In this thread I pretend to be a psychologist.
Tell me what's on your mind anon.
>>687761386
For all pretend psychiatry, please consult your local liquor store or r/nootropics in that order.
I'm getting very paranoid about how my friends really see me. Since we met in High School I've always been the snide, assholish type who likes to poke fun at their insecurities. Of course, I've always been the first person to stick my neck out for them and figured that they knew deep down that I care deeply for them.
But recently they've become different. When it's just us I can let loose and be myself. But when they're with their mutual friends they actively try to hide when they're making plans to go out.
I'm afraid that they might genuinely see me as someone to be ashamed of. Like they'd be embarrassed to be seen with me when I speak.
My girlfriend says 8 chan is better than 4chan what do you guys think? She's kindof right its just a lot of porn now but I mean we get the occasional ylyl I guess.
>>687762217
I'm not OP but it sounds like they're avoiding you and maybe you're going a bit too far with the asshole facade.
>>687762898
I think that it's a lot like when /b/ started, save for the fascist bullshit that infects the web since muh 'merica started policing the internet too.
>>687763400
I think it wouldn't be so bad if all the poor people couldn't have internet access. Smartphones were the death of the internet.
We need a new one.
>>687762217
You describe yourself as being snide and assholish with your friends. This sticks out to me because the people who ARE assholes rarely describe themselves that way. The usual nastiness is from obliviousness to how others feel. That clearly isn't you. You're aware of how your friends feel and talk about poking at their insecurities but you do your best to try to help your friends too.
I think you're lying, you aren't the snide assholish type at all. You want to help your friends but you're afraid they don't understand your attempt and see you as an asshole. You're afraid you'll lose them in the end because of this, but you'd rather take the blame for it and call yourself an asshole. Is something like that what's going on?
>>687763400
I'm american and I don't care what people say for the most part. I just sit on this side of the pond while Europeans get dp'd by terrorists and aid monkies and have a good laugh. Maybe I will give 8 Chan a shot. She mostly goes on pol. Guess I'll see what's up
What will 2016's new shitty meme be?
>>687762898
There are problems with both formats, full-chans board system basically turns it into a reddit like site where each board is ruled by its own petty tyrants. HotWheels is an alright guy but put to much trust in guys like Josh. Half-chan is a data-mining site run by gooks but has a much larger audience and steadier interface. Both have their good points.
>>687763853
You laugh now but one day it is you and I who will be the aids monkeys hoping to DP our taiwanese overlords.
>>687763887
Dem bois
>>687763655
You might be on to something there.
Here's the deal: My first year of highschool was shitty mainly because I tried to be too nice to everyone in the hopes of making friends. It backfired andalmost everyone took advantage of me. Before tenth grade I kind of went emo and adopted this selfish asshole persona so nobody would get close to me.
Ironically I guess some people actually liked the new me. Maybe I came off as confident or who knows what, but being the class dick actually made me more sociable and make others like being around me.
So I kind of stuck with it throughout highschool. In a way I liked roleplaying and a narcissistic shit who was an ass to everyone. It gave me the friends I have. And because they're my friends I care so much for them. Like I said there were times when I stuck my neck out and went above and beyond to help them through their personal shit in life, despite poking fun at them for it. So I just figured they knew deep down I at best a good guy with a shitty sense of humor.
But now I can't figure out why the sudden change. I don't understand why they've become more critical of the things I say, to the point of hiding their weekend plans from me.
>>687761386
OP, is this A or O?
>>687764657
Well what you're doing is very poserish. You're essentially a nice, trusting kid who wants to be thought well of by others. You tried to make friends by doing stuff for other people, being nice to make them like you. This didn't work. So you turned around and said, well I just got taken advantage of for being nice I'll be an asshole instead.
Two problems with this. You are not actually an asshole, you are a hurt nice guy so your selfish asshole act probably comes off very fake. The second larger problem is you never learned the most important lesson. It's impossible to make friends by doing things for people.
>>687764882
That really depends what you mean by 'this'. I have no clue what you're asking. I am stumped.
>>687765457
So where do I go from here?
Nobody gave a shit about me when I was myself. I had to fake confidence and cynicism just to make friends. Do I come clean and explain? I'm actually scared all of the time and effort I've put into these people will be for nothing.
>>687761386
I have regular fantasies of killing and brutalizing people who I either dislike or have made up and (in the fantasy) have wronged me. I don't get off on it, but I still do it and to some degree enjoy it. I also REALLY enjoy getting revenge on people who I believe have wronged me. I'm also a sadomasochist. I get off on thoughts of hurting someone I'm into a bit while having sex with them and vice versa (I'm a virgin). Thoughts?
>>687761386
I want to kill and hunt everything I see and potentially wanted to eat someone's kid at one point. I don't know of this affects my "asshole" behavior to my friends, but does this mean I have a problem?
>>687766148
That's up to you, there's no correct answer for how to live your own life. It's unfortunate but the friends we make by putting forward a false face often are there precisely because they like the false face more than the true one. You run the risk of losing your friends if you come clean, but there's also the chance they'd come to know you and might like that person. If and how you take that risk is up to you.
The one thing I do want you to learn though, is that people like eachother because of their humanity, because they are their own people with their own wants and desires. Not because they do stuff for us. Think about your own friends, why is it you like them? The same applies to you dummy.
>>687766345
To add onto this, I hate hurting people IRL. I'm terrible in fights, throwing a good punch is impossible, I never provoke, I'm empathetic to a fault, and I have a fear that I may be a psychopath.
>>687765717
I mean the first initial, anon.
>>687766345
Taking a statistical shot in the dark here are you a guy?
Hard to say without some more detail. What makes these fantasies satisfying for you? Like when you say you enjoy getting revenge on people who wronged you. What kind of thing do they do that is wronging you... humiliation, theft, stealing your girl? And how do you get your revenge?
>>687766640
I have the same kind of question for you. Who do you imagine yourself hunting down? What's the fantasy? Do you imagine them as dirty animals you're righteously hunting down, or imagine yourself as the evil predator? Or something else?
>>687767369
Antisocial-personality disorder is characterized by things like callousness towards others pain and outbursts of violence. I don't think psychopath fits you.
>>687768021
A as in alice?
>>687768596
Yeah, that's what I >>687764882
>>687768021 meant?
>>687768799
Didn't mean to put an ? there
This is now a chef thread
>>687768951
i approve
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>>687768077
Check'd, I'm a young male. What the people in a fantasies do to wrong me doesn't matter all too much. Just hurting me enough to make me want to hurt them. Usually the pain I inflict is proportional to how much they've hurt me. (Recent one) someone killed my brother, I slowly tortured them, kept them alive, broke bones, severed fingers, I got bored of it, though. It didn't last all too long. IRL, it's always verbal and it's always in response to humiliation or a large amount of disrespect. I also have anger management issues. I get to a point where, if I'm angered enough, I just go fucking mad and physically hurt them as much as possible. This almost never happens. I'm also really week, so I never REALLY hurt anyone. But if someone is, say, trying to and succeeding in humiliating me, I can get really verbally abusive. It can feel REALLY good. It doesn't always have to be humiliation, but it almost always is. I always feel bad afterwards, though. I feel bad for enjoying it so much. I also kind of like the fact that I enjoy it, before I realize how fucked it is, that is.
You seem like a very capable person OP so I'll open up.
I'm afraid that I'm a terrible person. For years I've been with the woman of my dreams but a recent accident left her wheelchair bound. At first I didn't care because I loved her so much. At the hospital she told me to leave her, that nobody would blame me if I did. I proposed to her on the spot that day.
A couple of months later and I'm scared that I made the wrong choice. It's so exhausting having to care for her all the time. The sex isn't even enjoyable anymore. It gets so frustrating but when she holds me and tells me how much she loves me I feel like complete shit for it.
We're getting married at the end of July and I don't know if I'm up for being with a wheelchair bound woman for the rest of my life. I'm so afraid of what my friends and family will think if I leave her. And when she looks at me like I'm a god to her I can't tell if I want to stay because I still love her or if I like being seen as a dependable and caring person.
I told myself I could do this and maybe have affairs on the side. I pussied out with an escort and was so disgusted with myself I cried in my car for an hour trying to figure out what the fuck I'm doing. I seriously can't tell if I love her anymore and it's driving me insane. I don't want to hurt her, but I can't help but feel like I'm no longer attracted to the woman I always loved.
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I'm always paranoid about being and feeling useless. That's settled down since I got a job but I can't help but get those feelings again. The worst part is that when I do start getting anxiety attacks of feeling useless, I start to become useless instead of doing something useful to prove myself wrong.
Like I'm supposed to be drawing something for work and I'm at the middle of it and then the feeling starts to hit... and even though I know how to draw the rest, and I know that the rest is easy, I just stop functioning and just want to sleep and hope I die in my sleep.
I've always slowed down when i'm in the middle of something. I start to lose interest and just become bored. Sometimes I'm afraid of my own attitude like if ever I'm in a romantic situation, will I eventually lose interest even though I really like this person?
I feel as though I have no sense of loyalty, or no place to call home. I guess that's a given since I'm a Filipino who only speaks English and was born and raised in Saudi Arabia. And maybe this is why I never felt like I belong. I only have a couple of friends, but I don't have my own group. I don't know if that's a good or bad thing. I've always gotten along with Americans so my dream is to live there and find out if I really belong there. But it just gets scarier and scarier, what if I don't get along with people there? What if I can't handle the lifestyle?
tl;dr I have a dream, but i'm skeptical and depressed about my own ambition that maybe it won't work out the way I want it to. And it contributes to my feeling of uselessness, which makes me function slower, which also affects the possibility of meeting the dream.
And I just feel kinda broken like that.
What do you make of that?
>>687768799
I'm not Alice1 or 2, I'm Ran. I do know them but I'm afraid we don't talk much anymore.
>>687768951
Is this one of those dank memes I've heard so much about?
>>687769168
Anger, weakness, strength, power over others, humiliation.... hmm so how do you get along with your dad?
>>687761386
I wish to get better at drawing, but I consider it a small hobby and don't devote enough time to it. The other people who are into art and drawing do not have similar interests to mine either, I wish to improve and look up to the people I admire in the art world.
In short I have feelings of inadequacy, but I do not feel envy towards other artists, just a feeling like I want to keep working to improve.
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>>687768596
I know I'm not a psycho, I would put it as more of a phobia, kind of like how people have phobias of clowns, even though clowns aren't dangerous in the slightest (save for a few examples, but that's besides the point). It used to be much worse, but I've been less paranoid about it lately. Thanks for the help, though. Really appreciate it.
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Newly uncovered evidence shows that chef was given to humanity by some alien civilization, could it be?
>>687764510
Please no
when this chef thread is on point
>>687769217
You're putting a lot on yourself anon. I think maybe the question you're wrestling with here is did you stay because you wanted to, or did you stay because you wanted to think of yourself as the good guy who would stay. You don't have to be the good person or the bad person, it's ok for you to just be a person.
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>>687770091
CHEF THREAD YOU SAY?!
I hate my fucking wife. Shes leaving in a month or about 45 days. Cunt gave me a courtesy. I got fired for taking mothers day off instead of working. Fucking whore.
>>687761386
I'm a bi female and I'm seeing a guy who is married and his wife is cool with us, I used to date a girl that I am still obsessed with and I cant get over, we started talking again and one night I got drunk and poured my heart out to her, she took me back, and after I sobered up I realized that though I do love her, Im not with her because, I fucked up in the past and hurt her with my commitment issues, now she has all these expectations, and Im so afraid of hurting her again and her husband is a complete asshole and aparently only ok'ed us being together because he thinks hes going to get with me too, but hes not hes a toothless old crazy abusing dickhead. I gotta break with her, because I dont want to deal with the bullshit her husband is already dishing out, and I don't know how I can let her down gently, im actually terrified Im going to ruin her life by breaking her heart again. I feel like such a shitty person. titt pic w timestamp for proof of tits
All I see is darkness please help, save my soul, the man holding the gun to my head wont let me leave until he sells 200 copies of this goddamn movie help me before he- chef available on blue ray December 9th
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Look at this heretic.
I value my alone time so much that I don't have any real life friends, just internet friends. But some nights I do get lonely. Except when I do go out, I feel annoyed by being around people.
What's wrong with me?
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>>687770172
I'm so sorry, but I don't quite understand what you mean. I feel like I should just die in an accident to avoid all this. I'm so scared and confused and when I see her I feel like the worst kind of con artist.
>>687761386
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_/-------"_:-_
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>>687769393
I know that feeling a bit myself. I was taking a drawing class a while ago and I'd always really wanted to be good, I'd try to just draw the lines and I'd hate every single one. I'd get so frustrated and mad at myself for drawing crap lines that my hands shook. But then some days when I felt like I was just screwing around and wasn't trying to prove anything to myself the lines would just flow. I think you and I we're too hard on ourselves. We spend a lot of time judging ourselves for not accomplishing enough and very little enjoying what we are doing. Quite a silly way for us to live don't you think?
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>>687771232
POST MOR FLUFFY TAILS
do you ever feel like you've already died that you're living in some weird hellish purgatory where nothing ever changes
>>687771417
and that*
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Nakiri Alice Best Chef = NABC
Someone add it to urbandic posthaste
>>687771417
and that's how people become otherkin
>>687769408
My dad is actually the first person I had an outburst at. He was humiliating me in front of my mom and sister (they didn't know it made me really angry). He took an item I really liked (I would establish empathetic feelings for inanimate objects, I still do, but I try not to, it feels childish) and was messing with it. I kept screaming (on the verge of tears) for him to give it back, but he wouldn't. I don't remember it well (I never do remember my outbursts well) but I wrapped my arms around his neck and pulled down and back in an attempt to hurt him. I was also screaming "I'll kill you!" or something like that. My sister had to pull me off of him and I ran back to my room crying. I cried all that night. I was about 12. The latest was when he took my laptop and I was being childish. I kept pushing to take it, and he picked me up and threw me (I'm really underweight, 120 lbs) I became enraged and tried to "fucking kill," him, as I said. When I realized that I couldn't hurt him, I walked off, punched a door, and broke my hand. When I got back from the ER, I made up. If I hadn't, the family would have been torn apart. I don't much like him, no.
>>687769456
Draw things that you like and enjoy doing, its good to learn some technique and fundamentals by replicating others work but the cool thing about drawing is that it's your own.
>>687769886
I hope it was of some help.
>>687770274
0/10
Do better, anon
>>687771232
I know your advice was meant for that anon, but I think this has given me perspective as well. So thank you.
>>687771569
how to otherkin come anywhere close to that conversation
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GENDERBEND CHEF RAMSAY
Waiting for you to shill your blog
>>687771760
do*
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POST MORE RAN PICS
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>>687761386
I need more Ran pictures
I believe you can help me
>OP ignoring me
that's okay OP, you exclude me too.
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>>687772236
TRAGIC ISN'T IT
>>687772335
>>687770392
samefag tits here, also I told her we need to talk, and i'm actively waiting her to log onto skype at any point now.
>>687770274
cake/10
>>687770358
I'm sorry to hear that. If that was her reason for leaving you it sounds like you might be better off without her, but that's rough.
>>687770392
Damn actual tits, my pretend psychology business is in the black. I'm not very familiar with bi-relationships so I can't give you much concrete advice. But its never good to keep relationships going where they only exist because of fear of hurting or consequences. Everyone involved deserves better than that. If you don't mind me asking how did you get in the relationship with the woman married to the crazy dickhead in the first place?
>>687771683
Thank you for your advice, not many people I know understand my plight.
Best of luck in you future endeavors Anon, I appreciate what you did for me.
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>>687772497
Three replies in one post? WHY DO THAT
If you do one reply per post you can post THREE TIMES AS MANY RAN PICTURES
Do you not see the gravity of the SITUATION
>>687770665
Do you find it easier to be yourself with people online than in real life?
>>687770700
I think you have a lot of guilt about your own desires when you think you should be selfless for your wife. Is that right?
I dont mean to sound edgy or some shit like that, but i feel as if im losing the ability to care about people. I still care for my family, but even some of them i think "what if they died?" and i honestly think i wouldnt give a shit. When i think of my brother or something, it horrifies me to think this way, been when i think of a friend, a stranger, i just dont care about them. This was escalated even more when i saw a small family die and burn to death in a car accident right near me. Everyone else was horrified and screaming, crying even.I didnt feel anything when i saw that. No guilt for not being able to help, no saddness for seeing innocents die violently. Idk. 4 years ago i would have cared deeply. But now, after seeing how dark and cruel the world really is, i feel so desensitized to almost everything. Whats with me?
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>>687770773
I don't quite understand. Are you trying to tell me that you are communicating with other people by using your muscles to send electromagnetic impulses through some sort of device?
>>687771298
I will.
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>>687773173
EXCELLENT
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>>687772842
>Do you find it easier to be yourself with people online than in real life?
Somewhat true. The interpersonal part I find about the same amount of effort, if anything I am probably more true to myself in real life, since on the internet I can embellish myself and play a role easier.
But in real life, I also really suck at eye contact, posture, making sure to breathe out of my nose instead of my mouth, etc..these are all things I have to constantly remind myself to do properly lest I creep somebody out. It's exhausting for me to consider a billion things at once in a conversation for a long period of time.
>>687771573
Don't forget me, OP. I know you've got a lot to reply to, but don't forget this one.
TL;DR for above post:
>be me 12
>first outburst of rage at dad
>also establish empathetic connections with inanimate objects
>fast forward 1 year ago
>dad throws me
>fistfight.jpeg
>bad_at_fighting.webm
>punch door, break hand
>no, I don't like my dad a lot.
>>687772497
bi tits here. I got into the relationship with her back when i was in highschool, and we dated off and on through college and at the time it was just us, she didnt have a husband yet, I eventualy left her uptruptly one day like a moron and dated a few different guys for a few years and I know I was a mess. my drinking was out of control, and at some point I kind went off and ended up homeless and just being a idiot for years. Im stable now, I still drink off and on and smoke weed occasionaly but im not as fucked up as I was. but all the while through it I never stopped being so in love with her, it fucking hurts just to think about her. I wish I wasnt such a shit head
>>687771573
My guess is that your relationship with your father and that feeling of powerlessness is the root of all this for you. The way he took something you cared about, ignored your feelings and pleas then overpowered you when you tried to express yourself physically. That was humiliating and made you feel angry and powerless. You still don't feel like he understands or that you could overpower him huh?
>>687771739
I'm glad, I just say stuff into the wind, you guys are the ones who make something good out of it.
Pls don't die, thread!
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>>687773777
CHECKED
![[HorribleSubs] Shokugeki no Soma - 14 [720p].mkv_snapshot_18.03_[2015.07.26_17.33.21].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/3Sb7781.jpg "[HorribleSubs] Shokugeki no Soma - 14 [720p].mkv_snapshot_18.03_[2015.07.26_17.33.21].jpg")
>>687773807
IS NOT FLUFFY TAIL
YOU LIE
>>687771861
It might be a while, grab a seat.
>>687772236
Sorry I'm having a little keeping up, link me back to your post if I've missed it. I'm trying to respond to everyone.
>>687772533
You'll make it anon, you're all much stronger than you give yourselves credit for.
>>687772788
Keeps me from clogging the thread when I reply to everyone, I encourage you to post ran pictures in my stead.
>>687772855
I had something similar happen near me recently. Pair of folks crashed into a nearby house and burned to death when it ruptured the gas main. It's a bizzare thing to see. Horrible but at the same time very little bearing on your own life, crying over it felt a little dishonest to me. It wasn't my tragedy. Was your feeling anything similar?
>>687773807
>overpowered you when you were trying to express yourself
I think you may have mixed the two incidents. The one where he threw me happened about a year ago. I wasn't trying to express myself as much as I was trying to defy him and take my laptop. I might have been able to overpower him, but we were in a stalemate. I punch, he takes the hit or dodges, I don't do much damage. He hits, I can't even feel it. I just got mad and left. He was protecting more than attacking.
>you don't feel that he understands or that you can overpower him?
I don't *feel* like he understands, but he probably does. He's a lot like me. Also, if I continue to workout, which I DEFINITELY will (makes me feel powerful, cheers me up when I'm down), I'll be able to overpower him in about six months to a year for sure (if I try, I hate physical confrontation, I also don't exactly HATE him) .
Ran out of screenshots
Have some fanart
Nakiri Alice Best Girl
>>687773363
You and I anon, understand the importance of fluffy tail.
>>687773678
So it sounds like the issue is more that you feel very self-concious when interacting with other people in real life. Constantly self-monitoring to avoid giving others the wrong impression rather than enjoying yourself. Is all that what makes the interactions unpleasant for you?
>>687773777
Nice trips, bi-tits. It sounds like you have a lot of regrets. Do you think there's anything you could do with this relationship that would resolve them or make things right?
>>687774652
>>687773807
I'm also a pretty big metal head. Angry white kid, it's either that or rap. But my family is well off and I'm alright, so metal. Slayer also just kicks ass. Irrelevant, I know.
>>687761386
I am hypersexual and feel the need to beat off every night. Even when I've fucked my girl 3 times that day.
What the fuck should I do?
>>687774652
What was it about these incidents that was humiliating for you? You mentioned it bothered you when one of these times was in front of your mother and sister too. Was that important or incidental?
>>687775167
Metal is never irrelevant, do you have strong feelings about linkin park?
>>687775383
fuck her 4 times
>>687775125
>Is all that what makes the interactions unpleasant for you?
That's probably it, yes. I am not sure where to go from here.
>>687775525
IMPECCABLE
>>687761386
>In this thread I pretend to be a psychologist.
t-to d-do this c-correctly y-you have t-to imitate h-having a s-stutter
Then you can look like a complete cunt, rather than a partial one
>>687764882
>A or O
if A is Alice, who the fuck is O?
>>687775383
When did you start jerking off or having sex this many times a day? Has this been since adolescence or did it start up more recently?
>>687775541
I'm suspicious, people only agree with me when I'm wrong. I have a different question. Do you like anybody?
>>687775752
Do I have to pretend to be a neurophamapsychocologist too? It's hard enough just pretending to be a psychologist and an astronaut.
>>687775125
bi-tits here. No I dont think that theres anyway I could make this work as long as her husband is in the picture, I know I had my chance and I blew it. I've had my fair share of shitty relationships since her with men, one of which beat me so bad he literally broke my face, 3 years later I still have nerve damage, anway my point is I'm not in the mindset and probably never will be again to have the ability to cope with major relationship challenges anymore like that, or ill probably just go and pull a hero. I need to leave her and be the asshole that broke her heart twice or live in a relationship with her and her asshole of a husband that will probably end very badly by me saying something to piss him off and end up 6 feet under in his backyard or somthing. I just don't know the best way of letting her down. I guess theres no real easy way of doing it. The thought of cutting her loose has actually felt like a relief to me, as long as I don't think about how much life sucks without her it doesnt hurt so bad.
>>687761386
Still hate you, avatarfag. Despite your slightly more honest opener.
>>687775890
>Do I have to pretend to be a neurophamapsychocologist too? It's hard enough just pretending to be a psychologist and an astronaut.
No. I-I'll l-let you off t-that
(And I wonder how many ITT don't g-get the reference)
I'm pretty damaged psychologically from my father since I was a toddler but can't speak to a psychologist because I'm still in the same house and fuck child protective services even tho I don't think they can do anything anymore anyway
>>687775961
bi-tits again just chipping in to say thanks op, your a pretty ok guy
>>687775504
>what was humiliating about these incidents for you?
They don't always have to be humiliating, but that gets me mad pretty fast.
>you mentioned... Was that important or incidental
Important. They were all laughing at me. No one understood how bad it hurt.
In both of these, physical violence sparked my outrage. First time, he slapped me as I was leaving when I realized that they weren't listening, and I freaked out. When he threw me about a year ago, that sparked my outrage. They aren't related TOO much other than me going crazy, my dad starting it, and one was the first and one the latest.
>>687775890
KYOUKO ABUSE
>>687771894
Why do i post random stuff like this in my free time
>>687775890
>Do you like anybody?
You don't have to be suspicious, you are pretty much right on the money with that comment.
I have a few internet friends that I really like, I've met met them in real life too and I can feel more comfortable around them than the average person. I'm also extremely relaxed around my family.
>>687775961
I'm sure you know this already but maybe it's worth saying. You are putting yourself in a situation where you will be abused for the sake of a girl who isn't willing to leave that same abusive situation to be with you. You deserve better than this. You both do.
>>687776357
Nice try
>>687776474
Ehhhhh?
What?
ATTENTION THIS PERSON IS A FRAUD
graylied.blogspot.com
>>687776004
We are hateful creatures. Like seeth the scaleless, one day I shall see my own breed slain.
>>687776119
Actual psychologists are more sympathetic to abusive family situations than you would expect. They deal with a lot of them. As long as you understand that they don't have the power to intervene in your family life it would be worth talking to one if you think you need it.
>>687776704
WHAT??
NO
NOW WHERE WILL I GO?
AHHHHHHHHHHH
>>687776804
BECOME A CHEF
>>687776804
PROBABLY TO A REAL DOCTOR OR SOMETHING
>>687776888
>trips
/thread
>>687776888
CHECKED
>>687776964
CHECKED AND WRECKED
>>687776864
CAN I COOK RATATOUEE AND HAVE NICE ADVENTURERS WITH ANAMORPHIC ANIMALS?
Thats my one and only request in life really.
>>687776320
It sounds like the lack of understanding from the rest of your family hurt a lot worse than the physical parts of the confrontation. Are you mad at your mother and sister as well for laughing and not understanding how hurt you were?
>>687776357
831... huh that phone number looks really familiar. Is that my old number by any chance?
>>687776459
tits again-I Agree, and I know im kinda a loss cause, but I also know just how hard it is to took at it when you are in that situation, denial is so much easier and that's where she is, there's no way ill ever be able to convince her to leave him despite what he does to her. If It was possible to get her to leave him we both would have such a stronger chance of being happy, and I think a part of her knows this, she just can't admit it because its so hard to admit when someone you love is just using you when you really commit.
>>687776888
What the hell...
Man are you fucking stupid or something? Gosh golly what the fuck. What kind of pisswater advice even is that, son. Get the fuck outta my face right now.
>>687775504
>do you have strong feelings about Linkin Park?
Ignoring the meme, no. I don't like them, but I also don't hate them. I don't like any songs of there's.
My favorite metal songs/albums/artist/whatever are Slayer, Ghost, Mastodon, Lamb of God, many others. My favorite Slayer album would probably be Seasons in the Abyss, with my favorite song from Seasons being "Skeletons of Society". Slayer's God Hates us All (fedora atheist weeb meme aside) is pretty good, in my opinion, although, the first five albums are probably all better. For Ghost, it's all even as far as songs and albums go. Mastodon's latest Once More 'Round the Sun is amazing. I've been trying to listen to more death metal, though. Can't understand most Cannibal Corpse, incomprehensible growl isn't my favorite vocal style. I love Bloodbath's "Eaten," so fucked, so good.
>>687777025
ALL THAT
AND MORE
>>687777190
YOU CAN'T DENY THE TRIPS MA'AM
>>687777080
Probably.
I just picked a number at random and had the time afterwards.
I will never forget the thrills i just had today. Seeing all those 4 (You)s come pouring in.
Un
Forgettable
If >>687777777 in this thread OP leaves 4chan
>>687774432
yea kinda. As it was happening i thought it was horrible, but it didnt do anything to me emotionally. Looking around, i saw crying, screaming, helplessness, and then i stood there, not caring. I felt more bad for not feeling bad, than for that family or the others suffering around them. It kind of scared me cause i know i should have been freaking out or scared or sonething, but i wasnt. I was perfectly ok with what was happening before me and kinda just wrote it off as a "sucks but oh well" kind of thing. Idk i feel like that isnt "right"
>>687777586
we can only hope
>>687761386
i can't feel emotions. i've been this way my whole life, i pretend. I know how things are supposed to make normal people feel, and i act like they do. however, if anyone gets to really know me they figure out that i can't connect at all with my emotions.
any thoughts?
GTFO
>>687777777
Still a respectable get
>>687776426
I guess my question is just what would you like to change? My guess was that you wished you had some real close friends you could talk to and hang out with and weren't actually particularly insecure. But I'm not sure if that's right.
>>687777151
That's a hard situation to be in, trying to get a married woman to realize her husband is bad news and come have a better life with you instead. I know you love this woman but have you thought about finding yourself someone who isn't married?
>>687776788
>seeth
Isn't it spelled Seath?
But I'll leave you to your "Look at me, I'm pretending"-Thread now. Just wanted to extend my hatred for your kind.
>>687777080
>it sounds like the emotional hurt worse
It did, I just wanted to include more info.
>are you mad at your mother and sister for laughing and not understanding?
Not too much. I mean, I'm way over it by now, but back then, it hurt pretty bad. I was far more angry at my dad afterwords than I was at the rest of my family.
>>687765457
He is an asshole with himself not accepting the fact he was alone. Then they discvered this fact that he was lying and being asshole. He should better take time overhimself to guess what is true to be shown inside him.
Cool.
>>687777243
I loveu anonymous poster of lewd cartoon girlies. Its people like you that really male a difference in peoples lives you know that? I was severely depressed prior to entering this because someone stared at me on the bus and it hurt my autisms :(
I feel better now though! Even someone like me can be a good guy if i want to. Because as long as that little redhead likes me. How bad can i be?
That was meant to be a Wreck it Ralph reference but i think i fucked up. Fuck off i tried.
>>687778400
WRECKED
AND CHECKED
I have lewd girlies of my own as well
Dont tell mom
>>687778636
THE EARTH'S ONLY DEFENSE
RENDERED POWERLESS THROUGH RAPE
Kinda symbolic don't you think?
>>687778151
tits again-lol yeah, I've been looking around, I think its just hard for me to trust people anymore. Ive gone on dates, but as soon as I get a text from them the next day or they start trying to get closer to me I panic and block them, I think I have developed a fear of commitment because Ive committed to so many people who didn't treat me right either,. Id honestly like to meet a guy that would treat me right but also I know I have a lot of character flaws that people probably don't have a lot of patience for, just a by product of used to being treated like shit i guess. I want to find a man or woman that would have some patience with me. I'm feeling a bit like a stray feral cat or something, I need love but im afraid of getting hurt again.
>>687770392
So fucking disgusting
>>687777480
You gave me a real spook there for a bit, I think that has a lot of the digits of my old number. rng gods have it out for me.
>>687777660
I disagree. I don't think there's anything wrong with you for not being affected in the same way as the other folks around you. There's something fucked up about the way people respond to tragedies. They cry about 9/11 when they don't know anyone who died, they lose their shit over football games. You didn't know the people who died, you aren't their family. It's perfectly natural that you aren't deeply affected by it and nobody in their right mind would expect you to be.
>>687778777
Here I am for you, don't worry and stand up to your new life! You should better think of future than worrying through past. Théorie ngs never happen twice, unless it's déjà -vu. Cool? Good luck!
>>687779021
*things
>>687778769
Very
Most dont see it but think SW was one of the most hard hitting political commentaries of this century. Not to mention the way it deconstructed the entirety of the magical girl genre! Leagues above that garbage about girls with long face disease. Rip yellow long head...you will be missed.
My last chef pic
Psychology, along with the majority of the medical industry, is fraudulent
>>687777686
When is the last time you can remember having strong emotions about something?
>>687778171
Yes, so much for my shitty nerd-cred. Someone once came in here and told me he thought what I was doing was fucked up because it was essentially asking others to put me above them. That always stuck with me for some reason. I think the criticism is important and I do appreciate it even though I have no idea how to express that properly here.
>>687778183
Do you think it would be possible to talk to any of your family members about all this?
>>687779227
Let's make a humor-like test or roll, as you prefer
Not furry
Whatadafuck man thats an animal furry
>>687779305
http://mood-monitor.perbang.dk/
>>687779291
i honestly don't remember ever having strong emotions about anything. I've seen people die in front of me, had horrible things happen to people i know. I've witnessed the birth of my son, and i react outwardly how people should react, but i just don't feel the emotion at all.
I can't feel anything.
>>687779507
Add/multiply by your iq then cool/not.
If you're lazy, just roll the last digit
>>687761386
I am so lonely ive never had a GF or any good friends
>>687778353
Being oblivious is what makes us the biggest assholes, much more hurt is caused by callousness than by malice.
>>687778777
Have you thought about seeing an actual psychologist? There's a pattern of abusive relationships here that you could break out of, but it'll take a lot more than chatting with some dick like me on a malaysian papercraft subreddit.
>>687779714
Better kill yourself then, Billy! Thats the doctors guarantee that all your issues will be nothing but a niiice little stain on the wall afterwords!
Or my name isnt Anonymous!
Ill miss Billy...
>>687780054
yea ive thought about it but I want to fix my problem not escape it.
My life is shit and my girlfriend hates me
Should I an hero?
>>687779552
This isn't true. You may be quite far from it but you were a child once the same as all of us. Kids laugh and cry and feel deeply and immediately. That's still in there somewhere. If you don't mind me asking you to do something a little difficult... try putting yourself back in that place when you were still a kid in school with parents. Close your eyes if it helps, what is the first memory that comes? Follow that memory and try to bring back the feeling that came with it.
>>687779725
yeah I mean ive seen actual psychologists but with My usual self destructive behavors I always end up quitting my sessions and not coming back. ive even from time to time checked myself into the mental hospital, I start to get better and do better but then just get panicked for some reason and leave. I should probably mention im clinicaly diagnosed with PTSD and severe anxiety so im on ssi now because of it. I was abused as a kid too, A family member raped me when i was 6, and I got beat all my childhood pretty badly so ive been kinda screwed up for a long long time. and its why I get into abusive relationships so much, I have too high a tolerance for that kind of shit, Ive let guys beat me and just shrug it off and keep being nice to them. I also get afraid of letting people close not just because I don't want to get hurt, but that I know at some point or another im going to fly off the handle and end up randomly leaving them and hurting them. a part of me wants to prevent hurting people by not letting them get close.
>>687779714
That sucks anon. Any chance of finding some friends or a cute girl sometime soon?
>>687780232
Do you mind if I ask why your girlfriend hates you?
>>687780175
Well thats the issue!
Youre thinking! Now thats NOT the way we do things around here, Billy...You see your mind is in a delicate fragmented state of depression where, frankly, you really shouldnt be thinking up your own rash solutions. Such as, working through it! Thats why you come to the big boys table where people like me sit at. The -professionals-! And my advice is to kill yourself! So you better get to it, pally.
>>687780430
A friend of me like you : look for your true friends, alone, then think of what makes your life worthy. If you find it, you will go your way far away from childhood. And don't be afraid to talk, even if you don't kniw what 'friends' means
>>687780473
People say I'm ugly and short and I'm too picky when it comes to girls so I doubt ill get a GF anytime soon
Now if you dont mind Billy i have important matters to attend to. My internet friends want more cartoon girlies so here i am for their dosages.
Toot along now. Buy a rope on your way out.
>>687780758
>>687780828
I've been busy, but here I'm back with crazy ideas
>>687761386
Is
dat naruto?
>>687780430
How do you feel about healthy relationships? By which I mean ones that don't involve a lot of violence, with decent folks who care about you and would enjoy being close to you.
>>687780747
Who told you that you were too picky?
>>687780975
to be perfectly honest, it terrifies me.
>>687780910
Welcome back, friendo. Ill be going off to bed soon seeing as its 4:43am and i work at 7am but nonetheless! Very happy to see you.
>>687780280
from a very young age I was called detached, and lethargic by my teachers. everyone wanted to know what was wrong with me because i didn't really care if things went well or badly.
I was singled out when i was 9 and had to see the counselor and then a psychiatrist/psychologist (don't remember which i was 9) I learned quickly that people needed to outwardly see something, and learned how people were supposed to act so I wouldn't be singled out anymore.
I've never even told anyone (not even my parents, siblings or now ex-wife)
should i seek professional help, or have i lived with this so long that their is no going back?
I feel like I'm falling in love with my girlfriend but right now I feel like I'm not even special for being picked by her like I usually do. Maybe I just happened to be there at the right time and place so she picked me but really I was so close to being a second pick
>>687780975
People I know not really friends cause I'm prob 5-6/10 and I go for 8+/10 girls and get friendzoned
>>687761386
No problems tonight, just dropping by to thank you for your work, Anon.
I've asked for help and received plenty in the past from threads like this. Keep up the good work, more people appreciate it than they let on.
Well im officially tired.
Goodnight thread. Goodnight, Billy. You little rascal, you. Pfffft. Self-thinking...HA!
Ai rabu u
>>687781098
What's scary to you about it?
Something else I want to say too, about you posting tits to start off talking to me in this thread. You didn't have to do that. I would have wanted to talk to you even if you hadn't shown your breasts.
>>687781184
Sounds like something was very wrong if you were that detached even as far back as 9. What was going on with your family at that time?
And yes you should absolutely seek help. Your feelings are not gone anon, you've lost touch with them but the only thing you've truly lost is time. There's no reason to lose any more if you want to make a change.
>>687781966
I'm just following the rules, but to answer your question, why? I'm not entirely sure, though I think if I look back on my life, Ive never had anyone in my life other than a few family members like grandparents and such really treat me like they care about me. Ive never had a healthy relationship with anyone friendship or more other than that one woman. maybe its the fear of not knowing If this time will it be real? or will it just be someone good at hiding their true intentions as usual? I feel safer alone, but I do get lonely.
>>687781966
>Update
my family was somewhat normal. my father has always been there to encourage and help me. my mother has always been critical even from an early age there was another one of my peers who was "better" at something than me.
>>687781316
How well do you know each other? Does she know the things about you that you are proud of and care about?
>>687781377
Well do you have a particular kind of girl you are interested in personality-wise or is your interest mostly just in having a hot girlfriend?
>>687781527
Don't gotta thank me, I get a lot of valuable information from taking this kind of priveleged position even in play. There's not a lot of people who get to hear folks talk like this and ask the questions they want to know. The least I can do is be a little useful in return.
>>687782798
well I have to like her personality and she cant be ugly and the girl I am currently after has dark humor and likes vidya but I know i have no chance ive been rejected probably around 10-15 times so far. Just feel like life is unfair.
>>687761386
Regardless of what /b/ thinks of it, I have gender Dysphoria and I came out to my dad saying that I want to tradition a few months ago. However, last night I brought it up again and he told me that transgenders and the process of transitioning is unnatural and should be outlawed. I'm currently living with him and I'm unable to afford anything on my own to get my own place.
So my options are killing myself, or moving half way across the country to move in with someone who I've never met and only know them through World of Warcraft.
I need help guys.
>>687782440
At a guess it sounds like you've had a lot of experience with people who were only being nice to you so they could use you later, mostly sexually. Given that distrusting people and their motivations seems very very reasonable. The more vulnerable you are the easier you are to abuse..... right and because this was your family its not like you have much experience with people who aren't abusive. So there is no easy way to tell who is a rapist and who isn't. Family were kind to you too and they raped you. So just because some guy on the street is nice dosen't mean he isn't a rapist in waiting too. Does that sound right at all?
>>687783191
What would a fair life look like here?
>>687783562
not being short and a slightly better face structure my nose is fucking huge (things I can't change)
>>687783562
yeah pretty much, its not all been rape though you know, Ive been with one guy who seemed great and then realized when he got angry over things even just video games he would throw stuff, break things and order me to clean up his mess which i would but he would take his anger out on me physicaly and I just accepted it as my life because thats just how ive always had to do things. Ive had a ex that If i was depressed and just needed time alone but he wanted sex anyway he would just kinda rape me and I accepted that this was my life now, so when I got depressed I would just drug myself up so I didnt care what he did to me, and just pass out and it went on for like 8 years like that. but yes. you are correct, I dont trust them just because they COULD be someone who will hurt me, and I just dont know it yet.
>>687782798
What do I have to be proud of man? I mean I'm just a human with some pretty damn ordinary abilities. We've known each other for about 3 years but have dated for 2 months. I was her first everything. On the other hand ive been considered a slut by my friends
>>687783323
Well my personal concern with gender dysphoria is not whether it's real or not. I've talked to enough people that I know the feelings are very real. The question I always put to people who are considering or in the process of transitioning is what do you want to do with those feelings? If you're still living with your parents I assume you're not that old yet. You still have a lot of life ahead of you, time to get out on your own, establish your own identity, get your own money and present yourself the way YOU want to. Yes you could kill yourself, but I think the more interesting path here is to start by asking. What kind of woman or person do you want to be? And then we can help you get there.
So tldr: What kind of woman do you want to be?
>>687783783
I'm not sure what to tell you anon. If you are significantly uglier than the women you'd like to date it's a tough sell. The nice thing about being a guy is your value is not just your looks or body. Its not just wealth either, if you are brilliant, charming, kind, talented, accomplished.... these are all things different women will value a lot. But you aren't going to get a girl by just asking a billion times. If you're ugly you are going to have to find a girl who values you for the other good things about you, not your looks.
>>687784720
I never ask twice each time a different girl but every time I ask they see me as friends because they don't find me attractive they see me as a guy to talk to and not much more so idk anon
>>687784055
It might be valuable for you to develop a radar for these sorts of things. Healthy folks are pretty good at spotting and avoiding those kinds of people, so to them the world seems a much less threatening place. It's not that there aren't rapists and men with anger issues but when you know there are good people that like you all you have to do is walk away from them. That's the kind of thing sticking to a good therapist for a while might actually be able to give you.
>>687784243
Well if you don't have anything you like about yourself even if there's things she likes about you I doubt you'll believe her. So you're in kind of a catch-22 here.
>>687785032
Are there any girls who actually like you that you'd consider dating? I get the sense you're going after a lot of hotties who aren't giving you any positive signals.
>>687775890
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XlW7u4G973M
>>687785507
I'm pretty sure I give off a damaged radar . healthy people likely dont want to be with somone like me. Im too screwed up, but you are right about the therapy. thanks for hearing me out anon. I actualy feel a bit better.
>>687785507
Only ever one in my entire life twas a fat chick noped the fuck out of that. I not particularly going after hotties more going after decent looking with good personalities ive never had a confidence problem in my life but I have started to lose confidence because of rejection after rejection. They see me as just a friend
>>687785865
Oh yah, you're hell of screwed up but you're recovering. There's a big difference between you and the folks who don't want to admit anything is wrong, they just want to opportunity to abuse others. You aren't like that and that's an important difference. Just talk honestly and don't run, you will do good.
>>687785956
Again, I'm not sure what to tell you here. Girls won't date you if they don't like you. You have to find girls that like you, this is not optional. You may have to become more likeable or get better at noticing the signals from girls who do like you.
Why
>>687786757
That question assumes there is some sort of intention or motivation in play. It's only appropriate when dealing with people directly. If you're dealing with natural forces or some sort of partially-autonomous conglomerate of people its much more useful to ask. How the fuck? or Shit what now?
>>687786636
yea I know its just so hard seeing other guys who don't even try to get a girl always have a GF well thnx anon
I like little girls they make me feel so good
I feel the pain is overtaking me,
it is a good pain
>>687787701
What do you like about little girls anon?
>>687788017
Do you want to talk about it?
i dont have any problems, i just see ran getting too much love in this thread, so im dumping a nitori
>>687788230
the enemies, we need enemies
>>687788560
A nitori is also good. Shall we kill the image limit on this thread and call it a night anon?
>>687788230
do you hear the voices to?
>>687788822
You know me too well Buddy
>>687788778
>>687788827
I'm afraid I have to head to bed for the evening anons. I think you'll both do ok without me though.
>>687788822
one for the road
im going through a lot of family shit and my partner is being self absorbed, saying they'll do one thing while complaining the whole time, insulting me behind my back and generally being a shit.
>>687788230
Soft skin and small bodys
Of course i only lole 2d stuff irl little girls are not as good
