I want to tie my girlfriend up to a chair with a vibrator on her clit. The only problem is I know nothing about BDSM. I have some rope and want to practice. Does anybody have how to pictures or anything?
>>684133718
>>>/google/
>>684133718
/hc/ sometimes has "instructionals" threads
check the archive
>>684134232
>not wanting to chat with bros.
>not wanting to hear stories and experiences
Remind me again what year this is.
>>684134249
Will do, thanks!
>>684134464
>>>/d/bdsm
the year of harstem
>>684134249
>>684134464
also you might wanna visit /d/'s /bdsmg/ general thread. I hear good things about it (not a /d/ regular myself so I cant judge). If you got the balls maybe even ask there, but expect serious answers. This IS srs bsns, treat it as such.
>>684134748
>>684134757
we hivemind now
>>684134748
>>684134757
I'll check it out, thanks guys.
http://www.theduchy.com/home.shtml
This site has excellent tutorial. Get long thick ropes, (the thicker, the easier it is to get the knots undone)
Always triple check for consent, tell her to let you know the moment she wants to be untied (it will take a moment to do so, you don't want her in panic). Ask her if she trusts you (of course she does, but her saying so will put her in a better mood, don't skip this part. Be playful) Have scissors nearby. Have a clear safeword.
Don't tie her down too hard the first time, build it up. Be dominant but gentle.
Sorry if this is a bit of a mess of tips. All from the top of my head. Read up before doing so.
Most of all, have fun. Don't set high expectations.
>>684134820
>>684134954
nevermind, the current one is imagedump and "BDSM is RAPE". Maybe asking will raise some interesting answers, or find some archives.
Oh, one more tip. Don't get cheap plastic ropes, spend the extra few bucks and go with natural fibre.
Any binding should have enough room between the rope and her body for two fingers.
>>684133718
the boy scouts don't look all that dumb to you now, do they? They could tie a bitch in ways you couldn't even begin to imagine
>>684135387
This is all good to know.
I will check out this site.
I am planning on having her use a ballgag, is there any easy way to have a safe word?
Practice knots by yourself before doing things with her. They are not hard to do really, be sure to master the basic ones. Messing around is not a turn on, doesn't give an air of confidence that you need.
>>684135729
I would not recommend using that right away. Only later when you are both confident.
>>684133718
Duct tape works in a pinch
>>684136298
Don't use ducttape, restricts bloodflow, hard to remove. Use natural thick ropes.
>>684136080
Will do!
>>684136285
Yeah, I guess you're right. Thanks for the advice!
make videos and post to porn hub saying op has delivared
>>684136470
You're welcome buddy. Have fun, take it slooooooow. Its easier that way, has a better buildup.
>>684136599
Obey your dubs
Bentley you fat prick
thank me later
https://imgur.com/gallery/NmUvl
>>684136819
Your missing money opportunities
>>684136841
I will thank you now instead.
>>684136949
I have a job though.
