/b/ i have an argument with my girlfriend. i found out she went topless a few times. now i was mad at her , but she pointed out last festival i walked around without a shirt an entire week.
so i'm just having double standards when it comes to her, making me a sexist. she'd rarelly done it when when it's really hot she feels she has the same rights as a man does. and tbh i can't really argue that she's wrong. how do you feel /b/ ?
Dump her for calling you sexist. Tits are sexualized by 99% of men because tits are fucking awesome. She knows she loves getting the attention, and she knows how much of it she gets.
Don't let her cuck and guilt trip you anon.
>>691334989
I feel that you are acting like a little bitch and making a lot of drama over your girl going topless. Also post a pic of her
feelin good. lets see some more of those tits
>>691334989
that's what you get for giving women the right to talk about equality, move on
>>691335482
that's mostly how i feel, but with all the equality shit going on now she's technically not wrong, they' are double standards
>>691334989
Tell her that if she cared about you she'd respect your boundaries.
Obviously there's boundaries in relationships- you cant just go out and hookup with a barslut while youre in a relationship. Tell her if she feels its unfair youre willing to not take off your shirt in public ever again and be serious.
If she tries to say youre slut shaming me or patriarchy something tell her you dont wanna date a girl who is sexualises herself in that manner in public and you have conflicting interests so you must each go your own separate ways.
simple as that
>>691335666
Dude that's an excuse. That isn't the actual reason. She loves the attention, call her out on it and move on.
That attentions gonna form into full on cheating in the future. Deal with the issue now. I wouldn't call this cheating but it's just fucked.
>>691335666
the're obviously double standards, so end the double standard yourself.
dont go topless anymore expect her to also not go topless anymore.
I mean, she can go out with a sports bra that is tiny, or something but bare tits is just attention seeking bro
>>691335998
i guess this is pretty good. i could live with not taking off my shirt inpublic either, it doesn't happen often anyway and we would be equal then
If after you tell her you'll stop taking your shirt off and she pulls the "why are you so oppressing" it's time to motorboat those tits one last time and move on.
She doesn't respect you, she doesn't value your attention, and she doesn't take you seriously.
>>691336056
see this guy knows whats up
topless girls just want attention from males
and soon that attention seeking its gonna turn some guy on and she's gonna want the attention she gives him and he's gonna grab her tits and she's gonna grab his dick and they'll hook up- youll get cucked and she'll never tell you and you'll never know and next time she sees you texting some girl she's gonna flip her shit and accuse you of cheating and youre gonna end up appologizing and swearing up and down that you're not cheating but she's just gonna get angry and leave and hookup with the guy and use the good ol' "he's cheating on me so this is payback" logic.
trust me im an expert
>>691336705
>>691336548
i don't believe she'd cheat. the only 2 times i've known her to go topless was with mutual friends, so if she tried more i'd know
>>691336705
I don't play these stupid games. Seriously she needs to grow the fuck up, and so do you op.
Grow a set and tell her and be straight forward. Know that you're not wrong, and that she's violating the boundaries of whatever kind of relationship you have.
Move on. There's more to life than getting cucked by someone who's going down the road of being used up and thrown away.
>>691334989
Let her be topless if she wants to or you'll become a sexist, misogynistic piece of shit
>>691337077
>violating the boundaries of whatever kind of relationship you have.
so he can and she can't ? that sounds fair
>>691337004
Yeah neither did I until she called me crying saying "I made a mistake... I regret it so much I'm sorry"
Anyone can cheat. It doesn't even matter if they think the other persons attractive. It's all about atmosphere and opportunity.
Stop trying to convince yourself.
>>691334989
if you're actually considering that bullshit as an argument then you're a stupid faggot and you don't even deserve to have girlfriend in the first place... at least you're into making cuckold videos
>>691337004
oh i remember when i would make excuses in my head for my ex like "the only 2 times" and "if she tried more i'd know"
How clueless i was... How foolish!
>>691337099
Actually, let her be topless in places where people don't really care because it's quite common in that area.
>>691337281
eh, i mean, i'm still not happy about the topless but. if you go by your logic then every person will eventually cheat
>>691337077
>>691337281
you heard it here. having girls be equal is a violation of the relationship and will lead to them cheating.
>>691337534
Not every person will eventually cheat, I'm saying everyone's capable of it.
>>691335666
Satanic trips checked
>2016
>caring what a woman thinks
>>691337753
ok, i'll agree with that. but i don' see why this is enought to assume she will. i mean, tons of women do it. nudebeaches are also alot more prevalent, i don't think they're any more likelly to cheat either
>>691335666
witnessed
>>691334989
You and your girlfriend sound like a bunch of hippie losers. I bet she does more than just run around topless to entertain strange guys..
>>691337237
yes because society established what social norms are acceptable in public and which aren't and they were predetermined when engaging in a mutual western monogamous relationship. It's not like he has to say, "dont suck a dick that inst mine" Dont give handjobs to strangers" dont let guys fuck your butthole" "dont hold hands with a guy who isnt me" "dont give footjobs" "dont let random guys touch your sexy parts" "
There isn't a list both partners must sign, there are all well known things youre not supposed to do.
boobs are sexy parts for your partner to do sexy things with during sexy time. . So if she's out topless she knows shes doing something wrong, but she's using the "hurr durr double standard" to excuse herself
>>691338125
after i asked about it, she said she only did it once before and both were with mutual friend,s so she never did it infront of strangers before. and that was all she did
>>691334989
Who has nicer tits?
>>691337963
Truly, because I feel as if this situation is attention grabbing. I don't think it's an issue of equality.
Maybe it's not overstepping boundaries because boundaries haven't been specified but if she steps over them once op's voiced his concerns, that's a massive red flag.
Or I mean maybe it's not and I'm just an asshole who doesn't trust anyone. Little column a little column b.
>>691338270
>boobs are sexy parts for your partner to do sexy things with during sexy time
welp; i hope you never have kids. you DO know sex isn't their purpose ? they're for your children. can she breastfeed in public ?
>>691337963
dude its different at a nudist beach
look, if she's a party drinking with her tits out, that's wayyyyyyyy different than sitting at a nude beach surrounded by nude people who arent being sexualised because of the normality of the situation. If i was at a nude beach chances of boner are 5% but if girl has tits out at party chances of boner are 99%
see the difference?
>>691337237
>tits aren't sexual
>titjobs, tit sucking, tit bondage, etc
Everything thing is turning upside down.
>>691336705
has the winning argument
>attention seeking, its gonna turn some guy on and she's gonna want the attention she gives him and he's gonna grab her tits and she's gonna grab his dick and they'll hook up- youll get cucked and she'll never tell you
Tits are sexual male chest are only sexual if there attractive its not equality its the way things are woman equality is bullshit anyway if she cant respect u leave her if u cant respect her dont expect her to be faithfull, either way if you stay together without boundaries its gonna fall apart sooner or later
>>691338603
it wasn't at a party. it was during a hang out with friends. no stranger saw her. she ever did it before but it's been so hot the last few weeks she felt like it.
>>691338497
they function as both dude.
Think about a 10 year old getting breastfed, you dont find that kind of sick? he'd get a little boner im sure, growing up in the western society and all.
just accept boobies are sexy parts dude, sure they feed babies but as soon as they are no longer babies they too will see boobies as sexy parts
>>691338497
Either femanon (which requires tits or gtfo) or a fucking fedora wearing white knight.
>>691334989
you're a fag. let her show off her tits.
>>691334989
It's not about equality if it's the only time she ever mentions anything about equality.
>you have an attention seeking whore op.
>are dem tiddies worth sticking around for?
>nvm, I'll ask everyone else.
>they'll know the answer before you, beta.
>>691338918
>Think about a 10 year old getting breastfed, you dont find that kind of sick?
like... what ? nobody with their right mind breastfeeds till that age. don't get me wrong i've seen articles of people that do but their in the vast vast vast minority.
i'm talking about normal people with a 3 month old for example. you feel that shouldn't be allowed either ?
>>691339121
would you be comfortable with it if it was your gf ?
Boobs have an instinctual effect on people.
>>691338773
look it depends. If it was all chicks then i see that as neutral as the nude beach, but if her guy BFF Charlie Sheen was also there then its a gain a non-neutral sexual situation.
so was it a girly sleeping party where they were comparing bra sizes and talking about their periods and bitching about their boyfreinds or was it a non-neutral sexual environment where they were playing truth or dare and the nervous game.
It's all circumstantial to the exact situation
>>691338773
Were any of those mutual friends male? If so, that's a fucking problem.
>>691339248
Breast feeding in public should be covered blankets or something not just tits out its noy okay i know i wouldnt be if my wife did it.
>>691339248
Women wear or
>low cut tanks
>push up bras
>compare sizes
>Bikini tops
>focal point in selfies are clevage
>breast implants
Yeah keep telling yourself they arnt sexualized one bit fagget
>>691339540
>>691339567
not all of them were gilds 2 of them were male;s mutual friends aswell. they didn't lie about it they said they looked but she took off her shirt herself because it was too hot. they never touched her
>>691339248
its all context dude
I dont mind some bitch brestfeeding chances of boner are 5%- but as soon as shes done put that shit back in there.
Just cause shes holding a baby dont mean her tits should be out.
and honestly i dont have a problem with tits being out, i have a problem with being a western monogamous relationship and thinking that having your tits out isn't some form of unfaithfulness when non-sexually neutral situations.
For all i care OPs gf should fly her tits like flags in the wind, but shouldn't do it while trying to force him to accept it as part of their relationship
>>691339795
i'm not saying they're not sexualized. but... so are men's chests. the parfum dude, the coca cola guy. the watercoolerbottle dude. so why the double standards
>>691334989
More of her?
Punish her ass. She's a female, she needs to know her place- and that place has a modest dress code.
>>691338773
Umm was she wearing a bra or are you really that stupid?
>>691339976
Those are all ppl who are fit a regular man with no chest with a belly isnt viewed sexually unless ur into it personally and by that logic every part of the body can be sexualised
>>691340227
OP is right if she was wearing a bra its okay same as a swimsuit dosnt count
>>691340295
but that's retarded. THIS is sexual, but only if the person if attractive. but for the same sex it's always sexual regardless of attractiveness. that's a double standard between genders with another double standard for the male.
>>691335666
people have mistaken the equality of two sexes with the similarity.We are equals but we are not similars,if she can't understand that dump her,better for you,you will save your ass from a dumb cumhole.
If you can't understand it aswell go anhero.
>>691339815
hahah bro your getting cucked for sure!
NO GIRL IN HER RIGHT MIND JUST GOES TOPLESS IN FRONT OF 2 DUDES CAUSE SHES "HOT". girl have this thing called shame
and just cause its mutual friends doesnt make it okay.
Like lets say you pull her shirt down in front of strangers, she wouldn't like that one bit because she would be sexualised by those strangers and feel embarrassed.
The fact she didnt feel embarrased by being sexualised by her male friends means she's willing to slut it up and have no shame.
that's the kind of girl you pull your dick out in front of and say "you should suck my dick" and she does it.
>Foot-in-the-door (FITD) technique is a compliance tactic that involves getting a person to agree to a large request by first setting them up by having that person agree to a modest request.
You sure your friends didnt say, "its hot in here why dont you take off your top" lol
>>691340227
>>691340429
no as i said in the first post. she was topless, no bra at all
>>691340643
Bro, if you intend to be monogamous I am sorry, your relationship is over. On the bright side she seems like swinger material. Infinite sex with hot chicks is pretty chill
>>691340608
if it was just 2 guys i'd feel more like you do now. but there was other girl there aswell. i can see the guys lying, but the girls wouldn't, nothing in it for them.
Set boundaries or break it off think what you gonna say though wording is key to not loosing the argument dont let her interupt either
>>691340643
Im ashamed for you bro
Im sad for you
my heart aches for your pathetic excuses
My soul cries at your logic
Your getting cucked and you just accept it....
Let me guess too, this happened outside by the Pool right?? not indoors nah, its hot why go indoors with AC when you can go topless by the pool with 2 males friends huehuehuhe
Next thing you know she's snapchatting boobie pics to them couse they couldln't get enough that night and she's cool with it because "hurr durr guys go topless all the time"
>>691335666
Don't be such a pussy Satan
Let us see them and we will let you know if it's ok or not.
>>691341013
it doenst matter how many guys and girls there were
0 guys is okay, even 1 guy isn't
I was pretty cool in HS do you know how many times girls in relationships ended up sucking my dick by the pool after taking off her shirt and going topless? (Live in Arizona its hot as fuck out here even 100+ in summer after sunset) and with her friends just pretending nothing is going on looking the other way chatting it up on the other end of the pool cause the situation is too awk for them to intervene, and after all theyre more friends with her than they are with her BF.
>>691338773
Sounds like an utter bullshit made up reason. Complaining about it being too hot that's why she flopped her milk duds out, she's clutching at straws anon. You're dating a whore.
>>691341177
they're not my excuses though. i mean i hated the idea at first. but everything she said makes sense. they are actually double standards. but i think i'll try the advice that i'll always wear a top so thne we're equal in the relationship if she had to keep it on aswell
>>691341736
i mean... isn't that the exact reason guys take their shirt off ?
>>691334989
Well, it all depends on intent. If she's topless because of discomfort or convenience, then there's no real issue. But if it's for male attention or anything sexual, then she has no solid ground to stand on.
>>691341664
Foot-in-the-door (FITD) technique is a compliance tactic that involves getting a person to agree to a large request by first setting them up by having that person agree to a modest request.
this technique really works. An innocent sentence like, "its so hot, i have my shirt off dont you find it sexists girls cant go topless and guy can! you should lose the shirt"
Lose the shirt and then she's blowing me, it really works
>>691341933
descomfort. it's been insanely hot here atm. when i'm home i'm basicly just in boxers all day aswell just because of it
>>691334989
Not enough information to make a decent decision op. Please post pics so we have a better idea of the situation
>>691341948
it's early to go that far. everyone there was my friend before they were hers. so they would tell me if she cheated. she just took her shirt off, nothing more.
>>691341737
no dude your relationship is fucked
you dont really trust her or else you woulnd't post on 4chan about it
you know deep inside your gut something happened shes not telling you, even if all the pieces fall in place something deep inside you still feels like its not right or you woulnd't be here
everything she said made sense because she rehearsed it in her head over and over and over
oh wait let me tell you, she was the one that let you know it happened right? like two weeks after?
>>691342175
For science
>>691342274
>Believing OP is not a kid with a vivid imagination
>>691342175
Here are her tits
Kid,go get a nap and stop busting our balls with your retarded shitposts.
If you don't know how to handle such a situation then this makes you a twat and i wonder how a twat like you got a girl in the first place.
If this is not a shitpost i hope she dumbs you fucking cucklord.
>>691339540
so what you're saying is your gf whipped out her tits in front of your mates and now they both know how her knockers feel and definitely imagined what they feel like and how they'd look while shes riding their cock? and you take it that your girlfriend didn't know all of this when she was deciding whether or not to do it but did it anyway? fucking dump that cunt she'll be cheating on you in no time assuming she hasn't already
>>691342257
And that's too fucking much. No girl with any ounce of shame would do that. In fact, girls live day-to-day, hyper aware of men's reactions because they basically are forced to live life on the defensive. She knows exactly what kind of reaction whipping her tits out in front of guys would elicit and she did it anyways.
It's only going to escalate, stop making excuses for shitty behavior.
>>691334989
Hey there, my taliban friend, how's afghanistan this time of year?
>>691342257
you implying your long time bro WOULD tell you he fucked you over big time and possibly ruin your friendship and hurt you deeply in the process
friends are just humans, and humans usually lie when they fuck up big time
>>691342441
Had a girl that did this shit, just make her a side piece and find better because she will screw some random dude
>>691342594
check out this thread!!!
>>691342441
>being that new
You can't trick me kid,i don't forget the boobs i see.Go watch some porn and sleep,you got enough attention here.
>>691342441
not OP, i'm not going to post her.
>>691342645
that doesn't make any sense ? if i lived there she'd been dead by now lol
>>691342934
im done with your retarded us OP
Enjoy getting cucked!
>>691342680
buy why would the others lie ? it wasn't just guys there. why would a girl lie about this
>>691342824
Easy to remember when you have seen 3 or less pairs
HELLO GUYS,CAN U SEE MY POSTS?
>>691342441
nice tits indeed.
Anyways back to topic: I get rly suspicious when it comes down to this. I dont think she needs some "rights" to show her tits around, let alone your "permission", but it just isn't my type of women.
Judging from your posts and the fact that you started this thread in the first place, I assume you aren't happy with it either. Unless you are REALLY sure she is worth it and you can ignore this incident and live with her for a few more years you maybe should just dump her.
Reason: Not a good fit. That simple. None of you did (too much) wrong, you just seem to be searching for other things in a relationship
>>691334989
OP, is this a dealbreaker? Because if not, you're wasting everyone's time. Just deal with it and move on. And if so, you're wasting everyone's time. Just move on.
>>691343275
no, which post?
>>691343275
YES WE CAN! HOW ARE YOU NEW FRIEND? IS FAMILY DOING WELL?
>>691343245
Nice try clown,if you try harder post by post you might stop smelling like a dirty newfag.
>>691343286
yeah i am not happy about it. after the talk i understood her reasoning and i couldn't actually find a fault in it. it's just this irrational part of me that's not pleased
>>691343164
because its awk as fuck to break those news to someone
My friends knew my ex was cheating on me and it took them like 5 months for one of them to muster the courage to tell me, and its wasn't even one of my friends it was one of hers
go figure
>>691343365
OH COOL SO I FOUND OUT HOW TO POST!I AM GUD MY FRIEND XD LUL,HOW ABOUT YOU ?x D XD
>>691343286
>
and srsly since when is /b/ flooded with faggets? Ofc it is a dealbreaker. Do you wanna be engaged with a prostitute showing her tits around? If you wouldnt mind that you are a fkin cuckold anime weeaboo retard scum fgt.
Just saying
>>691343321
THAT POST DUDE
>>691343420
Holy shit you can smell newfag? That's amazing man. Can you taste dicks in butt, or farts in mouth? Outrageous fun mate
Don't loose her, fuck those tits, then when you've got your fill (and she has too) gtfo
>>691334989
Enjoy being cucked you beta faggot.
>>691343598
>still trying
>>691343753
Is trying bad? My mother always told me to try my hardest and leave it al out on the field
>>691334989
If you are worried about her being topless then you are afraid you are a total loser and some other dude with more game than you will take her. If you are worried about her cheating then that's on you for dating a slut. If you know she is cool and won't cheat then what's the problem with her being topless and you still being the only guy to fuck her.
TL:dr Op is a total fucking pussy and his gf should dump his sorry ass.
>>691343480
well the irrational part of you is still a reasonably huge part of you tbh. If it is working out great in general it might not be worth dumping her but it seems like you don't deal with it too well. It is no shame to say at some point "sorry, but that's not acceptable for me" even tho I hope you find a way to accept it instead of dumping her directly.
If however you know for a fact that this relationship wont end well (because of this or other reasons) I advise you to end it ASAP and save both of you some valuble time and energy
>>691343753
>still crying
>>691343928
looks like some fag red a "modern" pickup book?
It's all about being alpha huuurrrrr
fuck off tard. srsly.
Hope this will help you out anon
>>691344129
Read
>>691343951
yeah the rest of working out really well. + i still have to propose the idea to her that i just wouldn't go topless either. i really wouldn't mind and would only be fair i guess
>>691343895
it took you long enough summerfag to mention momma.
>Primary school flaming
>>691344096
>newfag
>samefagging
DAmn kid please quit
>>691344384
Momma never said give up
>>691335666
Millennial troll
>>691344384
>stilll crying
>>691344248
well if it is working out well in all other aspects I honestly wouldn't mind too much. I don't like stuff like this myself but i like missing an opportunity of a good and long lasting realtionship even less. Talk to her, tell her that you don't feel good about it. Communication is very important in a relationship. I don't think she had any shady intentions from what i've seen in this post. Wishing you best of luck :) I am sure having a small talk will help you both in the long run!
>>691344759
thanks man, i think i'll go about it this way.
>>691342934
what about not topless ? might tell us something about her
>>691334989
Gotta agree with these guys, OP. I'm fairly progressive, but I wouldn't call this double standards on the grounds that breasts are way more sexualized compared to male chests, which is what changes the situation. The fact that she came up with a justification that guilts you right away instead of saying "I feel that this is okay because (x)"is pretty worrisome too.
>>691344899
>>691344759
>>691344899
spoken like a true cuckold
>>691344899
you're welcome. After all a relationship is hard work (for both parts). Also on emotional basis but the reward is very worth it :)
Have a good night anon
If I found out my girlfriend did something that slutty I'd drop her instantly. No argument/conversation about it, just "we're done." She sounds like an insufferable cunt if she's gonna pull that double standards bullshit anyway, so you're better off without her.
>>691342441
reverse search this pic and find out OP is a faggot.Good job taking the bait fags.
>>691344899
>I finally heard the answer I wanted to hear
>My mind was really made up all along, I just wanted confirmation in the guise of advice
God, I hate faggots like you. I can't wait until you accept her back from cheating on you because "she's REALLY, REALLY sorry, it'll never happen again!"
>>691345349
i'm not a cuck nor did she cheat.
>>691334989
Here u go
bit ly 28NljPX
>>691345522
True. I expect to be able to put it in my girls butt, but she can't never peg me
>>691334989
not double standards.
tits get censored like cocks get censored
>>691345607
Sounds like someone has had some experience with this and never let it go
>>691334989
Your GirlFriend is a fucking slut.
Case Closed.
>>691335666
You can't supress centuries of human instinct.
>>691345556
or... you could look into this thread for longer than 5 seconds and realize i said it wasn't her.
someone is posting pictures but it's not me
>>691342934
>>691345263
not her either.
>>691344129
you obviously didn't read what I posted. If you can't think that your partner is trustworthy then maybe you don't need to be in a relationship. Not trying to be all "hurr durr be an alpha male". Stop projecting
>>691345083
this
/thread
>>691345819
this is actually her. not posting nudes.
Post a youtube video of a guy topless and post a youtube vid of a woman topless wich do you think needs parental control and will get probably deleted tits are sexual mens chest are not it the sociaty definition watch tv tits are censored men arent why else would that be your gf reasoning is wrong and you should post her tits
>>691345792
Not at all. Unlike OP, I'm not stupid enough to ignore red flags.
I just hate people who ask for advice on any subject with their mind made up beforehand. They just wait and wait until someone tells them exactly what they want to hear and then pretend it was a hard decision. THOSE people I've had plenty of experience with and I just let them fuck up on their own now.
>>691346228
Holy Kek if this is real that is a full blown slut op. You done fucked yo a long time ago by staying with this chick for more then just one night
>>691346255
>watch tv tits are censored men
actually only in america. where it's ok to show the most gruesome murder, but OH NOO A NIPPLE.
and about the internet it's become less and less like that. tons of people are campaigning for allow breasts on social media etc. #freethenipple etc.
>>691346228
fat face,why you worry so much about such a cunt?Are you that desperate fatass?
>>691345618
to me, streaking around topless in front of her male friends is cheating
we might have two conflicting definitions of cheating
if it hurt your feelings like it clearly did, and she very well knew how you would react to this and did it anyways- then to me that's cheating
react however you want
its your life
>>691346228
Goodjob OP give us a way to find her by image
>>691346499
lol she's not fat at all. maybe just not the best picture.
>>691345643
>can't never
so she's always railing you faggot?
>>691334989
Personally, I'd forgive her, but tell her if she does it again, without you around to let people know who she belongs to, then it's over.
>>691346692
>>691346692
more ?
>>691347366
clothed only
>>691346692
>sausage fingers
>round face
>Tattoos inspired by her grandma's house drawings
>>691346228
>>691346692
She looks like a typical molly slut. Why are you dating her, OP?
>>691347652
Dump her. She's fucking ugly mate.
>>691347656
well if you don't like her, good thing you're not the one fucking her .
>>691346228
>How many daddy issues can i fit in one photo?
>>691347824
lol don't listne OP; he's just trolling, she's hot AF, hey i'd love to be her friend too, i'd be sure to turn up the heat everytime she's over
>>691347829
You mean he's not the ONLY one fucking her.
>>691347829
Soon, you won't be either, you cuck. She looks like a grade-A attention whore, only time before she sucks some dude's dick who gives her the time of day.
>>691347736
the hell's a molly slut ?
>>691341819
yeah but see nobodies gonna stare at our chests and get a bonner, while a girl knows full damn well that boobs are sexualised whether she likes it or not and shes gonna elicit a reaction from the males in company on some level or another and she full well knew that before doing so
>>691347988
>turn up the heat
Lol yeah maybe her ass will get hot and she'll get fully nude this time
>>691348061
A slut who takes loads of molly and chews her own face off as a result.
>>691348061
A girl that often goes to music festivals, does MDMA (or something sold as MDMA) and then acts like a slut.
>>691348027
I'M the only one fucking her. and hopefully after i come to her with >>691336280
as a solution she'll never go topless again either
>>691347988
>OP pretending to be other people who actually want his girlfriend.
It's just sad at this point.
>>691347652
looks like a fucked bitch
>>691348277
Most girls with tons of tattoos arnt very stable, just move on.
>>691348495
so much this
>>691348277
Oh yeah, like that'll work.
Get cucked man. You're so weak and pathetic, if I could with you I'd feel physical pain.
>>691348277
Lol its funny you think thats going to work boundaries in general have to be set not just im not topless so neither can you what is this kindergarden
>>691348277
>Hopefully, I can make her not an attention seeking whore.
Haha, good luck, faggot.
>>691347652
lotta red flags. she got tits though. looks like a cheater, but nhhh. i'd fuck her
>>691348495
I beg the differ one of my best female friends is into body art and she is fine admitetly though its hard for her to find a job
>>691348583
it's called equality in a relationship. i'm sad you associate fairness with kindergarten.
>>691348747
Like I said most, fucking retards can't even read.
>>691348765
Just go do what you want then. There's no helping you. See where you'll get yourself.
>>691348747
this. in my experience people with dreads, tattoos, are some of the nicest people. and the ones most likelly to fuck people ove are the nicely dressed ones and suits. learned that when working at city hall. biggest pieces of shit alive
>>691348765
holy fucking shit, you're so dumb, you actually deserve to be cheated on.
It's not equality. Man chest and boobs aren't the same. There's a reason why boobs are hidden most of the time and you don't show them strangers (ie bikinis or underwear).
Boobs are sexualized, and it's not the society who made it that way. It's evolution.
>>691348765
Equality is bullshit if you aint okay with it shes gotta respect it if shes not okay with u sharing your personal life on the internet u just broke trust so take ur equality and shove it, talk to ur gf when she tries to play around it remember B told you so shes not gonna go along with it either just so you know so best of luck single life is amazing
>>691348765
equality is bullshit
She dont got a dick and he doenst got tits
they arent equal at all- theyre individuals in a western monogamous relationship and equality isnt an excuse for her to show her tits to you friends.
See when its put that way it makes much more sense doesnt it?
Me and my gf have a good relationship and we are both equal, but she knows me not having my shirt on is not the same as her being topless.
If we go swimming i wear shorts she wears a top and bikiny
But im not a cuck and she knows that, i dont have to tell her not to pull her tits out in front of her friends because she knows better than that ( i would instantly consider it cheating and dump her)
Look, how is this any different than finding a snapchat of her tits sent to both your friends? it isnt.
>>691338398
Oh great, she said a thing so there is absolutely no way that she's just lying about said thing, case closed!
>>691349264
>Boobs are sexualized, and it's not the society who made it that way. It's evolution.
and then you dare calling other people stupid ? they're never evolved to be sexual, their primary intent is breastfeeding. WE make it sexual. should be obvious as cultures such as many african tribes etc all walk around topless and there's nothing sexual about it.
>>691349499
all others backed up her story
>>691349482
>See when its put that way it makes much more sense doesnt it?
nope still stupid. have you been living under a rock there are many organisations striving to equalize women when it comes to their chest.
>>691334989
So you're telling us that your gf is trying to equate a man (whose breasts are not an erogenous zone) going shirtless at a music festival with a girl (whose tits are for fucking sucking and feeding babies) going topless in public? Sounds to me like you've got an attention whore looking to whore for attention. She's probably trying to find a new guy she can branch swing to.
>>691349264
this one is right
>>691349142
You can be nice and still have daddy issues
>>691342257
You are literally retarded
>Everyone said this, I believe what everyone says because nobody would lie! I can't wait to see you in the feels threads after she cheats
>>691334989
the upper body of a woman has much more sexual potential in our culture than a naked male upper body.
Her body her rules.
Just kidding, she's a whore.
>>691349509
Their primary intent IS breastfeeding. But they evolved to what they are today because it was needed to arouse the males.
When our ancestors beagn to walk on two feet instead of all fours, the main arousal source for the males, the ass, was less seen by said males (standing, so looking up front, not directly on the ass).
Thus, the female body started to develop bigger breasts, so the males would be arroused easely again.
Haven't you noticed that the human female is the ONLY bipedal mamal with big breats (or not so big, depends on the person, but still more than just nipples)?
>>691349746
>men, whose breasts are not an erogenous zone
yes they are ? i'm serious just fucking google it men's nipples are erogenous zones aswell.
and itt wasn't public as in a fucking square, she was inside
>>691349264
>you actually deserve to be cheated on
this x100, OP you are absolutely fucked and I really hope that do you get cheated on
>>691350067
Is this fact or jiberish made up im curious and dont feel like looking
>>691350067
>ut they evolved to what they are today because it was needed to arouse the males.
nope. as said before then what about all the tribes across many cultrures who are shut off from media. ? all of them go topless if possible and it's never sexual.
>>691350294
just jiberish
>>691349594
Oh great, it's cool that your friends are with your girlfriend 100% of the time and that she's never been out with strangers and your friends know where she is at all times
>>691350351
So did indians who alot if the ppl here are decendant from evolved
>>691350351
Then why does a nice set of tits also look like a sweet ass?
>>691349691
well there are organizations like ISIL trying to enforce global sharia laws so women cant show their face in public- just because there are movements for it doenst mean its a good idea.
Look man, these excuses are sad. My gf has self respect, and she thinks that these organizations trying to tell women they should go topless are stupid as fuck. if you wanna date a girl who likes being topless around her friends more power too you, but she doesn't respect her body the way a modest girl does, and girls who arent modest are usually promiscuous. And promiscuous girls usually are free spirits and do things on heat of the moment logic rather than thinking about consequences beforewards.
but hey, even if the US made it legal for girls to be topless they wouldn't be, they would only do it in special occasions.
>>691350506
you have no idea how evolotion works do you ? but sure we've been seperated so long that even though they have breasts aswell they magicly evolved differently and still not find them sexual to this day.
>>69135052
Not a fact B give up good theory though
>>691346228
>>691346692
LOL yep she's a whore
>>691350630
>well there are organizations like ISIL trying to enforce global sharia laws
yes lets compare isis with #freethenipple. sounds legit
>>691347652
>huge tits
Yep, she did it for attention. Your guy friend 100% got really turned on
>>691350294
nope, actually fact But won't be able to find a source for you, learned that stuff years ago.
>>691350783
ISIL not isis numbnuts
>>691348043
>implying she hasn't already
>>691350919
oh i'm sorry. i forgot that it only counts the way YOU say it. here the official term is ISIS
>>691350783
im comparing them because ISIL is a HUGE movement with many many supporters, does that mean that their agenda is good just because of the support they have?
same with free the nipple. Sure lots of feminists and perves back up the movement, that doesnt mean its a good idea.
look i can assure you that your average western girl DOESNT want to go topless in public, ever.
>>691350990
>>691348043
if she cheated on me they'd tell me.
>>691334989
fuck no it is not a double standart girls dont get nearly as turn on to a chest un less you are alpha as fuck, but us get turn on by every flappy tit around there. She knew what she was doing, and she knew it will make you mad. Dump that bitch out
>>691348277
>She'll stop doing it because she said she will!
>she only sucked that dudes dick because she had to! She told me so!
Do you still believe in Santa Clause, OP?
>>691350294
>>691350865
Well, actually found a source by searching a bit. I'm sure you can find more sources if you want, but I'm just giving you this one. It's in french sadly.
https://touslesinsolites.wordpress.com/2012/04/20/pourquoi-les-femmes-ont-des-seins-et-les-hommes-des-tetons/
"Mais l’origine des seins, qui font la femme – sans pour autant admettre qu’elle se réduit à cela – se trouve dans notre bipédie. En effet, les seins se sont développés quand l’Homme a marché sur ses deux jambes. Chez les femelles singe, qui marchent à quatre pattes, les fessent jouent le rôle attractif des seins des humaines ! Nécessairement, quand l’être humain est passé debout, les femmes ont développé de plus gros seins, afin qu’ils soient à la hauteur des yeux des hommes. Un primate autre que l’homme ne pense qu’au postérieur de sa dulcinée guenon, un primate humain ne pense qu’aux seins de sa dulcinée humaine. Et à d’autres caractères, cela va de soi…"
>>691347652
feel free to post some more don't listen to those assholes she doesn't look like a whore, she's just a stunning girl
>>691351236
Unless they fucked her
>>691351236
No they wouldn't. You're an idiot. They don't know where she is every second, kill yourself OP
>>691348277
That's a beta cuck solution. She doesn't do it again because you tell her not to do it again, end of story. Or personally I'd dump the bitch because she already violated your trust and she looks like gutter trash.
>>691351236
>if she cheated it would have been with one of them and they would totally throw themselves or eachother under the bus for the sake of ending your friendship and looking like total cunts
>>691351236
You stupid faggot, you deserve to be cheated on.
>>691351236
If your so sure that you cheating slut of a girlfriend isn't a cheating slut and that it's okay to be topless in public and that you believe literally anything anyone tells you then why in the flying fuck did you make this thread stupid fucking autist?
>>691351308
that's not a problem i speak french. and... yeah there's nothing fact about this. just a piece by some nobody with no sources or studies.
Personally, I wish for a world where it's not weird for females to be topless, and not just because I want to see more boobies!
>>691351468
>>691351555
again there weren't only guys there. there's no reason to lie for a girl. and they'be been my friends for longer than they've been hers
>>691351677
>and not just because I want to see more boobies!
Yes it is
>She only did it for a mutual friend so it's okay
>That's all she did
If you're so sure she's not an attention-seeking slut that'll cuck you the first chance she gets, what in the fuck compelled you to post this on /b/ anyway?
Jesus fuck dude. Grow a set and lay your dickless foot down.
>>691351663
i already got a good answer ? but you'd know that id you read the thread. i'm just here now untill it 404's/
her tattoos keep changing......... different girls......
>>691334989
omg what a fucking cuck
>>691351378
maybe just 1 more, because you asked nicely
>>691351806
See you in the feels thread faggot, you're literally hopeless. You know exactly why what you're saying is absolute bullshit but you should go ahead and kill yourself anyway
>>691351670
As I said, feel free to search some others sources.
I learned this a long time ago, and I'm not here to prove myself.
OP has already proven he's a fucking beta cuck, and I'm not even interested in helping this faggot anymore.
Well actually, second result on google:
http://mpzga.free.fr/kolpos.htm
still in french
>>691351806
okay so most importantly, who told you the event took place? was it her? was it your male friends? was it your female friends? how did you find out?
>>691334989
Honest opinion: She's right that it's double standards. I think the solution is to ask yourself if it's worth not going topless for her to not go topless, and ask her to accept that you would prefer that neither of you go topless. Also, I think you should apologize for starting with double standards. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but it is wrong and you should learn from it.
>>691352064
>Posting pictures of your girlfriend on /b/ for anons to beat off to
You really are a cuck.
>>691352112
i am OP lol, i speak dutch, french and english. your links just aren't proving thing. they're hypotheses are best without any empirical evidence.
>>691351956
If you trusted your girlfriend so much, then why the fuck are you so concerned with her showing tits in public you stupid fucking piece of shit, are you capable of comprehending a sentence? Is your brain bigger than a peanut? I really want to beat the shit out of you for being so fucking stupid, holy motherfucking shit
>>691334989
Well for many reasons she doesn't have the same rights. Female breasts are treated as a sexual organ. Male's are not. You are either an idiot or have autismo if you can't understand basic connotations.
>>691352164
appologize for her running around topless in front of his male friends
Oh woe is me what has /b/ become?
>>691334989
Long story short: she will continue to do this and other things like it. Her character seems to be pretty poor if the is equating this to being sexist. That was a fallacy at best and just shows what kind of girl you have.
Don't make a ho a housewife. She's a fist girl - just use her for that and move on. What she does not realize is that there is no long term market for a slut. best case she will end up being shared between a trailer park and a biker bar.
If you want a relationship find a decent girl.
>>691335666
Oh. Its b8. It's all b8.
>>691352344
if they wanted to beat off they'd probably go to a place with actual nudes etc. plenty of threads for there
>>691352591
RRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>691352164
i don't feel like i have anything to apologize for, but i will suggest me not going topless anymore if she does the same. it seems fair and i barelly ever go topless anyway.
>>691352591
>>691352591
youd be surprise at what people on /b/ prefer to beat off to
>>691352344
There are a few reasons to show off a spouse. One is because you are a cuck, the other is because you get off on dehumanising them. Very different mentalities.
We all just have nothing better to do.
Tru tru
Everyone should be naked more often. It de-sexualizes nudity in the end.
>>691352591
Case closed: OP is either the greatest troll to ever crawl on this earth or is literally the dumbest person alive who is so oblivious to how life works that he thinks people on /b/ want to see pictures of his hot girlfriend just to congratulate him and say "wow nice, OP! You hit the jackpot!" and nothing more. OP, you're stupid. You're so fucking stupid.
>>691352681
okay.
forgive her, you seem like a reasonable dude so lets put you in this scenario
She agrees, no more toplessness- you follow through and no toplessness from you either.
She goes topless in front of her friends AGAIN same group... You find out, what would you do?
>>691352364
well, do want you want.
I honestly don't care what you think, at least I tried to give you some proof.
Your only argument is "muh equality", so well...
>>691353020
He wanks it while weeping softly in the corner.
>>691353020
Or she gos topless with her friends and her male friends not your friends so u wont know either way you screwed and might as well get some while u can wont last too long anyway
>>691352591
You have full blown autism, congratulations
>>691353104
no... my argument is that there's no facts in those links. they have no solid proof of anything. there's even alot pf mention that ythey're not even sure why men like it. justa few theories that haven't been proven at all
>>691353020
if she does then it's probably grounds for breaking up
>>691352975
yeah but why do such a horrible thing to people?!?!?!
Sexuality is so important in humans, why desexualise them? It would turn sex into mating and nothing more. I am glad I dont see tits and pussy in all walks of life, because when I pull down a hot girls panties or lift their shirt to see their beautiful tits it turns me on like crazy and its a good thing. i wouldnt want to desensitize myself to sex, that would be wrong
Is anyone else here literally mad at how oblivious and retarded OP is? There's no way someone can be this good a troll
>>691353456
but that's already the difference betwene EU and NA in NA you can show the most graphics torture imaginable but a nipple gets censored. while here violance ins less prevalent but there's alot more nudity on tv and plenty of places already have nudebeaches etc
>>691334989
Well... Exhibitionism is also a thing.
She can claim it's sexist, but just like whipping your dick out in front of children, it's not something you can wipe clean by saying nudity is natural.
>>691353325
yeah, theories emitted by fucking doctors. What are you?
You know Darwin's evoluton theory is just the same he? Or the fact that the sun is actually the center of the universe was a theory too?
And I was speaking about your arguments for letting her go topless/not going topless yourself. "muh equality"
Choke on dick, sincerly
>>691353719
>arwin's evoluton theory is just the same he?
aaaaand it's been proven.. ?
>Or the fact that the sun is actually the center of the universe was a theory too
aaaand heliocentrism have been disproven.
none of the stuff in your links has THAT'S the difference
>>691351806
She could have just cheated with one friend, later on, not with the rest, why would that friend tell you that they went ahead and had sex with your girlfriend? She could be having sex with people you nor her friends know. Try to argue this other than saying "oh don't worry I asked her if she was cheating and she said no so its okay haha"
>>691353427
>>691353427
Okay, at least you have a boundary.
I've taken my chances plenty of times and every time I lose, i've forgiven and everytime i have i end up getting fucked over. Maybe its just my pessimistic views, or my redflag sensor has calibrated to a finer degree; either way OP. Good luck, i sincerely wish it upon you.
Pls dont be a cuck though, I beg you. I am pleading you to have self respect because it seems like there are so many guys who dont have any... I was one of them and there's only suffering down that lane brother.
>>691353719
>theories emitted by fucking doctors. What are you?
coming from the guy who thought OP was someone else because it's so unlikelly to him someone to speak atleast 2 languages.
>>691354011
is that impossible ? no. but.... there's no evidence to support that. your argument is possible for every single girl in the world. you should never date then
>>691353427
What if she flat out doesn't agree to your comprimize of you not going topless and her not going topless? What if she says that she wants to do it whether you like it or not? Would you break up with her?
>>691353615
A little bit.
He should've told her off when she said it was sexist.
It's fine to go around topless if your b/f is cool with it, trying to justify it when he's not is kind of shit. I mean it's your body, but relationships require compromising.
>>691334989
tits out = dick's out
not because of the biological value, but the sexual value
>>691354448
i don't know yet. i'd have to see if it were to come to that. the first example is cleared cause she'd have disregarded something we agreed upon.
>>691354580
vag out = dick out
boobs and dick are located in quite different places you know ?
>>691354245
actually I thought Op was someone else because I replied to >>691350294 (and if that was you OP, you didn't sound as retarded in that post, so forgive me)
As for the language, I'm not expecting anyone here to speak more than english, unless they state otherwise. Or I would just start speaking french or german.
>>691354397
All I'm saying is it's definitely weird. She knows damn well that your guys friends were turned on. She's very attractive as I could see from the photo and she has nice tits. It is absolutely not alright for her to whip them out in front of guy friends, whether they were your friends or not, and whether there are girls there or not. It's just not alright and she knows it
>>691354011
that's retarded logic.
Rather then accuse someone of cheating that hasn't done shit, having a request like
>don't walk around topless please
be argued by claiming sexist, is flat out insulting.
It's like saying,
>I didn't cheat because I don't consider anal sex to be real sex. You're oppressing me with your definitions and restrictions.
lol, don't make a big deal about it man. you'll break up eventually, just enjoy while it lasts (which is usually out of your control anyway)
>>691354580
Not really. Girls have more sexual parts than guys do, the boobs being one of them.
>>691354725
Still sexual parts though.
You don't flash your dick/vag/boobs to kids because.....
>>691354766
you replied to >>691351670 actually where you mistook OP, not >>691350294 but ok
>>691354725
Sure, absolutely, biologically she's not wrong, but guys react to a girls' tits being out. So the sexual value is as if a dud was slapping his dick in a willing girl's face.
Ideally, it shouldn't be a problem, but realistically, it is.
>>691354857
I agree with you and I don't understand how it relates to what I said here >>691354011
All I meant is that OP trusts everyone because "they said so" but they're not with his girlfriend 100% of the time so they can't know for certain and they could be lying at any given time
>>691355274
in the end "because they said so" is what trust is. you have to trust in a relationship, if you check up on eachother there's something wrong with you atleast without any evidence to get suspicious about
>>691347652
fuck she's hot... i have to say though op, i'd have her on her knees, balls slapping against her chin in 20 minutes.
>>691355475
Well frankly I think it's already suspicious that his hot girlfriend with big tits and tattoos is whipping her boobs out in front of guys in the first place. Who knows how many guys she's already done that with? She must have done it more than she told OP if she could so easily and comfortably just do it with his friends when she did
>>691355121
All the posts concerning the femal breats theory are me. I replied to one post asking me a question, and so I figured I was still talking to the same person the entire time (witch could be possible, if >>691350294 is in fact OP)
>>691355274
I don't know OP and I'm not sure if she thought he would be ok with it.
It's quite possible that they're mild exhibitionists and she just took things too far.
If she just flat out went full on slut though with no warning, then he needs to dump her.
