I just found out that my wife and the mother of my two children used to work part time as a fluffer in the San Fernando Valley from 1997 to 1999 and that she did it to support a cocaine habit. My wife admitted it when I confronted her about it and ran away crying.
She was the director of my church's youth group when I met her. She as a bachelors in education and teaches the 3rd grade. She's the nicest, sweetest women you'll ever meet and you'd never suspect that she was even capable doing anything like that.
What the fuck am I supposed to do with this information?
>pic related
Leave it in the past and stop being a cuck faggot about it.
Threaten to divorce her and tell everyone she knows including your children if she doesn't agree to help you explore your BDSM fetish as your bondage sex slave.
if you actually have a problem with her past, you are a huge faggot and you should kill yourself
Get fluffed.
>>685549571
>having a problem with being a relationship with a girl who's had hundreds of dicks inside of her is unreasonable.
>>685549236
Yet she chose you.....
You're married to a woman who looks like that AFTER squirting out two kids and who happens to be an expert at giving head and you have a problem with it?
Fluffer? You gotta multiply whatever she admitted to by at *least* 10. She's had miles of pro dick.
Rational response:
-Realize every woman is a sluzzie (except for our moms).
Religious response:
-Shun her then set ablaze.
>> pick one.
I love it when Christfags get their delusional perspective on life destroyed. Where is your God now?
>deciding to believe something is true without proof
>moron
>>685549717
You really need to get to the core of your issue.
Do you feel like you'll never be good enough to satisfy a woman who's had dicks before?
>>685549236
Dude. She's the sweetest nicest person, directs church group. has it ever crossed your mind that things have changed? Like... oh I don't know... people grow?
C'mon man. She's the mother of your kids. You tell her you love her (because that's why you married her) and you move on.
>>685549850
That's just it though. She never gives me head. She says she hates doing it.
We don't really have sex all that often. Maybe 3-4 times a month.
>>685550245
Well it sounds like you issues are largely unrelated.
Making her feel like shit isn't going to get her to fuck you more.
Sounds like you need to fix your relationship, doesn't sound like it's her past that messed things up.
>>685550236
There is a difference between having a few past boyfriends and having miles of dick
http://www.funnyjunk.com/1042+miles+of+dick/funny-pictures/5514987/
>>685549850
This
>>685549816
And this (which you don't deserve)
>>685550245
fuck that. divorce her. she obviously loved sex at some point, just not with you. she's using you for your stability/money. first thing you need to do is put a private investigator on her because i can almost guarantee you any bitch that worked in the porn industry at some point in her life ABSOLUTELY needs more sex than 3 or 4 times a month. she's cheating on you dude.
>>685550245
>She never gives me head
I guess it's like dating a masseuse or a chef. Everyone thinks being married to someone like that would be great, but the never want to do what they do for a living when they get off of work. She probably associates giving head with work. A chore.
Would you want to be with someone who is constantly asking you to do what you do at your job the moment you you get home after a long day's work?
>>685550467
Yup. Seen the photo.
I just wonder WHY it's a issue to you. Like it's just gross that she's had miles of dick?
I wonder if it goes both ways?
Like, girls are allowed to wonder why the fuck you've laid miles of dick?
more pics, op
>>685550245
Probs doesn't give head often because it hurts from all the cocaine
>>685549236
dude if pic related is your wifes body and she no longer does that shit AND fucked/had kids with a 4chan mongoloid she is a keeper you stupid piece of shit. Who the fuck do you think you are brad pitt?
>>685550795
Have you seen this filename?
she knows how to suck dick
problem that wasn't there solved
>>685549236
If that's a current pic, there's no way that girl was older than 13 in 1997.
>>685550982
Your not really addressing the core of the issue here.
Would you like to try again?
>>685549236
Meh, all modern women have history.... except for church girls. So I guess maybe it's reasonable to feel gypped if you thought you were getting a low mileage church girl and she was once a coke headed party girl.
But still, what's past is past, what's done is done. If she's been reformed for a long time, you OWE her forgiveness.
Honestly, the only thing that really matters is that she's been faithful to you since you've been dating her, and from the looks/sounds of it, I'm guessing she probably has been.
It *still* sounds like you've found yourself a keeper. All women have some history you'd rather they didn't (a prior addiction at some point, dated a black, had more sex partners than you'd like, etc.), get over it. This isn't the 1800s where premarital sex was uncommon and nearly every woman who's never been married has no sexual history.
The only thing I would make clear to her is that she probably should have told you much earlier, don't make her so uncomfortable with telling you the truth that she simply doesn't do it. I would simply thank her for her honesty, make sure that as long as she's been faithful the whole time she's with you, it doesn't matter.
She clearly has put a lot of effort into creating a blank slate and starting over with a new life. At least she had the strength to stop doing cocaine, clean herself up and graduate from college. The fact that she was able to turn her life around is a sign of a strong character. Most people who live that sort of life style are fucked for life.
If you can keep fears in check and pull yourself together and show her that you are not only going to refrain from judging her for her past but also help her protect her blank slate by keeping her shameful past a secret from the people in her new life, she'll worship the ground you walk on for the rest of your life.
>>685551244
He's obviously rejecting your assertion of what the core of this issue is.
>>685549236
A few things. Who the shit is you to judge her? You believe in a sky fairy that is the basis for all of the worlds misery back thousands of years. Everybody has a story. Some are more interesting than others. Sounds like she has lived her life and is seeing that for some reason your what she wants. My wife was a stripper prostitute when I met her. Now she's a highly respected social worker. Just leave that shit in the past and live in the moment.
In saying that though, you gotta make sure you can get a copy of any photos or vid of her doing that. Teacher, church worker and shit. Seems like she would have a lot to lose if it ever got out in your current social circle. Guess who will never get fucked over if she ever wants a divorce.
>>685550245
giving head brings up bad memories. you have to condition her to associate giving head with new memories.
>>685550245
She likely sees sex as a dirty thing because she saw the dirtiest aspect of it. And many fluffers just give handjobs not head.
But like most reformed slut-girls, it makes her feel dirty so she may not want that much sex. Just reassure her that it's a beautiful thing and that you DO need reg sex to be in a happy relationship.
Also, before you mention it 3-4 times a month for a married couple that has had several children is not fucking bad. The sex life DOES dry up some after you've been married a while. It's important that your relationship can handle having less sex and if it can't, you never should have married her. Hell, some happy dating couples only have sex once a week and are fully content with that. You don't have it bad.
Don't destroy a good thing for being slightly less than perfect.
>>685551986
Yes. Like the part where I said Do you feel like you'll never be good enough to satisfy a woman who's had dicks before?" to which he responded "have you read the filename?"
gg m8. I'm out of this thread.
Have fun feeling incompetent compared to your girlfriends previous boyfriends.
>being married to someone who is just a random encounter with an old girlfriend away from doing this in a hotel room all weekend.
Hows my dick taste, nigga?
>>685550098
still here.
>>685552484
whore.
>all used up, no longer of value
>>685549236
>>685549595
Sauce on gif?
>>685550098
The bottom line is this:
If you can't find a way to forgive her and accept this part of your wife's past, it will ruin the intimate connection your wife needs to be happily married and it will ultimately cause a divorce. If you want to be a father to your children and watch them grow up in the same house you live in, you have to fully and completely forgive her.
>>685552484
Not boyfriends, porn stars. OP is obviously going to be sexually inferior to them. That's a fact, not a feeling. And to me, its not that she's had dicks. My issue with a girl like that would be that it shows obvious character problems. Drug addict, working in the porn business, lying about it for years. Im not saying divorce her, especially since they have kids, but he has every right to have trust issues with her in the future.
>>685550631
Of course she's cheating on him. Even if she never did porn, with numbers like that (3 or 4 times a month and no head) you know she's getting sex from somewhere else. Sorry OP
>>685549376
>wife has touched many cocks
>i wish she hadn't
>your a cuck
?
>>685553727
Damn it.
Thanks anon.
>>685553727
This.
But also keep in mind if she divorced you, think about her getting a new bf which she will with a rig like that and that other bloke being the male that raises them and tucks them into bed each night.
>>685553844
You've clearly never been married and don't have children.
That's about average for a married couple.
>>685553844
I know for a fact that she isn't cheating on me. I had hidden cameras installed in our house when it was being constructed so that I could monitor the babysitters we hire.
My wife doesn't know about them.
>>685554457
>monitor the babysitters
ever catch one masturbating?
>>685554792
no.
I did catch one drinking my scotch and then pouring tap water into the bottle to hide the loss. She never got called back.
I'll say this, I slept with a woman once behind her husband's back and she was the same way with head. ... she wouldn't give it to anyone, but her husband. .. to her it was a special thing. If she ain't giving you head, but did pornstars, I'm guessing she'll give it to someone special.
>>685549236
get the fuck over it. you married her knowing she fucked other dudes.
>>685549236
>has a slightly dirty past
>smart sweet excellent wife now
What the fuck is the problem?
Lots of people have come back from worse, and does it really change how awesome she is for you and your children now?
What matters is how she is now. People do dumb shit when they are young.
Look how far she has come instead of what she used to be.
Have the talk with her. Then move on to more important matters: find out if there is video of her previous career, and watch it with her while you fuck.
>>685555231
This is a cop out. Marrying someone while assuming she had a normal amount of boyfriends in the past is one thing, by hundreds of sexual partners is no where near normal.
Being in a relationship with someone who views the act of having sex with a stranger being something as easy as chewing gum is very risky because the likelihood for infidelity is high.
>>685555765
She drove off. She's not here right now.
>>685555426
Its spoiled his unrealistic perception of her being perfect. Now thats shattered he'll slowly start to dislike more and mor eabout her. Always bothered by what she used to do
Ask her what the biggest blackest cock tasted like, punch her in the tit, and walk out like a boss.
>>685555908
You dun goofed OP.
I love it when idiots believe that just because a woman is Christian, that automatically means she's moral and chaste.
Fucking morons. Why are Christfags so fucking stupid?
>>685556447
lol, this. I have a theory that most of the girls you find in church these days are reformed whores.
They go to church solely for a white washing of their degeneracy so that they can masquerade as a traditional woman who is qualified for a provision drone.
>>685555947
Well then he needs to grow the fuck up and realize that people can grow and change.
That's life, nigga.
>>685549236
OP, I'm not saying you shoulder be shell shocked by this revelation. Maybe I missed this but what exactly does this news mean to you? If you don't know, you'd better figure it out *before* you go off half cocked.
>>685556868
Hmmm... I have a feeling your right about this. There's a hottie in my office I want bad. She's hunted that she was a pretty bad girl in college... "Only" 6 partners, not including oral but stories about being walked in on while getting hard fucked at frat parties.
She's a new mom and has this new found need to go to church and be seen as someone without that past.
I wish I wasn't attracted to bitches like that - it's damaged goods and leftovers IMO.
After hardly ever getting sex after his two kids OPs wife addmits to getting pro dick 24/7 in her prime years
>>685557801
Yep! Like I said, damaged goods and leftovers!
>>685549236
Suck it up. She did.
>>685549236
I fucked a bitch once
http://1312484.igenapps.com/go-figure#0
>>685557801
not only that but there are other ways to finance a cocaine habit. she could have fucked a drug dealer to two instead of sucking porn star cock all day. chick is fucked in the head.
>>685557801
We had sex nearly every day, sometimes three four times a day for 8 months before she got pregnant. I didn't propose to her until we dated for a year. We were engaged for 7 months. Now our oldest is in school and we both work and we're both exhausted all the time.
Are all of you in high school or something?
>>685558043
ba dum tss
How does it feel being the beta leftovers after she fucked herself dry in her 20s
>>685558093
>http://1312484.igenapps.com/go-figure#0
http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=as_li_qf_sp_sr_il_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&index=aps&keywords=Adult%20Pvc%20figure&linkCode=as2&tag=theshocod-20&linkId=QYOIJDTF3DMRLIG2
What the fuck???
>>685549236
your wife is rachel cook?
>>685549236
No STDs anymore? No debt? No embarrassing pictures linking to her?
Get over it. She's the same woman you've known all along, only thing different is you knowing about this stuff. Sure you've got plenty of skeletons in the closet she doesn't know about.
How did you find out the information?
>>685550245
Tell her you understand, you don't really enjoy eating pussy either...
>>685558689
My younger brother fucked someone she used to work with.
I was a camera guy for vivid shortly, yes old fag here. The fluffers we had used to be all over the male stars. Some actually were dating male porn stars. Funny thing is, the fluffers had more action than female porn stars because we'd have one fluffer and maybe shoot 5-6 scenes in a day. So she'd Suck 5-6 guys that day. It was also not uncommon for male actors who used viagra or similar to come back to the fluffers after the scene for round two. The actresses would never do anything unless paid but the fluffers would suck/fuck all day long for a set price. Most of them seriously enjoyed their work. Not a chore, eager to be there. I saw so many fluffers suck guys to completion and we'd have to wait for them to get hard again to shoot the scene. Sorry bro
>>685558431
sounds like shes had her fun and now is settling down with some beta male cuck face who couldnt get any until the women were dried up and unfuckable, now that shes got you under her thumb she wont touch your pathetic manlet ass
man up you fucking bitch
pic related my sexy gf who was 100% virgin when I fucked her hard and she deep throats my cock and lets my tit fuck her oiled up tittes and cum on her face
>>685558431
So what's your fucking problem then? You're not pissed that she doesn't have anything left for you after giving it up as a whore.... You're just pissed that she has been a whore, period? Or that she never mentioned it?
People get in the wing crowd, try something they think will be fun and then make mistakes. It happens. When drugs are involved it gets worse. It's not very surprising she wanted to forget it. What do you want from her?
>>685549236
How did you find out OP?
>>685558934
>>685549236
There's a parallel situation in which she finds out about you and your addiction to 4chan
>>685559405
She lurks 4chan. She hates /b/ though.
>>685551793
This.
>>685551793
>university.jpg
I'm beginning to believe you really are female.
>>685559040
>Virgin before I fucked her
I'm glad you believe that anon.
>>685549236
Wow. Some really mature responses here. Im actually surprised.
Seriously though, OP, you might juat have to give it time. Try and cool down and maybe you'll see things from a better perspective or even accept her past.
In the meantime, though. Why don't you reflect on why you actually feel the way you do?
Are you upset because you found out a seemingly shameful secret of hers this way?
Are you upset because this seemingly idealic woman wasnt always the woman you thought she was?
Or are you upset because she was a whore, but she's not/was not your whore?
>>685562035
I don't want the mother of my children to be a whore, dumbass.
I just found out that my wife is a slut. She's a filthy degenerate whore. I've been played for a fool. A sucker. I deserve to be laughed at for being stupid enough to marry her.
>not knowing why I'm upset.
Duh. Are you fucking retarded?
BTW, if you're kicking that to the curb, I'll swing by and pick it up. You can keep the kids.
>>685562751
implying this is OP
>>685549717
It is.
To end a good relationship with a nice person because DURR SHE SUCKED A BUNCH OF DICKS TWENTY YEARS AGO is the epitome of retardation.
>>685562751
Unfortunately, you need to be explicit, asshole. Nobody can read your fucking mind and nobody knows your entire situation.
If she was out fucking dudes, that's be one thing but your hidden cams proved otherwise (secret keeper...)
If she's really been nothing but a model wife since you meet her and now you're literally only upset because she has a stain you didn't see... Well, your deserve this butthurt.
If actually be more understanding if you felt worried about your own inadequacy or fears, or felt distrust over lies.
>>685563237
>your future
>>685563470
Tits or get the fuck out.
>>685563470
This
>>685563672
Ok... That was a really clever way to call me a bitch. Touche, sir.
>>685562751
I'm just curious, how many partners did you believe she had prior to finding out this new information
>ITT: cucks calling cuck no non-cucks.
Stop whiteknighting you fucking cuck newfaggots.
Maybe OP now has herpes and god knows what, and you are defending the slut.
>>685549236
This is b8 but it reminds me of a dude I used to know whose wife gave amazing head. At one point it came up in conversation in front of the dude that she had blown over 20 dudes in junior high. He was so mad, which I couldn't understand. He was the beneficiary of her experience.
Then again, she did try to fuck me a bunch of times, so maybe he was onto something.
>>685563530
More darling. More.
>>685565425
there are legbeards in this thread trying to undermine righteous slut shaming.
>>685565663
>>685549236
that looks like the body of a 20 year old.
I wonder if these stories are ever true.
>>685562751
You are posting on 4chan. now who's the filthy degenerate?
please divorce your wife and go be sad alone. I hope she cheats on your ass before that.
>>685565898
20 percent of the time they are true 10 percent of the time, the rest are lies.
