I'm not attracted to my gf in the slightest anymore. The thought of having sex with her bores me, and she wants it every day and gets very upset if I don't provide it.
I love her and feel great affection for her but sexually it's just gone for me. We've done everything there is to try sexually, she's a nympho and is up for anything at all. But I just don't want it and I feel bad about it.
What the fuck do I do?
We have a 12 month contract on a rental house together, only just moved in, so 'just break up with her' isn't a good option.
Pic related it's her.
Too much porn, testosterone deficiency or you are a faggot.
Let's make a deal I'll pay the half of your rent you introduce me to your girlfriend to give me her number I'll make it to her and I'll take over for you I have no problem making your girlfriend now everyday I make that bitch cum everyday
Suck it up, some of us have wife that only want to do the sex 4 or 5 times a year. Cant even get a blowsie or handy.
I mean its not great for me either, I'm not getting laid.
Pic related again, nudes.
go and cheat on her with some bar wench. You will retain interest in your gf for a few months. Rinse and repeat. Source: been married for 10 years and cheating makes me appreciate her every time. Don't be a faggot and tell her though.
I wanted to have sex with her plenty for the first year and a half.
Now I want to have sex with OTHER girls
I had a similar situation with my ex gf. I didnt have any feelings for her anymore, broke up with her 2 months into getting a place on a 12 month contract, stayed together for another month as fuck buddies so we didnt fuck the other person over as my rent is £1100 a month just for the rent... But she couldnt keep feelings aside in the end and stopped having sex, still lived together, just no sex, so i met up and fucked one of her friends. I tell her cause i feel bad, she moves out, refuses to pay rent now, but im happier, alot happier, met the girl im currently with, sex is great, i love her, everything is amazing.
Only down side is i have to pay rent on my own which is shit since we were joint tenants, but from a legal stand point im taking her to court to sue her for half the rent, and ill end up winning 90% since she signed the contract and was never forced out, she optionally left.
So my advice would be, do what makes you happy, if you are joint tenants then know where you stand legally in regards to who is paying what.
It's hard to get away. She's very protective, jealous and controlling. If I go to a bar, she'll either be there or one of her friends will be scoping it out.
It's a good idea just don't think I'd get away with it
It's called being in a long term relationship. Most people lose that spark eventually. Either you actually want to spend the rest of your life with her, in which case do that and just suck it up and plow her every now and then, or decide you want to fuck other people and leave.
Also, grow a pair
How much do you pay a month and how many bedrooms? You can find a room mate or whatever or just do it alone, i pay £1100 a month just for rent and i get by fine.
(fuck the area i live in).
But if you are unhappy just do what u need to do to make u happy
if you don't wanna end up like some cuck faggot as all the other guys on here then stop watching porn and jerking your dick. you don't feel like having sex after jerking off? no fucking way!
go a few days without porn and touching your dick and see if things change. hint: they might
OP i'm 25 and have the exact same feeling. Don't let these neckbeard faggots tell you otherwise. You could always go get new pussy - but you could be fucking Jen Aniston and it would get old after a while. You gotta decide if you are "ready" to spend the rest of your life with her or move on so you can plow new pussy. I'll let you know when I make up my mind too because every day I flip flop.
The problem is not uncommon, and has in part to do with the preconcieved notion, that you have to fullfill every need of your spouse in a relationship. But it doesn't have to be that way. You might want to try polyamory. -> google it and read a lot about it before you try anything. It might be the right way for you.
OP bro take some advice from someone who was just currently in you position stay with her dont cheat the attraction will come back have her change her hair or dress different it will bring it all back i was having the same issue with my girl i had her get a tattoo sleeve and changed her hair kinda turned her into a pin up type girl now the urge to have sex with her is unreal we cant stop so thats just my .02 if you take the advice or not your choice
I have a similar situation with my gf, but i'm the one who wants to fuck everyday, let's change gfs? I'd pay for an anal btw, so i don't understand why you aren't fucking her ass right now, what a faggot...
I will Fuck her. My Fucking cum is so Fucking potent that it will Fucking impregnate her just from Fucking her in the Fucking ass. Just to show my gratitude I will Fucking name him after you mother fucker. I will Fucking love her like no fucker has done before. Fuck you cuck I am cumming home.
If shes a freak then get her to do some freaky shit.
Tie her up, degrade her, get her to role play, the best part is,since you don't care that much right now, if she loses intrest you still win.
Make her your play thing 90% of the time you fuck.
Also, stop watching porn. It ruins your sex drive.
If you really must watch porn, get her to watch it with you, have her show you something she's into.
Don't break up with her you fucking retard, buy her one of those huge vibrating dildos, and tell her you need a break from sex, so have fun with this toy until you get some libido back. Sex is exhausting it really is.
someone's probably already said this, but honesty is the best way.
don't just come out and say you're bored with her, if you let her take it personally it'll spiral out of control (assuming she's anything like the average woman) just try to explain that intimacy is just not what it usually is for you recently.
maybe try letting her take the lead and trying weird shit since she's clearly more into it right now anyways.
if nothing else, you could try setting a schedule that the both of you can commit to (her waiting for it and you being 100% ready) but depending on how much you trust her, holding out might end badly
Don't listen to all of these edgy virgin teenagers. Be honest with her and tell her you need time to cool down. Buy her some sex toys if she has urges. I've been in your situation before. Stop beating off, let YOUR urges have time to recouperate. It's like you've been chain smoking weed and you don't even get high anymore. Let your urges comw back naturally. The best thing to do is tell her you love her but you need a break from sex. Be there for her in other ways.
Yeah, like me...
My wife is a literal 9/10. She's absolutely gorgeous and has a body like a porn star.
Sex 1-2 times a month. Plain, vanilla, boring routine.
OP, I know the feeling you have. The novelty wore off- I get it. But don't look a gift horse in the mouth. Respark things with her and make it work if you have 2nd thoughts on breaking up
Wow, I've been in your position op. Shit sucks, keep having threesomes and maybe you can do what I did and turn her into a cuckqueen.
What are you into if you don't mind me asking? your girl is a solid 6/10 imo and probably a 7.5 when she's dolled up.
What I found helpful was getting my girl to beg for it. But I like super submissive chicks
Ya'll motherfuckers gotta make shit interesting. Fucking in the movie theatres, school bathrooms, in the car, in the park, anywhere. Do anal, also you faggots gotta be romantic and shit.
I intentionally stopped fapping to try and kick-start the sex, didn't work.
Why should I stop posting nudes moralfag?
Decent idea tbf
I have been in the same situation, it might not be related to your gf (given you didn't fuck the girl when you threesome), I have found and resolved my problem which was related to heavy workloads at work, reduced it and since I want to eat my gf's ass again
Anon, depending where you live break up is usually a valid reason for terminating a rental contract but you typically have to give atleast one month notice before you leave.
Laws about this are different in each state in US and in any other country so you should use google and look up how is it possible in your situation.
But about you and your gf... are you sure you are not gay or like 100 years old? I'm nearly in my 30's and I can have sex about 8 times a day if the girl is up to it. Granted I am not nearly as horny anymore as I was long ago but still...
I really don't think that your gf is a nympho (could be mistaken here) because I have a nympho friend that used to masturbate till her pussy could not handle anymore. I remember once when we were in the same school and she (15yo at the time) didn't show up that day and I asked her later why was she not in the school she told me that she was home and had a masturbation marathon and she came like 28 times in a row but she had to quit before her parents came back from the work. She has also had more than few miles of dick let me tell you that much. She is a straight woman but still would let any lesbian fuck her if they could make her cum. That my anon is a real nympho.
It's BECAUSE you just moved in, you're just not used to it. Give it time and see if you feel the same after 3 months. If you still feel that way
SELL HER TO ME SHE'LL SUCK MY COCK EVERY NIGHT AND MAKE ME EGGS IN THE MORNING
Same boat as you OP.
I love my gf a lot but the sex is boring as fuck. Can't get her into group shit so I'm planning to just hook up with girls on the side. Shit is harder than expected tho
wait till the contract is over, but when its getting close, slowly move yout stuff out. and when that day comes u have one last box to put in your car, then tell me its over and drive away, flick her off if u want
get out of the house for like 2 weeks at a time. sounds like she is just around you too much. dont let you work up an appitie.
or use viagra. you know. or some other drugs. E maby. i dont know. buy her a dildorino.
Good man. Keep pics flowing. At least let the rest of us enjoy her.
Have you considered depression?
One of the signs is complete lack of interest in things that normally do hold your interest. How's your energy levels?
Feel like you just don't give a fuck about anything?
Too late. She was with a girl before she was with me.
Could be m8. I only care about working out ATM, everything else is dull right now.
Why the fuck would you move in with a partner you can not talk to. What it sounds like to me you have grown tired of sex. Taking a break to get back your sexual lust is what it sounds like you need. Try pleasuring her if that is all you need.
If you're working out your dopamine levels should be A1, meaning depression is very unlikely to be a contender. However, what you consume also has an effect on your mental well-being on top of the physical. What is your diet like, /b/ro?
I put dick in ass but I'm bored of even that.
I tried to stay alpha...I tried to keep my pimp hand strong...but these bitches just grind you down bit by bit. I'll know for next time; don't concede any ground to them, ever, because they want you fucking neutered and then complain when you're not the stallion they thought when they fell for you.
This is normal. These fucking losers who don't get pussy everyday don't understand. It's like a foreign concept to them. After a while it gets old, doesn't matter how hot the chick is. It's like jerking off to the same porn every day 4 years. Totally normal.
If you don't want to end it then start fucking a side chick or if you care about her enough than fucking force yourself to fuck. Stop jerking off and build your sex drive up.
Diet is terrific not gonna lie. Chicken and vegetables and fruit and water. I dunno, it's probably not depression, I feel pretty upbeat almost 24/7, just my job sucks and my friends mostly suck. I know that's something I gotta change. and other girls in the street still make me rock hard.
Dude, youre just boerd, you have done too much to her, and youre like me. You enjoy exploring new girls. I had that problems with all my girlfrinds. The best is to cheat (as less as posible) and find the way to her never knows. I use to feel so happy with my girlfriend after having sex with some random pussy.
Also, give me more humilliation pls, I like that last1
i don't understand why he has to move on to plow other strange...he said he has a 12mo lease with this cunt.
So....go bang other pussy...bring some other pussy home...see what happens. who gives a fuck? worst case scenario is she dumps you and moves out?
>havent had a GF in 4 years
>havent fucked besides one time with a shitty escort in 3 years
>lonely as fuck
>all my female coworkers are disgusting in their own way
>can't communicate with females anymore because I distance myself farther and farther
>dig myself deeper into a rut of jerking off to porn and convincing myself I dont need a girl
An hero, soon brothers
I would definitely recommend moving more towards plant-based foods and proteins. Also, make sure you're getting vitamin D and magnesium. Lastly, spending time outside is key!! Put yourself out there and make friends interested in the same things as you. I sincerely believe this is just a dry period. Good luck, OP!
Literally don't even try and complain about this. Especially on Channel4. Do you know how many people don't even have the opportunity to have someone just simply appreciate them? It's a lot, especially on here. Please do us all a favor and fuck off. :)
You understand. It's like if you go to Paris every year on holiday, it's good because it's a vacation but you're still like 'Oh great it's the fucking Eiffel Tower again big deal'
Whoever asked for anal cumshot, enjoy, sorry about the tampon
Try different shit, discus fetishes, try taking a break. You really need to talk to her about what's going on. She needs to understand the break. If she is too selfish, get her a dildo and/or breakup. Also consider letting her sleep with other people.
fuck out of here neckbeardo, i'm not op, but i'm original cancer (started posting in 2005 when i was 13) and b was never as pitiful as it is now - entirely bc of you Last Men faggots
I get you OP im in the same position.
I just watch porn to satisfy exploring new girls.I still flirt with other women heavily hoping to secure a side chick .Id suggest the same to you.
Send her over on here and I'll make sure u have no troubles with that anymore
It's like a fucking kindergarten in here. Even if you're fucking the most amazing model chick, with the perfect personality, you will eventually tire of her and want to fuck other people.
Monogamy is hard for humans, if you're not up for it don't do it. This will happen no matter what chick you settle with.
The grass is greener is not just silly old saying, it's the truth. Until you get wise/lazy enough to settle for what you have, stay away from long relationships.
Tbf this is probably the best idea. Brutal honesty about what I want and how I feel.
Running out of photos lads, the rest are on my PC and she's in that room.
Yeah the contract is fucking you, I would say leave. Try giving up porn, and dont be halfassed. If nothing else you'll feel like fucking her just so you can get off once in awhile. I was with a girl for 5 years and I was just so bored of having sex with her and eventually I got bored with her personality too. I have kind of accepted that I'm not ready for a relationship and maybe never will be because I get tired of people pretty quickly, and I enjoy having sex with new people all the time. After having sex with someone 4 or 5 times you kind of know what to expect and its more fun to go elsewhere.
My only suggestion is give up porn and workout/exercise. It could be something you regret, cuz she is attractive and it might be a testoterone thing or something. Working out and not jerking off will make you horny all the time
>blowsie or handy
and this is why you are a beta cuck provider with a monogamous relationship
enjoy your below average life
Hope she does in a way, then I can end the relationship guilt free. It's just the fucking house contract fucking me over, I could afford it but only just.
remind me this
Id like to add that i don't think humans are built to be monogamous the way some animals are. If you look at our biological instincts they are very different from the social constructs that we have defined. I think in a couple hundred years people will be fucking everyone like in Huxley's Brave New World. But right now I see the reason for the social construct. STDs and pregnancy, overpopulation. If we come up with fool-proof contraceptives and get them popularlized globally and they prove effective society will then change. People like Bill Gates are already trying to fund this and trying to 'educate' 3rd world countries with propeganda to prevent them from making babies the way they are now. I think its an interesting topic. And I truely believe in the future more people will casually have sex with eachother and relationships will be structured very differently than they are now. Unfortunately though, I don't see it happening in our lifetimes
I have more or less the same problem
I live with my gf for 9 month now, and im just not attracted to her sexually. And i want to have sex with other girls.Maybe its the moving in together.
Right now im hoping i will get better again
Dude, i can say it again, you're a faggot!
I go every year in holiday in Berlin, i don't think "oh great It's the fucking...", i just think: "oh my god i'm going to the best city in the world, It's awesome, so much to do, so much to see, so much fantastic places i've already seen and i want to see again!!!"
I would fuck and cumshot my gf ass everyday for the rest of my life if i could, i'm bi btw but i love girls' body and sex, i can't figure out what could be boring in your girlfriend ass, i mean It's the fucking ass! You can put your hard dick in there ever fucking day! It's the best deal a man could do in a lifetime.
I suggest you two things:
- kill yourself and write a post it where you say that you hate anal (you would be the first man ever to say this)
- fuck a male, maybe you are gay.
But first, more pics of her anus, thanks
Get her to beg for it, deny her every once and a while, get her to take pics for you.
If shes into girls, have her bring one home so you can aprove her to be her play thing when you're not intrested.
You have quite the opertunity here, and the best part is if it doesn't work out you get what you you're already contumplating. You break up
Hey OP, I used to be halfway to your situation. My ex was a kinky nympho, combine that with extreme ease of cumming (like 2 times per eating out + another 5 during my 1) and squirting every goddamn time.
>try sleeping on that bed later
We went for a trip to Prague. We always got up at 8~10 am and went out of the hotel at 5pm even if I asked her to stop and go eat something or actually go fucking sightseeing. After 3 days of 5+h of sex a day I started to have pains in the back. I actually dumped her 2 days after we came back. Couldnt stand constant fucking and doing nothing else
Let me put it in terms that a virgin such as yourself understands. Pick your top 10 porn videos, the ones that make you cum buckets. You're are only allowed to jerk off to those 10 videos for the next 3 years. Good luck.
Been there OP. It gets tough living with your "girlfriend" in many different ways. Problem here is, you two see eachother every waking moment and end of the day.
You speak as if you love her or w.e. so there is a connection between you two. My suggestion, spend some time a part. You do you and let her do her. Talk about it with her though, dont just distance yourself as that becomes unhealthy.
Im sure youve herd "you dont know what you have till its gone" those words are very strong when you realize how much they mean. Point is, give yourself some space for the time being and see where it goes from there.
just think of your mom during sex, its what keeps me excited during intercourse
>married for 10 years and cheating
tfw you sank to the level of a woman tier excuse
Shit didn't know you were gods gift to women. I'm pretty sure she could do a lot better then you. Most dudes would kill for a chick that is just at least into anal. And lots of them don't live in a shithole house like yours
forgot pic. can dump some normal pics if anyone wants. nudes dont exist - see >>692199594
I'm in the same boat and its going on 10 years together. I'm even sick of fucking her friends that she let's me fuck. But I Love her dealt and wet have two kids that are my world. So it's just become normal
I feel ya, same here.. She made some hints towards opening up the relationship a little for both of us, perhaps that may bring some fresh air into it - like, one of us being on vacation or something, and then starting to miss each other and being even more happy and excited to see each other again after. Perhaps it's the same for sleeping with other people.
Some friends of mine are in open relationships and they claim it actually bonds you much more to your partner because he or she is the one you come back to.
Let's see how this goes..
You are a fucking idiot kid. Do I really need to spell this out for you? The comparison is saying what it's like to force yourself to cum or be aroused when the excitement is no longer there. I'm not saying sex and watching porn is the same you fucking neck beard.
I had a 3.5 year relationship and wanted to fuck othergirls, so I did. She was my first and im at around 25 now. Short term relationships are healthy because you get the relationship feel but if you really wanna go slutmode, you can just end it.
Hmmm tbh she looks boring...
If you stay you're only going to make yourself and her miserable.. I'd try to see if she'd be down for a 3some.. or become friends with benefits that way you don't have to move... But tbh, it will only get worse if fucking her is a chore and a bore...
When I was in my 20s (30 now) I hooked up with a ton of chicks.. Best to do it young imo. Now I have an amazing gf who I actually give a shit about.. (that and she works for google making 200k a year lol).
Shit, my mentor didn't find his wife until he was 60.... I'd say live it up until you find the right one, like the real right one. It does exist.
I've had this happen, you just got bored. It will always happen. Spice it up. Tell her you've not been interested because you want to try new things. Divulge your fantasies. If she's into it, stay, if not, leave.
get an asian g/f problem solved.
Nothing more overrated than white women. If they're not crazy when they meet you, they'll be crazy later.
This. Honestly seeing other guys like you make me sick. You guys promoting this short term relationship crap makes you look like a 12 year old. Grow some balls. Ive been with my girl for 4 years and I love fucking her.
I had the same problem. I wasn't attracted to my gf anymore, after we have done a lot of stuff together in a very short amount of time. I left her. Now I'm single for more than a year and the last time I had sex is nearly a year ago. Don't leave her. Take viagra and go on fucking her.
5 asian g/fs actually.
Never had a japanese one though. 3 korean 1 taiwanese and 1 chinese. Korean's are amazing (if you can find one with an ass). They get off on being your servant. Taiwanese chick was kind of like a dude.. Probably because taiwanese boys are pretty much girls.
yeah, i had to take a restraining order out on my ex, who was Korean. and the fucked up thing was she broke up with me. twice. first time on my birthday, but then came back crying the next day, so i got back with her, than again a few months later. this time I wouldn't take her back, so she went insane.
OP i'm in a similar situation, except I don't live with my GF. Also mine used to be very pretty, and thin, but has gained a lot of weight. now I'm not perfect either, but I make attempts to stay healthy. and she constantly wants me to have sex with her, but I'm just not into it anymore.
>trying to separate and group women
all races have crazy ass women, all races have noncrazy women. Although the latter is rare, you can't classify an entire culture / race.. unless you're talking about white american chicks who watch reality tv shows, they're 100% crazy.
Do you know anything about Asian culture? They are so fucking weird if you didn't grow up in it then it'll baffle you.
>trying to separate and group women
>Separates and groups white women
>trying to separate and group women
>Separates and groups * a small demographic white women
but you know it's true, those housewives of hollywood make women into brainwashed retards
well spoken anon.
The saddest thing is that almost ever male experiences this, and it's "expected" from the girls to just accept this. I wished that somebody told me that many chicks are just crazy. One I knew (and his brother) got accused of cheating, from her. She didn't believe them when they said no. It's so demeaning for them to experience that, and they haven't putted her on place. It seems that womens has a higher threshold for abusive relationships. It is due of earlier experiences of "bad boys?"
if u cant make sex interesting then u r borring bro, cause srsly shes packing some decent ass
either get her to go to a strip joint and get a bitch from there to make a threesome, public blowjob, cuckqueen her, if not just pass her over to me
and im telling u that im basically married with children n get to fuck just about evry day or every other day gf gives out bjs regularly, shes the one who came over with the idea of doing anal and she wants us to try a threesome with some other bitch