Why can't someone once refer to me as their best friend. Feels thread.
Bro it's not because they don't call you "their best friend" that you must feel like shit, people you know probably appreciate many of your qualities. Don't hate yourself for a thing like that.
i just want someone who will come to me if anythings wrong like i go to my friends. i want to get texts or a phone call asking, hey anon you wanna chill or something? no i'm always the one asking if its cool if i come. no one ever makes plans with me or is legitmately interested in anything i'm doing in my life or even care. sounds stupid and i sound like a fag, but idc.
Nah I get how you feel. Have you tried, like not try to hangout with your friends for a while just to see if they will want to hangout with you? Maybe you want to see them too often, idk.
People can have many friends and end up not being able to decide who is the best one.
People who say they have "best friend" is usually their only friend.
Don't blame yourself for not having a best friend anon, you have us here as your best buddies
yea i have, it just makes it seem like i don't want to be their friends. i can't just be like "oh yea i wasn't asking to hang out or responding just so you would want to hang out with me more bc i'm a loser"
idk i know i'm just overreacting and overthinking. it just sucks.
have you just tried putting yourself out there?
it's a numbers game.
100 no's and 1 yes is a yes.
or lower your standards. no one needs to know you've boned a 2/10, she won't even tell anyone bc seriously who the fuck will she tell.
just put yourself out there anon
What about when no one wants to be around you because you are easily prone to anger fits or lashing out.
why am I angry all the time.
Tonights the night OP.
grab a motel or a hotel. completely different city.
random bar. grab a 2-4/10
lower your fucking standards. i used to have high standards too, the second i lowered them i had sex on the first date twice. not proud of em , but hey had sex.