How do I become social... socially accepted... get friends...
I can't handle another day or weekend without going out with somebody
I feel like a fucking loser because nobody texts me nor do I ever... EVER hang out with anybody
Can anyone help? Also general feels thread
You'll always have us, OP.
>>684539802
Fuck you
>>684539430
Find people that have similar hobbies to you. If flurries can find friends, you can too op.
I also have a tendency to be boring...
>>684540144
*Furries
>>684540144
I dont play any video games and I just browse 4chan
Theres not much to connect on
>>684539430
Go to a bar and grow a fucking personality you sack of dog shit
Help i cant talk to girls
I sperg out when im with them and their girlfriends
>>684539430
Hey OP where do you live? If you're okay with going out with me and a few friends, listening to music and taking pictures then come on.
>>684539430
what's youre cell? I'll text you brah
>>684540350
buy a motorcycle
you'll either make friends or die, but at least while you're crying about it the wind will wipe away the tears
>>684540687
Fuck you
California
Learn to play the piano
Not even joking
>>684540863
What the hell will that achieve
>>684541003
Gurls
>>684540350
What >>684540527
said op. The reason you don't have anything is cause you don't experience nothing. Find a hobby and go from there.
>>684540857
>mfw don't live in CA anymore
If you're SoCal, I'd definitely hang. Other side of the country now, sadly.
>>684540144
>>684541127
Wtf man
>>684541127
No, it won't It really won't.
>>684540863
So true!
>>684541290
Worked for me
>>684540527
>>684541172
Fuck you theres nothing to experience
Ask anybody whats their hobby and theyll say some shit like the internet or listening to music or watching netflix
Like what the fuck else can you do
Theres no such thing as a fucking hobby
Instant confidence booster
along with all his other albums
Just fake being kanye untill you really are him
>>684541193
Yep im in socal
Whyd you move
>>684540835
>at least while you're crying about it the wind will wipe away the tears
Not if youre wearing a CSA approved helmet. Dress for the slide, not the ride brah
>>684541786
Just needed a change of pace. I'm in Florida right now.
>>684541509
Nigga theres hordes of people that do the stupidest shit for hobbies including the shit you listed. I refuse to believe that you think this and are instead just afraid to socially interact with people
>>684539430
Stop watching animes about other relationships.
You make friends out of people you a spend time with
>in college, study with people outside of class, then start hanging out together outside of study group
>outside college, hang out with workers who aren't cunts
Over time you get a network of people going on so that when you're an actual adult with responsibilities and income, you can hopefully hang out whenever you're in town or they're in town.
Don't force it too hard tho.
>>684539430
Do what i do. Waste away. Enjoy the little things until you die.
>>684541509
Buy an RC car. Go to RC car meets.
>>684539430
Just want to bitch, so sorry if this annoys anyone.
I have severe OCD.
Like, the kind that keeps me up until six to eight in the morning every single night.
I have to perform this same fucking ritual every day .
Even simple things, the most basic of human functions, are hellish.
Just taking a shower takes about an hour and is mental torture.
Can't touch any walls in the house.
Can't touch anything in the house at all.
Can't eat during the day, sometimes even skipping breakfast because it makes the aforementioned shower even more difficult to do due to possible food residue that sets the OCD off even worse.
Outside of this, I have depression.
I'm constantly sad, empty, lonely, and generally dead inside.
I haven't had any real friends for two years.
I haven't just had anyone to shoot the shit with outside of my parents for two fucking years.
There are very few things that can keep my mind off things, and even those aren't working anymore.
My whole mind is just entrenched in this hell of repetition.
The worst part is, I don't even have any major goals or aspirations anymore.
I'm only nineteen. I should be full of hope, I should want everything in the world, but I don't.
I don't care about money.
I don't care about fame.
I don't care about sex.
I just wish I was normal.
I just wish I was functional.
But instead, I want to die more and more by the fucking day.
>>684540857
Oh shit nigger
I'm in California too
>>684539430
Zozzle ur a bitch
>>684541786
I'm in SoCal. Dude, just pick a beach and go hang.
>>684542389
>stupid shit
Why would i want to fucking do that
AND I CANT GO OUT WITH ANYONE BECAUSE PEOPLE DONT EVEN FUCKIN TALK TO ME OR DONT EVEN LIKE ME WHEN THEY DO KNOW ME
>>684542699
Fuck you faggot
>>684541509
Buy kayak, talk with kayak fags about kayak shit
>>684542964
I had some mild stuff like that when I was younger. Everything had to be done in evens and even-evens so 2's, 4's, 16's. Can only hit the ground while walking a certain way, can only eat a certain way, had to mumble a certain way.
When I got older it went away, but I actively just let the feeling go, so idk if it's getting older that fixed it or me refusing to indulge it. But when I did and do indulge it, it will affect me for hours so my advice is to try and just forget about it. Let the feeling go.
>>684541509
Hobby suggestions
>Hiking and biking
If you do the same route frequently you'll meet people
>RC boats or cars
You'll meet a ton of 30-60 year old men. No females
>Gym
Again, if you're there frequently enough you'll meet people
>Library
If you find a checkout girl you like pick out a good selection of books/movies and see if anything clicks
>Shooting
I don't do it but my buddy met a ton of people through gun shows
>Fishing
Same as above. Ice fishing is a big event, ton of beer and barbecue, you'll get to know all the other men near you on the lake
>Sailing
Pricy but if you're on a small enough lake you'll meet a ton of people, especially if you offer to let them go for a ride
>Church/volunteer groups
Varies based on religion but if you show up enough you'll meet people, can be dangerous though if you're not overly religious
>Horse racetrack
Nasty hobby, but you meet a ton of people. Buy drinks for younger women, and if you know the sport well they'll really take interest. I met an Orthodox Jew there who is a great guy. I always play his picks and usually end up 2:1.
>>684541509
Anything is a hobby if you do it enough
Except Netflix, masturbating, and browsing image boards
>>684543820
I wish I could.
It's hard to explain, but it's tied to even my own body.
>>684541509
Nigga I play D&D and magic the gathering.
I'm a fucking geek, so no excuses
>>684539430
Start smoking pot, but buy from a dealer if in a legal state. Unless you buy from some ghetto nigger. You'll chill for a bit and eventually meet people.
>>684540527
Bars are just awful. Would rather be anywhere else
>>684543486
try being a FRIENDLY CUNT. you stupid fuck just act like a normal human being. fake it til you make it, dipshit.
>>684539430
When you get older it's gay to have friends.
>>684544156
Worked for me.
Hell, that's how you get a job in most cases.
>>684543911
This is exactly how you meet people when you have to start from square one. Listen to this anon, op
>>684539430
I love not having friends, but I have a wife to keep me company and work like 60 hour weeks. I guess I have one friend in addition to my wife though.
>>684544024
Have you tried acid or shrooms? Maybe that'd help.
I heard from a professor in eastern europen they do a freezing based lobotomy specifically for ocd that apparently helps when all else fails
>>684541509
Graffiti, marijuana, bitches and bikes
>>684543486
People don't talk to you cause you don't put yourself out there. Either that or you act like a fucking autist. Guaranteed if you do neither of these then people would at the very least, talk to you.
>>684539430
How old are you?
Serious question so I can give you an answer.
>>684544095
This.
Do what everyone does when they get depressed!
Take a shit load of pills than stream yourself setting your home on fire. Atleast you die entertaining your people.
>>684543974
>Except Netflix, masturbating, and browsing image boards
Kek you are a faggot for saying masturbating is not a hobby
If you had friends you'd wish you didn't.
>>684544437
Lobotomy may work, but I don't really trust it, if I'm honest.
As far as I know, it's a certain gland in the brain that's oversized, but it's an important gland when it functions properly.
I think I'll just continue with the therapy for now to see how things go, but I don't know.
I also don't trust any sort of drug at this point due to also having depression and anxiety, which I've heard hallucinogens can go wrong if you have such things.
>>684539430
>>684544255
This is true, The worst part of my day is when someone calls me to "hangout".
If someone calls me because they need to go get a car, or need something done I don't mind.
If someone says we are getting beer or let's go to the bar I literally can seldomly help myself from indicating how fucking gay that is.
>>684543486
Is your name Joseph? You sure sound familiar.
>>684540527
What if you don't drink, though? Doesn't that make you creepy as fuck if you're in a bar by yourself but not drinking?
>>684544734
>what everyone does
Kek em
>>684544889
Are you OP?
>>684544063
I've been to a magic the gathering meet. Seemed to be a much more social hobby than I would have figured
>>684545220
Nah, I'm just someone who decided to complain in a feels thread.
>>684545418
>>684545220
Or wait, of that post, yes, sorry.
>>684545146
At first, but once 2 am rolls around and everyone at the bar is all fucked up you eventually start getting perceived as an adult.
It is a turn on to women when you are not a degenerate drunkard.
If you are 100% sober you might not be as talkative which is less preferred but manageable.
>>684544846
>so anon, what are some of your hobbies?
>oh you know, mostly masturbating
>>684545014
Fucking this shit right here. Don't be this guy OP. If people ask you to do something and aren't just using you in some way, seriously consider doing it.
>>684543636
Waste away faggot, the aids butter is leaking out of your ass.
>>684545403
Very much so
>>684539430
Have you ever thought of going to the movies and creepily offering to pay for someone else? Meeting people sometimes can just be acts of kindness. Like aforementioned buying a ticket, or sitting down with someone who looks lonely, putting down extra for the cofee of the guy behind you
>be me
>19
>sitting in the hall in college eating lunch like a loser
>female classmate sits with me and chats
>become friends
>fast forward 2 years
>we are no longer friends
>why
>i will never know
She stopped talking to alot of us when she jumped ahead in the course over the summer. I dont really miss her, she was more unsocial than I.
But little actions can lead to big things.
>>684544095
Not op but weed makes me sperg the fuck out, I don't talk much and try to avoid any social interaction. Meth is much better for that sort of thing. Rail 50 mg and you'll be a social butterfly
>>684545633
Are you in your early/mid twenties
>>684545582
Are you kidding? I'm an artist at this point.
>>684545968
I don't believe op has your level of confidence
>>684545904
Weed guy here. Don't listen to this junkie, addiction can make a lonely man worse. If weed gives you the shakes, you smoke in the wrong setting.
>>684545942
Spot on, 25.
Every time my friends want to hangout, I make some bs excuse as to why I couldn't go cause I want to be a sperg and sit at home doing nothing
this thread made me seriously reconsider
>>684539430
Go on /soc/
![[001903].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/jvasYPp.jpg "[001903].jpg")
>>684539430
I'll tell you exactly what another anon told me over two years ago.
1) Find out what what interests you
2) Get a job in order to learn how to act in a social environment
3) Apply to college and make sure you go rise above the crowd, people will start to want to study with you and be around you
4) Don't act need and be confident, workout and attempt to improve yourself physically and mentally.
The job part was rough for me, I had no idea how to interact with people,
The secret is not to give a fuck what people think about you and BE A MAN.
I was finally able to get a GF and now I good circle group of close friends that is steadily expanding.
>Thank you based anon from two years ago....wherever you may be.
>>684546458
You're missing out anon. Dont worry about soerging out, thats what your friends are doing anyway.
I only turn my friends down if it's something I dont think I can enjoy and i dont wanna be a downer for them.
>>684546830
seeing this thread and how OP is now made me see that acting like that and refusing to go out when someone genuinely wants to hang out with you will get you to OP's position in the end
>>684546282
That behavior usually goes away by your early thirties but for some people it doesn't.
I am assuming you are like how I was.
I could be wrong
I was one of those reckless people drinking and smoking a lot, out going, leave the bar at 2 am then have a party at someones rented house.
what pills to kill myself
OP go to a gay bar. People there are polite and are probably more your taste.
>>684546554
This is a good point, if you learn to socialize with people at work you can socialize with them just as well outside of work.
>>684546830
This. Be outgoing, but don't do something you know you'd hate. I don't drink, so I don't go to bars unless for a specific occasion. I'm a nasty drunk. I'm fat, got a neck beard and look like a giant, but people still try to approach me.
>>684539430
Tbh i feel the same way.
I have someone to hangnout with 90% of the time
But i realize just how shallow my relationship with them is, and id rsther spend my time alone.
Id say, learn to love the pain that you hate so much.
>>684547184
I don't drink cause intestinal issues, and I'd hardly call myself outgoing. I'm just good in social situations. I'm the big neck beard everyone else has in the group.
>>684539430
What kind of clothes do you wear?
I only ask because it will make you more or less approachable to certain people.
Do you have a job?
Are you still in high school?
Are you funny amongst the people you do occasionally hang out with?
We cant really give you good answers unless we know something about you.
>>684547273
Tums
>>684547817
Pepcid for faster results.
Learn to look important fgt.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCA0jhVCFTw
>>684547668
Do the people you do know have houses or apartments?
Where do you or those people chill at?
>>684545904
>calls others junkie
>smokes weed
Everything in moderation friend. a bit of meth now and then isn't as harmful as weed when used how most stoner fags useit. Weed can destroy lives as well, it's just a matter of knowing when to draw the line. I'll grant that meth can be a slippery slope in the same way that alcohol can be but meth is easier to consume, cheaper and doesn't have many of the adverse effects that stop one from drinking too much. It's easy to become addicted. Also, like alcohol. It's a neurotoxin that will gimp your social abilities if done in excess.
>>684547773
Still in high school
I wear normal clothing like jeans and t-shirts, fairly skinny, average height, not ugly but not entirely handsome
Im somewhat funny but also annoying
Immature/not able to socialize on a real level, meaning i cant hold a conversation on my own, when theres a lot of people then im fine since theres less attention on me
On one on one conversations i get really antsy and awkward
I have no best friends, nor close friends who i text everyday
A lot of people know me for being weird/enthusiastic/funny but dont know me outside of school
At home i like to play ukulele and browse 4chan, use netflix, and study a language
>>684539430
and why you don't hang out?
>>684548259
Meant to reply to this
>>684546178
>>684539430
Hey OP, I'm confused.
Why would you want the kind of friends who would like to hang out with the likes of you?
>>684547090
I never get asked out though, which is the problem for me
I just dont have any friends to talk to
>>684539430
If you have any money at all try some of these things.
>Try getting a shit load of people to go to a theme park, Hockey/football/baseball game.
>Try to get 6 people to go to a restaurant or pizza or bar
>Get on facebook find someone and go hey faggot let's go see the revenant
>Go someone go to the mall with me my pants don't fit. Or someone go to the mall with me I don't wanna do laundry.
>Go buy a dirtbike with someone
>Go fishing with someone
>Try getting 30 people to go tubing down a river every year
>If someone has an apartment or house try getting them to organize a poker night If you cant play poker learn
>Some girls like drinking and playing board games too. Just invite people over to play poker if women come just play drinking games or something
>Join a band
>>684548343
If you're going to college or university, don't be a faggot and get to know the people that live in your dorm. When I was a freshman everyone in my hall had an open door policy, anyone could just walk in and hang. Don't worry about not having friends in high school, I don't talk to any of the people I went to high school with
>>684546554
inspirational
im saving this, thanks for sharing it
OP, where do you live?
If anywhere around Toronto to Hamilton in Ontario I'll take you to a bar and we'll play some billiards with my mates.
>>684548382
Dont have any friends to talk to
>>684548532
I mean
The feeling of lonliness is fucking terrible regardless if youre a terrible or spergy person
>>684548875
People always tell me that
But if I cant get friends in high school, where people are literally FORCED to socialize, what does that tell me about me when I go to college?
>>684548343
If people think you are annoying you either talk a lot or you have body language problems.
Is your voice kind of timid when you talk?
Do you look away when people look at you?
>>684539430
this shit is bait . gg
>>684548343
Is there any chance that either a few people that think you are annoying are just assholes or that you think you are more annoying than you are.
>>684549261
Am I the only motherfucker on this planet that literally doesn't get lonely... ever?
I literally want to be totally alone forever.
>>684549461
I talk a lot
I also talk louder than some as well as have an annoying loud laugh as well as say obnoxious things involuntarily by accident
My voice is only timid when I feel awkward as I talk with someone alone(mainly girls)
Depends on the girl, some girls i can say whatever the fuck i want
>>684549133
It's tough, but any work colleagues / classmates you could befriend? Gotta start somewhere.
Otherwise if you're open to the idea of board games or card games, some game shops host open nights where people can show and play games. Probably not going to meet all the ladies there, but might make some friends and expand your social circle.
There are also adult sport leagues of the casual sort. Ultimate frisbee and volleyball are popular where I am and require minimal equipment.
Easier to say this shit than do it, but good luck either way.
Stop caring, just ask someone to hang out OP
>>684540863
Really sound advice. What will it achieve? It will establish self worth and a channel for your inner beauty if you care about showing that to people. I'm more about the former. You ever see some retard sit at a piano and just bang some keys around and it annoys the fuck out of everyone? Or when someone plays an impressive melody, and you really want to watch?
>>684548343
Are you capable at learning on your own?
Do you have trouble effectively learning languages?
At your age I think you would be better off learning in your spare time. Something that you can make a career out of.
Once you turn 20 and are in college or have an apartment with friends that have there own places it is a bit easier to be social.
It might not be in your best interest to learn to be social.
Did you just start going to that school
>>684549461
I also dont like looking people in the face, at least for too long
It gets uncomfortable for me as well as them in some cases, even for a second of looking at them
>>684549730
Some people like my annoying/loud behaviour so I chill with them in school
I admit, im more outgoing and sometimes annoying than some people, but some uptight shits are always super annoyed by me
I still cant fit in and get friends to talk to though
>>684549924
Do you have a drivers license
>>684548089
Both. Im still paying off my home and my best friend rents down the street. We normally chill at my place to smoke and shit cause I make the rules in my house. No land lord. When we want to do shit, we usually meet at a friends place. Otherwise we can get couch locked
>>684549434
I was full on aspie in high school, bad clothes, loved maymays and shit. Got to college, just tried to be more mature. Also drinking. Alcohol helped me make friends. But only in certain circles. It's a learning experience op but it's doable. It's hard NOT to make friends in college imo
>>684548343
Ok. So you don't even know who you really are yet. High school is a joke and social interaction in high school isn't anything important.
>>684549434
Also the people at your college won't know you, you can reinvent yourself
>>684550922
But... It would be nice... It's torture seeing my brother have a gf and a lot of friends who he hangs out with and im just here in my room
>>684550968
I thought i could reinvent myself in high school but that went terribly wrong
>>684550550
You should start doing things like try to get large groups of people together to do things. Theme parks, bars, movies, tubing, camping.
Do you think that you would benefit from doing shit like that?
Are you trying to become more of an alpha social male?
>>684541509
Christ man, stop being such a nigger. No wonder you have no friends, you're so pessimistic. These people are genuinely trying to help you and you're pushing them away. I'm sorry, but that's the fucking truth. Accept it or change.
>>684539430
Getting a fucking social hobby op, find a thing being organised to do with it and turn up
- dance classes
- art classes
- fitness classes
- fucking pokeymons or magic the gaythering
- doesn't matter there will be people there
Book clubs and board games are a great form of socialising, I find
>>684550550
I'm not trying to do anything more than live my life and pay off my house debt....? I'm not OP...you know that right? I'm a fat, tall neck beard and have many friends.
>>684551866
This was meant for
>>684551378
>>684551717
This is actually funny. My little brother and some of his friends were always watching anime and playing with fucking magic or pokey man cards in high school. My friends got along with them but we thought they were dorks. 10 years later they all went to Iraq together some went to prison, some got shot but they all lived and are doing fine now. Moral of the story people do change.
>>684543686
Fucking kek
>>684549844
I envy you nigger. Even when I'm with friends I am forever alone
>>684543911
Really helpful advice here, OP. Listen to this guy.
>>684551866
It confused me, I don't even know if OP is 14 or 20. I don't think it matters this is the internet nothing matters here.
>>684552279
Do you even kayak bro?
>>684551249
The only people who stay in contact for long after high school are people who go to the same college and are good friends, otherwise you grow apart 98% of the time. Highschool social life doesn't matter.
>>684552733
True dat nigga
>>684552317
This sentence related to me so deeply
Even the forever alone meme relates to me
>>684547817
Does this actually work?
>>684552687
OP is in high school and stressing about social interactions that literally will probably vanish into thin air the moment he graduates
>>684552733
b-b-but
The experieeeeence
>>684553167
Probably, I see people take them.
It is like Tylenol but not
If someone says yes or no, you wont know until you consume tums regularly
>>684553167
Only one way to find out. ((Seriously don't do it though)))
>>684553388
But will it actually work for suicide? They taste good and it seems like a painless way to go.
>>684553322
You want a social experience right now? Go to a Lazer tag place or something where your a part of a team again another team. Paint ball is good too. Say it's your first time and ask for advice in whatever way you want. Listen to a fat neck beard, do yourself this one favor.
>>684553685
Otc Pills are generally not painless
>>684543911
Music is also a good addition to this list. You meet a lot of people at shows/festivals if you go frequently enough, and the intoxicants definitely don't hurt to loosen people up. Might be a bit too intense for a square-one autist to handle though.
>>684539430
Yea OP, you would be better off learning a programming language or getting a job.
Deciding what college you want to go too.
Some people aren't little social butterflies some are. If you want to be one then start having parties and going to hot topic or wherever you hipsters go.
If you can walk up to any random girl and ask her to go to a movie or get pizza with you for no reason other than you think she is pretty confidently then you are more socially competent than 98% of the planet.
Do you think you are capable of doing that?
>>684553931
I always assumed it was only high dosage, heavy prescription stuff that would do the trick. Never thought I could just down anything.
Thanks, I guess lol.
>>684553167
Yeah, you can die from eating fucking TUMS
>>684553685
You would probably have to take over three bottles and just end up shitting your brains out or going to the hospital.
It is probably about as good for suicide as pizza. Possible but not likely.
>>684553907
Im a kid in high school
>>684554840
Paintball is pretty bad ass
>>684554750
I dono bro. Fat neck beard has eaten pizza after pizza when high and went into food coma before. Might be more possible than you think.
>>684539430
BEEEE YOURSELF
>>684554016
Fuck man
IM SO COMPLICATED
Because I can do shit like that
I can confidentally try to make conversation and tell girls they are pretty and meet people from other schools like nothing
But when I get to talking to them individually in real life, i fucking sperg
Like idk why but the idea of me hanging out makes me fucking cringe inside because im not used to it and i might fuckig sperg like i usually do with one on one convos
>>684542964
I don't know much about that level of OCD, but I had a lot of repetitive habits I indulged in, and some I still do to a lesser extent (the kind of habits everyone has, though). And I don't know how hard it is for you to let go of the habits, or what your reaction is to it, eg panic, fear, whatever, but I find it closely similar to my drug habit when you say you want to be normal again. I wanted to want to quit. If I didn't have drugs, terrible things would happen (withdrawals) and eventually after enough time away from them I recovered from the shock.
Try and spend time away from your isolating habits.
>>684539430
Post more rare pepe on /b/
>>684540081
>>684555242
Withdrawal is no joke. Buddy of mine quit heroine a while ago and it was baaaaaaad.
God I needed to come to this thread. I hate myself for thinking too much. I know there are other people with bigger problems than I am. And I am super grateful for being alive. I just am having a hard time going to bed and just trying to ignore shit without sliding back into this fucking slope.
>>684539802
You again?
Anyways, fat, tall neck beard guy has to go. OP seriously consider a competitive activity, like paintball or something. Play a round, try your best and congratulate the guy who kills you after match end. Ask him for pointers and shit for next round, he'll like the ego boost and you'll make a friend. You don't need to talk his ear off even, just listen and mimic.
>>684554975
YOU DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS TO BE BADASS SHUTUP BRO
>>684555210
This kind of behavior also isn't common in high school but there is nothing wrong with hanging out with people and just being quiet.
Maybe instead of going from insanity enthusiastic/worried you could just hang out with people and be calm/quiet.
You could just have more normal conversations like ask people about their family, what they want to do after highschool, do they have any pets.... ya know normal stuff.
A typical high school conversation doesn't really go like that at least it didn't when I was younger.
>>684539430
Lose weight fatty
>>684556225
Thats why I'm so confused as shit
I feel like I'm just so fucking weird that I think too much about this crap... When IM JUST A HIGH SCHOOL STUDENT LIKE CHILL
My conversations are just crap honestly
How were yours in highschool
>>684556225
this tho. when people dont know their being cringe its so cringe. only talk if your good at talking, know when to talk. I see cringe happen like everyday that could be avoided. when in doubt just laugh and smile a bit.
>>684555545
Opiate dependency is fucked. Got a buddy that's addicted to oxy. I'd never touch opiates
>>684539430
I'll be your friend OP.
unless you are...
>crazy religious
>going to ask for money
>going to send me dick pics
>going to bitch bout animu all day
>are a whinny android/iOS fanboy
Fuck god, I'm poor but not gay. Nobody cares about the cartoons you watch or the phone you use. Other than those things, I'm easy to get along with.
>>684556528
Me and my friends were deviant criminals.
We drank constantly and smoked weed It was retarded.
It would have been "hey are you going to 420 Friday"
Yea (that is a party spot in the woods)
I lived in a small hick town.
90% of anything anyone said was just people fucking around and joking about shit
>>684556714
One of the kids I went to highschool with did a bunch of herion past out standing at the toilet hit his head on the sink and died.
He was covered in blisters and boils
Another one did a bunch of meth got arrested and ripped his own eye out in jail
>>684556548
conversation is a delicate dance between people. each of you a nation in the cold war, literally words away from complete conversational holocaust. here are some tips and tricks for getting out alive.
1. make good eye contact but DONT go over the top with it.
2. ask questions, let the other people do the talking for you!
3. show genuine interest, this will let you become a superpower in the conversation "war"
4. NEVER take a strong opinion on anything, be agreeable, but not a pushover. if you disagree be casual about it.
5. compliments are key to disarming your conversational partners. find something that you actually like and tell them (not in a creepy way though)
hopefully this helps a bit
Don't worry, OP. I'm well-liked by a fair amount of people despite having a minimal presence in their day-to-day lives and very little interesting qualities whatsoever, but that doesn't make me feel good. In fact, social acceptance is pretty underwhelming, and earning their respect moreso, especially because I was told by somebody else that it was a good thing cuz, you know, if just is and stuff.
Nope. It really doesn't matter, and I wouldn't mind too much if most of the people who apparently care about be died abruptly. (I just can't tell them this because then I'd lose whatever benefits I gain from them, entertainment and drugs usually.)
Basically what I'm getting at is that once you accept that people are generally worthless and nothing they say, do, or think actually matters, it becomes a lot easier to stop seeking their acceptance and sleep soundly at night.
>>684557635
Just emphasizing how fucked up drugs are
>>684557712
This is good advice
>>684555361
>>684542964
niceme.me
>>684543185
where bruh so am I
>>684548875
Open door policy? How'd that work out without getting shit stolen? Did you guys trust each other that much? The moment my meds were missing I'd buy a lock.
>>684557635
Fuck bro. I'm sorry for your loss, I hear new opiates are hitting the market 100-10000 times the potentcy if heroin, if I recall correctly the one is called fentenol. never had such mind altering experiences on meth although I've never smoked it.
>>684539430
Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
>>684557409
Yeahhhh thats how most conversations are in high school
Wow i never even fully realized that
Most people just like fucking around aha
Shit i need to learn how to fuck around more
Thanks man
>>684549844
Same
>>684557712
all of this actually makes sense and i actually agree
thanks
Im saving it
>>684540350
Kind of in the same boat atm. But I'm a recluse so it's sort of by choice. As pathetic as it sounds my favorite thing to do at the end of my work day is go to the bar next to my house, sit by myself and socialize with you fags on my phone. Couldn't be happier.
Today i fucked my fifth girl on Craigslist. I messaged her and then I went to her house. On the way i stopped and got 60 dollar. She said she wante d100 dollar but I said that I wasnt getting paid. You got to be tough with bitches. Ive fucked like 6-7 girls total. Three were niggers that barely could speak english an d lived in one bedroom apartments. One was a southern girl that I drove around in my car and we fucked in a park. The rest were white or latino i couldnt really tell. One had a baby in the other room i fuk her. Ive started to lose interest in having sex with women and started jacking off instead. Goddam
>>684557151
>Fuck god, I'm poor but not gay.
Well said. I don't get it either.
In other words man you will realize soon that its not worth it. People just wnat tyou to give shit to them. You cant find people who want to be friends with you, everyhting wants something fromam you. Just give up and read some memes brother
>>684555361
I'm disappoint that the tears aren't tampon strings.
It looks like you didn't even try.
>>684557726
Thats not my goal though
I want to be social
I wanna be liked
I want to be known
Thats just what I want for myself and it's what makes me personally happy
>>684560105
glad i could help anon. conversation is like my special skill. im hyper aware of facial espressions, body language, whether people are being sincere or not actually interested, thinking of the perfect line at the perfect time. i also dont really relate to people and dont like talking to them for the most part. kind of ironic.
>>684560579
i hear ya /b/rotha. hows work goin for you
>>684560579
>Couldn't be happier.
well anon at the end of the day that's all that matters
faggot
>>684560579
Why a bar? Now and then I'll stop by the beer store after work and I'll enjoy a couple beers by some train tracks over the bike trail I take on my way home from work. Nice view, scenery, sunlight and cheap beer
>>684561500
Eh it's slow right now. Just got done for the night. Enjoying a cold beer as we speak. Cheers m8.
>>684562043
It's weird. I don't feel like talking and being social, but I feel the need to be around people. If that makes any sense whatsoever. And I like the bartenders here.
>>684549844
I currently want to be alone because I want to make da moolah, ya' know.
Sitting in a nuclear meditation bunker since nearly 2 years now, but when I'm done becoming a businessman, I'll fuck whores like a fucking maniac.
Who knows what will happen in our future, right?
>>684562439
Makes sense. I guess I'm just not a fan of most bars myself
