Ask a psychologist anything!
I'm h-here for you Anonymous! B-better late than never!
Hey Alice. How was your day? Mine was...eventful, would be a good description!
Mine was god awful.
How do you know if someone genuinely loves you?
How can i get this girl to like me?
I think shes beautilful,shes cute and always making me laugh.Shes innocent and has a pure heart.
Well, it was just a programming thing. I had to roll out then roll back my program over and over again, and stay late to make sure it worked.
I don't understand the question; what is non-genuine love?
Tell me more about her. She sounds wonderful. Maybe I'll steal her from you <4
There's a girl I used to talk to. She's strange but not that bad looking. She's always making eye contact with me. Never really says much to me but she tends to do nice things, like if I dropped something she would help pick it up. How should I go about talking to her? Starting a conversation? Becoming friends? What should I do?
You should talk to her. Like, that much is obvious.
Just speak up! Say "Hey I like you, want to go to a movie or watch netflix and chill?" and don't be creepy about it, and I'm sure she'll give you a chance.
Nothing can happen if you don't try, Anonymous.
Prince died but I know you don't care, you won't even respond to this post
I was a bit careless today. Burnt my leg. I feel incredibly stupid.
Go to a therapist; CBT is highly effective against this sort of ailment.
You can do it Anonymous; I believe in you, and value you.
You don't automatically; you do it for a reason, it's a choice. Is it because you don't think you deserve to feel better?
Ouch. I know the feeling.
Everytime I see a cute girl below the age of 15 or so I think of cramming my hard cock into her perfect little 6 year old asshole and cumming so deep inside her she cried. What do
Wait a second. You said below the age of 15, then you said 6. Which is it?
May I have another hug?
CBT is dog shit.You talk for an hour,then you talk about how you can change thinks, then they give yor a peice of paper as homework and you come back next week
Dont bother with it,its fucking useless,its like being in kindergarten
I want to be a girl. I have been on hormones and grew my hair out and doing electrolysis sessions but I still feel like a faker. What do I do?
That's....not at all how CBT works, but okay.
Yeah about that
I feel like my life is like a battle of wanting to be left alone and not wanting to be lonely. What do?
Im a man with long hair,i gets weird looks and people have randomly told me "you can do it"
one asked me how i was transitiong and i didnt know what the fuck he till later that night
How do i have metal length hair,without faggots thinking im a tranny
Yeah, but that's not the route I tried.
What stage of your transition are you? I assume you have a doctor monitoring you?
Sounds like you need to work on your "push-pull" mechanism; how many friends do you have that you'd feel comfortable burying a body with?
It's not the ONLY age though.
I don't know; tell me more about you.
Sounds like you still have a lot of work to do!
You don't. It's the price you pay man.
How common are psychotic symptoms in bipolar disorders?
I'm having issues seperating friends from people I happen to see and talk to. I feel like everyone I knoe as a friend thinks of me as an acquaintance. A background character that can talk. I can honestly only count two people as close friends and I only see one every week or two.
I will reiterate; meditation has absolutely zero evidence of its efficacy.
Not rare, but uncommon.
That's not unusual in todays society, though it is bad.
>What stage of your transition are you?
Like right before getting my bottom operation, in fact I need to see a shrink in person to sign off for the snip. Yes I am under an endocrinologist treatment but I haven't seen anyone for mental help in years.
voice clip btw, does it pass? https://clyp.it/ka0jvrjb
You really ought to see someone for the mental health through the entire process; it's very taxing.
I was really enjoying our huggu session.
I know but I am ashamed of myself and stay away from everyone. I thought you said you were a shrink, is there any words of wisdom you can give?
tfw alice won't hug me but hugs a crazed otoya poster
Don't meditate; get more good friends.
I feel so alone though. I feel like a character who's there to be there. I'm the most generic, boring person I know and part of the reason I doubt I have as many friends as I used to think is because I barely think of myself as an interesting, or even slightly different individual.
I never said I was a shrink; I'm a psychologist.
And why do you think having a good support network, with caring and impartial doctors is important? You need to have people to prop you up when you are down; no matter how competent I may be, I am no substitute for someone like that.
Seek help Anonymiss; you deserve it.
I dont know if this is the same nigger cunt but you recommended me some shitty gray market drugs for my possible ASPD and it did nothing. Youre a cuck lord OP, a cuck lord
I have no friends and I don't know how to make them. I am worried being trans would make getting friends hard so I don't even try. Its so bad all I do is talk to myself in my room all day.
Woops, that was me
I think I deserve more than enough hugs
Yeah 4-FA. Started with 50mg but nothing. Then 80mg. I got extremely paranoid and almost hyperactive. Couldnt function in a work environment. 0/10 never again. Ended up getting my gf hooked though.
Wait... I have better things to do. Bye.
Hey, sir, i have a problem.
I feel apathy for almost everything, i go to college but feel no love for it or whatsoever, just waiting for the day to end this happens for almost all the activities i do, except when i hang out with my friends or get laid.
I have no project of life, marriage, career, etc.
I have no interest in meeting people.
This is really affecting my productivity and happines, feel nothing but worries for my future
Any advice of how to have a good life with this shit?
>Overprotective and aggresive mother (aggresive even with my father) with some nice moments but impossible to deal with she's angry. She also suffered mobbing and was diagnosed with some mental illnes of some sort.
>In general, both parents are authoritative, they think they deserve more respect than an adult son of 28yo
>I suffered bullying and even today it's nigh impossible to deal with abuse from others. I don't know how to stop them
>Going to psychologists for more than 5 years
>Assertivity is a fucking joke when people doesn't respect the limits you tell them. You have to enforce them, but I don't know how to create consequences and enforce them. Most of the time, I don't have the power over others (not the owner of the house, the job... or simply can't beat the shit of that nigga)
>The worst of all, is people thinking that's easy to overcome, but their solutions are too generical.
What I think I need is somebody teaching me step by step how to stop caring for others, being more selfish, and stop others from crossing the line without a huge blow to my public reputation (usually, if other people has to choose, they prefer to side against me rather than with me)
I don't think there's a solution, but I keep breathing just to do something worthy.
Also, distracting me may reduce stress but I know I will have to face similar situations in many places, with many people too often.
>Forgot to add, right now, I don't know how to understand many situations. I don't know if others are plotting something against me, if they feel respect about me or what will happen in the next moment. I distrust of everybody.
hey psycho, wazzup
im sure i've seen someone ask you this b4 but do you suffer from any mental health issues yourself. I dont think I caught the answer last time.
>Yeah 4-FA. Started with 50mg but nothing. Then 80mg. I got extremely paranoid and almost hyperactive. Couldnt function in a work environment. 0/10 never again. Ended up getting my gf hooked though.
Get used to being alone.End of the day when tasked with you dying of them dying,you're gunna be dead.
Learn to be alone,or find things you can do by your self,a hobby,video games,something to task your time so you arent just sitting in your room retarded staring at a wall
Op is ingesting sustenance currently
post pics of your food psycho senpai
food porn is just as good as regular porn
I've been having some bad thoughts lately, compounded with my shitty job I'm not sure what to do. I have a degree in AE and I've been applying to positions pretty frequently over the past two years but no one has hired me. I'm getting pretty sick of it.
>Specially can't stand when somebody pisses me off doing something unrespectful and I don't know how to deal with it or even better, make them stop or change what and how they are doing it.
>good luck with your transition
That's hot as fuck and I'm not even a beta.
Im not psycho senpai, just a messenger.
Though i am ingesting what some may call food.
I have the opposite problem. I dont care what so ever and honestly its pretty fuckin great so its not really a problem.
are you her boyfriend
i knew i shouldn't have let myself fall for her
please dont take it the wrong way but i am in love with your wife
i will respect your guise relationship tho :(
Yeah, I think so. Even if I don't like those who abuse others, I still think it's a useful tool. A double-edged sword.
However, I still think it also needs skills to manipulate social situations or at least, being competent in defending yourself and managing your reputation.
looks like I am buying that color, looks great
fuck I love being a girl now
no? she's just eating rn and that's why she's not in the thread???
Fuck toy faggot ass niggger get mlg lynchscoped faggot XD.
Stop accepting friends invatation,they dont like you anyway,either they do geniunly care for you,and ask whats up,or they were just using/abusing your "friendship" and are better out of your life anyway.
Fuck everything fuck everyone.See a cat on the street taking shit,spit on it.
Vapid mothers kid hits you in the balls,slap it on the face,open hand.
Fuck everyone fuck everything,everything you love and hate,fuck it.
Some girl thats only using you for money or dijnner,fuck it,call her out to a dinner and tell her you're done with her using you.finish your drink and leave the resturanty.
It took me 10 years to get over teh shit my paerents did,psychological warefare.
Job,read your contract and learn it well,something happens to you and its against the rules,contact osha,bosses are more worried about osha violations then anything else.You dont need to be the one in power,but having your boss know you can be the one in power,and signifigintly,is a very strong power to have.Co-workers,just go in and do your job,dont talk to them unless its relevent to the job at hand.Invite you out? FUCK IT you dont need that distraction,and interpersonal problems at work.
You can beat the shit out of the nigger,provided the nigger provokes you first.Verbally egg him on,niggers are small minded and only respond to violence when tasked with intellgent decsions.He spits on you,beat him up,dont wipe the spit on your shirt for dna proof for your alibay.
FUCK IT ALL
Im happy to be alone,i have no need to keep up an act,all the people that were in my life.didnt really give a shit,they're and lost foreever,they call you up."FUCK YOU"*click*
Start getting the peopel you know are using you and tell them to fuck off.Dont be a pussy and do it by phole/text/ call them out to a bar meet them,tell them to fuck off,do a 360 and walk away
He is in fact a confirmed cuck lord. He should really kill himself tbh.
were all betas
nothing wrong with being a faggot
at least were not degenerate alphas were more sophisticated
inb4 kys cuck beta faggot im going to do it
if u call me beta ill suicide u fucking cyberbully's :p
no, i likely do not even live within several thousand miles of her. But she's eating, just hold up for like a couple minutes. You can profess your love when she gets back
when will she be back also how do you know
are you two friends irl or sum shit?
Why do people go into states of sociological trauma when faced by the masses???
fuck professing my love
im getting castrated right now for being a faggot
>im manning up and becoming alpha
or maybe i shud kill myself
Does liking a 3 year old in a swimsuit automatically make me a pedo?
post shins slut
shins or gtfo
>am i alpha yet bois?
what the fuck
what the fuck im so mad i missed this thread
literally all day and i fucking missed it
im not alpha anymore im killing my family with a hammer fuck everything
How do I get over my obsession with female feet? Huge footfag here and it distracts and frustrates me on a daily basis
Rather than a cuck I think about myself that the risk of not having the ability to manipulate social situation is not worth the risk to stand against what others expect from me (which is bending to their will)
Sometimes I do controlled experiments like "I didn't like that... I don't know if I should go and face that person and tell it to his/her face", and then "Ok, I go", and I try to do it the best I can. Anyway, hostility in my environment (job, home...etc has rocketed)
thx brother bear
you've shown me the path to the noose and i realize now that it was my destiny all along
see you in the afterlife brother bear
shut the actual fuck up i never said anything bad about her
im fucking pissed that i missed the thread you illiterate parasite
Evolve or die you sack of shit. You are one o the biggest single wastes of space Ive seen on this website in a long time. They tried to stick me in a "hospital" for the mentally ill. Quit being a fucking faggot and change or die trying.
MFW an alice bread has someone talked in to suicide
Shes a fucking quack. This cunt hasnt helped anyone. I came looking for answers and left with nothing more than a bad taste in my mouth. You and everyone else in this thread is her literal army of cucklets. Fucking off yourself you useless waste of fucking space,
more like the lack of thread
how should i do it guys i heard using a belt your doorknob is painless
im scared to shit off death and of what it would do to my family but im selfish and want to exit right now
Humanistic psychology is a theory of applied psychology that typically holds that people are inherently good, and encourages the viewing of the self as a "whole person" instead of the sum of one's parts. It encourages self-exploration as opposed to the study of behavior in other people.
shut the fuck up with your damaged masculinity faggot ass.
sodomize my dead hanging corpse you cumquat sac of prepubescent filth
Two and a half years ago I met a guy, one who would quickly become the best friend I've made so far in my life. I can honestly say that I've loved him like my own family if not more. At the time he was 15, and recently turned 18.
He's been struggling for the majority of his childhood. Got raped once as a pre-teen, he has forcefully witnessed a murder, and he has multiple suicide attempts behind him and still counting as far as I know.
That's just the tip of the ice berg, there is MUCH more, all of this happened before I met him, which would be when he hadn't even turned 15 years old. He's Lithuanian with a sickly abusing family so that would explain quite a bit. Equally mentally as physically. Because of this, most of our friendship has been spent online tho I met him for real.
These days, he's told me of these "voices". Things he hears, be it whispers from strange people or screams of agony, fear, things he's really only described as the final words people utter before they die painfully. Apparently this is very commonplace now. He'll wake up in the middle of the night from echoing screams and see physical faces lying next to him, crying, angry, scared, dying, dead or worse. But to him this is nothing more than an annoyance now because of how much it happens.
He seems to suffer from things I can't and likely never will be able to understand, or even visualize myself.
On top of all this is the main problem: I am, or rather used to be, the most important standing stone in his life ever since we met. The reason, he tells me, he's still breathing. And I have been dealing with all this, trying to be the one person he can count on, for over two years. Trying to be the person that's able to keep him standing and smiling. But it's starting to break me and he knows. I don't know how much longer I'm able to handle him mentally, and he wants me to let him go so I won't suffer more of him. But I'm not able. I don't know what to do anymore.
I need help.
How is my masculinity damaged? And Id be obliged to fuck your corpse
I know this isn't much to go on but it's what I could squeeze into 2000 characters, and I'm not really in a state to go into deeper details right now. If you need to know more specific things, I'll gladly try to elaborate.
you sound really confident when you used the word obliged even tho it made no sense in the context topkek
tryingtosoundsmartfag.jpg kys you dumbfag
Not OP here. Contact her at [email protected], send her this. She might not get back to you tonight, but I don't want you to have written all of this up and feel like you've wasted your time.
I wish the best to you and your friend.
Neither OP nor a psychologist, but this sounds remarkably similar to people I know who have anxiety. If it's seriously bothering you, TALK TO A DOCTOR. Don't let it fester and get worse over time.
Break out of your routines and find something you enjoy. You likely have, what, at least 40 years ahead of you; do you think nothing could possibly get better in that span of time? Better your own life, it's worthless to wallow in despair and think about dying.
Most anyone will tell you it's not a good idea to try to ignore your problems with drugs. It's not healthy, it's a disservice to the potential your life has. (Also, alcohol and drugs cost money as well, so "it costs money" is a moot point.)
Anon, people have bounced from UNIMAGINABLY terrible pasts. It takes effort and courage to get over your demons, or to live with them, but it's worth it in the end. Don't give up on a life with some normalcy.
Lots of us do.
No idea. Come back tomorrow at 8am/pm EST if you want to ask OP, she hosts a thread every day at those times (and is pretty good about keeping her schedule). My guess is it's not a simple answer. Why not speak to a doctor about getting prescribed something?
Dont listn to this guy anon. Remember 100% helium or youll just burst a lung and be in lots of pain. Youll fell like a whole different person if you follow through with this.
Seek medical attention IMMEDIATELY if what you're saying is true. "Crazy", who knows, but that is clearly not normal (as you know, having brought it up). I don't know what else to tell you, Anon. Get help.
Everything's easier said than done. What do you have to blame yourself for? Even criminals get a chance at rehabilitation. What have you done that you would rather die than forgive yourself, get up, and move on?
They're not the only options, and I hope you discover that and seek help.
i cant stop doing nitrous oxide.
i do like 25-50 packs of nitrous cartridges a week (24 per pack) and its the only time i feel ok.
it has affected my health. at one point i lost the ability to walk but i started taking daily b12 shots and all the feeling in my legs came back.
but i dont want to stop. when i'm not huffing nitrous life feels like its not worth living.
I have no idea what to tell you. I'm only trying to cover this thread since OP's gone, but I have no experience in this sort of matter. Catch another thread any day at 8am/pm EST, if you're concerned and want an answer from her.
Does "you need to stop" even need to be said? You've already seen that it can affect you adversely. You need to quit that shit. Get yourself to rehab, Anon. You won't get anything more from talking to people online.