapchat while I stayed home alone on Xbox. I remember my best guy friend telling me that night that " today would've have been your day" at that point I couldn't control my tears and got really depressed to the point that I was looking for a way out but o didn't. The next day I still had school because prom was on a Thursday
>>695262743
How would you change your A-levels with one year left? What subjects you studying atm? What humanities degree you looking to pursue? What maths/science degree would you think about pursuing?
Studying CompSci at a Russell Group uni so I can give some advice
Well,shit.
I've been to a bunch of these and I love those threads,But never shared my story,It's pretty long so it will take me a while,if someone wants it then it's yours.
It's about a she,of course.
>>695263187
I'm lurking
>>695263095
Grow up dude, there's a difference between being in love with some one and being obsessed with her. Love is mutual.
>>695263187
I will screencap it
>>695263099
Okay, I'm bending the truth a bit in terms of how many years until university, if you hear what I'm saying. I was thinking of doing Eng Lit, History, Biology, and Gov and Pol as my humanities A-Levels, and then Gov and Int Relations at uni maybe. Alternatively, I was thinking of doing Maths, Biology, Politics, and maybe Physics and then doing computer science at university (and doing external courses to make up for my lack of computing A-Level, because my school doesn't teach it). I reckon I could get get Russel group for the former, but it's very unlikely for the latter. What do you reckon?
>>695263095
So in all this time you've never actually told her how you feel?
>>695263187
I want to read it
I fucked up /b/ros
> 8 month old daughter
>second baby on way
>working a hazardous job
>job puts stress on my joints fingers swollen joints Inflamed
>can't give up, money & it's been my dream all through life
She looks up to me, always praising my hard work. I put a brave face on but I'm honestly tired, I love them all but I feel so locked in now I might never get out until I'm a broken man who will never work again.
Such is life of the trawlermen.
Currently laying in bed, she's in the bath, my hands feel like they are on fire and I can feel my pulse in my fingers. How fucked am I?
>>695263095
And I was not excused from school because I didn't go, I was 1 of like 8 seniors who showed up. Now we're in college taking summer school where I thought I could finally spend time with her but unfortunately she met a guy the first fucking day before class and they're probably on a date right now and I don't know what to do while the girl of dreams goes out with other guys because I'm just too slow. We're still really good friends but I want to be more than that but I don't know if she fully realizes that. I barely get any sleep thinking of that every night
>>695263592
>>695263757
>>695263775
Um,It's kind of a long story made in a short time,Pretty much me ruining everything,So please wait up because I have to write all that shit in english now,So,It'll take me a while.
>>695263865
>Pretty much me ruining everything
>>695263865
Do it before the thread die bro
>>695226576
ITS THE CIRCLE OF LIIIIIIYYYYFE
>INGONYAMA NINGWEN AMABALA
>>695263863
Sounds more like an obsession than anything. You don't have the balls to tell her how you feel, shes just living her life, can't fault her for that. Chances are if you've let this much time pass without telling her, you're not ever going to.
>>695263843
I love you
>>695263773
I did but I didn't really do anything about it. It was freshman year I told her through text and she had told me that my had had let it slip out one time he was mad at me. We just kind of talked for a bit I don't really remember what but I remember her best friends telling me they were there when I had text her and they told me that I was actually doing pretty good and I should have asked her out but I missed my shot when she started dating a good friend of mine like a month later
>>695263766
Got into Sheffield with Maths, Physics and Ethics&Philosophy. Their only requirement was a Maths A-level which is very very common across all engineering degrees. Obviously look this up for yourself. Didn't do a lick of programming before I arrived and I'm smashing my programming assignments, getting firsts consistently. So don't worry about not doing computing at A-level.
If you don't think you can get into a RG uni for engineering, then I wouldn't bother. It'll be a lot easier finding a job with a 2.1 or higher from a RG in Gov and Int Rel than a job with a maths degree from a uni that isn't accredited.
That's the most important thing about uni btw, if the course is accredited. I almost applied to Exeter but their CS course wasn't accredited so I didn't bother.
>>695264495
Thanks /b/ro
I wanna do the right thing, I just feel a little overwhelmed at the sheer change in circumstances.
dumping
>>695264667
Girls are usually pretty perceptive when it comes to that stuff. Honestly it sounds like shes friendzoned you. If she was interested in you, you guys probably would have dated already. You need to move on.
>>695264722
So, potentially if I did Eng Lit, History, Pol and Maths, I could have both options open? Do you think if I did get say an A in maths at A-Level, they'd allow me to do Computer Science with the other three being so incongruous?
>>695265346
Wow that made me feel bad
>>695263865
So...
>be me almost 4 months ago
>Short,Brown jeiwsh hairy kid that think he has a good self-asteem but keeps insulting himself
>Playing some gay game I saw on steam that I used to play back on 2009,was about to quit
>Just before I exit a room someone gets in and we play for a while
>End up talking for fucking 8 hours in this game chat,there is a farm place and plaza and some shit,Also you can couple people so we did that,and then we both logged out
>The morning afterwards was the only morning I rushed home from school (Still learning)
>She was online,We kept talking again for like 6 hours. She's pretty cool,she has a shitty life though,problem with pretty much everybody she knows
>On the third day she asked for my skype, but she told me she's to shy to speak because of her accent
>"I'm a brown jewish guy,mine's worse"
>tfw she has the cutest voice i've ever heard
>tfw she sent pictures of herself and she actually looks good,like really good
>tfw she saw me,and thought I looked good too (First time I ever heard that from someone)
>A few days pass and we talk about pretty much everything,she tells me about how love feels like,and how it's like having someone you are inlove with touching your skin and hugging you every night
By the way I'm a virgin kissless fag because I assumed I'll have sex with someone I like,and never liked any girls in my area at all.
>I fell inlove
>I told her I love her,She told me she could tell and that she knew already,and that because it's the internet she can't feel the same
>the first month we had was amazing,she tells me how much I can make her happy,and it makes me happy,like i've never been before,but shit went down around the second month
>we pretty much have nothing to talk about anymore
>I get really nervous because I think that if I can't make her feel good she'll leave
>Start feeling really bad every passing night,we talk less and less and I feel like I'm letting her down or something
Wait up,
>>695264251
Well I didn't like her for the full 6 years I've know her it's been on and off but my point is I keep going back to her because we have so much in common, we want and like a lot of the samethings and many of my friends and I think a teacher that me and her are friends with that have thought we've been dating. And true writing this down I realize that coming off as obsessive but I doubt that's the case. And I just trying to find the right time to ask her out
>>695265346
This one every fucking time!
Feels man
>>695261476
there is a difference between ebing sad and being depressed.
its okay to be sad, as long as you know where your problems lie and work through them.
being depressed over things that can be fixed when you got such a great life is another story.
>>695232406
Somehow cringeworthy but with tears of joy and truth
>>695265407
I could move on but I don't know if I can fully get over her. Like there is always gonna be thought in the back of my head like what if things had gone differently. Im trying to talk to this one girl in my math class who's pretty cute and I've been getting along with but it doesn't really feel the same, you feel
>>695265490
Most if not all of the uni websites I looked at during my application said:
>A-Levels required: AAA with A in Mathematics
I don't know about the humanities, but I imagine it's the same. Both options could be open to you. If you get an A in maths, you'd definitely be considered for a place. Whether they offer you one is 9 parts luck and 1 part chance.
Honestly, the most important thing unis look at is (aside from your predicted grades) your personal statement, which you will have to write for your application, but you can only write one that gets sent to all your choices. Obviously this means your PS will have to be a lot more general seeing as you're applying to different fields, so you have that to consider as well.
What would you do if you got two offers from top unis, one to do CompSci and one to do Gov Rel?
>>695266121
Oh my...
Saddest thing i've seen in a while...
>>695266241
>feels bad man
Videogames connect the misfits
ＤＯ ＩＴ
>>695266372
To me it sounds like you're finding ways to sabotage yourself. You don't have the balls to ask her out, which gives you the ability to wallow in self pity with thoughts of 'what if'. If you ask her out, and things don't work out, or she says no, you'll no longer have the luxury of 'What if I had the courage to ask her out'.
>>695266457
I think I'd definitely pick Computer Science. It's STEM, so much more respected, increasingly important in the modern age, more potential for high pay, I can read about politics in my own time. I guess it all just depends on how much work I'm put in. If maths is the only exam-based subject I do, I definitely think I could get the A. Thanks for your help by the way fam, it has calmed my nerves a bit.
>>695265637
>the moment you realize you jave never valued your family
Them salty tears
>>695267111
nice trips
Shoot me an email dude, if you need a guy to chat to about this again.
[email protected]
this won't mean anything to anyone but me.
i still check the weather in New Hudson, and if it's the same as mine i step outside and close my eyes and dream i never left. i dream i could walk through the door of that stupid trailer and see you two there, and you'd both smile and greet me like nothing ever happened.
there's nobody left to go home to now. just old photos and keepsakes i turn over and over in my hand until sleep comes and i can go back there in my dreams.
i miss you but i will never hear your voices or see your faces again.
>>695263843
Sometimes your dreams kill you....be there for your daughter
Please
>>695229179
This is from yesterdays thread right?
>>695266880
I'm actually gonna do it soon because my friend who has been having that same rebuttal with me for years says he's gonna tell here by the end of summer if I don't do it and I would rather have me say it and ask her out than my friend just blowing it
>>695267512
yeah it is
>>695265538
I skip a few Details because it's kind of hard to remember,but alot of emotional stuff happened,pretty much everytime she said something good about me it made me the happiest person alive,because I don't usually hear those
Also she lives in a different country if it wasn't obvious
anyway
>At the end I convinced myself I'm not good enough to have her,or to stay with her,and fantasizing about being with her is stupid and meaning less and will never happen
Another thing I didn't say,
>I had a female friend who came from the same country she did,and I talked to her alot while InternetGirl and I were talking,So as an attempt to find a conversation topic I talked about her alot
>InternetGirl get Jealous,and kind of mad at me because I talk to that other girl,but we didn't discuss it much
>one day I was hanging with my friend and she took my phone,and when InternetGirl wrote me something she replied in her language
>Later that day (like a 6 hours delay) I wrote a single sentance to the InternetGirl
>She replied with "Well I guess we're over then"
>After hours of a failing attempts to make her talk to me I just gave up.
>She didn't talk with me for a week,and meanwhile I was imagining her face patterns,her voice,her everything. Why I fell inlove with her,
and then after a week she replied with "I'm so so sorry"
>It wasn't my fault
>She left because She thought she's ruining my life or something
>We start talking again,I feel better then ever,because now she knows she only help me forward.
>It's just not the same though,She's not showing affection to me anymore,only I to her
>Start feeling shitty about it again
>She just tell me about her shit life and I feel shit because I can't help
>Again we talk less and less
>We used to talk for hours each passing day,now maybe once a week and for 1 hour max
Alot of details I skipped were about how I mostly was insecure about this relationship and always was tense to keep it the following months
>>695267460
Are you here to fell
>or to make us feel?
I thought it was going well with this girl. We met irl and talked every day at one point. She was already in a relationship but she was polyamorous so it was cool. I guess she was an SJW but she was a 6/10 to match me so it was cool. We talked about sex a lot but I didn't want to scare her off or anything so I let her set the pace. She wanted casual sex but she wanted to "take time to get to know" me first. about 8 months in she starts ghosting me. Ask her to come out with me again, nothing. Deletes me from all social media. "Oh anon I've been so busy, I'm really exhausted." Still see her on OKC looking for sex.
>mfw I will never get that threesome with her and her hot s/o
you little normal faggot no body i mean NOBODY gives a shit about your problems. let me tell you about something thats actually relevant.
Grading. I can't stand a fucking shitty grade. Back in the day, all we had was an instrument, a 5lb sledge and some stakes. and we made fucking do.
We set our own shot poles. we ran our shots down the line. and we knew how to fucking grade. THREE. MOTIONS. drag, push, and smooth. if you're doing anything else, YOU'RE FUCKING UP. Smooth out your foot prints. Pack the sand down. I don't want to see no wavy fucking pipes in my ditch.
you little fuck
>>695267776
thank you, anon. seriously. i needed that more than i knew.
>>695267322
Thanks very much fam, I pretty much definitely will, because I'm getting absolutely no advice or guidance from anyone else. My school is purportedly one of the best in the country, but there is no one to help give any sort of advice.
>>695240962
Have fun with mediocrity
>>695268105
id legit hug you and buy you a beer if ur in socal man. no matter the context that sounds rough
>best friend stops talking to me
>now im having sex dreams about him
i know it sounds gay as fuck but god im sad.
>>695238099
I just read this for 2 hours.. fuck..
>>695268572
Consider reading it aswell, is it worth it?
>>695230544
the image represent the usual choices people make. this is not pretty dumb, its just too simple and still u dont get it
>>695266752
Oh shit
Goddamn man
Tears, not even mad I'm tearing
>>695268663
It is. Go for it. Save it just to be safe.
>>695268810
Will do, thanks anon
It's going to be a long night....
>>695268663
worth every single moment
i read it a time ago hearing this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tT86AoSGEL8
end up crying
this is not very depressing but shocking for me.
I moved out of my hometown for college. My closest friend stayed there, as well the girl that I had a crush on and friendzoned me.
When I came back I found out he's been banging her for 6 months, and they act like they're friends when I meet them.
>>695267511
I will, not having a relationship with my dad screwed me up I still remember him leaving
I will never do that to Holly.
Thanks for taking the time Man
>>695237567
Purple Ganon reporting in.
>inb4 EZ$$>>695237631
>be me
>Be in depression for almost 5 years
>This girl poppout of nowhere
>Spend time with me, do urbex together, play video games together, drink together, being productive together
>Best. Fucking. Friend.
>FINALLY OUT OF DEPRESSION
>Stop medical help. Get well
>Start looking for a gf
>Have this crush, speak about it with my friend
>She looks heart broken and speak with a barely hide sadness
>Realise she probably is on me
I dont really want to go out with her. She is Nice and pretty, but we're not romantic with each other at all, and I need that in a relationship.
What should I do ? I don't want to lose or hurt her.
>TL;DR : Teen-like problem that actually bother me a lot
I'm waiting for my mum to die before I kill myself so she doesn't suffer
>>695232406
>>695232203
u guise are making me fucking cry here.. shit
>>695222289
that bitch is definitely cheating on you, dump her and find a better submissive bitch.
Do you guys think that we're just meant to be alone? I've been lonely all my life and it never gets better. Everything else in life is numb and empty, my hobbies don't interest me anymore. I guess there's nothing else in my life than those. Even so, when I feel as if I'm dead the loneliness never gets any easier. It's always there. I don't understand why I'm so unlovable.
>>695269297
If you dont want to go out with her,then dont. you dont want to force yourself into something you dont want. But if in the back of your mind you kinda want it, then go for it. Or you will end up living with a 'what if'
>>695267910
Cont.
>About 2 days ago,she asked me if we want to talk
>Sure,why not?
>We talked about some stuff
>Suddenly she said I'm boring (I do pretty much nothing,I stay home all day and work as a waiter)
>She tells me how she thought I was the guy who was perfect for her around the first month,but not the other 3
>I start thinking about my fantasies of being with her,and since my internet is shitty the call broke off
>an hour later I asked her the following:
If you had a chance right now,would you go out with me?
>She said that in the first month,She would
>"Oh,okay"
>-"Is this a goodbye?"
>Tell her it's not much of a goodbye. That when I fantasied about ending up with her it was because I thought we were perfect together,and that if I'm not for her then why making her misserable? Also said we can still play vidya like we did so far and still talk whenever she wants,I'll just be like a friend and not like how I was before
>She hasn't replied since
>It's been 2 days
I didn't really feel anything about it when I said it,I don't know why.
I still think about her and how she makes me feel but...I'm not sad about it,I'm pretty indifferent.
It's like all the other things going through my head.
So that's about it. I felt things I never did before for the past 4 months and when I understood we'll never be together I came back to robot form.
>>695269182
Thank you too for answering
That will surely let me sleep well
Holly is a beautiful name
I hope you will raise her good
Take care man
If you can't do what is good for you
Remember to do it for her instead
Thats what kept me alive while having my gf
Now I feel empty
>to bring a little of myself in this chat
>>695269325
May your mother live very long so your heart will stay longer on this earth
>>695269524
the native americans have a spirit totem for the bobcat. those born under its guidance are supposed to learn how to be 'alone, without being lonely'.
this isn't to say they were meant to be hermits, permasingle, or anything of that sort. just that they need to learn enjoy time alone more so than anyone else. something to conside.r
as for your hobbies, it seems to me that you need to open your mind to more. the world has so much you can do. what are your hobbies?
>i dont understand why im so unlovable
maybe oyu need to start by loving yourself.
>>695269564
Well I don't know. She is hot and nice. And as you know, romance dies quickly.
What if she's the one that'll make me happy my whole life ?
What if she's not and I hurt her too bad ? She also went thought depression
>>695229297
this is so me
i just play to pass the time or id go mental with just crap precarious work or browsing forums
>>695222289
>...i really love her.
>I tell her she sucks if she doesn't do exactly what I want, how I want and to the level I want it done at. I don't like her friends. I don't want her talking to other people because I get jealous.
Dude, you're a selfish fuck. Back the fuck off and you won't need to make a fucking feels thread whining about how much you suck.
And honestly, I don't think you love her. I think you just don't want to be alone and you're confusing those feelings by clinging on to the only person who'll show you a bit of love and attention, trying to break her down and control her so she won't leave.
>>695233908
reverse the squidward pictures and use the same first picture for all women stages
>>695270047
Kinda odd how that made me smile.
Thanks anon
How do you get over someone?
I was dating this girl for about a year and it was the best relationship I've had. Yeah it wasnt perfect and we'd fight now and then but we would always fix things somehow. Recently I had to transfer to a different university due to family getting really sick and financial aid running out, so I transferred back home to a local uni which was 1000 miles away. I knew long distance didnt really have a chance but I really wanted to try, it meant so much to me. Within 1 week of leaving, like two days before my birthday she starts a fight and later says she wants to break up. Later she says the usual crap like well still be friends and maybe when you come back well be together since Im not going to date any one for a while. A week later she texts me saying shes moved on and stared dating some other guy and that shes sure Ill find someone else.
I shouldnt be soo upset with this, I should move on. I just dont really know how to. Ive ebeen so busy with school and family I dont have time for much else. Idk
>>695265538
>>695267910
>>695269679
I seem to miss alot of details,So if anyone got any questions,I have no life going on.
>>695270068
Have you talked to her about this at all?
Like how she would feel about dating?
I suggest just spending time together and see where it goes from there. If there is anything romantic between you guys it will show with time.
>>695269524
At our core, one could say "Yes.". In our bodies only one individual is present at a time, only one mind inhabiting one vessel. It doesn't matter if one is religious or not, because this applies anyway you look at it.
But I think we, as a single human, are pretty much whole and complete. This is what makes us individual. We just need others to remind us of that fact.
Try watching Neon Genesis Evangelion. The Ending (of the series, not the ED of the Episoded) starts tackling similar things leading down to the same branch of thought.
>>695270199
yup yup yup - you nailed it
>>695269325
Bro, read that is so sad
>>695232406
anyone who says this is cringe came here after the concept of cringe was invented
>>695270408
I really don't feel like talking about it with her ... Probably a bad idea.
But I guess we'll see how things goes on, probably the best thing to do, as you said ... If don't date someone else before.
>>695270333
You are more than welcome
Maybe think twice about a permanent solution like this
There is always someone who will suffer from someones death
And even if there is no person there
You can still find such a kind of person that is worth living for
>>695266457
it absolutely does not matter where you go to university except insofar as it allows you to coordinate interpersonal connections and shortcut job opportunities and shit.
If you want to be a normal person and work from within the system to earn some marginal place inside it, then it's worth the effort and self-sacrifice, but if you have any kind of dream or talent or serious personal goals than any college that has the courses and the libraries and the degrees available will work as a means to your ends, and if you really have the ability you will be able to just change schools halfway through.
That being said, don't take out loans you won't be able to pay, earn money ahead of time if you have to or get a scholarship, that's actually something worth busting your ass for
generally, the higher the level of the place as well, the greater probability that every single person there will be a competitive cunt that tries to drag you down or steal any success you have, including the professors, unless you literally or figuratively suck their assholes.
>>695237567
Red Marth best Marth
The Moon exists only to get bodied by rando mid tiers
>>695270066
Being alone isn't the worst thing, you can distract yourself with stuff, but when it's 00:40 and you've got nothing but your thoughts to keep you company it's hard to distract yourself.
>what are your hobbies?
They were hiking, kayaking, literature, painting, running, piano, violin, baking, working out, philosophy, learning about academic fields, etc. I have a lot of free time, so I had a lot of hobbies. These days I mostly sleep, go to work and then sleep again ad infinitum
>>695270816
Thank you so much
I feel like such a stereotypical tard for crying
>>695270349
Sucks man, I feel for you and I'm in a slightly similar situation, just a few months ahead. I had a dream about her 3 nights ago and all day every day I'm thinking about her.
I'm just doing things to keep my mind off of it all. I go for long bike rides, lie down in the nice weather at the park listening to music, practise my serves at the tennis court. It is what it is. I don't think I feel better, it just gets easier to deal with. We live near each other and study at the same uni so I constantly think I'll run into her, and occasionally I have, just not for the last couple months.
>>695269862
There's soon going to be 3 proud little faces at port for me one day. Maybe I should see a doctor a 27 year old shouldn't have these symptoms surely?
It's like you say, do right. Well the right thing to do is to get healthy and be there.
Maybe I can hear all this off at the pass
I love these sparks of positivity
>>695270596
We're born alone, live alone and die alone yes. No one is with us in our minds, all our thoughts are self contained. But we can share those with people, and share the experiences we have to rejoice in them together. Isn't that what makes us human? The ability to empathise and love and grow as people together.
>>695240903
Neither will lurasidone, and it will make you not feel like shit and also won't shrink your balls
>>695270774
Dont know how much you guys share, and how close you are. But if you guys are quite close and can talk about a lot I would say just talking about it man. If not, I wish you the best of luck with seeing how it goes, and I hope you two end up very happy together
>>695270994
focus less on consumption and more on creation mate.
>when its midnight its hard
dude, plenty of people sleep alone, live alone, and its fine. you dont need constant stimulation rom another human being.
ur not bored, ur boring.
>>695271059
Thanks for the advice, I hope you keep getting better man and that you dont run into her all that often. Ill try doing some things. Thanks again bro
>>695271050
Then let's cry together
Shall we?
I may not be a great impuls in your life
And even if I am I won't be a long one
But as long as I am
Remember these words
You will finde someone worth living even on an image board site
>>695222289
You sound like a dick.
>>695271359
We'll see how it goes. I hope I don't hurt her.
Thanks for listening Man !
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>>695271595
Things like these are the reason I visit these threads, You /b/ros made me tear up so badly...
>>695271303
>But we can share those with people, and share the experiences we have to rejoice in them together. Isn't that what makes us human? The ability to empathise and love and grow as people together.
Yeah.
I sometimes think that anonymity is the bain of this site. I will never talk to you in private and get to know you, even though I'm sure you'd be blast to talk to. RIP.
>>695235451
Melee will always be the best. I used to tell my wife that Sheik is my #1 girl, since I've known her so much longer.
Then again, that could explain the divorce.
