how old are you fellow virgins?
why are you still a virgin?
18 and too ugly
21, would of lost it at 16 but bitch was so drunk I couldn't stay hard so lost it to random fat bitch on Craigslist last year to get over and done with. Nothing special, but regret doing it even if stayed virgin till 30, as far as I'm concerned first time was so gross and boring I try to repress it happening and gagging a little now about to vomit
Turn 20 next week, dunno how to talk to people, awkward and socially inept. Got a bit of attention back in high school, but sperged out and didnt realize what i missed out on until it was past salvaging.
19 and along with being fat and ugly, im literally terrified of physical or emotional intimacy, when a girl hugs me it makes my skin crawl, i just told the girls that were interested that i dont date or have sex
>terrified of physical and emotional intimacy
I know that feeling all too well.
Even with my own family, it's a game of "how much do I have to lie to this person so they can't use personal information against me?"
I know it's just paranoia, but there it is.
I got fucked in the ass by an old friend when I was 15 then fucked some other dude in his ass a few mounts later.
>Never been employed and always felt weird letting the women pay for dates, so I just decided to stop dating until I got some money to pay for the dates. I actually got a job two weeks ago, but I don't start getting paid for a while since I have to wait until the next time training comes around before I'm allowed to do any actual work.
The odd thing is that women still find me attractive even though I'm like 20-30 lbs overweight. I don't know if it's because they assume I must have money since I lack any other positive qualities, but I suppose that theory goes out the window once I explain to them that we can't do anything that costs money on the first date and they then decided they want a second date for whatever reason.
Kind of sucks that I have so little experience with dating women. I've literally never even asked anyone out, I've always just waited for the woman to ask me. Will probably be difficult for me to build up the courage to ask whomever it is I happen to become interested in. Possible that it'll never happen and I'll just buy a fleshlight.
Also, somewhat scared of being falsely accused of rape, TBH. I know it's probably an irrational fear to have, but I'm definitely the kind of guy a girl might regret in the morning and I don't want that regret turning into retroactively-withdrawn consent.
I could think of a million other excuses, but really it's just the money thing. I've always lacked ambition, and I honestly still don't care about being employed, but my mom was starting to get "concerned", so I just decided to finally move out and start my life.
tl;dr No money
you think i am happy?
sex does not equap happiness
we're all in the same boat
im literally a depressed person on vanlefaxine
my point is, having a stable job is better than having an active sex life, im sure you can see that
The entire point of our species and every species on Earth is to multiply. I've never understood how so many people can just not want to have kids. It seems like a mental disorder, honestly.
Know that feeling. Luckily I happened across four different single moms on POF that all had their plumbing cut. Super horseshoe up my ass, but believe it. Those were super fun to play with. I could friggin cum inside and everything. Mad put out sluts. No 10/10s though lol. Now I'm super lucky to be shacked up with a girl who never wanted them from the age of 18 so she also had her operation and now I chill with her and fuck her all the time bareback and splooge in whenever I want and she lives it. Yup. Happy.
Have you ever considered what modern marriages and children are like?
A sane man would avoid that shit like the plague.
I remember what I was like when I was a child.
I probably would've slapped the shit out of my younger self if I met him, and my parents said I was a good kid compared to most.
I don't want to think about what it would be like taking care of an obnoxious delinquent that I could never be rid of.
Seriously though. Try POF. Takes time and patience though. I went on probably a dozen first meetings with people that all fooled me with non recent pics and other bullshit deception but I did achieve what I set out to do with persistence.
Yeah for real
Rather stay home and watch crunchyroll then stress my comfort zone
I just don't see socializing as that fun unless you're debating, but you can't debate against chicks because they all put themselves on a pedestal.
I think I might just be gay
So you just don't care that your lineage will die with you? You don't care about leaving a legacy after you die? You impact on the world just ends with you and that's fine?
I'm not trying to convince you to have a kid, I'm just legitimately curious as to why a person wouldn't want to have a kid.
"HUEHU WHY WOULDNT SOMEONE WANT A KID LIKE SHIT MAN ARE YOU GAY OR SUMIN I CANT THINK OF ONE REASON WHY SOMEONE WOULDNT WANT A KID IM A FUCKING RETARD"
& who the fuck cares about ones lineage you gotta be a total fucking faggot to care about something as stupid as that
Especially with all the bullshit this society has to offer. I was raised alod school as well and yeah I would have beat my delinquent ass to hell and back too. Like you I was pretty good also. Sports, work, social etc but nonetheless having a version of what I was in this day and age is an absolute fuckn NO
Brother had same issue acne scars on his back still managed to get a chick. I do think it all leads back it being confident. But I really can't speak for that since I paid 20$ to lose my virginity.
Your legacy is worth the possibility that, somewhere down the line, your progeny could make an actual difference in the world. Unless you don't believe you could do a better job of raising a child than your parents or that your genetic material isn't worth passing on, that you have qualities worthy of being preserved for future generations, then it only makes sense that you would want to pass on those qualities and that potential so that the generations to come can have less of a shitty existence than the current generation has. Or fuck it, maybe your great, great grandkid is the next Hitler. I'd be down with that, too, I just want my life to have meant something more than the sum total of what I've done with it.
Ehh sometimes he is sometimes he isn't feel like she bosses him around most of the time tho. He went and got a decent car something better than his high school shit car. Gf bitched him out about it being to expensive he went and traded back for his old car. He's gonna be married soon.
why does that even matter? you think some dude who lived a thousand years ago was all like "yeah dude, but legacy will live forever. i did something in life, im proud. i did nothing but i did so much"
I totally see what your saying. It's not a decision I made lightly. Butterfly effect almost. It's weird because I'm not a dumbass. Do well in life and junk but justnever saw myself going ththrough the whole traditional methods of procreation and the raising. It seems all bloody ridiculous these days.
I wasn't a delinquent, but I was still a self-absorbed asshole.
I thought I actually knew something about the world when I was 12, and tried shoving it in people's faces all the time.
Now I realize that Socrates was right when he said (I'm paraphrasing here) "The wisest men know that they are still breathtakingly ignorant."
>Qualities worthy of being preserved
I assume you mean stupid shit like blonde hair / blue eyes, right?
Nobody gives a fucking shit about that.
You need to just enjoy life for what it is instead of "OH MAN WE GONNA NEED MORE ARIAN CHILDREN IN THIS WORLD WHEN IM GONE OH AND I NEED ATTENTION AFTER IM GONE MY LAST NAMES GOTTA MEAN SOMETHIN I NEED THIS FUCKING ATTENTION"
This makes me happy I was a teenager in the mid 90's. Back then all it took was long hair, and either an Alice In Chains, Nirvana, or Pantera t-shirt, and you were pretty much gonna get laid. I fucked more chicks from 1994-1999 than can honestly count, and half of them were just drunk, faceless, metalchicks at either local shows, or keggers. You didn't have to be fit, or hot, all it took was "OH GOD! You like Pantera too!?!?" and a fucking beer, and your dick was getting wet. Now that I'm in my 30's I miss the ease with which I could get laid when I was a teenager.
Ummm. Yes? People back when were crazy about leaving legacies. Fucking houses and clans and shit? What do you think that shit is all about? It's about tying yourself into a legacy, something bigger than yourself.
22 not a virgin , all these guys saying I'm too ugly , too fat too lazy etc just lack confidence. I've seen fat ugly pieces of shit with semi attractive gf's so why can't you pull it off?
>inb4 they have money
I think you mean gamma minus.
A gamma plus I'd basically an alpha plus but with absolutely no interest in society.
Most of the faggots on here (including yours truly) would only qualify as delta plus at best.
I was talking about advantageous qualities in a general sense, but if I have to get specific, I would say that having above-average intelligence is a quality that should be passed on or the world will only get dumber. I don't give a fuck about looks. Don't assume, you look like an ass.
I'm educated. Hold red seals in a few trades. Good with people and conversations and am a generally good person. Please and thank you, hold doors and all that. Good genes fit without trying etc but nonetheless I made the decision...
When people are talking about qualities being preserved they are usually things like hair color eye color skin color. just because someone is smart doesnt mean their kid will be too.
Not even for the curiosity of what a little you would do/ be? Even if I didn't care about a legacy(which I obviously do), I couldn't handle not knowing what my child would be like. inb5 some generic "he would be shitty like every other kid." There are quite a few kids who aren't shitty and I'd hope I'd be a good enough parent to raise one of the not-shitty ones.
Kinda does. He should've waited and just be dating he had the confidence for it. Gonna get him a ticket to Vegas night before wedding feel like I haven't an obligation of saving him before gets turned beta through marriage
But it is much more likely. Intelligence has at least something to do with genetics. Even if it didn't, being raised by smart people will tend to make a child more intelligent just through the environment they are exposed to.
I know I wouldn't raise a shitty one LOL not with what I know and remember from my childhood. Live, learn, apply right. Also I think mainly I just never found the right woman who I thought would be able to carry through the rest of this child's life with me
This is true. Stupidity seems to breed true a lot faster than intelligence. My xwife's sister is a perfect example, her parents are honest, decent, smart, hard working people, she, however is a worthless hoodrat, with 5 kids by 3 different guys, I haven't met the youngest 2 (paternal twins) since they were born after me and the x split up, but her older 3 are quite possibly the most ignorant, willfully stupid people I have ever met. They honestly glory in their own stupidity, and ignorance. It's kind of depressing actually.
I´m picky as fuck, and tend to cockblock myself every now and then. Im not good at approaching girls either, most of the little experience i have comes from girls throwing themselfs at me.
Cant even blame my looks, im no model, but not bad looking and improving (thx /fit).
Lets just say the whole story is a bit complicated.
You're a good brother!
Do everything you can to save him from being cucked by his gf.
I don't think I could ever willingly be in a relationship where my partner was basically my mother, but could control me through sex.
I can respect that. But there's a big difference between not wanting to have children and not wanting to have children right now. I mean, whoever was saying he'd rather kill himself than have a kid? Those are the people I'm really talking to with all of this.
FWIW, I don't want to have kids RIGHT NOW either, but I definitely still want one or two in the future. I'm nowhere near ready financially to handle that shit.
Think he kinda resents us subconsciously sees his fiancee's family as the perfect family and us the fucked family. And granted we didn't have the greatest start drunk father beating us and taking out money had to flee home town. But still wouldn't trade it for the little white picket fence family. I enjoy being single and gonna love having a place to myself soon. My brother didn't get that, he needs it.
18. I lack self esteem and confidence, mainly due to being overweight. However, a friend is helping me get a job at where she works, and since work is physically demanding(and I'll be getting paid) I'm sure this will be changing soon
Kill myself rather than... No. If it happens I'll make the absolute best of it that's for sure. But I'm 33 now and well settled in my life the way it is so it doesn't seem likely that I will have one.
You have no idea /b/ro. A couple years ago, I bought my son a ps4 for his birthday. His mom was worried her niece and nephews were either going to break it, or steal his shit, since they do that with everything he owns (she actually had to confront her sister about her sons stealing my kid's CLOTHES!). I actually had to take her sister's boyfriend (later the father of her twins) aside, and threaten him, I told him "For ever item Tara's kids break or steal of my son's, I am coming back here and breaking something on you." just to ensure that my son's birthday presents didn't get ruined.
I'm 28. Pic related. It's the reason why I'm still a virgin.
Then doesn't that mean the people who are intelligent should just be fucking that much more to ensure the average IQ doesn't drop any lower? Also, for every story you can produce about shitty kids with smart parents, I'm sure I could find one about smart kids with smart parents. That's the shitty thing about anecdotal evidence. I think the vast majority of a person's intelligence comes from how they were raised, but it seems silly to deny that at least a portion of it is genetic. It's the same thing with anything, really. You might train everyday of your life to do the best you can at any given task, but unless you have the right genetics for it, you're always going to be beaten by the person who does.
23 severe anxiety and a 3 inch fully erect penis.
That or he found himself in a relationship with a domineering, overbearing, cunt, and proposed marriage in order to placate her. And probably didn't have a whole bunch of experience to balance her against.
One of those huh. Nice. (O'Doyle Rules) fuck.
I've watched my bro's situation that was quite enough in itself. Hes a fat alpha cunt by the way. Luckily his son for some reason is ultra nerdy smart and even good looking so he'll be fine.
Going to attend uni in the fall in cali. I'm fit, face isn't that great, but I hope i can pick up a few social skills and confidence.
>inb4 kys because you're not white
forgot to add, had the chances of getting a girlfriend back in middle school, both 6th and 7th grade, but due to me being socially awkward nothing happened. almost banged my then bestfriend about 4-5 years ago. we were alone in her friends bedroom trying to sleep.years later we both talked about the intense sexual tension we felt in the air. not friends with her no more though.
Protip: Girls don't put you in the friendzone, you put yourself in there. You are projecting how you as a male select partners on to them. Girls want romance, a hypergamous fantasy of a superior guy or with potential to be that, while you as a male pretty much just want a friend you can fuck. When girls don't know that much about a guy, they can fill in the blanks if they are prone to liking him to begin with. When you befriend the girl and reveal yourself in your entire normalcy, you leave no white space on the canvas. There is no mystique to what you might be and what you are is not that special. Therefore girls won't form romantic feelings towards you.
I'm not saying they're any less likely to HAVE smart kids. But intelligence is something that needs to be groomed. I also know some people who are so stupid they have to remind themselves to breathe, that have kids so smart that they scare the shit out of me. But just like muscles, unless you work on maintaining intelligence, it will atrophy and die.
Fiancee is bitch without even knowing she thinks she's super nice. Unwittingly making those around her miserable. When she does get called out she argues that the other person is in the wrong
Don't give up fellow brothers!
I was one of you until last year when I lost my virginity to a pretty hot Asian chick. I was 20 and until that day I thought I would become a wizard some day. I've had sex with 5 different girls in the past year which is an astronomically high number compared to my previous sex life.
It will all eventually get better once you lost your v-card.
18 and I'm a pretty anti social person so I don't get out as much and I have a huge fear of talking to people. I spend most of my time at home working on taking care of my appearance and spending money on Asian washes and beauty products in the hopes of someone will talk to me since I don't have the balls to come forth and start a decent conversation. I don't know but whenever people do come up to me and try to hit on me I just become scared and try to find an excuse to back out. Guess I'm just autistic.
grills where i live are cancer.
for each decent one there are 150 ugly, not to mention they are sluts here
i am decent looking, working out at the gym now so within 2 years before i move away after finishing education i should be fine
Unrequited love and friendzone are pretty much the samething. It's not the guy's fault some chick doesn't return those feelings. A guy doesn't put himself in the friendzone. That ball lies in the female's hand.
Then getting laid will not help you all that much. After the whopping 5 minutes of "OH MY GOD! I'M NOT A VIRGIN ANYMORE" giddiness passes, you find out life is pretty much the same after you get laid, as it was before.
That's what I was saying. You need to work at being smart. That becomes evident if you just look at the extreme of the situation. A potentially "gifted" child who is never allowed access to any materials from which to learn will never realize his potential. I just think of the genetic portion as a cap on how intelligent you CAN be, not necessarily an indication of how smart you WILL be. I think it would be a shame to let that cap be lowered by intelligent people choosing not to have children while basic morons choose to chain breed.
That's not the point anon. I'm sure it's not that great, but you only reach that point after you've actually lost it. Besides, i wanna get done with it so that i can stop getting depressed over something so worthless
If this is the case, then just taking him out "to sow his wild oats" before he ties the noose, i mean the knot, isn't going to help. Have you ever tried sitting down with your brother, taking away his bible, and hitting him with it?
20 had a couple chances but fucked up then haven't met many women since highschool ended. Bars put me in a violent mood so I don't go there. Plus bars are expensive so thats also gay.
You're right that losing his virginity might not help him if his life is shit in general. But after I lost my virginity it somehow was much easier for me to interact with girls. It's like they could sense the desperation before I lost it.
My life improved heavily after due to more sex and more confidence.
Kek. Nah thing is he is my older brother and his flaw is that he thinks he knows better than anyone in the room. If I were to sit down and talk to him I don't think he would take it seriously. Lil brother doesn't know shit im guessing would be going through his head. Mother feels the same that getting married is a mistake but don't think he listens to her either.
I agree with you. And it's ironic you used gifted. My xwife has an IQ of 127, I have an IQ of 139. Our son tested into the gifted program in his school, in the 3rd grade. According to his counselor they don't even usually give that test until the end of 5th grade. He scored in the 95% and up across the board, and charted an IQ of 131 at the age of 8 (he's now 13). He scares the living shit out of both of us. I mean how do you have a conversation with a 10yr old, asking you if you know anything about combined unified theory?
Just don't drink for confidence, cause then you become dependent on it for socializing.
can i be your first one?
Which is why the need for physical force becomes apparent. He can't look at you like "little brother is so confused" after you just handed him his ass. Punch him in the mouth and tell him that unless he listens to you, you're gonna keep hitting him.
That's what I want, tbh. I want my kid to be so much smarter than I am that I feel stupid just trying to talk to him. I just want my kid to be better than I am so that I can feel like the world is somehow better(even if only statistically) for what I've done. I know it's probably some form of autism or something that causes me to value this so much, but I just can't help it. I'm happy for you, man. Alright, I'm out. You guys have pleasant time zone-specific portion of your day.
C'mon faggots cut that shit out. It's because of this femanons don't identify themselves on here. /b/ would turn to a hook-up site if there wasn't so much desperation on here.
Not really conferrable with the whole club vibe..and not interested in drunk sex. I wanna at lest lose my virginity to a man or women who has a since of care for me but that takes getting to know one another and I'm terrible at that. Reason why most girls are pick about sex is because we are scared of being left behind and used. At lest it's for me. I wouldn't mind having a friends with benefits.
Girls don't control who they love and they can't force you to be their friends. If you have romantic feelings for a girl and you want a relationship and using your male logic you close yourself up to them, as in befriend them, you sabotaged yourself. You did the worst thing you can do to raise romantic feelings in a girl. If the girls already has feelings for you then sure, but romance doesn't rise from friendship.
Not the teenagers. I was 14 in 1994, by that point the "landing strip" was a very popular look for teenage girls. By the time 1997 rolled around, clean shaven was the way to go. I still prefer the landing strip personally, maybe is nostalgia, but I just find it absolutely drop dead sexy.
Hi! Few things to start off with =]
1. Yes I answered you because you're a femanon, 'tis an awesome thing to see!
2. I'm Brian.
3. Don't be intimidated, but I'm not a stereotypical guy. If anything, I'll be the one in the kitchen =D.
Only time I felt conferrable with anyone was with my anime group but haven't gotten into contact with any of them since I've dropped out. I guess once the anime conventions come along that will be a great time to meet people. And I'm from Alabama btw.
I hope you're comfortable with watching him suffer then. Give it 2 years, and he is going to be either so bootlicked that he can't even form his own opinion, or he will despise his wife, yet be unable to get out from under her thumb, and resent you for not talking sense into him sooner. Given the scenario you've mapped out about him, those are the 2 most likely outcomes.
29 years old. I'm a virgin because reciprocity is dead.